Girl Listen with Candice Simmons

Send us a textWhat if the wilderness wasn't just a season—but a mindset?In this powerful follow-up to Episode 1 (Building in the Wilderness), I'm getting all the way real about how our thoughts, habits, and heart postures can keep us stuckeven after God has already made a way out.I'm walking you through 7 signs of a wilderness mindset I've personally wrestled with, from complaining instead of praying to trying to be my own provider and how each one tried to keep me circling when God was calling me forward.This episode is for the woman who's tired of going in circles, who knows there's more, and who's ready to shift her mindset to match the promise God already gave her.You're not stuck. You're being shaped. And your promised land? It's still possible.Support the show

Send us a text Whew, y'all. In this episode, I'm sharing a real-life story that hit me right in the spirit the time I thought I was outsmarting my GPS… and ended up in chaos. What started as a simple drive to an event turned into a full-blown metaphor for how we move (or don't) when life feels stuck.I talk about what happens when we're in a season of stillness whether it's in our career, our marriage, our business, or our personal goals and everything feels delayed, quiet, or jammed. I also share what it taught me about trust, surrender, and how God's “no reroute” doesn't mean He's forgotten you.And sis, if you've already taken the exit and now feel like you're in a bigger mess? This one's for you too. There's grace for your detour. Mercy in your mess. And yes..Open road still ahead.So grab your journal, your tea, and your whole heart and let's talk about the beauty of the jam, the danger of the detour, and why God's timing always gets us there right on time.Support the show

Send us a textSis… this one hit close to home.In this episode, I'm sharing a moment that checked me deep—in a paint studio with my daughter, where a simple “mommy and me” date turned into a Holy Spirit lesson on vision, fear, and faith. I realized I was doing what so many of us do: projecting doubt where I should've been protecting purpose.We're diving into why everybody can't—and shouldn't—carry your vision. I talk about the dangers of sharing too soon, seeking approval God never required, and why some visions need incubation, not interrogation.This isn't about judgment—it's about wisdom. I had to learn (and relearn) that when God gives you the assignment, you don't need to shop it around for validation. You just need to steward it with obedience, trust, and sometimes… a whole lot of quiet.This one's for every woman building something that doesn't make sense to the crowd—but is completely clear to her spirit.Support the show

Send us a textHey chickadees! Let's keep it real, have you ever set big goals and then ghosted them like a bad date? Same, sis. This week on Girl Listen, I'm pulling back the curtain on the one thing I've mastered over the years: inconsistency. But we're not here to stay stuck, we're here to shift!In this episode, I'm confessing the chaos, unpacking the patterns, and most importantly, learning how to turn inconsistency into devotion. We'll talk about:Why we stay busy but not better The difference between desire and devotion How fear (yes, even fear of success) keeps us stuck Why failure is not final, it's feedback And how shifting from destination thinking to journey living will bring the joy back!Whether you've been on the start-stop cycle with your faith, your goals, or your healing, this episode is your invitation to reset. We're not chasing perfection just presence, purpose, and progress. Plus, don't miss this week's sticky note takeaway and powerful closing prayer to help you recommit, not just to the grind, but to God.Listen now and share your thoughts in our Stiletto Ninjas community on Mighty Networks. And remember: It's okay to fall. Just don't quit.Let me know if you want a shorter version for IG captions or Spotify upload text!Support the show

Send us a textHey girl, hey! In this episode, I'm sharing how two little words—but and yet—completely shifted my perspective. For so long, I let delays and doubts make me feel like I was behind. But once I started using those words differently, everything changed. “I haven't finished my degree… yet.” “I don't see the full picture… but I still trust God.” Listen, sis—if you've been questioning your timing or your journey, this episode is your reminder that it's not over. Your breakthrough might be one “but” or “yet” away. Let's talk about it.Support the show

Send us a textIn this week's episode of Girl Listen, I'm sharing what it really looks like to trust God and build something new—even when you're walking through uncertainty. From leaving a 25-year career, launching a business and a nonprofit, to sitting in moments of doubt and still showing up… this is my wilderness story. It's not perfect, but it's purposed. And sis, if you're in your own wilderness season, I pray this episode reminds you: you're not empty, you're equipped.

Send us a textSeason 2 Trailer: Faith, Growth & Stiletto MomentsHey chickadees!Welcome back to Girl Listen—I'm Candice Simmons, your host and the founder of Stiletto Ninjas, our fierce community where we show up for each other with faith, laughter, and real talk.This season, we're leaning into growth—the kind that comes from life's unexpected twists, faith-filled detours, and those “did-that-just-happen?” moments that test our balance (especially in heels!). As a wife, mom, friend, and purpose-driven entrepreneur, I'm navigating it all right alongside you.Each week, I'll be sharing what life is teaching me in real time—from spiritual lessons to everyday struggles, to the unfiltered convos I'm having with my husband and homegirls. No fluff. Just truth, faith, and the occasional stumble.So pull up, take a breath, and get ready to grow. Season 2 of Girl Listen is here—and we're walking this thing out together.Let's strut with purpose, even when the heels wobble.Candice Support the show

Listen as author, motivational speaker, philanthropist, and surviovor Secily Wilson dish about what it takes when you are chasing your dreams and get thrown a curve ball. This episode is packed with the "P" word so you don't want to miss it.

Ladies....lets encourage each other to chase our dreams with fierceness. Listen as I chat with Kathie Johnson on how she accomplished her dreams in-spite of everything coming at her....and guess what you can do the same because in her words she needed to run her race.

Sometimes we are waiting for permission to lead ourselves...well guess you don't need permission advocate for yourself but just in case if you still want it....I give you permission to engage...take off and BE YOU!

The death of Chadwick Boseman has taught me some valuable lessons:1. LIVE life in-spite of....2. If you have a passion chase it in spite of....We can be a many of things but we should never be too of anything to chase our dreams and to live our life loving, enjoying and experiencing....

Alright Stiletto Ninjas....lets have a fun little fun with this one...I know I am not alone ladies. We have all been there..trying not to look like mom. Trying to look like the young, sexy, carefree selves we were before the kids right...but guess what we are moms and we look amazing either way!

Girl......IT happened....but guess what its only Round 1!!!!!

Girl Listen...I have a confession I have not always actively engaged in my community. I get it...sometimes its easy to say #notmyproblem but in the words of Dr. King "an injustice to one is an injustice to all." So over the past few years and even more recently I am called to be better...do better!!! Now is not the time that we can be complacent or comfortable. So in this episode I am exploring the topic how can YOU let your voice be heard through VOTING.....Listen to my childhood best friend....now Black Girl Rocks...Nadia Chandler Hardy, Assistance City Manager at the City of Dallas share why YES your vote does matter.

The old saying, " be you because everyone else is taken" is harder than you think. Did you know that 79% of African American women, 67% of women of color, and 66% of women, cover or hide parts of their true-self? That means we as women believe that we must pretend to be someone we are not......listen to myself and Lisa Medley, an Executive Leadership Coach share our own experiences and how you can begin to embrace all of your story....because your TRUE story will command a deeper respect!

In the midst of managing all that life already throws at us, and in the cloud of COVID-19, the last few days has reminded us of a bigger pandemic we face everyday...hatred...racism and prejudice. As an African American woman, wife, mom, and sister, these recent events are a terrible reminder that we still have a long way to go in this country because we must understand that this is not an isolated incident. George Floyd, Breonna Taylor and Ahmaud Arbery's death and Amy Cooper's rant for the most of us ..... was the moment we said enough is enough! This issue has plagued our communities for decades but for the first time it showed up in every American's living room...and now we are all grieving, angry, mad, hurt.....but I challenge you to allow your emotions to brew to a catalyst of change. Silence is not an option so I think we as women can start to open the doors of communication so we can use our voice and be heard, so we can use our ears and listen so together we can stand for justice!!! Because enough is enough!!

In life its not always about getting back on track sometimes its about creating a new track. Listen as I share my sticky note moments from watching the Netflix documentary on Michelle Obama, BECOMING!But don't just listen....listen and think what are YOU BECOMING?

In honor of Mother's Day this episode features my mini me. Listen to our edition of ask Mommy and Mae Mae. It was such an amazing experience to capture this moment with her..... And I was quite surprised about her interview skills....you will be pleasantly surprised that we can still learn something from a 7 year old.

Are you guilty of comparing yourself to others? Tell the truth....cause I know I do. Listen to me and Momma Marilyn chat about why we as women tend to do so and how to stop and start being content and grateful for your unique journey.

Hey ladies, so first week I shared how I got to this point in my life and not being afraid of the detours along the way. This week lets really explore what it means to truly trust and follow the signs NO MATTER WHAT! We usually want to lean on our own judgement but trust me we may just led ourselves to a dead end so we have to trust the signs and the process.

EEEKKK..Welcome to my very first episode of Girl Listen!!! In this episode you’ll hear me share my 20-year career journey in Corporate America , in only a few minutes of course, what I learned and how those experiences shaped who I am today as a mentor, coach and friend. However, through life’s detour here me share how I discovered even with all my accomplishments, I still had work to do if I wanted to become the woman I was called to be. Follow along as I share how I had to follow my own detour signs in life to bring me where I am today!

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