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With over 25 years of working with kids and families we take common parenting obstacle and tell you how to make them successes!

Todd Harris


    • Aug 4, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
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    31: Say Yes One More Time

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2022 7:07


    Life is Busy, Life is Fast and as parents sometimes / a lot of times we are exhausted.  This episode will simply inspire you to say yes to your child one more time!

    30. Goal Setting

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2021 11:23


    KIDS WILL RATHER DO NOTHING THAN ANYTHING!! As parents we have to teach them that if we want to accomplush something we have to plan the steps to get there and execute them. We also need to teach them that a lot of the time it will NOT be easy and take some work. Sit down with your kids and have a few conversations about what it takes to reach the goals they set and get them to buy-in.

    29. Mistakes are Learning Experiences

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2021 8:31


    28. Competitive Parenting Vs Supporting Parenting.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2021 7:41


    Are you the kind of parent that competes with their partner for your children's love? Parenting isn't a Good Cop/BadCop ordeal. You NEED to support your Co-parent. In this episode we tell you how you can turn into that competitive parent and how to be a supportive one instead.

    27. Are You a Parent or a Friend?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2021 6:47


    26. Teach Your Kids To Ask For Help

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2021 12:12


    As parents we can't get frustrated at our kids for asking for help. If we do, we're telling them that asking for help is an inconvenience. They won't ask for help again, will get frustrated when they can't figure a problem out, they'll blame you for it and more importantly you're creating someone that can't trust other people to help when they need to. That's a BIG problem!!

    25. Living Vicariously Through Your Kids

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2021 9:24


    We've all seen THAT parent, the one yelling at their kid on the ball field? The one that is pushing their kids too hard. The one whose kid is cared of them. The one who thinks he's the one at the T-ball game? This episode will tell you how NOT to be that parent.

    24. It's Okay To Make Mistakes

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2021 10:36


    Mistakes Happen,  They should not be demonized.  Kids should not feel shame or like they are not worthy. They should not feel scared.  As parents our job is to teach our kids to own up to their mistakes, learn from them and grow from them.  In this episode we talk about how to make mistakes something to learn from. 

    23. Don't Forget About Your Significant Other

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2021 8:50


    Ever Look at your spouse or significant other and thought... Who Are you?!  Not Because there is a strife or str5ess between you, but simply because you haven't spent any time together? No dates! No walks! No conversations other than work, kids and bills? In this episode we talk about ABD (Always Be Dating) your spouse.

    22 - Take time To Recharge

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2021 14:26


    -As parents, we are always on the go! -We sacrifice and give for our kids, sometimes to the point of exhaustion. -As parents we have to remember we MUST take time to recharge! -If you are always running on 50% are you really being your best for those you love???? NO! -Take that time for you! -It may be 10 minutes, 2 hours, 1/2 a day or sometimes a weekend! -Listen to this podcast and understand why you MUST recharge!

    21 - When to Tell the Tattletale

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2021 12:03


    In this episode we talk about having important and often adult conversations around your children and the miscommunications that can happen if you don't address important with your children directly. 

    20 - When to Intervene as a Parent

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2020 6:53


    19 - What is Date Night?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2020 8:05


    17 - Do you Have Communication?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2020 10:16


    16 - Social Struggles Kids go Through

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2020 12:11


    15 - What a Teen Really Needs

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2020 7:24


    14 - Deciding to Blend Your Family

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2020 12:56


    13 - Why Are Parents Always the Enemy

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2020 11:52


    12 - Empower Don't Entitle Your Kids

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2020 14:11


    11 - The Minefield of Parenting.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2020 15:08


    If you've ever been hanging out with your kids and suddenly they blow up at you, slam a door, or slam their bedroom door after a frustrating conversation then you've been a victim of the minefield that is parenting.  Children are human too, their emotions build up and can result in an outburst of frustration. Whether it's justified or not, we owe it to our kids to listen do our best to understand them and give them the tools to handle the complex emotions that lead to those outbursts. 

    10 - Lie to Your Kids

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2020 10:34


    One of the best things you could for your kids is to lie to them.  Here's why.

    09 - To Blend or Not to Blend

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2020 12:56


    Bringing a new partner into the family dynamic can be really scary for a single parent.  In Today's episode me and Pam talk about her experience doing just that.  -----  Find us on all social media with the handle @coachtoddharris

    08 - Four Rules of Farming

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2020 11:02


    Raising a child is a lot like farming, which makes the rules of farming an excellent way to think about raising them.  Today we talk about those 4 rules, what they mean for parenting and how you can implement them. 

    07 - To Chore or Not To Chore

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2020 10:36


    You can get your kids to do their chores and not complain about it. All it takes is some time, patience, a lot of communication and a bit of fairness.

    06 - The Right Kind of Time for Your Kids

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2020 9:38


    Your kids are social creatures too and like all of us have different needs at different times. Make sure you're mindful of their needs as it can really help strengthen your relationship with your children. 

    05 - Why your Teens and Tweens Don't Communicate

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2020 7:25


    Teens and Tweens need different kinds of time spent with different types of relationships.  Let them flourish and adapt some more to their social needs. It'll pay off for you and your relationship. 

    04 - You're Turning Your Kids Off

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2020 9:20


    It's hard to admit but you might be the reason why your kids don't want to spend time with you.

    03 - Listening Vs. Fixing

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2020 8:40


    If you're a fixer, sometimes you need to put practical solutions down and just listen.

    02 - Don't Accept Fine

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2020 8:44


    One word answers are the killers of fulfilling and genuine conversation. Don't Fall in the rhythm of easy conversation and challenge yourself and your family to really talk.  It's easier than you think!

    01 - Why Family Planning Matters

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2020 11:53


    Tired of wanting your family to do things together & never getting around to them? In this episodeWell... In this session of Ninja Talks we give a piece of advice that everyone needs to do!

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