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Today's conversation is with Maria Molfino. She shares the epic story of her vision quest and how it inspired her to create her new podcast, Heroine, about women who are creative leaders. https://gate.sc/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.mariamolfino.com%2F&token=cb8346-1-1585596721848 (www.mariamolfino.com/) https://gate.sc/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fheroine.fm%2F&token=d15950-1-1585596721848 (heroine.fm/) --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/soulsofsociety/support (https://anchor.fm/soulsofsociety/support) Support this podcast
Maria Molfino is a writer and women’s creative leadership coach, helping women put their creative confidence into action. She is also the host of Heroine – a podcast featuring the journeys of top creative women leaders and risk-takers. In this episode we discuss her unlikely transition from medicine to design, her fascinating leadership work, and also the importance of creating space, saying no, and protecting what she calls “deep work”. Links Heroine Podcast http://bit.ly/herpod Cal Newport book “Deep Work” http://calnewport.com/books/deep-work/ Intelligent Change Productivity Planner http://bit.ly/2cFYkaR Ali Wong https://www.netflix.com/title/80101493 Thank you to Unbounce http://unbounce.com/ for the use of their recording studios - subscribe to their podcast Call to Action http://unbounce.com/call-to-action-podcast/ . Edited by Steph Colbourn at editaud.io http://editaud.io/ Theme music by Olivier Alary http://www.olivieralary.com/ Our website is http://workmode.show
In this flash wisdom episode, host Maria Molfino gets personal about the 9th block to creative confidence – Pressure. She shares about the pressure she once felt to repay her immigrant parents for their sacrifice, and how her “save the world” complex left her feeling stressed, angry, and unable to follow her true path. Listen to her story of the lesson she learned during her travels in India that helped reframe her perspective around pressure, and how small acts of kindness really can make a difference in the world and in yourself. Alleviate some of the pressure in your life by taking a step back and bringing this tendency into your awareness. Show Notes: -Download Maria’s free Creative Confidence Playbook at mariamolfino.com/free-playbook-Music by Lucia Lilikoi at lucia.bandcamp.com
In this flash wisdom episode, host Maria Molfino gets personal about the 9th block to creative confidence – Pressure. She shares about the pressure she once felt to repay her immigrant parents for their sacrifice, and how her “save the world” complex left her feeling stressed, angry, and unable to follow her true path. Listen to her story of the lesson she learned during her travels in India that helped reframe her perspective around pressure, and how small acts of kindness really can make a difference in the world and in yourself. Alleviate some of the pressure in your life by taking a step back and bringing this tendency into your awareness. Show Notes: -Download Maria’s free Creative Confidence Playbook at mariamolfino.com/free-playbook-Music by Lucia Lilikoi at lucia.bandcamp.com
What is chronic stress? Unlike acute stress, chronic stress is constant and low-grade, wearing and tearing on the nervous and immune systems over time. You may not even realize you’re being affected, but studies show that chronic stress makes it harder for us to be creative, think outside the box, and be mentally flexible. In this flash wisdom episode, host Maria Molfino explains how this form of stress cripples our energy and willpower, inviting the inner critic to come out and play. Practice some compassionate self-inquiry to reveal the impact chronic stress has over your life and learn basic steps you can take to keep it in check.Show Notes: -Download Maria’s free Creative Confidence Playbook at mariamolfino.com/free-playbook-Music by Lucia Lilikoi at lucia.bandcamp.com
What is chronic stress? Unlike acute stress, chronic stress is constant and low-grade, wearing and tearing on the nervous and immune systems over time. You may not even realize you’re being affected, but studies show that chronic stress makes it harder for us to be creative, think outside the box, and be mentally flexible. In this flash wisdom episode, host Maria Molfino explains how this form of stress cripples our energy and willpower, inviting the inner critic to come out and play. Practice some compassionate self-inquiry to reveal the impact chronic stress has over your life and learn basic steps you can take to keep it in check.Show Notes: -Download Maria’s free Creative Confidence Playbook at mariamolfino.com/free-playbook-Music by Lucia Lilikoi at lucia.bandcamp.com
Continuing the series on the blocks to creative confidence, host Maria Molfino reveals the fifth block: Comparison. Comparison is an ugly face of the inner critic, and a huge de-motivator. Learn what comparison feeds on, how it can warp your standards for success, and what you can do to keep it in check.Show Notes:-Download the free Creative Confidence Playbook at Mariamolfino.com/free-playbook-Music by Lucia Lilikoi at lucia.bandcamp.com
Continuing the series on the blocks to creative confidence, host Maria Molfino reveals the fifth block: Comparison. Comparison is an ugly face of the inner critic, and a huge de-motivator. Learn what comparison feeds on, how it can warp your standards for success, and what you can do to keep it in check.Show Notes:-Download the free Creative Confidence Playbook at Mariamolfino.com/free-playbook-Music by Lucia Lilikoi at lucia.bandcamp.com
In this episode, host Maria Molfino takes on two inspirational women in one go: Elle Luna, a SF based artist and author, and Susie Herrick, a licensed therapist with over 20 years experience and author of an upcoming memoir, Aphrodite Emerges (to be released in the Fall).They tackle some big themes, the biggest being inner misogyny. Hear about their journeys and the challenges they faced, how to know when you’re following expectations vs. your deeper calling, the expansive power of dreaming bigger, and their upcoming workshop Aphrodite Emerges: Activate the Goddess Within (now open for enrollment at www.aphroditeemerges.com).Show Notes:-On Susie’s spiritual upbringing, and her earliest realizations of negative self-talk and the conflicting expectations within women in our society. [3:54] -Considering our ‘should’s: Where they come from, what they’re like for women, and how they imprison us. Plus, the powerful one-liner Elle read about Susie that caused them to meet. [8:36]-The insanely busy, exhausted, dried up, and deeply dissatisfied state Elle was in before turning things around. [11:46]-How do you cross over from discontent and inner dissonance to other side? Susie shares her own experience. [13:33]-Elle reads from their book, Aphrodite Emerges, about destroying ego and accepting new callings for life. [18:55]-On the conflict women face in a “balanced” work culture and the kinesthetic experience of ‘should’ and ‘must’. [23:46]-Culturally inherited misogyny: The oldest prejudice. [27:03] -Coming to terms with the social emotions of blame and shame. Plus, how Susie’s relationship with her father strengthened after opening up to him about some buried issues. [32:23] -Elle and Susie talk about their upcoming workshop in August, Aphrodite Emerges: A Journey to Unleash the Godess Within. [39:58]References: Aphrodite Emerges retreat info at http://www.aphroditeemerges.comThe Crossroads of Should and Must by Elle LunaMisogyny: The World’s Oldest Prejudice by Jack HollandSponsor:UENO http://ueno.coMusic: Lucia Lilikoi lucia.bandcamp.com
In this episode, host Maria Molfino takes on two inspirational women in one go: Elle Luna, a SF based artist and author, and Susie Herrick, a licensed therapist with over 20 years experience and author of an upcoming memoir, Aphrodite Emerges (to be released in the Fall).They tackle some big themes, the biggest being inner misogyny. Hear about their journeys and the challenges they faced, how to know when you’re following expectations vs. your deeper calling, the expansive power of dreaming bigger, and their upcoming workshop Aphrodite Emerges: Activate the Goddess Within (now open for enrollment at www.aphroditeemerges.com).Show Notes:-On Susie’s spiritual upbringing, and her earliest realizations of negative self-talk and the conflicting expectations within women in our society. [3:54] -Considering our ‘should’s: Where they come from, what they’re like for women, and how they imprison us. Plus, the powerful one-liner Elle read about Susie that caused them to meet. [8:36]-The insanely busy, exhausted, dried up, and deeply dissatisfied state Elle was in before turning things around. [11:46]-How do you cross over from discontent and inner dissonance to other side? Susie shares her own experience. [13:33]-Elle reads from their book, Aphrodite Emerges, about destroying ego and accepting new callings for life. [18:55]-On the conflict women face in a “balanced” work culture and the kinesthetic experience of ‘should’ and ‘must’. [23:46]-Culturally inherited misogyny: The oldest prejudice. [27:03] -Coming to terms with the social emotions of blame and shame. Plus, how Susie’s relationship with her father strengthened after opening up to him about some buried issues. [32:23] -Elle and Susie talk about their upcoming workshop in August, Aphrodite Emerges: A Journey to Unleash the Godess Within. [39:58]References: Aphrodite Emerges retreat info at http://www.aphroditeemerges.comThe Crossroads of Should and Must by Elle LunaMisogyny: The World’s Oldest Prejudice by Jack HollandSponsor:UENO http://ueno.coMusic: Lucia Lilikoi lucia.bandcamp.com
Risk can mean a number a number of things. It could mean speaking up. Or striking out on your own. But taking a risk is hard. What’s easier is following a known path. Creating what we’re told to create. Doing what we’re told to do. So why not just go for the easy path? Because it doesn’t always lead to us to feeling fulfilled in our careers and everyday lives. What does is pushing our creative limits, and that’s where risk comes in. The reason risk is hard is because it’s surrounded by fear. Anytime we want to take a risk by sharing ourselves or pursuing a new experience, our inner critic: that little voice inside our heads stops us dead in our tracks. It fills us with fear... Fear of criticism, rejection, and failure. It’s hard to put the inner critic in its place because of the way we’ve been educated and conditioned: to not make mistakes. So what does it take to get over our fears and take a risk? Creative confidence. Creative confidence is a mindset, a way of being, that comes from design thinking. Design thinking allows you to be experimental, make mistakes, let go of perception, embrace testing to see what happens, and be detached from outcomes. In today’s episode of FemgineerTV, we’re going to be talking about how to manage the various fears we come across and gain creative confidence. To help us out I’ve invited a good friend of mine Maria Molfino who is a women’s leadership coach and helps women gain the creative confidence to lead. With a Masters in Design from Stanford, she has worked with top managers and professionals at companies such as Facebook, Twitter, and IDEO. Maria says, “If you care about growing and expanding then you have to find out how to relate to your fears.” She continues, “If fear isn’t coming up, you’re not playing at your edge.” As you watch the episode you’ll learn: - Why the fear of failure is bigger than actually experiencing failure - Why we’re sensitive to feedback and how to remove the sting of it - How to deal with criticism from ourselves, bosses, peers, and loved ones - Why it’s important to create space between yourself and your creative work - How to reframe self-promotion This is a must watch episode if you find want to grow, but feel stuck, and especially if you are looking to help others grow! In the episode Maria shares her Creative Confidence Playbook to help you overcome obstacles such as perfectionism, comparison, and more. You can download her playbook here: http://www.mariamolfino.com/free-playbook Maria also recently launched a podcast called Heroine where she interviews creative women leaders in art, business, design, science, and tech. Listen to the podcast here: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/heroine-womens-creative-leadership/id1100949693 --- FemgineerTV is produced as a partnership between Femgineer http://femgineer.com/ and Pivotal Tracker: http://www.pivotaltracker.com. San Francisco video production byStartMotionMEDIA: http://www.startmotionmedia.com/
Is your tendency towards perfectionism blocking your creative confidence? Writer and coach Maria Molfino reveals the root of perfectionism's dark side and shares how you can decrease its power over your life.Show Notes:-Download the free Creative Confidence Playbook at mariamolfino.com/free-playbookReferences: -The Gap by Ira Glass-Big Magic by Liz GilbertMusic:-Lucia Lilikoi lucia.bandcamp.com
Is your tendency towards perfectionism blocking your creative confidence? Writer and coach Maria Molfino reveals the root of perfectionism's dark side and shares how you can decrease its power over your life.Show Notes:-Download the free Creative Confidence Playbook at mariamolfino.com/free-playbookReferences: -The Gap by Ira Glass-Big Magic by Liz GilbertMusic:-Lucia Lilikoi lucia.bandcamp.com
Following the Rules: Little girls outperform boys in school because they do their homework, listen to their teachers, and follow the rules. But that can backfire when it comes to creative leadership. Writer and coach Maria Molfino explains why and how following rules could be blocking you in unexpected ways.Show notes:- Download the free Creative Confidence Playbook: mariamolfino.com/free-playbook- Lucia Lilikoi music: lucia.bandcamp.com
Following the Rules: Little girls outperform boys in school because they do their homework, listen to their teachers, and follow the rules. But that can backfire when it comes to creative leadership. Writer and coach Maria Molfino explains why and how following rules could be blocking you in unexpected ways.Show notes:- Download the free Creative Confidence Playbook: mariamolfino.com/free-playbook- Lucia Lilikoi music: lucia.bandcamp.com
Link to audio file (33:13)In today’s episode Per Sjöborg speaks with Rezia Molfino from the PMAR group at University of Genova about how all robots are service robots, they just serve people in different ways in different situations. We hear abou...