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Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!I hope you enjoy this week's Q&A!So much love, Kimberley xx2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerJoin the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleyA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!In this episode, I'm talking about letting go of previous versions of yourself, forgiving the choices you made in the past, and how shifting your energy internally and within your home can open the door to completely new opportunities.I'm also sharing some very exciting personal news and the feng shui, mindset, intention, and energetic shifts I've been working on behind the scenes to help bring this next chapter into my life.How forgiveness can help you release guilt, embarrassment, old identities, and past versions of yourselfWhy the Blue Moon energy is all about letting go and creating space for something newThe connection between your mindset, your home's energy, and the opportunities you attractHow I used feng shui within the south area of my home to support visibility, confidence, transformation, and career growthThe small rituals and energetic practices I've been using daily to embody the version of myself I want to becomeWhy confidence, consistency, and trusting divine timing matter more than forcing outcomesHow cleaning, decluttering, and intentionally caring for your home can shift your energy and help you feel supportedThe exciting news about my new monthly TV segment and the journey it took to get hereIf you've been feeling stuck between an old version of yourself and the next chapter waiting for you, this episode is your reminder that you are allowed to evolve, change direction, and create a completely new reality for yourself.Sometimes the things you are dreaming about are already on their way to you. You just have to make space to receive them.2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerYou can buy The Calm and Happy Home now:Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Books-A-Million | Indigo | Watkins Publishing Join the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleySo much love, Kimberley xxA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!I hope you enjoy this week's Q&A!So much love, Kimberley xx2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerJoin the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleyA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!In this episode, I'm talking about how to attract your dream job using a mixture of feng shui, mindset, energy, and intention, along with the small shifts within your home that can help you feel more connected to your purpose and next chapter.How your home environment can impact your confidence, motivation, creativity, and sense of directionThe Japanese concept of ikigai and the four questions that can help you uncover your dream career pathWhy clutter, stagnant energy, and emotionally heavy spaces can keep you feeling stuckHow the north area of your home is connected to career and business energy in feng shuiWhy your front door, workspace, and wealth area all play a role in attracting new opportunitiesThe importance of believing in your next chapter, taking small brave steps, and putting yourself out thereIf you've been feeling uncertain about your next chapter lately, this episode is your reminder that it is never too late to change direction, start again, or create something completely new.Sometimes the smallest actions create the biggest shifts.2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerYou can buy The Calm and Happy Home now:Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Books-A-Million | Indigo | Watkins Publishing Join the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleySo much love, Kimberley xxA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!I hope you enjoy this week's Q&A!So much love, Kimberley xx2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerJoin the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleyA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!In this episode, I'm sharing a really eye-opening conversation around the growing trend of “house doctors” and wellness consultants, along with why feng shui has always understood the powerful connection between your home, your nervous system, and your overall wellbeing.How your home environment can quietly impact your emotions, energy levels, stress, and overall healthWhy more people are beginning to recognise the connection between wellness and the spaces we live inThe surprising rise of “house doctors” and wellness-focused homesWhy feng shui has always understood the importance of energy flow within the homeHow clutter, visual noise, and emotional heaviness can affect how supported and calm you feelThe connection between different areas of the home and different areas of the bodyWhy leaks, broken items, and neglected spaces can contribute to feelings of overwhelm and stagnationHow overstimulation in the home can impact your nervous system and emotional wellbeingWhy calm, softness, light, and flow matter so much in creating a supportive homeSimple things you can start looking at in your own space to create more balance and easeIf life has felt overwhelming lately, this episode is your reminder that your home should feel like a place that supports you, not drains you.Your environment is constantly interacting with your nervous system, and small changes within your home can often create powerful shifts in how you feel emotionally, mentally, and physically.Start small. Open the windows, clear one area, soften one space, fix one thing you've been avoiding. Your home does not need to be perfect, it simply needs to support you.2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerYou can buy The Calm and Happy Home now:Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Books-A-Million | Indigo | Watkins Publishing Join the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleySo much love, Kimberley xxA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!I hope you enjoy this week's Q&A!So much love, Kimberley xx2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerJoin the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleyA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!In this episode, I'm sharing a powerful conversation around the everyday items in your home that could quietly be blocking your wealth, along with why this moment in May is such an important time to reset your energy and create space for what's next.Why this time of year is all about release, growth, and preparing for acceleration in the months aheadHow letting go of old versions of yourself creates space for new opportunities and alignmentThe connection between your home environment and your ability to receive abundanceHow clutter, stagnant items, and unfinished tasks can subtly block wealth energyWhy spaces like your kitchen, front door, and workspace play such a key role in financial flowHow small things like leaks, broken items, and unused belongings can represent money and opportunities slipping awayWhy holding onto items from past versions of yourself can keep you feeling stuckHow to begin clearing your space in a way that feels supportive, not overwhelmingIf things have felt heavy, slow, or a little out of sync lately, this episode is your reminder that your environment plays a bigger role than you might think.Your home should support the version of you you're becoming, not keep you tied to who you used to be.Start small. Focus on one area, one drawer, or one shift that feels aligned, and build from there. This is where momentum begins.2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerYou can buy The Calm and Happy Home now:Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Books-A-Million | Indigo | Watkins Publishing Join the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleySo much love, Kimberley xxA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!In this episode, I'm sharing one of the most powerful energetic shifts of the year and what it really means for you, your home, and the momentum you've been waiting for in 2026.Why the feeling of everything “falling apart” has actually been part of a necessary shedding phaseWhat the Year of the Horse energy is really asking of you and why forward movement may have felt blocked until nowHow this rare and spiritually charged full moon amplifies release, clarity, and transformationWhy what you're holding onto could be the very thing keeping you stuckHow the energy of May brings opportunity, visibility, and growth after a slower start to the yearWhy fire energy needs grounding, and how to avoid burnout while everything starts moving againHow the centre of your home plays a crucial role in stabilising this intense energy shiftSimple ways to clear, reset, and protect your space so it supports expansion instead of overwhelmWhy small rituals like releasing, clearing clutter, and opening your space can help you align with this new phaseHow to work with this energy instead of resisting it so things begin to feel easier and more naturalIf 2026 has felt heavy, slow, or like nothing is quite working, this is the turning point. The shedding phase is coming to an end, and the energy is finally shifting into growth, movement, and opportunity.Your home is part of this shift. As everything outside begins to accelerate, your space needs to hold calm, clarity, and stability so you can move forward without burning out.Use this moment to let go of what no longer fits. Trust what's opening. And allow yourself to step into this next phase with intention and courage.Start by noticing what feels ready to be released, clear the energy in your space, and create room for what's trying to come in. This is where things begin to change.2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerYou can buy The Calm and Happy Home now:Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Books-A-Million | Indigo | Watkins Publishing Join the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleySo much love, Kimberley xxA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!I hope you enjoy this week's Q&A!So much love, Kimberley xx2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerJoin the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleyA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!In this episode, I'm sharing why it can feel like nothing is working, even when you're doing everything “right”, and the deeper shifts you can make in your home and energy to finally move things forward.Why feeling stuck isn't always about needing to do more, and how your environment could be keeping you in the same loopHow your home's energy might be louder than your intentions, leaving you feeling overwhelmed, distracted, and exhaustedWhy mindset, habits, and your environment need to work together, not separatelyHow different spaces in your home influence how you think, feel, and take action throughout the dayWhy identifying what your home is currently supporting (and what it isn't) can unlock real changeHow small, intentional shifts in your space can create clarity, calm, and forward movementWhy your home should reflect where you are now and where you want to go, not where you've beenIf you feel like you're constantly trying but getting nowhere, it's not because you're doing it wrong. It may simply be that your environment isn't supporting the version of you you're trying to become.Your home is always responding to you, and you are always responding to it. When those two things align, everything starts to feel easier, clearer, and more natural.Start small. Notice how each space makes you feel. And begin creating a home that truly supports the life you want to move towards.2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerYou can buy The Calm and Happy Home now:Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Books-A-Million | Indigo | Watkins Publishing Join the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleySo much love, Kimberley xxA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!I hope you enjoy this week's Q&A!So much love, Kimberley xx2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerJoin the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleyA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!In this episode, I'm sharing the real reason you might feel like you're going round in circles, and the simple shifts you can make in your home and your energy to start opening things up again.Why feeling stuck in your career isn't always about needing more action or a better mindset, and what might actually be holding things in placeHow your environment and the energy in your home could be influencing your opportunities far more than you realiseWhy clearing space, physically and mentally, is essential if you want to invite something new inHow focusing on the feeling you want, rather than a specific job title, can open up completely unexpected opportunitiesWhy letting go of your “old self” and trusting your intuition when something new appears can change everythingYour home is not just where you live, it's shaping how you think, feel, and move forward every single day. Create space, shift the energy, and you'll be amazed at what starts to open up.If something new appears, even if it feels unexpected or a little bit uncomfortable, trust it. It might just be leading you somewhere better than you imagined.2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerYou can buy The Calm and Happy Home now:Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Books-A-Million | Indigo | Watkins Publishing Join the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleySo much love, Kimberley xxA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!This week, I'm talking about how to stop your home from feeling chaotic over the school holidays, and the simple, small shifts you can make right now to help your space hold everything just a little bit more easily.In this episode, I'm sharing why the holidays don't actually create chaos but simply reveal what is already there, and what you can do about it before everyone piles through the front door.Why the school holidays don't create chaos in your home but instead turn up the volume on what is already there, and why that is actually really useful informationHow the one star sitting in the centre of your home this year is making everyone feel things more deeply, and why people may be retreating to their rooms more than usualWhy April is bringing this huge push for visibility and what that actually means for the conversations and energy inside your home right nowWhy trying to manage chaos by controlling behaviour rarely works, and what to do instead to help the whole space soften naturallyThe four areas of your home to focus on this Easter, your main living space, your calm zone, your hallway, and how you are protecting the energy coming in and outWhy your home absorbs everyone's emotional energy and the two simple things you can do to keep it feeling light and clear when more people are aroundYour home is doing its very best to hold everyone. Give it a little help and it will absolutely return the favour.Shade can only exist because light is shining down. So if you are feeling like you are in the shadows right now, just take a few steps sideways, backwards, forwards, and go and find that light. Because it really is there.2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerYou can buy The Calm and Happy Home now:Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Books-A-Million | Indigo | Watkins Publishing Join the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleySo much love, Kimberley xxA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!I hope you enjoy this week's Q&A!So much love, Kimberley xx2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerJoin the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleyA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!This week, I'm talking about why so many of us are feeling stuck right now, but also completely overwhelmed at the same time, and what is actually going on beneath the surface.In this episode, I'm sharing why this isn't random, what the energy of 2026 is doing to so many of us, and the simple, grounded steps you can take this week to feel more in control of the speed at which your life is moving.Why so many people are feeling both stuck and overwhelmed right now, and why it is not a coincidenceThe fascinating reason the Year of the Horse and the annual feng shui number one are pulling us in completely opposite directionsWhat is really happening in the centre of your home this year and why it is affecting your mental and physical health more than you might realiseThe treadmill analogy that perfectly explains why jumping on at full speed is never the answer, and what to do insteadWhy your home could be keeping you paused rather than helping you move forwards, and the areas most likely to be holding you backA simple breathing technique that helps you locate where overwhelm is sitting in your body and gently begin to release itThe one question to ask yourself about your home this week, are your surroundings reflecting the version of you that is ready to move forward?Why March is asking you to simplify before April brings a whole new energy of visibility and being seenYou are not behind. You are not broken. You are simply navigating a very big energy, and that deserves a little more grace.Sometimes it feels like the treadmill is already running at full speed and you are just standing next to it watching it go by. But the journey of a thousand miles really does begin with that one single step.2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerYou can buy The Calm and Happy Home now:Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Books-A-Million | Indigo | Watkins Publishing Join the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleySo much love, Kimberley xxA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!I hope you enjoy this week's Q&A!So much love, Kimberley xx2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerJoin the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleyA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Leading in Parenting: Special Patreon Release with Arlene Pellicane   Titus 3:1 (AMP) “Remind people to be subject to rulers and authorities, to be obedient, to be ready and willing to do good,"   *Transcription Below*   Arlene Pellicane is a speaker and author of several books including Parents Rising, 31 Days to a Happy Husband and Calm, Cool, and Connected: 5 Digital Habits for a More Balanced Life.   She is also the co-author of Growing Up Social: Raising Relational Kids in a Screen-Driven World (with Dr. Gary Chapman).     Arlene has been a featured guest on the Today Show, Fox & Friends, Focus on the Family, FamilyLife Today, The 700 Club, and Turning Point with Dr. David Jeremiah.  She writes regularly for Proverbs 31 Ministries  and Girlfriends in God.  Arlene earned her BA from Biola University and her Masters in Journalism from Regent University.  Arlene lives in San Diego with her husband James and their three children Ethan, Noelle, and Lucy.  To learn more, visit www.ArlenePellicane.com    Arlene Pellicane's Website Arlene Pellicane's Podcast   Books by Arlene Pellicane: Parents Rising 31 Days to a Happy Husband 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Mom 31 Days to a Younger You Calm, Cool, and Connected: 5 Digital Habits for a More Balanced Life Growing up Social by Dr. Gary Chapman and Arlene Pellicane   Thank You to Our Sponsors: Chick-fil-A East Peoria and Cultivate What Matters   Just for Fun and Highly Recommended by Laura Lara Casey's Product: The Kid's Bundle (Write the Word for kids - have you seen this yet? It is awesome!!!) Lara Casey's 2020 6-months Powersheets...Not exaggerating: these are changing my life!!!    Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website    Please help us out by sharing this episode with a friend, leaving a 5-star rating and review, and subscribing to this podcast!   Gospel Scripture: (all NIV) Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,”   Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”   Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.”    Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.”    Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”    Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.”    John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”   Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”    Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”   Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus”   Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.”   Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.”   Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“   Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“   Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”   *Transcription*   Music: (0:00 – 0:08)   Laura Dugger: (0:09 - 1:53) Welcome to The Savvy Sauce, where we have practical chats for intentional living. I'm your host, Laura Dugger, and I'm so glad you're here.   I want to say a huge thank you to today's sponsors for this episode, Chick-fil-A East Peoria and Savvy Sauce Charities.   Are you interested in a free college education for you or someone you know? Stay tuned for details coming later in this episode from today's sponsor, Chick-fil-A East Peoria. You can also visit their website today at Chick-fil-A.com forward slash East Peoria.   If you've been with us long, you know this podcast is only one piece of our nonprofit, which is the Savvy Sauce Charities.  Don't miss out on our other resources. We have questions and content to inspire you to have your own practical chats for intentional living. And I also hope you don't miss out on the opportunity to financially support us through your tax-deductible donations. All this information can be found on our recently updated website, thesavvysauce.com.   I'm thrilled to welcome back author and speaker Arlene Pellicane. In her warm and welcoming way, she's going to share about parenting from a biblical perspective and give us practical steps to take to ensure as parents, we are leaders of the home and not followers of our children.    Here's our chat.   Welcome back to The Savvy Sauce, Arlene.   Arlene Pellicane: (1:54 - 1:55) It's great to be with you again. How fun.   Laura Dugger: (1:55 - 2:02) Well, in case our friends listening didn't hear your first episode, can you just catch us up on who you are and what you do?   Arlene Pellicane: (2:03 - 2:30) Sure. We talked about growing up social, raising relational kids in a screen-driven world. So, I just try to help families get a hold of that technology, so it doesn't take over your house.  And so, I speak and write books. My books include 31 Days to a Happy Husband, Growing Up Social, and 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Mom. I have three kids. My husband, James, and I have been married for 21 years.  And our kids are now in high school, junior high, and elementary school. And they go boy, girl, girl.   Laura Dugger: (2:31 - 2:39) And let's even go one step further and go back a little bit in your history. What type of home were you raised in?   Arlene Pellicane: (2:41 - 3:25) I am an only child. So, my husband would say he's the last of four that I was raised in a very spoiled home. That's what he would say.  So, I was the only child. I had cousins who lived in the same neighborhood. So that was really nice.  So I never felt lonely. And apparently I didn't ask my parents for a sibling. So, they were like, okay, we're happy with one.  We'll just keep it this way. And so, I had cousins that were very close in age to me in the neighborhood that I played with. And so, I had a very happy childhood and a good childhood.  I will say my sweet mom, she's so funny. She's super social. She just loves people. So, I was always the kid that was waiting on the curb like, please, mom, come pick me up. Because she was probably talking to someone and couldn't get me soon enough.   Laura Dugger: (3:26 - 3:34) That's amazing. Have you carried on that style now that you're raising your own family? Or have you chosen to do some things differently?   Arlene Pellicane: (3:34 - 4:50) I think a lot of the ways I parent are very much like how my mom and dad were.  My mom and dad were very open, very relational, talking, hugging, and involved in what I did. I was a cheerleader.  And if I came home, she'd be awake with hot chocolate at midnight after a game. Or something like that. So, I think that idea of being relational.  And there were rules and there were boundaries. But it was a very relational home. I think we definitely have that.  And my home was very joyful. And we try to make our home very joyful. So probably the most distinctive difference is the way we handle chores and just being tougher.  My mom and dad and I were caterers. Like, oh, if you need something, we'll do that for you. Where my husband is like, uh-uh.  You can do that yourself. And I think that's good. Because the first time I did laundry was in college.  I mean, that's pretty late. I remember being in college and thinking, what in the world do I do with this quarter and this laundry? I have no idea. And so, my husband has helped us to instill that the kids, you know, as soon as, like, my youngest is in fifth grade.  But even by second or third grade, she was doing her own laundry. So, I think that's good. My husband has helped us to see that learning how to do chores at a young age is a positive thing.   Laura Dugger: (4:50 - 5:14) I think it's just so interesting to hear because we all have a different approach.  So I love hearing both of those stories. And now you're also a working mom. And I know that some of our listeners have mentioned how grateful they are to hear from fellow Christians who have chosen to work while also raising their children. So, has this been natural for you or was it a struggle at times?   Arlene Pellicane: (5:15 - 6:18) Yeah. And I have to say, you know, I am a working mom with a lot of flexibility because I speak and I write. But my schedule is at home, and I am my own boss. So, I can say to myself, oh, let's go to the field trip. You know, I can do those kinds of things where I know many moms who are working these overnight shifts and they are crazy busy. And so, in that sense, I feel like if I say, oh, it's been easy, you know, it's been OK, that's kind of why. Because I haven't been forced to do these crazy hours. So, if you are listening right now and you're like, I am so sleepy because I've been working so hard, my heart goes goes to you. So, this has been a wonderful mix just for me personally, because I have the flexibility to be available for my kids. But it gives me a purpose that's outside of my children that I really enjoy. And it's kind of cool because since I write about marriage and the family and parenting, it keeps me in my space. So, I'm kind of constantly getting to have stories for my own work.  So it's it's been quite ideal. I love it.   Laura Dugger: (6:19 - 6:26) So is there any scripture or clarity from the Lord that helped affirm you in both of those roles?   Arlene Pellicane: (6:27 - 7:36) Yeah, you know, I think of Proverbs three of trust in the Lord with all your heart, lean not on your own understanding. And so, as we're trusting in God, not leaning on our understanding and we're seeing like he will make your path straight. And so, I have seen that over and over and over again to simply trust. And it really is, you know, for me, it's being a speaker and an author. And I know some of you who are listening, that's something that you desire to do. But whether it's that or something else, you know, we live in a culture where you're supposed to be a celebrity, like you're supposed to amass numbers and have platforms and do all these things. And I think when you get to the point where it's like, you know, I want influence, I want impact, I want to help people. But I don't care if I help them with two followers or with 16, you know what I mean? Like not being into all those kinds of things. And I think when we turn our hearts to saying with our work, God, let your will be done in this. God be magnified in this Lord, just whatever I can do, multiply it. God will do that and be obedient that that's what's most important, not necessarily the Instagram followers, etc. So set your heart on God and the other things will fall into place.   Laura Dugger: (7:36 - 7:46) And like you said, in your work, you do write about family and parenting. So how can parents lead the home rather than children?   Arlene Pellicane: (7:47 - 10:36) This is so important, right? And it used to be that the home of yesterday might have been like, children are seen but not heard. But today it's backward.  It's like parents are seen but not heard. It's like people talking are the children. And so, watch your language.  You know, how do you talk to your children? Do you talk in a way that is like a leader or are you asking them questions all the time? So, I notice this about myself. So, for instance, that after you say something, you would say, okay, like, it's time to go come to dinner.  Okay. Like it's a question, right?  Not an instruction. Or why don't you wear this shirt? Okay. So, we, especially as moms, do this all the time. And if we don't tack the word, okay, on our voices still go up. Like we'll say, why don't you pick that one?  Isn't that a good idea? Like we're constantly like our voices go up in the question. So, part of leadership is even just listening to yourself.  How am I communicating? And I love what John Roseman, the psychologist says is communicate your instruction using the least amount of words possible. So, it's go to the car.   That's a leader, right? You're just telling your child, go to the car. But we say, okay, it's time to go to grandma's house.  And you know, we don't want to be late. So, let's start zipping up your jacket and let's go. Okay, it's time to go.  Are you not ready to go? Get your shoes on. Okay, you got your shoes.  That's so good. You got your shoes. Get in the car.  Right? So, it's like all we need to say was get in the car. So, I love that.  So just even assess how do you communicate to your children? Because your children are hearing all these things. And so, they just hear like this lovely paragraph.  They missed go to the car. So, assess how you talk. Use fewer words.  Don't make everything a question. And all of this, of course, stems from the idea, the realization that, wait a minute, I'm the leader in the home, not my child. So many people will say, well, my child won't let me do that.  Right? Like we ride bikes in our neighborhood. And my son, when he was in second grade, had a really bad accident involving him and a truck. And went to the hospital and was fine because of the grace of God and because he was wearing a helmet. And so, we'll see kids in the neighborhood without helmets. And my husband said to the dad, “You know, just last week, my son was hit by a car on this very street.  It's really important that your kids wear a helmet. And the father said, oh, I just can't get my kids to do it. So, this is the problem of, wait, who is the leader here? Is the child the leader or is the parent the leader? So, you've got to see, first of all, in scripture, it is children obey your parents and not the other way around. So, we've got to just embrace that with all of our heart.   Laura Dugger: (10:37 - 11:06) That's amazing to even hear you say that, because this morning this verse just jumped off the page at me. And it's in Titus 3, verse 1. And I'm reading out of the Amplified Version. And it says, remind people to be subject to rulers and authorities, to be obedient, to be ready and willing to do good.  That just struck me for parenting. Like you're saying, it is biblical and it's important for us to lead.   Arlene Pellicane: (11:07 - 11:49) And wow, if your kids cannot learn from you, right, if in their own home they don't have that sense of, oh, there's this healthy authority over me and I do what they say. Like if they don't have that, then look at them as they grow up. They're going to have trouble with their relationship with God. It's like, oh, God commands us to do a lot of things.  And like Mary, we could say, let it be to me according to your word. I am your servant. Or like the modern person, we could be like, no way. Who are you to tell me what to do, right? So that authority, if they can get that from you as a parent, that's going to help them with their spouse, with their employer, with a police officer, with a teacher, with God. It just helps them in all those relationships.   Laura Dugger: (11:50 - 12:03) And I'm so grateful for people like you who are writing parenting books. And so, I want to know, how did you arrive at your eight strategies in one of your recent books titled Parents Rising?   Arlene Pellicane: (12:04 - 12:59) Yeah, a lot of it was what I was observing. Like what was I seeing with my children, with their friends in the elementary school, et cetera, our pediatrician and talking to other doctors, asking them like, what are you seeing? Because something my pediatrician said really struck me.  She's like, Arlene, a lot of times I'm not talking about physical things anymore. Like this is a pediatrician, right? It's not so much about shots and growth and all this.  It's how can I manage my child? They're so emotional. They're under distress.  They have anxiety. They're on video games all the time. So just listening to what she was saying of what are parents coming to her and saying, this is my problem, you know, and she's been a pediatrician for 25 years and has talked about, wow, in the last 10 years, all these problems because of technology, they're just enormous. So, listening to people's input led to these eight strategies.   Laura Dugger: (13:01 - 13:07) And you don't have to go through all of them, but could you at least touch on a few of these strategies and elaborate?   Arlene Pellicane: (13:07 - 16:59) Sure. You know, you can listen to our Growing Up Social one that we did to talk about this first strategy, which is amusement is not the highest priority. But what I'll say about that is as parents, you are not the cruise director. It is not your job to make everything fun from A to Z. Now you can do that on occasion. That's good.  You want to have fun. So don't get me wrong. Have fun.  But you're more like a trainer, a coach. And so, a lot of times we'll just give all the technology so our kids can be amused, but your kids don't need amusement. They need character. So, they need to be building character in your home.  So put amusement in its proper place so character can take shape. And that's going to be your first strategy. But I'll say a few things about strategy number four, which is the Bible and prayer are present daily. And it's just the idea that when kids see that you have a real faith, that it's not like, oh, I go to church on Sunday, but then every other day of the week I kind of look like any other home in this neighborhood. You know, like we watch the same things as our secular neighbor does.  We cuss sometimes. We spend our money on stuff we don't really tithe. And again, not a guilt trip, but I'm just saying when kids see that, oh, this doesn't make this huge difference in your life. Then when they're older, it's much easier for them to stray away from that faith because it's not strongly in them. But when they see like, oh, my mom and dad, they're not perfect, but they seek God. And when they make a mistake, they ask for forgiveness of me. And when I see them get money, they give it to the missionary. And when we have extra time, we try to serve other people or invite people to church. So those kinds of things. So not just like, oh, we attend church and we're good people.  But when kids see, oh, my mom's faith is real. My dad's faith is real.  That's going to make an impact on them. And that's going to help them to make that decision for themselves. So, make sure that that's something that's daily. And then for prayer, I will be the first to say, I want this amazing prayer life. But just like anyone else, I can go to bed and say, oh, my word, I didn't even pray today. So, one thing that's really helped me is Moms in Prayer.  And that is an international organization. And the total mission is two praying moms for every school. So that there would be two moms that would gather. And obviously there can be more to pray for their children by name and to pray for their school by name. And I started joining one of these when my son Ethan was in first grade. And now he is in 10th. And I can see such a huge difference in how God has moved in my children, in their friendships, in their school. Because every week while school's in session, I am praying with another woman for my kids by name. Like it is amazing. And I remember the very first week I did this, I joined a church group that had like one lady had college age kids.  And one lady had grandkids. So, it was a really diverse group.  I had the youngest kids. And we prayed. And we prayed that my son would make a Christian friend.  Because we're a public school. And the very next day my son Ethan said, Mom, I was in the playground, and I heard a boy singing. And Mom, he's a Christian.  And Mom, he's in my class. And I was like, Ethan, I just prayed with the moms just yesterday that you would find a Christian friend. And it's amazing.  That was first grade. And just about a month ago we had that same boy over for breakfast. And I told him that story.  And it was so funny. Like see how God works. So, he and my son are not close friends.  They have become acquaintances over the years. But we were able to have him over. And to be able to say that story, like you can see the boys lit up like, wow, this prayer thing really works. And so, if your kids can see that the Bible and prayer is part of your normal rhythm, that you care about it, that's going to make a huge difference in their spiritual lives.   Laura Dugger: (17:00 - 22:33) I would echo all of that. I think that life with Jesus is the most exciting type of life. 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There are processing fees that we cover for these donations, but we wanted to offer listeners a seamless way to share their finances with us when we share our content with them. So just visit thesavvysauce.com and find the donate page under the tab support. Another way to find it is simply type in donate to the search bar on our website and just click the first picture shown. We are all about sharing around here, sharing resources, sharing joy, and sharing the good news about Jesus Christ. We ask that you also will share by sharing financially, sharing The Savvy Sauce podcast episodes, and sharing a five-star rating and review. You can also share any of our social media posts on Instagram or Facebook.  We are grateful for all of it, and we just love partnering together with you.   Now, back to the show.   Arlene Pellicane: (22:34 - 24:31) Another strategy number seven is love is spelled T-I-M-E, love is spelled time. It's that idea that yes, you can have quality time, but if you are not together all week and you have a half an hour of quality time only, that's not enough. You need to work on the quantity time as well. And again, one of the huge stealers is being on your phone, whether it's us, whether it's our kids. They did a survey of 6,000 kids all around the world and asked what's your parent's worst habit and 50% of them said my parent is on the phone and 34% of those people said and when we're talking in conversation, my parent will interrupt, like they will take a text while we're talking and that really bothers me. So, this idea of love is spelled T-I-M-E with time, just remember that when you're with your child, you need to have moments where there are no devices present. This doesn't mean that from the moment your child gets home from school to the moment they go to bed, you need to be staring at them and doing something.  No, that's not practical. Like you have to make dinner.  You have to pay your bills. We get that. But in the time in between those things, make sure there's time where maybe you're reading together. We just recently got a pool table, so we're playing pool together now. So have things in place, whether it's a frisbee or a ball, a chess game, a puzzle, where there is time that it's a regular rhythm to connect with your child, spend time together and it doesn't have to be this serious chat. You know, boys don't want to sit across the table with their mothers and have a serious chat, but a boy will play Nerf Gun Wars with you. So, like have activities so you're spending time together because in that shared activity, that's when there's an opportunity for that child to tell you something that maybe is on their heart, it's on their mind, because now there's a space to tell you. So, make sure that you are spending time with your kids.   Laura Dugger: (24:32 - 24:38) Wow. Is there anything else that we haven't covered yet in our time together that you want to make sure we hear?   Arlene Pellicane: (24:38 - 26:42) There are two thoughts I have. One is when you're spending that time together, research has shown that even having a phone present, so you're not touching it, it's just on the table. Like right now my phone is two feet away from me on my desk. So just having it there dilutes the conversation because they found that when people talk without it present, they feel more connected, like nothing is standing in the way between us. But when the phone is there, they know that at any moment that phone might ring, that phone might make a noise and my attention will be diverted and it dilutes the conversation. So, make sure your phones are completely not present when you are having that face-to-face time with your kids. And then the last thing I want to say is just have that mindset of strategy number eight, which is I am launching an adult, I am not babying a child.  And men tend to be pretty good at this. And again, this is a generality, but women, we're more like, oh, like let me do it for you.  So it's okay to let your kids grow up. And one thing my pastor says that I like very much is never do something for your child that your child can do on their own. So, something I love to do with my kids is I love to trim their nails, right? So, they're in elementary school, I'm trimming their nails, I'm trimming their nails. And my husband James would be like, honey, like they're in third, fourth grade, they can trim their own nails. And I'm like, the pinky, very tricky, the thumb, very difficult, you know? And so finally, I got to the point where it's like, okay, you know, Lucy, that's my youngest, you are responsible now for trimming your own nails and I won't do it anymore. But it's funny, like I would sneak around the house like when my husband wasn't watching and trim her nails because I just felt like I do a better job of this. And so, as moms, we need to realize someday our kids will go out of our house and they need to be able to trim their own nails.  So mama, you just got to back down. So, a lot of times it's we as moms that have to back away and say, you know what? I need to let them do this on their own because they are an adult and they're going to need this skill very soon.   Laura Dugger: (26:42 - 26:49) Okay, so it's don't ever do for your child what they can do for themselves. Is that the saying?   Arlene Pellicane: (26:49 - 26:50) Yes, that's the saying.   Laura Dugger: (26:51 - 26:56) Arlene, if people want to connect further, where can listeners find you online?   Arlene Pellicane: (26:57 - 27:22) They can find me on ArlenePellicane.com and I actually have a video series that goes with this book, Parents Rising, and I've designed it for a small group or for personal use so that each message is about 20 minutes long so you could watch the message and then you could have a discussion group with moms or with parents or by yourself. And so that's at ArlenePellicane.com and you can also find me on Instagram, Facebook and my podcast is called The Happy Home Podcast.   Laura Dugger: (27:23 - 27:41) Fantastic. We will link to all of these in our show notes and on our resources page of our website. We are called the Savvy Sauce because savvy is synonymous with practical knowledge or insight. And so today, Arlene, we would love to know what is your savvy sauce?   Arlene Pellicane: (27:42 - 28:49) So my savvy sauce has to do with someone you have interviewed in the past, Clifford and Joyce Penner, and I interviewed them for my book 31 Days to a Happy Husband, and they talked about the 5 to 30 second kiss, the 5 to 30 second daily kiss to keep the pilot light lit between you and your spouse. So that is my savvy sauce is attempting the 5 to 30 second kiss every day. And I will tell you, you know, even I'm the author, ooh, I've been married 21 years. Wow, like we still have trouble with this so much so that my husband has literally printed out a page, put it on the refrigerator, and we put an X on every day that we do this. So, whenever we realize, well, we are not kissing regularly anymore, the chart goes up on the refrigerator and we start making Xs. And it was so funny because my daughter, my youngest, had asked like, what's that chart for? And she asked me in such a moment that I wasn't ready to make up a funny story about it. So, I just said, oh, it's a kissing chart for daddy and I. And she's just like, what? So that's our savvy sauce, the attempt of the 5 to 30 second kiss every day.   Laura Dugger: (28:49 - 28:58) I love your savvy sauce. And Arlene, it is always such a pleasure to get to spend time with you and learn from you. Thank you for being my guest.   Arlene Pellicane: (28:59 - 29:01) It's been my pleasure. It's been so fun. Thanks for having me.   Laura Dugger: (29:02 - 32:44) One more thing before you go, have you heard the term gospel before? It simply means good news. And I want to share the best news with you, but it starts with the bad news.   Every single one of us were born sinners, but Christ desires to rescue us from our sin, which is something we cannot do for ourselves. This means there's absolutely no chance we can make it to heaven on our own. So, for you and for me, it means we deserve death, and we can never pay back the sacrifice we owe to be saved.   We need a savior, but God loved us so much. He made a way for his only son to willingly die in our place as the perfect substitute. This gives us hope of life forever in right relationship with him.   That is good news. Jesus lived the perfect life. We could never live and died in our place for our sin.   This was God's plan to make a way to reconcile with us so that God can look at us and see Jesus. We can be covered and justified through the work Jesus finished. If we choose to receive what he has done for us, Romans 10:9 says, “that if you confess with your mouth, Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”   So, you pray with me now. Heavenly father, thank you for sending Jesus to take our place. I pray someone today right now is touched and chooses to turn their life over to you.   Will you clearly guide them and help them take their next step in faith to declare you as Lord of their life? We trust you to work and change lives now for eternity. In Jesus name we pray.   Amen. If you prayed that prayer, you are declaring him for me. So, me for him, you get the opportunity to live your life for him.   And at this podcast, we're called The Savvy Sauce for a reason. We want to give you practical tools to implement the knowledge you have learned. So, you're ready to get started.   First, tell someone, say it out loud, get a Bible. The first day I made this decision, my parents took me to Barnes and Noble and let me choose my own Bible. I selected the Quest NIV Bible and I love it.   You can start by reading the book of John. Also get connected locally, which just means tell someone who's a part of a church in your community that you made a decision to follow Christ. I'm assuming they will be thrilled to talk with you about further steps such as going to church and getting connected to other believers to encourage you.   We want to celebrate with you too. So, feel free to leave a comment for us here. If you did make a decision to follow Christ, we also have show notes included where you can read scripture that describes this process.   And finally, be encouraged. Luke 15:10 says, “in the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.” The heavens are praising with you for your decision today.   And if you've already received this good news, I pray you have someone to share it with. You are loved and I look forward to meeting you here next time.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!This week, I'm talking about how to know when your home is trying to tell you something and what to do when you notice it.In this episode, I'm sharing the signs that a space in your home may need a little energetic attention, why your body often picks up on these things before your mind does, and how simply becoming more aware of your home can be the very first step towards changing how it feels.Why feng shui creates over 700 different energetic combinations in a home and what that actually means for how yours feelsThe fascinating reason only around 9% of energy combinations are fully supportive and why that is completely normalThe quiet sign so many people miss, that chair or corner in your home that nobody ever sits inWhy arguments seem to happen more easily in certain rooms and what the energy there could be amplifyingThe technology clues that your home might be giving you, from flickering light bulbs to appliances that keep breakingHow to spot the difference between a room that drains you, a room that agitates you and a room that feels completely flatWhy clutter keeps returning to the same spots and what that pattern is really telling youThe beautiful opposite sign, that one room that everyone gravitates towards, and what you can learn from itWhy your intuition is one of the most powerful tools you have when it comes to reading the energy of your homeYour home is always communicating with you.Sometimes it is a chair nobody sits in. Sometimes it is the same argument in the same room. Sometimes it is just a feeling you cannot quite explain.2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerYou can buy The Calm and Happy Home now:Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Books-A-Million | Indigo | Watkins Publishing Join the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleySo much love, Kimberley xxA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!I hope you enjoy this week's Q&A!So much love, Kimberley xx2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerJoin the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleyA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!This week, I'm talking about intuition, creativity and those quiet little nudges that seem to appear out of nowhere.In this episode, I'm sharing a beautiful idea from the book Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert and how it completely changed the way I think about inspiration, creativity and the ideas that come into our lives.• The fascinating idea that creativity and inspiration are always moving around the world, looking for someone to bring them to life• Why so many ideas quietly disappear when fear and self doubt start asking questions• The difference between waiting for confidence and simply following curiosity instead• The powerful road trip analogy that completely changes how we see fear when we try something new• Why you don't need permission from anyone else to begin creating something• How our homes and energy can either block inspiration or allow new ideas to flow more easily• Why the West area of your home in feng shui is connected to creativity and new beginningsCreativity is not something reserved for special people. Ideas are everywhere.Sometimes they are just waiting for someone curious enough to say yes.So the question becomes, what idea might be trying to find you right now?So the question becomes, what have you been avoiding?2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerYou can buy The Calm and Happy Home now:Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Books-A-Million | Indigo | Watkins Publishing Join the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleySo much love, Kimberley xxA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!I hope you enjoy this week's Q&A!So much love, Kimberley xx2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerJoin the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleyA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!This week, I'm talking about the Ostrich Effect. The very human habit of burying our heads in the sand and hoping that if we don't look at something, it might just sort itself out.In this episode, I'm sharing how avoidance quietly shows up in our homes, our wardrobes, our drawers and our lives, and the small, gentle steps we can take to finally lift our heads back up.Inside this episode, I'm talking about:What the Ostrich Effect actually is and why we all do itHow your home is a mirror of everything you've been avoidingThe unopened bank statements, the drawer of doom and the wardrobe full of old versions of yourselfWhy avoidance isn't laziness, it's usually overwhelm or emotional weightHow stuck energy in your home is linked to the things you haven't dealt with yetWhy you don't need a big life overhaul, just one small thing at a timeHow March's momentum energy is calling you to gently ease your head out of the sandYou cannot always control what's going on around you. But you can control where you place your attention.So the question becomes, what have you been avoiding?2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerYou can buy The Calm and Happy Home now:Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Books-A-Million | Indigo | Watkins Publishing Join the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleySo much love, Kimberley xxA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!I hope you enjoy this week's Q&A!So much love, Kimberley xx2026 Year of the Horse Energy Planner: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/2026-plannerJoin the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleyA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!This week, I'm talking about storylines. The ones we don't even realise we're living. The chapters that feel intense, accelerated and sometimes overwhelming, especially in this bold Year of the Horse energy.In this episode, I'm sharing the seven core storylines that every story follows, and how they might be playing out in your own life right now.Inside this episode, I'm talking about:The seven universal storylines and how to recognise your ownOvercoming the monster and what you may finally be ready to faceRags to riches and the courage to stop playing smallThe quest and why some journeys require patience and enduranceVoyage and return and what unfamiliar seasons are teaching youTragedy, ambition and the importance of grounding your fireRebirth and the version of you that is quietly trying to emergeYou cannot always control the situation. But you can control where you place your energy.So the question becomes, what story are you living this year?You can buy The Calm and Happy Home now:Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Books-A-Million | Indigo | Watkins Publishing Join the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleySo much love, Kimberley xxA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!I hope you enjoy this week's Q&A!So much love, Kimberley xxJoin the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleyA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!This week, I'm talking about the energy of money, why it can feel so emotional, and why this Year of the Horse is asking us to get honest about our foundations before we gather speed.If you've been feeling a surge of ideas, quicker decisions, or a sense that life is about to move faster, you're not imagining it. The energy this year is bold and forward moving. But momentum without stability can feel unsettling, and for many of us that instability shows up around finances.This episode is about understanding money as energy, why avoidance creates more anxiety than awareness, and how to create calm around your finances so you feel steady enough to move forwards.Inside this episode, I'm talking about:Why the Year of the Horse brings action and faster opportunitiesThe connection between your home environment and your money mindsetHow chaos in your space can mirror anxiety around financesWhy financial awareness is a form of energetic self careThe difference between control and gentle supportHow fear about money can block flowSimple ways to clear money energy in your homeWhy intention around how you want to feel matters more than naming a figureHow clarity reduces nervous system stressWhy preparation creates confidence when decisions need to be madeThis is your reminder that looking at your finances is not about pressure or restriction. It is about steadiness. It is about knowing where you are so you can move with confidence when life speeds up.The Horse energy does not require perfection. It asks for readiness. And readiness comes from feeling calm, supported and clear.Let's strengthen the foundations so you can ride the momentum with ease.You can buy The Calm and Happy Home now:Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Books-A-Million | Indigo | Watkins Publishing Join the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleySo much love, Kimberley xxA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!I hope you enjoy this week's Q&A!So much love, Kimberley xxJoin the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleyA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!This week, I'm talking about the Lunar New Year, the shift into the Year of the Horse, and the myths that tend to create more fear than flow at this time of year.If you've been feeling unsettled, emotional, energised one minute and completely drained the next, you are not imagining it. We're moving through a powerful transition point. The solar feng shui new year has already shifted the energetic blueprint of our homes, and now the Lunar New Year brings the emotional and collective reset.This episode is about understanding what's actually happening, why February can feel like a threshold month, and how to work with this energy rather than pushing against it.Inside this episode, I'm talking about:Why early February can feel intense, reactive or overstimulatingThe difference between the solar new year and the Lunar New YearWhy the Year of the Horse is about aligned momentum, not frantic actionThe importance of preparation before paceThe symbolism behind common Lunar New Year mythsWhether you really can clean, wash your hair or cut itWhy arguments, money and broken plates are more about intention than superstitionHow beginnings imprint your nervous system for the year aheadWhy boundaries and energy protection matter more than ever right nowHow to strengthen your foundations before March brings more movementThis is your reminder that these traditions are not about superstition or getting it wrong. They are about consciousness. They are about recognising that beginnings matter and that how you show up emotionally and physically at the start of a cycle carries forward.You can buy The Calm and Happy Home now:Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Books-A-Million | Indigo | Watkins Publishing Join the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleySo much love, Kimberley xxA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!I hope you enjoy this week's Q&A!Resources:Happy Home - a short video showing you how to start your Feng Shui JourneyAnalysis - Find out more about how I can help you and your home and add yourself to the waitlist for Mapping - Find out more about my mapping service - this includes finding out front door colours for your homeOrder the book - links to Amazon and local stockists - honestly this means the world to me thank you! So much love, Kimberley xxJoin the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleyA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Calm & Happy Home Podcast!This week, I'm talking about what you really need to know about the Year of the Horse and why this new Feng Shui year brings a very different kind of energy into your home, your routines and your nervous system.As we're moving out of the slower, shedding energy of the Snake and into something much more active, stimulating and forward moving. But this isn't about rushing or doing more for the sake of it. Horse energy is about meaningful motion, aligned action and sustainable pace.In this episode, I'm sharing what the Year of the Horse actually represents, how it may show up emotionally and practically in your daily life, and how to support yourself and your home so you don't burn out trying to keep up.Inside this episode, I'm talking about:• The real meaning behind the Year of the Horse and the zodiac cycle• Why busy and aligned feels energising but busy and unfulfilled feels exhausting• How this year may affect your nervous system, sleep and emotional sensitivity• The difference between freedom and depletion when you say yes to things• Why boundaries, routines and home support matter more than ever this year• What to expect from February's in between threshold energy• Gentle feng shui actions to prepare your home without overwhelm• A personal story about remedies, timing and a workshop WiFi meltdownThis episode is your reminder that this is not a sprint year. You don't get rewards for pushing through exhaustion. You are being asked to travel well, pace yourself and create a home that helps you stay steady as life speeds up.You can buy The Calm and Happy Home now:Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Books-A-Million | Indigo | Watkins Publishing Join the community at somuchlove.com and follow along @somuchlovekimberleySo much love, Kimberley xxA bespoke analysis of your home to unlock the exact remedies your living space needs to support you in a life of more abundance and prosperity: https://www.thefengshuiflow.com/home-analysis-serviceWork with me 1 to 1 here!If you loved this episode don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5* review on Apple Podcasts and tag me in your stories on Instagram @thefengshuiflow! xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

More about space clearing or to book a space clearing assessment: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://spaceclearingacademy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.What if one small corner of your home could help you release what isn't yours? I created a simple five-day practice for sensitive souls who absorb emotional energy easily..Space Clearing for Empaths includes five guided meditations to help you create an Empath Corner, strengthen your aura, and reset your nervous system. → Explore the book & meditations ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here.In this episode of Happy Home Space Clearing podcast, host Lais, an experienced intuitive healer and space clearing expert, delves into a fascinating case study involving a property in Lake Como that struggled to sell despite attractive listing details and numerous viewings. .She reveals how the dark history of the land, including ritualistic trauma and satanic rituals. As well as a territorial earthbound caretaker spirit, created an energetic blockage preventing the sale. .By addressing these hidden issues through remote space clearing techniques, she was able to resolve the energy blocks, leading to a successful sale. Tune in to learn about the power of space clearing and how it can transform challenging property situations..00:00 Introduction to Happy Home Podcast.00:52 Meet Your Host: Lais, Intuitive Healer and space clearing expert.01:25 The Mystery of Unsellable Properties.02:51 Case Study: The Haunted Lake Como Property.04:39 Unveiling the Dark History of the Land.06:37 The Protective Caretaker Spirit.08:07 Clearing the Energetic Blocks.09:12 A Successful Sale and Final Thoughts.Connect with Lais:FB: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/Laisstephan1⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/lais_thehousewhisperer/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠......#spaceclearing #fengshui #realestate #unsellableproperty #satanicrituals #ghosts #earthboundspirits #paranormal

More about space clearing or to book a space clearing assessment: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://spaceclearingacademy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Info about the workshop on clearing negative energy from objects on Jan 28th 2026: ⁠⁠https://spaceclearingacademy.com/clearobjects.What if one small corner of your home could help you release what isn't yours? I created a simple five-day practice for sensitive souls who absorb emotional energy easily..Space Clearing for Empaths includes five guided meditations to help you create an Empath Corner, strengthen your aura, and reset your nervous system. → Explore the book & meditations ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here.Exploring Inner Child Healing through Space Clearing.In this episode of Happy Home, Lais Stephan, a space clearing expert and intuitive healer, delves into how space clearing can aid inner child healing. .She shares case studies and identifies common inner child wounds reflected in homes. .By working with the energy of a home, Lais explains how feelings of chaos, unworthiness, invisibility, and lack of support can be addressed, leading to a harmonious living environment. .The episode offers insights into various healing modalities and emphasizes the importance of creating a safe and nurturing home space. .Listeners are encouraged to explore space clearing techniques and consider its synergistic benefits for their inner child healing journey..00:00 Introduction to Happy Home Podcast.00:52 Meet Your Host: Lais.02:03 Understanding Space Clearing and Inner Child Wounds.02:59 Healing Techniques and Modalities.04:13 Common Inner Child Wounds in Homes.04:21 Chaos and Clutter: The Energy of Chaos.05:54 Feeling Unsafe: The Energy of Not Feeling Safe.08:27 Unworthiness and Scarcity Programming.10:14 Invisibility and Presence in Your Space.11:31 Lack of Support and Nurturing.13:42 Feeling Unwelcome: The Importance of Entrances.15:00 Conclusion and Further Resources. Connect with Lais:FB: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/Laisstephan1⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/lais_thehousewhisperer/⁠⁠⁠⁠...#spaceclearing #fengshui #innerchildhealing #innerchildwounds

More about space clearing or to book a space clearing assessment: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://spaceclearingacademy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Info about the workshop on clearing negative energy from objects on Jan 28th 2026: ⁠https://spaceclearingacademy.com/clearobjects.What if one small corner of your home could help you release what isn't yours? I created a simple five-day practice for sensitive souls who absorb emotional energy easily..Space Clearing for Empaths includes five guided meditations to help you create an Empath Corner, strengthen your aura, and reset your nervous system. → Explore the book & meditations ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here.Overcoming Money Karma: A Space Clearing Case Study on Property Sales.In this episode of Happy Home, the Space Clearing Podcast, Lais Stephan, a space clearing expert and intuitive healer, dives into a compelling case study involving a woman facing significant obstacles in selling her investment properties due to money karma from a previous life. .This is also interesting for real estate agents, realtors or property investors..Lais explains how karmic imprints from past lives can affect financial and property outcomes in the present, the importance of addressing energy at the karmic level, and the steps taken to clear these energetic blocks. .By sharing this story, Lais aims to help listeners understand and identify potential karmic patterns affecting their own lives and properties..00:00 Welcome to Happy Home Podcast.00:22 Introducing Today's Case Study on money karma in property investment.01:16 The Investment Properties Dilemma.02:31 Unraveling the Money Karma.04:27 Discovering the Karmic Pattern.07:41 Healing and Resolution.10:31 Final Thoughts and Invitation.Connect with Lais:FB: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/Laisstephan1⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.IG: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/lais_thehousewhisperer/⁠⁠⁠...#money karma #spaceclearing #propertyinvestment #fengshui #realestateagents

Visit donate.accessmore.com and give today to help fund more episodes and shows like this. Need help understanding your neurodivergent child? Maybe your child has ADHD, autism, or another challenge. Author Kim Botto is here to give us the gift of understanding this Christmas. She knows how to create spaces where every child feels heard, valued, and loved. She's the author of Boundless Hope for Every Child and specializes in trauma-informed, disability ministry at home and in the church. On today's episode, you'll learn: 2:30 How to understand the needs behind your child's big behavior 4:20 Helpful correction strategies that actually work 7:20 What steps to take in order to establish a routine 12:00 Why making your kids feel safe is so important 18:50 Don't be afraid to go back to church, even with a neurodivergent child 23:40 How to encourage your kids by speaking to their potential 27:30 How screen time affects kids with ADHD or autism Kim Botto has worked with children and teens for over three decades through churches, schools, nonprofits, and adoption and foster care initiatives. She has a Masters in Family Ministry and is a frequent speaker on trauma, disability, and neurodivergence. Learn more about Kim Botto, her podcast Every Child Belongs, and her book, Boundless Hope for Every Child on her website https://kimbotto.com/ Subscribe to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the 25 Days of Christmas activity and devotional guide. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/film Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com

Visit donate.accessmore.com and give today to help fund more episodes and shows like this. We live in a culture obsessed with self-care and personal branding.  But what if freedom and happiness is found more in forgetting ourselves and remembering God instead? Sharon Hodde Miller shares from her new devotional, Gazing at God: A 40 Day Journey to Greater Freedom from Self.  On today's episode, you'll learn:  3:25 What does it mean to gaze at God  10:36 How to help your kids avoid being self-centered  15:57 How to avoid harming your children with your own insecurity  22:10 Why we should practice self-forgetfulness 25:30 The journey of getting out of a scarcity mindset Sharon Hodde MIller PhD is the co-founder and leader of Bright City Church in Durham, North Carolina.  She teaches about faith, culture and the Bible, and her books include Nice, The Cost of Control, and Gazing at God.  Learn more about Sharon Hodde Miller on her website https://sheworships.com/ Follow Sharon on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sharonhmiller/ Subscribe to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week". https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words.  https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/film Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast?  Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show!  Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com

In this broken world, building a strong family can seem out of reach. Your family doesn't have to be perfect to be strong. Bestselling author Jessica Smartt shows us how to build a home where love and connection are every day occurrences. We're talking about her new book, Come on Home.   On today's episode, you'll learn:  5:25 The legacy we should want to leave for our kids  7:40 How a close-knit family can change the world 11:30 The role of “taking-inventory” in your family 19:20 How making memories plays a special role in shaping your family  23:35 How to make all of your children feel like the favorite 26:20 The fruit of delaying giving your children technology Jessica Smartt is the author of Memory Making Mom and Let Them Be Kids, and today we're talking about her new book, Come on Home. She's wife to Todd and homeschooling mom of 3. Her family lives on twenty acres with her parents and her two sisters' families. That means there's a never-ending circus of kids, chickens, cats, and horses.  Learn more about Jessica Smartt and her new book, Come on Home https://jessicasmartt.com/come-on-home How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/film Subscribe to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week". https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast?  Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show!  Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com

Talking about sex can be awkward, shameful, embarrassing or painful. But what if it could be healing and hopeful? Dr. Juli Slattery is here to talk about God's transformative love for every area of life, including our sexuality. We're talking about her new book, Surrendered Sexuality. On today's episode, you'll learn:  3:30 We don't talk about sexuality. What are we really missing?  9:30 How to find wholeness and healing with your sexuality  12:00 Practical ways to help disciple your child in their sexuality  19:15 The problems with our mindset shift from viewing sex as procreational to recreational  24:53 How we should think about sex from a biblical worldview  27:43 Finding hope after sexual brokenness  Dr. Juli Slattery is the president and cofounder of Authentic Intimacy, a ministry dedicated to reclaiming God's design for sexuality. She hosts the Java with Juli podcast, and has written several books including her newest book, Surrendered Sexuality: How Knowing Jesus Changes Everything. She and her husband Mike have 3 grown sons. Before she began Authentic Intimacy, she served as the co-host of the Focus on the Family Broadcast.   Learn more about Dr. Juli Slattery and her book, Surrendered Sexuality https://www.authenticintimacy.com/ Listen to the podcast, Java with Juli https://www.authenticintimacy.com/podcast/ Check out Arlene's book, Making Marriage Easier (listen to the first chapter, get free date night ideas and more)  makingmarriageeasier.com Subscribe to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week." https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe

Are you too young to be thinking about legacy? Hobby Lobby Founder David Green says we can all be planning to make a lasting eternal impact on the generations that follow. Legacy is created now, not only in the last decades of your life. David Green and Bill High have written a new book, The Legacy Life. On today's episode, you'll learn:  2:40 Our legacy is not about money??? 9:40 Why it's important for a family to start thinking generationally 14:50 What are we doing now to shape eternity? 19:30 How do we steward our money well (and not be consumed by it) 22:14 How to avoid crippling your own children financially 27:00 Being child-focused is not the same as being family-focused David Green is the founder and CEO of Hobby Lobby, which employs 50,000 people at 1,000 stores in 48 states.  His books include Leadership Not by the Book, and his new book co-authored with Bill High, The Legacy Life: Leading your family to make a difference for eternity. David and his wife Barbara and their children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren all live in Oklahoma City.  Bill High is CEO of Legacy Stone, a ministry dedicated to helping families thrive today and for generations to come.  Learn more about David Green, Bill High and the book, The Legacy Life. https://legacystone.com/legacylife Leave the legacy of a strong marriage. Get Arlene's free date night ideas and check out her book, Making Marriage Easier. https://makingmarriageeasier.com/ Subscribe to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week". https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/film Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com

Paying it forward is an understatement.  Arlene Pellicane (speaker, author, and host of the "Happy Home Podcast") is out there encouraging parents, not only to be good parents but also being good spouses.  What do you think her "nudge" story will be?  Could it be to write her latest book, "Making Marriage Easier"?  Listen in to find out.  (hint: ski slopes might have something to do with it)Reach Out to Me:Website: https://www.dontignorethenudge.com/Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/profile/creators?u=50504485IG: https://www.instagram.com/dontignorethenudgepodcast/Private FB group to WATCH interviews: https://www.dontignorethenudge.com/facebookBusiness/Personal Coaching with Cori:https://www.corifreeman.com/(951) 923-2674Reach out to Arlene Pellicane :Website: https://arlenepellicane.com/

You're busy. I'm busy. Is there a way out of this rat race? You've heard advice on burnout and busyness, but probably not how author and mom Tara Sun explains it from her new book, Overbooked and Overwhelmed: How to keep up with God when you're just trying to keep up with life.  On today's episode you'll learn: 3:55 How to NOT ignore warning signs God gives you  8:32 Will this matter for eternity?  12:00 Why “no” is the Christian cuss word 17:05 Steps you can take to better communicate with your spouse  20:11 How to reclaim our attention from social media Tara Sun is the host of the popular podcast Truth Talks with Tara, where she's interviewed leaders like Sadie Robertson Huff and Levi Lusko. She is dedicated to helping you to know, love, and live God's Word in your everyday life. She's married to her high school sweetheart. Her new book is Overbooked and Overwhelmed: How to keep up with God when you're just trying to keep up with life.  Learn more about Tara's podcast, Truth Talks with Tara https://www.tarasunministries.com/podcast Learn more about Tara Sun's book, Overbooked and Overwhelmed. https://www.thomasnelson.com/p/overbooked-and-overwhelmed/ Need more reasons to put the pause on social media? Read Arlene's book Screen Kids https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/books or get the video course. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/course Subscribe to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week." https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/film Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! Email speaking @arlenepellicane.com

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Our kids and teens are hearing loud messages about gender, and it can be terribly confusing. Social media has glamorized and normalized things like same sex attraction. How can parents equip their kids with truth and love in this secular culture? Trusted voice Dr. Kathy Koch is here to help us raise kids who are confident in their gender, knowing we are all wonderfully created by God.  On today's episode, you'll learn:  2:15 Why are we talking about gender? 3:55 What parents are unaware of about social media  9:40 Dangerous misconceptions that your kids may have 11:50 What to do if your child wants to change their gender  15:23 How to advise a friend who's struggling with gender  21:54 What does an AI chatbot say about gender?  27:50 The connections between a parent and a child matter!  30:51 A few warning signs that your child is struggling Dr. Kathy Koch is the Founder and CEO of Celebrate Kids, Inc. and a respected voice on child development and biblical parenting. Her many books include Screens and Teens, 8 Great Smarts, and her newest book written with Dr. Jeff Myers, Raising Gender-Confident Kids: Helping Kids Embrace Their God-Given Design.   Learn more about Dr. Kathy Koch and the book, Raising Gender-Confident Kids http://celebratekids.com/ Need more reasons to put the pause on social media?  Read Arlene's book Screen Kids or get the video course https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/books https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/course Subscribe to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/film Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast?  Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show!  Email speaking @arlenepellicane.com

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Is it possible to delay social media for your teen, even your teen girl? My daughter Lucy and I are asking another mom/daughter duo about this. Today's guests are comedian Kerri Pomarolli and her daughter Lucy. Two moms, two Lucys with no social media. It's going to be a fun ride. This month, we're kicking out harmful tech. On today's show, you'll learn:  3:28 The option that not many parents are aware of when raising their kids 8:52 From a teen's perspective: The difference between life with or without social media 11:45 Won't my child feel left out without social media? 17:55 How time looks different with a phone in hand  21:40 How to help our girls not to have the “celebrity mentality” Kerri Pomarolli grew up performing at a young age. Her first comedy gig was at the world-famous Hollywood Improv. Although she performed in front of a very secular crowd, she was the only performer asked to return.  Kerri is a nationally headlining stand up comedian who has worked with everyone from Jay Leno, Jerry Lewis, and Candace Cameron Bure. She's been on the Tonight Show 29 times, and she's also an author (Mom's Night Out) and screenwriter (Hallmark Channel).  Learn more about Kerri Pomarolli at her website https://www.kerripom.com/ Need more reasons to put the pause on social media?  Read Arlene's book Screen Kids or get the video course https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/books https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/course How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/film Distracted on dates with your spouse? Get free date night ideas whether you have 15 minutes or one hour, small group questions for Making Marriage Easier and more Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast?  Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show!  Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Visit donate.accessmore.com and give today to help fund more episodes and shows like this. How addicted is your son or daughter to video games? Today's guest Ian McCready is a former video game addict who understands the lure of gaming. He's found a way to redeem his time from technology (you and your kids can too).  This month we're kicking out the tech! We want to keep the tech that's helping us, but kick out the tech that's hurting our families. On today's episode, you'll learn:  2:20 What's wrong with video games? 6:36 How God spared Ian from the game  11:53 I can game while babysitting my child… right?  16:25 Getting your loved one on board with a hold on video games 21:27 What to do when time on video games competes with time with family  Ian McCready was crushing it in video games, but gaming was also crushing him. He was gaming 12-14 hours a day. Based on his own experience, he founded the nonprofit Selfctrl which focuses on helping people build self control and be set free from video game addiction. His teaching has been vetted by numerous addiction specialists and marriage & family therapists. He and his wife have two kids and live in Arkansas. Learn more about Ian McCready and the many resources available to you at Selfctrl https://selfctrl.com/ How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/film Distracted on dates with your spouse? Get free date night ideas whether you have 15 minutes or one hour, small group questions for Making Marriage Easier and more Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast?  Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com

Do you ever wonder if marriage can be great—not for the rare few—but for you? Today's episode answers that question with a resounding yes. In her new book, Making Marriage Easier, Arlene Pellicane shares lots of funny (and painful) stories that we'll talk about today. Like her mortifying story about electrolysis and how her wedding almost went off without her! She also gives practical wisdom like the four key decisions that make marriage easier and how to keep a marriage vibrant when you feel like roommates. Arlene was a delight to interview, and you'll love her honest feedback when it comes to knowing how to make marriage easier. Go to CarolRoper.org/podcast for the link to your free 50 date ideas Watch on YouTube Christian Marriage Advice That Will Make You Laugh, Cry and Actually Use with Arlene Pellicane

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Visit donate.accessmore.com and give today to help fund more episodes and shows like this. We know smartphones can be really harmful to kids and teens, but what can we do about it? Clare Morell brings a practical guide to freeing kids and teens from smartphones as we kick out the tech this month. Social media and addictive video games are not safe for kids, no matter what tech companies promise. In today's episode, you'll find out: 2:15 What no one would guess about social media 6:10 TikTok is digital fentanyl??? 10:00 Why parental controls are a myth 14:27 The simplest solution to this complex tech problem 21:35 Why your child is LESS safe with a phone  25:30 What parents don't see about “harmless” apps like Roblox 28:45 Why parents need to support phone-free schools 34:50 How the tech exit is especially important as Christians  Clare Morell is a trailblazing mama who is a policy analyst at the Ethics and Public Policy Center. She is the director of its Technology and Human Flourishing Project. Her work has been featured in the Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, Newsweek, National Review, and The Washington Times. She and her family live out their Tech Exit life together in Washington DC.   Learn more about Clare Morell and her book, The Tech Exit: A Practical Guide to Freeing Kids and Teens from Smartphones https://thetechexit.com/ https://claremorell.substack.com/ How have Arlene's kids adapted to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/film Distracted on dates with your spouse? Get free date night ideas whether you have 15 minutes or one hour, small group questions for Making Marriage Easier and more Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast?  Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! Email speaking @ arlenepellicane.com

Author and speaker Arlene Pellicane joins the More Than Roommates team to talk about her new book Making Marriage Easier and the four simple decisions that can transform your relationship. From practicing gratitude to setting tech boundaries, Arlene offers practical, biblical, and fun ways to move from “just roommates” to a thriving marriage. Scriptures:Gen 1:28Gen 2:241 Thess 5:16-18 Questions to Discuss:1. How can you and your spouse better cultivate a culture of gratitude in your marriage?2. Which of the four decisions—play by the rules, give thanks, serve your spouse, take fun seriously—comes most naturally to you, and which is most challenging?3. How has technology helped or hurt your connection as a couple? What boundaries might help protect your relationship?4. When was the last time you had truly fun, joyful time together? How can you make that more regular? Resources:Arlene's latest book - Making Marriage Easier: How to Love (and Like) Your Spouse for LifeFollow Arlene on InstagramArlene's Website: ArlenePellicane.com and Making Marriage Easier site.Arlene's Podcast – Happy Home Podcast

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Are you 100 percent thrilled with how your family uses technology?  If you say no, then welcome to the club! If your kids opted out of having a smartphone, social media and video games, would they be better or worse off? Imagine saying goodbye to parental controls, fights, and time limits. Today's guest Erin Loechner is the author of The Opt-Out Family: How to Give Your Kids What Technology Can't. As you can imagine, I love this book! Today's we're going to talk about:  3:00 What an “opt-out” family looks like 5:00 Why is social media so dangerous for children? 10:43 What the algorithm of social media does 14:10 The burden of social media on girls 21:00 Does having a smartphone truly help your child in their social life? 23:30 How can we “opt-in” to other things as we “opt-out” of social media?  27:10 The main concerns with AI 29:45 Why easier is not better Erin Loechner is a former social media influencer who walked away from a million fans to live a low-tech lifestyle and is now teaching others to do the same. She's been featured in the New York Times, Washington Post, Wall Street Journal, Huffington Post, the Today Show. Erin is the founder of the global tech-free movement the Opt-Out Family. Learn more about Erin Loechner and her book (which launched with no social media of her own), The Opt Out Family: How to Give Your Kids What Technology Can't. https://www.optoutfamily.com/ Learn how to dumb down your smartphone https://www.optoutfamily.com/tip/ Read Arlene's book Screen Kids (co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman) https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0802422209/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0802422209&linkCode=as2&tag=arlenpelli-20&linkId=837f2447fde5b4a57b13b75b78236083 Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! speaking@arlenepellicane.com

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Are your kids going to be all right? Is your job secure? Will your marriage get better? We live in an age marked by worry and anxiety for adults and kids. Many who wrestle with anxiety know the Bible calls them to trust God, but how does that actually work? Pastor and author Jonny Ardavanis invites us to open God's Word for answers. In this conversation about his book, Consider the Lilies, you'll learn:  3:30 I had a front row seat to teen anxiety as a camp director  5:25 If you're a parent, this is what you need to know 7:00 Even if your child doesn't suffer from anxiety, he or she lives in a performance stressful culture  8:30 How can we protect the minds of our kids?  10:45 One of the main schemes of Satan is to make sin look normal and righteousness seem strange 15:00 Every worry is an invitation to get closer to God  17:10 What's the difference between a good godly concern and an ungodly worry?  20:00 We were told our daughter had a syndrome with strokes and seizures 24:00 When your kids have sports injuries  27:55 God allows you to go through trials because… Jonny Ardavanis is the pastor of Stonebridge Bible Church in Franklin, TN. He's the founder and president of Dial In Ministries serving the next generation. He has served as camp director at Hume Lake Christian Camps and as a dean at The Master's College. He and his wife have two young daughters. Today, we're talking about his book, Consider the Lilies: Finding Perfect Peace in the Character of God.  Learn more about Dial In Ministries https://dialinministries.org/ Get Jonny's book, Consider the Lilies https://www.amazon.com/Consider-Lilies-Finding-Perfect-Character/dp/0310368243/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.yBlnH-e3bSsBJoLo-Hv3vz_bwdX2IgWB9ezQ8PNYtkaw7ElP9_sLVDpE9it02M9F.-mnpeyrtjwUwqjpImQmTFaHlktyPYWQe-SMuf20w318&qid=1722298799&sr=1-1&ref=dialinministries.org Subscribe to Arlene's free email list https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! speaking@arlenepellicane.com Save the date: Arlene's next Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Do you feel comfortable talking with your kids about faith and science? Today's guest, Passion founder Louie Giglio, reminds us that God can handle scientific scrutiny as He is the creator of all things. In his book for kids, The Wonder of Creation, you'll find a great resource to share the world of science with your child from a Biblical worldview. We'll also talk about developing a passion for Christ that lasts.   Today you will learn:  5:30 The more is discovered in the universe, the more we see intelligent design 6:00 It's okay to say, "I don't know the answer to that. Let's find out."  7:00 Let's dismantle the wall between God and science  9:45 Show your kids the James Webb telescope  10:50 Why you must begin with Genesis 1:1 for children  12:30 Valuing your children but not making them the center of the universe  14:45 Putting down screens and getting outside instead  18:00 How can we raise a worshipper? The power of a dad to influence his kids to follow Jesus  21:00 Your heart can still burn for God in your 40s, 50s, 60s  24:40 Prepare your kids for what the values they will learn in college so it will not rattle them to the core  27:00 Worldview is set young - don't wait - get your young kids in a worship environment Learn more about Louie Giglio's book, The Wonder of Creation https://www.indescribablekids.com/ Need help with your child's media choices? Read Arlene's book co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids and visit Happy Home University to take the free quiz - Is my child getting too much screen time? https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/