Dear Black Gay Men Podcast

I used to be drawn to a “project”: men who I dated for their potential.  That was my virgo-ish-ness on full display.  I've unlearned my overthinking, hyper-critical, project seeking mannerisms and replaced them with some more self-actualized behaviors.  But those lessons came from dating men like “Tony”.  Luckily, I caught this lesson before it was too late. ➡️ Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️ Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com

Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: The time I had an entanglement in my front yard. Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: One of my regulars broke his routine and showed me how he really feels about our entanglements. Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: It was an unexpected threeway that turned into a HUGE lesson. Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: This entanglement left me drained...and I enjoyed it. Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

Why are open relationships EVERYWHERE. Jai The Gentleman got a DM from a viewer after his interview on the show about Open Relationships. The guests and the audience agree that poly and non-monogamous guys are everywhere. Why are these relationship types so prevalent and what can singles do about in the dating pool? The Unlikely Throuple DC: https://posh.vip/e/the-unlikely-throuple-dc-2 For more information on HIV Vaccine Trials Network: https://www.helpendhiv.org ➡️ Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️ Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com

Jai The Gentleman posted this reel about dating trans men and the part that got the most commentary was when I said “f*ck people not parts”. As much as I know this applies to dating people of trans experience, I think the rest of Black gay culture still can use the memo. This is how Jai The Gentleman learned about the fetishization of men in Black gay culture, and what the culture must do about it. The Unlikely Throuple DC: https://posh.vip/e/the-unlikely-throuple-dc-2 For more information on HIV Vaccine Trials Network: https://www.helpendhiv.org ➡️ Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️ Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com

Jai The Gentleman posted this reel about dating trans men and the part that got the most commentary was when I said “f*ck people not parts”.  As much as I know this applies to dating people of trans experience, I think the rest of Black gay culture still can use the memo. This is how Jai The Gentleman learned about the fetishization of men in Black gay culture, and what the culture must do about it. ➡️ Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️ Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com

This epsiode Jai The Gentleman does a deep dive into the dating pool: why can't we find a man. Team DBGM gets emails, DMs, mentions/tags from listeners wondering why the dating pool hasn't yielded a relationship. Jai is going through some similar woes, but has finally uncovered that it might not be the dating pool; it's actuall him. New uploads TUESDAYS, WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAYS Support the Channel: https://bit.ly/43lQ2N9 Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 ➡️Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com

This episode Jai The Gentleman dives deep into a challenge a lot of Black gay men (and people) in the dating pool deal with: why can't he just do what I want him to? Jai unpacks how a celebration for a friend's new job turned into an internal dialogue that, he says, has held him back from a relationship. New uploads TUESDAYS, WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAYS Support the Channel: https://bit.ly/43lQ2N9 Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 ➡️Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com

In this episode, Jai The Gentleman discusses a recent break-up he went through. The topic came up on a previous episode of Dear Black Gay Men where Jai talked through sexual incompatibility. Today, Jai goes a little deeper on some lessons that he uncovered after a couple months distance. The big question is, should Jai go back. Screenshot this episode, share it to your IG and let us know what you think. New uploads TUESDAYS, WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAYS Support the Channel: https://bit.ly/43lQ2N9 Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 ➡️Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com

Judge me later, but I was at a sex club the other week. Guy walks up to me and said the weirdest things in an effort to avoid saying what he actually wanted to share. New uploads Tuesdays, Wednesdays & Thursdays on YouTube: youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen Support the Channel: https://bit.ly/43lQ2N9 Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 ➡️ Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️ Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com

Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: The guy at the gym and why he could never Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: Why I need a man, and exactly what kind of man he needs to be. Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: Why "wyd" is never wyd. Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: How I stumbled into interviewing my #1 dream guest and why my vision just got a whole lot bigger. Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: The "what's your type" question and why a date was so surprised by my answer. Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: How I gave two dudes d*ck they didn't deserve and taught me a very valuable lesson about dating. Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: This virgin who slid in my DMs, why that would have never worked, and the root of what's killing our dating lives. Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: Why the dating pool is trash and what exactly you can do about it. Conversation with Dwayne: https://youtube.com/live/hR-O0g_1nyc?feature=share Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: How I stood a guy up twice and why we don't put enough effort into finding value in dating. Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: What does it mean to be "low key" and why the gworls secretly hate being bottoms. HIV Vaccine Trials Network: helpendhiv.org Strong Bottoms: https://youtube.com/live/1N1izj92yC4?feature=share Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

When's the last time you listened to the music they were playing during an entanglement? It's trying to tell you something. Merch: dearblackgaymen.shop YouTube: youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen Support: patreon.com/dearblackgaymen

Question for the comments: do you wait to have sex or let it happen whenever the vibe is right Screenshot this episode. Tag @DearBlackGayMen in your story. Watch on YT: https://youtu.be/tXwT3Am06DM New uploads WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAYS Support the Channel: https://bit.ly/43lQ2N9 Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 ➡️ Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️ Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com

Question for the comments: how do you define "submissive"? DBGM Live in Atlanta: https://posh.vip/e/dgbm-live-podcast-atl Shop DBGM Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Connect with Jai The Gentleman: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman

Question for the comments: what's your most dominant trait? Screenshot this episode, add it to your story and tag me in your answer. DBGM LIVE in Atlanta: dearblackgaymen.com/events/atlanta DBGM Merch: dearblackgaymen.com Connect with Jai: instagram.com/jaithegentleman Connect with Dear Black Gay Men: instagram.com/DearBlackGayMen

Question for the comments: what's the last dating mistake you learned from? Shop: https://dearblackgaymen.com/ Tickets: https//dearblackgaymen.com/events/atlanta

Question for the comments: how long do you wait for s*x? Single Series Pt. 1: https://youtu.be/7SgeWwDGScQ Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.com Support the Channel: https://bit.ly/3OysErB Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 ➡️ Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/... ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com

Question for the comments: how long have you been single? dearblackgaymen.substack.com dearblackgaymen.com

Question for the comments: who was the last person you had to say the words "I'm gay" to? Screenshot the episode, tag me in your story @JaiTheGentleman on IG with your response ➡️ Shop Dear Black Gay Men merch: dearblackgaymen.com ➡️ Become an Insider: http://www.dearblackgaymen/subscribe ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://substack.dearblackgaymen.com

Thank GOD I didn't f*ck this man... ➡️ Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com

While I was cruising on the apps one day, this guy's profile really rubbed me the wrong way. I realized that I don't like condoms, but not for the reason you'd think. This episode is dedicated to overcoming condoms so we can get free. Condoms: Explained on Dear Black Gay Men LIVE Follow @JaiTheGentleman on IG, @DearBlackGayMen on IG. Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men on YouTube

It's been a while since I've uploaded to this platform and explanations are in order. I did take a little while to sort through some personal things. Nothing major, but this episode is dedicated to one of the big lessons that I uncovered during my time away from the mic. Follow @JaiTheGentleman on IG, @dearblackgaymen on IG. Tune in to the live show every Thursday at 8pm Eastern on YouTube

Noah's Arc was mym 2005 dating goals before dating goals were even a thing. I remember going to Best Buy to buy the box set so I could dream about outing a piece of trade and living happily ever after. Now, nearly 20 years later, I can watch Noah's Arc with a different set of dating eyes. I can see where they went wrong, what dating lessons should I have left on TV, and which ones can I learn from this fictitious love story and apply to my very real dating life. Join this channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCATtcqkKs0IdiFN5-Ye4drw/join

This one is pretty vulnerable for me, but I'll admit it boldly: I'm a gaslighter. My last relationship had to end because I did some dirty stuff while we were together. Ralph Pittman is the human gaslight and I only know that because the way he messed up Drew is exactly how I acted in my last serious dating situation. But so many of our listeners/viewers are still up-in-the-air about what gaslighting is and how to spot it. So this video is dedicated to uncovering gaslighting and how we do it EVERY DAY in life, in friendships, and in dating. ➡️ Become an Insider: http://www.dearblackgaymen/subscribe ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://www.dearblackgaymen.com/weekly

Sl*t shaming aside, Ali Adamos is good at doing many things. He can get countless men to give him exactly what he wants---usually exactly HOW he wants it. Isn't that our dating dream? Getting a guy to date us, be with us, love us HOW we want to be loved? After I

 @OpenRelationshipPodcast  is one of our faves here on the channel. The hosts give different perspectives on gay dating, Black LGBTQ social issues and everything A to Z about Black gay culture. But this particular story rubbed me the wrong way and I think Rodney may have it wrong. I am not trans, nor am I a parent, so most may take my perspectives with a grain of salt, but Neyo story has us questioning everything about communication, parenting, and what we would do if our future child comes to us questioning their gender identity. #queer #neyo #transphobia ➡️ Become an Insider: http://www.dearblackgaymen/subscribe ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://www.dearblackgaymen.com/weekly

I know it's Leo season, but this lesson in Gemini dating hit me so hard this week. I went on a date, asked the guy “what are you looking for?' Of course, in true gay fashion, he responded “I'm not really looking.” For some reason, we'll go looking for EVERYTHING in the world except a date. We'll look for money, cars, degrees, jobs, customers, but love is something we expect to fall in our lap. This episode is dedicated to righting a wrong that has Black gay culture in a chokehold. Hopefully this week's doneness reminder will leave you feeling a little more courageous as you go through the emotional ups and downs along your journey to happiness. GET YOUR TICKETS TO THE LIVE SHOW: http://www.dearblackgaymen.com/events/dc “Single is Your Super Power” by Case Kenny: https://amzn.to/3DkqlSs Join the Afterparty on Patreon: https://bit.ly/3OysErB  ➡️ Become an Insider: http://www.dearblackgaymen/subscribe ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://www.dearblackgaymen.com/weekly

 @BishopOCAllen  renewed his vows to his husband of 20 years, Rashad Burgess. Allen, who I call “B”, said he hates folding clothes. To the untrained ear, that sounds like something you discover over a 20 year marriage. But to me, I thought how dope it is that he's self-aware enough to know that about himself and to say it publicly. This episode is dedicated to helping each of us single people grow a level of self-awareness that helps us date better, find better men, and connect with guys more deeply. I'm using one example that we've all seen on the dating apps or in real life, but this one problem in Black gay culture may be able to shed some light on a bigger lesson we can all apply to our dating lives as Black gay men. #datingadvice #relationships #singlelife Special Announcement coming tomorrow: https://youtube.com/live/Y9yLzIEjxaw?feature=share “Single is Your Super Power” by Case Kenny: https://amzn.to/3DkqlSs Special thanks to  @oretteayton5262  and  @phynekat  for the comments and encouragement Join the Afterparty on Patreon: https://bit.ly/3OysErB ➡️ Become an Insider: http://www.dearblackgaymen/subscribe ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://www.dearblackgaymen.com/weekly Welcome to Dear Black Gay Men on YouTube.

Have you ever met a guy, got a number, texted for a while, a couple dates, but just can't make it over the 90-day hump? After so many failed dating attempts, it's easy to think it's either all men...or it's got to be me. This episode of the podcast is here to show us that it's a little of column A, a little of column B. A whole lot of luck and the right kind of work. What kind of work should we be putting into our dating situations? And how to ensure that work pays off? Special thanks to @infiniteimani3534 for the inspo, and comments from  @YzBG  and http://www.instagram.com/alexanderlove_love ➡️ Become an Insider: http://www.dearblackgaymen/subscribe ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://www.dearblackgaymen.com/weekly

I don't want to say EVERYONE has cheated, but have a relationship or dating commitment violated is an experience way too many gay guys have in common. I'm a cheater. I had a wonderful relationship that fell apart because of a lot of issues I brought into the dating situation. Now that I've worked through my ish (I am a single guru after all - https://youtu.be/sY4ubstbX-c) and I've dealt with my issues (as best I can), I'm sharing some of the lessons I've learned on why we cheat and how to avoid the pitfalls that lead us to cheat in the first place. ➡️ Become an Insider: http://www.dearblackgaymen/subscribe ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://www.dearblackgaymen.com/weekly

New uploads WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAYS Support the Channel: https://bit.ly/43lQ2N9 Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 I really don't think Black gay men are singling right. When it comes to dating, there is some intention we have to put behind who we allow into our lives. This post is a must see for any Black gay guy who is looking to get back into the dating pool. What should you be looking out for and how can we navigate dating better? “Single is Your Super Power” by Case Kenny: https://amzn.to/3DkqlSs ➡️ Become an Insider: http://www.dearblackgaymen/subscribe ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://www.dearblackgaymen.com/weekly

When's the last time somebody asked you if you're a top or bottom? For me it was a couple days ago just before a first date. He was more interested in my position than he was in the date. Then I got the lesson. ➡️ Become an Insider: http://www.dearblackgaymen/subscribe

Gee Smalls is the Jai-appointed king of nudism in Atlanta. I'm worried about what to wear on an upcoming cabin trip, meanwhile he's naked on the gram. Then I got the lesson. ➡️ Join Dear Black Gay Men Insiders for exclusive content FB Group: https://bit.ly/3wsiWx4

I was traveling for an entanglement--not a date, not a relationship--a purely physical exchange when I got a big lesson about hook-up culture and how it's an analogy for Black gay culture at large. ➡️ Join Dear Black Gay Men Insiders for exclusive content FB Group: https://bit.ly/3wsiWx4

I remember when I used to watch older guys in the club thinking, "where yo man at?" I swore that I'd have me a husband before I end up 40 in the club... ➡️ Join Dear Black Gay Men Insiders for exclusive content FB Group: https://bit.ly/3wsiWx4

We go live Thursdays at 8pm EST! Join the group: https://bit.ly/3wsiWx4 Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 Knowing what we want in a relationship sounds good on its face, but some of us have taken "knowing" to an unhealthy extent. This week's episode of Dear Black Gay Men Podcast is focused on a date I went on with "Victor" and some of the pitfalls that come with being a single man over 30 trying to date in these streets. I learned a valuable lesson that comes up when we think about compromise in dating. #dating #relationshipadvice #singlelife Cast of Love & Us Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLsyEUF8oSDh16JK_AlExsRuNLa44mq2Tu Welcome to Dear Black Gay Men on YouTube.

Talking to a new guy is the part of dating that is the most exciting because you get to figure out the guy and dream about your future together. But with that can come some tense discussions. This week's episode is dedicated to understanding where those arguments come from when you're dating, how to get out of them, and the self-work Black gay guys have to do to avoid them altogether. #dating #relationshipadvice #singlelife Welcome to Dear Black Gay Men on YouTube.

Asking someone on a date seems pretty simple, but so many Black gay guys fail (or suck) at it, even in 2023. In this episode,  @jaithegentleman  gives his short, 3 step process to asking anyone on date and getting them to say yes. If you want to get the date with the guy you've been eyeing across the bar, gym, supermarket, or app, this episode was made specifically for you. #dating #relationshipadvice #singlelife Full episode with  @thegaydatingcoach  : https://youtu.be/7GOut-EOnIo Welcome to Dear Black Gay Men on YouTube.

We go live Thursdays at 9pm EST! Join the group: https://bit.ly/3wsiWx4 Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 The best part about talking to so many gay guys about dating is that I can start to see the patterns. Every time the conversation of prominent interracial couples comes up, I see a patter. I could be biased, but there is an equation that makes interracial dating work for some people. Watch the full episodes: Kinks: https://www.youtube.com/live/24-eHAipiBo?feature=share Body Image: https://youtu.be/3hUbRDbrC74 Dating: https://www.youtube.com/live/MI_boZ_nwsA?feature=share I'm looking back on how far we've come on Dear Black Gay Men Live. I haven't been the most dedicated to much in my career, but conversations about dating, s*x, gay culture, and single life thrill me so much that they outweigh all the mundane tasks. So this look back is one part unpacking aha moments, and one part taking pride in the conversations we've had. Thanks for rocking with me. --JTG #sexadvice #blackgaymen #gayandproud Welcome to Dear Black Gay Men on YouTube.

This episode was therapy for me. It took actual therapy, a failed Jack'd encounter, and some introspection for me to see one of my deepest issues in dating. Enjoy. New uploads THURSDAYS Join the group: https://bit.ly/3wsiWx4 Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 ➡️ Join Dear Black Gay Men Insiders for exclusive content FB Group: https://bit.ly/3wsiWx4