Tolu’s Tea

Join Tolu and her guest, Reni, on this episode of Tolu's Tea, where they discuss a topic rarely discussed in mainstream media - asexuality and its intersection with hyper-sexuality. They candidly share their journeys as asexual individuals, exploring the nuances of asexuality and highlighting the diversity within the asexual community. Tune in to gain insight into the experiences of asexual individuals and discover how embracing diversity can lead to a more inclusive and compassionate society. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tolustea/support

Join Tolu on the latest episode of Tolu's Tea, where she explores the thought-provoking topic "Self-Depreciation Invites Exploitation." Through a series of insightful discussions and examples, Tolu delves into the issue of self-deprecation and how it can make individuals vulnerable to being taken advantage of by others. Tune in to learn more as she navigates the complexities of self-worth and empowerment. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tolustea/support

Join Tolu in this heartfelt Valentine's Season special episode of Tolu's Tea as she delves deep into the intricacies of love and relationships. As the Valentine's season fades away, the air remains filled with the sweet scent of romance. But is love truly enough to sustain a relationship? Listeners can sip their tea while Tolu explores the nuances of love, diving into the complexities that often go unnoticed in the grand gestures and declarations of affection. Throughout the conversation, Tolu encourages listeners to reflect on their relationships and urges them to look beyond the superficialities of modern PDA. So, if you're looking to explore love and relationships in a candid conversation, Tolu's Tea is the perfect place. Through this conversation, you'll learn that love, although a beautiful foundation, may not always be enough for a successful relationship. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tolustea/support

In this episode of Tolu's Tea, Tolu takes us on a personal journey of her relationship with the church. She candidly discusses the challenges that led to her departure from the church and the profound reasons that drew her back into its embrace. Tolu explores the complexities of her decision-making process, sharing intimate moments of introspection and growth. Join her as she unpacks the significance of seeking community within the church and the transformative power it holds in one's life. This episode offers a compelling narrative of rediscovery and the profound impact of finding solace within the folds of a community that embraces and uplifts. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tolustea/support

In the closing moments of the year, join Tolu as she embarks on a soulful journey of self-reflection and introspection in this special episode, "As the Year Ends." Delve into heartfelt moments as the host candidly shares personal insights gained throughout the year, touching on pivotal experiences that have shaped her outlook. Tune in to discover Tolu's aspirations and heartfelt resolutions to nurture stronger connections, become a better version of herself, and deepen the bond of friendships in the coming year. Gather inspiration and take away heartfelt intentions, setting the stage for a brighter, more empathetic, and connected journey ahead. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tolustea/support

Welcome to another heartwarming episode of Tolu's Tea! In this special edition, we dive into the beautiful love story of Dide and Enzo, a couple who embarked on their journey together during their first year of college and have been inseparable for seven incredible years. Join us as we explore their enduring bond, relationship values, and the secrets to keeping the ship sailing at different stages of life. Inspired by the captivating "Off-Campus" book series by Elle Kennedy, our episode is aptly titled "Off-Campus Love." Tune in to discover the magic of their love story and gather tips on making your relationship last a lifetime… or at least after college lol. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tolustea/support

In this emotionally charged episode, Tolu delves deep into the tragic loss of the incredibly talented Nigerian artist, Mohbad, and the broader issue of how Nigeria often unfairly treats its youth. With heavy hearts, we reflect on Mohbad's remarkable career and the impact he left on the music scene. But this episode goes beyond the music; it's a passionate rant about the challenges and struggles faced by Nigeria's youth, who are brimming with talent and potential yet often find themselves up against systemic hurdles. Join us for an unfiltered conversation as we demand change and justice for a brighter future for Nigeria's vibrant youth and upcoming artists.

In this episode of "Tolu's Tea," Tolu is joined by the fabulous and insightful FavorSays for a candid conversation about "Hot Girl Shit." Get ready for an unfiltered, hilarious, and enlightening chat that'll leave you inspired to redefine your own "hot girl" journey. Don't miss out on this fiery episode that's sure to leave you feeling hot and fabulous! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tolustea/support

Hi guys, welcome back to Tolu's Tea! I am thrilled to be back for another exciting season of insightful conversations after the long hiatus. Get ready for a season filled with captivating stories, enlightening interviews, and a whole lot of laughter. We are kicking off this new chapter by taking a moment to catch up on my well-being since the last season concluded. So, grab your favorite tea, find a comfy spot, and let's embark on this journey of laughter, reflection, and connection together. Don't forget to subscribe and share the podcast with your friends! Stay tuned for more engaging episodes every Sunday at 12 a.m. ET. Thanks for being part of my podcast community!

Goodbye and thank you.

In this episode, we welcome our new co-host and former guest Jeks to the show. Jeks and Tolu play a question game, and share a brief history of their friendship. We hope you enjoy this episode that was made on pure vibes!

This episode is inspired by the Netflix series DP, an emotional drama based on the difficulties Korean men face when they go into military deployment to fulfill their citizenship obligation. My guest, Sharon, founder of a Nigerian jewelry brand House of Shay, was an old highschool mate of mine. Together, we share our experiences with bullying, and how it made us feel. Huge thanks to Sharon for sharing her experience and being so open with details. I hope you enjoy as well as learn.

On today's episode we discuss a sensitive mental health disorder called BODY DYSMORPHIA. Today, we have our co-host Moyo and our guests Idara and Bosola opening up about their experiences with this disorder as well. This is a sensitive episode, but we hope many listeners have an eyeopening experience.  Now out everywhere! *Warning: some words/experiences that have been mentioned in this episode may not be comfortable for some audience. **If you relate with any experience recounted in this episode, please speak to your doctor for a proper diagnosis and treatment plan, as body dysmorphia is indeed a mental health disease and should be treated with urgency. 

Today's guest, Jeks, recounts her most recent break-up experience with a cheating partner. She gives more insight on what happens on the other side of cheating, and how it affected her socially and mentally. Prepare yourselves, this is going to be one hot cup of tea.

Hi guys! On this episode, I have "Better Days" rapper Bless Clymax giving us an insight on his life as an upcoming Afro-drill Nigerian rapper . We discuss his family, history, friendships, and inspirations among other things. Spoiler, we launch a new segment in this episode, so look out for that. Check out his new song Better Days featuring DTS now! Hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did!

Hi guys! It's been quite a while, and I am excited to be back. In this episode, I outline the expectations and goals of this new season. Also, I share a bit of my history with being a feminism and discovering feminism. I hope you all enjoy this episode, and prepare yourself for more interesting episodes this season has to offer. 

While we struggle, we shouldn’t forget to have a good laugh as much as we can. #RIPChadwickBoseman --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Episode inspired by the recent controversial case of the “$21k boy”. Tolu makes a comeback as she discusses, alongside Michael and MoyoTalks, the impact of discipline in a child’s life. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Join Michael, and his guests, Moyo, Dedami and Jomiloju, in discussing the relationship between feminism and religion, and how each can influence the other. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Tolu brings in a bunch of guests to discuss the unending moral debate on younger girls dating “older” guys. Age gap, pedophilia, maturity and the age of consent, amongst other things, are covered throughout the episode. Listen in and hear from BISOLA (IG & Twitter: @abisolaa_), BONITAS (IG: @_bonitas.xo, Twitter: @__bonitas), HILLARY (IG: @tteniola, Twitter: @ttteniola), JOANNA (IG: @joanna_ej) and MARIAM (IG: @astoldby_mimi, Twitter: @MariamBuari1).

Joining me in this episode is my (second) brother Michael. Listen up as we uncover the secrets to genuinely forgiving someone, and how tough forgiveness can be.

How do you handle watching other people grieve? Do you feel useless just watching your loved ones lose someone else they love? Because same... #RIPKobeandGigi . SOTD: Heaven by Beyoncé

Happy new year everyone! In this episode, we find out what Tolu has in store for Tolu’s Tea this year. Hope you got yourselves ready because we have an interesting year ahead.

What’s the big deal with being in a community college anyway? Why do people look down on others when they say they’re in a community college? And why was I so insecure to mention my school before? LOL I hope you enjoy this episode! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

First teary episode lol. Hope you enjoy this and learn something. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

If you had the chance to give a last lecture before you passed away, what would you talk about? Randy Pausch’s was on “Really Achieving Your Dreams,” and mine is on “Gratitude”. The #TeaoftheDay is Pure Leaf’s Raspberry flavored tea. I gave it a 3/10 in my review and will definitely not recommend. Enjoy the episode guys! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

New episode! New segment! Listen for more information on the new segment called #TeaoftheDay . --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

This episode's discussion is on unhealthy men and their traits. I have definitely had my fair share of experience with unhealthy men, and so as my guest, Sade. It was really fun to record; the endless laughter proves it lol. I hope you enjoy listening to it as much as we enjoyed recording it.  Love, Tolu  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

First guest!!! Sorry in advance for my voice, I have/had a cold... Anyways, I hope you enjoy this interview on Adulthood and realizing what it means with my brother. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

This episode is about what really goes on with us when we fail. I hope this uplifts someone somewhere, and everyone that listens enjoys and gains tips on how to deal with sadness. ❤️ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

FIRST EPISODE!!!! I’m really excited about my podcast, so I decided to start with one of my favorite discussion-topics: “Who Are You?” . I hope you enjoy listening to it and take something away from this episode? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app