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AMDG. We all want to grow in virtue, but how do we get there? Dr. Ryan Hanning breaks down how to create a personalized approach to growing in virtue in his new co-authored book, The Willpower Advantage. Dr. Ryan explores what it means to be happy, how different temperaments interact with the virtues, and the universal appeal of virtue. A professor of historical philosophy and theology, Dr. Hanning has 25 years of experience in homeschooling and runs a homestead farm. Links mentioned & relevant: Dr. Ryan Hanning's website The WillPower Advantage: Building Habits for Lasting Happiness by Tom Peterson & Ryan Hanning, Ph.D. Mary College, a partnership between the University of Mary and Arizona State University Fraternus Walker Percy's Lost in the Cosmos Related Kolbecast episodes: 123 A Change of the Ages with Msgr. James Shea 199 Jason Craig: Do Good Work and Read Good Work 176 The Agenda Is to Grow and 254 Freedom from Anxiety with Art & Laraine Bennett 123 A Change of the Ages with Msgr. James P. Shea 240 Entry Points for Evangelization – Jimmy Mitchell's Let Beauty Speak 226 Cultivating Habits of Excellence with Dr. Andrew Abela Have questions or suggestions for future episodes or a story of your own experience that you'd like to share? We'd love to hear from you! Send your thoughts to podcast@kolbe.org and be a part of the Kolbecast odyssey. We'd be grateful for your feedback! Please share your thoughts with us via this Kolbecast survey! The Kolbecast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and most podcast apps. By leaving a rating and review in your podcast app of choice, you can help the Kolbecast reach more listeners. The Kolbecast is also on Kolbe's YouTube channel (audio only with subtitles). Using the filters on our website, you can sort through the episodes to find just what you're looking for. However you listen, spread the word about the Kolbecast!
Let's get visible – mit Vanessa Böttcher-Hofmann In dieser Episode begrüßt Host Carolin Anne Schiebel Vanessa Böttcher-Hofmann. Mit brasilianischem Temperament, argentinisch-deutschen Wurzeln und einer spannenden Lebensgeschichte nimmt uns Vanessa mit auf ihre Reise – von São Paulo über Hamburg und München bis nach Linz. Sie teilt offen, wie sie ihre kulturellen Hintergründe, das Muttersein von zwei Töchtern und ihre Karriere bei der Stadt Linz miteinander vereint. Du erfährst, wie Vanessa sich in verschiedenen Ländern und Kulturen durchgesetzt hat, ihren eigenen Weg gegangen ist und trotz aller Herausforderungen immer wieder Mut zur Veränderung bewiesen hat. Sie erzählt von ihrem beruflichen Werdegang, der Arbeit beim Innovationshauptplatz Linz und spricht ganz authentisch über das Jonglieren von Familie und Beruf – ohne familiären Background vor Ort. Freu dich auf ehrliche Einblicke in die Themen Selbstbewusstsein, kulturelle Unterschiede, weibliche Stärke und warum es so wichtig ist, auch im Alltag Zeit für sich selbst zu schaffen. Lass dich inspirieren und hol dir Mut und Motivation für deinen eigenen Weg in die Sichtbarkeit!
Episode Summary On episode 318 of Business Coaching Secrets, hosts Karl Bryan and Rode Dog dive deep into the realities of building a thriving coaching business, from mindset and strategy to the nuts-and-bolts of profit growth. Karl discusses why listening to seasoned, successful entrepreneurs (“old and rich”) is the ultimate shortcut, warns against the flashy social media gurus, and offers step-by-step frameworks for helping clients boost their profits—even with simple tweaks like raising prices or launching new services. This episode is packed with actionable ideas for coaches working with local businesses and offers critical advice for coaches struggling to transition from previous careers. Key Topics Covered Choosing Who to Listen To: “Old and Rich” vs. the New Gurus Karl argues most social media and “guru” advice is flashy but hollow, highlighting why the wisdom of long-term, successful entrepreneurs like Warren Buffett and Charlie Munger is far more valuable. He points out the pitfalls of following voices that are motivational but unproven, and underscores the importance of critical thinking in selecting mentors and sources. Mindset, Psychology, and Temperament for Struggling Coaches Rode Dog and Karl address coaches transitioning from successful careers who find themselves struggling—they explore mental gymnastics, the power of building a bigger/brighter future, managing psychology, and the necessity of consistent forward progress over time. Business Model Fundamentals: Profit, Pricing, and Retention The hosts unpack principles from Karl's operating system, like the impact of raising prices incrementally, controlling costs, and focusing relentlessly on profit rather than just revenues. They debunk the myth that scale equals success, spotlighting profit as the real domino for business stability. Additional Products and Services—Real-World Examples Karl walks through detailed examples—bakery, butcher, landscaping business, hair salon, gym—showing coaches how to help clients add offerings to increase repeat business and margins, using McDonald's cross-selling (“Do you want fries with that?”) as a gold standard. Ideas range from day-old bread and foam rollers to personal training upsells, maintenance plans, and branded merchandise. Client Feedback and Creativity Rode Dog highlights the importance of simply asking customers what they want as a source for new ideas. They discuss why business owners miss these opportunities and how tapping into actual client preferences unlocks profitable new offerings. Compounding Progress and the Boring Path to Wealth Karl returns to the principle that consistent, incremental improvement (1% per day) compounds into massive long-term success. Temperament, discipline, and sticking to fundamentals—rather than chasing the next shiny object—lead to sustainable wealth and client impact. Notable Quotes “You want to listen to people who've been through the dot-com bubble, the 2008 crash, Covid… still standing. These are the autobiographies you want to be reading.” – Karl Bryan “Old and rich, very, very rare. These are the types of people to be listening to… using your critical thinking skills.” – Karl Bryan “The secret to having a better now is having a bigger, brighter future.” – Karl Bryan “Profit is the domino that knocks over all the other dominoes.” – Karl Bryan “You don't have a client or money problem, you have a refusal to help people before they pay you problem.” – Karl Bryan “Success in business is incredibly boring… It's the fundamentals. Consistency and discipline over amazing skill and talent.” – Karl Bryan Actionable Takeaways 1. Seek Wisdom, Not Hype: Follow and learn from seasoned, long-term entrepreneurs—not trendy social media personalities. 2. Build Your Psychology and Temperament: Focus on mindset; resilience and a future-oriented frame are critical for coaches struggling after prior successes. 3. Use Operating Systems and Compounding Returns: Adopt systems that drive incremental improvements (across pricing, cost control, product/service expansion) for clients—1% daily progress compounds powerfully over a year. 4. Help Clients Add or Upsell Products/Services: Leverage simple cross-sells, bundles, and maintenance/upgrades as repeat business and margin boosters. 5. Ask Clients for Feedback: Encourage your clients to solicit ideas directly from their customers—sometimes the most profitable additions are hiding in plain sight. 6. Remember: Progress Equals Happiness: Keep your clients (and yourself) moving forward consistently, celebrating incremental wins and compounding growth. Resources Mentioned Profit Acceleration Software™ Developed by Karl Bryan, this tool helps coaches quickly identify and quantify profit opportunities for any business. Annual Shareholder Letters Recommended reading: Warren Buffett's Berkshire Hathaway letters, Jeff Bezos's Amazon letters—for real-world business wisdom and strategy. Networking and Client Feedback Utilize BNI, chamber of commerce events, and ask direct client/customer surveys for idea generation. Focused.com Access Karl Bryan's coaching resources, pre-show emails, and a free subscription to The Six-Figure Coach magazine. Free subscription to The Six-Figure Coach Profit Acceleration Software™ demo Business Coaching Secrets Podcast If you enjoyed the episode, please subscribe, share with a fellow coach, and leave a review! See you next week on Business Coaching Secrets! Ready to elevate your coaching business? Listen now and move closer to your goals. 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I had the pleasure of co-hosting another episode of Excess Returns with Matt Zeigler. We sat down with the one and only Tobias Carlisle — investor, author, podcast host, and all-around fascinating mind whose writing and ideas have influenced my thinking at various times.He discusses his new book, which made me see Buffett's investment approach in an entirely new light — and you're about to discover why. I highly recommend both this episode and Toby's book.In this episode of Excess Returns, we sit down with Tobias Carlisle, founder and portfolio manager at the Acquirers Fund and author of the new book “Soldier of Fortune: Warren Buffett's Sun Tzu and the Ancient Art of Risk Taking.”Tobias joins Matt Zeigler and Bogumil Baranowski to explore how timeless strategic principles from The Art of War apply to investing and how Warren Buffett embodies many of those ideas—from invincibility and victory without conflict to the disciplined avoidance of ruin. The conversation connects Buffett's real-world decisions—from Apple to General Re to Japan's trading houses—to broader lessons on temperament, risk, and wisdom in markets.Available now on Excess Returns Podcast and Talking Billions.
Manchmal gibt es Phasen, da beißen wir uns an unserem Kind regelrecht die Zähne aus. Du tust alles dafür, dass der Alltag irgendwie läuft, du willst verständnisvoll und bedürfnisorientiert begleiten und trotzdem fühlt es sich an, als würdest du permanent gegen Wände laufen. Egal, was du tust, du kannst es nur falsch machen. Die Socken sind falsch. Das Besteck? Falsch. Dein Vorschlag für den Nachmittag? Natürlich – auch falsch. Und irgendwann sitzt du da und fragst dich: Was mache ich hier eigentlich falsch? Gibts irgendwas, was ich richtig machen kann? Das erfährst du in dieser Folge: - Warum lehnen Kinder manchmal alles ab? Was hat das möglicherweise mit dem Temperament deines Kindes zu tun? - Warum ärgert dich das so sehr? Warum spürst du so sehr den Drang, alles erklären zu wollen? - Was solltest du tun, wenn dein Kind in einer Spirale aus Ablehnung und Rückzug steckt Trage dich hier auf die Warteliste ein für mein online Coaching Programm. Wir starten wieder im November 2025: https://deinefamilienbande.net/kleine-menschen-grosse-gefuehle/ Übrigens: 1 x im Monat beantworte ich Fragen von euch ausführlich im Podcast. Hast du auch eine konkrete Frage, um dein Kind besser zu verstehen? Schick sie mir per Mail oder per Whatsapp: 015259079969 Es gibt wieder freie Kapazitäten für meine Beratung. Hast du also ein konkretes Anliegen oder eine Herausforderung mit deinem Kind, dann vereinbare ein kostenfreies Erstgespräch, damit ich dich unterstützen kann: Familienberatung EINE BITTE AN DICH Dir gefällt mein Podcast und Du findest die Inhalte hilfreich? Dann hinterlasse eine 5-Sterne-Bewertung sowie eine Rezension und abonniere ihn. Vielen lieben Dank Dir für deine Hilfe! ► Hier kannst du den Podcast bei Apple Podcasts bewerten & abonnieren ► Hier kannst du den Podcast bei Spotify bewerten & abonnieren -> Folge mir auf Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deine_familienbande/ Der „Deine Familienbande - Podcast“ ist der Podcast für junge Eltern und Familien, die sich einen gelassenen und bedürfnisorientierten Umgang ohne dogmatischen Idealvorstellungen mit ihrem Kleinkind wünschen. Hier bekommst du wertvolles Know-How und Impulse für Deine eigene Haltung, um dein Kleinkind entspannt durch die Autonomieentwicklung, Eingewöhnung & Co. zu begleiten.
Buy Toby's Bookhttps://amzn.to/478SMBfIn this episode of Excess Returns, we sit down with Tobias Carlisle, founder and portfolio manager at the Acquirers Fund, and author of the new book “Soldier of Fortune: Warren Buffett's Sun Tzu and the Ancient Art of Risk Taking.” Tobias joins Matt Zeigler and Bogumil Baranowski to explore how timeless strategic principles from The Art of War apply to investing and how Warren Buffett embodies many of those ideas—from invincibility and victory without conflict to the disciplined avoidance of ruin. The conversation connects Buffett's real-world decisions—from Apple to General Re to Japan's trading houses—to broader lessons on temperament, risk, and wisdom in markets.Main topics covered:• The three key ideas from The Art of War that define Buffett's approach: invincibility, victory without conflict, and unassailable strength• Why Buffett's General Re acquisition was a misunderstood masterstroke in defensive investing• How Buffett achieved “victory without conflict” through his massive Apple investment• The principle of via negativa — succeeding by avoiding mistakes and ruin• Temperament vs. intellect and the psychology of avoiding self-defeat• Circle of competence and why simplicity often beats complexity• Sins of omission vs. sins of commission in investing decisions• How Buffett applies wu wei (effortless action) through patience and alignment with natural forces• Lessons from Buffett's Japanese trading house investments and moral law in business• The role of reputation, intuition (coup d'œil), and character in long-term investing• Charlie Munger's blueprint and the strategic architecture of Berkshire HathawayTimestamps:00:00 Introduction and overview of Tobias Carlisle's key ideas02:00 Applying Sun Tzu's “invincibility, victory without conflict, and unassailable strength” to Buffett06:00 The General Re acquisition as a defensive masterpiece12:00 Victory without conflict — Buffett's Apple investment19:00 The principle of via negativa and avoiding ruin22:00 Survival, temperament, and controlling emotion in investing25:00 Circle of competence and the power of simplicity28:00 Sins of omission vs. sins of commission32:00 Temperament, intellect, and avoiding self-defeat40:00 Wu wei and investing with effortless alignment49:00 Position sizing, concentration, and the Kelly Criterion50:00 Buffett's investments in Japan's trading houses56:00 Reputation, intuition, and the power of pattern recognition61:00 Charlie Munger's blueprint and Buffett's strategic genius64:00 Closing thoughts and where to find Tobias online
Taylor Northcutt, the mind behind the Prosopa Youtube channel, dives into the forbidden science of physiognomy: the belief that the face is a map of the soul. From ancient mystics to modern algorithms, we trace how civilizations tried to read truth, sin, and destiny in bone and flesh. What if your features aren't random? What if your face is the interface between body, mind, and fate?PATREON https://www.patreon.com/c/demystifysciPARADIGM DRIFThttps://demystifysci.com/paradigm-drift-showHOMEBREW MUSIC - Check out our new album!Hard Copies (Vinyl): FREE SHIPPING https://demystifysci-shop.fourthwall.com/products/vinyl-lp-secretary-of-nature-everything-is-so-good-hereStreaming:https://secretaryofnature.bandcamp.com/album/everything-is-so-good-here00:00 Go! 00:06:30 Historical Context of Physiognomy 00:12:00 Intuition vs. Appearance 00:18:30 Societal Implications of Judgment 00:25:00 Genetics and Personal Destiny 00:28:48 The Complexity of Morality and Background 00:33:44 Physiognomy: Historical Perspectives 00:40:09 Applications of Physiognomy in Society 00:45:25 The Possibility of Change Through Personal Development 00:52:37 Exploring the Connection Between Physiology and Emotional States 00:55:01 The Influence of Facial Structure on Personality and Perception 00:58:17 Body and Soul: The Interconnection in Human Experience 01:04:01 Medical Studies on Consciousness and Identity 01:07:46 Physiognomy: The Science of Faces and Personality Indicators 01:12:57 Understanding Autism and Its Neural Connections 01:18:43 Physical Characteristics and Mental Health Correlation 01:19:50 The Impact of Psychedelics on Personal Transformation 01:20:55 Analyzing Physiognomy and Temperament 01:27:45 The Relationship Between Face Shape and Persona 01:32:50 Physiognomy and Character Analysis 01:35:05 Physiognomic Traits and Biblical References 01:39:30 Eyebrow Shapes and Decision-Making 01:41:37 Facial Hair and Subconscious Impulses 01:45:05 Lips and Communication Styles 01:49:35 Deep-Set Eyes and Independent Personality 01:52:37 Body Image and Self-Perception 01:56:00 Body and Soul Connection 02:02:00 Societal Collapse and Cultural Observations 02:09:00 Pre-Collapse Society Dynamics 02:11:48 Exploring Nebulas and Social Capital 02:16:29 Personal Responsibility in Society 02:20:45 Generational Theory and Historical Cycles 02:28:05 Millennial Attributes and Social Responsibility 02:30:50 Gen Z's Nihilism and Institutional Responsibility 02:37:00 The Call for Institutional Reform in Education 02:41:00 Courage and the Role of Individuals in Institutional Rebuilding 02:47:00 The Importance of Physical Presence and Connection 02:51:19 Self-Image and Personal Identity#physiognomy, #personality , #mindandbody , #bodylanguage , #psychologytips , #ancientscience , #intuitivereading #selfunderstanding, #humannature, #mindbodyconnection , #humanpotential #philosophypodcast , #sciencepodcast, #longformpodcastMERCH: Rock some DemystifySci gear : https://demystifysci-shop.fourthwall.com/AMAZON: Do your shopping through this link: https://amzn.to/3YyoT98DONATE: https://bit.ly/3wkPqaDSUBSTACK: https://substack.com/@UCqV4_7i9h1_V7hY48eZZSLw@demystifysci RSS: https://anchor.fm/s/2be66934/podcast/rssMAILING LIST: https://bit.ly/3v3kz2S SOCIAL: - Discord: https://discord.gg/MJzKT8CQub- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DemystifySci- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/DemystifySci/- Twitter: https://twitter.com/DemystifySciMUSIC: -Shilo Delay: https://g.co/kgs/oty671
"Just because I am a hundred percent willing to hand it off and a hundred percent confident in their ability to make it, doesn't mean that it's something they're willing to do."Karen & Paul share the complexities of delegating decisions in collaborative environments. They explore the dual aspect of the question 'Can you decide?'—considering both the capacity and willingness of the person being asked. Key topics include the importance of setting clear parameters, anticipating possible outcomes, and managing the impact of potentially suboptimal decisions on relationships. They emphasize the need for trust, competence, and effective repair strategies when things go wrong.Resources & Links:Emily Webber's essay on “Hat, Haircut, or Tattoo”: https://emilywebber.co.uk/decision-making-at-the-right-level-with-hats-haircuts-and-tattoos/
Det blev til en stensikker dansk sejr over Belarus, hvor styrkeforholdet var tydeligt – men der er skår i glæden for Brian Riemer. Vi skal også til Vejle, hvor Ivan Prelec langt fra har fået den ønskede start på sin tilbagekomst til Nørreskoven.Og sidst, men ikke mindst, ser vi nærmere på U21-landsholdet, som har fået et markant nyt udtryk siden sommerens EM. Velkommen indenfor til fredagens Hattrick. Vært og produktion: Oliver Routledge Lyddesign: William Dinesen See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Werte Hörer*innenschaft, wir begeben uns mit den Bridgertons aufs Land und tatsächlich sind wir ebenfalls in der Begleitung Lady Danburys und den Sharmas, was das wohl bedeuten mag? Steht das etwa ein Antrag ins Haus? und wird Lady EDWINA Sharma dem kompetitiven Temperament der Bridgertons standhalten? Aber nicht nur bei den Bridgertons wird fleißig umworben! Uns wurde zugetragen, dass auch bei den Featheringtons der neue Lord Interessa an niemand geringerem als Cressida Cowper mit ihren, sagen wir es freundlich, interessanten Frisuren zeigt. Was daraus erwachsen wird und ob sich Portia Featherington damit anfinden wird? Wir finde es für Sie heraus. , Ihre Ladies Whistlemore ---Viel Spaß mit der Folge Alle wichtigen Links über uns auf :https://linktr.ee/patmorespotcast Homepage:https://four-voices.de/patmores-potcast/ SozialeMedien: Instagram:@patmorespotcast privat: @monadifender und @dastoedchen Facebook: Patmore's Potcast Kommt auf unserenDiscord Server Supporten könnt ihr uns auf Steady, Ko-Fi oder in unseremMerchshopFür Fragen und Anregungen: Email: patmorespotcast@web.de oderpatmorespotcast@four-voices.de Wollt ihr mehr von uns hören, dann hört auch beiunseren anderen Podcast Projekten rein. Let's Poe:Spotify Board Game Bravery:Spotify - Intro und Outro Musik wurden mit Udio AI beta erstellt https://www.udio.com/home
Der junge Mann hatte alles, was man sich so wünscht: einen reichen Papa, der seinen Sohn gern mit allem ausgestattet hat, was er haben wollte, eine Mutter, die ihn über alles liebte und mit ihrer Liebe die Härten des Vaters abgemildert hat, französisches und italienisches Blut in den Adern und somit eine angenehme Stimme, überschäumendes Temperament und tänzerische Begabung, eine große Clique von Jugendlichen, deren Anführer er gern war – aber er hatte keine Idee, was er mit seinem Leben machen sollte. Als Tuchhändler, Kaufmann und Europareisender zu leben war irgendwie nicht seins, ein angesehener Ritter in einem großen Heer schon eher; aber eine Stimme im Inneren sagt ihm: geh nachhause, ich werde Dir sagen, was zu tun ist. Ein dritter Versuch als junger Stadtbürger in den Krieg gegen die Feindesstadt Perugia zu ziehen, endete im Gefängnis und dann, wieder in Freiheit, in Depressionen und tiefste innere Verzweiflung. In seiner Not brüllt er den Herrn am Kreuz in San Damiano an: "Was willst Du eigentlich von mir?" und er hört: "Bau mir meine Kirche wieder auf, siehst Du nicht, wie sie zerfällt?" Nach dem ersten Erschrecken und der ersten Verblüffung wird klar: Jetzt endlich hat er eine Idee, einen Plan, einen Auftrag für sein Leben - Kirche bauen. Erst baut er die steinernen kleinen Kapellen und Kirchen ringsum auf und merkt später: Nein, es geht nicht um einen Kirchbauverein, es geht um alle Getauften, die in Wirklichkeit die Kirche Gottes sind. Und er lebt und betet und arbeitet und singt und leidet und pflegt Aussätzige und immer mehr Brüder kommen dazu. Und immer mehr Menschen spüren durch ihn ihren Auftrag: Baue meine Kirche wieder auf! Das ist es, was uns Franziskus von Assisi, dessen Fest wir weltweit am Samstag gefeiert haben, mit auf den Weg und auch heute mit in den Tag gibt: Da, wo Du lebst, da, wo Du arbeitest, da, wo Gott Dich hingestellt hat: baue seine Kirche wieder auf! Und vergiss nicht zu singen und den Schöpfer für seine Geschöpfe zu danken.
Werte Hörer*innenschaft, wir begeben uns mit den Bridgertons aufs Land und tatsächlich sind wir ebenfalls in der Begleitung Lady Danburys und den Sharmas, was das wohl bedeuten mag? Steht das etwa ein Antrag ins Haus? und wird Lady EDWINA Sharma dem kompetitiven Temperament der Bridgertons standhalten? Aber nicht nur bei den Bridgertons wird fleißig umworben! Uns wurde zugetragen, dass auch bei den Featheringtons der neue Lord Interessa an niemand geringerem als Cressida Cowper mit ihren, sagen wir es freundlich, interessanten Frisuren zeigt. Was daraus erwachsen wird und ob sich Portia Featherington damit anfinden wird? Wir finde es für Sie heraus. , Ihre Ladies Whistlemore ---Viel Spaß mit der Folge Alle wichtigen Links über uns auf :https://linktr.ee/patmorespotcast Homepage:https://four-voices.de/patmores-potcast/ SozialeMedien: Instagram:@patmorespotcast privat: @monadifender und @dastoedchen Facebook: Patmore's Potcast Kommt auf unserenDiscord Server Supporten könnt ihr uns auf Steady, Ko-Fi oder in unseremMerchshopFür Fragen und Anregungen: Email: patmorespotcast@web.de oderpatmorespotcast@four-voices.de Wollt ihr mehr von uns hören, dann hört auch beiunseren anderen Podcast Projekten rein. Let's Poe:Spotify Board Game Bravery:Spotify - Intro und Outro Musik wurden mit Udio AI beta erstellt https://www.udio.com/home
“Christian Temperament in an Age of Outrage" - Clay Stauffer - Sept. 28, 2025 by Sermon
In this episode, I'm unpacking something I've been seeing everywhere lately: the rush to slap a diagnosis on our kids when it might actually just be temperament. Don't get me wrong—diagnoses can be life-changing and absolutely necessary. But not every shy kid is “on the spectrum,” not every focused moment is “ADHD hyperfocus,” and not every earworm means your brain is broken. I'm breaking down the four classic temperaments, what research says about temperament vs. personality, and how parenting mismatches (your temperament vs. your child's) can make things look “off” when they're really not. This one is part rant, part reality check, and 100% a call to give our kids room to be who they are—without rushing to pathologize them.Timestamps:(00:01:02) Temperament-based Understanding of Children's Behaviors(00:13:19) Innate Traits vs. Environmental Influence in Children(00:19:39) Understanding Children's Temperamental Traits for Parenting(00:20:49) Mood Mismatch Impacts on Parent-Child Interactions(00:21:18) Temperament Clash: Parent-Child Relationship Dynamics(00:27:21) Temperament Alignment for Parent-Child Harmony(00:40:29) Temperament Balancing for Social Harmony and ConnectionJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
Ein neuer Name, frischer Wind: Die Kammerphilharmonie Ingolstadt startet mit innovativen Kinderkonzerten und georgischem Temperament in die Saison. Dirigent Ariel Zuckermann verrät, warum die Musik immer 200% Leidenschaft verdient
PURCHASE THIS PODCOURSE! If you are a therapist or counselor looking for continuing education, check out my NBCC Approved $5 Podcourses and other continuing education offerings.Plus, get your first Podcourse half off. In this Podcourse episode, I sit down with Dr. Timothy Davis, a psychologist who has spent his career working with what he calls “challenging boys.” He shares how his background, from academic research to volunteer firefighting, inspired a practical framework that helps parents manage meltdowns, build resilience, and strengthen their connection with their child. Together, we explore how therapists can support parents in creating effective Emergency Plans, identifying skill deficits in emotion regulation and executive functioning, and applying family systems principles to improve family dynamics. Our hope is that you'll walk away with fresh strategies you can integrate into your clinical work right away and you can also earn one NBCC continuing education contact hour by completing this Podcourse.
Today's episode brings you interesting insights into the connection between sleep and temperament. We dig into the science and psychology behind why it is harder for some babies to settle into sleep—and the connection to their overall temperament. Join us to learn more about this fascinating topic. Macall Gordon is a researcher, speaker, and author specializing in the link between temperament and sleep, especially as it relates to sleep training advice. Her master's degree in applied psychology is from Antioch University, and her B.S. degree in human biology is from Stanford. She is a certified Gentle Sleep Coach and has worked with thousands of parents of alert, sensitive, intense children. Issues with her own two children and feeling that she hadn't slept for 18 years have influenced her focus on this work. Her book is Why Won't You Sleep?! A Game-Changing Approach for Exhausted Parents of Nonstop, Super Alert, Big Feeling Kids. Show Highlights: Temperament: When does this form in a baby? Managing expectations without blaming yourself Why some babies don't sleep well Myths about training newborns Regulation in relationships just makes sense. Self-soothing: Are babies capable of soothing themselves? At what age? Understanding “differential susceptibility”: Mellow babies vs. sensitive babies Parent blame and unnecessary stress because of sleep issues Temperament mismatch between parents and children Macall's advice to parents who are struggling right now: Start moving/shifting, and realize that kids usually need more sleep than they indicate. Resources: Connect with Macall Gordon: Website, Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, and Why Won't You Sleep?! book Call the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline at 1-833-TLC-MAMA or visit cdph.ca.gov Please find resources in English and Spanish at Postpartum Support International, or by phone/text at 1-800-944-4773. There are many free resources, like online support groups, peer mentors, a specialist provider directory, and perinatal mental health training for therapists, physicians, nurses, doulas, and anyone who wants to be more supportive in offering services. You can also follow PSI on social media: Instagram, Facebook, and most other platforms Visit www.postpartum.net/professionals/certificate-trainings/ for information on the grief course. Visit my website, www.wellmindperinatal.com, for more information, resources, and courses you can take today! If you are a California resident looking for a therapist in perinatal mental health, email me about openings for private pay clients! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
This episode explores how having a baby reshapes a couple's relationship in ways few anticipate, from sleep deprivation and shifting roles to unexpected emotional triggers. Rachel shares her own experiences of disconnection, especially after her second child, and normalizes the challenges couples face when intimacy and teamwork take a hit. She emphasizes adjusting expectations, understanding temperament differences, and remembering that both partners and children are navigating new needs and patterns. Colter, Lauren, and Rachel talk about: - Shift in roles & teamwork - Pressure & expectations - Sleep deprivation - Kids' needs first - Temperament & triggers - Connection & reassurance Where to Find Rachel - Hey Sleepy Baby Instagram - Hey Sleepy Dad Instagram - Website Give Me Discounts! Audible - Visit audible.com/janeaustin to get listen to this incredible reading rendition of Pride & Prejudice Skylight - Visit skylightcal.com/IDO for $30 off your 15 inch calendar. Function - 160+ Lab Tests for $365. Learn more & get started at www.functionhealth.com/IDO Amazfit - Visit www.amazfit.com/IDO to get 10% off Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week we talk about teenagers who seem very eager to grow up and those who seem to fear adulthood. How should parents handle those differences? Is this a temperament thing? Are they afraid to leave us? Isn't it a good thing if our adolescents feel like they want to hang with us all the time? We cover this and much more. Did you even know we have an Instagram account? Dr. Ken didn't! Plus Dr. Ken and Cynthia decide on a "safe word" if Cynthia goes off the rails! If you have a minute, please leave us a review. We love hearing listeners encouraging other listeners. You can order Dr. Ken's book "Feeding The Mouth That Bites You" here: https://a.co/d/hBnlbzI Got questions or feedback? We want to hear from you! podcast@feedingthemouth.com or check us out on Instagram! Music provided by the great John David Kent - https://www.johndavidkent.com/
In today's episode developmental psychologist and temperament expert Dr. Corley Perez-Edgar joins us to talk all about temperament. We dive into the science of temperament—how it develops in early childhood, how it shapes the way kids experience the world, and what it means for parenting. We cover the biological basis of temperament, the difference between shyness and social anxiety, and how parents can support children's unique traits without trying to “fix” them. We also discuss new research on parent-child synchrony and what it reveals about how children borrow regulation from their caregivers.I WROTE MY FIRST BOOK! Order your copy of The Five Principles of Parenting: Your Essential Guide to Raising Good Humans Here: https://bit.ly/3rMLMsLSubscribe to my free newsletter for parenting tips delivered straight to your inbox: draliza.substack.com Follow me on Instagram for more:@raisinggoodhumanspodcast Sponsors:Great Wolf Lodge: Book your stay today at GreatWolf.com and strengthen the pack!K12: Go to K12.com/HUMANS today to find a tuition-free K12- Powered School near you and enroll nowResposibility.org: Visit Asklistenlearn.org/mentalhealth to view the materials todayOlly: Shop at OLLY.com or retailers nationwide.Life's too vivid to see it any other way than vibrant and clear. Get VisionMD now at 1MD.org, use code HUMANS, and start seeing the changes with 15% off your first bottle.Wayfair: Head to Wayfair.com right now to explore a HUGE outdoor selectionPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode of "God and Our Dogs," host Meg Grier welcomes Dave Bevero, renowned breeder and trainer of British and Irish Labrador retrievers, and host of the Global Retriever Podcast. Dave shares entertaining stories about his early bird dogs, offers expert advice on conditioning and training hunting dogs, and discusses the importance of steadiness, boundaries, and teamwork between dogs and their owners. The conversation draws insightful parallels between dog training and spiritual growth, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own relationships with God. 00:00 - Introduction & Show Overview 00:28 - Meet Guest Dave Bevero (Global Retriever Podcast, Waterstone Labradors) 00:56 - Dave’s Background & Celebrating Texas Dove Season 01:23 - Cowboy: A Memorable Bird Dog Story 02:32 - Conditioning Dogs for Hunting Season 02:57 - Training in Hot Weather & Year-Round Drills 03:16 - Swimming & Conditioning Tips 03:35 - Advice for South Texas Dog Owners 03:58 - Importance of Dog’s Weight & Fitness 04:37 - Parallels: Dog Training & Spiritual Growth 04:56 - The Value of Steadiness in Hunting Dogs 05:14 - Why Steadiness Matters: Safety & Success 05:32 - How to Train Steadiness (Drills & Boundaries) 06:08 - Teaching Boundaries for Dogs 06:23 - Boundaries & Safety (Dogs and People) 06:42 - Training for Marked vs. Blind Retrieves 07:04 - Using Whistles & Hand Signals 07:29 - Whistle Commands Explained 08:07 - Teamwork: Handler & Dog Communication 08:48 - Spiritual Parallels: Listening for “Whistles” in Life 09:11 - Choosing the Right Hunting Dog: Research & Pedigrees 09:58 - Health, Genetics, and Breeder Standards 10:18 - Temperament & The “On/Off Switch” 10:35 - Stress, Balance, and Dog Wellbeing 11:07 - Applying Dog Training Lessons to Life 11:30 - Thought to Ponder: “Couch Potato Christian?” 11:56 - Closing Remarks & Where to Listen 12:18 - Social Media & Next Episode Preview Host: Meg Grier - Stories@GodAndOurDogs.com Website: www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100072683640098 God and Our Dogs airs every Saturday at 11:15am on Boerne Radio 103.9FM - www.boerneradio.com. Air Date: 08/30/25 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
What's one small or overlooked thing in your life (a tool, a part, a feature) that makes a big difference when it works — but everything stops when it doesn't? S – Scripture Exodus 4:1–5 Romans 12:3–8 O – Observation In Exodus 4, why do you think God focused His conversation with Moses' calling by asking, “What is that in your hand?” How does the ordinary staff in Moses' hand become significant in God's plan? In Romans 12, why does Paul begin the discussion of spiritual gifts with a warning about pride and comparison? How does Paul's description of the body of Christ help us value both visible and hidden roles? What connection do you see between Moses' staff and the spiritual gifts Paul describes in Romans 12? A – Application Which of the S.T.A.F.F. elements (Spiritual gifts, Temperament, Abilities, Focus, Formation) do you clearly see in your life right now? What spiritual gifts have you identified in yourself so far? How did you discover them? How have you seen God use your spiritual gifts to impact others in big or small ways? What's one way you can “fan into flame” (2 Timothy 1:6) the gift God has given you this week? P – Prayer Thank God for the unique gifts He has placed in you. Ask Him to open your eyes to see the gifts he has placed in your hands.. Pray for the courage and faith to step into situations where your gifts can bless others.
If you've ever felt like your quiet time is a bit of a snooze fest or wondered why traditional methods of spirituality don't quite resonate, you're definitely not alone! In this final episode of our 3-part series with Cheryl Weaver, we'll talk about how embracing our individual “spiritual personalities” (aka temperaments) can lead to a more vibrant, authentic faith experience. Cheryl shares her journey of discovering her own spiritual style and the freedom that comes from recognizing that there isn't just one “right” way to connect with God.Episode HighlightsHow spiritual temperaments can transform our relationship with God, making it more personal and authentic.Understanding your unique spiritual temperament is key to connecting with God in ways that resonate with you.Diverse ways of worshiping God should be celebrated, not shamed or compared.Practical tools and encouragement to help listeners explore their distinct paths to spiritual fulfillment.The importance of body awareness in spiritual practices, linking physical experiences with divine connection.Resources MentionedSacred Pathways: Nine Ways to Connect with God by Gary ThomasWhat's Your God Language?: Connecting with God through Your Unique Spiritual Temperament by Myra PerrineCedar Rock Ministries Related Episodes / You Might Also LikeEP 25 - Enneagram Basics & ResourcesEP 38 - Embracing Authenticity: How's All That Working for Ya?EP 45 - Finding Your Natural Prayer Style with Janet McHenryEP 47 - How to Study the Bible with Liz CoboEP 66 - Faith-Based Body Awareness for Overwhelmed Women with Cheryl Weaver EP 67 - Spiritual Direction 101: How to Tune In and Trust God's Lead with Cheryl WeaverConnect with CherylEmail: Cheryl@CedarRockMinistries.comConnect with RachelWebsite: racheldbaker.comInstagram: @rachel.d.baker Email: rachel@racheldbaker.comIt means so much to me that you are part of this community! I never recommend anything to you that I don't truly love and believe is worthwhile. Some of the links I share are affiliate links, and I will earn a tiny commission if you go through them to make a purchase. It's no extra cost to you, and buying through the links I share is one small way you can support this ministry and our podcast. Mentioned in this...
When everything seems to go wrong, how do you respond? In this episode, Stephen Davey examines Genesis 42:29 through 43:34, where the focus shifts from Joseph to his aging father, Jacob. Joseph's brothers return from Egypt, food is running out, and Jacob must decide whether to send Benjamin—the son he loves most—into the unknown. His responses are all too familiar: fear, manipulation, denial, and despair. Stephen outlines what he calls “The Jacob Temperament”—a pattern of wrong conclusions, self-pity, and refusal to trust God's plan. Jacob believes everything is against him, but the truth is exactly the opposite: God is orchestrating a reunion, provision, and future blessing. You'll also see how Joseph continues testing his brothers—not to be cruel, but to awaken humility, honesty, and healing. Through these family tensions, God is shaping hearts and preparing them for reconciliation. This message invites you to examine how you respond to suffering and disappointment. Do you try to manipulate outcomes? Do you replay your troubles on a loop? Or are you learning to say, like Jacob finally did, “If I am bereaved, I am bereaved”—an honest surrender to God's care? Whether you're stuck in the past or fearing the future, this episode will help you recognize God's goodness—even when life feels uncertain.
When everything seems to go wrong, how do you respond? In this episode, Stephen Davey examines Genesis 42:29 through 43:34, where the focus shifts from Joseph to his aging father, Jacob. Joseph's brothers return from Egypt, food is running out, and Jacob must decide whether to send Benjamin—the son he loves most—into the unknown. His responses are all too familiar: fear, manipulation, denial, and despair. Stephen outlines what he calls “The Jacob Temperament”—a pattern of wrong conclusions, self-pity, and refusal to trust God's plan. Jacob believes everything is against him, but the truth is exactly the opposite: God is orchestrating a reunion, provision, and future blessing. You'll also see how Joseph continues testing his brothers—not to be cruel, but to awaken humility, honesty, and healing. Through these family tensions, God is shaping hearts and preparing them for reconciliation. This message invites you to examine how you respond to suffering and disappointment. Do you try to manipulate outcomes? Do you replay your troubles on a loop? Or are you learning to say, like Jacob finally did, “If I am bereaved, I am bereaved”—an honest surrender to God's care? Whether you're stuck in the past or fearing the future, this episode will help you recognize God's goodness—even when life feels uncertain.
“A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.” - Proverbs 17:22As we wrap up our series on the temperaments and how they impact our financial decisions, we're turning the tables a bit. Today, Kathleen Edelman—who's been our guide through this journey—is taking the host seat to interview Rob West about the Yellow temperament.Kathleen Edelman is the author of I Said This, You Heard That: How Your Wiring Colors Your Communication. She is certified in Biblical Studies and Christian Counseling Psychology and has spent over 30 years coaching clients in the art of effective communication.What Is the Yellow Temperament?The yellow temperament, known as sanguine, is characterized by high energy, optimism, and a deep desire for connection. Yellows are extroverted and people-oriented, speaking the language of fun and relationships. They often bring joy, inspiration, and laughter into every environment they enter. However, they also face challenges, particularly in areas such as focus, follow-through, and impulse control.Historically rooted in the work of Hippocrates, the four temperaments offer a timeless framework for understanding how people are wired to think, speak, and listen. The yellow temperament is one of four:Red (Choleric): Task-oriented extroverts, driven by power and control.Blue (Melancholic): Task-oriented introverts, focused on perfection and order.Green (Phlegmatic): People-oriented introverts, seeking calm and harmony.Yellow (Sanguine): People-oriented extroverts, motivated by fun and connection.How Yellows Communicate and RelateYellows are often described as the life of the party—fun, inspiring, and full of energy. They thrive on being liked, included, and appreciated. They tend to wear their hearts on their sleeves and use charm, humor, and emotional connection to relate to others.Their innate needs include:Approval – being accepted for who they are.Acceptance – feeling included and invited.Attention – being given full focus and eye contact.Affection – being acknowledged and appreciated.When these needs are met, yellows radiate joy and creativity. But when unmet, they may seek attention in unhealthy ways or rely on charm to mask insecurity. Understanding these tendencies can help others relate to yellows with empathy and intention—and help yellows themselves pursue healthy, life-giving connections.Financial Habits of the Yellow TemperamentWhen it comes to money, yellows tend to view finances through the lens of spontaneity and enjoyment. They view money as a means to create experiences, give generously, and make memories with others. However, their optimism and impulsiveness can lead to overspending or a lack of strategic planning.Some common financial tendencies of yellows include:Generosity is driven by emotion rather than strategy.Difficulty sticking to strict budgets or long-term plans.A tendency to avoid hard money conversations, especially if there's potential for conflict or disapproval.Using money to strengthen relationships and bring joy.To thrive financially, yellows benefit from tools that provide structure without feeling restrictive, such as flexible budgeting systems, automated savings, or labeled cash envelopes tied to experiences (e.g., “Dinner with Friends”). Framing financial stewardship in terms of purpose, joy, and relational impact helps them stay engaged and motivated.Communication and StewardshipIn conversations—especially around finances—yellows respond best to positive framing and shared vision. They may avoid spreadsheets or conflict, but they are quick to dream, encourage, and cast vision. When invited into planning that includes moments of celebration or generosity, they are more likely to stay committed.In leadership or ministry settings, yellows often bring energy and hope to conversations. They are natural encouragers and communicators, able to uplift others with genuine warmth and presence. However, they may need accountability partners or systems to help with follow-through and details.Understanding their own temperament also enables yellows to listen more intentionally. With tools like Edelman's workbook, they can better identify the temperaments of others and respond in ways that build connection and clarity, both at work and at home.The yellow temperament is a vibrant and life-giving expression of God's creative design. While yellows may struggle with structure and impulse, they bring essential gifts of joy, vision, and generosity. With the right tools and a deeper self-awareness, they can become faithful stewards who reflect the heart of Christ, not just in their relationships, but also in how they give, plan, and lead.For a deeper dive into all four temperaments and how they relate to stewardship, relationships, and communication, explore Kathleen Edelman's featured article in our Faithful Steward magazine. To receive a copy each quarter, become a FaithFi Partner by giving $35 a month or $400 a year at FaithFi.com/Give.On Today's Program, Rob Answers Listener Questions:I'm about three and a half years away from retirement and currently have more saved in traditional IRAs than Roth IRAs. Would it be wise to start converting some of those traditional funds into Roth now—even if it means taking a tax hit—to avoid higher taxes in retirement?I'm 40 years old and have several 401(k) accounts from former employers. I've received mixed advice—some financial advisors say I can't consolidate them into a single account, while another is recommending I move them into a hedge fund that claims to offer a 15–17% return. What should I do?A few years ago, we loaned our son and his wife money to build a tiny home. They're now selling it at a loss to a third party. Are there any sales tax or personal tax consequences we—or our son—should be aware of in this situation?Resources Mentioned:Faithful Steward: FaithFi's New Quarterly Magazine (Become a FaithFi Partner)I Said This, You Heard That: How Your Wiring Colors Your Communication by Kathleen EdelmanWisdom Over Wealth: 12 Lessons from Ecclesiastes on MoneyLook At The Sparrows: A 21-Day Devotional on Financial Fear and AnxietyRich Toward God: A Study on the Parable of the Rich FoolFind a Certified Kingdom Advisor (CKA) or Certified Christian Financial Counselor (CertCFC)FaithFi App Remember, you can call in to ask your questions most days at (800) 525-7000. Faith & Finance is also available on the Moody Radio Network and American Family Radio. Visit our website at FaithFi.com where you can join the FaithFi Community and give as we expand our outreach.
On Faith & Finance Live with Rob West, it’s the continuation of our series on temperaments. We’re turning the tables a bit as Kathleen Edelman—who’s been our guide through this journey—takes the host seat to interview Rob West about the Yellow Temperament. They review all four colors and explore how our God-given wiring shapes the way we think, speak, listen, and make financial decisions. Then, Rob addresses your calls and questions. That’s Faith & Finance Live—where biblical wisdom meets today’s finances, weekdays at 4pm Eastern/3pm Central on Moody Radio. Faith & Finance Live is a listener supported program on Moody Radio. To join our team of supporters, click here.To support the ministry of FaithFi, click here.To learn more about Rob West, click here.To learn more about Faith & Finance Live, click here.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
How do multiple kids, raised in the same home, turn out so differently? And how do they act nothing like you? The childhood expert on this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast says it's all about their natural wiring. Host Ted Lowe talks with author Kathleen Edelman about temperament in childhood.Why This MattersUnderstanding our kids' temperament better helps us love them better.Key TakeawaysPersonality and temperament are different: Personality is constantly changing. Temperament is innate. Most miscommunication is not intentional: Differences in temperaments lead people to process information differently. Important Episode Timestamps00:00 – 00:55 | Introduction: The Key to Better Parenting00:55 – 02:26 | The Four Temperaments02:26 – 03:13 | How Temperament Changed Ted03:13 – 06:10 | Meet Kathleen Edelman: Wired for Kindness06:10 – 09:14 | Your Expectations May Be Temperament-Tinted09:14 – 12:13 | Understanding Yellow Kids - People-oriented extroverts, all about people and fun!12:13 – 16:10 | Understanding Red Kids - Task-oriented extroverts, focused on power and control.16:10 – 19:15 | Understanding Blue Kids - Task-oriented introverts, all about perfection and order.19:15 – 22:00 | Understanding Green Kids - People-oriented introverts, all about calm and harmony.22:00 – 24:17 | Pro Move of the Week: “Invest in yourself first. You cannot give what you don't have.” – Kathleen Edelman Listen Again:Episode 63 – How To Help Kids Navigate Their Emotions?Episode 33 – How Do I Handle My Kids' Emotional Roller Coaster?Episode 62 – How to Raise Emotionally Strong BoysKathleen Edelman Resources:WebsiteWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com
It's not just about what you say to your spouse, but it's also about how you say it. Ryan Frederick and Jim Daly address why it's important to watch your tone as a husband. Plus, John and Greg offer encouragement to husbands who are more introverted and don't feel like talking much. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book How a Husband Speaks for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Loving Your Wife with Your Words Encouraging Your Spouse Through Positive Communication Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.
On Faith & Finance Live with Rob West, it’s the continuation of our series on temperaments. Explore how our God-given wiring shapes the way we communicate, relate to others, and make financial decisions. Kathleen Edelman is back with us, joined by Andrew Stanley, as we take a closer look at the Blue temperament. Discover how it influences our approach to money. Then, Rob addresses your calls and financial questions. That’s Faith & Finance Live—where biblical wisdom meets today’s finances, weekdays at 4pm Eastern/3pm Central on Moody Radio. Faith & Finance Live is a listener supported program on Moody Radio. To join our team of supporters, click here.To support the ministry of FaithFi, click here.To learn more about Rob West, click here.To learn more about Faith & Finance Live, click here. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
“For God is not a God of disorder but of peace—as in all the congregations of the Lord's people.” - 1 Corinthians 14:33We're continuing our series on temperaments—how our God-given wiring shapes the way we communicate, relate to others, and make financial decisions. Kathleen Edelman is back with us, joined by Andrew Stanley, as we take a closer look at the Blue temperament and its influence on our approach to money.Kathleen Edelman is the author of I Said This, You Heard That: How Your Wiring Colors Your Communication. She is certified in Biblical Studies and Christian Counseling Psychology and has spent over 30 years coaching clients in the art of effective communication.Andrew Stanley is a nationally touring stand-up comedian who's been performing across the country since 2016. You can learn more at AndrewStanleyComedy.com. In this episode, he also joins us as our representative for the Blue Temperament.The Four Temperaments in a NutshellBefore diving into blue specifically, Kathleen offers a quick primer on all four temperaments:Yellow (Sanguine) – Extroverted and people-oriented, they speak the language of fun and relationships.Red (Choleric) – Task-oriented extroverts who value power and control.Blue (Melancholic) – Introverted and task-focused, they speak the language of perfection and order.Green (Phlegmatic) – Introverted but people-oriented, seeking peace and harmony.Each temperament influences not just relationships, but also how people handle money, make decisions, and respond under pressure.Blues and the Search for SafetyFor those with a blue temperament, safety isn't just a preference—it's a core emotional need. Blues thrive in environments where things are predictable, orderly, and well-organized. They naturally seek clarity, structure, and control to feel secure. When it comes to money, this often means creating detailed budgets, developing long-term plans, and being cautious when making financial decisions without having all the necessary information. Blues may prefer to save rather than spend, not because they're stingy, but because a growing bank account feels like a safety net against life's uncertainties. They can struggle with risk and may delay action if they feel unsure, even if the opportunity is wise or time-sensitive.In relationships, this drive for safety shows up in how blues communicate and connect with others. They crave understanding and support but may not always express those needs clearly. Because they process deeply and thoroughly, they often require space and time before responding, especially in moments of conflict or when making big decisions. If rushed or misunderstood, they may withdraw, using silence as a way to regain control or avoid making a mistake. However, when their need for emotional safety is honored through patience, empathy, and clear communication, they can be deeply loyal, thoughtful, and intentional partners. Understanding this temperament helps others engage them with compassion and build stronger, more harmonious relationships.Advice for and About BluesIf you have a blue temperament, give yourself permission to take the time you need to process decisions, especially those involving finances. Your thoughtful, analytical nature is a gift, but it can also lead to overthinking or decision paralysis. Don't let the desire for perfection keep you from making progress. Instead, set realistic deadlines, seek wise counsel, and remember that not every choice has to be airtight before it's made. Lean into your strengths—planning, order, and foresight—while also allowing space for joy, spontaneity, and relational connection. A budget isn't just a safety tool; it can also be a pathway to shared experiences and generous living.For those in a relationship with a blue—whether in marriage, friendship, or at work—understand that their quiet moments are rarely a sign of apathy. Blues often feel deeply but express slowly. They value being understood and respected, especially when making important decisions. Don't rush them. Instead, provide information clearly and give them time to reflect. Be patient if they seem hesitant or cautious. Underneath that careful exterior is someone who longs for peace, harmony, and purpose. When you honor their need for safety and support, you'll discover a loyal, wise, and dependable partner who brings depth and stability to any relationship.On Today's Program, Rob Answers Listener Questions:My wife and I are carrying about $8,500 in credit card debt, plus a car loan. I've been considering opening a new credit card with an introductory 0% interest rate to help us pay it down more quickly. My wife's grandmother also mentioned a credit card relief program, but I'm worried it might hurt our credit. What's the best way for us to tackle this debt?Thank you for the financial advice you share on the program. It's helped me organize my finances, set up separate accounts, and start investing early. I'm grateful for the practical wisdom you offer!I'm on SSDI and have limited resources, but I'm wondering if it's still worthwhile to start investing. My daughter helps manage my finances, and I could probably set aside about $100 a month. Is starting small like that a good idea?Resources Mentioned:Faithful Steward: FaithFi's New Quarterly Magazine (Become a FaithFi Partner)I Said This, You Heard That: How Your Wiring Colors Your Communication by Kathleen EdelmanAndrewStanleyComedy.comChristian Credit CounselorsThe Sound Mind Investing Handbook: A Step-by-Step Guide to Managing Your Money From a Biblical Perspective by Austin Pryor with Mark BillerWisdom Over Wealth: 12 Lessons from Ecclesiastes on MoneyLook At The Sparrows: A 21-Day Devotional on Financial Fear and AnxietyRich Toward God: A Study on the Parable of the Rich FoolFind a Certified Kingdom Advisor (CKA) or Certified Christian Financial Counselor (CertCFC)FaithFi App Remember, you can call in to ask your questions most days at (800) 525-7000. Faith & Finance is also available on the Moody Radio Network and American Family Radio. Visit our website at FaithFi.com where you can join the FaithFi Community and give as we expand our outreach.
Dr. Dickson Thom is a Doctor of Dental Surgery and a Naturopathic Doctor with over 50 years of clinical experience and 20+ years as a medical professor. He is one of the co-founders of the American Center of Biological Medicine and author of numerous books, including Bioregulatory Medicine: An Innovative Holistic Approach to Self-Healing, Begin Again: Trauma, Disease, and Healing with The Brain Protocol and Biological Medicine, and others.In this conversation with Dr. Thom we discuss:Running afoul of the dentist regulatory bodies for questioning mercuryThe best time to brush your teethMiasms, termperaments, and constitutionsHow all dis-ease begins as an energetic imbalanceThe role of spirituality in healthHis 6 foundational non-negotiables for optimal health...and more!Learn more about Dr. Dickson Thom at his website https://drdicksonthom.com/Support Terrain Theory on Patreon! Our recently-launched member platform gives you access to a ton of free & exclusive content. Check it out: https://www.patreon.com/TerrainTheoryTerrain Theory episodes are not to be taken as medical advice. You are your own primary healthcare provider.If you have a Terrain Transformation story you would like to share, email us at ben@terraintheory.net.Learn more at www.terraintheory.netMusic by Chris Merenda
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“The wisdom of the prudent is to give thought to their ways, but the folly of fools is deception.” — Proverbs 14:8Today, we're continuing our series on temperaments—how our God-given wiring shapes the way we communicate, relate to others, and make financial decisions. Kathleen Edelman is back with us, joined by Rachel Petty, as we take a closer look at the Green temperament and how it influences our approach to money.Kathleen Edelman is the author of I Said This, You Heard That: How Your Wiring Colors Your Communication. She is certified in Biblical Studies and Christian Counseling Psychology and has spent over 30 years coaching clients in the art of effective communication.Rachel Petty is a valued member of Kathleen Edelman's team and is our Green Temperament representative for this episode. What Are the Four Temperaments?The concept of temperaments dates back to Hippocrates, whom Galen followed in naming the four temperaments. Each temperament is a wiring we're born with—more like eye color than personality—and it shapes how we communicate, relate, and even handle money. The four types are:Yellow (Sanguine): Extrovert, people-oriented; speaks the language of people and fun.Red (Choleric): Extrovert, task-oriented; speaks the language of power and control.Blue (Melancholic): Introvert, task-oriented; speaks the language of perfection and order.Green (Phlegmatic): Introvert, people-oriented; speaks the language of calm and harmony.Temperament is your innate wiring. Personality develops through life experiences, but temperament remains relatively consistent.Meet the Green: Introverted and People-OrientedGreens are known as “relationship glue”—calm in chaos, steady in presence, and always people-conscious. They're inward processors, but also deeply relational.They are drawn to budgeting with others and long-term planning. They don't like flashy risks or micromanaging. They prefer round numbers and fewer check-ins.Because Greens crave harmony, they might avoid financial conflict or decisions altogether. But with gentle encouragement and time, they become wise and thoughtful stewards.Strategies That HelpRachel offers practical tools for those who fall under the Green category or know somebody who does:Stay involved. Greens can sometimes disengage easily. It's a discipline to speak up.Name what matters. Clarifying what's most important—whether for a trip or a purchase—helps prioritize.Set deadlines. It gives them the gentle nudge that action is needed.Greens thrive when respected and heard. Their insights are valuable—they just need time and space to process them fully.However, don't pressure a Green. Invite them in gently and clearly. They want to contribute—they just need the right environment.The Innate Needs of a GreenAccording to Kathleen, Greens have four core needs:Harmony – a peaceful environment.Lack of Stress – minimal conflict.Feeling of Worth – appreciation for who they are.Respect – being asked for their input.When these needs are met, Greens are kind, steady, and confident. When ignored, they may retreat or procrastinate.For those in the Green category, take the time to understand what matters to you and lean into your steady nature. And for those in a relationship with a Green—give them time, space, and encouragement. There's more going on than you might see.And remember this: if you are a Green, your calm is a gift. Advocate for yourself—peace sometimes requires courage. Your voice matters.Want More?If you've found this information valuable, make sure you don't miss Kathleen's latest article on temperaments, featured in the newest issue of Faithful Steward magazine. This quarterly publication is a special resource we send to our FaithFi partners—those who support the ministry at a monthly rate of $35 (or more) or an annual rate of at least $400. To become a partner and receive your copy, along with other exclusive benefits, just visit FaithFi.com/Give.On Today's Program, Rob Answers Listener Questions:My husband and I are both in our second marriage, and we have a blended family. His children are grown and financially independent, while mine are still in college. We have different perspectives on how to manage the assets we each brought into the marriage, and we're unsure how to align our financial approach moving forward. What would you suggest?Is it true that any interest earned from a high-yield savings account must be reported to the federal government for tax purposes?Resources Mentioned:Faithful Steward: FaithFi's New Quarterly Magazine (Become a FaithFi Partner)I Said This, You Heard That: How Your Wiring Colors Your Communication by Kathleen EdelmanWisdom Over Wealth: 12 Lessons from Ecclesiastes on MoneyLook At The Sparrows: A 21-Day Devotional on Financial Fear and AnxietyRich Toward God: A Study on the Parable of the Rich FoolFind a Certified Kingdom Advisor (CKA) or Certified Christian Financial Counselor (CertCFC)FaithFi App Remember, you can call in to ask your questions most days at (800) 525-7000. Faith & Finance is also available on the Moody Radio Network and American Family Radio. Visit our website at FaithFi.com where you can join the FaithFi Community and give as we expand our outreach.
On Faith & Finance Live with Rob West, it’s the continuation of our series on temperaments. Explore how our God-given wiring shapes the way we communicate, relate to others, and make financial decisions. Kathleen Edelman is back with us, joined by Rachel Petty, as we take a closer look at the Green temperament. Discover how it influences our approach to money. Then, Rob addresses your calls and financial questions. That’s Faith & Finance Live—where biblical wisdom meets today’s finances, weekdays at 4pm Eastern/3pm Central on Moody Radio. Faith & Finance Live is a listener supported program on Moody Radio. To join our team of supporters, click here.To support the ministry of FaithFi, click here.To learn more about Rob West, click here.To learn more about Faith & Finance Live, click here. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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In this engaging conversation, Stephen Schmidt interviews Bill Barnett, a seasoned real estate entrepreneur and author. Bill shares his journey into real estate, discussing the importance of temperament in entrepreneurship, the best times to invest, and innovative housing solutions like barn dominiums. He emphasizes the need for discipline and resilience in the face of market fluctuations and personal challenges, while also reflecting on the power of positivity and faith in overcoming life's obstacles. Professional Real Estate Investors - How we can help you: Investor Fuel Mastermind: Learn more about the Investor Fuel Mastermind, including 100% deal financing, massive discounts from vendors and sponsors you're already using, our world class community of over 150 members, and SO much more here: http://www.investorfuel.com/apply Investor Machine Marketing Partnership: Are you looking for consistent, high quality lead generation? Investor Machine is America's #1 lead generation service professional investors. Investor Machine provides true ‘white glove' support to help you build the perfect marketing plan, then we'll execute it for you…talking and working together on an ongoing basis to help you hit YOUR goals! Learn more here: http://www.investormachine.com Coaching with Mike Hambright: Interested in 1 on 1 coaching with Mike Hambright? Mike coaches entrepreneurs looking to level up, build coaching or service based businesses (Mike runs multiple 7 and 8 figure a year businesses), building a coaching program and more. Learn more here: https://investorfuel.com/coachingwithmike Attend a Vacation/Mastermind Retreat with Mike Hambright: Interested in joining a “mini-mastermind” with Mike and his private clients on an upcoming “Retreat”, either at locations like Cabo San Lucas, Napa, Park City ski trip, Yellowstone, or even at Mike's East Texas “Big H Ranch”? Learn more here: http://www.investorfuel.com/retreat Property Insurance: Join the largest and most investor friendly property insurance provider in 2 minutes. Free to join, and insure all your flips and rentals within minutes! There is NO easier insurance provider on the planet (turn insurance on or off in 1 minute without talking to anyone!), and there's no 15-30% agent mark up through this platform! Register here: https://myinvestorinsurance.com/ New Real Estate Investors - How we can work together: Investor Fuel Club (Coaching and Deal Partner Community): Looking to kickstart your real estate investing career? Join our one of a kind Coaching Community, Investor Fuel Club, where you'll get trained by some of the best real estate investors in America, and partner with them on deals! You don't need $ for deals…we'll partner with you and hold your hand along the way! Learn More here: http://www.investorfuel.com/club —--------------------
“The purposes of a person's heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out.” - Proverbs 20:5Today, we're kicking off a new series on temperaments, how our God-given wiring shapes the way we communicate, relate to others, and make financial decisions. Kathleen Edelman and Traci Shepherd join us to explore the Red temperament and how it influences our financial decisions.Kathleen Edelman is the author of I Said This, You Heard That: How Your Wiring Colors Your Communication. She is certified in Biblical Studies and Christian Counseling Psychology and has spent over 30 years coaching clients in the art of effective communication.Traci Shepherd is our Red Temperament representative for this episode. What Are the Four Temperaments?For those who are new to the concept of the four temperaments, here is a helpful summary:Yellow (Sanguine): Speaks the language of people and fun – an extroverted, people-oriented personality.Red (Choleric): Speaks the language of power and control – an extroverted, task-oriented personality.Blue (Melancholic): Speaks the language of perfection and order – an introverted, task-oriented personality.Green (Phlegmatic): Speaks the language of calm and harmony – an introverted, people-oriented personality.Each temperament influences how we speak, listen, behave, and manage our finances.The Red Temperament: Driven and DecisiveReds are typically goal-oriented, confident, and solution-focused. They don't just talk about getting things done; they make it happen. In relationships, this drive often leads them to step in and take over when others hesitate. But that same strength can become a weakness if it turns into controlling behavior rather than collaborative leadership.The Red temperament often feels the need to fix things. This framework helps them see the strength behind that impulse and offers tools to balance their drive with empathy.Red Temperament and Money: It's All About the PlanReds tend to view money as a means to accomplish their goals. They prefer clarity, efficiency, and structure. But they may clash with other temperaments—for instance, a Yellow, who values fun, spontaneity, and experiences.Rather than labeling other spending styles as wrong, having this awareness can enable more honest conversations, especially in relational tensions within areas like finances. Strength with Compassion: Communication Tips for RedsReds bring immense value to financial decision-making. Their clarity of vision and drive for results help families and teams move forward. Reds are bullet-point, bottom-line thinkers, but that doesn't mean they've ignored the details. They're often 10 steps ahead.To foster healthier communication, Kathleen encourages Reds to:Pause before respondingAsk questions with curiosity (“What do you think?” or “How do you feel about this?”)Listen to understand, not just to replyThese simple shifts can transform conflict into connection.The Emotional Needs of a RedReds have core emotional needs that must be honored, especially in financial conversations:Loyalty—Knowing others have their back.Sense of Control—Either having control or trusting someone else is in control.Appreciation—Being valued for their strengths.Credit for Work—Recognition for their contributions.When these needs go unmet, Reds can respond with frustration or harshness. However, when those needs are met, they become dynamic and inspiring leaders.What to Remember if You or Someone You Love is a RedRemember that your wiring is a gift. But don't rush ahead. Bring others with you. It's not about controlling; it's about being prepared and feeling safe.And for those in a relationship with a Red? Remember, they're not trying to be harsh. They just want to know the plan.Want More?Reds are uniquely wired to be visionaries. When they lead with both confidence and compassion, transformation happens in conversations, relationships, and financial decisions.As we continue this series on temperaments and money, we'll explore how each personality type contributes to God-honoring stewardship. When every voice is heard, and every strength is valued, we grow not just in wisdom but in unity.Read Kathleen's full article on how the four temperaments shape our financial decisions in the latest edition of Faithful Steward. Receive your copy each quarter by becoming a monthly partner at $35 a month or $400 a year at FaithFi.com/give.On Today's Program, Rob Answers Listener Questions:My husband and I sold our primary home last year and are now looking to invest in multifamily real estate. I also run my business out of another property we own, which still has a $180,000 mortgage with a 3.75% interest rate. We're considering doubling our monthly payments to pay it off early. Would that be a wise financial move?My 68-year-old friend has a whole life insurance policy with a cash surrender value of $36,000. How can that money be accessed, and what happens to the policy if it's surrendered or discontinued?Resources Mentioned:Faithful Steward: FaithFi's New Quarterly Magazine (Become a FaithFi Partner)I Said This, You Heard That: How Your Wiring Colors Your Communication by Kathleen EdelmanWisdom Over Wealth: 12 Lessons from Ecclesiastes on MoneyLook At The Sparrows: A 21-Day Devotional on Financial Fear and AnxietyRich Toward God: A Study on the Parable of the Rich FoolFind a Certified Kingdom Advisor (CKA) or Certified Christian Financial Counselor (CertCFC)FaithFi App Remember, you can call in to ask your questions most days at (800) 525-7000. Faith & Finance is also available on the Moody Radio Network and American Family Radio. Visit our website at FaithFi.com where you can join the FaithFi Community and give as we expand our outreach.
On Faith & Finance Live, it’s the kickoff of a new series on temperaments. Discover how our God-given wiring shapes the way we communicate, relate to others, and make financial decisions. Kathleen Edelman and Traci Shepherd join Rob West to explore the Red temperament. Learn how having this nature influences financial decisions. Then, Rob addresses our calls and financial questions. That’s Faith & Finance Live—where biblical wisdom meets today’s finances, weekdays at 4pm Eastern/3pm Central on Moody Radio. Faith & Finance Live is a listener supported program on Moody Radio. To join our team of supporters, click here.To support the ministry of FaithFi, click here.To learn more about Rob West, click here.To learn more about Faith & Finance Live, click here.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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In this Huberman Lab Essentials episode, my guest is Dr. Anna Lembke, MD, Chief of the Stanford Addiction Medicine Dual Diagnosis Clinic at Stanford University School of Medicine. We discuss how dopamine drives reward, motivation and addictive behaviors. Dr. Lembke explains the concept of the pleasure-pain balance of dopamine and how this cycle plays a key role in the development and persistence of addiction. We also discuss some of the challenges of addiction recovery, including withdrawal, relapses and the potential benefits of psychedelic-assisted therapy. Read the episode show notes at hubermanlab.com. Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman Wealthfront**: https://wealthfront.com/huberman BetterHelp: https://betterhelp.com/huberman **This experience may not be representative of the experience of other clients of Wealthfront, and there is no guarantee that all clients will have similar experiences. Cash Account is offered by Wealthfront Brokerage LLC, Member FINRA/SIPC. The Annual Percentage Yield (“APY”) on cash deposits as of December 27, 2024, is representative, subject to change, and requires no minimum. Funds in the Cash Account are swept to partner banks where they earn the variable APY. Promo terms and FDIC coverage conditions apply. Same-day withdrawal or instant payment transfers may be limited by destination institutions, daily transaction caps, and by participating entities such as Wells Fargo, the RTP® Network, and FedNow® Service. New Cash Account deposits are subject to a 2-4 day holding period before becoming available for transfer. Timestamps 00:00:00 Anna Lembke 00:00:15 Dopamine, Reward & Movement 00:01:54 Baseline Dopamine; Genetics, Temperament & Addiction 00:05:24 Addiction, Modern Life & Boredom 00:07:18 Sponsor: AG1 00:08:55 Pleasure-Pain Balance, Dopamine, Addiction 00:14:17 Resetting Dopamine, Substance or Behavior Recovery, Tool: 30-Day Abstinence 00:16:04 Relapse, Addiction, Reflexive Behavior, Empathy 00:20:17 Triggers, Relapse, Dopamine 00:23:15 Sponsor: Wealthfront & BetterHelp 00:26:04 Shame, Truth Telling & Recovery 00:28:26 Addiction, Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy, Psilocybin, MDMA 00:33:29 Social Media & Addiction, Tool: Intentionality Disclaimer & Disclosures Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode of Diary of an Empath, I sit down with Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett, one of the world's leading experts in psychology and neuroscience, to break down the truth about emotions, mood, and how your brain really works.We explore why emotions aren't universal, how your brain is constantly predicting your feelings based on past experiences, and why your mood is a reflection of your body's internal “budget.” Dr. Barrett also shares how childhood adversity and poverty shape emotional development in ways most people don't realize.We dive deep into emotional regulation, challenging outdated views on emotions and mental health, and giving you practical insights to help you better understand yourself and the people around you.If you've ever wondered why you feel the way you do or how to manage your emotions more effectively, this conversation is for you.Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett is a Professor of Psychology, ranked among the top 0.1% of most cited scientists in the world, and the author of Seven and a Half Lessons About the Brain.Follow Dr Lisa: X - https://g2ul0.app.link/JlkAHKXhCSb Website - https://g2ul0.app.link/TWOO6vZhCSb You can purchase Dr Lisa's book, ‘Seven and a Half Lessons About the Brain', here: https://g2ul0.app.link/35oJGs4hCSbChapters00:00Exploring the Brain's Role in Mood and Emotion03:45Childhood Adversity and Its Long-term Effects08:11Understanding Mood and Body Budgeting14:30The Brain's Predictive Nature and Emotional Responses20:59Understanding the Brain's Predictive Nature28:52The Complexity of Emotions and Predictions37:00The Role of Temperament in Emotional Experience44:45Surprises in Emotional Science and Public PerceptionFor psychic readings, Astrology, Therapy or Coaching with Keresse, click below:www.therapeutichealingbyreese.comFollow me on Instagram!https://instagram.com/_keresse_?utm_medium=copy_linkFollow me on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/TherapeuticHealingByReese/TikTok:@DiaryofanEmpathpodcast
Anyone who's been married for a while will tell you that you and your spouse will have different perspectives sometimes. Dr. Kevin Leman and Jim Daly explain how you need to learn to see things through your spouse's eyes. Also, the Smalley's provide some hope if your temperament was negatively impacted by a critical-eyed parent growing up. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Birth Order Book for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment How Your Birth Order Shapes Your Marriage Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Contact Our Counseling Team Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.
Unlock the secret to effective volunteer placement in your church! In this episode, we dive deep into why getting the right person in the right role—right now—matters, with a special focus on temperament and its impact on ministry effectiveness. Whether you're a seasoned leader or just starting out, you'll discover actionable steps for aligning volunteer strengths with real church needs. Join hosts A.J. Mathieu and Scott Ball from the Church Revitalization Podcast, brought to you by the Malphurs Group team. With years of hands-on experience in church leadership and revitalization, A.J. and Scott bring clarity, energy, and practical wisdom each week to help church leaders thrive. What's Inside This Episode: Understanding the difference between temperament and personality—and why it matters [03:30] Quick overview of the DISC assessment and how it fits church volunteer roles [11:12] Signs of volunteer misalignment and practical solutions for burnout [18:45] How to use the new Divine Design Discovery Tool for customized volunteer recruitment [4:27][23:17] Building leadership pipelines and aligning teams for greater health [22:14] Links & Resources: Try the Healthy Churches Toolkit free for 7 days: healthychurchestoolkit.com Deep dive article & show notes: malphursgroup.com/294 Connect with us on social media for more weekly insights Discover how understanding temperament can energize your volunteers and transform your church—listen now and start building your healthiest team yet!
In today's episode I sit down with Dr. Thomas Boyce, professor of pediatrics and psychiatry at UCSF, about his 40 years of research on temperamental differences in children, specifically focusing on his concept of 'orchid' and 'dandelion' children. Dr. Boyce explains how while most children are resilient like dandelions, a significant minority are sensitive 'orchids' who react more strongly to their environments. We discuss Boyce's research, the biological underpinnings of these temperamental differences, and how different environments impact these children.I WROTE MY FIRST BOOK! Order your copy of The Five Principles of Parenting: Your Essential Guide to Raising Good Humans Here: https://bit.ly/3rMLMsLSubscribe to my free newsletter for parenting tips delivered straight to your inbox: draliza.substack.com Follow me on Instagram for more:@raisinggoodhumanspodcast Sponsors:Ground News: Go to https://groundnews.com/HUMANS to get 40% off the unlimited access Vantage plan–the same plan that I use to stay informedIris & Romeo: Visit IrisandRomeo.com and use code HUMANS at checkout for 20% off your first purchaseActive Skin Repair: Visit https://www.ActiveSkinRepair.com to learn more about Active Skin Repair and to get 20% off your order, use code:HUMANSWater Wipes: Visit WaterWipes.com to learn more about how Water Wipes effectively cleans with minimal ingredients that leave nothing behindKiwico: Get $15 off on your Summer Adventure Series at kiwico.com/RGHQuince: Go to Quince.com/humans for free shipping on your order and three hundred and sixty-five-day returnsPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
“The wisdom of the prudent is to give thought to their ways, but the folly of fools is deception.” - Proverbs 14:8When it comes to saving, spending, and talking about money, our God-given temperament plays a bigger role than we think. Today, Kathleen Edelman shares how understanding your wiring can lead to better financial decisions and healthier money conversations.Kathleen Edelman is the author of “I Said This, You Heard That: How Your Wiring Colors Your Communication.” She is certified in Biblical Studies and Christian Counseling Psychology and has spent over 30 years coaching clients in the art of effective communication.What Is Temperament—And Why Does It Matter?Temperament was studied by Hippocrates 2,000 years ago. It's innate, unchangeable, and part of your design by God, like your eye color or fingerprint. In contrast, “personality” evolves based on culture, upbringing, education, and environment.This foundational understanding is essential not just in relationships but also in how we approach money.Temperament influences how we budget, spend, save, and even how we talk about money. Here's how each temperament—Yellow, Red, Blue, and Green—sees financial decisions through a unique lens:YELLOW (Sanguine): The Fun-Loving GiverWiring: Optimistic, relational, in-the-moment.Financial Outlook: Sees money as a way to connect and create experiences. Often spontaneous and generous, but may avoid serious conversations about finances out of fear of conflict or damaging relationships.Growth Tip: Build guardrails around spending while leaving room for joy. Schedule regular money conversations to reduce anxiety.RED (Choleric): The Visionary LeaderWiring: Goal-driven, results-oriented, confident.Financial Outlook: Excels at goal setting, budgeting for success, and achieving results. May be impulsive or steamroll others in decision-making.Growth Tip: Invite feedback and take the time to consider other perspectives. Collaboration builds trust.BLUE (Melancholic): The Cautious PlannerWiring: Detail-oriented, safety-driven, analytical.Financial Outlook: Needs detailed plans, emergency savings, and financial security. Prefers structure and predictability.Growth Tip: Communicate your need for time to process financial decisions. Allow room for flexibility while maintaining your desire for order.GREEN (Phlegmatic): The Peaceful StabilizerWiring: Calm, steady, conflict-avoidant.Financial Outlook: Values simplicity, consistency, and low-stress systems. May avoid decisions that involve conflict or complexity.Growth Tip: Don't be afraid to speak up about your financial opinions. Take the time you need, but be intentional about engaging.Why Temperament Matters in Money ConversationsMost miscommunication is not intentional. For instance, it could be that you're speaking ‘blue,' and they're hearing ‘yellow.'” That misalignment can be costly, both relationally and financially.To bridge the gap, learn to recognize both your own temperament and the temperament of the person you're speaking with. Then, speak their language.Example: A Yellow Talking to a BlueA Yellow might say: “Hey _______, I know details matter to you. Can we sit down together and make a plan that gives us both a vision with a little room for fun?” This honors the Blue's need for order and gives space for the Yellow's desire for connection.Example: A Red Talking to a GreenRather than saying, “We need to figure this out now,” a Red could say: “I'd love us to make a simple plan together so that we both feel secure. We can talk it through at your pace.” This respects the Greens' need for harmony and time.Next Steps for Growth and StewardshipKathleen's workbook, I Said This, You Heard That, is designed to help you better understand your wiring—and live it out in strength, not weakness. It's not about changing your temperament but becoming fluent in the languages of others.Inside the 2025 edition, you'll find tools to help you:Name your tendencies and choose healthier responsesDiscover your “innate needs” (which she calls a game-changer)Revisit conversations with grace and self-awarenessBecome fluent in your own and others' communication stylesWhen we understand our design, we communicate better. When we communicate better, we make wiser financial decisions. And when our finances reflect intentional, Christ-centered communication, our relationships and witness grow stronger.Learning to speak the language of others says: I care about you. That changes everything.I Said This, You Heard That: How Your Wiring Colors Your Communication (2025 Edition) is available now wherever books are sold. Let it be a guide for building stronger relationships and becoming a more faithful steward of what God has entrusted to you.Become a FaithFi PartnerAlso, if you'd like to read Kathleen's full article featured in the second issue of Faithful Steward Magazine, consider becoming a FaithFi Partner. With a monthly gift of $35 or an annual gift of $400, you'll receive the magazine each quarter delivered directly to your mailbox—plus these exclusive benefits:Access to the Pro Version of the FaithFi AppBulk discounts on additional copies of FaithFi studies and magazinesEarly access to every new FaithFi study and devotional before they're released to the publicJoin us in equipping believers to steward God's resources faithfully.On Today's Program, Rob Answers Listener Questions:I'm seeking advice about managing my 66-year-old mother's finances after her Alzheimer's diagnosis. She has a limited income, a $300,000 TSP, and a home with $220,000 in equity, but her monthly expenses total $6,500. I need help strategizing how to best care for her financially.Resources Mentioned:Faithful Steward: FaithFi's New Quarterly Magazine (Become a FaithFi Partner)I Said This, You Heard That: How Your Wiring Colors Your Communication by Kathleen EdelmanWisdom Over Wealth: 12 Lessons from Ecclesiastes on Money (Pre-Order)Look At The Sparrows: A 21-Day Devotional on Financial Fear and AnxietyRich Toward God: A Study on the Parable of the Rich FoolFind a Certified Kingdom Advisor (CKA) or Certified Christian Financial Counselor (CertCFC)FaithFi App Remember, you can call in to ask your questions most days at (800) 525-7000. Faith & Finance is also available on the Moody Radio Network and American Family Radio. Visit our website at FaithFi.com where you can join the FaithFi Community and give as we expand our outreach.
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Prior to discussing his topic of the day, Paul shares his thoughts on a recent podcast featuring Truth Tellers Tom Cock and Don McDonald, joined by Weston Wellington from Dimensional Fund Advisors. Weston weighs in on some of the most critical issues facing investors right now.Here are the topics on the podcast with Tom Cock and Don McDonald-0:53 Weston Wellington on volatility and market uncertainty2:47 Why volatility is the “price we pay to play”3:32 The media's role in investor anxiety4:57 Should investors act on daily financial advice?6:15 Portfolio changes should reflect personal changes, not headlines7:24 Spam vs. Motorola: A lesson in stock picking9:44 Dimensional's stance on individual stock ownership10:02 Diversification as “the closest thing to a free lunch”11:07 Are alternative investments the new magic bullet?12:43 Mutual funds vs. ETFs—what works best and when15:27 Industry evolution: from 8% loads to indexing dominance18:29 Where Dimensional fits in the modern fund landscape21:01 AI vs. “aggregated intelligence” in managing portfolios24:04 How regular people can find real financial advice25:34 The key to success: Temperament, not timing26:44 Weston's side gig as a roving birthday singer27:58 Why Weston hasn't been invited lately (and he's lonely)Next, Paul highlights a recent article by another Truth Teller, Ben Carlson. In “60/40 Portfolio Corrections, Bear Markets and Recoveries,” Ben breaks down the differences in returns during bear markets and the bounce-back that follows. Inspired by this, Paul explores a question that doesn't get much attention: What's the impact on a portfolio when you apply a 4% fixed withdrawal rate to the nine Sound Investing equity portfolios, each with a 60/40 equity-to-fixed income split? The results may surprise you!Paul notes there's more to come on this topic, as these findings could have a real impact on how investors choose their retirement portfolios.As promised, here are the links to the Sound Investing Portfolios:50% U.S. / 50% International70% U.S. / 30% International
Don and Tom welcome Weston Wellington of Dimensional Funds for a rare and richly insightful conversation covering market volatility, media noise, diversification, and the enduring wisdom of index investing. Weston compares Spam to Motorola, skewers financial hype, and champions simplicity in investing—and yes, he might just sing if you let him. The conversation explores how far the financial industry has evolved (and still has to go), why most investors get in their own way, and whether AI or just good old-fashioned “aggregated intelligence” holds the future of smart money management. 0:04 Don's surprise “singing telegram” and guest intro0:53 Weston Wellington on volatility and market uncertainty2:47 Why volatility is the “price we pay to play”3:32 The media's role in investor anxiety4:57 Should investors act on daily financial advice?6:15 Portfolio changes should reflect personal changes, not headlines7:24 Spam vs. Motorola: A lesson in stock picking9:44 Dimensional's stance on individual stock ownership10:02 Diversification as “the closest thing to a free lunch”11:07 Are alternative investments the new magic bullet?12:43 Mutual funds vs. ETFs—what works best and when15:27 Industry evolution: from 8% loads to indexing dominance18:29 Where Dimensional fits in the modern fund landscape21:01 AI vs. “aggregated intelligence” in managing portfolios24:04 How regular people can find real financial advice25:34 The key to success: Temperament, not timing26:44 Weston's side gig as a roving birthday singer27:58 Why Weston hasn't been invited lately (and he's lonely) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
There is a lot of terminology and misconceptions thrown around in the pediatric sleep world especially on social media. Can they self- settle? Are wake windows a real thing? And what about regressions? I welcome back Sujay Kansagra who is a pediatric neurologist and sleep medicine physician at Duke who has dedicated his life to helping kids (and their parents) sleep better. He knows sleep and the importance of it. He was on my show before on an episode called Sleep-training: What the evidence does or doesn't say. He joins me to discuss: If genetics play a role in sleep and if there is such a thing as a “good” or “bad” sleeper If “wake-windows” are evidence-based If there's a certain age we would expect a baby to “sleep through the night” The truth behind sleep regressions To connect with Sujay Kansagra follow him on Instagram @thatsleepdoc and purchase his book My Child Won't Sleep: A Quick Guide for the Sleep-Deprived Parent Additional Resources About Sleep: Review of Sleep Training Data: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17068979/ Cortisol and Sleep Training Research Study: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27221288/ Short Sleep Gene: https://www.ucsf.edu/news/2019/08/415261/after-10-year-search-scientists-find-second-short-sleep-gene "Sleeping Through the Night" Article: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20974775/ Wide Range of Normal Sleep During First Year: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12563055/ Sleep Regressions and Data Behind Fixed Months for Regression: https://www.babysleep.com/sleep-advice/what-is-a-sleep-regression/ We'd like to know who is listening! Please fill out our Listener Survey to help us improve the show and learn about you! 00:00 – Intro 01:17 – Meet Dr. Sujay Kansagra: Pediatric Sleep Doc at Duke 04:38 – Do Genetics Impact How Children Sleep? 06:05 – Why Labels Like “Bad Sleeper” Can Be Harmful 08:06 – What's the Deal with Wake Windows? 10:31 – Why Overtired Kids Have Trouble Falling Asleep 12:55 – Are Sleep “Crutches” Like Nursing or Rocking Bad? 15:00 – When and How to Phase Out Sleep Associations 16:33 – The Parent Sleep Guilt Spiral—And Why It's Not Helping 18:05 – Social Media Pressure and Parenting Choices 19:30 – When Should Babies Sleep Through the Night? 23:04 – Is There a Minimum Weight for Sleep Training? 25:19 – Why Sleep Isn't Just Sleep: Feeding, Temperament, and More 25:59 – What Science Says About Sleep Regressions 28:44 – Why Modern Parenting Creates Fear Around Normal Sleep 30:08 – Don't Pathologize Your Parenting Journey 30:52 – Final Message: Sleep Is Hard—Even for Sleep Experts 32:14 – Where to Learn More from Dr. Kansagra 33:02 – Wrapping Up: Science, Sanity, and Sleep Confidence Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and subscribe to PedsDocTalk. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships page of the website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices