Divorced AF

What's goodie DivorcedAFuckers?! On this episode, we discuss the importance of a reset. We are always on the move, on this hamster wheel of life…sometimes we forget self care. Taking care of our mental should be high on the list of importance. Furthermore, we reflect on how we, your hosts Jé and Mie need to take our own advice and just RESET! It's mid year, and it's a good time to reflect, change, and modify…so here we go!!!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What up DivorcedAFuckers?! This episode Jé and Mie discuss their thoughts on divorce, life after divorce, dating, and love. Divorce can leave a bitter taste in some mouths, whether it's being triggered, not wanting to see others happy, and being afraid to love again. Tune in to hear what your favorite hosts think on the matter. Leeegggggooooo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Yoooooo DivorcedAFuckers! We're back for another Mfing week discussing double standards. Have you ever been chastised for something that someone has done to you? Do men have an expectation of loyalty that they don't exhibit and vise verse?! Do women expect men to foot the finances, but clutch their wallets when the going gets tough?! We get into all of this on this episode, no holds barred. Leeegggggooooo!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What's craccin DivorcedAFuckers?! I'm this week's episode we recap our weeks. Jé lived her best tropical life, so she serves up the tea on her trip. Additionally, Jé and Mie get into the pressures or feeling obligated to entertain a man when he buys you a drank. How do you feel? Is it a requirement to continue the conversation when a man buys you a drink?! Let's get into it. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Yo DivorcedAFuckers! We want to thank you for rocking with us another week. This week, we're super excited to dialogue with Jay Bradley of Season 3's Ready To Love. Jay is a successful entrepreneur…who's also divorced. We discuss being an involved dad, life after the reality show, his perspective on dating, and the importance of a male presence. Jay brought a lot of value to this episode. It's always an absolute pleasure talking with him. Additionally, Happy Father's Day to all the men whom are present in their child's life. Lastly, Happy Juneteenth…this is our celebration. Take this week to enjoy your loved ones. Let's get into this episode… --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Welcome back DivorcedAFuckers! We're back for another Mfing week discussing self confidence! Being confident in one's self is so important moving through life. It is something that is a personal journey, and is attained by doing your self work. When confidence is not present, it's easy to be swayed in different directions. Jé and Mie discuss where they get their confidence; additionally, the struggles of not having it always. Lastly, we talk about the impact giving compliments to others can improve your life. Let's get into it!!! Per usual! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Yooooo DivorcedAFuckers we preciate yal coming back for another week. In this week's episode, we discuss being single (and are you happy). Sometimes, saying “I'm single” comes with a negative connotation. Giving people the idea that one cannot be single and happy. So we get into finding your happy, filling your cup, and staying away from void filling. Per usual, we're giving it to you. Leeegggggooooo!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What it do DivorcedAFuckers?! Yal girls Jé and Mie are back for another Mfing week...this time discussing OUTSIDE! Of course, we outside! But a few of you, have made the assumption that just because we outside, we couldn’t handle a serious committed relationship. Ohhhh contrary! Listen, we out here trying to function or whatevahhhhh. This episode we breakdown the misconceptions of being social and an extrovert. Are you judging because you want to come play too?! Let’s get into it! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What’s craccin DivorcedAFuckers?! Welcome back! This episode we discuss security! Now, we’re talking security in a relationship and it’s importance. Are women sometimes insecure because their man hasn’t given them a sense of security?! Or is she just tripping?! We discuss being solid in relationships as a whole...and how friendships and relationships can play on each other in terms of longevity. Lastly, shouts out to Blaque Bottle Champange ! The owners laced us with ample amounts of their Chocolate sparkly...and it’s phenomenal. Coming to a store near you. Make sure you support them! Another reason to get chocolate wasted! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What’s craccin DivorcedAFuckers?! This week we’re discussing “XPENSIVE” pussy and what that entails. We’ve heard many women equate their box to coins or where’s them dollars at! Of course, there’s been a shift, where many women are making money and are self sufficient...but, do men gotta pay to be with you? Or shell out coins to get the cookies? We explore with episode with Jé’s lil bro, JJ! He’s got a helluva perspective on this. Let’s get into it!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Yooooo DivorcedAFuckers!!! We’re back for another Mfing week discussing the happens and goings-ons, Cinco De Mayo, and Mother’s Day. It’s a busy week, so we’ve gotta cover it all. We talk Mother’s Day traditions, gift giving appropriateness, our past Mother’s Day wins and woes, and a lot more. Let’s get it! And Happy Mother’s Day to all the hard working mommies out there making the world go round! You’re appreciated. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What it do DivorcedAFuckers?! On this week’s episode, we’re discussing SEX!!! Of course, this episode is an interesting one...touching on boundaries, do’s and dont’s, positions, and even what interests us. We even talk about complete outlandish requests! Leave it to us to keep it interesting...there’s even a proposition! Let’s just get into it! Let’s talk about sex baby!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What up, what up, what up DivorcedAFuckers?! On this episode, we’re getting into “Alpha Women”. What is that? Like, who started this term?! Either way, we’ve heard many women assert themselves as such term in recent years, and we’ve decided to give our 2¢ - 10¢ on the subject. Knowing us, we gotta correlate this to the animal kingdom. Brothers how yal feel? Ladies, yal alright?! Let’s Mfing gooooo!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What’s craccin DivorcedAFuckers?! We’re back for another MFing week discussing “FRIENDS”...how many of us have them?! Now not your everyday friend, but someone you have a connection with/love interest/just smashing. Or are they just smashing you? But they say they it’s a friend. Doing way more than friend shit. They do their thing, and because they call you “friend” they think they can come back. Do you know them? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Yoooooo DivorcedAFuckers! We’re back for another week, this time discussing longevity. Of course, we give yal updates on our week...then we get into how every action has a reaction. Meaning, when you do or say things it can help or hinder; if you’re not thinking long term, it may or may not work out for you well. So best practice is to think first, but we give yal some insight as to what can happen when you don’t. Let’s get into it! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What up DivorcedAFuckers?! We had to get into it...this is an extension of the previous episode. We’re still talking a one cheating! We had to bring it back for the one time with the enlightenment of Derrick Jaxn. It was a must. So of course, we offer our ten cents on the subject at hand. Additionally, we want to thank each and every one of you for effin with us, we’re over 25K listens, and head over hills. So much more to come. Thank you! Leeegggggooooo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What up DivorcedAFuckers?! It’s been an interesting week. So we gotta discuss all the shenanigans. The animal kingdom is all the way fucked up. On this week’s episode, we’re discussing cheating. That’s right...those damn CHEATERS! Mie and Jé discuss their previous experiences with cheating spouses, and touching on the whole Saweetie and Quavo debacle. This is our perspective and our truth. Let’s get into it!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What it do DivorcedAFuckers?! This week our special guest, Que discusses his previous marriage/divorce and friend zoning. Que gives his perspective on why men typically “friend zone” women. We talk about void filling, and ask Que what women can do differently to not end up in the zone. Let’s get into it! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What’s craccin DivorcedAFuckers?! We’re back for another mufuckin week. Discussing when being a hoe isn’t working for you. Sometimes it’s time to hang up that hoeism. We recap what was seen and done on All Star weekend in ATL. It’s hard out here for a pimp. Per Charleston White, pimp translates as “Proper Instruction Motivates People,” here go our two cents on the matter. Leeegggggooooo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Yoooooo DivorcedAFuckers!!! We back, and Texas is wide THEE EFF OPEN! Abbott said, forget about Texas facing the icemaggedom; freezing and without water a couple weeks ago...we bussit wide open OPEN! Additionally, we discuss traveling during La Rona, and relearning to live spontaneously and freely like a child. You already know how we do, drop gems and hella laughs. Let’s get into it! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Yooooooo DivorcedAFuckers! We’re alive. It’s been a helluva week without power and water in the state of Texas, as we fought the icemaggedon. Shit was wild. The ball was dropped. Greg Abbott doesn’t give AF, and Ted Cruz tried to get flewed OWT!!! All in all, nigga we made it. This is not our typically episode, but we made it because we were hella prepared; and as listeners, we want you to be prepared too...and in life. Get these gems!!! Leeegggggooooo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What up DivorcedAFuckers?! It’s a good day to drop some gems! We came across this clip on the gram discussing women not being able to build a man. It sparked conversation between the both of us that we thought we should share. Are women stifling men in doing this? Is building a man on purpose, or can I be done on accident? And of course, a helluva lot more. Men, this episode is for you...women, listen and learn! To know better, is to do better! So here’s our perspective on the subject at hand; get your pen and paper...gems are being dropped in 3, 2...1 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Welcome back DivorcedAFuckers! We’re back for another mufuckin week discussing is presenting a representative going to land you a man? We know, it sounds crazy...we heard a clip on the gram; where a woman was instructing women to showcase a false narrative to men to secure him. So yal one we’ve gotta give me our two cents. This is one you don’t want to miss. We’re definitely gonna give it to you Divorced AF style. Leeegggggooooo!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What up DivorcedAFuckers?! We back for another one discussing PTSD! Have you been in an extremely toxic relationship? And then felt deflated...we have, and it can cause severe post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Typically, we equate PTSD to intense physical situations; but, we often forget that toxic relationships can mirror the same traumas and triggers. Per usual, we get into it...dropping gems, and cracking up. Leeegggooooo!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Welcome back DivorcedAFuckers, we’re back for another mufuckin week thanks so time with Special T! Our guest, Special T discusses his life after divorce, dating in the world we live in today, and how men are often viewed as the bag. Special T further breaks down how reality can differ from perception, but additionally; compliment it. It was a helluva ride with Special T, let’s get into it! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Welcome back DivorcedAFuckers! We’re back for another week to discuss Jazmine Sullivan’s new EP, Heaux Tales. We all have been waiting for new music from Jazmine, and this album does not disappoint. We give you our take on the songs and digest the lyrics. If you haven’t, listen to the EP! Here’s goes our perspective...leggggggooooo!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Yooooo welcome to the new year. Happy 2021 DivorcedAFuckers! We’re excited to be back for Season 3. It’s been a helluva ride, and we’re gonna keep it going. You already know, we gotta start the year off with our vision. This episode we get into what we want to see this year. So buckle up your seat belts, and get on this ride...leeeeggggggooooo!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Yooooooo DivorcedAFuckers this is our last show of 2020! It’s been a helluva ride. We recap the year, discuss what we’re throwing in the trash in 2020, and what we’re looking forward to in 2021. You know it’s always some shiggity...so we give you the tea on some fugazi bullshit. Lastly, we wrap up this year with hella laughs and dropping gems. Happy New Year to you all, and we look forward to seeing yal on the other side. Cheers to 2021! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Murray Crismus DivorcedAFuckers! Merry Christmas Eve!!! Welcome to the mufuckin stage. We’re here to recap our December...which means our birthdays and getting into holiday time. We discuss what our holiday season looks like with RoRo and LaQuarantina in full effect, and previous holiday traditions. Because it’s holiday time, you know we gotta y’all about chestnuts roasting! So get ready for hella laughs (and of course, gems). Let’s get into it!!! Pew pew dammit boi!!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Yooooooo DivorcedAFuckers!!!! We’re giving you our perspectives on “Situationships”. It’s defined as; a romantic relationship that's undefined or uncommitted. It may be based on convenience or short-term circumstances. That doesn't mean a situationship can't have some or even all the trappings of a regular relationship, including an emotional connection. Now, let’s give you our thoughts...LEEEEGGGGGGOOOOO --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What it mufuckin do DivorcedAFuckers?! We’re back for another week. We’ve been requested by several of you to offer our perspective on the Kevin Samuels clip, that has now gone viral. Kevin has a caller that asks him for advice in regards to her dating life; being 35 with a teenage kid. Kevin offers his perspective on what a high values man requires, and gives a stern response in regards to her appearance and lack of understanding. We give our perspective on all of this! Let’s get started!!!!!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Happy Holidays DivorcedAFuckers! Welcome to December...end of 2020 and beginning of the month. On this episode we tackle keeping your box wrapped up. There’s a lot of scavengers in the world who are ready to take your energy, money, and your peace. We discuss how holiday times bring up a lot of emotions; especially, loneliness (not to mention the RoRo) to add to void filling. Don’t let this time and lack of regular interaction put you in a position that you will regret. Let’s discuss! Leeeegggoooooo!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Happy Thanksgiving DicorcedAFuckers! We are extremely thankful for each an everyone of you that tunes in each week to listen to our show. This episode discusses what’s important to us now, looking back on last year’s Thanksgiving Special. 2020 has been a year like no other, and it has definitely shifted our perspective on life. After a couple shots and a few glasses of champagne, we give it to ya. Preciate yal effin with us, and enjoy your holiday! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What up DivorcedAFuckers?! We’re back for another mufuckin week. On this episode we’re tackling locales...and dating in the south versus the west. We get into what’s deemed important. Being that, we’re from the west coast, we’ve both noticed many differences when dating in the west and the south. Check this episode out to see what we’ve encountered...leeeegggoooo!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What up DivorcedAFuckers?! We’re back for another mufuckin talking about how we’re feeling...ya know, a good temperature check, current events (since we have a new President and Vice President), and dating. Mie poses an interesting question; asking whether she should open the box for Cleophus, while continuing to dating this gentleman who is showing effort and doing the right things?! She’s torn, and dammit we gotta get into it!!! Tune in now! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What it do DivorcedAFuckers?! This episode brought a lot of gems. We are so excited to bring to the stage, Shon Hyneman from It’s Scary To Remarry Podcast. Shon heard the previous episode 46 of season 2, and wanted to chime in. He offers his perspective on the bare minimum, and women having standards (or lack there of). Shon shares his background of being married, divorced, and now happily married (after sliding in the DM). You know we love hearing a man’s perspective of relationships, and Shon does not disappoint. Let’s get into it. Eff with us a lot bit. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Heyyyyy DivorcedAFuckers in this episode we are discussing your perspective on relationships. We dig into a post stating that black women, essentially don’t have the same standards as other races of women...and our insight on this thought. We further discuss the roles of men and women; and furthermore, get into the construct of marriage and its intention. This episode is hella provocative...but it keeps the people going. So let’s GO!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

In this episode @Ashleesmuse (on Instagram) takes us on her journey of the break up of her marriage. Ashlee divulged past trauma, lack of communication/understanding, and unsupportive people that played into the dissolve of the marriage. She then goes on to what made her happy, and how she reclaimed her time by writing. But you know it wouldn’t be a show if we didn’t talk sex. This is a topic we’ve never touched on! Gotta listen to learn...get into it!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

DivorcedAFuckers this episode is holding nothing back. We’re so excited to bring to the stage our sister, Symone Redwine. She’s an accomplished Htown lawyer and more recently, on the new season of OWN’s “Ready To Love.” Symone is single, but open to love. However, in this episode she gets into married men wanting to date her, failed previous relationships/dating, and...maybe even gives a couple details about the upcoming show. If you know Symone, she keeps it real and brings the funny. Get ready to crack up with Divorced AF and Symone Redwine. Don’t forget to check her out on Ready To Love! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What up DivorcedAFuckers?! In this episode we discuss “blocking blessings!” We get into who and how things that are for you are not matriculating because of different variables. Some people that are in our lives are actually in competition with you, versus really supporting you. It’s important to sometimes reevaluate who’s in your life because they can be a blessing blocker. Maintain your lane, don’t get deviated from what’s for you. This episode has a lot types of gems. Get your notepad ready! Let’s get into it!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

What is do DivorcedAFuckers?! We’re back for another Mfing week. Dropping hella gems as we discuss false narratives. We have all been there; when someone has either lied on you, or create a whole entire story up in their head that you know nothing of. But has is happened to you with someone you’re close to?! Makes it all the more worse. We talk about what to do an not do in these situations...and how we responded when it was our ex-husbands! Tune in now! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Ayyyyyyyyyeeeeee, welcome to the stage as we discuss our perspectives on (current events) celebrity separations/divorces: Cardi B and Offset, Princess Love and Ray J, and Dr. Dre and Nicole Young. All of these celebrities are going through very public breakups. Typically, we let the bloggers do their thang, but being the common denominator is DIVORCE, it was a must to address it. Let’s get into it. Leeegggggggoooooo!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Yoooooo we’re super excited and enthralled that is is our 50th episode! First and foremost, we want to thank you all for effin with us real heavy!!! Thank you for sharing with your friends, listening every week, and coming out to the functions. In this episode, we discuss a listener who reached out to us regarding her marriage that is now ending in divorce. They’ve both cheated, it’s turned toxic. So what to do now?! We get into it. No holds barred!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Yoooooooooo we coming to you, per usual with some real spit. Since being divorced, ya girls Jé and Mie are out here dating. Have yal ran into a brother who is “menpendent”?! Essentially, he’s been single for some time, is self sufficient, handles his business...and you, as a woman, find it challenging to fit in his life?! Some men have become so independent that they’re isolating a woman to feel needed. We get into this and a lot more. Eff with us a lot of bit. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Welcome! Welcome! Welcome! We’re back for another mufuckin week discussing what’s important to you. This past week we lost Chadwick Boseman, The Black Panther. 2020 has take legends from us, and reflecting we discuss what’s important. We further talk about if you like a certain something for your spouse/partner to do; whether it be nails, hair, etc. Should you front the bill for those said things that you enjoy? This leads us to the type of caliber of a person you’re rocking with. Do you elevate someone you’ve been dating and doesn’t know/have the finer things in life? We had so many questions, and from our perspective...we gonna answer. Get into it. Leeeegggggoooo!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

In the midst of the pandemic, with all that has transpired with Megan The Stallion being assaulted by Tory Lanez; it’s been on our hearts for some time to touch on domestic violence. Surprisingly, your cohosts have dealt with it in our pasts relationships. This is a hard episode to discuss. But it is necessary. We introduce the statistical fact that 1 in 3 women experience domestic violence in their lifetimes, and bring it full circle by identifying how this can happen everyday with whom you love. Domestic abuse is taboo, but it is more common than not. Additionally, black women deal with domestic violence at an even more alarming rate than our counterparts. It’s tome to get real. This is not our typical episode. We’re getting into it! If you are being abused or know someone who is being abused, please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1- 800-799-7233. Please talk to someone and don’t live in silence. We need you here! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Welcome, welcome, welcome Divorced AFuckers! In this episode, we’re super excited and enthralled to bring Brown Sugar to the stage. She comes with a wealth of information; from traveling the world as a model, becoming an author, and mentoring...Brown Sugar has a story to tell. With the looming death of her father, a familiar male suitor came back into her life during one of her most traumatic times in her life. In a cloud of sadness, Brown Sugar hastily married said suitor; which, in turn does not end well. Tune in to listen to how Brown Sugar goes from mourning her father, to getting married, to ending in divorce court. Let’s get into it!!! No holds barred. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Yoooooooo DivorcedAFuckers this episode we get all the way into talking about whaaaaaa...SEX!!! We switch it up a little bit and discuss sexual pet peeves; essentially, what gets on your DAMN NERVES during sex?! No holding back on this one...fellas get your note pads, because it’s going DOWN!!! Straight up, no chaser! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

This episode kicks off real talk with fellow podcaster, One Take No Chaser. One Take discusses toxic male behavior, cheating, and self reflection. He leaves nothing left unsaid keeping it hella plain. Furthermore, we talk exes, being divorced, and what’s your worth?! Essentially...what’s your currency? What are you bringing to the table? We’ve discussed some of this in previous episodes, but not to this magnitude with a male perspective. Let’s get into it. Huge KUDOS to One Take for effin with us on this episode. Leggggooooo!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

It’s ya girls: Jé and Mie back for another week, dropping hella gems. We get into it discussing learning to accept YOU! Life brings us trials and tribulations; moreover, sometimes it’s just us. We have to take a look in the mirror and see what we need to change and accept the things we can’t change. Somethings are just who we are as people, and on this episode, we’re gonna dive into that. Furthermore, we touch on what Psychology Today tells us to do to help keep ourselves in check. Per usual, hella interesting show...LEEEGGGGOOO!!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message

Back for another MFing week! We’re so excited and enthralled to bring back Dae; who now has a podcast called D’s Nuggets. The three of us converse about love versus finances. Does love keep you in a relationship/marriage? How important are finances in said relationship?! We get into all of this. Being the three of us have been divorced, our perspective is not traditionally what we may have thought prior to our divorces. Furthermore, we elaborate on how sex plays a part in finances...because it does. This convo is not for the faint of heart, Dae dropping some “D” and (we) are giving it to you straight up no chaser. Let’s get into it!!!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorcedaf/message