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Hey Sis, I’m your host with LaShundra Smith. Welcome to BalancHer Faith podcast. Each week we balance life together through God’s word interviews and our testimonies. You may cry, you may laugh, possibly even both. All I can promise you is that each show won’t be the same, but it will always be real. Tell your girls to tune in, subscribe, and don’t forget to leave a review. As I mentioned in the introduction we are going to be discussing vision. Vision is defined in Webster’s dictionary as the act, our power of seeing. To me, that’s the world’s definition. A spiritual vision is not seen with the natural eye. I go so far as to say it’s actually defined as how you would define faith, believing in what you do not see because when God gives you a vision, it’s not like you see step by step instructions. Most times you don’t even know what the steps are. You’re blindly following God, but the differences that you have, someone leading you that already knows the end game, so it’s really not blind is it? There is power in having a vision. Without vision, you have no direction, no compass, nowhere to go. You’re just facing life at a stand still. The Bible says where there is no vision, the people are unrestrained. Proverbs 29 18 unrestrained, meaning you’re all over the place. How many of us go through life feeling unfulfilled? That’s because you have no vision. You have no purpose. That’s that empty feeling. You can’t escape or really explain. No matter what you try to replace it with, your life is just a routine series of events days just passing you by. Therefore, you have to have a vision. Vision gives you focus. Many times that focuses is off because our focus is not on the priority, which is God. Vision isn’t the images I see. It’s what we feed our spirit, which in turn translates what’s in the heart. Many years ago, I know God called me to speak to women, but I was too selfish. I was too bitter, too broken to speak to anyone about God’s goodness. I knew of him, but I didn’t trust him. I didn’t trust him with the very gifts he gave me. I didn’t trust him to see it through. I didn’t want to go through the tests because see, I knew if I said yes, the devil was coming, and to be honest, with all the turmoil I had in my life, I was like, ah, I’m just not here for it. So I would start but never finish because he was still a parttime God to me. He was my ATM, my Superman in times of trouble, my savior when I needed saving. So although my purpose was clear, how to fulfill the vision was not, see you only glimpse from God when he’s your part-time God. But when he becomes a priority in your life, direction, strategy and steps become clear. The more you tap into him, the more vision aligns with his. And we know that when we allow what God, whatever we do will be the tutorials. There are no options. When God is in control, even when it looks like all hope is lost. Even in the midnight hour, he will come and straighten that thing out. We can just look at Moses. The scripture says, for six days the cloud covered the mountain. And on the seventh day, the Lord called to Moses from within the cloud. So the Israelites, the glory of the Lord looked like a consuming fire. Let’s pause right there for a second. When Moses saw the mountain, he saw God calling to him. When the Israelites looked, they saw fire. If you see fire, you’re not walking in, right? You’re going in the other direction. It’s no different. When God gives you a vision, others may see danger. They don’t want to know how it doesn’t make sense, but to you, the vision makes perfect sense. If you don’t know how it’s going to turn out, you know it’s the vision that God gave you, but it just won’t make sense to anyone else because the vision

5 Reasons Why The Vision Fails In this Episode: Sis, I really think you will get a lot from this episode about why the vision we see for ourselves fails. We break down 5 reasons why many aren’t fulfilling their purpose. Although I am sure we can think of more these 5 stood out to me to the most: It wasn’t the vision meant for you. It was the vision you chose for yourself. You have fear of oneself and the fear of others. You have no follow through or consistency. You’re unprepared. Your circle. Many of us are walking through life in fear and can’t get out of our own heads. I share with you my struggles and hopefully ways you can overcome yours to get back on path to your destination. Quotes: “Your circle is the people that pray for you”. “Yes you are flawed. Yes you have past. But what does that have to do with God being able to use you”. “Whether you’re doing the right thing or the wrong thing they gone talk”. “Not only do we allow others to define us by our past we also define ourselves by our past”. Bible Scripture References: The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it? ~Jeremiah 17:9 Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? ~ II Corinthians 6:14 Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.” ~ I Corinthians 15:33

Sis! Welcome back. This week I sit down with Fearless Millennial visionary Jeannette King. We converse about the attacks the enemy brings when walking in purpose and how to overcome them. Key Points: The cost of purpose.Preparation for your purposeBeing proactive in protecting your purpose.The importance of prayer to fight off the enemy’s attacks.

Hey Sis! Today’s episode is with Ashley Robbins of God Within Her Ministries regarding 3 ways to hear God’s voice for your vision. Ashley and I met via instagram and I knew she would drop some great nuggets along the way. In the busy world we live in it can be hard to hear God’s voice. We go in depth to 3 ways you can discern God’s voice. We touch on this lightly in Episode 2. Snippet of Episode: Ashley tells her testimony of how she began God Within Her Ministries: It was definitely one of those least expected moments. It was not something that I was pursuing or trying to make happen. I was just spending time worshiping the Lord, thanking the Lord. And as I was doing that, the Lord just spoke to my heart that he wanted me to begin writing Bible studies and devotionals for women. In implementing the vision she learned to askedAnd so he, he gave me the vision for it. And with the vision, I just said, Lord, how do you, how do you want me to go about this? Um, what do you want me to do? And so with that he gave me the plan. So I’ve learned that sometimes when the Lord gives us a vision, it’s not always for the right now. So Habakkuk 2:3 says sometimes the vision will tarry but wait for it and expect it to come to pass. But then there are times in our lives where division is for right now. And so in those moments it typically comes with a plan and so he will give us the plan. And so that’s how I needed to go ahead and begin to run with the vision. He dropped the plan in my heart of who to begin to offer the Bible study in the end, the devotionals too. And so I did that… Tune in For the Rest on BalancHER Podcast. Scriptures Referenced in podcast: For the revelation awaits an appointed time; it speaks of the end and will not prove false. Though it linger, wait for it will certainly come and will not delay.Habakkuk 23 Connect with guest speaker: Ashley Robbins You can connect with Ashley at God Within Her Ministries Instagram and Facebook. —

Today’s episode is with Richshundra of Realish Cosmetics and The Resilent and Real Podcast. I met Richshundra at an event and she just has this loving yet no nonsense type of energy about her. And I loveee people like that. I felt she would have a lot of value to give you all today. She’s also strikingly beautiful which one could say oh that’s why she’s so successful. She has the beauty and the beauty products but we are here to challenge that theory because running her business requires much more than just a pretty face. Episode Highlights: Purpose is tied to bringing souls to the Kingdom. When in doubt always remember that’s the end game. Your purpose should be used as a gateway to introduce other’s to Christ.Purpose is not always tied to ministry. You can fulfill God’s purpose for your life with other business venturesAvoiding comparison syndrome while walking in your purpose is necessary to fulfill it. You will never get all the answers waiting… just start. Starting is half the battle. Scripture References: Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting: but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Proverbs 31: 30

Today’s Episode is with Lawrencia, author of “Things I learned before I turned 31” and Blogger of “Wrenhosway”. She blogs regarding faith in every area of her lifestyle weather it’s family, food, or the gym. The blog names comes from a nickname her family gave her “Wren” and Howsway means how cool or interesting. We are discussing the importance of being intentional about your purpose and some strategies to overcome discipline and procrastination. Make sure you catch up on old episodes and share this one with a friend. Tune in on Itunes, Spotify, and Google Play. Episode Highlights: The meaning behind being intentional about your visionWays to overcome procrastinationWhy discipline is necessary for your purpose4 Key ways to be intentional about your vision Quote: “It’s important to remember the vision”.Lawrencia ‘Wrenhowsway” Scripture References: No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. Hebrews 12:11 Whoever watches the wind will not plant: whoever looks at the clouds will not reap. Ecclesiastes 11:4 Don’t forget to like, share, and leave a review to keep these episodes coming! Join our private community on facebook to dig deeper and meet like minded women for accountability.

We’re back!! I know you missed us last week but we had some technical difficulties with the website however sometimes difficulties create opportunity! That shut down allowed for an amazing new website to be birth and has just pushed the vision further along. This podcast is apart of Women with Balance’s nonprofit we are launching and you are now able to send in donations to help support this vision and events that will help women heal and come to know christ so be sure to check the site out www.womenwithbalance.org to see the new site and give as your heart sees fit. We will also be introducing membership opportunities as well. This season is approaching an end with only a few more episodes left. If you haven’t had the chance to catch up please take this week to do so and please sure to share with all you know! So with out further ado Today’s episode is with Mariela. Mariela is founder of “She Speaks Ministries” where she encourages women through her spoken word and prayer via her faith in God. Her mission is to hearts of her generation come back to God. This is a special edition episode as it’s longer than others but oh so worth it! Tune in and share with a friend. Highlight points from episode: Mariel tells her story of a radical encounter of God delivering her from drugs in 2015 and she never looked back. How she divorced her husband and God restored her family. No Mariela speaks in front of 1000s using her voice to speak directly to your situation via her relationship with God. Our past is apart of our journey.God can use your husband or significant other to show the love He has for you. It can happen. It starts with belief. God used her to break the generational curse of divorce in her family. God helps her sustains.God will grow your ministry when you take care of it. Educate yourself in the area He is giving you to steward.The importance of connections. Scripture References: Genesis 1:1

Welcome back balanced babes! Last week we discussed speaking in to your vision and this week we are discussing getting unstuck in order to birth that vision. As mentioned last week please be sure to check out the new site, share, and give. Today’s episode is with Ariel (Affectionately known as El) Davis. She is a Christian speaker and life coach who is motivated to spread the word of God. She is a Dallas native who currently lives in both Texas and Los Angelos. She is area director of The Fellowship of Christian Athletes and co-founder of The Journey Retreats where she provides transforming destination retreats for women. Welcome EL to BalancHER podcast! El tells us a little about her story and how she was stuck. When I think of people being stuck I think about the people of Moses who walked around for forty years just to reach their destination. Obviously God could have directed them straight to where they needed to go but instead he took them the round about way because mentally they were still enslaved although physically they had been freed. And the question becomes why didn’t the people feel free to push forward? I believe like us today it was due to fear of the unknown, to try something new, or go in to uncharted territory. Episode Highlights: Defining what “stuck” look like i.e. disobedience, negotiating with God, doing it on a smaller scale to stay in the safe zone.How to get unstuck: Scripture References: Numbers 10:11-12, 33-34 Exodus 3:17 What’s Next? Only one episode left in season 1! But no worries we won’t be gone too long and season 2 SISSSSS will be fire! I promise you it’s going to be next level! Catch up and be ready to tune in. Share. Tag. Comment. Let the world know we’re here.

Welcome back sis! Last week we discussed getting unstuck in order to walk out your vision. This week we chat with Nicole M. Clarendon a visionary that created her own SAT Prep school for children in Jamaica; her home town. She also teaches executing vision boards so that they are intentional to your purpose. Episode Highlights: The purpose of creating intentional vision boards. Write out the vision. Make it plain. It’s something about words on paper opposed to photos that make it come to life. You write what’s in you and therefore it’s something you were born with. That’s not something you just made up. Add photos for the visualization. Don’t limit yourself to magazine photos but really google search those that fit your vision. Announcements are your friend. Announce it to the world when you ‘re right at that moment between fear and I can actually do this. It’s a way to hold you accountable. Executing Purpose Scripture Reference: Write the vision and make it plain on tablets, That he may run who reads it. For the vision is yet for an appointed time Habakkuk 2:2-3 Quotes: I wanted to leave a legacy behind for my kids and vision boards changed the game in order for me to do that. Prayer: Heavenly Father, For every person trying to visualize their purpose give them insight and clarity to execute the vision. Guide our steps and open doors for those we need to connect with in our walk towards greatness for the kingdom. We thank you. We honor you. In Jesus name, Amen

Hey Sis! Welcome back to a bonus episode of Balancher. I didn’t want to leave you hanging and wanted to make sure you knew what comes next for season 2. We will have an all new concept that I know you all will enjoy and give you the opportunity to engage more. Important Highlights from episode: Season 2 launches April 20thEpisodes will now release on Mondays instead of Tuesday2 cohosts join permanently to produce a christian table talk experience around booksLive podcast tapings will be introduced called “The B.F.F. Experience (Books. Faith. Fellowship)We now have daily devotionals that coincide with the subject of the podcast we’re on so you can go deeper This also allows you to be apart of the community! Take the time now to join our private facebook group and click subscribe to our devotionals (scroll to bottom of page). To get the book “Relational Intelligence” to kick off our next season click here. We as authors and bloggers ourselves saw a need to help other authors out there get there books in front of an audience that would appreciate it. This solves two problems: the issue of exposure and getting books in front of non-readers so they can see the impact books create.

Season 2 Premiere: I've missed you all!! Here's what to expect in this episode: Meet our new co-hosts - Wren, Alexis, and Tro New Concept - Books, Wellness, & Girl Talk The importance of taking a break i.e. vacation and the exposure vacation brings.

This week we review part 1 of Dr. Dharius Daniel's book "Relational Intelligence". This section helps us discover the position of those in our lives based on God's word. Are they a friend, associate, an assignment, or an advisor. Tune in this week to find out how: To define friendships vs. associates Determining who should be an assignment in our lives rather than establishing a relationship based on the principles of God Identifying when you are put in an advisor position or should be advised by someone The Importance of having friends as accountability partners

Hey Sis, Today we are finishing up Dr. Dharius Daniels' Relational Intelligence where we discuss aligning your relationships and understanding the type of friend you are and that you want. Having those conversations Expectations - preparing for it to either be received or rejected Being the friend God wants you to be vs the friend you want to be Don't forget to share, like, and subscribe. And if you don't mind taking this quick 3 minute survey to provide a better listening experience we'd love your feedback. https://christianitytoday.typeform.com/to/q22iHG

In this episode we discuss the insecurities and stereotypical idea of beauty. Why hair is so important to us and how it directly affects our confidence Comparison syndrome to society norms of beauty How to overcome the fear of change Being vulnerable and how healing can come from transparency Make sure to share, rate, and review on any podcast networks. Email us your topics at info@womenwithbalance.org we'd love to hear from you.

In this episode the girls and I converse over the impact of Kimberly Lawson Roby's book "The Woman God Created Me to Be". We talk childhood trauma, self esteem, anger, and so much more. Join the conversation by connecting with us and subscribing to the channel via any podcast network or at www.womenwithbalance.org.

Today we are discussing expectations in a relationship. Are they realistic or fantasy? Are you asking for what you put out? Standards Dating Scene Finding the right mate Tune in, rate, subscribe and send any ideas to info@womenwithbalance.org

In this episode we converse over Danielle Tashae's book "God Locked Out" a biography that chronicles the trials she experienced on her walk toward Jesus. This book is relatable to so many of us and helps guide you with practical steps on your journey to getting to know Christ for yourself. Don't miss these great conversations amongst friends and learn a little something along the way.

Hey Sis! Today we discuss how being chosen by God to break generational curses can effect you. We discuss: The history of generational curses. Steps to breaking those curses. The Blessings that come from breaking curses. You don't want to miss this episode! Share with family & friends. We are sure it will bless you.

Hey sis! Sadly this is our last episode of this season. We share what we've learned and hope that you got a lot out of the season as well.

We're baack! Season 3 is all about waiting and trusting God in the process. Tune in as we discuss our best seller - "the Bible"! We' re excited to get back to what Balancher was all about and that's balancing a life of faith via God's word. In this episode we discuss Genesis 21:1-9 "Abraham's Sacrifice" and how it ties in to our every day lives now in 2020. What sacrifice do you feel you are making right now and how can you look at it in a way that the outcome is for your good? Listen as we discuss trusting God with YOUR sacrifice.

Hey Women with Balance! In this episode we are discussing building with God and what that looks like. Our scripture reference for this episode is Genesis 7:1-24 regarding Noah and the ark. We all know the story but how does it apply to us? Listen and find out.

We all are well aware of our new enemy Corona but what if it's really not. Check out today's episode about trusting God through this pandemic. It will bless you.

Today's episode discusses Ruth from today's perspective and what we as women can learn from her character. Per usual the girls and I get transparent about dating then and now, sex, and waiting and so much more. You don't want to miss this episode! Don't miss any other by subscribing now. Follow us on IG @womenwithbalance & @betterboldcosmetics for more faith inspiration!

Today we discuss the power of influence personally and via social media. Tap in to the conversation as we get raw and real about Jesus! If this is your first time here consider us the homegirls you discuss the Bible with no filter.

This term thirsty is new to us but old to God. In John 4, He meets a Samaritan woman who symbolizes what many women go through today - loneliness that leads to desperation. Could you be desperate? Are you settling? Do you know your worth? These are questions we discuss in this week's episode: Characteristics of a Desperate Woman. Join the conversation with LaShundra, Wren, & Alexis. Share with a friend who may need it and connect with us @womenwithbalance and @balancher. If you love the show please leave a review!

This week's episode jumps into in our business segment of the season. How important is it to you to maintain honesty and integrity in your business? The girls and I podcast is built on the foundation of transparency so honesty for us is at the top of the list. However we know that so many often look for a quick buck and lose sight of the long-term picture which is staying in business. And without honesty and integrity we know a business can't last for long. Tune in and join the conversations via our community "Women with Balance" and sneak peaks of our weekly episodes at "Balancher" podcast. All episodes are sponsored by "Better Bold Cosmetics" - a faith inspired makeup brand to encourage women through God's word.

Hey Sis! We're back with another episode and this week we're discussing being a good steward of your business. We also dive in to personal convictions so make sure you tune in. Connect with us on social media @womenwithbalance and balancherpodcast.