Marriage 4 Real with Adaeze Chiwoko

I'm all for moving forward but unless we understand our past choices we are more likely to make that choice again. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

What if you could use your emotions to play an integral role in allowing for more harmony in your relationship and a whole lot LESS conflict? Having issues in your relationship? Book a free Breakthrough Call here: www.marriage4real.co.uk --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

A lot of people avoid having the important conversations in their relationship for fear of conflict and in an attempt to “keep the peace”. But is it really working for them? Book a call here: https://counsellingwithmarriage4real.as.me/mybreakthrough --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

If your relationship has suffered the impact of an affair then understanding that the betrayed person will be experiencing varying levels of grief will help you to better navigate through the healing process. Need Help? Are you struggling to overcome relationship-hurt and can't get past an affair, feeling disconnected and unhappy in your marriage, or afraid that your union is falling apart? Turn your marriage around. Apply for my 90 Day Marriage Transformation Programme by booking a FREE Breakthrough Call with me here: BOOK MY CALL --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

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The concept of unity is an important one. However, if not understood properly many couple may feel that they are not walking in unity. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

I know firsthand how it can feel like you will never get past the pain of an affair. Having gone through the experience myself and working with people around the world I have discovered that these 5 tips will help towards moving through the stages of healing much faster. Need Help? Are you struggling to overcome relationship-hurt and can't get past an affair, feeling disconnected and unhappy in your marriage, or afraid that your union is falling apart? Turn your marriage around. Apply for my 90 Day Marriage Transformation Programme by booking a FREE Breakthrough Call with me here: BOOK MY CALL ​ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

Many couples struggle to heal from the impact of an affair because they do not understand the differences between forgiveness and trust. In this episode I breakdown the differences and responsibilities of both parties. Book a FREE Breakthrough Call with me --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

In this episode I share with you the 3 top habits that cause unhappiness in a relationship. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

Some couples reach a point in their relationship where they struggle to communicate in a way that is healthy and edifying. There can be a lot of misunderstanding, and tension builds up. This episode gives you 4 keys that will help you create healthy lines of communication. Book a FREE Breakthrough Call here: https://www.marriage4real.co.uk/contact/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

Know this for sure, you will have some conflict and arguments in your marriage. It's not something to embrace but it is something to prepare for. The key thing to be mindful of is how quickly and in what manner you recover from any conflicts. Married couples who have learned the skill of speedy conflict recovery can shield themselves from the long-term damage that mishandled conflict can have on a relationship and even use the conflict as an opportunity to grow. Book a FREE Breakthrough Call here: admin@marriage4real.co.uk --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

The desperation to get things 'back to normal' after an affair or traumatic experience in marriage causes many couples to ignore the individual healing that needs to take place. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

In this episode, I share how choosing the best way to respond to discovering your spouse is watching pornography could either drive a wedge in your marriage or potentially draw you closer together.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

The back and forth verbal tennis match rarely results in resolution but rather it actively causes a never ending cycle of the people within the relationship feeling attacked, not heard and resentful. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

The thing we fear the most is usually the very thing that we attract to ourselves. The same thing works for your desire. Listen to how your fears may be affecting your marriage and what you can do to turn things around. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

Many couples come to me perplexed as to why they are praying for their marriages but nothing sees to be changing. As a women who believes wholeheartedly in the power of prayer, in this podcast I explain why prayer is not enough to save your marriage. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

Focus and attention are so important because they absolutely impact our perception of our marriage. It's easy to draw most of your attention to the negative things happening within our relationship whilst paying down how good things actually are! Your perception of any given situation will determine your future peace and happiness. Are things really as bad as they appear or have you got your focus and attention directed in the wrong places? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

Are you going to let another year go by living in the same unhappy state in your marriage when you actually have the power to create the marriage that have always desired? It's all about being honesty with your current marital state, acknowledging your desires and making a decision to create the marriage that you want. If you're looking to create the marriage you've always desired and find out how YOU have the power to create it, apply for my 90-day programme by booking a 'Breakthrough Call' with me here: http://bit.ly/marriagetransformation --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

Why are you more kind, more giving and more patient with your friends than your spouse? Is it possible that you have devalued your treasure and misplaced your priorities? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

I've shared 5 of the most popular misconceptions that I have come across around infidelity in marriage. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

Sounds pretty obvious but actually, couples who get married are often deciding to move into either one of their own homes. I believe that new coupes should start with a clean slate in as many areas of their lives including where they choose to live. In this podcast I explain why. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

Is your fear of criticism greater than your desire to become a better spouse? Surely that is our continual desire... right? To improve, grow and be better. Unfortunately, continual improvement requires an honest look at ourselves. Sometimes our spouses are the best people to hold the mirror up for us. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

How many of us have grown up developing a very romantic and almost movie-like belief system around sex, how it should happen and what it should be like. Well, what if I told you that that belief is potentially the reason why you're not getting much sex? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

Yes, we all know that communication is the bedrock of a happy marriage, but in this episode, I give another critical element that if not utilised could render all your communication efforts as pointless.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

How important is peace in your marriage to you, in comparison to your pride? It's amazing how ready we're are to destroy the peace in our homes just to win an argument. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

Many of us enter marriage knowing exactly what would make us leave and now what we are strategically going to do to make it work! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message

Episode 1 - My very first episode! Where ever you are in your marriage, you didn't get there by accident. It has been through consistent habits, choices and decisions. Where have your habits, choices and decisions led you in your marriage and are you happy with where you are?  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marriage4real/message