Psychedelic Lover's Musings

Join me in the journey of how my own sexuality has evolved through the years. Sexuality is fluid, and by accepting that who we love may not be based on gender, but rather on personalities will change your outlook on love!

Surviving the 2019 Polar Vortex involved a lot of movie watching. I decided that I am not okay with teen rom-coms, but I can't stop watching them, so instead I have analyzed what's wrong with them. Adulthood apparently involves picking apart things from my childhood.

Let's talk about lady friendships, and how they're literally the best thing for being a functional adult. Here's a short love letter to the babes in my life, and also ways for you to be a better homie this year.

It's 2019 and I got my first tattoo of the year, but what made it special? I got it done at Villain Arts Tattoo Convention in Minneapolis! I decided to compile an easy list of tips if you want to do the same.

Let's talk about non-monogamy! How do I do it successfully? What does it entail, give it a listen and shoot me your questions on Twitter @sabathegoldfish

I'm backkkkk. Thank you to everyone for their patience, I'm stoked to be back at it. Let's talk about some fake New Years Resolutions and wanting to kill ourselves.

I have struggled with an eating disorder for most of my life.  It's not a short lived fight, it's a lifelong battle.  The road to recovery has been long, but I hope this will help others who are struggling.

With the holiday season and uncomfortable family gatherings, sometimes you need to sneak away and do the dirty with you signifigant other.  Let me help you.  

I have a lot of feelings about Tinder, and I'm going to explain to you why Tinder is the glorified sex menu you need in your life this winter.

I have been going without wearing a bra for almost three years.  I hope that this podcast will inspire you to think about joining the Free the Nipple movement.

In honor of my favorite time of year, I have narrated the time I lived in a haunted dorm in college.  This is a true story, but being skeptical is to be expected.  Happy Halloween!

Not to be taken as a literal guide to survive hotel fires, but rather, a humorous story of that one itme I thought I was going to experience the film Towering Inferno in real life.

I wrote this piece after the mass shooting in Orlando at the Pulse nightclub. I thought this was going to be out of date, but sadly with the senseless murder in Las Vegas, it has come back to relevance. 

Body hair is body hair, but if it's on a woman it's unsightly.  I'm here to prove them wrong.  I stopped shaving my armpits, and I'll probably convince you to do the same. 

There is a battle between sex and porn.  Should we be having more sex or watching more porn? What are the benefits, let me tell you all about it!  

Bad habits, we all have them. I was raised in a society where smoking is condemned and celebrated all at the same time.  Here' my story of smoking, quitting, smoking, quitting, and smoking again. 

Sometimes the world seems huge, and other times, you meet someone while living in Korea that grew up in the same state as you. Listen to these stories and share your instances of 6 degrees of separation.  Read the original at www.psychedeliclover.com  

It's that time of year where everyone is headed back to college, and you've graduated and now you have no idea what to do, and that's totally okay.  Take a listen and know that life isn't a quick process. You'll figure it out eventually. 

Periods happen, and we should never be ashamed of our bodies and the natural functions. So let's talk about it. Tweet me about your period! @sabathegoldfish Read the original here  http://psychedeliclover.com/2016/05/11/lets-talk-about-periods/

Sometimes families are eccentric, in my case, they like to pretend I have a husband waiting for me oversees. I'm convinced if I don't cook, I won't be able to get married.  Read the original here www.psychedeliclover.com

Surpise!  I decided since I had a bit of time that I would finish up some extra podcasts for you all.  I think it will be nice for you all to have more than just two.  This little guy is about the first time a boy called me ugly and how it helped to foster my belief in self-love and self-confidence.  www.psychedeliclover.com    

It's one of those apps that was designed for sending nudes, and we've taken it and ruined the purity of its purpose.  Now I just can't support it because I don't understand it.  

My first ever podcast!  This is based off a piece written for my blog, www.psychedeliclover.com  Join me for my struggles with Netflix addiction and thanks for listening.