Life Expressions

Temperament; defined by dictionary.com as the combination of mental, physical, and emotional traits of a person. What is your temperament and how is it affecting your relationship with your mate? Is it the reason seeing one another is so exciting or why staying late at work brings relief? Join us as we address this "elephant in the room" in many relationships. Although "temperament" is not often mentioned in the top ten of deal breakers; it is definitely one of the key ingredients in a breakup. Zara Green fromGrown IS Sexy joins us to discuss why this plays such a big role in our relationships and what we can do with that information. Zara is the creator of the "Mature Minute", a life coach, a speaker, a radio show host and the author of several books including, Living in Harmony: The Art of Understanding Thoughts and Behaviors. Come and ask Zara about what you think you know, what you don't know and what you want to know. See you here on Monday, December 15th at 9:30pm eastern. Get your questions answered...

Come join us as we talk about Forgiveness. One of the hardest and most difficult things we humans are asked to do is to respond to people that hurt us with kindness, and sometimes to forgive the unforgivable. Although we may enjoy reading stories about people who've responded to hatred with love; however, it is quite different when that very thing is demanded of us personally. Anger, angst, depression, righteousness and hatred. Yet study after study shows that one of the keys to longevity and good health is to develop a habit of gratitude and to let go of past hurts.Want to live a long, happy life? Learn to forgive; it really is one of the kindest things you can do for yourself no matter what the offender has done. To forgive does not mean you are accepting or forgetting what occurred; it means that you are choosing to be free. Come join us Monday, December 1st at 11pm eastern as we heal through forgiveness. Here are some of the steps that we will be reviewing:Realize that any hate or negative feelings you feel towards the offender does not harm him or her in the slightest. Make a list of the good things that happened as a result of this awful experience. Look for the helpers not instigators. Consider the bigger picture. Be compassionate with yourself. Learn that the Aramaic word for "forgive" means literally to "untie." Do not tell "the story" to obsession. Imagine that you are the other person (the one who offended you) and use the word "I" when saying what that person might say.Tune in for the rest and add to the conversation...

An apology; the expression of remorse or guilt over having said or done something that is acknowledged to be hurtful or damaging, and a request for forgiveness. As most of us know, it can be really hard to swallow our pride and say "I'm sorry." If you have a difficult time making amends for mistakes or repairing the effects of angry words, bring your pen & pad so that you can take notes. We are going to review how to keep your dignity while being humble, and invite forgiveness with grace. Don’t you think that may help you in your relationships, including the one you have with yourself? Tune in Monday, 11/17/08 at 11pm eastern so we can help you start/continue the process of healing. Here are just a few of the steps we will be discussing that are sure to assist you:Realize that what you did was not a good choice and probably hurt this person.Realize that there is no excuse. Do not try to think of or offer one. An apology with an excuse is not an apology. Take full responsibility for what you did.Decide when to apologize.Begin the apology by naming the offense and the feelings it may have caused.Make amends.Express your appreciation for the role that they play in your life, emphasizing that you do not want to jeopardize or damage the relationship.Ask if they will give you another chance to make up for what you did wrong.Be sure to tune into Erotic Expressions Monday, 11/17/2008 at llpm Eastern to hear the rest...

A tangled web we weave when attempting to fulfill our needs via someone other than our mate. So whose fault is it? Do you play the "Blame Game"? Is it ever your spouse's fault? Take a listen as we spoke with those who have been blamed for their lover seeking refuge in others. Infidelity, is it ever okay? Does the circumstances or expectations change when the people involved are gay? Tune in as we find answers to those questions through our interviews, our impromptu "on the street" discussions, the dialogue resulting from our "Ask J" segment and most importantly, our incredible listeners. You don't want to miss this...

"How can she be with him when she knows he is married?", "Why she gotta come at my girl? She need some femme friends." "She is a home wrecker!", "Can't she find a man of her own?"; Have you ever said or thought any of these things? Some say there aren't enough men to go around; others say who cares how many men there are? There are those who say, "I have to do me". What do you say? Come join us as we talked to women who were currently and/or had been the "other woman" in straight and lesbian relationships to hear their thoughts on why they chose to be her...or did they? Was love involved? Check out what was said...

We have had the pleasure of being on BlogTalkRadio for three months and have enjoyed every minute of it. If you have ever wondered what we're about or are not sure if this show is your cup of tea; listen here first and make an informed decision. So what is the show Erotic Expressions all about? Who is JusRa and why is it that she can speak on these subjects? Join us as we answered those questions, talked about how and why we started the show, paid tribute to our faithful listeners and talked about what is next on the journey to enlightenment. In a surprising twist, the show became a love confessional. Our callers announced their wants, needs and desires for love. From the mature male & female who shared their allegiance to love, to the youthful salacious gentleman who called in; they all acknowledged the importance of having love in their lives. Missing this episode is NOT an option! Check out some of our AWESOME supporters below...Black Talk Radio hosted by ScottyCalvin SextonDanger Zone Show hosted by Doctor MoDecaloFiveftelevenQtGay Life Coach Show hosted by Kevin LewisGrown IS Sexy Radio hosted by Zara GreenTNT hosted by Jequichev9radio hosted by Dale D

Listen in as we heard from folks who have found their soul mate. We had the pleasure of proposal stories and tails of life long love from all types of relationships. We heard from a husband and wife who have been together more than four decades. Some say romance is a thing of the past, I say tune in and you just might change your mind.

Erection problems are common in adult men. In fact, almost all men experience occasional difficulty getting or maintaining an erection. In many cases, it is a temporary condition that will go away with little or no treatment. In other cases, it can be an ongoing problem that can damage a man's self esteem and harm his relationship with his partner.Roland fromTruVue Radio joined me to discuss this delicate subject that effects many lives. Roland is the author of the upcoming book, "Are You the Right One For Me?", a motivational speaker, and the creator of a seminar series that includes the renowned segment, "He Was Not There, But I AM!" (A Message To Missing Fathers). Listen in as we delved into this subject matter and explored suggestions for resolution. Please visit www.writing.com/authors/truvue to review many of the tips he shared, and as Roland says, "Love is Love"!

Have you ever been in a situation where you wanted someone so bad & they didn't even notice you? What did you do? Are you just settling instead of getting what you truly want? The first question you need to ask is are YOU who YOU need to be to get what YOU want. Tune in as we explore authors like Deepak Chopra and provide tips on how to get who & what you truly want!

A scary thought that the person you are sleeping with knows they are HIV positive but have decided you don't need to know. One would hope this is rare but the truth is -- it happens more than you think. Join us as we discuss this and other scenarios that occur when your lover chooses to be silent. Dave fromV9 Radio will be joining us to discuss the sensitive subject of dating someone who is HIV positive. What do you prefer? To know or live in the dark?

So you are at that fork in the road, the truth will undoubtedly lead to pain, despair and a long trip back to trust; a lie will ensure all is well, loyalty is unquestioned and your relationship remains in tact. Is that how it plays out in your mind before you trim the truth? or Have you designed a plan to do something you know would be viewed as inappropriate and create the tail to ensure a false security is maintained? When is it okay to lie in your relationship? Is it ever okay? Jequiche from TNT and Doctor Mo from the Danger Zone Show share their perspectives.

Why do I keep having sex with someone who is not good for me? Many of us are sleeping with folks, even when we dont feel good after it's all said and done. Not the physical feeling, but the feeling inside when you reflect on yourself; and make a decision about whether you feel good about who you are or not so good. So, the question is: Why continue to do it when the feeling produced is not positive?

Why are bisexuals rejected by many in the heterosexual and homosexual communities? It has been said that they are confused and sexually perverse; that they reject hetero or homo identification because they are selfish. Could it be that they are just clear about who they are and refuse to choose out of convenience and fear? What does it mean for your relationship if you are dating, or are married to a bisexual? We are going to talk with some bisexuals and find out what is real and what is not. Tune in to get the facts or maybe they are just opinions; you decide...

She says, "If he don't have at least 8, I can't do it". He says "She need to tighten that thing up, cause it's TOO much room in there". "What's up with the changes, she was a nice size when we were dating, and now that I've bought the cow; she is a cow". "He was so cut when we hooked up and now there's flubber on top of blubber". Is this you in your relationship? Are you having or have you had these types of thoughts? How do you get past them and get what you want? Does size really matter encompasses more than what you may have thought, genitalia is only a portion of this conversation. Weight gain/loss is an irritant in many relationships. Dr. Aziz joined us to give insight on how to proceed when size has become an issue in your relationship. Come take a listen to what can be done to address this real occurrence with couples.

Most of us would agree that orgasms are one of the highlights, if not the chief motivator when intimacy takes place. Are you having them or are you letting your mate believe you are having them? If you are not having them, what is the reason you aren't sharing this with your mate? If you have talked to your mate, did it help/hurt? If you are having them, do you find it helps your relationship? Come see what was discussed and consider your perspective.

So, you’ve been out at least a few times, you’ve had some sex; and now you're wondering, what do I really want with this person? Where do we go from here? Are you falling in love, in like or are you wondering how to get out? What you do next could help your life be drama-free or if you’re not careful, you may need Dramamine for the tumultuous ride. Take a listen and let us help navigate that ship with you…

Why can’t we just sleep together? Have you seen a woman that makes you want to get right to it? A man that makes you want to cast “The Rules” aside? To think of them makes you dream and/or cream? You want to sleep with them or maybe you already have, then what? Take a listen and hear what happens next…