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Latest podcast episodes about shaming

The CyberWire
Cybercrime and the criminal-to-criminal markets that support it during the holiday shopping season. Shaming as a pressure tactic. Living large, even when living on the lam.

The CyberWire

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2021 25:45


Today, it's all crime all the time. Cybercrime, the C2C underground market, and the expansive holiday shopping season. Rebranding in gangland. How crooks exclude targets on the basis of language or geolocation. Shaming as a criminal pressure tactic. Bad apps in the Play Store. Andrea Little Limbago looks at internet blackouts. Carole Theriault wonders what the Metaverse really means. And living large while living on the lam. For links to all of today's stories check out our CyberWire daily news briefing: https://www.thecyberwire.com/newsletters/daily-briefing/10/228

Poddin' Next Door
E99 - "Service Worker"

Poddin' Next Door

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2021 115:04


On this episode: The ”Poddin' Next Door" crew opens with some Rotten Tomatoes vibes. The guys try out a different location and get right to it. The guys play some slappers, Black Friday shopping, Thanksgiving meals, King Richard review, Pushing your kids, not showering during the winter, wet strip clubs, Ahmaud Arbery Verdict, Wagyu steak, Slim Thick Rachel, and Washer Machine Mania. Listen on most Digital Streaming Platforms. Apple, Amazon, Spotify, Google…… Follow + Subscribe: Instagram - @poddinnextdoor YouTube - Poddin' Next Door

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How To Be A Better Person with Kate Hanley
The Problems with Wellness, #2: It's Shaming EP:588

How To Be A Better Person with Kate Hanley

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2021 10:29


The issue with wellness that I'm taking aim at today is that it can be awfully shaming--whether that judgment is coming from your doctor, an article or podcast or book, a friend or loved one, or even yourself. Let's unpack this. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Read It On Reddit's Podcast
270 - Wedding Shaming

Read It On Reddit's Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2021 82:25


2021 SECRET SANTA: https://forms.gle/ZuistcBtf2HnwAq78 Sign ups close December 9th 11:59PM AEDT.   RED BUBBLE STORE: https://rdbl.co/2BXMEkq DISCORD: https://discord.com/invite/uWZkb2a   Read It On Reddit: - Wedding Shaming   Ask Reddit: - Prove Your Dick Is Big - Steal Skills or Talents   Today I Advice: - Girlfriend Stole From Me - Balloon Priest (Help The Truckers)   Shower Thoughts: - Human Mating Rituals - Your Pets Sleep > Your Sleep   Podnapping - Marvel Movie Quiz   AMA - readitpodcast@gmail.com - Ask Us Anything!   LET YOUR GUARD DOWN!

The3Muslims
E99 | BEWARE of These 10 SHAMING TACTICS | T3M

The3Muslims

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2021 71:59


Youtube/Patreon: The3Muslims Instagram: @the3muslims

50% Facts
Shaming: Fit, Fat and all the other kinds | Topic Thunder Mini-episode

50% Facts

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2021 11:37


Does shaming actually motivate anyone? Why shame someone else anyway? And they really just shaming themselves? We talk through our thoughts. Dean Saddoris of Caffeine & Kilos joined us in this discussion. You can find Dean on IG @deansaddoris.ck and at caffeineandkilos.com, along with our gym manager, Kyle Castro @kyle.castroo. You can watch the documentary for free on YouTube. Check out our gym (Third Street Barbell) at ThirdStreetBarbell.com and subscribe for updates about our apparel line at 3sb.co! Local memberships and international fresh fits! Get early access to our NEXT DROP! Hosted by Mike Farr (@silentmikke) and Jim McDonald (@thejimmcd). Produced by Jim McDonald Production assistance by Sam McDonald. Theme by Aaron Moore. Branding by Joseph Manzo (@jmanzo523)

Narcissistic Abuse Recovery with Angie Atkinson
Narcissistic Abuse Victim Blaming, Shaming? 1 Thing

Narcissistic Abuse Recovery with Angie Atkinson

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2021 0:10


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Make It Simple
How to Handle Food Shaming Comments During the Holidays

Make It Simple

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2021 25:16


During the holidays we are often navigating the balance between indulging in our holiday favorites as well as our personal health journeys. Andrea brings an important topic to light that has become culturally acceptable but can often cause harm to the people around us. This involves commenting on another persons food, plate, or diet. Andrea provides tips on how to respond to others and encourages inward reflection of our own actions. Take the time to tune in to this needed and relevant episode as we enter into the holiday season. Make it Simple is sponsored by Talk SpaceVisit www.talkspace.com to get $100 off using code MAKEITSIMPLEVisit Andrea's Websitewww.deliciouslyfitnhealthy.comProduced by Light On Creative, LLC

Average Jerks
Episode 40: Parent Shaming

Average Jerks

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2021 27:50


Our first 30 Minute Banger. Talking about parents shaming and getting butt hurt about being corrected.

The Alan Cox Show
Beary Santora/ Attell Me A Story/ Business In Front/ Pepto Baseball/ D.O.B./ Christopher Titus/ Casinovision/ Slot Shaming/ Cash Tango

The Alan Cox Show

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2021 173:45


Poddin' Next Door
E98 - "Crazy Man"

Poddin' Next Door

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2021 92:24


On this episode: The ”Poddin' Next Door" crew opens with their usual opening banter and other things. Late upload…

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Single Living
57: Bottom Shaming

Single Living

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2021 46:15


News Not Noise
Sometimes vegan, never shaming with Jessica Seinfeld

News Not Noise

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2021 25:11


Jessica Seinfeld knows you don't want to quit meat cold turkey this Thanksgiving, and she's totally on board with that. Instead, the sometimes vegan wants you to try incorporating more plant-based foods onto your holiday table and into your diet, without any shaming or “shoulds.” She's doing it with her own family four (or if you ask her husband Jerry, three) nights a week. Contrary to popular belief, she says, it's not all or nothing.On this week's episode of the News Not Noise Podcast, the other Jessica tells me all about her favorite vegan recipes in her new cookbook “Vegan, At Times,” what got her started down this path, and why you should give it a shot (if you want to!).Jessica Seinfeld:Instagram: instagram.com/jessseinfeldTwitter: twitter.com/JessSeinfeldWeb: jessicaseinfeld.comYou can follow Jessica Yellin here:Instagram: instagram.com/jessicayellin​Twitter: twitter.com/jessicayellinWebsite: NewsNotNoise.comNewsletter: newsnotnoise.bulletin.comSupport this work:patreon.com/NewsNotNoiseJessica Yellin is the founder of News Not Noise, a channel dedicated to giving you news with real experts and providing information, not a panic attack. Jessica is a veteran of network news, traveling the globe, covering conflict and crisis. A former Chief White House Correspondent for CNN, she reported from around the world and won awards. Now, Yellin uses her voice to break down the news, calmly and clearly for you -- free of punditry, provocation, and yelling.

Embrace Your Real
How to Cope With Food Shaming This Holiday Season

Embrace Your Real

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2021 11:46


The holidays can be a really hard time of year for those of us who struggle with our body image and our relationship with food because for some reason, people like to make comments on our body and the food we eat. Unfortunately, we cannot control what other people say, but we can control what we do, how we respond, and the way we speak to ourselves. That's what I want to dive into today in this episode of Embrace Your Real to help you enjoy the holidays and not allow the comments of others and your own insecurities to take the fun out of the holiday season. Sound good? 

The Weekend University
Diversity without Labels – The Psychology of Shaming and How We Can Do Better – Prof. Irshad Manji

The Weekend University

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2021 105:24


Get early access to our latest psychology lectures: http://bit.ly/new-talks5 In this one-of-a-kind session, Irshad Manji will take your questions about faltering relationships — in your family, among your friends, with your co-workers, or in society at large — and coach you to repair them by listening to understand and speaking to be understood. What does this have to do with diversity? Everything. Honest diversity isn't about labeling people according to race, gender, religion, sexuality, disability, or any other group marker. Instead, true diversity is about communicating with one another so that different points of view are heard, acknowledged, and appreciated, despite being disagreed with. Welcome to Irshad's no-shaming technique of creating unity without uniformity. Irshad will begin the session with an overview of the Moral Courage Method, a simple, science-backed approach to dealing with any polarized situation. She will then invite participants to put her teachings to the test. They will pose surprise questions about the divisions that are rocking their own lives. Irshad will mentor them to build and exercise their moral courage, all the while encouraging every participant (not just those asking the questions) to voice their doubts, skepticism, and challenges to her teachings. In that way, Irshad will also role-model how to have constructive conversations in the midst of disagreements. This session will wrap up with concrete tools and tips for starting and sustaining difficult dialogues. The bottom line? Any diversity that does not make peace with the existence of different opinions is merely a cosmetic diversity; one that is fixated on skin color and other superficialities. By contrast, the Moral Courage Method shows how we can transcend labels to humanize ourselves and each other, cultivating common ground even when we stand our ground. At Irshad's request, all proceeds from this session went to the Maggie Fleming Animal Hospice in Scotland. --- The recipient of Oprah Winfrey's first annual “Chutzpah Award” for boldness, Irshad Manji inspires and equips people to have honest, non-judgemental conversations about issues that polarize. Although she is an internationally bestselling author, her books are banned in many countries — which has intrigued a new generation to learn her techniques for effective communication. Irshad's latest book, Don't Label Me, is a primer on how to do diversity without inflaming the culture wars. (Fun fact: The comedian Chris Rock labels it “genius.”) A professor of leadership at New York University for many years, Irshad is now the founder of Moral Courage College. She also teaches moral courage with Oxford University's Initiative for Global Ethics and Human Rights. --- Links: - Get our latest psychology lectures emailed to your inbox: http://bit.ly/new-talks - Check out our next event: http://theweekenduniversity.com/events/ - Professor Irshad's website: https://irshadmanji.com/ - Professor Irshad's books: https://amzn.to/35s34xM

A Tale of Two Hygienists Podcast
TIPisode Patient Shaming Doesn't Work, But This Does!

A Tale of Two Hygienists Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2021 9:58


This TIPisode is brought to you by GC America! Michelle is joined by Dr. Brian Novy to talk about changing the conversations you are having with your patients and how disclosing can assist those conversations!    Episode Highlights:  No patient shaming Disclosing and pose the question Tri Plaque ID Gel MI Paste products   Quotes:    “You have no idea how different my practice is from that model of shaming. Shaming doesn't work.”    “Let's be honest, the mouth is supposed to have plaque.”    “We can encourage behavior change with educational components.”    “When someone is blaming you, you immediately want to stop listening to that individual.”   “Ask permission to share with your patients.”   “Disclose one or two teeth so they can see the difference.”    “These products work on the plaque that is in the mouth.”    “When you don't remove everything it isn't the end of the world because you are using a product that will neutralize what is left behind, it is a safety net.”    “If we take away anything from the pandemic, it is that we can take the time to provide appropriate healthcare. Do it well, and do it right.”    Links  GC Tri Plaque ID Gel - Dental Plaque Disclosing Gel    https://www.gcamerica.com/products/preventive/MI_Paste_Plus/index.php      http://www.gcamerica.com/ce/alleducation.php     http://www.gcamerica.com

Armstrong & Getty One More Thing
What Type of Shaming Is Necessary?

Armstrong & Getty One More Thing

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2021 13:50


Two topics on this one, including yet another crappy stadium naming right announcement and the current sorry-sad state of Jack's physical wellbeing. FAT! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com

The Howie Carr Radio Network
RINO Shaming - 11.16.21 Hour 1

The Howie Carr Radio Network

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2021 37:26


Holly this hour talks about Chris Christie about his outrageous interview concerning the cost of food and some good news liquor is available again on flights.

Poddin' Next Door
E97 - "24andMe"

Poddin' Next Door

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2021 99:48


On this episode: The ”Poddin' Next Door" crew opens with their usual opening banter, Dave doing country things, Taylor & Jake, 23andMe custom drugs, NASCAR update, Browns being White, Kyle case update, NRA hate, and Rapid Fire with Dave Listen on most Digital Streaming Platforms. Apple, Amazon, Spotify, Google…… Follow + Subscribe: Instagram - @poddinnextdoor YouTube - Poddin' Next Door

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Radio Mamon ( Podcast en Español )
#453 Dog whisper Mexicano, Mundo virtual de Medaverse, Robot Shaming, Travis Scott, Mexico vs USA

Radio Mamon ( Podcast en Español )

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2021 65:38


En este episodio hablamos de el control que Kuanik tiene con los perros. Facebook y su mundo de medaverse. Nos acabarán los robots ? La tragedia del concierto de Travis Scott. Quien Gana Mexico vs Estados Unidos ? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RadioMamon/support

No Smut Shaming
Ep 21: No Smut Shaming Awards Episode

No Smut Shaming

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2021 38:58


Season 2 is a Wrap! Thank you so much for tuning in and laughing with us this season.  All the support and encouragement we receive means the world to us.  We know there are so many podcasts to choose from, so THANK YOU for making us one of them.  Categories discussed in this weeks episode: Favorite HeroineSexiest HeroFavorite CoupleHottest Sex SceneGut Punch BreakHottest CoverFeel Good BookSould be a MovieMost UnrealisticMost Surprising ReadFunniest ReadTune in to hear who the winners are!**We will be taking a break for the holidays, but check our Instagram @nosmutshaming for Season 3 news and release date.  We hope you have a happy holiday and new year! See you soon!**

SportingDog Adventures PodCast
Purebred Shaming, To Treat or Not To Treat and Hoot, Shoot and Shoot Some More

SportingDog Adventures PodCast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2021 17:37


Join Jeff of Soggy Acres Retrievers on this episode as we talk about the shaming of purebred dog owners, whether to use treats in training and how our family intends to shoot way more in the future. #dog #dogs #puppy #puppies #dogtraining #training #duck #hunting #duckhunitng #goosehunting #goose #duckcalling #goosecalling #pheasant #pheasanthunting #upland #waterfowl #labrador #retriever #labradorretriever #gundog #huntingdog #soggy #acres #retrievers #soggyacresretrievers #jefffuller --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sportingdog/support

Coffee and Chat with Whitney B
#89 - One Reason Your Content Isn't Landing (Niche Shaming)

Coffee and Chat with Whitney B

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2021 24:52


There is one huge reason your content isn't landing. Well, there's a few reasons it may not be landing but the reason im talking about today is a HUGE one that shows up for most of my clients at some point. Tune in and check-in with your own content to see if this culprit is keeping your content from landing with your audience.

Poddin' Next Door
E96 - "Astroworld Mijo"

Poddin' Next Door

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2021 101:27


On this episode: The ”Poddin' Next Door" crew opens with their usual opening banter, and hit on the Astroworld Tragedy. Listen on most Digital Streaming Platforms. Apple, Amazon, Spotify, Google…… Follow + Subscribe: Instagram - @poddinnextdoor YouTube - Poddin' Next Door

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CERTIFIED MAMA'S BOY with Steve Kramer
EP. 391: Sneeze Shaming

CERTIFIED MAMA'S BOY with Steve Kramer

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2021 38:20


Certified Mama's Boy Merch is NOW AVAILABLE! Shop now Become a Certified Fan! Help support the podcast! Vote for “Certified Mama's Boy” in the Podcast Magazine Hot 50 Listen to my other podcast, “Kramer and Jess Uncensored”! Refer Certified Mama's Boy for prizes!   On Today's Show: What age difference freaks you out in a relationship? Your thoughts are bullsh*t ASK MY MOM: Sneeze Shaming Today's Quote: “Do things for people not because of who they are or what they do in return, but because of who you are.” – Harold S. Kushner Our Amazing Partners: CONNECT WITH US: Instagram Facebook Love You Forever! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

San Francisco Damn Podcast with Dee Dee Lefrak
Lefrak Report: San Francisco is impervious to international shaming!!

San Francisco Damn Podcast with Dee Dee Lefrak

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2021 6:11


Once again the Daily Mail demystifies San Francisco shenanigans guess who they're talking about this time? Willow Alley!! Listeners of this platform know I started out the gate advocating for Willow Alley but I dropped that cape!! Check out this new piece about SF from the Daily Mail. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10175277/Outraged-residents-San-Francisco-luxury-condos-hit-huge-tent-city-arises-building.html

Taxes for the Masses
On Corporate Tax Shaming

Taxes for the Masses

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2021 23:00


In this episode, we discuss global efforts to increase public disclosures about corporate tax avoidance in an effort to shame corporations into paying their "fair share."

Are We Live Podcast
"WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SHAMING AND CRITICISM?" (Are We Live Podcast EP. 63)

Are We Live Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2021 42:54


Come join us weekly on www.patreon.com/arewelive

Poddin' Next Door
E95 - "Lets Go Brandon"

Poddin' Next Door

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2021 109:36


On this episode: The ”Poddin' Next Door" crew hits on their usual opening banter and whole lot of other topics. Thanks for your support

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The Modern Therapist's Survival Guide with Curt Widhalm and Katie Vernoy

Therapists Shaming Therapists An interview with Katie Read about therapists shaming each other when they raise their fees or start playing bigger. Curt and Katie talk with Katie about the puritanical culture within the therapist community that leads to group think, public shaming, and milquetoast messaging to mitigate their fear that anything different will be attacked. We look at reasons behind this (jealousy, guilt, shame, and moralism) as well as what therapists can do to step outside of this culture to create more success.   It's time to reimagine therapy and what it means to be a therapist. To support you as a whole person and a therapist, your hosts, Curt Widhalm and Katie Vernoy talk about how to approach the role of therapist in the modern age. Interview with Katie Read, LMFT, Six Figure Flagship Katie takes lessons from her nearly-20 successful years in the field to help clinicians grow...then OUTgrow...their practices. Immediately upon licensure, Katie was made Director of a large Transitional Aged Youth program in Oakland, CA. Later, she was recruited to Direct one of Sacramento's largest Wraparound Programs, and from there she moved into the role of Director of Clinical Supervision, personally supervising 40+ interns towards licensure. Concurrently, Katie had private practices in multiple cities, taught graduate psychology students, and wrote and created therapist training materials. Katie is also a special needs mom and loves helping other moms tune into their own intuition and lead their best-possible lives by taking the sometimes-scary leap into following what's best for them, deep down. She is the creator of: The Clinician to Coach® Academy, The Clini-Coach® Certification, and the Six-Figure Flagship™ Program. She's a little bit obsessed with helping therapists get profitable doing the creative, out-of-the-box, authentic work you're called to do! In this episode we talk about: How therapists are treating each other The concept of trolling, piling on, shame The Article in the Atlantic – New Puritans – and the concept of the illiberal left How identity plays a role and the group dynamics within therapist Facebook groups The shaming related to increasing your fees Katie Read's origin story as an on the street social work The value placed on sacrifice and avoiding guilt for the difference in privilege when working with clients who are impoverished Socially-prescribed perfectionism, self-imposed perfectionism The fine line about what is acceptable to charge or make as a therapist Cancel culture and the lack of allowance for errors Echo chambers, factions, and exclusion The fear of dissenting opinions The low context of the internet paired with the high context nature of a therapist's job Milquetoast messaging to avoid getting attacked Dialing down authenticity to fit into what is acceptable Challenging our financial mindset Cultural and societal factors that frame us as cheap labor The seeming requirement for therapists to suffer in order to understand our clients The reality of therapists as business owners Therapist guilt for “earning money” Feminized professions and the expectation of doing things out the goodness of our hearts Rapidly changing social rules versus entrenchment in what has been How this identity shift is spilling over into real life Jealousy, guilt, and shame, and moralism The best therapists have the worst impostor syndrome How to navigate when you're a therapist going against the grain The importance of every therapist doing their own money mindset work Our Generous Sponsor: Trauma Therapist Network Trauma is highly prevalent in mental health client populations and people are looking for therapists with specialized training and experience in trauma, but they often don't know where to start. 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All members are invited to attend community meetings to connect, consult and network with colleagues around the country. Join our growing community of trauma therapists and get 20% off your first month using the promo code:  MTSG20 at www.traumatherapistnetwork.com.   Resources mentioned: We've pulled together resources mentioned in this episode and put together some handy-dandy links. Please note that some of the links below may be affiliate links, so if you purchase after clicking below, we may get a little bit of cash in our pockets. We thank you in advance! Katie Read's program: Six Figure Flagship Article in the Atlantic – The New Puritans by Anne Applebaum   Relevant Episodes: Therapist Haters and Trolls Advocacy in the Wake of Looming Mental Healthcare Workforce Shortages In it for the Money? Overcoming Your Poverty Mindset (with Tiffany McLain) Not Your Typical Psychotherapist (with Ernesto Segismundo) How to Overcome Impostor Syndrome to leave your Agency Job (with Patrick Casale)   Connect with us! Our Facebook Group – The Modern Therapists Group  Our consultation services: The Fifty-Minute Hour Who we are: Curt Widhalm is in private practice in the Los Angeles area. He is the cofounder of the Therapy Reimagined conference, an Adjunct Professor at Pepperdine University and CSUN, a former Subject Matter Expert for the California Board of Behavioral Sciences, former CFO of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists, and a loving husband and father. He is 1/2 great person, 1/2 provocateur, and 1/2 geek, in that order. He dabbles in the dark art of making "dad jokes" and usually has a half-empty cup of coffee somewhere nearby. Learn more at: www.curtwidhalm.com Katie Vernoy is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, coach, and consultant supporting leaders, visionaries, executives, and helping professionals to create sustainable careers. Katie, with Curt, has developed workshops and a conference, Therapy Reimagined, to support therapists navigating through the modern challenges of this profession. Katie is also a former President of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists. In her spare time, Katie is secretly siphoning off Curt's youthful energy, so that she can take over the world. Learn more at: www.katievernoy.com A Quick Note: Our opinions are our own. We are only speaking for ourselves – except when we speak for each other, or over each other. We're working on it. Our guests are also only speaking for themselves and have their own opinions. We aren't trying to take their voice, and no one speaks for us either. Mostly because they don't want to, but hey.   Stay in Touch: www.mtsgpodcast.com www.therapyreimagined.com Our Facebook Group – The Modern Therapist's Group https://www.facebook.com/therapyreimagined/ https://twitter.com/therapymovement https://www.instagram.com/therapyreimagined/   Credits: Voice Over by DW McCann https://www.facebook.com/McCannDW/ Music by Crystal Grooms Mangano http://www.crystalmangano.com/   Transcript (Autogenerated) Curt Widhalm  00:00 This episode is sponsored by Trauma Therapist Network.   Katie Vernoy  00:04 Trauma therapist network is a new resource for anyone who wants to learn about trauma and how it shows up in our lives. This new site has articles, resources and podcasts for learning about trauma and its effects, as well as a directory exclusively for trauma therapists to let people know how they work, and what they specialize in so potential clients can find them. Visit trauma therapist network.com To learn more,   Curt Widhalm  00:27 Listen at the end of the episode for more about the trauma therapist network.   Announcer  00:31 You're listening to the modern therapist Survival Guide, where therapists live, breed and practice as human beings to support you as a whole person and a therapist. Here are your hosts, Kurt Wilhelm and Katie Vernoy.   Curt Widhalm  00:47 Welcome back modern therapists, this is modern therapist Survival Guide. I'm Curt Widhalm with Katie Vernoy. BLEEP you! This is the podcast where we talk about all things therapists, therapy related, therapist communities. And we are talking about the ways that we treat each other and a lot of this happens in the online groups. You know who you are. And   Katie Read  01:20 But do they?   Curt Widhalm  01:22 I think they do. Well, helping us here in this conversation today coming back to the show. Our good friend Katie Read. So before we before we start shaming the shamers.   Katie Vernoy  01:37 For shame!   Curt Widhalm  01:39 Tell us a little bit about yourself and what you're bringing into the world.   Katie Read  01:44 Hi, I'm Katie Read. Thank you for having me back. I missed you guys. We haven't been around here for a while.   Katie Vernoy  01:50 I know!   Katie Read  01:51 Good to be back. Although I did get to see you in person at the conference recently, which was amazing. So anyway, you can find me over at six figure flagship dot com. I do. One of the things that plenty of therapists like to shame, which is encouraging therapists who are creative who had that little spark that maybe someday they want to outgrow the therapist office, I... whispering under my hand here, I help them do that. Lest all the shamers jumped out at us. That's what I do. But I have like you been very active in therapists groups over the last couple years, and been often just shocked by the level of shaming that can happen in these groups. And it's so funny, I don't know about you guys. I've told this to other people, non therapists, like neighbors, friends just being like, Yeah, it's amazing. Those groups, people are astounded to hear that therapists would shame one another like it would never occur to them that therapists would be because they think of us all as being nice and wonderful and accepting and loving and caring and empathic, and all of these things. And I know we all three have had conversations in the background, like why does that fall apart on the internet, and I really do think it's just on the internet. It's not in person. It's just on the internet, but on the internet and therapists group. So not that I have any grand answers for this. But I'm super interested in this conversation today.   Katie Vernoy  03:18 We've talked about this in some ways before, and we'll link to those episodes in the show notes that we've got a therapist, haters and trolls. And there's a couple others, I'll look at them when I'm getting ready to put this together. But to me, I think the biggest thing that I see that that has always been shocking to me is the the piling on, that happens at someone put something out there, it becomes given that that is wrong and bad. And somebody has an opinion that this is wrong and bad. And then there's the defenders, but then there are the piler on-ers, is that is that a word? The people that then cosign on this negative information. And then all of a sudden, it's like the snowball effect. And there's like, hundreds of comments, and you are horrible and all of this stuff. And I think that there is an element of this that I think we do want to call people out when they're doing things that are harmful. I think the the criteria for what is harmful sometimes feels a little bit wiggly to me   Curt Widhalm  04:26 I kind of started looking at this more from just kind of a an academic approach. And what sparked this, for me was an article in The Atlantic called the new Puritans by Anne Applebaum. And it's an incredible article, we'll link to it in the show notes. But it starts to talk about the illiberal left, which many therapists politically identify in kind of this political compass of the left side. And what happens in echo chambers like there pice groups is that it becomes many people coming with a desire for positive social change and social mores are changing that. We've seen this happen not only in society, but in our field over the last 20 years. But what happens seemingly is, we're developing this this collective identity in these groups that becomes part of our own identities and seeing other people acting even slightly different than how we would act ends up becoming almost there's harm to our own self identity that needs to be processed and spoken out against when it comes to things like, hey, I want to raise my fees on my clients by $5 per session.   Katie Read  05:51 I find this one absolutely fascinating because I, I don't think I've ever seen a post go by in a group where a therapist has said, Hey, I'm thinking about raising my fees, and have not gotten at least some very heavy negativity thrown their way. Which is so fascinating to me. Because if you step back and you look at any career on Earth, we assume about every human being in the world, that you will always be on a quest to kind of step up to the next level in your career step up to the next level in your income. This is understood if anyone tells you they've gotten a raise, they've gotten a promotion, you say congrats, that's great. When therapists who are self employed, who have only themselves to answer to they are their own bosses, and when they say it's time for my yearly raise, and I have earned my yearly raise this year, and they attempt to give it to themselves, what do the therapist communities often do? Jump in with really crazy stuff really crazy? Oh, I don't know, I didn't get into this career to make money. I couldn't imagine putting my clients under that kind of strange, just really, really deeply shaming words coming at them. And I find it fascinating. You know, and I'm not exactly sure where it comes from. But it's interesting, because in prepping for this podcast, I was thinking about my early days as an intern and, and I do wonder, probably, at least for me, this was part of it. I spent many years even before I went to grad school, I was doing social work type roles in very, very, very impoverished areas. And then during grad school, I was working with foster kids. And then after grad school, I was an on the street social worker in inner city, Oakland, with teenagers and young adults, most of whom were homeless, or they were sex workers or drug addicts, gang members, like Oh, terrible, really difficult lives, right, like really terrible life situations. And I was dead broke, that job paid next to nothing, it was an internship job. And in a way, coming home to my crappy apartment, where people got mugged right outside in broad daylight and eating my ramen noodles, because that was all I could afford. I didn't have to feel so guilty going into work the next day, because my life was certainly better than my clients lives were at that time. But it was still rough, like things were still rough at my end. And I wonder if I remember at the time, I would say to people, I would say, this is the hardest work you can imagine doing. But if you can do it, you just have to do it. Because these people just need the help. And they need the support. And they need people on the street. And I had this very grand idea of what it was to be an on the street social worker doing that kind of work, and, and staying poor for it. And oh, it took me a long, long time to realize that I had to put the air mask on myself first, you know, like on the plane, like it took me a very long time to come to that change. But I wonder if some part of that for a lot of us does start because I think many of us do start in those types of jobs, those types of internships where you're seeing such poverty, you're seeing such difficult lives and you do feel a guilt around that.   Curt Widhalm  08:57 Even in your story here. Part of what I'm hearing is you lead that off with this is unique to therapists. So you're already framing this as part of therapist identity means that you have to do these certain things. Look at the shame that we put on people who go straight from grad school into private practice, like they are bypassing part of that identity. And, you know, the echoes of the criticisms is, well, that's such a privileged place to come from that you didn't have to go through this with all of these other clients. And a big part of that is in this identity becomes this thing called socially prescribed perfectionism that you must do this because what you're doing reflects on me and in combination with socially prescribed perfectionism comes this self imposed perfectionism that I must act this way. Yeah. And if other people whose identities reflects on the same way as mine And that's not how I see myself doing, I have to deal with that internal conflict, and it's much easier to tear you down than it is for me to wrestle with. All right, you do you and I'll do me and we'll both potentially help out the people that we're best suited to help out with.   Katie Read  10:19 That's so interesting. And it's so true. And I wonder. So like, I'm thinking about the people who I did know from grad school who came from different backgrounds who did go straight into private practice and whatnot. And you do wonder, do they feel any of that guilt? Do they carry any of that with them? Does that bounce off of them that they're like, what I was doing exactly what you just said, Curt, like what I was meant to do, I was helping the people I was meant to help. This is where I'm well suited. It's just interesting.   Katie Vernoy  10:45 And it's, it's something where this idea of perfectionism what what resonated for me was this, it's very thinly defined. And not only have I heard the, the negative backlash around charging a high fee, and and I don't know, necessarily that I've seen a lot of the negative feedback with I'm raising my fee by $5 Next year, but it's anybody that has a premium fee gets roasted. And anyone that talks about charging very little or being on insurance panels, also gets roasted, because you're undervaluing the profession, you're, you're making it harder for me to make money. And so there's this really fine line of what's acceptable,   Katie Read  11:27 Acceptable, huh.   Katie Vernoy  11:28 And so this this perfectionism around, I can't, I can't make too much, but I also can't charge too little. It just it feels very crazy making. And I think this, this notion of we're trying to validate our own identity through making everyone else be like us, or like, what the collective has decided is okay, feels kind of scary.   Curt Widhalm  11:57 And the extension of this goes beyond just, you know, the parent comments in some of these, these groups, that there becomes almost this effort to cancel people across multiple posts, that there seems to be so little room for error, and especially in late, like I said, social mores changing of, you know, a lot of the things that I see is, you know, not doing the emotional work or not doing the education work for other therapists who are potentially asking questions around things like critical race theory and involving, you know, wonderment about communities that they might not have experience with that. While there is validity on both sides is I've seen some of this extension go across, you know, bringing up these kinds of arguments across separate posts across separate days, weeks, even months, that his efforts towards this cancel culture esque type thing that serves to only make this problem even worse, by creating even stronger echo chambers of we're only going to listen to people who think exactly like us. And what ends up happening is we get these factions of, you know, well, here's the group of like minded people who sit over here. And here's the group of like minded people who sit over here, and here's the people who are okay with microwaving fish in the office, and they're okay in their own corner. But then it just makes it to where it's uninviting for anybody to have any kind of a dissenting opinion. Because and this is particular to the internet groups that you brought up. Here at the beginning, Katie, internet culture is very, very low context. And therapists are very, very high context people. This is a sociological phenomenon, that high context is understanding people where they're coming from, you know, we spend years studying how to get the high context of our clients. And we're used to communicating with people in this very, very high context sort of way. And then you get like one paragraph on a Facebook post to be able to try and explain something to somebody else. And it's just this very, really low context like fast moving group of people who kind of opt in and opt out but aren't consistently there. That makes it really enticing to pick on well, you're missing all of these high context things that just it's critical, and it's something that because of internet culture, therapists aren't used to having to receive information in that low context sort of way in embracing how we communicate online. Mind. In other words, we think that we're really smart in some areas of our life, and therefore all areas of our life should be really smart. But the internet is not that place.   Katie Read  15:11 And the internet dumbs us down. Well, it's interesting. And a moment ago, I just lost my train of thought you had said something a moment ago that   Curt Widhalm  15:18 I do that to people.   Katie Vernoy  15:20 Just keep talking, it's   Katie Read  15:22 10 minutes back. There was something I just lost it   Katie Vernoy  15:27 Well, keep thinking because I had something you know, a few minutes back when you were talking about your, your experience as kind of an on the on the streets, social worker and having to overcome that self imposed identity around if I am not so privileged, I don't feel guilty going to work. How did you work to overcome that? Because I think we're looking at being shamed for it. And and you did it within that culture, like I know, that I would imagine you have probably been shamed for for what you do, as you know, a six figure flagship even having that is so money title. So right, having the right so and so actually, how do you how have you gotten through it, I guess.   Katie Read  16:12 Yeah. And I can tell my story, but it's interesting, because you just reminded me of what Curt had said that I had wanted to comment on. Because it's all related. You had to Curt the end. And even Katie had said previously, there's this very narrow band of what kind of therapists are willing to accept as appropriate. And because the echo chambers are loud, and because the pile on culture is intense, within therapists groups, what happens is people are terrified to speak. And so we end up with very very milquetoast messaging. That doesn't challenge that doesn't potentially disagree, we end up with people who only want a message in ways that they will not be attacked for because as we all know, it's very painful and scary. If someone's coming at you online, some stranger online and other people are piling on and everyone would love to avoid ever having that situation. So we dial down what is true, what is authentic, what is important, we dial it down into what we hope will fit this narrow little brass band of appropriateness. And it's interesting like us, for me, it took me years and years. I mean, I eventually went from we eventually moved my husband and I to a different town, I opened up a small private practice. And it's funny, I was one of those therapists, and I was in California, where therapy rates are high. But I was the person where I was charging $90 an hour. And I was the person who set it like this, when a new client came in or called me and said, What's your fee? I went? Well, it's 90. But I can slide I can slide. What do you need, I mean, I can do whatever you need, I can really I get whatever you need, whatever you need, like that was me all the time. Because again, I was still carrying this guilt, about even charging that much and feeling like well, I couldn't even afford to go see me for therapy. So how can I think somebody else's, I was very much in my clients pockets. And what was really interesting was, I had been in this office for a while, you know, I rented my time other people came in and out. And there were several interns in the office, all supervised by this one supervisor. And I was speaking with one of the interns when we were crossing paths one day, and at this point, I had been a licensed therapist. For years, I had worked my way through community mental health up to being a program director, I had taught grad school, I had done all these things. And I was still charging this low rate because of my own internal money issues. And this intern, I don't know how we got on the subject. But she said, Oh, yeah, our supervisor now she was still in grad school. There's a person in her first year of grad school, an intern seeing clients. And she said, Well, our supervisor won't let us start any lower than 125 as our hourly rate, we're not allowed to slide under that they were private pay 125 for the interns. And my mind was blown. That here I was with years of experience behind me years of training behind me. And I it really in that moment hit me I was like I am doing this wrong. I am absolutely doing this wrong. And I need to start working on this. And some of it was working on my money mindset, honestly, for me, doing what I eventually did and wanting to outgrow the office that was motivated by different things like we moved states and then I wasn't licensed for a year while I went through the licensure process in a new state. So my path out of the office and outgrowing the office was sort of organic. It wasn't a pre plan type of thing. It just happened that I moved into coaching and ended up loving it. But within the coaching world, you really really get challenged very quickly on your financial mindset. And you really actually learn very quickly that the norm in the rest of the world is if you bring great value into someone's life, you are well paid for it. And we therapists continually underestimate the great, great, transformative, wildly important value that we bring into people lives. And whether you choose to continue to do it in the context of therapy or to write a book, or to go on a speaking tour to do any of the number of things that therapists can go out in the world, and do, we do by virtue of our passion, our education, all of these things, we bring great value we bring about great transformation in people's lives, and in most of the rest of the world, that would be naturally richly rewarded. But because of sort of the culture, and I honestly think part of it is just the culture of how government even is set up that we need to be able to have cheap labor to go out and work with the people who need help the most. And so many of us, like we said, started off in community mental health in some form, or in schools, which are very underfunded just, we start off as sort of cheap labor. And it's hard to get out of that mindset that we should always remain just cheap labor, or that what we do is not that highly valued in society where, of course, I don't know about you, I remember, every therapist I've had, and I remember them dearly. And they were hugely impactful at those times in my life, and every one of your clients and everybody out there listening. It's the exact same way, you're hugely impactful.   Curt Widhalm  21:14 You know, as I'm listening to this, and going back to that piece by Anne Applebaum, she makes mention of The Scarlet Letter as kind of this this parallel of what's going on with the liberal left. And the thing about this is one of that one of the major themes from the scarlet letter is the the priest who impregnates Hester, I'm forgetting his name right offhand. But he is seen as more virtuous because his sermons have so much empathy, from his own sins that there's almost this parallel what's going on with the groups here that we're seeing of like, we have suffered this injustice. And therefore we're better at what we do in relating to our clients, because we've done this. And especially when it comes to things like privilege and fees in this kind of stuff. It's like, you're, you're not able to relate to your clients as well. Because you haven't done this suffering, and you haven't done this, and therefore, you must suffer in order to be able to be a better therapist.   Katie Read  22:21 Yeah, yeah. Yeah, that's so interesting, isn't it. And so as some of that just coming down, is that just back to that therapist skills, we were talking just today, I had my meeting with my folks in my clinic coach, six figure flagship, and we were talking, there's one therapist, she's putting an unbelievable amount of work into an event that she's producing just probably hundreds of hours of her labor is going into this work. It's a passion project. She's so excited about it. And she came to the group and she said, I'm donating all the proceeds to charity. And I was like,   Katie Vernoy  22:56 Oh, wow.   Katie Read  22:59 And so we really, we took it apart a lot, like we coach through it a lot in the group. And today in our meeting, and I was, like, you know, like part of this here is that we are also business owners. And when you put in hundreds of hours of unpaid labor on something, you actually need to retain at least the majority of your profits, so that you can reinvest them into your own business, so that you can stay afloat, have savings of money for like all the things that we need to do. But really, to me, what I was hearing was therapist skill was I don't want it to look to anyone, like I'm trying to actually make any money. I want it to look like out of the goodness of my heart, I'm putting on this big event for all my fellow therapists to learn and grow. But God forbid someone think I might earn money from doing this. Yeah. And so it's just it was fascinating, because I don't think there's any other profession, where they would even consider for a minute giving every single bit of all this labor, all this unpaid labor straight to charity, without a second thought, maybe with many second thoughts, but feeling like this is what I should do.   Katie Vernoy  24:05 Yeah, yeah, I just I think about teachers, I think about oftentimes nurses, part of it is kind of feminized professions do have this this impact where the majority of the folks in those professions are non male. And so there is an expectation, this is something we should be doing out of the goodness of our hearts. And it seems very mercenary if we would ask for money for it. You know, there are, you know, during the pandemic, these poor teachers, were finally getting recognition for what they actually do for folks' kids. But as soon as you know, even even well into the pandemic I started to get because I work with some teachers. I was started hearing that people were complaining that the teachers weren't doing enough and we're paying their salaries and why aren't they doing enough? And it's like, whoa, you know, or if they go on strike that is just heartless. So it's heartless. And it's kind of like would you work for the salary that they work for? And then we've seen the same with the Kaiser therapists. That was one of the things that happened. We see the same with nurses.   Curt Widhalm  25:11 I mean, our episode, recently where we talked about, you know, let's just throw more Subway sandwiches at therapists,   Katie Vernoy  25:19 workforce shortage at episode that we just put up.   Curt Widhalm  25:21 Yeah, it's just it's throwing more Subway sandwiches at therapists because, you know, how dare you ask for money. And part of this is as a field that our median age is higher than many other fields. And that anytime that we have a field that has rapidly changing social rules to it, it makes it to where, especially with fields that are older, like ours, the entrenchment becomes a lot more rigid. And so I think that that's contributing to part of this, too, is that there's, there's this almost cultural battle that we're facing within our field that is leading to a new identity. And if we're honest about it, we contribute to that a lot here in the podcast, we do call out things that we don't like, including calling out other therapists calling out other therapists. So we do encourage you to let us know your thoughts and feelings on this publicly in any of the therapist groups. But this happens, systemically it happens individually as well. And, you know, I do see this happening outside of the therapist groups, and actually it is spilling over into in real life as well. To hearing this, you know, from some of the practices, hiring people, where I think rightfully, employees entering into the workforce are asking for living wages. And it is a power balance shifts that is leading to things like some of the workforce shortages that we talked about in the other episode.   Katie Read  27:14 Let me ask you, Curt, because as you were talking about sort of the field being a little bit older, in terms of median age and whatnot, I wonder, and I'm curious, just either of your thoughts on this. Do you feel like so let's say you are out there, whatever age you are, really, but you're a therapist, you've kind of become acclimated to the 50k a year therapist average median income, you've kind of surrendered yourself to the fact that you have a very hard job that you can't talk to anyone about, that you are bound by ethics and confidentiality, that you don't get to come home and vent about your day, you have to keep a lot of things bottled up. And at the same time, you know, you're probably worried every month, if you have a $400 car bill this month, it's gonna throw you over the edge, you're not going to have a cushion for that. And then you go into a therapist group, and you see somebody who says, I charge 200 an hour in my area, and I'm doing great and everything's fine. Do you think part of this backlash is just that feeling of threat, that you can't do that or that you haven't chosen that or that you haven't gone to do whatever it is you need to do internally, whatever that sort of money work is that you need to do to actually start charging closer to your worth as an experienced person in the field?   Curt Widhalm  28:30 Absolutely. 100% think that a lot of where we socially prescribe other therapists to be comes from our own anecdotal histories. And our inability is to deal with our own crap when it comes to our relationships to money, our relationships to our professional identities, that and, you know, this even happens in things that I see like in law ethics workshops, that I teach that it's not even just about money thing, but just how much we distance ourselves from other people who make mistakes. You know, if somebody's name shows up in the spider pages, the disciplinary actions, how quickly are to just like, unfriend them or take them off of our LinkedIn connections? Even if it's something that might points closer to us, you know, you see this and things like people who admit to not being caught up on their notes and just kind of the furthering away, you know, these are ethical and legal responsibilities that we have in our profession. And as compassionate people we tend to have very little compassion for the other people in our profession. When they don't do the same kinds of steps that we think that we should be doing or have been doing all along ourselves.   Katie Vernoy  29:52 You're really saying jealousy, guilt and shame.   Curt Widhalm  29:54 Yes!   Katie Vernoy  29:56 Because I think of like the especially I think with the environment around you, Katie, which is like the six figure flagship, it's people outgrowing the office, it's that kind of notion of very successful, you know, I'm going to make a lot of money, I'm going to, I'm going to live a life. And and you don't argue that that comes easily. I saw your post on kind of hustle seasons. And so I appreciate that. But I think that there's this notion that you can work really hard, create something that's more sustainable and make a lot of money. And I think there's a jealousy there, either of the energy that you personally have. I know I'm jealous of your energy. And then there's also the success that people have, I think there's a jealousy there. And so then it's that kind of like, well, I didn't want it anyway, like that. That's wrong, because I don't think I can get it. I'm jealous that you have it. And so I don't really want it. And this, there's all of these moral reasons and moralizing around why I don't want it. I think what you're talking about Curt is kind of this guilt and shame over, I've been doing things wrong. I can't do that, because it goes against these self imposed values and morals that I've put around being a hard worker, that is one of the people and I am not going to I'm not in this for the money. And I'm doing this because it's so valuable. And even thinking about money is so mercenary and wrong. And so there's that guilt and shame of wanting more, but feeling like it goes against either the collective morals or the personal morals. And so to me, it's like if we think about guilt, shame, and jealousy, I mean, the fact that there is so many of those emotions that come out in these public shreddings, in these social media groups or on pages or whatever, like it just it seems strange to me, that therapist would would have those in such huge, huge, impactful ways.   Katie Read  31:54 It's interesting, too, because I was just putting together a workshop where we talked about how typically the best therapists tend to have the worst imposter syndrome. And I think imposter syndrome falls into what you're talking about, and the fact that because we all tend to be pretty intellectual, pretty academic, you know, even those of us who are super heart led, we all still have like our little academic streak. And I think that we all walk around with this belief that if I am not the top researcher in a particular field, I have nothing to say it's very black and white. If I am not the absolute most published person in this particular theory, I should just sit down and shut up, I know nothing, as opposed to being able to see all the gradients, being able to see all of the expertise that everyone has and that you can bring in that could benefit so many more people. If you were brave enough to kind of fight your own imposter syndrome. Stand up, talk about what you know, help even more people that way.   Katie Vernoy  32:55 Yeah.   Katie Read  32:56 But we get very caught in that. Because this will not win a Pulitzer, I might as well not even write it. I might as well not even try it. And I just want what's the point? What's   Katie Vernoy  33:06 and and how dare you, other person that is doing this? How dare you do that? Because I've decided, even though I may have more knowledge than you   Katie Read  33:17 Yes,   Katie Vernoy  33:17 that I'm not good enough to speak on it. So how dare you!   Katie Read  33:20 How dare you? Exactly. Oh, isn't that so true. And I do think this is what we see play out in therapists groups. And I do think it's terribly sad, because at the end of the day, to me, I always think the lay public are the only losers here. Because when you choose to not speak out, when you choose to not share what you know, when you choose to not be open and vulnerable, and who you are, and say, I know I might not be the world renowned expert on XYZ. But let me tell you a little bit about what I do know, because you might think it's interesting. And I think the thing a lot of therapists don't realize because we're sort of taught to write dissertation style for everything is that the average person doesn't want that. They do want the little tidbit. They do want the little micro snippet that you pulled from an interesting article you read that you couldn't get out of your mind yesterday, share that that's what they want to because it'll get into their head too and it'll help them in their life just like it helps you they don't need your full scope dissertation on anything.   Katie Vernoy  34:19 Yeah.   Curt Widhalm  34:20 So is the answer and stop hanging out with other therapists?   Katie Read  34:29 I don't know let's vote should we go around and vote? I you know it's interesting though, you I definitely think it's something that we talk about in our group is that we talked about how when you even when I when I first started doing the most basic stuff, offering like copywriting for therapists offering basic marketing for therapists in this tiny little way like putting a post on Facebook Hey, need help with your copywriting? You know, these tiny little ways? I had rude people I had predicted people I know going well that's never gonna go anywhere. What are you even doing? Why are you doing that? And so I just want all my students like any time, you are going against the grain a little bit breaking the mold a little bit of what it means to be a helping professional, because what I believe at the end of the day is what you call it doesn't matter as much as what you're actually doing. Are you out there helping people in some form? Is your internal calling to be out there helping people in some form? Great, are you doing it? If you are, and if you feel good and authentic, and you know that you are living out your calling that you are truly helping people in some form? Does it matter if you call it therapy today, and maybe tomorrow, it's consulting, and you have consulting clients, and maybe the next day you build an online course where you help people and maybe you go speak at a school the next day, doesn't matter what form it's in, that you're helping people as long as you are authentically helping people what you were called to do, does the name matter? So you can hang out with a therapist like that. Kurt,   Katie Vernoy  36:00 I hear you saying that hanging out with therapists who have that broader perspective that aren't so tied into the Puritan culture is probably helpful for folks that are really coming, that are pushing against the grain in some way. And and I really resonate with that, because I think that's, that's why we found each other and   Katie Read  36:18 That's what you've done   Katie Vernoy  36:22 We've been trying, you know, we don't we don't avoid the purity culture, we just try to push back against it. But I think it's, it's something where when you're really trying to step out and help people in a bigger way, it is, it is important that you find the right people to spend time with because you can get tamped down by purity culture,   Katie Read  36:40 You can. Well, and I should say this, like for a lot of us, I know for me, when I was I think it is important for therapists to do money work on ourselves, go read the self help books, go, you know, sign up with Tiffany...   Curt Widhalm  36:53 GO DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH!   Katie Read  36:58 I think it's important to do that. And I think it's important to hang out with people who get it and have done it. And I think for all of us to, there is a way that you can feel good about what you charge and feel good about what you give back. And that that is going to be different for everyone, whether it's that you do a couple free or cheap sessions every single week, or you give a certain amount to charity every year, like whatever that looks like for you. You can still set this up in a way where you're not going to feel like a greedy bastard, for earning a good living where you still know that you are I mean, for me, when I started outgrowing the office, honestly, my entire motivation was security. My husband worked at a large multinational corporation that was doing layoffs, rolling layoffs every single month. And every single month, it felt like we were going to be any minute we were going to be homeless because he was going to get laid off. And that was the bread and butter of the family. And what then and all I really wanted was some security. And so that drove me and I was like I said we had moved states. And so I didn't have a license in my new state. I couldn't just go open a therapy office, it drove me to get creative and do something else. But I think when your motivation comes from that, like there's, I don't know, a lot of therapists who are like, I'm gonna go get rich so that I can have seven maaser body it's like, it's just not who we are, you know, like, that's just not what we're doing here.   Katie Vernoy  38:16 Well, we do have to end here, but but I think we also if there is a therapist that wants to get ready to get seven Montserrado for months, seven months. Go for it do. So before we close up, where can people find you?   Katie Read  38:30 Six Figure flagship.com is the main program that we run right now it's an application only program for mental health therapists who do want to outgrow the office, that is the best place to find me. And otherwise, I'll just be kind of hanging out with you guys.   Katie Vernoy  38:44 I love it. Always again, it   Curt Widhalm  38:47 We will include a link to Katie's websites in our show notes. You can find those over at MTS g podcast.com. And follow us on our social media join our Facebook groups modern therapists group and   Katie Read  39:01 Or we will shame you.    Curt Widhalm  39:03 we actually have a really good group that seems to   Katie Read  39:08 No I said we will shame them for not joining it, we find them.   Curt Widhalm  39:14 Some we will post those links and until next time, I'm Curt Widhalm with Katie Vernoy And Katie Read.   Katie Vernoy  39:20 Thanks again to our sponsor, Trauma Therapist Network.   Curt Widhalm  39:24 If you've ever looked for a trauma therapist, you can know it can be hard to discern who knows what and whether or not they're the right fit for you. There's so many types of trauma and so many different ways to heal. That's why Laura Reagan LCSW WC created trauma therapist network. Trauma therapist network therapist profiles include the types of trauma specialized in population served therapy methods used, making it easier for potential clients to find the right therapist who can help them. Network is more than a directory though it's a community. All members are invited to attend community meetings to connect consults and network with colleagues around the country.   Katie Vernoy  40:01 Join the growing community of trauma therapists and get 20% off your first month using the promo code MTSG20. At trauma therapist network.com Once again that's capital MTSG, the number 20 at Trauma therapist network.com   Announcer  40:17 Thank you for listening to the modern therapist Survival Guide. Learn more about who we are and what we do at MTS g podcast.com. You can also join us on Facebook and Twitter. And please don't forget to subscribe so you don't miss any of our episodes.

RNZ: The Detail
Tearfund's naming and shaming misses the mark

RNZ: The Detail

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2021 23:59


Tearfund's annual name-and-shame of unethical fashion chains leaves out some important factors - such as clothing manufactured in New Zealand. 

Poddin' Next Door
E94 - "Emo Boomers"

Poddin' Next Door

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2021 92:04


On this episode: The ”Poddin' Next Door" crew hits on their usual opening banter, Emotional State of the Crew, Fighting Russ, The Homies asking for a Birthday Gift, Day Traders, Dream Car, Doja Cat Stan, Getting emotional as you age, Where to pick up your dream girl, Questioning tradition, Alec Baldwin Incident, Boosie Movie Review, and that's about it folks. Listen on most Digital Streaming Platforms. Apple, Amazon, Spotify, Google…… Follow + Subscribe: Instagram - @poddinnextdoor YouTube - Poddin' Next Door

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The Nightly Rant
AITA for Shaming the Neighbors

The Nightly Rant

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2021 20:04


Mike opens the show by sharing another infamous Am I The Asshole post and how Torya picks these suckers based on the level of hilariousness. Torya then read the post and asked Mike if the poster was the asshole. Mike answered yes and points out that people having sex happens naturally, and they're not gonna have sex coz they have work the next day, but the poster purposely embarrassing them by putting applause track up to their ceiling is harassment. Why does the poster have the say when their neighbor had the say when to have sex.Torya believes that no one was the assholes because it's completely okay to have sex and completely okay to harass your neighbor and be reported to the management. It's a natural cycle of things. Or they were both assholes.Mike then says that he has a bad habit. She agrees that Mike listens to what other people have to say. But the problem is, if he has looked up to something and he decided 100% that it is this way, then he will be angry at the other person because they were that bad and then come to another person help him realize to look that thing in the different perspective. But he will still be pissed.Mike believes he is in the minority for this kind of decision. He was in a fringe group. He wanted to understand what the other side was thinking, and he might change to that side. It's just his way. Mike firmly believes that the poster was the asshole for not admitting the harassment.Torya then shares her 2 points. 1st point was why both of them were assholes. It is a pretty dick move to embarrass someone that the poster decided to play an applause track after their neighbor's love-making. It's a dick move. Torya says she will definitely do this. It is also an equal dick move to report somebody to the management for harassment after you know you keep them up for hours and all they did was to embarrass you a little. People should be more aware of their neighbors. Then Toryaend the show by reading one funny comment in the post “kick down the door and say player 3 has entered the game” and that gave them a good laugh. 

New England Broadcasting
10/22/21 When To Shut Up; Dental Shaming

New England Broadcasting

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2021 31:13


Ron comments on your mouth today. That includes dentists that shame you and people who don't know when to shut up.... Guest: Amanda Hesser "The Essential New York Times Cookbook"

The Lisa Wexler Show
10/21/21 - Westport Restaurant Week And New Canaan Race Shaming

The Lisa Wexler Show

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2021 47:07


10/21/21 - Westport Restaurant Week And New Canaan Race Shaming by The Lisa Wexler Show

Poddin' Next Door
E93 - "Cockfight"

Poddin' Next Door

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2021 98:23


On this episode: The ”Poddin' Next Door" crew hits on their usual opening banter, What do the wild whites eat, misogynist tendencies, Sleepers, Shooting in Houston, Thin Blue Line Life Hacks, China taking over the world, Dave Chappelle “The Closer” Review, and Gentrification Pros vs. Cons. Listen on most Digital Streaming Platforms. Apple, Amazon, Spotify, Google…… Follow + Subscribe: Instagram - @poddinnextdoor YouTube - Poddin' Next Door

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Radio Boston
School lunch-shaming is now outlawed in Massachusetts

Radio Boston

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2021 19:26


Plus, we breakdown the push for universal free school lunches in Massachusetts.

The Crossway Podcast
How Do I Discipline My Kids Without Shaming Them? (Heather Nelson)

The Crossway Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2021 39:08


In today's episode, Heather Nelson—a writer, a counselor, and a mom—talks about what it looks like to pursue shame-free parenting so that we might have joy-filled homes. Heather is the author of Unashamed: Healing Our Brokenness and Finding Freedom from Shame. Read the full transcript. If you enjoyed this episode be sure to leave us a review, which helps us spread the word about the show! Sign up for our mailing list here.

Justice & Drew
Hour 1: More Shaming

Justice & Drew

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2021 36:31


President Joe Biden came out yesterday and shamed unvaccinated Americans... again. Sam has details in her Top 5 Stories of the Day!

Thinker Sensitive
Ep. 24 The Weekly: The Moral Spirit of the Age

Thinker Sensitive

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2021 37:15


In the second episode of our new weekly segment, Ryan reads through and comments on an article that he wrote on the state of contemporary morality during the turmoil and civil unrest of 2020. The original article was entitled, "The Moral Spirit of the Age."

Poddin' Next Door
E92 - "Coke Games"

Poddin' Next Door

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2021 85:49


On this episode: The ”Poddin' Next Door" crew hits on their usual opening banter, Pandora Papers, Why the guys missed last week, Coke Cola's impacts on the Mexico culture, PFAS impacts on the human population, Dallas shooter coming home celebration, Issues with podcast recording without headphones, and Squid Games review. Listen on most Digital Streaming Platforms. Apple, Amazon, Spotify, Google…… Follow + Subscribe: Instagram - @poddinnextdoor YouTube - Poddin' Next Door

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The Juggling Act
Job shaming, funny nicknames and the parenting sweet spot

The Juggling Act

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2021 28:48


In today's episode we're chatting with the gorgeous Natalie Bassingthwaite who opens up about funny childhood nicknames and how she's creating a better future for our kids. We're also joined by our regular contributor Laura Mazza who has an advice needed question from a woman who is being job shamed by her partner. And Mel is reluctant to say this out loud because she's sure it won't last long… but she thinks she may be in the parenting sweet spot (Jules is sceptical). See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My DVC Points Podcast
How to Handle Adult Disney Shaming

My DVC Points Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2021 45:27


Annelie Heinen and Angie Robinson, who share some strategies for dealing with Disney shaming tactics and the benefits of DVC with regard to mental health. Episode 172

Veterinary Viewfinder Podcast
The Vet Med Guilt Game - Quitting, Vacation, & Holiday Time Off Shaming

Veterinary Viewfinder Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2021 27:38


Lately, we've been hearing stories of veterinary practice managers and owners making departing staff feel guilty for finding a better job. After a team member puts in their notice, they then face a barrage of guilt-inducing blame and judgment, further eroding their self confidence and assertiveness. But it doesn't end there. … Hosts Beckie Mossor, RVT and Dr. Ernie Ward also share their concerns about the rapidly approaching holiday season and the impact "holiday time off" may have on our already overwhelmed teams' morale, productivity, and patient care. Ho, ho, hold on for this one, Viewfinders! … This week our hosts discuss the importance of respectfully and professionally handling an employee leaving their job for another, and why exit interviews may, “help you save the rest,” as Dr. Ward puts it. … The pair also tackle the topic of holiday time off and each share real-time vacation dilemmas they are hearing from veterinary colleagues around the country. Beckie advises, “Get ahead of your holiday planning now!” We explain… … Viewfinders, once again we cover A LOT of territory in this half-hour conversation. Share your thoughts by email or direct message!

Poddin' Next Door
E91 - "Same Squad"

Poddin' Next Door

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2021 101:58


On this episode: The ”Poddin' Next Door" crew hits on their usual opening banter, Drake Anniversary, Houston Artist, Social Media After Effects, Taking your shoes off, Podcast Genre, Conspiracy theory Tony, Haitians Border, Dude Dates, Phone Energy, Gaming Noobs, Mother Baby Alerts, Shooting your shot gamble, Arranged Marriage, and random topics. Listen on most Digital Streaming Platforms. Apple, Amazon, Spotify, Google…… Follow + Subscribe: Instagram - @poddinnextdoor YouTube - Poddin' Next Door

time comedy family food discussion social voting management jre weed california spotify music amazon apple christmas shot strippers dating relationships marriage political feelings netflix picking space brothers social media theory energy texas single hip hop testing conspiracy friend stories mother donald trump ios fake news mental health hulu border sugar religion holidays gaming workplace guns cancer hobbies outdoors driver baby bros rings school squad bullying afghanistan thanksgiving amish exotic ai phone sauce toxic dates body mexican haitian after effects disabilities girlfriends helen keller shooting scams drip pod palestine fishing dj screw 1985 kanye west lies bill cosby plastic arab bitcoin nonbinary hiv how to conspiracy theory joe biden scammers historians attention capitol ancestry followers stocks kwanzaa jeff bezos gamble banking unrest beans jargon eats mike pence fossils whataburger takeover us military 1987 joe rogan colorism defensive finesse boyfriends fun facts expressing 21savage shaming noobs lacking taco tuesday right to die caitlyn jenner jay electronica randomness burning bush influenza alerts winter storms rifles atf donating gangland j balvin el salvador traits phonetic homies gang culture nfts nextdoor finish line gamestop nicknames blue origin enforcements hbic couponing taco truck sideburns arranged marriages pnd debacle surroundings reconnecting wealth gap homesharing jbp gun laws terrenos more words dababy child tax credit pimp c alone time panhandling onlyfans partynextdoor taco stand fat pat creosote poddin ivermectin criminal psychology coronavirus shoes off fifth ward false hope covid-19 contact tracing fast 9 delta variant
Justin, Scott and Spiegel Show Highlights

After Justin told us a story about a comedian's experience with a judgmental doctor, we found out from you, it's a different profession that shames most of us!

The Bob Cesca Show
Peril Remains

The Bob Cesca Show

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2021 67:05


[Explicit Content] TRex is back! White House to release Trump documents to House Insurrection Committee. Bob Woodward and Mugsy on our "national security emergency." The Eastman Memo and a Facebook meme. Trump wants a redo of his first term. Trump knew the election fraud claims were bogus. Subpoenas will be issued this week, according to The Guardian. Trump's lawsuit against Mary Trump and The New York Times. Shaming smokers. Mike Flynn thinks we're putting the vaccine in salad dressing. Florida Republicans are screwy. With Jody Hamilton and David TRex Ferguson, and music by Jody Hamilton and C.C. Grace. And more!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The GHOLE Podcast
Shaming Ray for the best.. w/ Ophira Eisenberg & Tracey Carnazzo

The GHOLE Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2021 67:58


Comedian & host of NPR's Ask Me Another Ophira Eisenberg & comedian & host of 90daypodcast Tracey Carnazzo, shame Ray into being a better person. Working on his dating life and grooming habits, they also reassure him that going on one date w/ a transgender lady doesn't make you hero. follow Ophira & Tracey on twitter at @OphiraE & @TrixieTuzzini

The Megyn Kelly Show
The Russiagate ‘Scandal' and Media's Shaming of the Unvaccinated with Glenn Greenwald | Ep. 162

The Megyn Kelly Show

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2021 94:21


Megyn Kelly is joined by co-founder of “The Intercept”, author of “Securing Democracy”, and Pulitzer-prize winning journalist, Glenn Greenwald, to discuss the new proof that the ‘Russiagate' scandal targeting Donald Trump was created by the Hillary Clinton campaign, the unprecedented migrant problem in Texas, the drone ban placed on journalists trying to cover the surge, General Mark Milley's defense of calls to China as ‘perfectly within the scope of the job', Don Lemon's pubic shunning of unvaccinated Americans, Anna Wintour's crusade to make the Met Gala even more exclusive and insufferable, Meghan and Harry's airbrushed Time Magazine cover (and life), and more.Follow The Megyn Kelly Show on all social platforms:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/MegynKellyTwitter: http://Twitter.com/MegynKellyShowInstagram: http://Instagram.com/MegynKellyShowFacebook: http://Facebook.com/MegynKellyShow Find out more information at: https://www.devilmaycaremedia.com/megynkellyshow

Distraction with Dr. Ned Hallowell
Our Society Has Been Shaming Moms For Centuries

Distraction with Dr. Ned Hallowell

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2021 34:17


Most moms have experienced "mom guilt" or "mom shame" at some point in their children's lives. On today's podcast we talk about the very real, historical reasons why this happens, and about the long-running sentiment in the United States that a woman's true job is to be a good mother. And now with the added pressures of measuring up on social media and taking care of your family in a pandemic, it's no wonder so many moms feel inadequate.  Our guest-host, CNN's Alisyn Camerota, is joined by Bethany Johnson and Dr. Margaret M. Quinlan for a fascinating conversation about the history of mom guilt in America. The pair co-wrote the book, You're Doing It Wrong! Mothering, Media, and Medical Expertise and share some of the historical underpinnings of why so many mothers struggle with feelings of shame and guilt regarding their kids.  Bethany L. Johnson (MPhil, M.A.) is a doctoral student in the history of science, technology and the environment at the University of South Carolina and a research affiliate faculty in the department of communication studies at the University of North Carolina at Charlotte. She studies how science, medical technology, and public health discourses are framed and reproduced by institutions and individuals with structural power from the 19th century to the present; specifically, she studies epidemics and reproductive health. She has published in interdisciplinary journals such as Health Communication, Women & Language, Departures in Critical Qualitative Research, Journal of Holistic Nursing, and Women's Reproductive Health.  Margaret M. Quinlan (Ph.D.) is a Professor of Communication Studies, Director of an Interdisciplinary Minor, Health & Medical Humanities and Core Faculty Member of the Interdisciplinary Health Psychology Ph.D. Program at the University of North Carolina at Charlotte. She examines the nexus of public perceptions of medicine, science, and technology, both historically and presently. She investigates the role communication plays in public understandings of medical expertise, illness, wellness, caring, treatment, health, and healing. Dr. Quinlan has authored approximately 40 journal articles, 17 book chapters and co-produced documentaries in a regional Emmy award-winning series (National Distribution with PBS and available on Amazon). We want to hear from you! CLICK HERE TO TAKE OUR LISTENER SURVEY. Or, email your thoughts about this podcast to connect@distractionpodcast.com.   This episode is sponsored by Landmark College in Putney, Vermont.  It's the college for students who learn differently! Landmark offers comprehensive supports for students with ADHD and other learning differences, both on campus and online. Learn more HERE!