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Do you ever feel lost as a Mom, like you can’t remember what your assignment is? Are you digging deep right now deciding how you will respond to racial inequality? Throughout this chat we hit on the ever-evolving nature of our relationships with our children, being a part of a blended family and even share what may be unpopular opinions on some hot topics but with each subject that comes up, Rachel keeps reminding me to self-reflect and get to the root. I am so thankful for my sweet friend's positive biblical perspective when it feels like a minefield to bring up race. Rachel G. Scott is an author, speaker, and business/branding consultant. She has built several companies and her passion is to help aspiring and current business owners build, brand (or re-brand), and launch their business while providing them with tools to overcome hurdles along the way. Rachel has a unique ability to help individuals define what they do, who they do it for, and how they can present it to the world. Her knowledge and love for business and branding is evident whether she is consulting, mentoring, or speaking to a room full of people. WHAT WE CHAT ABOUT: relationships with adult stepchildren the difference in the connection between Rachel and her biological kids vs. stepkids adjusting how you run your household as children move out the importance of self-reflection Rachel’s thoughts on oppression from a Christian perspective and recognizing that racism is still a problem getting to the root of why we stick to comfortable cliques taking the risk to grow your sphere of connection with diversity the story behind Rachel’s ministry I Can’t Come Down your purpose vs. your assignment - we all have the same purpose; the assignment is how we do it juggling multiple assignments and identifying what to let go of LINKS MENTIONED: Try Softer (https://amzn.to/32yU3SA) #90: Better Than Blended with Rachel Scott (https://momstrugglingwell.com/podcast/90-rachel-scott) Better Than Blended (https://betterthanblended.com/) I Can’t Come Down (https://icantcomedown.com/) White Fragility (https://amzn.to/32A4dm4) Disclaimer: As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. CONNECT WITH RACHEL: website (https://rachelgscott.com/) | facebook (https://www.facebook.com/iamrachelgscott) | instagram (https://www.instagram.com/iamrachelgscott/) CONNECT WITH EMILY: website (https://momstrugglingwell.com/) | instagram (https://www.instagram.com/momstrugglingwell/) | facebook (https://www.facebook.com/momstrugglingwell/) | patreon (https://www.patreon.com/momstrugglingwell) EPISODE SPONSORS: Third Love (https://www.thirdlove.com/?discount=AUDIO77M5D14XHXS8&utm_medium=podcast&utm_source=momstrugglingwell) : get 15% off your first purchase when you visit thirdlove.com/msw (https://www.thirdlove.com/?discount=AUDIO77M5D14XHXS8&utm_medium=podcast&utm_source=momstrugglingwell) Homeschool Buyers Co-Op (https://www.homeschoolbuyersco-op.org/) : sign up for your free membership at homeschoolbuyersco-op.org (https://www.homeschoolbuyersco-op.org/) and use code MSW to get 5,000 smart points SUPPORT THE SHOW: Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/momstrugglingwell) SHARE THE STRUGGLE! If you've been encouraged, share this episode with a friend. The struggle is real. We might as well do this together! Do you love Mom Struggling Well? Please leave a review here (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-struggle-well-project/id1046121933?mt=2) !
One of the unfortunate and sometimes ugly results of a divorce is a custody battle. How do you sift through the murky waters of lawyers, legalities and loss while parenting your children? Throw in sustaining a healthy marriage will cause even more challenges. Ron Deal talks with Willie and Rachel Scott about their perspective and how God walked them through their individual stories of custody matters. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Better than Blended. https://betterthanblended.com/ Learn more and register for the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry. https://www.summitonstepfamilies.com/ Buy the book "The Smart Stepfamily Guide to Financial Planning." https://shop.familylife.com/p-5664-the-smart-stepfamily-guide-to-financial-planning.aspx Learn about FamilyLife's other podcasts. https://www.familylife.com/podcast The Smart Stepfamily DVD: An 8-Session Guide to a Healthy Stepfamily. https://shop.familylife.com/p-5643-the-smart-stepfamily-dvd-10th-anniversary-edition.aspx
When it comes to using the term, "creative", I'm still a newbie. I happen to think I'm creative (I'm a writer, after all) so tying those two concepts together isn't a problem. When it comes to other creative types, I - like many others - tend to recognize someone for a single gift: making a craft, making music, writing, etc. These all make up the "creative" part of our persona. But is that all we are made for? Just one facet of creativity? For sometimes we encounter someone who is not only creative in one area, but in several different venues too. Cue the guest of my next interview: Willie Scott, aka FOLD. Willie is a return guest on The Writer's Lens and in addition to being one-half of Better Than Blended and co-founder of TKI Publishing, Willie is also a recording artist. He truly puts the idea of putting one's creative interests to work while simultaneously debunking the notion that we have to be so singularly focused on one aspect of our creativity, thus starving our other creative outlets. So in this interview, I explore with Willie all the dynamics that come with being an entrepreneur, a creative writer, a father, and a husband. This was a fun interview for Willie and me and I think you'll find it equally enjoyable. For more on Willie and his music, you can check out these links below: Better Than Blended - Website, Facebook, Instagram TKI Publishing - Website, Facebook Matlock and FOLD - Facebook YouTube Matlock and FOLD - "Favor" Matlock and FOLD - "ICIT - In Christ I Trust" Matlock and FOLD - "Turn up"
What is a digital footprint? In part 3 of this "Pens of Steel" group discussion, we wrap up our conversation about digital voices and what each of us is doing in our pursuits to hone our unique digital footprints. As this is part three, be sure to check out our earlier discussions (if you haven't already) by clicking the links below. Part 1: What Is A Digital Voice? Part 2: Competing In The Sea Of Digital Voices Brian Del Turco, owner/operator of LifeVoiceQuest Website: http://www.lifevoicequest.com/ Podcast: http://www.jesussmart.com/ Willie Scott, co-founder of Better Than Blended and T.K.I. Publishing Website: https://betterthanblended.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/betterthanblended/?hl=en Brent Mclaughlin, writer Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brent.mclaughlin
To bring in the new year, here's something a little different from The Writer's Lens. This episode deals entirely with soundbites from each of my various interviews. And though there are plenty of other good nuggets from the full interviews, these clips were pieced together around a common theme: what's it like to be a creative who is looking to hone his or her voice and garner an audience. Perhaps this is something you are looking to hone in 2019? And beyond? These voices, and other guests I plan to have on this program, will be speaking into these areas so stay tuned in 2019 for more! And stay up to date by subscribing to The Writer's Lens. Links to the full interviews: YouTube Channel (audio and video) Podcast Channel (audio only) Guests on The Writer's Lens - Willie and Rachel Scott, Co-founders of Better Than Blended and TKI Publishing - Darrick Dean, Fantasy author; Among The Shadows - Daniel Luketic, Entrepreneur - Dr. Robert Snyder, Author of various children's books, war veteran, and speaker - Brent Mclaughlin, Writer - Immanuel Mullen, Co-founder at TheStoryIs - Colleen Ward, Owner at Colleen Ward Studio - Brian Del Turco, Jesus Smart: The Podcast, SubstanceTV, and owner at LifeVoiceQuest - Kay Smith, Content creator and art teacher
The Internet is a sea of voices and narratives. In part 2 of this group discussion special, the Pens continue the dialogue on "what is a digital voice" - while transitioning into another frequently asked question: how do we compete with so many other messages? Should we be focused on beating other voices? Or should we just focus on our own message? Jump back in with Part 2 and just in case you missed Part 1, you're in luck - you can click here to check it out and get back up to speed. And for more info on the rest of the group, here are some links below: Brian Del Turco, owner / operator of LifeVoiceQuest Website: http://www.lifevoicequest.com/ Podcast: http://www.jesussmart.com/ Willie Scott, co-founder of Better Than Blended and T.K.I. Publishing Website: https://betterthanblended.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/betterthanblended/?hl=en Brent Mclaughlin, writer Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brent.mclaughlin
Welcome to the Rise of Digital Voices! In case you didn't already know, the Internet is FILLED with competing messages. Thanks to the onset of social media platforms, more people than ever have the ability to share their unique voice with the rest of the world. And in doing so, can create online communities where similar minds (and interests) can congregate. To share ideas. To share insights. To share individual stories. This is the Age of Digital Voices - a time when the gatekeepers of information have been usurped by the end user. In this very special episode of The Writer's Lens, I sit down with three other creative voices: Brian Del Turco of Jesus Smart: The Podcast and owner/operator of LifeVoiceQuest; Willie Scott co-founder of Better Than Blended and TKI Publishing; and Brent Mclaughlin, aspiring writer. These three gentlemen make up our Cleveland creative group otherwise known as the "Pens of Steel" and for the first time, we are recording our conversation concerning this growing phenomenon of the social media landscape. This will be the first of a three-part discussion on the topic so stay tuned for more to follow in the coming weeks. And for more info on my fellow conversationalists, here are some links below: Brian Del Turco Website: http://www.lifevoicequest.com/ Podcast: http://www.jesussmart.com/ Willie Scott Website: https://betterthanblended.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/betterthanblended/?hl=en Brent Mclaughlin Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brent.mclaughlin
Marriage and family life are not for the faint of heart ... but the beauty and benefits are next level. What you’re about to hear is a conversation with Willie and Rachel Scott, founders of Better Than Blended, an organization which resources and equips blended families. There’s something here for everyone. Be sure to catch episode 18 for the first half of this conversation. ----more---- See the show notes page for this episode at JesusSmart.com EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS Optimize the high-leverage outcomes of immediate obedience to God. Be quick to obey and reap the harvest. Do things afraid. Train yourself to be bold and seize the prize. We need others. You can find and run with your kind -- those you're meant to run with. It makes all the difference. Visit BetterThanBlended.com JESUS SMART: THE PODCAST Click to receive the Jesus Smart eLetter and keep current with podcast episode releases We’re resolved that Jesus Christ is the most brilliant person to walk the planet! He knows how life works best. And the future belongs to him ... and those who follow him. Stellar guests are on the docket. And we’ll be questing after Kingdom themes -- what Jesus taught and modeled. Be smart. Subscribe and stay connected with your favorite podcast platform. Visit JesusSmart.com.
Family is vital -- it's a ginormous value with the Creator. Willie and Rachel Scott are the founders of Better Than Blended. The reality is that the family is under assault. But the good news is that the family spirit of God overcomes the challenges today’s families face. We are empowered to enjoy the potential of a beautiful and powerful family life. ----more---- See the show notes page for this episode at JesusSmart.com EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS We are created to cultivate and keep (guard) things. Think Garden of Eden. Parents "cultivate" their families ... drawing out the latent potential of each child. Parents have singular power to pray over their families. "Prayercast" the future. It's the most creative thing we can do. It's high-leverage! Have a restoration mindset. Stay focused and on task. Let your attitude be, "I won't come down" from the wall (Nehemiah and those who rebuilt Jerusalem)! Visit BetterThanBlended.com JESUS SMART: THE PODCAST Click to receive the Jesus Smart eLetter and keep current with podcast episode releases We’re resolved that Jesus Christ is the most brilliant person to walk the planet! He knows how life works best. And the future belongs to him ... and those who follow him. Stellar guests are on the docket. And we’ll be questing after Kingdom themes -- what Jesus taught and modeled. Be smart. Subscribe and stay connected with your favorite podcast platform. Visit JesusSmart.com.
A blended family is when a couple forms and bring children from their previous families together. This undeniably brings in stress for the couple, as roles are questioned - do you replace the children's other mother or father? How do you best treat everyone equally? Willie and Rachel Scott, founders of Better Than Blended, answer these questions and share their secrets to a thriving family.
Gil and Brenda interview Willie and Rachel Scott with Better Than Blended. How do you handle a messy custody battle? How do support your spouse? How can it affect your marriage? What’s the biggest challenge for the kids? Do you really need to be able to bite your tongue?The Scotts share valuable tools to help you (or someone you know) through this “icky” part of the stepfamily adventure. If you would like to learn more about Willie and Rachel and Better Than Blended, please contact them at www.Betterthanblended.com facebook.com/betterthanblended instagram.com/betterthanblended #RestoredandRemarried #remarried #remarriage #stepfamily #stepmom #stepdad #stepmother #stepfather #stepparent #stepparenting #stepchild #blendedfamily #marriagehelp #conflictresolution #remarriagehelp #stepfamilyhelp #blendedfamilyhelp #tipstoolsandtingles #remarriageadvice #stepfamilypodcast #blendedfamilypodcast #remarriagepodcast #coparentingcustody #custodyofkids #gilandbrenda
Gil and Brenda interview Willie and Rachel Scott with Better Than Blended. How do you handle a messy custody battle? How do support your spouse? How can it affect your marriage? What’s the biggest challenge for the kids? Do you really need to be able to bite your tongue?The Scotts share valuable tools to help you (or someone you know) through this “icky” part of the stepfamily adventure. If you would like to learn more about Willie and Rachel and Better Than Blended, please contact them at www.Betterthanblended.com facebook.com/betterthanblended instagram.com/betterthanblended #tipstoolsandtingles #RestoredandRemarried #remarried #remarriage #stepfamily #stepmom #stepdad #stepmother #stepfather #stepparent #stepparenting #stepchild #blendedfamily #marriagehelp #conflictresolution #remarriagehelp #stepfamilyhelp #blendedfamilyhelp #tipstoolsandtingles #remarriageadvice #stepfamilypodcast #blendedfamilypodcast #remarriagepodcast #coparentingcustody #custodyofkids #gilandbrenda
Rachel Scott of Better Than Blended works with couples who are blending families together after divorce, death, and adoption. Rachel knows from experience (from growing up in a blended family and being a parent of one) that it takes a lot of intention and humility to go from brokenness to unity. It's easy to feel rejected by step-kids, but as she learned to focus on the kids' needs instead of what her role as step-mom "should" be, she found that trust began to develop. She has seen laughter in her new family and they take regular family days to continue to invest in relationships. She encourages families in the process of blending to pursue authenticity, keep their marriage the priority, and remember that these challenges are temporary. Rachel's answers to the fun questions: • What are you loving right now? Getting to do the everyday things with the kids (and without exhaustion) because she gets to work from home • What’s your favorite food/meal/snack? Sweet potato pie • What are you doing to take care of yourself? Reading. Specifically, The Magnolia Story and Seeking Allah, Finding Jesus • What are you doing to be brave? Connecting with people she wouldn't normally talk to Don't forget to check out Sudio's headphones and get 15% off your purchase with code 'SUCKERPUNCHED15' at BeckyLMcCoy.com/sudio. Connect with Rachel: BLOG: betterthanblended.comFACEBOOK: facebook.com/betterthanblended TWITTER: twitter.com/betterthanblend INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/betterthanblended Connect with Becky: BLOG: BeckyLMcCoy.com FACEBOOK: facebook.com/BeckyLMcCoy TWITTER: twitter.com/BeckyLMcCoy INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/BeckyLMcCoy PINTEREST: pinterest.com/BeckyLMcCoy NEWSLETTER: BeckyLMcCoy.com/email Share your Sucker Punched story at BeckyLMcCoy.com/Submissions Please subscribe to and rate this podcast to help others find Sucker Punched. NOTE: Sucker Punched is the podcast formerly known as Stories of Unfolding Grace
Rachel is the co-founder of a ministry called Better Than Blended that is is dedicated to building blended families that thrive. Through a marriage, Rachel took on the role of mother to 7 children ranging from infant to adult. With wisdom well beyond their years, Rachel and her husband's goal is to encourage, mentor and equip blended families to become pillars of strength and an awesome testimony of the sustaining power of God’s truth. What we chat about: Unique challenges blended families face How to make sure you're a "good step-mom" How to wisely navigate ex-spouses Planning an escape from an abusive relationship Episode Sponsor:Revelation Wellness Support the show: Shop Amazon Affiliate Link Share the Struggle! Find me on Instagram or Facebook because I want to hear YOUR thoughts on this episode! If you've been encouraged by the show, please share it with another mom. The struggle is real. We might as well do this together!