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Men are more likely to orgasm during a heterosexual encounter than women. So how can we bridge the gap and how can we intensify the big O? Here are tips for a better orgasm part 2. Compared with men, women are considerably less likely to have orgasms. Men report orgasms in approximately 95 per cent […] The post How to have a better orgasm part 2 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Men are more likely to orgasm during a heterosexual encounter than women. So how can we bridge the gap and how can we intensify the big O? Here are tips for a better orgasm part 1. Compared with men, women are considerably less likely to have orgasms. Men report orgasms in approximately 95 percent of […] The post Tips for a better orgasm part 1 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Do you fear awkward silences on a first date? Here are 10 questions to ask on the first date (part 2) to help keep the conversation flowing and weed out the chaff. Last week our questions included: What makes you unique? What are some random fun facts about you? What’s Something You Want to Learn […] The post Questions to ask on the first date (part 2) appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Do you fear awkward silences on a first date? Here are 10 questions to ask on the first date. (part 1) to help keep the conversation flowing and weed out the chaff. I’ve been on my fair share of dates in the last 10 years. Four of them ended in relationships but for one reason […] The post 10 Questions to ask on the first date appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Is sex on the first date due to low self-esteem? And if so, does sleeping with someone quickly, boost self-esteem? Is it possible that some people jump into bed with someone on the first date because they have low self-esteem? And by doing so, does sex work to boost their self-esteem? Surely the ultimate complement […] The post Does low self-esteem lead to sex on the first date? appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Is it okay to have sex on the first date? According to the latest survey, eight dates is the norm. Really, would you wait that long? Let’s start by saying that there are no absolutes. Some relationships where sex on the first date happened, have lasted a lifetime, others haven’t got past that first passionate […] The post Sex on the first date: yes or no? appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

If you’ve been with one person long-term, you might be jaded in the bedroom. So are you off sex or aromantic? What is aromantic? In a nutshell, aromantic is having no interest in or desire for romantic relationships. So what are romantic relationships? Here’s a definition I found on Zoosk which I quite like: “Romance is […] The post Off sex or aromantic? appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Before you rush to change the way you look, check out these cosmetic surgery regrets and take a moment to think about what can go wrong. There’s also a much better alternative. Surrounded by images of so many perfect looking women — not just on magazine covers but all over social media — it’s hard […] The post Cosmetic surgery regrets appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Long-term relationships can lose their zest in the bedroom if you don’t pay attention to it. We talk about how to spice up your sex life and create a deeper connection Self-pleasure – in front of your partner We’ve talked about it in a previous episode (link here) but masturbation can play a fundamental part […] The post 10 ways to transform your sex life appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Are you in a slump? Here are some tips on how to break out of it, fast. Some days you just wake up in a slump. It’s not like you remember something from the day before that might have triggered it, you just wake up feeling unmotivated and uninspired. But there are also days when […] The post In a Slump? Try this appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Have you ever wondered if your sexual fantasies were normal or not? Recent research reveals the 7 most common sexual fantasies and you might be surprised to discover that your fantasies aren’t that wild after all. 4,175 Americans were asked: “What is your favourite sexual fantasy?” as part of the survey that formed the basis […] The post 7 most common sexual fantasies appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Sexy confidence is related to more than how you look, it’s about what your body can do. In part two with health coach Elizabeth Resnick, we find out the secret to feeling sexy confidence. The second part of this interview with Elizabeth, led to an aha moment when Elizabeth announced that there are two types […] The post Sexy confidence appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

How to feel hot at any age as well as happy and healthy, is the mantra of our guest, health coach Elizabeth Resnick. Tips and tricks on how to look and feel your best in part 1 of our chitchat with Elizabeth. How to feel hot starts in the head Elizabeth says, how to feel […] The post How to feel hot at any age appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

From a cool knitting business to fitness and wine, it’s not just the toilet roll industry that is booming during lockdown. We take a look at booming businesses despite lockdown. It’s not something I talk about much, but I actually work in an industry that is booming right now. Yes, I work in the toilet […] The post Businesses that are booming despite lockdown Episode 121 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Would you liven up your lockdown with a drive-through strip show to collect your takeout meal? It certainly brings a whole new meaning to the happy meal, that’s for sure. In this episode, we look at how sex workers become resourceful during the pandemic with topless food delivery and drive-thru strip shows. This particular conversation […] The post Topless food delivery & Drive-Thru Strip Shows Episode 120 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

With more time on our hands during lockdown, it figures that people are masturbating more. But what if you don’t want to pay for conventional sex toys? Your home might have just what you need. In this episode, we investigate homemade sex toys! This blog comes with a health warning. After reading this and listening […] The post Homemade sex toys Episode 119 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

The show about nothing, actually turned out to be a show about so much! True to a good Coffee and a Chitchat with a friend, in this episode we hear about life without seasons, Karen’s life in the RV and a few irritations surface about lockdown. Sometimes you just have to do a show about […] The post The Show About Nothing Episode 118 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

In part three of our podcast with clairvoyant medium Debbie Anderson, Harriett gets her very own clairvoyant reading. We also take a look at the benefits of psychic and clairvoyant readings. There are times in my life (Harriett here) when I get desperate. Desperate for an answer, a bit of hope that things will be […] The post Benefits of a clairvoyant reading Episode 117 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Do we need tarot or vibrational energy oracle cards to search for guidance and knowledge and/or to receive messages from spirits or higher consciousness? As Debbie, our internationally recognised clairvoyant medium guest explains, when she first started using them at the beginning of her career, they served more as a comfort blanket, to use to […] The post Vibrational energy oracle versus tarot cards appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Imagine being four years old and seeing the ceiling peel back and ethereal beings of brilliant light sit at the end of your bed. To be honest, at any age it might come as a shock but this is how it all began for internationally recognised clairvoyant medium, Debbie Anderson. Debbie affirms that we’re all […] The post Life as a clairvoyant Pt1 Episode 115 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

One thing lockdown and quarantine seem to be triggering is a mass of memes and jokes circulating via WhatsApp, text and other messaging platforms. So in this podcast, we add a dollop of our own amusement with some fun questions that seem to deviate into some interesting side discussions…. Our fun questions 1 Where is […] The post Fun quarantine questions to ask Episode 113 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Stuck for conversation with the same faces in lockdown? Try our ‘Would you Rather’ questions for some quarantine fun. You’ll have to listen to the podcast for our answers but here are the ‘would you rather’ questions for you to try with your family and friends. Six Would You Rather questions Would you rather have […] The post Would You Rather Questions Part1 Episode 112 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

With new announcements and measures kicking in daily, the big message from us is to stay calm; there’s a lot of unnecessary hype and uncertainty but at the end of the day, Covid-19 is just another corona virus and we will get through it. Being anxious and fearful doesn’t serve anyone. Focusing on statistics isn’t […] The post Corona virus special: stay calm! appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

So, you are an empty nester? NOW WHAT? We are back with Your Empty Nest Coach Christine. In part II we are looking at how to get back in touch with your desires or how to reinvent yourself as an empty nester. Reach for the stars, is Coach Christine’s philosophy. We hear about empty-nester in the […] The post Empty Nester? Part II with Your Empty Nest Coach Christine Episode 110 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

When our children leave home, it can trigger feelings of grief, loneliness, distress and loss of purpose. How to navigate Empty Nest Syndrome is what we are talking about in this two-part episode with Empty Nest Coach Christine. Unusual circumstances meant that our guest, Empty Nest Syndrome Coach Christine, found herself an “early” empty nester. […] The post Empty Nest Syndrome with Coach Christine Episode 109 (Part 1) appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

A wank a day keeps the doctor away? Perhaps you’d prefer an apple but evidence suggests that masturbation could really benefit our health. In my journey as a medical journalist, I had read somewhere that sex can help with colds and whilst I doubt it’s substantiated, there is a logic in regular orgasms helping with […] The post Can Masturbation Cure Illness? Episode 108 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Does the term of endearment “hun” irritate you? If it does, why is that? We thrash this out on this week’s podcast “Don’t call me hun!” grrrrr….. A bit of digging after our recording, and we actually discover that it should be “hon” not “hun” because it’s short for honey. Even more reason to be […] The post Don’t Call Me Hun Episode 107 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Medical intuition, whilst not necessarily a new concept, isn’t yet widely embraced and more is the pity. Whilst not a treatment, medical Intuition is a method of intuitive scanning intended to gather information from both the physical and energetic systems (biofield) of the body. It is designed to identify the underlying causes of imbalance, to […] The post What is a Medical Intuitive? With Wendie Colter Episode 106 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Should you Panic about the Wuhan Coronavirus? Get the facts on the Wuhan Coronavirus and how to protect yourself and your family.  What is the Wuhan Coronavirus? It’s called the novel Chinese virus, 2019 Coronavirus or 2019 Novel Coronavirus (2019 n-CoV) or Wuhan virus, meaning the following: it started in Wuhan China in December of […] The post Should we panic about the coronavirus? Get the facts appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Have you heard about the vagina scented candle sold by Gwyneth Paltrow’s lifestyle brand goop called ‘This smells like my vagina’? What’s next, penis scented candles? Oh wait, they already exist! All this and more on this week’s Coffee and Chitchat. It started as a joke It’s marketing genius, a candle with an intriguing name […] The post Vagina Scented Candles; This Smells Like My Vagina Candle? Episode105 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Hear the word “cougar” and you think of women coupling with younger men typically involving a sexual relationship. In my experience, it isn’t a term used positively but surely we need to shift this mindset to one of empowerment. Although there are no precise ages, the label cougar applies to women in their 40s and […] The post Cougar Dating, Sex and Younger men Episode 104 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

We’ve probably all experienced the wellbeing effects of time in the sun, that lovely warm feeling as the sun’s rays touch you all over, inducing a form of relaxation which just wouldn’t be there without it. I speak from the UK where the sun is more of a luxury; Karen, on the other hand, may […] The post Butthole Sunning: Its A Thing! Episode 103 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

What makes us want who we want? Is it personal preference in terms of looks and/or personality traits or does actual biology play a part? Whilst we’re all prone to finding conventionally good-looking people attractive, in reality, it’s actually very subjective whether you fancy someone or not. We chat about our own go-to body parts […] The post Is Attraction Just Biology? Episode 102 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Are you confident? Do you dare to be you? Do you know who you are? Perhaps you’ve lost yourself in a cloud of family life and responsibilities. In this episode of Coffee and a Chitchat, with the help of wisdom from a few influential women, we strip it down and take a look at what […] The post Confidence Advice From Influential Women Episode 101 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

WOW! We just hit our 100th podcast episode of Coffee and a Chitchat! We record and release a podcast EVERY Friday and today we’re celebrating our 100th episode! It has been a blast for us, a proper journey and so in this episode, we both pick some favourites to reminisce over. Will we pick the […] The post 100th Coffee and a Chitchat Episode – reminisce time! appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Can you really love more than one person at a time? Perhaps you feel that there is more than one person out there for you? We take a closer look at the non-monogamous approach to relationships. Yup, we’re talking about polyamory. The word polyamory – from Greek poly, ‘many, several’, and Latin amor, ‘love’. Someone […] The post Is a Polyamory Relationship Right For You? Episode 99 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Look in the mirror and tell yourself you’re great. Keep looking and repeat out loud that you’re beautiful and worthy, great at your job and a brilliant parent. Seems silly doesn’t it? And this is the basis for positive affirmations. Does it really work or is it just mumbo jumbo, as we like to call […] The post Do Positive Affirmations Work? Episode 98 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Last week on Coffee And A Chitchat we were deep in conversation with life coach and Instagram sensation @FashionFor50s Dimitie Kendal. This week we are asking all the juicy questions including what the heck is a capture wardrobe? And for those of you interested in growing an Instagram account, Dimitie shares a few tips which […] The post What Not To Wear After 50 Part 2 Episode 97 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Confused about what not to wear after 50? We are too! Is it okay to wear a miniskirt or a cropped top? What colours are acceptable? This week Instagram fashion sensation and Life Coach Dimitie Kendall shares her tips on fashion over fifty. Dimitie started her blog https://fashionfor50s.com/ to help 50 Plus women navigate the […] The post What not to wear after 50 Part 1 Episode 96 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

How do you stay happy, despite the daily challenges of life? This quick and practical 3-step method can help. Are you doing these 3 simple things? So Karen has packed it all in, sold her house, car and other possessions to start a new adventure on the road. Check out our Instagram channel to see […] The post 15 Minute Happiness Hack Episode 95 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Do you dread getting your hair done because you feel obligated to enter into mindless chitchat with the hairdresser? Do you wish you could just get your hair done in silence? You can if you are lucky enough to live in London, UK. At Not Another Salon, you can opt-out of a general chitchat and […] The post Not Another Salon Episode 94 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Do you have back fat? Harriett got to talking about back fat and well, this week’s Coffee and a Chitchat is all about back fat and what we are going to do about it. If you need to just relate and need a good laugh, grab a cuppa and join us. It’s true, I (Harriett) […] The post Operation Back Fat Episode 93 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Goggles and snorkle, oyster, butter, axe, sloth, parachute, juice box and gingers. What have these emoji got in common? The answer lies in cryptic foreplay, sex shorthand. But can you guess what they are? Don’t feel bad if you don’t have a clue, Karen and I didn’t either but we had a lot of fun […] The post 12 Horniest Emoji Episode 92 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Can you easily walk around naked at home? Would you feel comfortable being naked in public? This week we are talking about how to feel confident being naked. Animals do it all the time, unless you count the fur of course. I guess they don’t go around looking at other animals in magazines, comparing themselves […] The post How to feel confident being naked Episode 91 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Have you done Jury Service and if not, would you like to? Harriett shares her experience of Jury Service and we share some great tips on how to prepare should you be called up. I opened a letter headed with HMS Crown Court and immediately wondered what I’d done wrong. To my relief, I was […] The post Jury Service What to expect Episode 90 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Do you believe in Aliens? Do you believe in Area 51? Is there something being hidden from us? Do we have the right to know? Do you Believe in Aliens? It’s a short Coffee and a Chitchat episode this week but juicy and worth a listen. Are you subscribed on your favourite podcast channel? Be […] The post Area 51 Do you believe in aliens? Episode 89 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Cast your eye back over the relationships you’ve had in your life or even the people you’ve chosen to date. Can you see any similarities in their personalities and or physical appearance? Do women typically end up with someone like their father and do men typically seek out women who share many similarities with their […] The post What’s your relationship type? Episode 88 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Yt https://youtu.be/2I1x9JEIlUk Harriett found an article on the psychology behind recycling. I had no idea this was a thing. It is recycling awareness week in the UK and the news is a buzz with everything recycling. Do you have a fear of recycling? Do you have a fear of recycling? In the article Your fear […] The post Do Your Have a Fear of Recycling? Episode 87 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

When us women chat about “dick pics”, the initial reaction is typically a negative one, coupled with a screwed up face to demonstrate disapproval. Are dick pics a bad thing? Read on Although Harriet and I are having some fun here, We do understand the seriousness of this post at the same time. We do […] The post Dick pics Episode 86 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

Did it just get hot in here? So, are you a good kisser? Clearly, at our age we should be, with all that experience? But how would we know if we weren’t? Would our partners tell us? Check out below the 5 Signs you are a bad kisser…. Being kissed by a bad kisser can […] The post How To Be A Better Kisser Episode 85 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.

It would make sense to think that the way you laugh is reflective of your personality. Introverts, for example, tend to keep their hands closer to the body while talking and move their hands towards themselves. Extroverts move their hands outward and away from the body while speaking. We have fun in this podcast as […] The post Does the way you laugh reveal your personality? Episode 83 appeared first on Coffee and A Chitchat Podcast.