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Best podcasts about embracing differences

Latest podcast episodes about embracing differences

On the Brink with Andi Simon
Navigating the Management Maze: Tips for New Leaders

On the Brink with Andi Simon

Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2025 33:33


On this episode of On the Brink with Andi Simon, I'm thrilled to welcome back Dr. Karl Hebenstreit—organizational psychologist, executive coach, speaker, and now the author of a powerful new book: Explicit Expectations: The Essential Guide and Toolkit of Management Fundamentals. Karl's insights will be eye-opening if you're a leader, manager, or anyone asked to take charge without much training or clarity. His central message? Everything is a conversation—and when expectations aren't explicit, confusion and conflict inevitably follow. From Enneagram to Explicit Expectations You may remember Karl from a previous episode where he shared his passion for the Enneagram. That framework, which focuses on motivation rather than just behavior, changed how he saw people and how they relate to one another. In today's conversation, we explored how that same thinking inspired his latest work—helping new managers step into their roles with clarity, confidence, and connection. Karl's journey into HR and organizational psychology wasn't always linear. Early in his career, he realized that promoting high-performing individuals into management often left them unprepared for what came next. "We promote people and assume they'll figure it out," Karl says. "But without guidance, they're left adrift." That recognition became the seed for his new book. Why We Get Expectations Wrong Karl shared a striking observation: most people operate from their internal "golden rule," assuming that others want to be treated like they are. But what if that isn't true? This insight draws from both the Enneagram and Karl's own coaching experience. Managers often expect others to intuit their expectations, only to be disappointed when those assumptions don't lead to desired outcomes. The solution? Make expectations explicit—hence the book's title. Explicit Expectations is more than just a how-to guide. It's a toolkit grounded in real organizational challenges, especially for newly promoted managers without formal training. It offers a structured way to define goals, conduct one-on-ones, manage performance, lead team meetings, and even handle terminations—all through the lens of clear communication and alignment. From Confusion to Clarity: Building a Living Agreement At the heart of Karl's approach is the Explicit Expectations Engagement and Alignment Guide—a tool that allows managers and employees to co-create clarity. It's not a static checklist but a living document that evolves as business conditions and roles change. It helps each party articulate their motivations, communication styles, and priorities. This idea resonated deeply with me. As a corporate anthropologist, I've seen firsthand how ambiguity breeds misalignment and disengagement. Karl's guide gives teams a shared language and mutual understanding, vital to navigating change—something we know is constant in today's fast-moving workplaces. A Simple but Powerful Question One of my favorite takeaways from our conversation is Karl's approach to team dynamics: "Just ask." Ask how someone prefers to receive feedback, what motivates them, and how they want to resolve conflict. These conversations don't require a PhD in psychology—just curiosity, empathy, and a willingness to listen. Karl emphasized that even without formal Enneagram training, managers can learn to tailor their approach by simply being explicit in conversations. The platinum rule—treating others as they want to be treated—starts with understanding what that looks like for each person. Embracing Differences to Build Stronger Teams Karl and I also explored how embracing cognitive and motivational diversity leads to stronger, more customer-centered organizations. He shared how teams begin to see the value of different Enneagram types and break free from the idea that there's one "right" way to lead or be led. This is especially relevant today as businesses navigate generational differences, hybrid work, and rapid digital transformation. As Karl puts it, "Your team is a microcosm of your customers." Understanding internal diversity helps you connect more authentically with external markets. You may prefer to watch our podcast video on YouTube here: Practical Tools for Real Change Karl's work is deeply relevant whether you're leading a startup or a legacy institution. His book offers practical tools—strategic planning, onboarding, feedback, coaching, accountability, DEI practices—all through the lens of clarity and alignment. These tools are not just about being a better manager; they're about empowering you to be a better communicator and collaborator, capable of driving real change in your organization. And yes, Karl now has an AI-powered training twin! His methods are available in person, virtually, or through AI-enabled programs. As I often say, the future is here—and Karl is helping us manage it better. His methods have the potential to inspire and motivate change, transforming the way we manage and communicate. Key Takeaways from the Episode: Unspoken expectations are a recipe for misalignment. Managers must articulate their needs and ask about others' preferences—don't assume. The Golden Rule is outdated—aim for the Platinum Rule. Understand others' motivations and communication styles to treat them the way you want to be treated. Build a living agreement. Use Karl's Engagement and Alignment Guide to create and revisit shared expectations as goals and roles evolve. You can find Explicit Expectations on Amazon or at your favorite bookstore. To learn more about Karl and his work, visit www.performandfunction.com or connect with him on LinkedIn at Karl Hebenstreit. If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to subscribe to On the Brink with Andi Simon, leave a review, and share it with a colleague. And remember: the words you use to create the world you live in. Let's make those words clear, kind, and explicitly aligned. By committing to these principles, we can all contribute to a more engaged and harmonious work environment. Listen + Subscribe: Available wherever you get your podcasts—Apple, Spotify, Stitcher, YouTube, and more. If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and share with someone navigating their own leadership journey. Reach out and contact us if you want to see how a little anthropology can help your business grow.  Let's Talk!   From Observation to Innovation, Andi Simon, PhD CEO | Corporate Anthropologist | Author Simonassociates.net Info@simonassociates.net @simonandi LinkedIn

The Borges Podcast
Design, Charts, and Marriage Talks!

The Borges Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2025 17:54


In this episode of the Borges Podcast, Brandy and Justin discuss their evolving morning routine, the importance of understanding each other's quirks, and how human design and birth chart has helped them gain insights into their relationship dynamics. They explore the significance of sensory preferences, different manifestation styles, and the value of embracing differences in a partnership. The conversation emphasizes the importance of communication and vulnerability in relationships, encouraging listeners to delve deeper into their own dynamics.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Weekly Updates03:05 Morning Routine Transformation05:57 Understanding Each Other's Quirks08:49 Exploring Human Design12:14 Insights from Human Design14:57 Manifestation Styles and Expectations17:52 Sensory Preferences and Relationship Dynamics20:46 Embracing Differences in Relationships24:31 Conclusion

From Lawyer to Employer: A Shipman Podcast
Season 3, Episode 11: Neurodiversity in the Workplace: Embracing Differences, Enhancing Inclusion

From Lawyer to Employer: A Shipman Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 16:12


In this episode of From Lawyer to Employer, host Dan Schwartz welcomes back Shipman's Claire Pariano for a thoughtful conversation on neurodiversity in the workplace. They explore what neurodiversity means, legal protections under the ADA and FMLA, common employer pitfalls, and practical steps organizations can take to create truly inclusive environments for neurodivergent employees. With insights into reasonable accommodations and inclusive hiring practices, this episode offers both legal guidance and a call for empathy and awareness.

Memorial Health Radio
Voices of Autism: Raising Awareness, Embracing Differences

Memorial Health Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2025


In this episode, one parent shares their personal journey navigating the world of autism. From common misconceptions to the process of getting an autism diagnosis, they open up about the challenges and obstacles they've faced. They also discuss the importance of educating children about autism and their hopes for a more inclusive, accepting society. Tune in for an honest and inspiring conversation on understanding and embracing autism.

Embracing Differences
Is Safety a value?

Embracing Differences

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 12:56


Many organisations declare safety as one of the values in the vision and mission statements. Can safety be a value?When fallible humans conduct high risk operations, there is no certainty that people will not get injured. When people do get injured we have failed to live by our values.In this video, instead of making an argument, we will use a personal story to illustrate why safety cannot be a value.This is Embracing Differences and I am Nippin Anand (PhD), a former ship captain and an anthropologist.

Your Wellness
Understanding Neurodivergence & Embracing Differences

Your Wellness

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2025 29:31


Welcome to Your Wellness I'm wellness coach Lisa Lounsbury! In this episode, we're joined by Andrew Leith, a professional speaker, certified executive coach, and neuroinclusivity advocate. Andrew shares his powerful journey of living with undiagnosed ADHD, the challenges of navigating a world designed for neurotypical individuals, and how he ultimately learned to embrace his differences. He takes us back to his childhood, reflecting on how his experiences shaped him as an adult and how understanding neurodivergence has transformed his approach to leadership, mentorship, community activism, and family life. His message to those who are neurodivergent is both inspiring and empowering: "You're not the problem, you're just in the wrong place." Join us for this insightful conversation—only on Your Wellness! Find Andrew: https://www.octanteag.com/ a.leith@octanteag.com  

Our Forever Smiles: Cleft Mom Diaries and Support
Ava the Brava: Embracing Differences with Allie Ekblad

Our Forever Smiles: Cleft Mom Diaries and Support

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2024 54:29 Transcription Available


CLEFT MAMAS! OUR MERCH STORE IS NOW LIVE!! WE HAVE OUR CLEFT MOMS CLUB TEE AND THE FAUX OUR FOREVER SMILES TOUR MERCH!! GET YOURS TODAY!! __________________________________________________________________________________ In this inspiring episode, we welcome Allie Ekblad, a talented children's book author, illustrator, and founder of Brave Face Kids. After the birth of her second child with a bilateral cleft lip and palate, Allie realized there was a gap in parenting resources for educating young children about clefts. Driven by love and a desire to empower her children, she wrote her first book, Ava the Brava. Join host Laura Arroyo as they discuss Allie's journey from marketing executive to stay-at-home mom, the challenges of navigating the medical world, and how Ava the Brava serves as a tool for teaching bravery and embracing our unique differences. Today's sponsor is sienna dawn media Integrated Marketing Agency  sienna dawn media is more than just a marketing agency—they are your partners in progress. Their mission is simple — to alleviate marketing bandwidth, allowing creative business owners to focus on what they set out to do: create. sienna dawn media empowers creatives to thrive without the burden of managing their own social media and marketing campaigns. So, if you're ready to set sail toward new horizons, let sienna dawn media chart the course and steer your business toward success. Visit siennadawnmedia.com.

Quality of Mind-Transforming Business
The Business Advantage: The Secret Source to Flow & Ease

Quality of Mind-Transforming Business

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2024 57:45


This podcast series explores a game-changing understanding of the human mind that can exponentially increase the performance, resourcefulness and well-being for any individual or organisation.   In this episode of the Quality of Mind Transforming Business Podcast, host Piers speaks with Emily Hawkins about the fundamental bases of achieving authentic business success. Emily shares her journey from the corporate world, emphasising the transition from relying on credentials to harnessing a more innate intelligence and resourcefulness. The conversation delves deep into exploring the significance of understanding one's true self, not only beyond our conditioning societal expectations but even before psychology. They discuss how dropping resistance to 'what is' and realising our innate, expansive nature can lead to genuine flow, creativity, and business success - revealing the secret sauce to thriving not just in business, but in life in general.      03:45 The Secret Sauce to Success 10:03 The Case of Mistaken Identity 12:58 Flow and Authentic Leadership 15:50 The Essence of Self and Flow 26:34 Embracing Differences and Overcoming Resistance 30:44 Embracing Our Unique Gifts 31:46 Acceptance and Resistance 32:25 The Illusion of Self-Identification 40:51 The Concept of Aperture 44:58 The Secret Sauce of Self-Realization 46:00 Daily Practices for Awakening 52:38 Letting Go of Self-Identification   Curious - want to know more? You can find out more about Emily here her work on her website here  A summary of the Quality of Mind resources, to find out more TASTE THE MANGO  YouTube and Sub stack all about Direct Inquiry, Explore for yourself Watch past clients talk about the power of Quality of Mind here For a more in depth looking into the nondual understanding behind Quality of Mind  listen here  or here Find out more about the relevance of Quality of Mind  Check out our other podcast episodes, a curated list here Subscribe to our Quality of Mind YouTube channel for a series of 2 min videos all about Quality of Mind Piers Thurston regularly writes about Quality of Mind on LinkedIn and has a large collection of articles and post  

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me the World
Embracing Differences: A Global Movement for Autism and Mental Health

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me the World

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2024 2:48 Transcription Available


Send us a textHave you ever felt isolated in your mental health journey, yearning for a community that truly understands? Tune into "Why Not Me? The World Podcast" with your host, Tony Mantor, broadcasting from the vibrant heart of Nashville, Tennessee. This episode is not just a collection of stories; it's a heartfelt movement towards global acceptance and understanding of autism and other mental health challenges like bipolar disorder, ADHD, and PTSD. Our inspiring guests open up about their personal experiences, delivering narratives that will make you laugh, shed a tear, and most importantly, remind you that you're not alone. Our latest installment marks the beginning of an exciting series dedicated to mental health awareness across the globe, fueled by the overwhelming feedback from our dedicated listeners. Tony invites you to be part of this transformative journey, either by listening in or by sharing your own story. The conversations we host aim to connect people everywhere, fostering a supportive community that thrives on shared experiences. So, spread the word and join us as we uplift and inspire one another with powerful tales of resilience and hope.https://tonymantor.comhttps://Facebook.com/tonymantorhttps://instagram.com/tonymantorhttps://twitter.com/tonymantorhttps://youtube.com/tonymantormusicintro/outro music bed written by T. WildWhy Not Me the World music published by Mantor Music (BMI)

A World of Difference
Dr. Gretchen Sisson: Exposing the Dark Side of Transnational Adoption Practices

A World of Difference

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2024 60:06


Do you want to truly understand the impact of international adoption and the complex web of privilege and bias it entails? If you're seeking the solution to this, then join me as we delve into this eye-opening conversation that will increase your understanding of privilege and bias in adoption practices. Let's uncover the truth together. In this episode, you will be able to: Understand how international adoption policies impact children's lives. Gain insight into the support available for birth mothers considering adoption. Uncover the mental health effects of adoption on adoptees. Explore the intersection of adoption and reproductive rights. Recognize the privilege and bias in domestic adoption practices. My special guest is Dr. Gretchen Sisson Gretchen Sisson, a research sociologist and author of "The Politics of Adoption and the Privilege of American Motherhood," is a respected figure at the University of California, San Francisco's Advancing New Standards in Reproductive Health ANSIRH) in the Department of Obstetrics, Gynecology, and Reproductive sciences. Her work on adoption relinquishment after abortion denial has been cited in the dissent for the Supreme Court's decision in Dobbs vs Jackson, Women's Health Organization, and has garnered attention from renowned publications such as the Washington Post, Time Magazine, the Nation, NPR, New York Magazine, Vox, and Mother Jones. With a focus on the mental, physical, and financial aspects of women's experiences following pregnancy, Gretchen's expertise sheds light on the complex intersection of adoption and reproductive rights, providing valuable insights for prospective adoptive parents considering transracial adoption. The key moments in this episode are: 00:00:02 - Introduction to the Podcast 00:03:49 - The Impact of Adoption Relinquishment 00:11:19 - Cultural Narratives and Adoption 00:13:38 - International Adoption and Child Trafficking 00:14:43 - Changing Landscape of International Adoption 00:15:11 - The Decline of International Adoption 00:17:01 - The Complexities of Transracial Adoption 00:23:08 - Intersection of Adoption and Reproductive Health 00:26:25 - Nuances of Abortion and Adoption 00:29:16 - Reflection on Adoption Choices 00:30:55 - Impact of Social Safety Nets 00:34:29 - Unique American Domestic Adoption System 00:38:31 - Narratives and Privilege in Adoption 00:41:35 - Unpaid Labor and Normative Ideals 00:43:56 - Challenges of Safe Housing for Pregnant Women 00:44:18 - Coercive Tactics of Adoption Agencies 00:46:35 - Advice for Adoptive Parents 00:49:00 - Overcoming Shame and Guilt 00:55:35 - Embracing Differences and Deepening Understanding 00:58:09 - Importance of Good Relationships 00:58:18 - Spreading Joy and Making a Difference 00:58:30 - You Matter 00:58:32 - Empowering Others "We don't value any of those things that families in poverty, that parents living in poverty can give their children, because we believe this middle class ideal is so, you know, undeniably desirable." - Gretchen Sisson Episode with Cameron Lee Small on Adoptees Connect with us: https://www.aworldofdifferencepodcast.com Linkedin YouTube FaceBook Instagram Threads Patreon Bluesky Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Suicide Zen Forgiveness
Embracing Differences Inspiring Unity Meet Kadin McElwain

Suicide Zen Forgiveness

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2024 31:28 Transcription Available


Breaking the Silence: A Conversation with Kadin McElwain   In this episode of 'Suicide Zen Forgiveness,' the host invites Kadin McElwain, an autistic college student, writer, and activist, to discuss the stigma around autism and mental health. Kadin shares his experiences of navigating life as a 20-something with autism, emphasizing the importance of empathy and understanding for those with mental health challenges. They explore themes of respect, advocacy, and the impact of upbringing on behavior. Kadin talks about his advocacy work, including planning fundraisers for autism awareness. The episode encourages viewers to appreciate the uniqueness of everyone and offers insights into promoting positive interactions across differences.   00:00 Introduction and Mission Statement 01:16 Meet Kadin McElwain: An Autistic Activist 02:27 Kadin's Perspective on Autism and Society 06:28 Challenges and Experiences in Education 12:08 Generational Differences and Advocacy 16:42 Kadin's Hobbies and Personal Interests 20:09 Final Thoughts and Messages 28:18 Conclusion and Farewell 29:38 Closing Remarks and Sponsor Acknowledgements Bio Kadin McElwain is an autistic college student, writer, and activist on a mission to raise as much awareness about autism as possible. During his life, his capabilities were questioned due to who he was. But thanks to a supportive set of parents, he proved his naysayers wrong.   Social Media Facebook      

Yellow Chair Collective: The Podcast.
Re-Run: STOP Abandoning Yourself and Start Setting Boundaries | Razdeep Kaur, MSW

Yellow Chair Collective: The Podcast.

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2024 62:12


In this conversation, Raz Kaur discusses the importance of radical honesty and acceptance, the power of consciousness and the mind, and the process of self-reflection and personal growth. The conversation also touches on the challenges of recovering from perfectionism and the importance of seeking support and advice from trusted individuals. Takeaways Embrace radical honesty and acceptance with yourself to defuse tension and find inner peace. Explore the power of consciousness and the mind in shaping your reality and personal growth. Engage in self-reflection and embrace rawness to discover your true identity and break free from societal molds. Choose yourself and set boundaries to prioritize your well-being and personal fulfillment. Self-reflection and introspection are crucial for personal growth and self-discovery. Recognizing and addressing personal needs is essential for self-care. Past experiences can shape self-perception and behavior, but it is possible to break free from negative patterns. Integrity and authenticity are key values that guide personal growth and decision-making. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Nervous Energy 02:09 The Ego Self and Higher Self 03:34 Radical Honesty and Acceptance 05:17 Self-Reflection and Personal Growth 06:36 Origin Story and Early Influences 07:50 Psychic Sylvia Brown and Spirituality 09:21 Being a Paradox and Embracing Rawness 11:33 The Power of Consciousness and Mind 13:39 Shadow Work and Self-Awareness 15:51 People Pleasing and Self-Reflection 18:49 Mindfulness and Grounding Practices 22:13 Choosing Yourself and Acceptance 25:01 Not Fitting the Mold and Embracing Differences 28:22 Cultural Expectations and Personal Identity 30:37 Choosing Yourself and Internalizing Guilt 36:06 Accepting Yourself as a Paradox 37:42 Choosing Yourself and Setting Boundaries 39:57 Self-Abandonment and Learning from Others 40:32 Epiphanies and Moments of Clarity 41:01 Abandoning Yourself 42:23 Feeling Left Behind 43:21 Becoming a Chameleon 44:19 Discipline and Self-Care 45:13 Slipping and Falling 46:42 Discovering Values and Integrity 49:37 Recovering from Perfectionism 50:30 Deep Integrity and Authenticity 52:21 Choosing Yourself 55:09 Anticipatory Loss 56:30 Seeking Support and Advice 59:11 Reminding Yourself of Who You Are

Psychically Speaking with Lisa Ann
Staying Grounded: Navigating Stress and Embracing Differences

Psychically Speaking with Lisa Ann

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2024 15:06


In this heartfelt comeback episode of Psychically Speaking, Lisa Ann shares her personal story of resilience following a challenging dental ordeal that negatively impacted her life for weeks. With election season upon us, she shifts the focus to maintaining inner peace amidst inevitable differences and chaos. Tune in as Lisa Ann explores the power of respecting diverse opinions, the importance of realistic expectations, and how to stay centered when the world feels divided. Perfect for those looking to find balance and perspective during challenging times.

Love Shack Live
#201: The 3 Most Overlooked Conversations in Every Relationship

Love Shack Live

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2024 50:11


Send us a textWhat if I told you there are three hidden conversations that most couples never have—until it's too late? We're not talking about the dramatic arguments. These are the quiet, everyday moments, full of small frustrations and unspoken expectations, building up layer by layer until they create real cracks in your relationship. In this episode, we're unpacking the three conversations that could bring you and your partner back to center before it's too late.Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for anyone feeling stuck or uncertain about the next step in their relationship. Whether you're replaying the same argument again and again or sitting across from your partner feeling more like roommates than lovers, you're in the right place. I'm Staci Bartley, your relationship mentor, joined by my co-host Tom and our daughter Brooke. Together, we've helped hundreds of couples reclaim their connection, and today, we're diving deep into the questions many are too afraid to ask.So, what are the three conversations you need to have—now—to stop drifting apart? We'll tackle those sneaky expectations that somehow end up in explosions, the tiny resentments that add up, and how to embrace each other's personal growth without feeling left behind.If you've been feeling distant or just plain frustrated, these three talks could be a turning point. Stick with us. These insights may change everything.Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction: The Conversations Couples Avoid00:25 Welcome to Love Shack Live01:46 Conversation 1: The Relationship Time Bomb03:55 Unspoken Expectations and Misunderstandings06:10 Different Perspectives in Relationships09:55 The Importance of Communication22:42 Practical Steps to Open Up Conversations25:17 Reflecting on Tom's Support27:32 Conversation 2: The Resentment Review28:23 Addressing Reoccurring Hurts35:04 Conversation 3: The Growth Gap Discussion38:48 Embracing Differences in Relationships45:18 Invitation to Save Your Marriage Program45:49 Final Thoughts and FarewellReady to build those essential skills? Join the waitlist for Save Your Marriage: A Blueprint for Avoiding Divorce and be the first to know when enrollment opens. Sign up now at stacibartley.com/waitlist and start learning the tools to transform your relationship.

Love Shack Live
#198: Falling Out of Love or Just Disconnected? How to Tell and What to Do

Love Shack Live

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2024 57:40


Send us a textDo you ever hear people say, “We just fell out of love”? Perhaps you've even said it yourself. It's easy to believe that love simply fades when life gets busy or tough. But here's the truth: it's a myth. Love doesn't just slip away; it evolves. And understanding that evolution is the key to rekindling your relationship.Welcome to Love Shack Live—the podcast for anyone standing at a relationship crossroads. If you're facing daily conflicts, growing emotional distance, or wondering if it's even possible to rebuild that deep connection, this show is for you. I'm Staci Bartley, relationship mentor, and I'm joined by my co-host and lover, Tom, and our daughter Brooke. Together, we guide you through what it takes to not only stay in love but thrive.Today's Big Question: Does love really fade over time, or is something else happening beneath the surface?By the end of this episode, you'll understand why love doesn't disappear—it transforms. We'll walk you through the steps you can take to reignite the connection with your partner right now—no waiting necessary. Maybe you've been waiting for love to return on its own. Today, we'll show you how intentional actions can bring it back.Curious? You should be. The answer might surprise you—stay with us.Chapters:00:00 Debunking the Myth of Falling Out of Love01:48 Understanding the Ebb and Flow of Love13:10 The Holy Shit Moment: Realizing Imperfections19:42 Embracing Differences for Growth27:47 Embracing the Cycle of Love29:57 Navigating Relationship Challenges32:24 Rediscovering Connection and Intimacy36:37 The Power of Vulnerability41:33 Practical Steps to Reignite Love51:50 Reflecting on Love and Growth54:01 Closing Thoughts and ResourcesReady to build those essential skills? Join the waitlist for Save Your Marriage: A Blueprint for Avoiding Divorce and be the first to know when enrollment opens. Sign up now at stacibartley.com/waitlist and start learning the tools to transform your relationship.

GIVE A HECK
What Animal Are You? Personality Tests for Self-Discovery with Eric Gee

GIVE A HECK

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2024 72:26


Hey, do you ever feel like you're just not clicking with certain people, no matter how hard you try? You've probably been told to just change yourself to fit in, but it's frustrating, right? It's like trying to force a square peg into a round hole and feeling the pain of not being understood. If you're tired of feeling like you're always the one making the effort in relationships and not getting the results you want, it's time to find a better way to communicate and connect. Let's explore how understanding personality types can help improve your interactions and bring genuine connections into your life. In this episode, you will be able to: Understand how personality typing can enhance relationships and communication dynamics. Discover how personality types can shape and influence career paths and success. Embrace the importance of failure as a catalyst for personal growth and development. Learn how to differentiate between personality types for improved communication and understanding. Explore the pivotal role of empathy in understanding and connecting with diverse personalities. My special guest is Eric Gee Eric Gee is an accomplished personality-based life coach with over two decades of experience. Having impacted the lives of over 20,000 students, parents, and teachers through his successful education company, Eric's expertise in personality typing is evident. He is the creator of the Utopia Project website and Utopia 16 assessment, which has impacted over half a million users since its inception in 2016. Eric's coaching program has been implemented in renowned companies like Hulu and Disney universities, along with over 40 school districts. His deep understanding of personality types and their impact on communication makes him a valuable guest on the show, offering unique insights and strategies for improved understanding and interaction with diverse personalities. Connect with Eric Gee Website: https://www.projectyoutopia.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.c.gee/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_power_of_personality/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/eric-gee-3565a79/ Connect with Dwight Heck! Website: https://giveaheck.com (Free Book Offer) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/give.a.heck Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dwight.heck Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/Giveaheck YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@giveaheck LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/dwight-raymond-heck-65a90150/ TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@giveaheck The key moments in this episode are: 00:00:02 - Introduction to Eric Gee 00:02:03 - The Importance of Critical Thinking 00:04:36 - Parenting and Education 00:08:05 - Eric's Origin Story 00:11:48 - Influence of Father's Advice 00:12:18 - Father's Personality and Influence 00:13:50 - Influence of Parents on Children 00:15:43 - Writing the Book and Epiphanies 00:19:31 - Differentiation and Voice in the Book 00:23:53 - The Broken Education System 00:25:43 - The Gatherer Value System 00:27:14 - Embracing Failure 00:29:50 - Comfort and Discomfort 00:34:44 - Encouraging Agency 00:35:40 - Early Lessons in Confidence 00:36:16 - Parenting and Personality Types 00:38:40 - Four Packs and Animal Types 00:40:53 - Empathy and Parenting 00:45:21 - Differentiating Personality Typing 00:47:13 - Understanding Birth Order and Personality Types 00:49:43 - The Impact of Personality Type on Relationships and Careers 00:52:38 - Embracing Your Unique Personality Type 00:55:58 - Using Pop Culture to Understand Personality Types 00:57:13 - Embracing Differences in Similarity 00:58:41 - The Drive to Succeed 00:59:55 - Relentless Work Ethic 01:01:09 - Hunter vs. Gatherer 01:04:52 - Pursuing Passion 01:09:34 - Embracing Discomfort 

Happier Marriage
BYHM118 | Discover Her Secret to 30 Years of Marriage And The 3 Major Lessons Learned

Happier Marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2024 33:09


Send us a textIn this episode, I share Sarah's story of her marriage to her husband John. Names have been changed for confidentiality purposes. Sarah and John have been married for over 30 years.Sarah will be sharing the lessons she learned and the epiphany she had along the way as she became the best student of her husband. She called it being in "John's University."Sarah opens up about how she used to react to her husband's needs, the mistakes she made along the way, and the valuable lessons God taught her about love, respect, and grace.Key Points Discussed:The Hyper-Defensive ResponseSarah admits that early in her marriage, she often got defensive when her husband John tried to communicate his needs. She realized how many women do this, even when they're asking for better communication. This creates a cycle where both sides feel unheard.Personal Story – Struggling with MisunderstandingRaised in a strict Christian home, Sarah didn't fully understand the emotional and physical differences between men and women. She shares how her judgmental attitude toward her husband's desires led to miscommunication and unnecessary conflict.A Shift in Perspective – God's Wisdom in MarriageAfter years of trying seminars and counseling sessions, Sarah found her breakthrough in the Bible. She learned that understanding her husband required grace, humility, and learning to speak his "emotional language."Society's Influence on Gender Roles in MarriageSarah reflects on how society pushes women into leadership roles while also expecting men to lead. This paradox often leaves men unsure of their place, especially in marriage, where they are expected to be both strong and emotionally vulnerable.Embracing Differences in MarriageAfter 30 years, Sarah is still learning what makes her husband tick. She encourages wives to become "students" of their husbands, understanding that their differences are not a problem but an opportunity for growth.Big Takeaways:Listen First, Respond Later: Many wives, like Sarah, may have a tendency to jump to conclusions when their husbands try to communicate. Understanding comes when we listen without defensiveness.Seek God's Guidance: Sarah found that true transformation in her marriage didn't come from seminars but from seeking God's wisdom through prayer and the Bible.Embrace the Differences: Men and women are wired differently, and that's okay. Instead of viewing those differences as obstacles, see them as part of God's design.Bible Verses Mentioned:Ephesians 5:33 – "However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband."1 Peter 3:7 – "Husbands, in the same way, be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect."Thanks for listening. Follow us on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

Disabled and Proud
Embracing Differences: A Journey of Self-Love and Acceptance with Vitiligo

Disabled and Proud

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2024 49:44


Brooke talks to Nirjeet - otherwise known as The Vitiligo Sikh - who's here this week to talk about his journey of self-acceptance and empowerment. Nirjeet shares his experiences with vitiligo, a skin condition that has led to myths, stigma, and judgment throughout his life. He talks about the importance of self-love, embracing differences, and challenging societal norms, as well as his unexpected journey into modelling, where he found a community of like-minded individuals with vitiligo. Through his initiative, Vitiligo Allies, Nirjeet aims to raise awareness, provide support, and debunk myths surrounding vitiligo.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Understanding the real you and what makes you happy is essential for self-love and acceptance. Embracing differences and being proud of who you are can lead to empowerment and confidence. Vitiligo is not contagious and is not passed on to children, debunking common myths associated with the condition. Building a supportive community and raising awareness can help individuals with vitiligo feel less alone and more empowered. Self-love and self-acceptance are key to overcoming societal judgments and embracing one's uniqueness. BEST MOMENTS "I'd say I'm the same as anyone else, right? We all are. But obviously the society or the people that ask the judgment and comments make you feel that you're different" "I feel like it's very important that the amazing work we continue to give, for example, video podcasts, you're giving back to the community, you're raising more and more awareness, you're talking about these subjects, you're breaking that society norms. It's very important" "I absolutely love my vitiligo. And on that initiative, we've started an initiative called Vitiligo Allies. And Vitiligo Allies is all about raising awareness, creating support groups, meet-ups, events, partnering with pharmaceutical companies, clinics."  "It's a big thing to put yourself out there and to do that and embrace your differences and accept your differences and I think that's really brilliant." VALUABLE RESOURCES https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/disabled-and-proud/id1621152878 HOST BIO Disabled and Proud is the show that brings listeners a different perspective on disability. Each week this podcast highlights an awesome disabled guest speaking about their own disability; why they are proud to be disabled and why they are proud to be themselves.  The conversations in this show will look at what challenges these amazing people face socially, mentally, physically and life in general. This show is raw, open, honest, funny, welcoming and educational.  Disabled & Proud does exactly what it says on the tin! And whilst we are creating this space for disabled people to be unashamedly themselves, without the need to conform to society, this is also not about toxic positivity. This show will be shining a big, bright light on disability without it being “Paralympic or pity”.  As you will hear disability is WHOLE, COMPLETE & PERFECT and whilst the topic of disability can be quite heavy - and we definitely don't shy away from the bad days - this podcast is also about having fun too! Our aim is to play a part in reclaiming the word disability - turning it from inadequacy to perfection!INSTAGRAM! https://www.instagram.com/disabledandproudpodcast/?hl=en: https://www.instagram.com/disabledandproudpodcast/?hl=en

Getting to the top!
How to Achieve Success by Embracing Differences & Unique Perspectives

Getting to the top!

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2024 39:27


Join us for an inspiring conversation with Rachel Welch-Phillips, a trailblazing attorney and Head of Legal & Compliance of the banking sector at the ANSA McAL Group. With a career spanning international law firms and senior executive roles, Rachel's journey is one of resilience, adaptation, and empowerment.

That Other Lifestyle
Neurodivergence and the Lifestyle: Embracing Differences

That Other Lifestyle

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2024 31:23 Transcription Available


Welcome to "That Other Lifestyle Podcast," hosted by Jason. In this episode, inspired by a listener's email, Jason delves into the intriguing intersection of neurodivergence and the lifestyle. Discover how individuals on the spectrum and those with ADHD navigate and enrich the lifestyle community. Jason shares personal insights and research, discussing the challenges and strengths of neurodivergent individuals within this unique social sphere. From handling chaos and sensory overload to the benefits of clear communication and safe spaces, this episode provides valuable considerations for anyone contemplating the lifestyle, neurodivergent or not. With a mix of humor and heartfelt advice, Jason emphasizes inclusivity and understanding, ensuring everyone feels welcome and validated. Tune in to explore how the lifestyle can be a haven for self-expression and connection, regardless of neurological differences.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com www.risquelifestyleparties.com www.nationallifestyleweekend.com Naughty in New Orleans 2025 Tickets https://members.naughty-events.com/events/65424/orders/new?promoter_id=662779 https://thatotherlifestyle.podia.com/single-men-in-the-lifestyle https://beacons.ai/thatotherlifestyle

The Business of Meetings
232: Overcoming Fears: Pamela Schuller's Journey with Tourette Syndrome, Comedy and Embracing Differences

The Business of Meetings

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2024 28:57


The Business of Meetings – Episode 232 - Overcoming Fears: Pamela Schuller's Journey with Tourette Syndrome - Comedy and Embracing Differences  Pamela Schuller is truly a remarkable woman! Several weeks ago, she did a keynote presentation at the MPI World Education Conference in Louisville, where she told her incredible story of having Tourette syndrome, barking unexpectedly, and how she reframed her life, ending up as a keynote speaker.  Today, she joins us on the show to share her touching, inspiring, and amusing journey. Stay tuned for more! Connect with Eric Rozenberg On LinkedIn Facebook Instagram Website Connect with Pamela Schuller On her website  LinkedIn

A World of Difference
Ministers of Propaganda: How the Religious Right Distorts Truth with Dr. Scott Coley

A World of Difference

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2024 76:00


If you're feeling overwhelmed by the rise of Christian nationalism and the spread of harmful ideologies, then you are not alone! The misinformation and propaganda being disseminated can make it feel like an uphill battle. The struggle to dismantle these harmful narratives and combat Christian nationalism can be frustrating and disheartening. It's time to take action and implement strategies that actually work. Let's work together to dismantle these harmful ideologies and create a better future for all. In this episode, you will be able to: Uncover effective strategies for combatting Christian nationalism and propaganda. Learn how to navigate religious topics and promote gender equality in podcasts. Celebrate podcast milestones and the supportive community. Gain insights into addressing propaganda My special guest is Scott Coley Scott Coley, an accomplished scholar who holds a Ph.D. in philosophy from Purdue University, a Master's degree in systematic theology from the University of Notre Dame, and a B.A. in philosophy and English from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. His research interests include philosophy of religion, moral epistemology and political philosophy. He serves on the philosophy faculty at Mount St. Mary's University, where he teaches courses in moral and political philosophy, history of philosophy and logic. His newly released book is: Ministers of Propaganda: Truth, Power, and the Ideology of the Religious Right. Follow Scott on: Instagram Twitter The key moments in this episode are: 00:00:02 - Introducing Betterhelp 00:01:41 - Celebrating 200th Episode 00:06:20 - Impactful Our Story Series 00:09:54 - Building Connections 00:12:46 - Future Direction and Listener Engagement 00:15:25 - Embracing Different Perspectives 00:16:44 - Gratitude for Listeners 00:19:09 - Discussing Scott Coley's Book 00:22:49 - The Motivation to Write the Book 00:29:27 - Rapid Political Developments 00:30:51 - Backlash against women in leadership 00:36:32 - Ideology and hierarchy 00:38:05 - Christian nationalism 00:43:40 - Intersection of authoritarianism and abuse 00:47:35 - White evangelical theology and authoritarianism 00:48:21 - The Relationship Between Truth and Power 00:49:26 - Forms of Propaganda 00:55:15 - Misuse of Scripture 00:57:13 - Reframing Concepts in Politics and Religion 00:58:49 - Practical Steps for Addressing Propaganda 01:04:53 - Embracing Differences in Views 01:05:25 - Global Need for Dignity and Respect 01:06:09 - Engaging with the Audience 01:08:07 - Decoding Propaganda and Fear-Mongering 01:13:20 - Community Engagement and Gratitude  https://www.aworldofdifferencepodcast.com https://www.linkedin.com/company/aworldofdifference/ https://www.twitter.com/@awodpod https://www.youtube.com/@aworldofdifference https://www.facebook.com/A-World-of-Difference-613933132591673/ https://www.instagram.com/aworldof.difference https://www.patreon.com/aworldofdifference Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Think Fast, Talk Smart: Communication Techniques.
155. Can We Be Candid? How to Communicate Clearly and Directly

Think Fast, Talk Smart: Communication Techniques.

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2024 17:14


Navigators know the shortest distance between two points is a straight line. In charting a course through communication, Susan Rice says the best route is often the most direct.Throughout her career at the forefront of American diplomacy and foreign policy, Rice has been no stranger to high-stakes situations that hinge on clear and candid communication. As she says, “I'm very direct. I don't believe in playing games, going around people, and being passive-aggressive. I shoot straight.” Rice graduated from Stanford University in 1986 and served as the US Ambassador to the United Nations from 2009 to 2013 and the National Security Advisor from 2013 to 2017. She is currently the Bernard and Susan Liautaud Visiting Fellow. Rice is the author of Tough Love: My Story of the Things Worth Fighting For.But beyond being direct herself, Rice knows the value of allowing others to be direct with her. “If you give it, you got to be able to take it,” she says. “I've benefited at various stages of my career from colleagues who've been kind enough to give me the hard truths or the tough love to enable me to be better and help me to recognize where I'm falling short.”In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Rice and host Matt Abrahams discuss how to foster personal and professional relationships where candidness can thrive — even when communicating with those we don't agree with.Episode Reference Links:Stanford Freeman Spogli Institute Profile: Susan E. RiceSusan's Book: Tough LoveEp.35 Leading from the Hot Seat: How to Communicate Under Pressure Website / YouTubeConnect:Email Questions & Feedback >>> thinkfast@stanford.eduEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn Page, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInStanford GSB >>> LinkedIn & TwitterChapters:(00:00:00) IntroductionHost Matt Abrahams introduces guest Dr. Susan Rice, former White House official and representative to the United Nations.(00:00:56) Leadership PrinciplesSusan discusses vision, direction, and the importance of people in leadership.(00:03:10) Giving and Receiving FeedbackImportance of direct communication and the value of constructive feedback.(00:05:01) Negotiation InsightsStrategies for understanding and leveraging positions in negotiations(00:06:50) Enjoyment of NegotiationThe skills and satisfaction involved in successful negotiations.(00:07:59) Standing OutAdvice for those who find themselves different from others in their professional environments.(00:10:33) The Final Three QuestionsSusan shares how she balances family political differences, communicators she admires, and ingredients for successful communication.(00:16:17) Conclusion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Disabled and Proud
Our Chaotic Adventure: Traveling with Disabilities and Embracing Differences - with Kirsty and Xander

Disabled and Proud

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2024 55:00


Brooke welcomes Kirsty and Xander from Our Chaotic Adventure, a couple who met while playing wheelchair basketball. They talk about their personal experiences with disability, including Kirsty's journey from childhood with a disability to becoming an amputee, and Xander's sudden spinal injury that led to paralysis. They discuss their perspectives on disability, the medicalisation of disabilities, and the importance of representation in the medical field. Xander, a medical student, shares his efforts to advocate for disability inclusion in medical education. The couple also reflects on their relationship, long-distance challenges, and their upcoming wedding.  KEY TAKEAWAYS It's vital to have disabled individuals in the medical field to provide a holistic view of care and treatment. Overcoming societal perceptions and ignorance about disabilities is key, especially in professions like medicine. Embrace disability and push boundaries to achieve personal and professional goals. We must better advocate for a shift towards a more inclusive and less medicalised approach to disability. We should always push to demonstrate that disabilities should not limit one's aspirations or capabilities, but rather open up new possibilities and perspectives. BEST MOMENTS "I see disabled people now and I'm like, come on, just do it. I would definitely not give sound medical advice to a disabled person. Buy the book, don't do that." "I think it's opened up a lot of different avenues that I didn't expect in different sports. And also as well, I've just actually heard today that I received a place on a master's program for physiotherapy." "I think it's one of those things that actually it's really important to prove that. So that's why I'm quite amped about trying to improve that. Because I think it's an awesome job and I want more disabled people to do it." "I've spoken to a lot of people, I genuinely have spoken to a lot of people that have said to me that I would love to do medicine but I'm in a wheelchair." VALUABLE RESOURCES https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/disabled-and-proud/id1621152878 HOST BIO Disabled and Proud is the show that brings listeners a different perspective on disability. Each week this podcast highlights an awesome disabled guest speaking about their own disability; why they are proud to be disabled and why they are proud to be themselves.  The conversations in this show will look at what challenges these amazing people face socially, mentally, physically and life in general. This show is raw, open, honest, funny, welcoming and educational.  Disabled & Proud does exactly what it says on the tin! And whilst we are creating this space for disabled people to be unashamedly themselves, without the need to conform to society, this is also not about toxic positivity. This show will be shining a big, bright light on disability without it being “Paralympic or pity”.  As you will hear disability is WHOLE, COMPLETE & PERFECT and whilst the topic of disability can be quite heavy - and we definitely don't shy away from the bad days - this podcast is also about having fun too! Our aim is to play a part in reclaiming the word disability - turning it from inadequacy to perfection!INSTAGRAM! https://www.instagram.com/disabledandproudpodcast/?hl=en: https://www.instagram.com/disabledandproudpodcast/?hl=en

Young Dad Podcast
135: The Joys and Challenges of Fatherhood Embracing Differences: Parenting with Acceptance- Bird, Memphis Joe, TallBeing

Young Dad Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2024 65:34


Summary In this episode of the Young Dad Podcast, Jay and his guests, Bird and Joe, discuss their experiences as fathers and hosts of the Room Upstairs podcast. They talk about the challenges and joys of parenting, the dynamics of their blended families, and the process of adoption. They emphasize the importance of community support, learning from mistakes, and treating each family member as an individual. The conversation highlights the growth and resilience that comes with fatherhood. The conversation revolves around the importance of understanding and accepting the differences between parents and children. The speakers discuss their personal experiences with their fathers and how they have learned to love and appreciate their children for who they are. They emphasize the need to bond with children over their interests and support their passions. The speakers also touch on the benefits of having a strong faith foundation in parenting and treating children with respect and love. They share anecdotes about their children's interests, such as sports, reading, and Pokemon, and how they have embraced and encouraged them. The conversation concludes with a discussion about the friendly and welcoming nature of people in the Midwest and the joys of living in close proximity to family members. Takeaways Parenting is a journey of growth and learning from mistakes. Community support is crucial in navigating the challenges of fatherhood. Treating each family member as an individual and showing grace and understanding is important. Adoption can be a long and emotionally draining process, but the joy of welcoming a child into the family makes it all worth it. Fatherhood provides opportunities for bonding and creating special memories with children. Navigating the different personalities and interests of family members requires patience, empathy, and acceptance. Understand and accept the differences between parents and children Bond with children over their interests and support their passions Having a strong faith foundation can guide parenting Treat children with respect and love, regardless of their interests Living in close proximity to family members can be beneficial Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Announcement 01:01 Introduction of Guests and Podcast 07:22 Podcasting with Family Members 09:55 Fatherhood Journeys 15:47 Challenges of Raising Children with Age Gaps 22:26 Navigating the Adoption Process 28:44 Navigating Different Personalities 37:27 Father-Son Relationship 39:24 Finding Common Ground 41:16 Parenting with Love and Respect 42:40 Learning to Love as a Father 43:10 The Journey of Becoming a Dad 45:24 Supporting Children's Interests 48:36 Embracing Differences in Children 50:08 Living Close to Family 55:52 Adapting to a New Lifestyle 56:44 Cultural Differences and Adjustments 59:00 Raising Chickens and Homesteading 01:03:05 The Room Upstairs Podcast Find more of Bird, Joe and Tall Bean and listen to the Room Upstairs Podcast- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCofIpiJlxBAHp_Zn4RCG_TA Support the Pod! Subscribe to the Newsletter and find all the deals, specials, promos and partners of Young Dad Podcast on our Link.Tree- ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/ballboyblog⁠ Joon App: Discount code: YNGDAD Listener Link: ⁠joonapp.io/youngdad⁠ Make sure to like, follow, subscribe, leave a review and show your support --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/youngdadpod/support

Embracing Differences
Embracing Differences with William Martin

Embracing Differences

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2024 52:05


This podcast discussion represents two people from different parts of the globe with different backgrounds looking for common ground.   As you listen you can initially hear different perspectives and perceptions. It felt that we began to synchronize at some point and eventually arrived at the same place. It should not be surprising. There are 8 billion of us on the planet. While we all may look completely different; we are designed exactly the same.   When we move to defend our belief's, we often sacrifice the ability to move forward and seek the learning that is necessary to raise the discussion to higher understanding. Curiosity initiates logic, reason and intuition. Defense moves us to justify and rationalize a belief or an action in the past. Forward is the future we are trying to shape. Backward is the past we cannot change.   We own our belief's. There is no reason to defend them.  Someone with different belief's is not a threat to ours. Someone else cannot steal our belief. However, if we are curious and listen to others, we can then decide for ourselves if new information somehow may shape our change our current belief. We don't have to like another's perspective or their idea. We just have to listen.   As you listen to this podcast, see if you can hear how the different perspectives begin to align. We can release and discover potential in each other, or we can suppress it. We have that power.   The question is, are you willing to walk through the door?  

Order of Man
Secrets to Thriving Relationships | ASK ME ANYTHING

Order of Man

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2024 73:52


In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp explore emotions and communication through thought-provoking discussions. They kick off with a recent weekend of tubing and chores, highlighting their energetic nature. They discuss vulnerability in male relationships, emphasizing solutions over problems and urging men to reflect before reacting to emotional topics. They then tackle men's mental health and communication empowerment, discussing male depression and suicide. They underscore the importance of purpose, meaning, and camaraderie, advocating for action plans to combat a victim mindset and reframe challenges for growth. Ryan and Kipp also explore embracing differences in relationships, overcoming victimhood, and the importance of consistent communication. They discuss rebuilding oneself through better habits and navigating tribal mentality, ultimately emphasizing the balance of personal interests with family responsibilities. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Exploring Emotions and Communication (14:51) - Men's Mental Health and Communication Empowerment (26:26) - Embracing Differences in Relationships (32:33) - Accepting Ownership and Overcoming Victimhood (41:16) - Navigating Tribal Mentality and Individuality (45:08) - Labeling and Empowerment in Personal Development (54:32) - Finding Fulfillment and Truth (01:00:43) - Letting Go of Past Baggage Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Embracing Only
Impact Moment 01: Choice Versus Sacrifice with Vijaya Sivakumar

Embracing Only

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2024 9:57


Episode Highlight: On this episode of the "Embracing Only" podcast, we are featuring one of the most impactful moments from episode 6, where we were lucky enough to have Archita's mother, Vijaya Sivakumar, as a guest. She shares her experience of working for 40 years at a company in India as the only female among 70 men — all while raising two daughters.    This episode is just a short snippet that highlights the best and most powerful learning moment from a past episode. You can listen to the full episode (filled with more wisdom) here: Episode 6: A Special Episode - Giving Thanks.   Key Discussion Points: 01:09 Being the Only Woman in the Room: Archita shares how her mother has influenced her feelings toward being the only woman in the room. 02:43 Embracing Differences in the Workplace: Share to grow - share your knowledge with your colleagues so that you can both grow. 04:22 Choice Versus Sacrifice: It's not about focusing on the sacrifices made, it's about fulfilling the commitments to the choices you have made. 07:46 Asking For Help: It is possible to have both a career and children if you lean into opportunities and don't hesitate to ask for help.   In Summary: Vijaya Sivakumar challenges us to change our perspective on choice versus sacrifice. By using the word choice, you take the power back into your hands versus letting the circumstance have sway over you.   Connect with your hosts: Follow Archita on Linkedin or check out her website. Follow Olivia on Linkedin or check out her website. Follow Embracing Only on Linkedin, Instagram, and Facebook, or check out the website. _________ Produced by Ideablossoms

Life after Kids with Drs. Brooke and Lynne
Tips and Insights for Reconnecting with Your Spouse in Life after Kids

Life after Kids with Drs. Brooke and Lynne

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2024 44:12


For almost all mothers, the best thing that ever happened to us is our kids.  And yet, after they're born so many of our own needs take a back seat to theirs.  Their lives become our lives and often there are areas of our own life that get neglected.  One of those areas is an important one.  It's our relationship with our spouse or significant other. Considering Father's Day, we decided to focus this episode of Life After Kids on the critical topic of reconnecting with your spouse post-childrearingWe delve into practical strategies for rekindling the relationship with your significant other, using the framework of the "What's Your Purpose?" quiz. This episode isn't just for married women but offers valuable insights for single moms, those dating, or anyone keen on enhancing their relationships. Key Takeaways:Remember the Initial Spark: Regularly reflect on what initially attracted you to your spouse to reignite those feelings.Shared Experiences: Revisit cherished memories and experiences to strengthen your bond.Understand Dominant Styles: Use the "What's Your Purpose?" quiz to identify your spouse's dominant style and tailor your approach accordingly.Personalized Connection: Specific actions can help reconnect, such as taking advice seriously for Magnificent Motivators or participating in tasks with Diligent Doers.Selfless Love: Practice selfless love and appreciation for each other to build a stronger, more resilient relationship.Listen to this week's episode of Life after Kids in its entirety to learn more about using the "What's Your Purpose?" quiz to understand each partner's dominant style, categorizing them as Diligent Doers, Remarkable Relators, Magnificent Motivators, or Awesome Analyzers. By tailoring connection strategies to these categories, you'll get a personalized approach to strengthening your relationships. Most importantly, don't forget the significance of selflessness and mutual understanding in fostering a strong, enduring marital bond.RESOURCES:The Life after Kids What's My Purpose QuizThe 5 Love Languages BookTimestamp Summary | 0:00  | Reconnecting With Your Spouse Using the What's Your Purpose Quiz | 2:29  | Prioritizing Spousal Connection Before and After Kids Leave Home | 3:51  | Rekindling Romance by Remembering Why You Fell in Love | 10:17  | Understanding Four Types of Personalities and Their Dominant Styles | 12:12  | Understanding and Embracing Differences in Relationships | 16:10  | Effective Communication Strategies in Relationships | 19:38  | Selflessness and Control in Improving Marital Relationships | 21:33  | Reconnecting Through Shared Activities and Understanding Personality Types | 27:53  | Understanding and Appreciating Different Spousal Strengths | 34:47  | Balancing Work and Relationships with Diligent Doers | 38:12  | Understanding Relationship Dynamics Through Purpose and Communication Enjoy the show, and we hope you learn a little bit more about living a fulfilling, vibrant, and meaningful Life after Kids! If you like what you hear please rate and review the podcast, hit subscribe, and pass it along to a friend. Making tomorrow even better than today, Dr. Brooke and Dr. Lynne PS... Don't forget to follow us! Instagram Facebook Tik Tok

Superpowers School Podcast - Productivity Future Of Work, Motivation, Entrepreneurs, Agile, Creative

Ricardo Brito shares insights on the power of storytelling in making sense of our career and working identity. The discussion delves into the scientific underpinnings of storytelling, cultural differences in professional roles, and how personal stories shape our professional lives.Ricardo shares his journey from a fine arts student to a UX designer and coach, emphasizing how understanding and articulating our own stories can help us navigate career transitions and stay relevant in a rapidly changing world.The episode offers practical advice on using storytelling to reflect on career achievements, overcome professional challenges, and prepare for a future increasingly influenced by AI.00:00 Introduction to Storytelling and Neuroscience03:30 Ricardo's Background and Early Life05:57 The Journey of Career Reinvention11:19 The Power of Storytelling in Shaping Identity21:46 Simplifying Complex Concepts23:08 Client Success Story25:01 Reflecting on Past Experiences26:45 The Power of Personal Storytelling30:15 Embracing Differences at Work39:12 Recommended Resources for Storytelling41:16 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsRicardo BritoRicardo Brito is a career and life coach with a unique approach: helping people pave their way to personal and professional fulfilling balance through what he calls the PATH Method. Ricardo's journey began back in 2021, when deeply entrenched in the corporate tech world as a UX design lead he found himself battling burnout, disillusionment, and defeat. The turning point came when he reached a breaking point and sought medical help, realizing that something needed to change. This led him on an unexpected path of rediscovering himself through therapy, coaching, and experimentation. As he delved into coaching, Ricardo found a renewed sense of purpose and direction, ultimately choosing to downgrade his role in the corporate world. This decision brought him a profound revelation - that his self-worth was not tied to his title or status, but rather in the impact he made and the quality of his work… and more than products or businesses, it was always about the people and their growth. Through his own journey, Ricardo developed a unique approach to help others navigate professional transitions and transformations, culminating in the creation of the PATH Method.Ricardo's links: https://www.ricardobrito.me/gift https://www.linkedin.com/in/ribrito/ https://ricardobrito.substack.com/ hello@ricardobrito.meRicardo Brito is a career and life coach with a unique approach: helping people pave their way to personal and professional fulfilling balance through what he calls the PATH Method. Ricardo's journey began back in 2021, when deeply entrenched in the corporate tech world as a UX design lead he found himself battling burnout, disillusionment, and defeat. The turning point came when he reached a breaking point and sought medical help, realizing that something needed to change. This led him on an unexpected path of rediscovering himself through therapy, coaching, and experimentation. As he delved into coaching, Ricardo found a renewed sense of purpose and direction, ultimately choosing to downgrade his role in the corporate world. This decision brought him a profound revelation - that his self-worth was not tied to his title or status, but rather in the impact he made and the quality of his work… and more than products or businesses, it was always about the people and their growth. Through his own journey, Ricardo developed a unique approach to help others navigate professional transitions and transformations, culminating in the creation of the PATH Method.Ricardo's links: https://www.ricardobrito.me/gift https://www.linkedin.com/in/ribrito/ https://ricardobrito.substack.com/ hello@ricardobrito.me⚡️ In each episode, Paddy Dhanda deep dives into a new human Superpower to help you thrive in the age of AI.

A World of Difference
Beyond Borders

A World of Difference

Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2024 50:36


Are you ready for a living abroad story with an unexpected twist? What if I told you that a TCK, who has traversed the globe and faced earthquake disasters, is now crowd-funding a memoir that unveils his journey through polarized worlds? This is not your ordinary travelogue. Join me in uncovering the heart-wrenching and inspiring stories that have shaped Michael Sullivan's life. Stay tuned for a peek into a world where personal growth and societal impact collide in unexpected ways. Trust me, this is a narrative you don't want to miss. In this episode, you will be able to: Discover the transformative benefits of therapy for personal growth and self-awareness. Navigate the unique challenges and growth opportunities of being a Third Culture Kid. Unleash the power of personal storytelling through memoir writing for self-discovery and connection. Learn how to build bridges and foster understanding in a polarized world. Explore the profound impact of immigration on personal and societal levels. My special guest is Michael Sullivan As the host of the "Where Are You From? A TCK Podcast," Michael Sullivan brings a wealth of personal and professional experiences to the table. Growing up and living as an expat in different countries, from Thailand to the Philippines, and now residing in Turkey as an English language expert, Michael's journey as a Third Culture Kid (TCK) is both captivating and insightful. His forthcoming book, "Building Bridges: Can We Love and Relate in a Polarized World," dives into the impact of immigration and the challenges of cultural identity, offering a fresh and empathetic take on these pertinent issues. With his unique blend of memoir storytelling and global perspective, Michael is a compelling guest for anyone seeking personal growth, self-awareness, and a deeper understanding of the world's diverse cultures. We don't have to be completely comfortable with the way other people think, but we certainly can learn something from them. - Michael Sullivan The key moments in this episode are: 00:00:02 - Introduction to the Podcast and Guest 00:01:03 - Sponsorship and Personal Growth 00:02:40 - Welcoming Michael Sullivan 00:05:28 - Connection through Global Experiences 00:12:21 - Immigration and Understanding Perspectives 00:16:03 - Journey from Venezuela to New Mexico 00:17:12 - Unresolved Grief and Pain 00:18:07 - Bridging First and Third Worlds 00:20:51 - Overcoming Fear and Embracing Differences 00:31:53 - Hope for the Future 00:33:25 - The importance of understanding others 00:34:48 - The necessity of facing challenges 00:37:03 - The process of healing and growth 00:40:17 - Finding purpose in adversity 00:43:53 - Crowdfunding the book 00:48:02 - Building Bridges and Making a Difference 00:48:40 - Exclusive Interview with Michael Sullivan 00:49:15 - Join the Difference Maker Community 00:49:40 - Connect and Share in the Community 00:50:28 - Keep Making a Difference

Redefining Success
99 - Strengthening Marriage through Embracing Differences with Loving on Purpose's Brittney and Ben Serpell

Redefining Success

Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2024 40:07


Your host, Eric Dunuvant, talks with the Senior Leaders of Loving on Purpose, Brittney and Ben Serpell. Ben and Brittany Serpell are not just partners in life but also in their mission to advocate for families. Celebrating two decades of marriage and nurturing three incredible children, they've dedicated their lives to working in ministry, specifically for Loving on Purpose—a ministry founded by Brittany's father, Danny Silk. Their journey, marked by a commitment to prioritizing their marriage and family, offers a blueprint for cultivating a home environment where love and abundance flourish.To learn more about Brittney and Ben's work, click HERE, HERE, and HERE.If you'd like to be a guest on the Kingdom ROI: Return on Intention podcast, click HERE.

Transformed Sales
The Importance of Talent in Leadership with Mary Shea

Transformed Sales

Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2024 30:08 Transcription Available


SummaryIn this episode, Mary Shea, a sales leader with over 25 years of experience, shares her journey and insights. She discusses the importance of embracing differences and being authentic in sales. Mary also emphasizes the need to invest in oneself and surround oneself with the right people. She highlights the significance of talent in leadership and the importance of communicating vision and leading with intention. Mary's advice for success includes taking calculated risks and developing a strategic mindset.TakeawaysEmbrace your differences and use them to your advantage in sales.Invest in yourself and surround yourself with the right people.Communicate your vision and lead with intention.Take calculated risks and develop a strategic mindset.Chapters00:00- Introduction and Background01:17- Starting a Sales Career04:35- Overcoming the Fear of Rejection05:20- Being Authentic in Sales07:04- Breaking Stereotypes in the Car Sales Industry08:09- Embracing Differences and Being Authentic09:31- Advice for Embracing Differences11:23- Career Progression and Strategic Thinking15:19- Investing in Yourself and Surrounding Yourself with the Right People20:43- Taking Calculated Risks and Developing a Strategic Mindset23:26- Transitioning to Managing Teams24:47- Importance of Talent in Leadership27:55- Communicating Vision and Leading with Intention29:27- Lessons Learned in Leadership30:06- Closing and Contact Information

A World of Difference
Jemar Tisby and Doug Stone on Awakening Justice: Rediscovering Abolitionists' Calls for Equality

A World of Difference

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2024 53:08


If you're feeling overwhelmed by the complexities of racial justice and faith intersections, and wondering how to truly make a difference, then you are not alone! The struggle to understand the historical context and apply it to modern-day challenges can be daunting. Many may be seeking guidance on how to effectively navigate these issues and create meaningful change.My special guests are Jemar Tisby, Doug StoneJemar Tisby, the New York Times bestselling author of "The Color of Compromise," is a historian, author, and speaker. His work has been featured in reputable platforms such as CNN, the Washington Post, the Atlantic, and the New York Times. Jemar's expertise in addressing the truth about the American church's complicity in racism makes him a significant voice in the intersection of faith and racial justice. As a PhD candidate in history at the University of Mississippi, his commitment to shedding light on historical lessons from abolitionist movements and advocating for social reform through interracial solidarity is evident in his work. Jemar's impact extends beyond academia as he is the founder and president of the Witness of Black Christian Collective and the co-host of the Pass the Mic podcast. His dedication to historical research and advocacy for justice makes him an influential figure in the conversation on racial equity and social change.Doug Stone, an esteemed author and professor with a wealth of knowledge in American religious history, specifically focusing on the 19th-century revivalism and social reform, is a vital voice in the discussion of faith and racial justice. With an MDIV and a PhD from Princeton Theological Seminary, Doug's expertise and dedication to understanding the historical abolitionist movements bring valuable insights to the current social and racial justice landscape. As a committed pastor and a professor at Seattle Pacific University, Doug's passion for intercultural learning and his extensive experience in leading students on international trips underscore his commitment to shaping a global perspective on faith and justice. His contributions to the Awakening to Justice: Faithful Voices from the Abolitionist Past project reflect his deep understanding of the impact of historical narratives on contemporary social reform.The theological, the Christian principle of loving your neighbor as yourself is still applicable in that situation. And what it forces us to do is to try to perceive the world from another person's perspective, which is what a world of difference podcast is all about. - Jemar TisbyIn this episode, you will be able to:Explore the profound impact of faith on driving meaningful change in racial justice movements.Uncover valuable historical insights and powerful tactics used by abolitionist movements to inspire modern-day activism.Discover the pivotal role of interracial solidarity in advancing social reform and creating lasting change.Learn actionable strategies from historical abolitionists to empower and guide today's activists in their advocacy work.Gain a deeper understanding of history through the impactful influence of personal journals on shaping historical narratives.Role of Interracial SolidarityThe importance of interracial solidarity in driving social reform is underscored throughout the episode, emphasizing the need for collaboration across diverse backgrounds to effect meaningful change. By highlighting the contributions of lesser-known figures from the abolitionist movement, the discussion showcases the power of unity in addressing racial injustices. The episode prompts faith leaders and activists to prioritize building connections and fostering meaningful relationships across racial boundaries, recognizing the collective strength that comes from diverse voices working together towards justiceThe resources mentioned in this episode are:Visit awakeningtojustice.com for free resources related to the book Awakening to Justice: Faithful Voices from the Abolitionist Past, including a discussion guide, sermon ideas, music suggestions, worship song ideas, and a 35-minute film documentary.Order a copy of "Awakening to Justice," at: https://www.ivpress.com/awakening-to-justice and get a discount just for A World of Difference podcast listeners with promo code: IVPPOD20 Subscribe to Jemar Tisby's substack at jemartisby.substack.com for more of his writing and insights on racial justice and faith.Participate in a book club, church group, or civic group to study Awakening to Justice together, and consider hosting a viewing or screening of the accompanying film documentary followed by a discussion.Consider applying for grants to gather and travel to historical sites related to racial justice advocacy, fostering intentional connections and learning from different perspectives.Take pilgrimages together with a group to historical sites in your area that have significance, paying attention not only to the content of what you're studying, but also to the connections that you're forming.The justification follows the action. In the case of us race-based chattel slavery, slaveholders were going to get their money. They were going to find laborers. They were going to increase their bottom line by not paying them. And then they were going to come up with the rationale and the reasoning to justify it. - Jemar TisbyLessons from Abolitionist MovementsThe episode explores the valuable lessons that can be gleaned from historical abolitionist movements, shedding light on the strategies and tactics employed by abolitionists to fight against racism and oppression. By studying the experiences of abolitionists, modern activists can gain insights into effective approaches to address racial injustices and promote equality in society. The conversation emphasizes the relevance of historical narratives in shaping current advocacy efforts and highlights the enduring impact of past activism on present-day social justice movements.The key moments in this episode are:00:00:02 - Introducing the Authors00:02:49 - Unveiling a Compelling Discovery00:09:07 - The Other Narrative of Christianity00:11:38 - Contemporary Relevance and Challenges00:15:14 - Importance of Interracial Solidarity00:16:40 - Documenting Our Work00:18:13 - Applying Faith to Justice Issues00:19:15 - Lesser-Known Abolitionist Figures00:26:53 - Faith and Pursuit of Justice00:32:32 - The Call to Justice and Unity00:33:30 - The Influence of Narratives00:34:43 - Justification of Slavery00:39:00 - Lessons from Abolitionists00:45:43 - Calls to Action00:50:19 - Importance of Listening to Different Voices00:50:58 - Embracing Differences and Working Together00:51:38 - Global Relevance of the Book00:52:02 - Encouragement for Self-Care00:52:52 - Final Words of EncouragementOur differences are beautiful. And we want to highlight those because it's our different perspectives that help each of us think more deeply and make a difference together in ways we otherwise wouldn't. - Lori Adams-BrownTimestamped summary of this episode:00:00:02 - Introducing the AuthorsHost Lori introduces authors Jamar Tisby and Doug Stone, highlighting their backgrounds and the inspiration behind their new book.00:02:49 - Unveiling a Compelling DiscoveryDoug discusses the exciting discovery of a diary belonging to an abolitionist found in a box at Adrian College, sparking the inspiration for their book.00:09:07 - The Other Narrative of ChristianityJamar explores the alternative narrative of Christianity, focusing on the voices and actions of those who worked for justice and equality within the context of their faith, challenging the prevailing narrative of complicity with racism.00:11:38 - Contemporary Relevance and ChallengesDoug highlights the ongoing relevance of the abolitionist voices in the book, emphasizing the need to confront the continuing effects of racism and white supremacy, drawing parallels between historical struggles and modern-day activism.00:15:14 - Importance of Interracial SolidarityJemar emphasizes the importance of not giving up on interracial solidarity and cooperation, highlighting the power of people coming together across differences to pursue common goals, such as the abolition movement.00:16:40 - Documenting Our WorkDoug discusses the significance of documenting our work for posterity, encouraging the use of personal journals, online platforms, and video to leave a legacy for future generations, as exemplified by the journal of the lesser-known abolitionist Ingram.00:18:13 - Applying Faith to Justice IssuesJemar delves into the intersection of faith and justice, emphasizing the application of theological principles to societal and structural levels, urging individuals to get proximate with those on the margins and engage in actions that demonstrate love for neighbors.00:19:15 - Lesser-Known Abolitionist FiguresDoug highlights the contributions of lesser-known abolitionist figures, such as Ingram and Nancy Prince, who played pivotal roles in the abolition movement, including the education of emancipated slaves in Jamaica, shedding light on their collaborative, interracial efforts.00:26:53 - Faith and Pursuit of JusticeJemar discusses how faith intersects with the pursuit of justice, emphasizing the application of the golden rule and the concept of loving neighbors as oneself on a societal and institutional level, encouraging the engagement of religious institutions in social justice issues today.00:32:32 - The Call to Justice and UnityJemar and Doug discuss the need for people of all faiths to come together and work towards justice and unity, addressing issues like racial justice and more.00:33:30 - The Influence of NarrativesThe conversation delves into the impact of personal narratives and cultural filters on interpreting scriptures and justifying actions, especially in the context of the US and historical racism.00:34:43 - Justification of SlaveryJemar addresses the age-old question of how the same scriptures can both liberate and condone enslavement, highlighting how the justification often follows the action, especially in the case of race-based chattel slavery.00:39:00 - Lessons from AbolitionistsDoug and Jemar emphasize the importance of intentional connection and fellowship with others, drawing inspiration from the abolitionists and their commitment to coming together to work towards justice.00:45:43 - Calls to ActionThe guests provide concrete calls to action, encouraging people to come together, take pilgrimages, and intentionally form connections with others from diverse backgrounds to foster longevity, perseverance, and resilience in the struggle for justice.00:50:19 - Importance of Listening to Different VoicesLori promotes listening to Jamar Tisby and Doug Stone, highlighting the value of diverse perspectives in making a difference and understanding commonalities.00:50:58 - Embracing Differences and Working TogetherEmphasizes the beauty of diverse perspectives and the importance of working together for justice and making a difference shoulder to shoulder.00:51:38 - Global Relevance of the BookDiscusses how the book's insights on race and faith intersecting are relevant worldwide, encouraging continued conversations and efforts towards justice.00:52:02 - Encouragement for Self-CareLori encourages listeners to prioritize self-care, highlighting the importance of recharging to continue making a positive impact in the world.00:52:52 - Final Words of EncouragementLori expresses gratitude for the listeners' efforts and encourages them to keep making a difference while taking care of themselves.https://www.youtube.com/@aworldofdifferencehttps://www.linkedin.com/company/aworldofdifference/https://www.aworldofdifferencepodcast.comhttps://www.twitter.com/@awodpodhttps://www.facebook.com/A-World-of-Difference-613933132591673/

Locked In with Ian Bick
Former NFL Player Reveals How The NFL Controls The Media When A Player Gets Arrested | John Moffitt

Locked In with Ian Bick

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2024 81:46


Former NFL Player John Moffitt candidly recounts his journey to the NFL, navigating through controversies on the field, brushes with the law, grappling with the effects of CTE, and shedding light on the profound influence of the NFL on media narratives. Hosted, Executive Produced & Edited By Ian Bick: https://www.instagram.com/ian_bick/?hl=en https://ianbick.com/ Connect with John Moffitt: https://www.instagram.com/moffitt74/ Creative direction, design, assets, support by FWRD: https://www.fwrd.co Buy Merch: https://lockedinbrand.com Use code lockedin at checkout to get 20% off your order Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Intro 00:04:55 - Embracing Differences and Overcoming Bullying 00:09:37 - Personal Growth and Change 00:14:17 - The Swedish Prison System and Prison Content Creation 00:18:56 - The Inversion of Common Law 00:28:12 - The Impact of Football on Life and Career 00:32:48 - Quitting the NFL due to a degenerative brain disease 00:37:29 - College Experiences and Getting Into Trouble 00:42:10 - The Roller Coaster of My Personal Life 00:47:07 - Arrest and Jail Experience 00:52:03 - Recovery 00:57:04 - Addictive personality and gambling 01:01:59 - Channeling Addiction into Business and Football 01:06:51 - Disappointment in the NFL Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dads With Daughters
Steve Steele: A Coach's Journey of Love, Family, and Empowering Daughters

Dads With Daughters

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2024 20:02


Fatherhood is a journey filled with an array of unique challenges and rewarding moments. In the Dads with Daughters podcast, guest Steve Steele sheds light on his personal journey as a father of four, offering insightful perspectives and valuable advice. From embracing the differences in raising daughters and sons to balancing work as a coach and family life, Steve shares his experiences and the lessons he has learned along the way. Embracing Differences in Raising Sons and Daughters Steve starts by highlighting the differences he observed in raising his son, Simon, and his daughters, Gianna and Shay. He emphasizes that each child is unique, showcasing distinct interests and needs. As a coach, Steve acknowledges the importance of engaging with his children's individual passions, even if they differ from his own. He underlines the significance of being a playful father, actively participating in activities that resonate with his daughters, thus fostering a supportive and understanding environment. Parental Presence and One-on-One Time The significance of one-on-one time with each child resonates throughout Steve's narrative. Given the demands of a coaching career and the challenges of raising four children, finding dedicated time for each child becomes essential. Steve emphasizes both physical and emotional presence, acknowledging that being mentally and emotionally available for his children is as important as being physically present. He shares the value of carving out time for individual interactions, aiming to create meaningful connections and memories with each of his children. The Impact of Strong Family Foundations An essential aspect of Steve's journey as a father is the strong foundation built within his family. He recognizes the immense support and understanding of his spouse, highlighting the significance of effective communication and shared responsibilities. Steve acknowledges the mutual respect and cooperation between partners, emphasizing the importance of showing love and support in front of their children. By fostering a strong marital relationship, he aims to provide his children with a positive example of love, understanding, and collaboration. Work-Life Balance and Role Modeling Balancing a demanding career in coaching with family life presents unique challenges, particularly during the football season. Steve discusses the importance of disconnecting from work-related responsibilities upon returning home, ensuring undivided attention towards his family. He underscores the significance of being emotionally available for his children, setting an example by expressing his emotions and demonstrating a respectful, loving relationship with his spouse. Lessons from Steve: Presence and Love Steve's journey as a father is a testament to the power of love, presence, and understanding. His experiences and insights exemplify the vital role that fathers play in shaping their children's lives. Through his dedication to being present, fostering individual connections, and promoting a strong familial foundation, Steve encapsulates the essence of fatherhood, serving as an inspiration for dads navigating similar paths. As fathers, the lessons learned from Steve Steele's journey serve as guiding principles, emphasizing the significance of establishing strong relationships, fostering individual connections, and prioritizing presence and love in creating a nurturing environment for children. Steve's wisdom allows us to embrace the joys and challenges of fatherhood, reminding us that love, understanding, and presence are pivotal elements in nurturing and raising children to become strong, independent individuals.  In conclusion, the wisdom imparted by Steve Steele provides invaluable insights into the multifaceted journey of fatherhood, inspiring fathers to navigate this path with love, dedication, and a profound commitment to being present for their children.   TRANSCRIPT Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:05]: Welcome to Dads With daughters. In this show, we spotlight dads, resources, and more to help you be the best dad you can be. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:16]: Welcome back to the Dads with Daughters podcast where we bring you guests to be active participants in your daughters' lives, raising them to be strong independent women. Really excited to have you back again this week. Every week, I love being able to have a conversation with you, to sit down with you, to the Walk with you on this path that you're on to raise those strong, independent women that you want your daughters to become in the future. And every week, It is definitely such a great opportunity for me to be able to work with you on this journey because all of our journeys are just a little bit different. The way that we father is different, and that's okay. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:55]: There's not one right way to father. We learn that every week through the people that come on the show, and I hope that you learn it from the dads that you are talking to in your own communities And that you talk to on a daily basis because it is important to have community, to build community, to the Create that community for yourself. Now every week, I love being able to have different guests on the show that are walking this journey in a little bit different way. And this week, we got another great guest with us. Steve Steele is with us today, and Steve is a father of 4. He's a teacher. He's a coach. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:01:32]: He's doing a lot of different things, and his football team just won the championships in, in North Dakota. So we're excited about that as well.  And we're gonna be talking to him about the journey that he's been on with his kids, and I'm really just excited to have him here today. Steve, thanks so much for being here today. Steve Steele [00:01:51]: Thanks for having me on. Always great to talk about parenting and, you know, how we can make our daughters' lives as good as they can be. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:01:57]: Well, I really appreciate you being here. And first and foremost, I know you have 4 kids and I love the the show by being able to turn the clock back in time. And so I wanna turn the clock all the way back to that first moment that you found out you're going to be a dad To a daughter. What was going through your head? Steve Steele [00:02:12]: I didn't find out until she was born. We didn't find out on any of our 4 kids. We had our our boy, Simon, first. He's 6 now. And then, our second one was was Gianna, and, you know, we we actually were kinda stressing about names. You know, we had 2 boys' names picked out when we got married, and we had no girls' names. So, so it was Kind of one of those, soon as they told us it was a girl, and then we met her, then, we kinda had to figure out a name. So we ended up going with Gianna, and we loved that name, and then we and we obviously Steve Steele [00:02:39]: Loved her ever since. And then, same thing on that third one then, with Shay. Shay's our our 2nd daughter, and then ended up with Seth as our 4th, our little boy. So we've got Boy, girl, girl, boy. And, you know, like I said, it's it's never been so much of a preparation in terms of it being a girl or a boy because we had absolutely no idea what we were doing. We just the a healthy baby, and, we're blessed to have 4 of them. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:03:01]: So as you said, 4 kids. You started with a boy, 2 girls, a boy. Talk to me about what you've learned along the way and some of the differences you've seen in going the From being a dad to a son to then being a dad to 2 daughters and now a son again. So what have you had to do differently in the way that you father As you became a father to a daughter. Steve Steele [00:03:26]: I think, honestly, this is one of those things where your 1st kid and I think everyone kinda says this. Your 1st kid, you're You're trying to be ultra prepared in all these things, and then, yeah, you have the 1st kid and kinda regardless boy or girl, you those books don't really tell you a whole lot once you you're faced with, raising this kid. And and, you know, I think that was a really good thing for us to understand was that, hey, you know, no matter how well you prepare, the You you can't be fully prepared to to drive home from the hospital with that beautiful baby, and then going into having a daughter, you know, everything was just Little bit different. You know, I think baby wise, I don't know that there's people that'll say it's one way. It's it's a little easier to sleep or not easier to the based off of boy or girl. I don't know that we found that. Steve Steele [00:04:05]: But, you know, once they kinda got into that playful age, you know, once they get into the the 2 year olds and stuff like that, then it it's definitely been a little bit different. So I think our boy, obviously, way more right into sports wanting to be like dad and do all these things, and our our the was way more into princesses and everything else. And as a coach, being able to embrace that side and not just be like, well, no. You know, we're only gonna do this, the You know, I'm gonna go play with Simon because I like sports more, which, obviously, I like sports more than princesses, but but still being able to to just go and be the playful dad and and and do the the that she enjoys doing. I think that's been the hardest and most important part to keep tabs on, I think, as you get older. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:04:43]: It is important. It's important to be able to the Be engaged in the things that, as you said, your kids are really excited about. And it may not be the things that you're excited about, But you can get them to be excited about the things that you're excited about in many different ways. And as you said, the Being a father makes you push yourself in many different directions, and you should be pushing yourself to be able to be engaged in that way. The Now you talked about the fact that your daughter does enjoy some of the girl things, some of the, you know, the Barbies or the dolls, the princess aspects, You know, things like that. But each of your kids is completely unique. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:05:21]: Talk to me about how you've had to work the To develop those unique relationships with each of your children. Also, the fact that you have a role where, the Especially during the fall, you're gonna be really busy. So how do you build those unique relationships to make sure that your kids know the That you are engaged and you are connected to them individually versus collectively. Steve Steele [00:05:46]: That's honestly been one of the biggest Challenges, I guess, as we've had. 1 from 1 to 2, and 2 to 3, and 3 to 4 is finding that kind of 1 on 1 time. You know, I think everybody the In the mornings, it's mayhem. Everyone's running around, getting dressed, and all that, and bedtime can be kinda similar. So I think finding the times to do things that she likes to do, and, you know, with our 2 year old Shay now, kinda she's starting to get to that age where we're looking to do things that she likes to do now too, you know, because she can have her own interest At this point and then just finding the time to to do them whether or not you wanna do them. You know, I think that's a a common parent thing where you get so tired, obviously, with babies, Especially where you're used to not sleeping, and you obviously got your jobs and all that, where it can be tempting to just get home and and wanna relax, And kinda try and shut the kids out and be like, no. No. I'm tired. Steve Steele [00:06:30]: I wanna do this, or I need to do that. And really just putting that aside and putting the kids first and doing whatever it is that they wanna do Because ultimately, that's how they're gonna know you care and that you love them because you're, you know, the I think they probably still understand. Okay. He's tired. Maybe he had a bad day at work or whatever else. If you're willing to put that aside and and and do what the kids wanna do, then they're gonna understand that you love them and care for them and and ultimately that they're important in your life. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:06:53]: So one of the things that I'd be interested in learning a little bit more about for you is as you you you did start with a son. You've moved into being a father of 2 daughters. And what have you found so far has been the hardest part for you in being a father to a daughter? Steve Steele [00:07:10]: I think the hardest part in a lot of ways is Probably, you know, when they choose things, it it is I mean, again, I I like the Disney movies. My Little Pony is a is a very big favorite of the girls right now, and Super Kitties. And And there are just some shows where I mean, it's it's hard to to want to be interested in some of them. And, you know, the books, we're really big readers, you know, with our family. I think that the Both are that was another big thing that my wife and I were very important on is trying to make sure that they've read a 1,000 books by kindergarten. They have a program here at our local library that all of our the Kids have now done. And then, you know, it really allows you to learn what they like and kinda see the different interests that they have through what books they choose at the library. Steve Steele [00:07:48]: And My Little Pony's just kinda been one, and, Fancy Nancy is another one where the girls really, really enjoy those, and, you know, obviously, again, it's you you read sportsbooks or my son's into Star Wars, and Those are a little bit easier for me to get into when you're reading to them, but really just diving in and and making it being goofy, being silly, and And and kinda making sure that you're having just as much fun reading those books can be a challenge at times. So finding the ways to to kinda let yourself out of that box of What you feel like you might enjoy, and and just being goofy and and having fun with the girls the way that they need to have fun too is is been a challenge, but it's something that I think's Been very rewarding for for both myself and my daughters. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:08:26]: Now as a coach, in a lot of ways, you are a mentor, you are a dad To many other people in many different ways and how you have to work with the people on your team to be able to get them to the Accomplish what you're hoping for them to accomplish and to work together. How has being a coach helped you In the way that you father. Steve Steele [00:08:50]: You know, I would almost argue it's the opposite in that, you know, really having kids has has made me a better coach. Just in that sense that, you know, I think the the the schematic side of of coaching is is something that you're gonna get from from playing that sport or whatnot, and obviously, from your coaching mentors and all that kind of stuff. But, you know, when you have your own kids and and you You have that love and that caring that it's you really can't understand until you have your own. I mean, then all of a sudden when you're coaching kids, you're you're coaching other peoples. You know that what they love, and they've loved forever, and will love forever. And I think that really kinda changed my my mentality of a lot of ways, and I think that's changed, the My philosophy of coaching a little bit just in that sense that it does make you really focus on the person first, and focus on the good kids and giving them the experience that I would want for my own kids. And, you know, I think that my kids are are fortunate. Steve Steele [00:09:37]: They get to be around the team a lot. You know, all season long, they they're ending up at practice the here and there. One's at one thing, then the rest will be at practice or or vice versa. And the the kids love having them around, and I think it goes both ways in the sense that they also See me being a dad, and understand that, hey, I'm a football coach, but right now my kids are here, and we're not just gonna leave them, and they're gonna be equally as involved as the everybody else because they're here right now, and, you know, some of the the kids do great jobs having fun with our kids, you know, whenever they're at practice, and managers do an awesome jobs with the kids. And the All of our other coaches have kids too, and a lot of them are at practice. So it's a very family friendly atmosphere and, you know, something that I hope benefits the kids as they Obviously, graduate, go on, and and then have families of their own, but also something that I think really benefits our own kids. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:10:22]: Let's talk a little bit more about the That life work balance because I think that that's challenging for many dads. And as I said, you're a busy guy. You've got a lot of things going on, especially during the football season. And, you know, you're gonna be pulled away from your family in many different ways. And with kids being young, that's not always an easy thing to understand. So Talk to me about what you've had to do to be able to have that balance, to be engaged in that way that you want to be engaged even when you're being pulled away the In that fall term where you're in that football season. Steve Steele [00:10:54]: Yeah. You know, I think this is probably the most important thing, and by no means am I remotely perfect on this. I know I can always be better But, you know, finding ways to disconnect from your phone. I mean, I think that's a huge and important thing where, you know, especially, again, in the coaching world that you're gonna go home, and you're gonna get text From parents and kids and players and coaches and everybody else with questions, some of them are important questions that that need to be answered, some of them are not. I think the the most important thing that we we're trying to do is just put that phone on do not disturb until the kids go to bed. Whenever I get home, it's, you know, hey. This is their time. I've no my time at work. Steve Steele [00:11:26]: I've spent my time at practice. So the kids are gonna go to bed at 7:30, 8 o'clock. They're still young. So if you get home at 6, the giving them that dedicated 2 hours is important. You don't want them to see them for the 2 hours a day that you get to see them where they're seeing you on your phone. So really just making sure that when I am home, the My attention is on them. And like we said, we're trying to find the 1 on 1 time. You know, usually, we kinda let 1 of them stay up after bedtime of the rest of them to kinda spend some of that 1 on 1 time Steve Steele [00:11:51]: Just so that we do get some every week, but, you know, otherwise then once they're all in bed and everyone's happy, then you can try and get back to the phone and and answer some of those questions if they're there. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:12:00]: Talk to me a little bit about a lot of times this goes down to this goes down to the fact that you have to have a strong foundation the in your family to be able to support your kids and allow for your kids to be able to see that strong foundation too. You talk about the fact that you and your wife are working hard to be able the connect and to help your kids to be strong, but you've got young kids. And having young kids definitely can cause a lot of stress too. And while you're trying to create those strong relationships with your own daughters, you also have to maintain a strong relationship the Inside your family with your significant other. So what have you had to do to be able to maintain that strong relationship with your spouse even when it's stressful, When you're busy, you're being pulled out. When you've got the demands of 4 kids that are all needing something a little bit different. Yeah. Steve Steele [00:12:52]: I mean, first and foremost, I mean, my wife's a champ. I mean, she's Know the right way to describe it, but nothing would function without her. Coaches' wives are so heroic in what they do and and being able to the the household when we are gone for those extended periods. And I think the important part is then recognizing and and celebrating that and then understanding, hey. There's gonna be days where she's had a bad day at work or Dads with She's not feeling it, and and you've gotta be able to put pick up that slack. And, you know, and I I think we do a great job of communicating for the most part. Obviously, that's a Doug. Steve Steele [00:13:20]: A huge part of all relationships in life is communicating and having the correct expectations, and that can only be done through communication. But then, you know, just again, not being afraid to ask help. Thursday night or a day that we're having a tough time, then communicating that and understanding that, hey, it's okay. I'm gonna have to pick this up, and that's okay, because, you know, there's gonna be the days where that's me and She's gonna do the same thing for me, so I just think that's probably the most important part. Is again, just having that complete open communication, and, Dom. Making sure that we're always on the same page of what needs to happen and what our needs are as spouses for each other. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:13:52]: So important and definitely something that's not always easy, But you have to keep communicating. You have to keep talking. You have to make sure that you're on the same page because as your kids get older, they will test that, the And they will definitely put kind of make you kind of go 1 to 1. I've had that happen many times where the One of my well, my daughter will say, well, mom said this, and I go back to mom and mom says, I never said that. That's not what I said. So we always have to personally, in our family, we always have to go back and we have to check-in and say, okay. Did you really say this before I answer my daughter? I'm going to make sure about that. Now we always finish our interviews with what I like to call our fatherhood five, where I ask you 5 more questions to delve deeper into you as a dad. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:14:37]: Are you ready? Yes. The In one word, what is fatherhood? Steve Steele [00:14:40]: Love. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:14:41]: Now when was the time that you finally felt like you succeeded at being a father to a daughter. Steve Steele [00:14:46]: This last weekend, we took our girls, again, trying to find some of the more 1 on 1 time and my wife's turn, and and we took them to Disney on Ice. We kinda had the girls go there and the boys go somewhere else, and we kinda put this together, obviously, kind of as a little family trip where we did some things, but really hearing them talk about it afterwards and just seeing that the raw, unbridled, the excitement from them, Docs Really just one of those things where, you know, that there is and then obviously, you know, from the wife understanding that, you know, seeing some of the pictures she got to take and and hearing her recollection of everything. I mean, that's what it's about. You know, you created some special moments that weekend, and it's as much as, you know, I wanna be involved, obviously, in all those moments, it's Equally important for my wife to be able to have those same moments with our daughters. So just very recently fresh in my mind, one that comes to mind and Very, very special weekend. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:15:35]: Now if I was to talk to your kids, and I know not all your kids are talking right now, but if I were to talk to your kids, How would they describe you as a dad? Steve Steele [00:15:43]: They call me a coach, and they call me goofy. You know, I think, very, very rarely. I get trouble from mom too from being goofy at times. I'm definitely not a strict disciplinarian. I'd say I'm very, very fun and and kinda goofy around the kids a lot more than I am. If I'm getting after them, then they know that the The lines have been crossed, and they need to settle down because I'll I'll play with them just about as long as they are allowed to play. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:16:04]: Now who inspires you to be a better dad? Steve Steele [00:16:06]: Honestly, my parents, I don't know that I could have asked for a greater example in life, both of them, really. I mean, they sacrificed so much to give me at least the opportunity to No. Every single interest that I had. I think I was interested in sports. I was interested in music. Whatever it was, I mean, they made sure that I was able to try it despite Despite all the challenges that come along from that from their end and just seeing the example they set of of what a loving marriage and couple should look like, just something that again, I I know it's benefited me in my own life, Just a constant thing to look up to and and hope that I can live up to. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:16:36]: Now you've talked about your own experience. You've shared some advice that you have learned along the way. As we finish up today, what's 1 piece of advice that you'd wanna give to every dad? Steve Steele [00:16:45]: I think so much is be present even not just physically present. Be mentally and emotionally present. It's okay to cry in front of your kids. You know, it's okay for them to see you, experience the emotions that you have. And then just again, I think the other important part that I don't know that I really touched Your relationship with your wife, you know, or or your spouse is is what you're showing them love is. You know, so I mean, if you want them to obviously be looking for that relationship someday, it's it's your job to kind of also show them what a man should look like in a respectful Marriage. So, you know, I think that's another important part. Steve Steele [00:17:19]: So I think those are the kind of the most important things that I hope I'm getting across to my own kids. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:17:24]: Now, Steve, before I finish up today, if people wanna find out more about you and your coaching and your team or anything else about you, where's the best place for them to go? Steve Steele [00:17:34]: Yeah. We've got our football websites, TFrigsfootball.weebly.com, and that's got all of our football info. My email is steve.s.steel@gmail.com. Again, always always happy to to the Talk about being a dad or talk football. They can't do too much of either one. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:17:54]: Well, Steve, thanks so much again for sharing your story today. I truly appreciate it, and I wish you all the best. Steve Steele [00:18:00]: Thank you very much. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:18:01]: If you've enjoyed today's episode of the Dads with Daughters podcast, we invite you to check out the Fatherhood Insider. The fatherhood insider is the essential resource for any dad that wants to be the best dad that he can be. We know that no child comes with an instruction manual, and most dads are figuring it out as they go along. And the fatherhood insider is full of resources and information the that will up your game on fatherhood. Through our extensive course library, interactive forum, step by step road maps, the and more. You will engage and learn with experts, but more importantly, dads like you. So check it out at fathering together .org. If you are a father of a daughter and have not yet joined the Dads with Daughters Facebook community, there's a link in the notes today. Dads with Daughters is a program of Fathering Together. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:18:59]: We're all in the same boat, the and it's full of tiny screaming passengers. We spend the time. The the Bring your a game because those kids are growing fast. The the goes by just like a dynamite blast calling astronauts and firemen, the Carpenters and muscle men get out and be in the world shoes. Domino. Be the best dad you can be!

Sports Chasers Podcast
NFL New Rules | Shohei Ohtani Gambling Controversy | MLB Opener International!

Sports Chasers Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2024 103:00


Title: NFL New Rules | Shohei Ohtani Gambling Controversy | MLB Opener International!CHAPTERS:1. **NFL happening. The crew talks about the new hip tackle and NFL kickoff rules. Join the heated discussion. It got heated. 2. **All Things NBA** - Ryan DeSouza is set to cover the NBA from every angle. From the latest games to emerging storylines, Ryan will ensure you're up to speed on all the hardwood action.3. **NCAA Basketball Tournament** - The madness isn't limited to March! We'll dive into both the Men's and Women's NCAA basketball tournaments, bringing you the highlights, lowlights, and everything in between.4. **MLB Season Opener in Seoul, South Korea** - Baseball has gone global, and we're here for it! We'll reflect on the MLB season-opening game between the Dodgers and Padres in Seoul, sharing our thoughts on this international showdown and what it means for the sport's global appeal.5. **Weekly Sports Roundup**—To cap off the episode, we'll review the significant sports happenings over the last seven days and discuss whether they made waves in the sports world.Chapters00:00:34 - Introduction to Sports Chasers Podcast 00:01:52 - Major League Baseball and Shohei Ohtani 00:06:17 - NFL's Hip Drop Tackle Rule 00:13:23 - Defensive Player Safety and Alligator Roll 00:17:05 - Minimizing Injuries in Football 00:17:22 - Football Rules and Player Safety 00:20:25 - Official's Salary and Responsibilities 00:27:59 - New NFL Kickoff Format 00:30:17 - Evolution of Football Rules 00:32:46 - Major League Baseball Opening in Seoul, South Korea 00:33:21 - Major League Baseball Opening Day Controversy 00:44:00 - Shohei Ohtani's Alleged Theft Scandal 00:47:38 - The Impact of Legalized Sports Betting 00:48:58 - Fantasy Football and Its Impact 00:49:47 - The Impact of Sports on Fan Behavior 00:51:00 - The Pitfalls of Gambling 00:54:42 - NBA Powerhouses and Playoff Predictions 01:00:27 - Evaluating Teams in the Western Conference 01:05:46 - Excitement Surrounding the NBA Play-in Tournament 01:06:00 - NBA Playoffs Predictions 01:09:29 - Debate on Playoff Qualification 01:12:10 - NCAA Tournament Predictions 01:18:19 - Women's NCAA Tournament Preview 01:21:09 - South Carolina's Success in Women's Basketball 01:23:30 - Promoting Women's Basketball 01:25:45 - Seizing Opportunity in NIT 01:27:21 - Embracing NIT as a Teaching Moment 01:28:41 - NFL and NBA Updates 01:31:48 - Gratitude and Acknowledgment 01:37:42 - Importance of Meaningful Discussions 01:38:24 - Embracing Differences 01:39:10 - Enjoying Sports and New Beginnings 01:41:19 - Collaborating with East Coast Gridiron 01:42:46 - Closing Remarks and Farewell #SportsChasersPodcast #Episode213 #SportsWeekRecap #NCAA #NBA #MLB #NHL #NFL #GlobalSports #MarchMadness #OpeningDay2024 #SportsAnalysisWelcome to the Sports Chasers Podcast. Join us for high-level discussions of well-researched opinions, facts, and statistics about the beautiful world of sports. Join us live every Thursday at 7:30 p.m. EST!

Marriage On The Rocks
Embracing Differences: Exploring The Benefits Of Couples Having Separate Hobbies

Marriage On The Rocks

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2024 58:39


In this thought-provoking episode, Seth and Crystal delve into the fascinating dynamics of couples who have different hobbies. While finding a partner who shares your interests can create a strong foundation for a relationship, it's equally important to recognize that not every couple will have identical passions. Join them as they explore the power of embracing diversity in hobbies and the profound impact it can have on your relationship. They'll discuss the significance of finding a delicate balance between supporting your partner's hobbies and nurturing your own, along with the art of healthy compromise when it comes to the time devoted to these individual pursuits. Discover how honoring each other's interests can lead to deeper understanding, personal growth, and a stronger bond between partners. Tune in to this enlightening episode as they unpack the keys to building a harmonious partnership filled with shared experiences, while also celebrating the unique passions that make each individual shine. Don't miss out on valuable insights and practical tips to cultivate a relationship that thrives on both similarities and differences. Get ready to explore new perspectives and find that happy balance in supporting your partner's hobbies while honoring your own. Hope you enjoy this episode, cheers! Don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to our podcast for more enlightening discussions and relationship insights.  Want to join the conversation? Share your thoughts and opinions in the Marriage on the Rock Speakeasy Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/marriageontherocksspeakeasy/ Shop our barware-https://www.amazon.com/shop/mrs.crystalkarnes/curation/e78b1295-9c75-4a4a-9a98-7f36ae5379ee?ref_=aip_sf_cur_spv_ofs_m #MarriageOnTheRocksPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageHelp #StrongerTogether #trainwreck #marriagepodcast #relationshippodcast #podcastepisodes #RelationshipInsights

Kare With Korac
Making Sense of Your Story with Clinton Nunnally

Kare With Korac

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2024 98:00


Clinton Nunnally is a Licensed Professional Counselor and the co-owner of both Foundations Family Counseling and Caring Heart Counseling. He is also now the podcast host of It Can Be Better Than That with Clinton Nunnally. Clinton absolutely loves what he does and leaves his workday energized by the transformative process he gets to engage in day after day! Working with older adolescents, individual adults, couples, parents, and families, Clinton simply devours the counseling process; exploring issues of anxiety, trauma, grief and loss, relationships, life-stage adjustment, family life, spirituality, and sexuality. With an intense interest in working with couples who are struggling in relationship or want to enhance their relationship with advanced awareness and skills, Clinton capitalizes on the current strengths of the individual and couple to help couples advocate for what they are wanting in relationship, learn new ways to navigate conflict, and co-create the things they most want with their partners. With a background consisting of public school education, early childhood development, work with adolescent youth and their parents, graduate school instruction and clinical training, public speaking, clinical therapeutic practice, and practical relationship experience stemming from years of life-giving partnership with his wife (also father of two really fun boys), Clinton offers a unique integrative style that draws from the diversity of his experience.  In this episode, Clinton and I discuss making sense of our stories and the importance of the relationship with oneself. We explore the need for safety, security, and predictability, and the balance between safety and adventure, as well as our tendencies towards avoidance and control. This conversation explores the concepts of order, disorder, and reorder, and how they relate to personal growth and development. It emphasizes the importance of questioning and reevaluating our beliefs/values, as well as the need for a secure base within ourselves and in relationships. We also delve into the concepts of openness, curiosity, and creativity, and how they are influenced by our sense of safety and security. We highlight the difference between living above the line (openness, curiosity, and creativity) and below the line (fear-based living), and the importance of self-reflection and attunement to our bodies. For more mental health content, find me on Instagram, TikTok and YouTube @joshkorac. Please leave a rating and review for the show as this helps me track how you guys are liking the show. If you're interested in seeking services from Clinton or one of his fellow clinicians, check out his websites at foundationsfamilycounseling.com or caringheartcounseling.com. Takeaways Having a secure base within ourselves and in relationships allows us to explore and be open to new experiences. Living above the line (openness, curiosity, and creativity) is essential for personal growth and a sense of fulfillment. Self-reflection and attunement to our bodies can provide valuable insights and guide our decision-making. Chapters 00:00 Introduction 04:15 The Feeling of Being in Flow 07:24 Transitioning from Interview Style to a Different Approach 11:44 Making Sense of Our Stories 18:50 Assessing the Relationship with Oneself 23:08 Identifying Patterns in Thoughts, Behaviors, and Emotions 30:15 The Tendency towards Avoidance or Control 40:46 The Need for Safety, Security, and Predictability 50:53 Balancing Safety and Adventure 01:01:19 Order, Disorder, Reorder 01:06:27 The Normalcy of Disorder 01:07:59 Reordering and Integrating 01:08:54 Breaking Out of the Container 01:09:45 Embracing Differences and Learning from Others 01:14:06 Assessing Openness, Curiosity, and Creativity 01:15:27 Above the Line and Below the Line 01:19:34 Living in a Fear-Based Culture 01:21:26 The Influence of Early Experiences 01:22:42 Differentiation and Enmeshment 01:26:58 Attunement to the Body

Moving To Oneness
Ep. 109 ~ Meilin Ehlke - Embracing Vibrancy

Moving To Oneness

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2023 39:12


Meilin  explores the cosmic energies and DNA connection. Discover the presence of crystalline structures within our DNA and how they're being activated in this new era.(00:00:07) Embracing Differences and Creating Positive Change(00:04:13) The Interplay of Cosmic Energies and DNA(00:30:03) Preserving Vital Ecosystems: The Mango Groves(00:37:22) Embracing Brilliance and Creating TransformationMagic Mind - The World's Productivity Shot sponsored this show. I want to thank James Beshara.You can find more info about the organic drink here: magicmind.comAs promised during this episode I want to share with you the title  of the documentary film Blue Carbon by the  Grammy-nominated DJ and biologist Jayda G. as I was speaking about the mangrove forests.English poem by Jane Taylor 1806: The lyrics were first published with the French tune "Ah! vous dirai-je, maman" 1838.Twinkle, twinkle, little star, How I wonder what you are. Up above the world so high,Like a diamond in the sky. Twinkle, twinkle, little star, How I wonder what you are. When the blazing sun is gone, When he nothing shines upon, Then you show your little light, Twinkle, twinkle, all the night. Twinkle, twinkle, little star, How I wonder what you are. Then the trav'ller in the dark, Thanks you for your tiny spark, He could not see which way to go, If you did not twinkle so.Twinkle, twinkle, little star, How I wonder what you are. In the dark blue sky you keep, And often thro' my curtains peep, For you never shut your eye, Till the sun is in the sky. Twinkle, twinkle, little star, How I wonder what you are.'Tis your bright and tiny spark,Lights the trav'ller in the dark:Tho' I know not what you are,Twinkle, twinkle, little star. ~ * ~ ~ * ~ ~ * ~ ~ * ~You are invited to bring your wisdom and powerful energy over to our Fb group where you can share it with us and others. Feel welcomed and comforted in our community. https://www.facebook.com/groups/movingtooneness You can request a topic of your choice to be spoken about or a song to be sung for you on a future podcast. Just let us know. :) Email me: meilin@MovingToOneness.comFollow the show on: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzEWKXR957EmpmXvG9YgbhwIn Love and Light, Your host, Meilin

The Dad Edge Podcast (formerly The Good Dad Project Podcast)

Don Manning is a father of seven children and the co-founder of Crazy Cool Family. With three decades of marriage experience, Don has paved the way for success in the family relationship category. He emphasizes the importance of embracing differences for stronger relationships and prioritizing growth. In this episode, Larry interviews Don Manning, a father of seven children. Don shares his experience of raising a blended family with four girls and three boys. He discusses the challenges he faced and his determination to figure it all out. Don also talks about the genesis of his project, Crazy Cool Family, which aims to help other parents navigate the complexities of parenting. Differences in marriage provide opportunities for personal development. When faced with differences, individuals are challenged to step out of their comfort zones and learn new ways of thinking and being. This growth can lead to increased self-awareness, empathy, and a broader perspective on life. Don mentions that his wife's relational orientation has taught him valuable lessons about family relationships, highlighting the importance of understanding and appreciating the unique strengths that each partner brings to the marriage. It is important to note that embracing differences in marriage requires effort and a willingness to learn and grow together. It is not always easy, and conflicts may arise along the way. However, by viewing differences as opportunities rather than obstacles, couples can transform their challenges into catalysts for personal and relational development. www.thedadedge.com/452 www.crazycoolfamily.com dads@crazycoolfamily.com  

Engineering Influence from ACEC
ACEC Research Institute Diversity Roadmap: Embracing Differences, Empowering Success

Engineering Influence from ACEC

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2023 3:25


The ACEC Research Institute has released its first-ever Diversity Roadmap, the culmination of a six-month process designed to help member firms execute against their diversity, equity, inclusion, and belonging (DEIB) goals. Launched in Summer 2023 and sponsored by the Zweig Group Group, the Roadmap is a comprehensive, data-driven tool that assesses the maturity of a firm's DEIB program. Using these data, the tool then provides actionable suggestions on how firms can make further progress on their diversity journeys. In short, the tool doesn't just tell firms how well they are doing. It tells them how they can do better. To participate in the Roadmap, firms were asked a series of questions about their practices and policies in a variety of areas: Workplace, Workforce, Marketplace, and Supplier/Community. Their answers to these individual areas were scored, then aggregated to produce a final score. Scores range from Aspiring (for firms at the earliest stages of building their DEIB disciplines) to Optimizing – firms that have robust strategic programs in place. In between are firms that are Emerging or Managing, signaling solid progress but outstanding work yet to be done. While most member firms are early in their DEIB journeys (80 percent scored as “Aspiring”), it is worth noting that nearly 200 ACEC member firms participated in the Roadmap initiative, which signals both a willingness and an appetite for creating diverse workspaces. And that appetite comes from the top of our firms. The data indicate that firm leaders show significant support for DEIB issues; the majority of responding firms have a CEO or president who articulates a commitment to these issues (68 percent always/often). This commitment can be seen in the numbers of firms that have initiatives for creating an inclusive work environment for all employees (68 percent) and in firms that have mechanisms in place for actively recruiting diverse candidates (64 percent). Nearly half (49 percent) are seeking to broaden awareness of DEIB topics, with 42 percent of firms reporting that they communicate the importance of these issues to their employees. While 24 percent of firms report having no DEIB initiatives, these firms' participation in the Study would seem to signal at least some level of interest. And it's not too late for firms that are interested in participating in the Roadmap but have not yet entered their data. The tool was closed for responses in advance of the ACEC Fall Conference but has been reopened and will stay open through the end of the year.  If your firm would still like to participate, please contact institute@acec.org to receive your login information if you don't have it. The deadline to submit 2022 data is Dec 31, 2023. Submitting by the end of the year will enable firms to benchmark year over year improvements when the tool opens back up for 2023 data collection in early Spring 2024. To read the full Report, click here.  

Powerful Leaders.  No Apologies.
1.23: Empowering Teams and Embracing Differences with Briana McCrory

Powerful Leaders. No Apologies.

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2023 26:20


Beth and Debbie sit down with Bree McCrory, CMO at Big Hand, to explore her remarkable leadership journey. From navigating challenges in a rapidly growing team to leveraging Disc assessments for enhanced communication, Bree shares valuable insights on embracing diversity, leading with authenticity, and the power of staying true to one's values in the dynamic world of legal tech.   Check out the show notes for this episode on our website.   Connect with us: Facebook Twitter LinkedIn

Love Always, Self
Ep 127: Hope for Humanity: Embracing Differences and Cultivating Unity

Love Always, Self

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2023 34:15


Welcome to Love Always, Self Podcast!  In this episode of Love Always Self, Shyra and Karista explore the challenges of dealing with a personal loss and the emotional journey that comes with it. They also delve into the importance of unity, even in the face of adversity, referencing a video by Bruce Lipton about conflicts and understanding diversity. The hosts emphasize the significance of empathy and understanding in building trust among people and aiming for unity of all even amidst diverse backgrounds. Differences can unify us when they are appreciated and respected. The hosts explore an analogy from Bruce Lipton of white light passing through a prism and separating into different colors to illustrate the point about unity in diversity. The discussion concludes with a collective card reading that symbolizes their prevailing hopes for humanity - a world where everyone learns to coexist and treat each other with love, compassion, and respect. : Mentions: YouTube Video by Bruce Lipton: Israel-Palestine Conflict: A Crossroad for Humanity Deck used in this episode: The Light Seer's Tarot by Chris Anne Shop our Amazon Favorites on our website! https://www.lovealwaysself.com/amazon-favorites : Episode Suggestions:  Breaking the Cycle: Effects of Violence, Generational Trauma & the Power of Forgiveness Choosing Love in Challenging Interactions Shifting Perspectives; Removing The Veil Of The Illusion Of Separation Discover the Power of Compassion: How Cultivating Empathy Transforms Your Relationships & Well-being Mastering Difficult Conversations: Empathy & Emotional Intelligence Earth School: Lessons for Soul Growth and Universal Connectedness : Social Media:  Website - https://www.lovealwaysself.com/ Linktree - https://linktr.ee/lovealwaysself Divine Living: Style & Decor! Embrace your space! https://www.divinelivingstyledecor.com/ Have a topic you'd like us to discuss? Email Us!: contact@lovealwaysself.com  : #diversity #unity #humanity #compassion #LoveOverFear #understanding #trust #personal growth #weareone #rainbow #individuality #connected #generationaltrauma  #patternsofbelief #selflove #love #cardreading #collectivecardreading #collectivereading #thecollective #collective #spirituality #SpiritualityPodcast  #lovealwaysself #lovealwaysselfpodcast

Donor Egg Mama
33. Tori's Story: Embracing Differences and Overcoming Insecurities

Donor Egg Mama

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2023 39:12


In this insightful episode, our guest Tori delves into her unique journey of twin motherhood, where her children's appearance doesn't resemble her own due to using an egg donor.She shares the complex emotions she experienced and how she grappled with postpartum feelings, the struggle to fit in as a mother when others comment on her children's different appearance, often asking about their blonde hair and blue eyes. Ultimately, she reflects on her journey of self-acceptance, the power of strong women, and embracing the uniqueness of her family. This episode offers valuable insights for anyone navigating complex emotions in motherhood and emphasizes the importance of understanding and finding support when considering this journey to parenthood.Book Recommendations:The Search for the Magical EggDonor Conception Story BooksSupport the showI would love you to hit subscribe to find out when my next episode has landed and leave me a review :)✨Follow me on Instagram for all topics Donor Egg IVF - @donoreggmama✨ Check out my website www.donoreggmama.com✨ Find out all about my Community Membership for women on a donor egg pathway ✨To find out about the coaching programs I offer click here✨To join my free donor egg emotions support Facebook group click here✨ To be a guest on my podcast click here✨ Contact me here

Sensory W.I.S.E. Solutions Podcast for Parents
Neurodiversity in Society: Embracing Differences for a Better Future (roundtable discussion)

Sensory W.I.S.E. Solutions Podcast for Parents

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2023 74:52


I recently had an open discussion with my instagram audience on whether or not someone with a clinical diagnosis of anxiety would be considered neurodivergent. This stemmed from an inner conflict I was experiencing and trying to decide– am I neurodivergent? I actually shared a more in depth view of where I stand on this topic personally and it's in the previous episode, 88 if you want to go back and listen to that after this. This question brought up such great conversations in my DMs and I realized how nuanced this topic was, and how much I wanted to bring this discussion to a larger platform and to include different voices on the topic. So I reached out to some of my most respected peers in this space who all have some personal and professional tie to neurodiversity. I invited Dr. Cassidy Freitas (LMFT), Andi Putt (speech therapist) and Mr. Chazz (teacher of teachers and parenting coach) to join me for this round table episode. I asked questions like  What does the label of neurodivergent/ neurotypical do for people and societyif we classified too many mental health diagnoses as neurodivergent, would that “dilute” the meaning?If we include mental health diagnoses, it can seem like majority of the population would classify as neurodivergent, what does that mean for a "neurotypical" label if they are in the minority? Should you tell your child's teacher about their neurodiversity at the beginning of the school year?I asked them to weigh in on a thought someone shared with me that said “is anyone really neurotypical?”Links: Mr. Chazz InstagramMr. Chazz podcast episode: “Conscious Discipline with a ND child” Mr. Chazz podcast episode: “How to handle hitting with an OT” Mr. Chazz podcast epsiode: " Vestibular Processing with an OT" Dr. Cassidy InstagramDr. Cassidy podcast episode:” The trauma experience in parenthood”Dr. Cassidy podcast episode: “Raising a sensory sensitive child”Andi Putt InstagramAndi Putt podcast episode: “Celebrating Autism with a neurodiverse lens”Self-reflection episode on neurodiversitySensory Detectives Waitlist (next cohort: early 2024) Episode transcript: https://www.theotbutterfly.com/podcast The OT Butterfly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theotbutterfly Work with Laura: https://www.theotbutterfly.com/parentconsult Buy "A kids book about neurodiversity" : www.theotbutterfly.com/book

Enlightening Motherhood
Ep91 - Embracing Differences & Teaching Compassion: Raising Compassionate Kids in a Divided World ~ with Dr. Gila

Enlightening Motherhood

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2023 43:01


In this episode, Emily Hamblin and her guest, Dr. Gila from Connection-Based Parenting, take a deep dive into the art of parenting in a world of differences and intolerance.They discuss the challenges of guiding our kids through the maze of varied opinions, religions, and political viewpoints. How can we empower our children to respect and understand differences without compromising their own beliefs? Drawing from real-life stories and professional insights, this episode offers tangible tips on nurturing compassionate kids who can stand firm in their values. A must-listen for parents navigating today's diverse world. - - - Connect with Emily Hamblin: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/enlighteningmotherhood/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/EnlighteningMotherhood⁠ Website: ⁠https://www.enlighteningmotherhood.com/ ⁠ FREE Why is My Child Melting Down? Cheatsheet + Mini-Training: ⁠https://www.enlighteningmotherhood.com/freebies⁠ - - - Connect with Dr. Gila: www.connectionbasedparenting.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/drgila_parenting Facebook: www.facebook.com/drgilaparenting/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/enlighteningmotherhood/message

Magic on The Inside
Episode 163: Joy's Journey: Embracing Differences, Self-acceptance and Everyday Magic

Magic on The Inside

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2023 37:09


Hey, Magic Makers! Get ready to dive headfirst into the enchanting world of holistic witchery and astrology with the fabulous Joy Hargraves!

ADHD Experts Podcast
465- An Open Conversation with Temple Grandin – Autism Expert, Author, and Scientist

ADHD Experts Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2023 62:20


Temple Grandin, Ph.D., talks about her journey growing up with autism in an era when children were routinely institutionalized following a diagnosis — and what helped her to follow her passions to world renown.