Femme Tea

What is your definition of a cheater? In today’s episode, we discuss emotional & physical cheating. What would you do if your partner cheated? Is there hope for surviving infidelity and staying with your partner ? We also share our thoughts on Jubilee’s YouTube video “Do All Cheaters Think The Same?” where viewers got an inside perspective on people who’ve cheated or are the serial cheaters. We hope you tune in and enjoy today’s episode!Keep up with the #FemmeTeaParty @Femme_Tea& Your Hosts;Bibi @bibilovesradyGeri @gerardineperaltaReferences:https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201910/the-8-main-reasons-why-people-cheathttps://youtu.be/UKCHG13qMK8 - Do All Cheaters Think The Same | Spectrum from Jubileehttps://www.elitedaily.com/p/can-you-forgive-your-partner-after-theyve-cheated-heres-how-according-to-experts-8384044

We are "friends" with ALL our exes...Aren't you? In today's episode, we're breaking down the reasons whether or not it's a good idea to stay friends with an ex. We also try to understand those who do stay friends with a former flame & if it's okay if your current partner is besties with all their exes. How would you feel? We know we aren't okay with ANY OF IT. Some may say we're insecure just because we refuse to let our partners hangout or text their exes. But what do you think?Keep up with the #FemmeTeaParty @Femme_Tea& Your Hosts;Kat @hereskatBibi @bibilovesradyGeri @gerardineperaltaReferences:https://www.google.com/amp/brightside.me/inspiration-relationships/psychologists-highlight-7-reasons-why-staying-friends-with-an-ex-is-a-bad-idea-794841/amp/https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-love-and-war/201405/the-10-worst-reasons-stay-friends-your-ex?amp

In today’s episode, we’re opening up about our experiences with anxiety & depression. We’re also talking about some of the ways we’ve coped and handled our anxiety, including self-soothing methods & professional therapy.**Please note, this is a heavy topic and could possibly be a trigger. If discussions involving anxiety and depression are a tigger for you, we ask that you skip this week’s episode. We will be back next week with a fun relationship topic.** *DISCLAIMER*: We said self-medicate at 13:07, when we meant; to self soothe, looking for healthy mediums to manage anxiety and depression such as meditation, yoga, breathing exercise, working out etc. (Please note, you should always speak to a medical professional as these are just a few things that have helped us and it may not work for everyone and a doctor is highly recommended)Keep up with the #FemmeTeaParty @Femme_Tea& Your Hosts;Kat @hereskatBibi @bibilovesradyGeri @gerardineperalta LINKS FOR HELP:Help is availableSpeak with a counselor todayNational Suicide Prevention LifelineHours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish. Learn moreSUICIDE HOTLINE # 1-800-273-8255If The Person You Care About Is In Crisis, Please Encourage Them To Seek Help Immediately. Direct Them To Call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) To Reach A 24-Hour Crisis Center, Text MHA To 741741, Call 911, Or Go To The Nearest Emergency Room. You Can Also Call These Numbers If You Fear For Someone's Safety Or Life.https://www.mhanational.org/im-looking-mental-health-help-someone-else 1-888-NYC-WELL (1-888-692-9355) is a free, confidential help line for New York City residents. You can call 24 hours per day/7 days a week. The staff of trained mental health professionals help callers find mental health and substance abuse services. NYC Well is multilingual and multicultural:1-888-NYC-WELL(1-888-692-9355)1-888-692-9355 (Español)1-888-692-9355(中文)711 (TTY for hearing impaired)You can also text WELL to 65173 or go to NYC Well, an online resource for individuals, families and agencies in need of help and information.Additional Resources:The SAMHSA Behavioral Health Treatment Services Locator is an on-line source of information for persons seeking treatment facilities in the United States or U.S. Territories for mental health and/or substance abuse/addiction problems.https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/depression/what-is-depression

In today's episode, we are chatting about our own personal insecurities, loving ourselves, and how we’ve worked towards loving our bodies just the way they are. (FYI it's always a work in progress, sometimes we love our bodies, sometimes we don't.) Accepting ourselves as we are is always a tug of war, but we’re here to tell you that society’s idea of beautiful shouldn’t be #GOALS.Keep up with the #FemmeTeaParty @Femme_Tea& Your Hosts;Kat @hereskatBibi @bibilovesradyGeri @gerardineperaltaReferences:https://www.huffpost.com/entry/foster-healthy-body-image-child_l_5c86b4a8e4b0d936162add28

This week, we’re discussing double standards & mansplaining. We get personal by sharing stories of how we’ve experienced these issues throughout our lives, & unfortunately in the workplace, too. Keep up with the #FemmeTeaParty @Femme_Tea& Your Hosts;Kat @hereskatBibi @bibilovesradyGeri @gerardineperalta

Moving in with a significant other definitely has its perks. Some say it either makes or breaks a relationship...In today’s episode, we bare it all with our unfiltered confessions & how it’s really like living with a partner.Keep up with the #FemmeTeaParty @Femme_Tea& Your Hosts;Kat @hereskatBibi @bibilovesradyGeri @gerardineperalta

In this week’s episode we have an unfiltered conversation of the unwritten rules of GIRL CODE. Can you date your friend’s ex? If your man is cheating on you & your friend finds out, should she tell you? We’ll also share some of our personal experiences with girl code & if we’ve ever broken a rule...Resources:https://www.readunwritten.com/2018/06/19/36-unwritten-rules-girl-code-women-need-live-by/ Keep up with the #FemmeTeaParty @Femme_Tea& Your Hosts;Kat @hereskatBibi @bibilovesradyGeri @gerardineperalta

Ever find yourself in a toxic relationship with a family member, partner, or close friend? Sometimes the signs aren’t as visible as you would think. In today’s episode, we discuss personal stories, the red flags we missed, and how we were able to break free from some of our own toxic and disruptive relationships. We hope you join us and listen to the lessons we learned and how they could hopefully help you too.Keep up with the #FemmeTeaParty @Femme_Tea& Your Hosts;Kat @hereskatBibi @bibilovesradyGeri @gerardineperalta

Ever wonder how New Yorkers really feel about living here? In this episode, we drop some personal tea and chat about the Pros & Cons of the city that never sleeps.Keep up with the #FemmeTeaParty @Femme_Tea& Your Hosts;Kat @hereskatBibi @bibilovesradyGeri @gerardineperalta

There’s been a lot of buzz surrounding the latest documentary to hit Netflix. Silicon Valley tech industry leaders expose the underlying layers of social media and the features that make them addicting. In today’s episode, we will discuss “The Social Dilemma” and dive into the valuable points brought up in this film. Take a sip with us as we discuss fake news, picture perfect lifestyles, and the moments we no longer pay for a product, and instead BECOME the product.Click to watch "The Social Dilemma" on Netflix! Keep up with the #FemmeTeaParty @Femme_Tea& Your Hosts;Kat @hereskatBibi @bibilovesradyGeri @gerardineperaltaThe Social Dilemma Interviewees:Tristan Harris - Co-Founder, HumaneTech. Former Google Design Ethicist. Aza Raskin - Co-Founder, HumaneTechJustin Rosenstein - Co-founder One Project & Asana. Advisor at HumaneTechShoshana Zuboff - Author, The Age of Surveillance Capitalism: The Fight for a Human Future at the New Frontier of PowerJaron Lanier - Computer scientist & founding father of virtual realityTim Kendall - CEO of Moment & Former President of PinterestRashida Richardson - Director of Policy Research at AI Now InstituteRenée DiResta - Technical research manager at Stanford Internet ObservatoryDr. Anna Lemke - Psychiatrist, Chief of the Stanford Addiction Medicine Dual Diagnosis Clinic at Stanford UniversityRoger McNamee - Businessman, investor, & Author of Zucked: Waking Up to the Facebook CatastropheGuillaume Chaslot - Former Google software engineer, Trustworthy AI / Mozilla Fellow, Algo Transparency & Advisor at Center for Humane Technology Resources:https://allabouteve.co.in/the-social-dilemma-netflix-documentary/

Kicking off the first episode with a topic NONE of us have ever discussed. We’ve heard about open relationships and seen them on TV, but how do you define it? Are there any benefits & what do you do when your partner asks you to explore outside your relationship?...Join us as we discuss sex, boundaries, and our honest opinions.Keep up with the #FemmeTeaParty @Femme_Tea & Your Hosts;Kat @hereskatBibi @bibilovesradyGeri @gerardineperalta

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