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Darkboy and Dr. Pouquie discuss issues, dramas, and traumas from their perspectives as Black, gay, male, 40-somethings. They cover you from the top of your head to the bottom of your ashy feet. The conversations range from informative to poignant to comedic with a few touches of ratchet thrown in to…

Dr. Pouquie & Darkboy


    • Jan 7, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
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    Episode 57: Find You…Then Find Him

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2021 59:45


    Episode 57 Find You…Then Find Him In a nation under seige, do you know where to find your joy? https://episodes.castos.com/5e2e581a5fc849-83853159/Ep57-Finding-Joy.mp3  Resources E. B. Johnson on Authenticity and Joy  Share Episode Twitter Instagram Facebook Download Episode About This Episide Dr. Pouquie returns with an episode to soothe your soul. He was gooped and gagged when the domestic terrorists stormed the Capitol Building. Then those folks had the nerve to plant explosive devices and leave things on Dame Nancy’s and Moscow Mitch’s desks. With this kind of insurrectionist carrying on, the Doctor wondered where is the love and the joy in the world. Specifically, where is your joy? How do you access your joy when it’s not readily apparent? With guidance from Neuro-Linguistic Programming practitioner E. B. Johnson, Dr. Pouquie explores the differences between joy and happiness (‘cmon Reverend Al!), how to cultivate authenticity in your daily life, and how authenticity feeds joy.  In our listener letter, Dr. Pouquie gives advice on what to do when you’ve fallen for a guy who treats you like an option. Related Episodes Episode 57: Find You…Then Find Him by Dr. Pouquie | Jan 7, 2021 | Episode 57 Find You...Then Find Him In a nation under seige, do you know where to find your joy?  Resources E. B. Johnson on Authenticity and Joy  Share Episode Twitter Instagram Facebook About This Episide Dr. Pouquie returns with an episode to soothe your soul. He... PREVIEW: The Doc is Coming Back!!! by Dr. Pouquie | Dec 27, 2020 | Teaser episode The Doc is Coming Back!!! Quick teaser to announce the Doctor's return to the microphone.  Share Episode Twitter Instagram FacebookAbout This Episide There is no perfect time to return, only a time to return. The Doctor is coming back with new content... Episode 56: Bald-Headed Hoochie by Dr. Pouquie | Dec 6, 2019 | Episode 56 Bald-Headed HoochieA mating call from a scruffy stranger.  Resources Male Perspectives on Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Statistical Studies of Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Male Victims of Sexual Harassment from KQED Share...

    Episode 15: Find You, Then Find Him

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2021 59:46


    In a nation under seige, do you know where to find your joy?

    PREVIEW: The Doc is Coming Back!!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2020 5:12


    Teaser episode The Doc is Coming Back!!! Quick teaser to announce the Doctor’s return to the microphone. by Dr. Pouquie | Sexual Healing Podcast with dr. Pouquie https://episodes.castos.com/5e2e581a5fc849-83853159/Ep00-Show-Preview.mp3  Share Episode Twitter Instagram Facebook Download Episode About This Episide There is no perfect time to return, only a time to return. The Doctor is coming back with new content and a few bells and whistles. Related Episodes Episode 57: Find You…Then Find Him by Dr. Pouquie | Jan 7, 2021 | Episode 57 Find You...Then Find Him In a nation under seige, do you know where to find your joy?  Resources E. B. Johnson on Authenticity and Joy  Share Episode Twitter Instagram Facebook About This Episide Dr. Pouquie returns with an episode to soothe your soul. He... PREVIEW: The Doc is Coming Back!!! by Dr. Pouquie | Dec 27, 2020 | Teaser episode The Doc is Coming Back!!! Quick teaser to announce the Doctor's return to the microphone.  Share Episode Twitter Instagram FacebookAbout This Episide There is no perfect time to return, only a time to return. The Doctor is coming back with new content... Episode 56: Bald-Headed Hoochie by Dr. Pouquie | Dec 6, 2019 | Episode 56 Bald-Headed HoochieA mating call from a scruffy stranger.  Resources Male Perspectives on Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Statistical Studies of Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Male Victims of Sexual Harassment from KQED Share...

    Bald-Headed Hoochie | Episode 56

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2019 60:41


    A random trip to McDonald's reminded the Doc that he still has a little something going on. Please rate the show on apple podcasts. Share with a friend. Stop Street Harassment website 2018 Study on Sexual Harassment and Assault 2004 Study on Experiences of Young Gay and Bisexual Men Bystander Tips from Stop Street Harassment SEND LETTERS AND COMMENTS TO SEXUALHEALINGPOD@GMAIL.COM OR REACH OUT ON TWITTER: @DOCTORPOUQUIE OR @PODSEXUAL OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL, FACEBOOK, AND INSTAGRAM PLATFORMS. #PODSBYQPOC #PODSINCOLOR #PODERNFAMILY #WEALLWIN

    Episode 14: Bald-Headed Hoochie

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2019 60:41


    Episode 56: Bald-Headed Hoochie

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2019 60:41


    Episode 56 Bald-Headed Hoochie A mating call from a scruffy stranger. by Dr. Pouquie | Sexual Healing Podcast https://episodes.castos.com/5e2e581a5fc849-83853159/Ep56-Bald-Headed-Hoohcie.mp3  Resources Male Perspectives on Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Statistical Studies of Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Male Victims of Sexual Harassment from KQED  Share Episode Twitter Instagram Facebook Download Episode About This Episide Street harassment of women has a long and sordid history. However, many men have few problems extending this type of harassment to other men as well, particularly men perceived to be of LGTQ identities. This week Dr. Pouquie shares a recent encounter with an aggressive man outside of a McDonalds restaurant as a springboard to a deeper conversation about this problematic behavior.  Related Episodes Episode 57: Find You…Then Find Him by Dr. Pouquie | Jan 7, 2021 | Episode 57 Find You...Then Find Him In a nation under seige, do you know where to find your joy?  Resources E. B. Johnson on Authenticity and Joy  Share Episode Twitter Instagram Facebook About This Episide Dr. Pouquie returns with an episode to soothe your soul. He... PREVIEW: The Doc is Coming Back!!! by Dr. Pouquie | Dec 27, 2020 | Teaser episode The Doc is Coming Back!!! Quick teaser to announce the Doctor's return to the microphone.  Share Episode Twitter Instagram FacebookAbout This Episide There is no perfect time to return, only a time to return. The Doctor is coming back with new content... Episode 56: Bald-Headed Hoochie by Dr. Pouquie | Dec 6, 2019 | Episode 56 Bald-Headed HoochieA mating call from a scruffy stranger.  Resources Male Perspectives on Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Statistical Studies of Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Male Victims of Sexual Harassment from KQED Share...

    Checking in For A Hot Minute | Episode 55

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2019 39:57


    STOPPING BY TO SHARE A FEW THOUGHTS ON:  AMBER GUYGER AND THE VALUE OF BLACK LIVES C.O.G.I.C. YOUTUBE BATTLES IMPEACHING 45 THE SHOW WILL RETURN IN A FEW WEEKS. SEND LETTERS AND COMMENTS TO SEXUALHEALINGPOD@GMAIL.COM OR REACH OUT ON TWITTER: @DOCTORPOUQUIE OR @PODSEXUAL OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL, FACEBOOK, AND INSTAGRAM PLATFORMS. #PODSBYQPOC #PODSINCOLOR #PODERNFAMILY #WEALLWIN

    Episode 55: A Hot Minute

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2019 39:57


    Episode 55 A Hot Minute Just dropping in for a “few” minutes. by Dr. Pouquie | Sexual Healing Podcast https://episodes.castos.com/5e2e581a5fc849-83853159/Ep55-AHotMinute.mp3  Resources  Share Episode Twitter Instagram Facebook Download Episode About This Episide Just a quickie that turns out to be not so quick because y’all know that I can talk. Related Episodes Episode 57: Find You…Then Find Him by Dr. Pouquie | Jan 7, 2021 | Episode 57 Find You...Then Find Him In a nation under seige, do you know where to find your joy?  Resources E. B. Johnson on Authenticity and Joy  Share Episode Twitter Instagram Facebook About This Episide Dr. Pouquie returns with an episode to soothe your soul. He... PREVIEW: The Doc is Coming Back!!! by Dr. Pouquie | Dec 27, 2020 | Teaser episode The Doc is Coming Back!!! Quick teaser to announce the Doctor's return to the microphone.  Share Episode Twitter Instagram FacebookAbout This Episide There is no perfect time to return, only a time to return. The Doctor is coming back with new content... Episode 56: Bald-Headed Hoochie by Dr. Pouquie | Dec 6, 2019 | Episode 56 Bald-Headed HoochieA mating call from a scruffy stranger.  Resources Male Perspectives on Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Statistical Studies of Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Male Victims of Sexual Harassment from KQED Share...

    Episode 13: Yes, Men Can Be Raped

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2019 77:12


    Episode 54: Yes, Men Can Be Raped

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2019 77:11


    Episode 54 Yes, Men Can Be Raped This episode Dr. Pouquie explores rape myths  Yes, Men Can Be Raped by Dr. Pouquie | Sexual Healing Podcast https://episodes.castos.com/5e2e581a5fc849-83853159/Ep54-YesMenCanBeRaped.mp3  Resources Myths about the Sexual Assault and Rape of Men  Share Episode Twitter Instagram Facebook Download Episode About This Episide Can men be raped? Yes, they can. Dr. Pouquie gets into the hows and whys to explore this issue that is often shrouded in silence. Related Episodes Episode 57: Find You…Then Find Him by Dr. Pouquie | Jan 7, 2021 | Episode 57 Find You...Then Find Him In a nation under seige, do you know where to find your joy?  Resources E. B. Johnson on Authenticity and Joy  Share Episode Twitter Instagram Facebook About This Episide Dr. Pouquie returns with an episode to soothe your soul. He... PREVIEW: The Doc is Coming Back!!! by Dr. Pouquie | Dec 27, 2020 | Teaser episode The Doc is Coming Back!!! Quick teaser to announce the Doctor's return to the microphone.  Share Episode Twitter Instagram FacebookAbout This Episide There is no perfect time to return, only a time to return. The Doctor is coming back with new content... Episode 56: Bald-Headed Hoochie by Dr. Pouquie | Dec 6, 2019 | Episode 56 Bald-Headed HoochieA mating call from a scruffy stranger.  Resources Male Perspectives on Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Statistical Studies of Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Male Victims of Sexual Harassment from KQED Share...

    Yes, Men Can Be Raped | Episode 54

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2019 77:12


    This episode: Male rape and sexual assault myths My man raised his hand at me is my man might cheating on me? TG/NB/GNC Sibling Memorial Roll Call To the domestic terrorists Send letters and comments to sexualhealingpod@gmail.com or reach out on Twitter: @doctorpouquie or @podsexual Our YouTube Channel, Facebook, and Instagram platforms. #PodsbyQPOC #PodsInColor #PodernFamily #WeAllWin

    Keep Your Sex Positive | Episode 53

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2019 156:53


    I am Dr. Pouquie and I had a lot to say...about inspiring sex, self love, courting daddies, co-parenting, Pose, and assorted things on my mind. Pose Spoiler Review 1:27:39 - 1:56:49 Send letters and comments to sexualhealingpod@gmail.com or reach out to Dr. Pouquie on Twitter: @doctorpouquie The Podcast on Twitter: @podsexual Our YouTube Channel, Facebook, and Instagram platforms. #PodsbyQPOC #PodsInColor #PodernFamily #WeAllWin

    Episode 12: Sex Positivity

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2019 156:53


    Episode 53: Keep Your Sex Positive

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2019 156:52


    Episode 53 Sex Positivity Blasphemous blowjobs lead to a larger discussion of sex positivity. Sex Positivity by Dr. Pouquie | Sexual Healing Podcast https://episodes.castos.com/5e2e581a5fc849-83853159/Ep53-SexPositivity.mp3  Resources Eva Taylor Grant on Embracing Sex Positivity 12 Post-Tumblr Spaces for Sex-Positive Queer Men by Alexander Cheves  Share Episode Twitter Instagram Facebook Download Episode About This Episide A listener slid into Dr. Pouquie’s DMs with his perspective on the viral video featuring a blowjob in a church sanctuary. As an atheist he does not have the reverence for a church sanctuary as a person. Dr. Pouquie responds to his question and segues into a larger discussion of sex positivity and the ways that we can embrace sex positivity. Related Episodes Episode 57: Find You…Then Find Him by Dr. Pouquie | Jan 7, 2021 | Episode 57 Find You...Then Find Him In a nation under seige, do you know where to find your joy?  Resources E. B. Johnson on Authenticity and Joy  Share Episode Twitter Instagram Facebook About This Episide Dr. Pouquie returns with an episode to soothe your soul. He... PREVIEW: The Doc is Coming Back!!! by Dr. Pouquie | Dec 27, 2020 | Teaser episode The Doc is Coming Back!!! Quick teaser to announce the Doctor's return to the microphone.  Share Episode Twitter Instagram FacebookAbout This Episide There is no perfect time to return, only a time to return. The Doctor is coming back with new content... Episode 56: Bald-Headed Hoochie by Dr. Pouquie | Dec 6, 2019 | Episode 56 Bald-Headed HoochieA mating call from a scruffy stranger.  Resources Male Perspectives on Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Statistical Studies of Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Male Victims of Sexual Harassment from KQED Share...

    Episode 52: (Trans)Men = Men

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2019 55:50


    Episode 52 Transmen are Men!!! Repeat after me, “Transmen are men.” That’s all. Let’s not complicate things. http://sayeed.sandbox.etdevs.com/divi/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/2018/10/podcast-audio.m4a  Resources  Share Episode Twitter Facebook Instagram Download Episode About This Episode Did ya know that “woman” and “man” are socially-constructed terms (i.e., gender)? The terms “female” and “male” refer to our biological sex–something that we often confuse with gender (i.e., women and men). As I try to explain to my grandmother, sex is the body you’re born with and it’s typically labeled male or female; whereas, gender is assigned at birth and often coincides with your biological sex. When the body you’re born into does not match the person belief yourself to be, that is when we venture into gender non-binary and gender non-confirming water. Strap in and let’s get into it. Related Episodes Episode 57: Find You…Then Find Him Jan 7, 2021Episode 57 Find You...Then Find Him In a nation under seige, do you know where to find your joy?  Resources E. B. Johnson on Authenticity and Joy  Share Episode Twitter Instagram Facebook About This Episide Dr. Pouquie returns with an episode to soothe your soul. He... PREVIEW: The Doc is Coming Back!!! Dec 27, 2020Teaser episode The Doc is Coming Back!!! Quick teaser to announce the Doctor's return to the microphone.  Share Episode Twitter Instagram FacebookAbout This Episide There is no perfect time to return, only a time to return. The Doctor is coming back with new content... Episode 56: Bald-Headed Hoochie Dec 6, 2019Episode 56 Bald-Headed HoochieA mating call from a scruffy stranger.  Resources Male Perspectives on Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Statistical Studies of Street Harassment from Stop Street Harassment Male Victims of Sexual Harassment from KQED Share...

    Cis or Trans, He’s a Man | Episode 52

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2019 55:50


    Happy Belated Anniversary!! Illness pushed the anniversary back a few months, but we finally hit 52 episodes. This week Dr. Pouquie responds to a couple of rude DMs that called transmen undateable and "not good husband material." The Doc kept it classy, but did count the many ways that the Twitter Warriors were wrong. Relationship readiness , short-dicked men, and desperate love round out this episode. Send letters and comments to sexualhealingpod@gmail.com or reach out to Dr. Pouquie on Twitter: @doctorpouquie The Podcast on Twitter: @podsexual Our YouTube Channel, Facebook, and Instagram platforms. #PodsbyQPOC #PodsInColor #PodernFamily #WeAllWin

    Episode 11: (Trans)Men = Men

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2019 55:50


    Episode 51: Professional Purpose and Blasphemous Blowjobs

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2019 123:32


    Dr. Pouquie discusses how to push past your comfort zone and live into your great potential. He also talks about a certain viral video wherein a preacher’s son is providing oral services behind his father’s pulpit. While a blowjob is a blowjob, does it become something different when in a church sanctuary? Just asking.

    Episode 10: Blasphemous Blowjobs

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2019 123:32


    Professional Purpose & Blasphemous Blowjobs | Episode 51

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2019 123:32


    This week Finding your purpose, moving beyond your comfort zone, and daring to grow Coming out in a small, Midwestern town. PreP and going Raw Black gay adult entertainers beefing Holliwud fights with transwoman Blowjobs in the church sanctuary Pose spoiler review 1:35:27 - 1:54:34 Send letters and comments to sexualhealingpod@gmail.com or reach out to Dr. Pouquie on Twitter: @doctorpouquie The Podcast on Twitter: @podsexual Our YouTube Channel, Facebook, and Instagram platforms. #PodsbyQPOC #PodsInColor #PodernFamily #WeAllWin

    Episode 50: Daddy Issues

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2019 88:02


    In honor of Father’s Day, Dr. Pouquie reflects on his never-boring relationship with his father. Talk about raw and vulnerable.

    Daddy Issues | Episode 50

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2019 88:02


    Fathers and Sons. Forgiveness and Freedom. Supportive Fathers. Send your letters and comments to sexualhealingpod@gmail.com or reach out to Dr. Pouquie on Twitter: @doctorpouquie The Podcast on Twitter: @podsexual Our YouTube Channel, Facebook, and Instagram platforms. #PodsbyQPOC #PodsInColor #PodernFamily #WeAllWin

    Episode 9: Daddy Issues

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2019 88:02


    Episode 49: Got Trauma?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2019 103:48


    Got Trauma? | Episode 49

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2019 103:49


    This week we discuss trauma, a few notable social media happenings, and bits of hope coming from Africa. Send letters and comments to sexualhealingpod@gmail.com or reach out to Dr. Pouquie on Twitter: @doctorpouquie The Podcast on Twitter: @podsexual Our YouTube Channel, Facebook, and Instagramplatforms. #PodsbyQPOC #PodsInColor #PodernFamily #WeAllWin Show Notes  Dad and Toddler Have a Chat Dad Teaches Trans Son to Shave Brooklyn Ball Barber Botswana Steps Up for LGBTQ Rights NSFW Artwork from Ohakito  Trauma Training for Black Gay Men Trauma Resources from The Wellness Society Six Brown Chicks: Q3 & Q6 HBCU Confessions Question of the Week

    Episode 8: Got Trauma

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2019 103:49


    Take Your Damn Meds! | Episode 48

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2019 129:53


    Who taught you the most critical life lessons? Who have you taught or guided through a new experience or process? Representatives from the Southern California Chapter of Black and White Men Together host a conversation about intergenerational mentorship on the organizational and individual levels. Learn about the National and Southern California Chapters of Black and White Men Together. Visit the Black, Gifted & Whole Foundation. Send your letters and comments to sexualhealingpod@gmail.com or reach out to Dr. Pouquie on Twitter: @doctorpouquie The Podcast on Twitter: @podsexual Our YouTube Channel, Facebook, and Instagram platforms. #PodsbyQPOC #PodsInColor #PodernFamily #WeAllWin

    Episode 7: Take Your Damn Meds!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2019 129:53


    40s, Blunts & Stunts | Episode 47

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2019 87:37


    Curtis AKA Trillificent returns for the second part of the Crushed Velvet Rage Series. Trillificent can be found on Twitter, Instagram, and Flawless Noises Media. Send your listener letters to sexualhealingpod@gmail.com or reach out to Dr. Pouquie on Twitter: @doctorpouquie The Podcast on Twitter: @podsexual Our YouTube Channel #PodsbyQPOC #PodsInColor #PodernFamily #WeAllWin

    Episode 6: 40s, Blunts & Stunts (feat. Trillificent of Gayside Stories)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2019 87:37


    The roots of our trauma come from three primary places: our experiences of being a man in a hypermasculine society, our experiences of being a Black man in a white world, and our experiences of being gay in a straight world.

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