Putting It Out There

There are billions of people in the world all with varying thoughts, opinions and experiences.  In this episode we discuss some differences we have between us and our fellow humans on this planet, some minor and some major.  We focus on ways we can minimize those differences or at a minimum understand and respect them.

In life there are times when we are super motivated and there are times when we get complacent, slow down or simply stop advancing.  We encourage our listeners to keep things moving daily.  No matter how small the progress, take steps to constantly better yourself on a daily basis.  Keep your body moving, keep your mind moving and keep advancing toward your best self.  Any progress you make is better than none.

We've been away for a while, but we are back and ready to 'chop it up' with America.  The start of a new year allows us to reflect on our past and contemplate the prospects for our future.  We're excited to be doing things a little differently with the show.  It might be scary, it might be uncomfortable, but in order to grow, we embrace the changes.  Get out of your comfort zone and seek out the opportunities to make this your best year ever.

  What's the difference between ambition and greed?  We should all want to live up to our fullest potential and attain our personal goals.  However, when we cross the line and begin to allow possessions and materialistic items to drive our actions, we descend into the pit of greed.  We end up hurting ourselves and others.  While you are keeping up with the Joneses, who are the Joneses keeping up with?

This episode is dedicated to all the folks who reached out asking us to make more shows.  To you we say, "Here is the rebirth of Putting it Out There."

What is A Man? from A Guy Perspective | Episode 39

Today we talk about how the exterior world influences our daily lives  

In this episode we discussed whether or not you can do All things great All the time. Striking a good balance is what we feel is the winning formula. You must know when to go hard and when to pull back. Endeavor to do great at what you do, but just know that it is ok to say NO to somethings to make sure you aren't missing out on the important things!

Too often we take our physical health for granted until it's too late. Make sure you go to medical professionals not just when your health fails, but regularly for preventative maintenance. Your health is your responsibility!

When we are young, we are told what to learn and how. As we get older, we often develop an adverse reaction toward learning and resist it. We should always seek knowledge and strive to learn something new every day of our lives be it for a specific reason or to just keep expanding our horizons.

In this episode we discuss Being a Great Role Model and preparing our young Kings for life. Leading by example and showing our Young Kings Love and preparing them for the future..

It’s not easy discussing racial issues in this country. The topic evokes passions, fear and even anger by merely mentioning issues that touch us personally. We can’t run away from this topic, rather we should be brave enough to engage in open, honest discussions with those unlike ourselves. If we do that and even attempt to see the world through a different set of lenses, maybe we can understand each other better which might lead to respecting one another. Are we just dreamers?

In this episode we are going to discussed the fact that we must learn to Agree to Disagree.. There are so many areas of life of which this can be applied. You do not always have to be right, prove your point, change others opinion. There are times when you MUST, Agree to Disagree.

Music is personal. It may reach millions, but everyone feels it in their own specific way. In this episode we talk about the impact of music in our lives and how it has the ability to transform us to times in our lives that we cherished, adored, mourned or loved. Let the music play and fill you with its intended passion!

Let the goals begin in the New Year! Be sure to set attainable goals this year. Most Importantly, complete those that you have been working on. If goals are measurable, actionable and attainable they are achievable.. Make it a Great Year.

If you are able to help others, and choose to do so, what kind of ‘giver’ will you be? When you give, you should do so cheerfully. You can’t over analyze the motives of the people you are helping. If you aren’t comfortable with the people you are helping or feel you have been taken advantage of, it’s okay to say no to an individual. Try not to allow one or two people to impact a giving nature.

The Holiday season is upon us. We are speaking about Happy Times and Holiday Traditions. It is such a wonderful time of the Year. Have Fun and Make Memories!

At some point in our lives, we will all experience some form of loss. It is healthy to grieve and cry and be sad. If, however, you find that the grieving process is prolonged or leading to depression, don’t be afraid to seek help. You don’t have to deal with it alone.

Don't go along with things that you know are not right... If you see something, say something! Stand for what is right and don't support people doing wrong , even when it's someone you normally support.. You are doing an individual a disservice if you are complicit with their wrong doing!

Set a goal and strive to achieve it. Start something new and if need be start over. Work toward something bigger than yourself or toward something that benefits others. Whatever the case may be, try to live your life with a purpose each and every day. You will end up enriching your own life and possibly the lives of others.

Be Wise, Be Smart, Be Knowledgeable. Don't take pride in not Knowing. Be a well rounded person and drop the entitlement mentality as you hustle hard. Live and go forward in life with goals and with a plan in mind!

During this podcast we broach the subject of loyalty in the business world and the world of sports. Too often those who possess the power, control, or influence demand loyalty of those who work for them, yet do not always show that loyalty in return. It is totally practical or a company to look out for it's bottom line. Why then shouldn't that be the case for the individual?

We all have things we need to do! In this episode we talk about things we feel we need to do, or stop doing! Always work on the man in the mirror, be accountable, don’t blame others and Live your Best Life!

We lighten it up this episode discussing what we love in life and what brings us joy. What do you love?

Abuse: Whether Physical, Mental or Emotional; If You see something, Say Something.. Many have experienced it, but many fail to blow the whistle. Life is to short to allow someone to abuse You. Raise your hand, Call it out! Seek Help....

The 15th, 19th, 23rd, 24th, and 26th Amendments to the United States Constitution all involved providing EVERY citizen the opportunity to exercise their constitutional right to vote. Many fought and even died for this right so we cannot callously ignore the advances made by our forefathers. Change starts with each one of us and every vote does indeed matter. Research candidates and legislation and be informed about who you elect to represent your interests and the policies that will directly impact your life.

We have to "Fill our Kids Cup".. You can Not pour from an empty cup. We must teach our Kids responsibility, value of education, honesty and integrity and arm them with a well filled cup for purposes of having great things to offer.

Solid mental health is every bit as important as solid physical health. We need to strengthen our minds as much as our muscles. Find ways to find peace in your life. Find ways to meditate and clear your mind. Eliminate the negativity that brings you down. Always look to the positive. Share your feelings with loved ones or people you trust. If those things don't work, don't be afraid to talk to medical professionals who are trained to help heal the mind and spirit. If medication is necessary, don't be afraid to try that either. Your very life could be at stake!

In this episode we are discussing the educational Gap and the importance of education.. Education is the cornerstone of everything. You never stop learning. Strive for excellence and learn on Purpose!

We all come from various backgrounds and quite frankly different starting points in life. The equalizing factor is your personal determination to succeed, to conquer fear and failure and to get what you want out of life. Grit cannot be taught and comes from within. It can come from birth or circumstances can inject grit into your character. Grit allows you to stay on your grind.

In this Episode we are talking about "Dream Killers'.. Do Not let someone kill your dreams. Society, and even families are full of "Dream Killers" but we must press on towards our dreams. Establish a support system with people that will encourage and support you along the way. Keep your eyes on the prize and march on!

Too often people get into an uproar and are upset about the punishment phase when caught committing crimes. While we acknowledge our criminal justice system is imperfect, it is hard to sympathize with those who complain about that system when they know they have broken the law. As always we stress accountability and walking the straight and narrow so you won't have to worry about the system and how it treats you. One poor decision can alter the entire course of your life!

Our women should be treated like queens. They should see examples of queens early in their lives. They should see examples of women being treated like queens early in their lives. They should carry themselves as queens. They should make anyone they encounter understand they will be treated as nothing less than queens. It is high time we treat our women, our queens with the proper respect they deserve.

In this episode we talked out about Machoism.. Can you be Macho and have Compassion at the same time? Is being tough a right of passage for boys and Men? How do we strike the right balance with being macho?

"If your outflow, exceeds your inflow, your up keep will be your downfall".. We must be financially responsible, pay ourselves first, make it automatic, start early, and do it consistently over time.. You will Thank Yourself later!

"If your out flow, exceeds your inflow, your Up Keep will be your downfall".. We must be financially responsible, pay ourselves first, make it automatic, start early, and do it consistently over time.. You will Thank Yourself later!

In order to achieve our goals, we must first be able to visualize not only the end result, but the journey it takes to reach them. Natural gifts alone do not guarantee us victories. We must put in the hard work that goes along with success. It is also important for us to see what success looks like by having positive examples to follow. The earlier in our lives we are exposed to those positive examples, the sooner that becomes the norm and thus the expectation.

Self Hate is the result of insecurities created throughout a person's life. Be aware of the signs and make it a point to be Thankful for the skin that you are in. Celebrate who you are and work to be your best self. Avoid comparing yourself to others. "BE YOU"...

Yes, it matters that 'the system' or 'the institution' has historically placed obstacles in our path. We, however, contend that nothing keeps us in a holding pattern of negativity and despair more than our own decisions and attitudes. If we are to live better, more productive lives, we must stop making excuses for our lack of productivity. We have to develop a mentality that if we aren't happy with our circumstances, it is our responsibility to change them and no one else's. No more excuses, no more placing blame on anyone but the person we see in the mirror. Time to be responsible and accountable for our own actions.

Yes, it matters that 'the system' or 'the institution' has historically placed obstacles in our path. We, however, contend that nothing keeps us in a holding pattern of negativity and despair more than our own decisions and attitudes. If we are to live better, more productive lives, we must stop making excuses for our lack of productivity. We have to develop a mentality that if we aren't happy with our circumstances, it is our responsibility to change them and no one else's. No more excuses, no more placing blame on anyone but the person we see in the mirror. Time to be responsible and accountable for our own actions.

In this episode we focus on the need of doing what's hard while it is easy. Focus on the important things now in order to set yourself up for success in the future. It is important to make choices now that will not have an adverse affect on you future. Instant gratification is overrated.

In this episode we evaluate the importance of truly hearing what your loved ones are saying about how much enthusiasm you show toward things important to them. It is important to understand and validate their feelings, and to not be too proud to acknowledge when we are wrong or to say I'm sorry.

In this episode, we delve into the role of the father in the family not just from the birth of our children, but at conception, during pregnancy, and within the home on a daily basis. It is up to us to be models for the young men and positive examples for the young women in our families.

Episode one focuses on the initial formation of the family and the important considerations that should go into two individuals becoming one solid, collaborative unit. We also discuss how strong families, immediate and extended, can assist in developing character and positive self-image in our children.

In this, our maiden episode, we want to introduce ourselves and explain the goal of our show - to shine a light on the various problems in the African American community, explain how we directly contribute to those problems, and discuss what we need to do to make effective change.