Join Dustin and Sarah Lolli as they explore why the things that are supposed to bring happiness…don’t.  How do you maintain happiness and contentment when life is hard.  This podcast is not meant to give you all the answers.  But it is meant to attempt to ask the right questions.  Let’s talk!
In this episode we talk about our unexpected journey into music! Music as a career was never a dream or pursuit and yet here we are! We're sharing the small moments early on that led us down a path we never imagined. We hope to share some laughs, insight and encouragement along the way. Connect with us on Instagram where we're engaging the question of happiness everyday! https://www.instagram.com/make.a.happy.home/ Subscribe to our newsletter for more on what's happening in the world of Happyhttps://make-a-happy-home.mailchimpsites.com/
In this second episode of "This Way To Music" we continue our story of the progress of music becoming the center of our lives and career.We touch on our family differences surrounding singing and music as well as our church experiences and circumstances that shaped our outlook and pursuits. Our path usually felt dark and unclear but one thing emerged as constant and that was music.Listen to the end and be the first audience to hear our new single "Along The Way", releasing in a few weeks!!We'd love to hear what you think! Leave us a review or comment or send us an email! We appreciate you!Connect with us on Instagram where we're engaging the question of happiness everyday! https://www.instagram.com/make.a.happy.home/ Subscribe to our newsletter for more on what's happening in the world of Happyhttps://make-a-happy-home.mailchimpsites.com/
Since my kids were young, I've found myself reminding them often to just be thoughtful.To me the word meant more than just kind or caring. It meant be mindful, attentive and full of thought and awareness of the person or people around you. In a world full of many spoken words, but often with little thought, it's a conversation we feel compelled to have. Thoughtfulness goes a long way!It might sounds serious but we're all about bringing the Happy so we have some laughs too! Let's talk about it!Connect with us on Instagram where we're engaging the question of happiness everyday! https://www.instagram.com/make.a.happy.home/ Subscribe to our newsletter for more on what's happening in the world of Happyhttps://make-a-happy-home.mailchimpsites.com/
It's Part 2 of our Make A Happy Home episode and we're continuing the conversation on bringing fun and connection into our homes.We'll talk about a much loved movie quote in our house that we throw out when things get unnecessarily heavy and all about not taking ourselves so seriously!Did you know you can never be happy if it's always about YOU? Life is what you make it-so choose joy, choose each other and let's Make Happy Homes!We look forward to connecting with you over on Instagram where we're engaging the question of happiness every day!You can also subscribe to our newsletter for more happenings in the world of Happy04:12 Discovering True Joy: Embracing the Little Moments in Life08:43 Finding the Perfect Balance: The Key to a Happy Home and Lifestyle13:49 Exploring the Power of Recognition and Dynamic Balance in Relationships17:36 Discovering Freedom and Fulfillment in a Loving Marriage Relationship20:08 Brightening the World: Choosing Happiness in Every SituationConnect with us on Instagram where we're engaging the question of happiness everyday! https://www.instagram.com/make.a.happy.home/ Subscribe to our newsletter for more on what's happening in the world of Happyhttps://make-a-happy-home.mailchimpsites.com/
We're back with a special 2 part episode titled, well, Make A Happy Home!Whether you've been listening from the beginning or you're just joining in, we're going back to the basics and talking about what makes a happy home….family, kids, life, whatever! We believe there's no formula for happiness and that no matter the circumstances you get to choose it. There are also no two families that are alike so no two families will operate the same way or find the same things to be fun, so it's all about the connection! Stop comparing and find joy in your unique family and relationships!Chapters:00:00 Adapting To Changing Circumstances05:40 A Tale of Fake Fights and Knee Injuries08:17 Embracing Differences and Creating Joy in Family Life10:30 Unveiling the Secrets of Lasting Happiness12:33 Finding Balance Between Happiness and Hardship16:38 Finding Joy in the Unexpected by Embracing Spontaneity 19:35 A Playful Conversation about Challenges and Joy21:57 Navigating the Changing Seasons of Parenting24:56 Finding Happiness as Your Kids Grow UpConnect with us on Instagram where we're engaging the question of happiness everyday! https://www.instagram.com/make.a.happy.home/ Subscribe to our newsletter for more on what's happening in the world of Happyhttps://make-a-happy-home.mailchimpsites.com/
Is it just us or does it feel like we live in a culture where talking is valued more than listening? I'm sure we all have simply wonderful things to say, but if everyone is talking, then who is really listening? Join us today as we talk (hopefully not too much) about how listening with the right kind of motivation can really cause our relationships to flourish as we are able to know the people around us better. Of course, when you know someone better, you will know how to better communicate with them on a deeper level!We look forward to connecting with you over on Instagram where we're engaging the question of happiness every day!You can also subscribe to our newsletter for more happenings in the world of Happy04:57 Nature vs. Nurture: How Family Dynamics Shape Our Communication Styles05:33 The Art of Listening: Why Talking Too Much Can Hinder Our Relationships10:02 The Power of Kindness: How One Person's Awareness Can Change Lives13:29 The Art of Listening: Learning to Talk Less and Hear More in Conversations18:33 Can People Really Change? The Power of Learned Behavior and Compassionate Listening24:12 Breaking Free from the Need to Control: The Power of Shutting Up and Letting Go27:06 The Biggest Problem in Relationships: Why You Are Not Responsible for Fixing Others34:05 The Power of Meaningful Communication: How Valuing Relationships Can Lead to a Happier Life38:04 Creating a Happy Home: The Power of Being Present in the MomentConnect with us on Instagram where we're engaging the question of happiness everyday! https://www.instagram.com/make.a.happy.home/ Subscribe to our newsletter for more on what's happening in the world of Happyhttps://make-a-happy-home.mailchimpsites.com/
This week Dustin gives Sarah a well-deserved break, but he's not going solo! Dustin is joined by his friend, music collaborator and founding member of Sanctus Real, Chris Rohman. They explore what real happiness is and how it showed up in unexpected places on their journey. The conversation touches on topics such as God's role in their success, the pressures of being business partners with friends.They talk about how maintaining perspective is crucial to keeping their sanity in the midst of it all. By focusing on their purpose of bringing hope to people through their music they're able to create strong relationships that bring joy at a whole new level.We look forward to connecting with you over on Instagram where we're engaging the question of happiness every day!You can also subscribe to our newsletter for more happenings in the world of HappyChapters:00:00:00 Breaking News: House Chris Seen, Ohio Band Considers Moving To Tennessee.00:01:53 Conversational Highlights00:04:47 Band's Evolution And Singer's Departure00:11:11 Acceptance And Grace00:21:35 Hard Work And Grace Among Colleagues.00:29:47 Mixed Emotions Of Pressure And Familiarity In An Unfamiliar Situation.00:33:32 Music With A Purpose: Finding Freedom And Hope In Difficult Times00:38:35 Importance Of Heart In Professional Relationships. 00:41:11 Balancing Ambition And Comparison In The Music Industry00:47:36 Collaborating And Making Music With Friends00:49:43 Friendship Beyond Endings00:56:33 Making Big Concepts Practical: Dealing With The Comparison GameConnect with us on Instagram where we're engaging the question of happiness everyday! https://www.instagram.com/make.a.happy.home/ Subscribe to our newsletter for more on what's happening in the world of Happyhttps://make-a-happy-home.mailchimpsites.com/
In episode three of the Make a Happy Home Podcast we're talking expectations, y'all!We share some personal stories about how expectations have played out in our lives. How it hurt our happiness and contentment - whether it's expectations of others or ourselves. We're also looking at the importance of being honest with ourselves. How stepping back to see situations from different perspectives can change them - and us - and ultimately lead to freedom from expectations. We hope this conversation helps you navigate your own relationships with less pressure, more openness, and, of course, more happiness!We look forward to connecting with you over on Instagram where we're engaging the question of happiness every day!You can also subscribe to our newsletter for more happenings in the world of HappySections:04:16 The Search For A Stable Baseline In Life05:44 Love For A Classic Christmas Movie With A Muppet Twist00:08:08 Embracing Freedom Through Unconditional Acceptance00:12:47 Carrying The Weight Of Expectations In Real Life Relationships00:16:23 The Difficulty Of Defining Happiness As An Idea00:18:13 The Challenges Of Marriage: Learning And Reflection In Difficult Seasons00:19:05 The Power Of Drawing Strength From Difficulties In Relationships00:23:37 Parenting Expectations Vs. Reality: Same Genetics, Different Kids00:24:44 Adjusting Expectations In Life: A Candid Conversation00:27:54 Every Child Is Different: Avoid Preconceived Expectations00:29:35 The Dangers Of Comparison And The Importance Of Building Independence In Children00:31:52 Appreciating Differences In Children: A Personal Reflection.00:35:43 The Importance Of Letting Go Of Expectations And Finding Freedom For Ourselves And Others.00:41:45 Nuanced Approach To Dealing With Toxic People In LifeKey Takeaways:The podcast discusses the importance of avoiding comparisons between children and instead focusing on teaching them to be independent and have expectations for themselves. It emphasizes the need to choose to listen and control one's own response, rather than trying to control others. The hosts acknowledge that every situation is different and there are no easy answers.Connect with us on Instagram where we're engaging the question of happiness everyday! https://www.instagram.com/make.a.happy.home/ Subscribe to our newsletter for more on what's happening in the world of Happyhttps://make-a-happy-home.mailchimpsites.com/
Hey there! In this episode we get real about marriage, love, family, and creativity. We share some personal stories about growing up and how it's shaped our outlook on life. We even talk about this awesome cabin we visited down in southern Indiana and reminisce about some crazy family gatherings. We also talk about the importance of being hands-on and trying new things, even if it's scary at first. Throughout the episode, we chat about how we express our creativity in different ways and how it's brought us closer together as a couple. Overall, it's just a candid and heartfelt conversation about life's ups and downs, finding, and making, happiness along the way.We look forward to connecting with you over on Instagram where we're engaging the question of happiness every day!You can also subscribe to our newsletter for more happenings in the world of HappyChapters:00:00:00 The Confusion And Expectations Of Bringing Lives Together00:03:55 Learning To Love: Reflections On Past Relationships00:06:10 The Importance Of Sacrifice In Marriage00:07:47 The Counterfeit Love Of Fulfilling Inner Cravings In Marriage And Cs Lewis' The Great Divorce00:10:19 The Danger Of Expectations In Marriage And Relationships00:11:56 Adjusting To A Large Extended Family After Marriage00:14:16 A Cozy Cabin In Southern Indiana With Beds Everywhere00:16:56 Struggles With Fixing Things And Logical Thinking00:20:43 Creative Siblings: Different Artistic Talents00:26:51 Making The Most Of Every Moment: Embracing Choices And Prioritizing Self-careKey Takeaways:The podcast discusses the concept of love and how it can be counterfeit when it is used to fulfill one's own needs.The hosts reference a character in CS Lewis' book, The Great Divorce, who loves her son so much that she would drag him to hell with her, which is not true love.They also talk about the importance of making each moment count and prioritizing rest when necessary.The overall message is that life is about making choices and moving forward, and that every marriage is unique.Connect with us on Instagram where we're engaging the question of happiness everyday! https://www.instagram.com/make.a.happy.home/ Subscribe to our newsletter for more on what's happening in the world of Happyhttps://make-a-happy-home.mailchimpsites.com/
Hey there! This is our first podcast episode ever and it's about how to find true happiness in life! This week we're talking about how knowing your own worth can bring freedom from worry and anxiety. We even get personal and talk about our own struggles with the BIG things - like spiders and no air conditioning - but how we still found happiness in those situations. We believe happiness isn't about having a perfect life or tons of stuff, but about finding meaning and purpose in what you do and experience. So, if you're looking for a refreshing perspective on happiness that goes deeper than just the surface, come explore some great questions with us!We look forward to connecting with you over on Instagram where we're engaging the question of happiness every day!You can also subscribe to our newsletter for more happenings in the world of HappyChapters:00:00:00 Introduction To Episode Two With A Promise Of More00:01:27 Finding Purpose Beyond Selling Products On Social Media00:05:44 This Podcast Is Not A 12 Step Program00:07:53 The Definition Of Happiness: Insights From Third World Countries00:09:55 The Opposite Of A Happy Home: Finding Meaning In Real Happiness00:14:06 The Value Of Individuals: Loving And Standing Up For Them Regardless Of Their Background Or Actions00:17:13 The Freedom Of Embracing Your Worth And Value00:20:59 Belonging To Nothing But Jesus: Finding Happiness Through Belief In Value.00:24:26 Finding Joy In Small Things: Separating Happiness From PassionKey Takeaways: 1. Humans have a sense of belonging to something or someone, and if they don't understand where that comes from, they constantly search for it.2. Pursuing individual passions can bring joy but not real happiness.3. The focus should be on loving the individual rather than getting caught up in the noise of big-picture things.Connect with us on Instagram where we're engaging the question of happiness everyday! https://www.instagram.com/make.a.happy.home/ Subscribe to our newsletter for more on what's happening in the world of Happyhttps://make-a-happy-home.mailchimpsites.com/