Yard Connection Podcast

Most of the time, we find ourselves in situations we do not understand or condone. We end up in it so deep then we wonder 'How did I get here?' only to realize that we allowed ourselves to be in that situation by enabling certain behaviors around us. On this episode, Kiki and Kevin talk about the importance of teaching people how to treat you. This includes personal relationships, romantic relationships, family, friends, work etc. What you allow, will continue. 

A mail from one of the listeners sparked the conversation on this episode - WHAT CAUSES SIBLINGS RIVALRY?  Is it jealousy, competition amongst the siblings, parents or is it simply selfishness? What happens when the beef is passed on to the children? The Nembhards share their own sentiments on this sensitive family matter. 

Some people are strong believers in that a man is supposed to be older than the woman he's in a relationship with. Does age matter to you when it comes to relationships or is it just a number?  What age gap is a deal breaker for you?  Listen to Kevin and Kiki as they discuss the age issue.

In a world full of curious people and social media, living a private life is very difficult. On this episode The Nembhards talk about how much of their personal life they choose to share with other people and why? Join in the conversation and express your opinions and experiences. 

Have you ever been in a relationship with an insecure or jealous  person? Or maybe you are the insecure jealous type of lover? Join Kiki and Kevin this week as they share their opinions and experiences on this topical issue. 

Since the pandemic started, the world has been on a standstill. Nothing is the same! With a new member in the family, The Nembhards are back with Season 02 and they'd like to know what's been happenin  in your lives as they share how the pandemic has changed their lives. 

A lot of people say they want to be in a relationship, but do they know exactly the type of person they want to be in a relationship with? Do they know the relationship they want? It is very important to know the kind of love you want before you even consider getting into a relationship otherwise it will be a waste of time. Episode 25 is the last episode of the Yard Connection Podcast's Season 1. More episodes coming up in the new year for our Season 2. Happy holidays!

Do you think it's best to live together before you get married? What is the purpose of living together? As individuals we have habits that might annoy our partners, does living together eliminate chances of having to deal with those habits for the rest of your lives? On Episode 24, Kiki and Kevin talk about their annoying habits and also share their thoughts and experiences on living together before marriage.

Parenting 101: on this episode, The Nembhards address parenting differently. Every parent has their own way of raising a child, and most believe that their way is the right way. Join in the talk about raising children under the same roof and also co parenting from different households.

On this episode, Kiki and Kevin address the issue of flirting, which is something that is done by a lot of people whether they are in a relationship or not. Is it ok to flirt with other people? Is flirting considered as cheating? What is the point of flirting? Most importantly, do you know where to draw the line when it comes to flirting?

We all have limits when it comes to what we can accept or tolerate from our partners in a relationship. What is that deal breaker for you? When is enough, enough? What pushes you to walk away and never look back?

Episode 20, Kiki and Kevin give their take on parenting in general, most importantly the support that parents need to give their children from a very young age. Children always remember what they experienced when they were younger, that is why it's extremely important to also lay a foundation of support so that they grow up knowing their parents support them.

How do you handle frustration in your relationship? This is what The Nembhards are talking about on Episode 19. Couples are individuals with different backgrounds and different mindsets, therefore are likely to disagree with each other which can lead to frustration. What causes you to be frustrated in your relationship and how do you handle it?

Do you believe people cheat because they are unhappy in their relationships or do they cheat because they can? Join Kiki and Kevin Nembhard on Episode 18 as they give their take on cheating. Why do people cheat?

Are you friends with the opposite sex? How genuine is the relationship? On this week's episode, The Nembhards ask; Is it possible for a man and a woman to just be friends without any expectations or looking at each other differently?

There are people who would rather promote a famous person's work than promote their less famous friend's work. There are people who would rather buy something from someone else knowing very well that their own friend sells the same thing. Those are usually the same people who demand freebies or support from the very people with businesses that they chose to ignore. Do your friends and family give you enough support when it comes to your businesses or are you one of those that gets more support from strangers? On this episode, Kiki and Kevin talk about the importance of supporting your friends and family businesses no matter how small they are.

Do you believe in a no strings attached arrangement? Do you believe in paying for sex? On Episode 15, Kevin and Kiki Nembhard share their thoughts, opinions and experiences about planned and unplanned One Night Stands and Flings.

Most times, women find themselves in situations where they feel the need to go all out just to keep a man who no longer wants to be with them. They believe having a baby or getting married will keep them together and mend whatever is broken. 99% of the times, it doesn't work.

Some couples are happy with inviting a third/fourth person into their bedrooms or stepping outside of their relationships for sexual pleasure. They believe it is a way to spice things up and that it keeps the relationship stronger. What are your thoughts? Join Kiki and Kevin on Episode 13 as they share their opinions on Open Marriages, Threesomes and Polygamy.

Words can either build or destroy. When you say something to someone it's gone, you can't take it back. That is why it is important to be mindful of the words you speak and also control how others speak to you. On this episode, The Nembhards also address the issue of how adults should speak to children. Whatever you say to a child might end up being their reality. It's important to always speak positively especially where children are concerned because emotional scars are like a lethal injection.

No relationship is perfect. Everyone works on making sure that their relationship is as close to perfection as it can get. Relationships have misunderstandings, arguments, disagreements and more. Where do you go when things are a bit shaky and you need advice? Episode 11, Kiki and Kevin talk about choosing the right person or people to talk to whenever you need advice where your relationship is concerned.

In episode 10, The Nembhards talk about the importance of paying close attention to one's surroundings and the actions of the people in their lives. Months or years later, a person doesn't all of a sudden become someone you don't want to be with, everything that you don't like about them now, has always been there from the beginning. They showed you who they really are but for some reason you looked the other way. The truth is, the signs are always there, we just choose to ignore them. In any relationship (romantic, friendship or business) we are often exposed to a lot of signs from the people in our lives that we choose to not pay attention to. A person can only pretend for so long, eventually their true colors come out and they can't hide who they really are or how they really feel.

Most people, especially women find it extremely difficult to take someone to their home let alone introduce them to their family. On this episode, Kiki & Kevin conversate about introducing 'The One' to your family. Should there be a timeline? What happens if the relationship ends after you've met your lover's family? Do you stay in contact with your ex's family? What are your reasons?

EXPLICIT CONTENT. NO UNDER 21.Do you seek all your sexual needs and wants from your partner or are you the type of person who chooses to step outside of your relationship for other sexual needs? On Episode 08, The Nembhards encourage building a strong & comfortable sexual relationship with one person (your partner) where you get ALL your needs met, calling it 'Your One Stop Shop'.

How many times have you held back in expressing your happiness or celebrating your achievements because you are worried that people will say you're bragging? On this episode, The Nembhards ask why most happy people or successful people always find themselves in situations where they are made to feel guilty about their good lives? Be it in Business, Love, Finance, Academics or Life in general, if you celebrate loud = 'showing off.'

Are you dealing with Baby Mama drama or are YOU the Baby Mama that brings drama? On their 6th episode, The Nembhards talk about the exhaustion that comes with a troublesome baby mama.

On this episode, The Nembhards challenge the issue of 'Black Tax' (the income black professionals have to give to their families to support them.) How are you expected to build an empire for your children if you have to financially take care of family members for the rest of your life? Join in the conversation.

Are you still in contact with your EX? Do you know where and when to draw the line when it comes to communication with your EX? Kiki and Kevin go deep into those entanglements you might find yourself in, if lines with your EXes are crossed.

Strictly NO UNDER 18. (Explicit Content)Sex is one of the main reasons people leave, cheat or stay in a relationship.The Nembhard's go an extra mile on their first explicit episode about what happens in between the sheets. Are you satisfied in the bedroom? Are you open about your sexual needs?

On this episode, The Nembhards talk about the importance of communication in relationships. Most men choose to go into their own world and give the silent treatment whenever there is an argument with their woman, most women on the other hand prefer to yell, scream, and break whatever can be broken, just to express their feelings. How is your communication with your loved one? Is it challenging or do you have it on lock?

As human beings, we live in a world where our bad actions, bad behaviour and characters follow us everywhere we go. We learn from our past mistakes and aim to do better. On this episode, Kiki Nembhard and Kevin Nembhard express their independent views on whether people change or simply adjust, to fit in their current situation.