The Wet Seat Podcast

Cruising. Ancient practice or current reality? For the season 2 finale episode, Ashley and Susannah are joined by a familiar voice and a new friend to tackle what "cruising" means in 2019. We love each and every listener and are so thankful that you've invited us into your headphones or car speakers.  Topics include:  What is cruising? Are we all cruising? AM I CRUISING RIGHT NOW? Cruising "spots" -- etiquette, advice, and...power tools "The Look" A basement in NYC with an incredible set of consensual rules for your sexual pleasure "Flagging" your sexual preference, via things like the handkerchief code and buttons/stickers Does the "old" version of cruising still exist (i.e. are we still rolling up on people in cars)? "Cruising" on grindr Sex toys for penis-owners and vibrating cell phone apps Cruising as a part of queer history - is it an intrinsic part of the experience or is it just a result of oppression and secrecy (maybe both?!)   If you love our new *music* please check out the artist responsible (Bishop Scully on YouTube) Submit anonymous questions, rebuttals, or stories through the link at the top of our website: thewetseatpodcast.podbean.com If you'd like to pick up some swag you can do that through our Red Bubble store: www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat

Online dating. Ya heard of it? Ashley's best friend for over a DECADE finally sits in the wet seat to talk grindr, tinder, okcupid, and whatever the kids are up to these days. In addition to classic swipe-right horror stories, buckle up to hear more about:  Queer vs. hetero online dating  Fishing for secondary partners (and forgetting to break the news about your open relationship) Using online dating as a way to fill the self-esteem gap Arguments for and against downloading any apps at all Navigating that bittersweet moment when someone is obsessed with you...a lil too soon "I ended up going home with him" regrets  If you love our new *music* please check out the artist responsible (Bishop Scully on YouTube) Submit anonymous questions, rebuttals, or stories through the link at the top of our website: thewetseatpodcast.podbean.com If you'd like to pick up some swag you can do that through our Red Bubble store: www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat

If you have seen a birthing video, raise your hand! We dive into what "official" and unofficial Singapore sex education looked like for our guest, Mehr before discussing her experience with vaginismus. Along the way we cover a multitude of topics including:  Sex education from an asian/indian perspective - from health class to Bollywood movies to parents  Googling in preparation for your "1st time"  How being "too tight" for penetration turned into a vaginismus diagnosis The magic of shower heads and pillows (indirect and direct clitoral stimulation)  The incredible power of foreplay (and why it gets ignored)  The Vampire Diaries teaching you sex?! Vaginismus Definition: involuntary contraction of muscles around the opening of the vagina in women with no abnormalities in the genital organs. When a person has vaginismus, the vagina's muscles squeeze or spasm when something is entering it, like a tampon or a penis. If you love our new *music* please check out the artist responsible (Bishop Scully on YouTube) Submit anonymous questions, rebuttals, or stories through the link at the top of our website: thewetseatpodcast.podbean.com If you'd like to pick up some swag you can do that through our Red Bubble store: www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat

CW: Brief conversation about sexual assault What does your life look like through the lens of your sexual experiences? This episode, our lovely guest breaks down all of her sexual milestones for our podcast listening pleasure - from sex birth to now. We talk how our development as people can be intimately linked to our sexual experiences. And we also learn more about the hymen than we ever thought possible.  Topics include:  When your first sexual experience was assault (and how the perception of that assault can change over time)  Queer identity over time  First partners The addictive quality of feeling adored (even if you don't like them)  Understanding "virginity" over time  Cumming in pants First Vibrators  Discovering the Clitoris + Getting a tampon stuck in your hymen?!   If you love our new *music* please check out the artist responsible (Bishop Scully on YouTube) Submit anonymous questions, rebuttals, or stories through the link at the top of our website: thewetseatpodcast.podbean.com If you'd like to pick up some swag you can do that through our Red Bubble store: www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat

You're in for a treat. We unearthed a previously trashed episode from 2017 about jealousy and non-monogamy and decided it deserved a bit of modern day commentary. This audio was never meant to see the light of day, yet here you are. Listen for a dynamic conversation about the messy, ever-changing feelings around jealousy, polyamory, open relationships, and more with our beloved guest Emily. Hear 2017 Ashley struggle with her new open relationship and what 2019 Ashley has to say about it. This episode is a testament to the fact that our feelings can change drastically when it comes to sex and relationships in a matter of weeks, months, or years. It's important to continue challenging ourselves! Do it! It feels good!  How does one slide into a new non-monogamous situation? Is jealousy a secret way to understand the shadows of your inner self? What's polyamory like? How do you manage jealousy in any kind of relationship, (or do you really need to)? Why don't we challenge jealousy more? All this and more.  If you love our new *music* please check out the artist responsible (Bishop Scully on YouTube) Submit anonymous questions, rebuttals, or stories through the link at the top of our website: thewetseatpodcast.podbean.com If you'd like to pick up some swag you can do that through our Red Bubble store: www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat

Such a powerful, lovely, and incredible episode with our amazing guest, Erin. In addition to discussing her love of sex and weed, Erin sat down with us to talk about her experience with sexual assault - a story you absolutely need to hear. We tackle some hard questions, including: What does sex mean after assault? Is there a "right" way to react after an assault? (spoiler: no!) Why do we expect so much from victims when they are *teenagers*? How do you talk to your therapist about assault? Why can it be so hard to accept an assault? ...and how do you have sex with a nice Lyft driver? (that one is just a bonus) We also answer an Ask The Wet Seat submission about hot curves, insecurities, and one night stands.    If you love our new *music* please check out the artist responsible (Bishop Scully on YouTube) Submit anonymous questions, rebuttals, or stories through the link at the top of our website: thewetseatpodcast.podbean.com If you'd like to pick up some swag you can do that through our Red Bubble store: www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat

This episode, we tackle a question as old as time: What get your rocks off? Ashley, Susannah, and guest Christian, play a game of "Wet or Dry" to explore every turn-on we could think of. We also answer our very first Ask The Wet Seat submission: Is it ethical/moral to sleep with someone you know is in a closed relationship? (oh we get into it)  Topics found in the folds of this episode: Hairy pecs, big dick, BDSM, rimming, roleplaying, skaters, double dildos, swallowing, AND MORE.  If you love our new *music* please check out the artist responsible (Bishop Scully on YouTube) Submit anonymous questions, rebuttals, or stories through the link at the top of our website: thewetseatpodcast.podbean.com If you'd like to pick up some swag you can do that through our Red Bubble store: www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat

On this episode of MyTHRUSTers...we are coming to you with a LIVE audience! To celebrate our episode launch, we hosted a live event panel to discuss sex myths and mysteries. *Please forgive the audio at points - hey we were live!* In this episode we tackle some sex trivia, discuss the best and worst sex myths we heard growing up, and take some questions and prompts from our generous audience. Trust us, it's a hoot.  If you love our new *music* please check out the artist responsible (Bishop Scully on YouTube) Submit anonymous questions, rebuttals, or stories through the link at the top of our website: thewetseatpodcast.podbean.com If you'd like to pick up some swag you can do that through our Red Bubble store: www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat Special thanks to everyone who attended and made this event possible. It meant the world to us. 

The rumors are true. Season 2 is here! We missed you. Did you miss us? In this episode, Susannah and Ashley come clean about why The Wet Seat went dry for an entire year. We explore what happens when sex is "interrupted" by big life changes, trauma, grief, or just personal development. Sometimes, sex goes on the back burner. Let's talk about it.  If you love our new *music* please check out the artist responsible (Bishop Scully on YouTube) Submit anonymous questions, rebuttals, or stories through the link on our website: thewetseatpodcast.podbean.com If you'd like to pick up some swag to celebrate our return you can do that through our Red Bubble store: www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat (isn't Rebecca Todaro incredible?)  

and this time...we're serious.  Susannah pops in to give a quick 1-min update on all things Season 2, which includes a live audience event happening in Los Angeles if you are in the area!  If you'd like to attend our event on April 5th and be a part of an upcoming episode, please check out the Facebook event found here: https://www.facebook.com/events/1791927234241968/ We also have a brand new website where you can submit anonymous questions or shout-outs that we promise to read and answer to during season 2. You can check out the site and submit here: https://thewetseatpodcast.podbean.com/ And last, but not least, if you'd like to pick up some swag to celebrate our return you can do that through our Red Bubble store: redbubble.com/people/thewetseat See you soon! 

Bless our guests Ryanna and Abbey for talking about all things queer and confusing with us. This episode is bursting with slippery stories, "woopsie" moments, and soul-searching discussions about identity and sexuality. If you've ever felt like a big ol' question mark on the Kinsey Scale, this one's for you (and honestly, for everyone else). Things to look forward to in this episode: > "Coming out" and Figuring It Out > "The first time I encountered a vagina" stories > Bisexuality stigma > Porn (and Spirited Away) during sex > Susannah finds out she's a masturbation guru > Masturbation for the first time at the age of 21 > Praying the gay away   Don't forget that you can support this podcast in so many ways and it would mean the absolute world to us: 1. Become a monthly contributor on http://patreon.com/thewetseatpodcast 2. Buy some incredible artwork from our RedBubble store: http://redbubble.com/people/thewetseat 3. Spread the word! Share this podcast. Word of mouth is groundbreaking. 4. Follow and like us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter. @thewetseatpodcast

Vagina owners are more likely to experience vulvodynia in their lifetime than breast cancer (!!). So why aren't we talking more about it? Most of us have probably experienced a lil' pain during sex at one time or another, but chronic, painful sex shouldn't be shrugged off. Our guest Charlotte shares her experience with vulvodynia and how a disorder that makes penetration not-so-comfortable has affected her life: from navigating blind dates to industrial sized lube and vulvar queens. "We don't talk about vaginal dysfunction because they are not supposed to exist. You are supposed to be perfect. We are taught that vulva pain is expected." If you'd like to learn more: Dope Article: https://tinyurl.com/Vulvodynia-article Dope Organization: https://www.nva.org/ and don't forget about our Red Bubble merch (https://www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat) or Patreon page (www.patreon.com/thewetseatpodcast)

We're baaaaack with our BEST EPISODE YET! Guests Gigi and Billy answer nitty gritty questions about anal and balance helpful advice with stories about anal-gone-wrong. Did you know that anal could be the key to squirting? Gigi can tell you all about it. The heathen millennials are spreadin' their anal agenda to everyone and we are into it. Hear us answer: How is anal sex different for a straight woman vs. a gay man? Is your rusty trombone the same as my rusty trombone? What's rimming like? What's exactly should I do to "prep" for an anal first time? What determines a "poopy butt?" Remember to check out our merch (www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat/portfolio) and Patreon page (www.patreon.com/thewetseatpodcast) to keep this sex positive ball rolling! SPECIAL THANKS to Rebecca Todaro for always delivering on the most incredible artwork. This is our favorite. CORRECTION CORNER: In the episode, we talk about Cosmo publishing an article about anal that received backlash. It was actually TEEN VOGUE. Which makes a lot more sense, in context. Forgive us.

Ashley unveils her favorite sex story and the gals talk about learning from sex mistakes, featuring Ali Wong (not in person, but hey). Susannah and Ashley go over crucial lessons like overcoming lube stigma, learning about someone else's vulva, getting over performance anxiety, and DON'T PUT THAT HOUSEHOLD ITEM UP YOUR BUTT.

This episode, we make Susannah scream...three times. Susannah, Ashley, and Maya (twixtmynethers.com) answer sex toy FAQs. Cleaning 101, what NOT to put inside your body, how to pick a toy for your penis or your vulva, AND you even get to hear Ashley's personal vibe. Check out Twixt My Nethers for sex toy guides, reviews, and DEAL$. twixtmynethers.com Facebook/Insta: @twixtmynethers Twitter: @twxtmynethers Remember to check out our merch (www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat/portfolio) and Patreon page (https://www.patreon.com/thewetseatpodcast) to keep this sex positive ball rolling!

Too much conversation about masculinity and sex for one episode. In a new segment we are calling "Residual Wetness," Susannah, Kai, and Ashley continue to talk about sexual expectations influenced by gender. Be our Sugar Person: www.patreon.com/thewetseatpodcast or a one night stand (merch): www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat/portfolio

Are expectations based on gender fucking with your sex life? Has he been faking his orgasms? Jesus camp, magic dicks, and Brett from Pornhub help Susannah, Ashley, and special guest Kai answer these questions and more while discussing masculinity and sex. Be our Sugar Person: www.patreon.com/thewetseatpodcast or a one night stand (merch): www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat/portfolio

The Wet Seat goes on location! Susannah & Ashley are joined by former roommate Maria to discuss how anxiety, in all its various forms, affects sex & relationships. Hear stories about leftover masturbation shame, managing anxiety with a partner, performance struggles, and orgasm expectations. Episode art: Rebecca Todaro.

Everyone has at least one embarrassing sex story...or do they? While swapping stories about period sex, queefing, & blow jobs, our hosts encounter the crucial difference between embarrassing and shameful sex stories--and why that difference matters. Smash that LIKE on FB for more slippery stories. "Blood Bath" by Christian Drake (performed by Andrea Gibson and Katie Wirsing): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LqsvhGFWN94 Art: Rebecca Todaro Editing: William (Billy) Cowles Hosts: Ashley Cunningham & Susannah Wilson