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Focus on the Family Daily
Are You Ready To Remarry? – (Part 2 of 2)

Focus on the Family Daily

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2025 26:15


There are so many new and complicated family dynamics in remarriage. Ron Deal describes how parents and stepparents can build a healthy foundation for their kids and their relationship!

Focus on the Family Daily
Are You Ready To Remarry? – (Part 1 of 2)

Focus on the Family Daily

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2025 26:18


There are so many new and complicated family dynamics in remarriage. Ron Deal describes how parents and stepparents can build a healthy foundation for their kids and their relationship!

FamilyLife Today® on Oneplace.com
From Chaos to Connection - Faith, Football, and Blending Families: Devon and Asha Still

FamilyLife Today® on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2025 25:53


On this episode of FamilyLife Today, Ron Deal, along with hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, introduces Devon and Asha Still as they share their personal journey of overcoming the challenges that come with a blended family. This conversation dives deep into how they navigated both blended family struggles and personal battles, focusing on communication, faith, and intentional effort.Devon and Asha came together under difficult circumstances. Devon, a former NFL player, had to make life-changing decisions when his daughter, Leah, was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. He decided to retire from football to care for his daughter. After Leah went into remission, Devon and Asha married, but they soon realized they had not fully prepared for the challenges of blending their families. Both came from divorced homes, which made it difficult to establish a clear understanding of what a healthy marriage and blended family should look like.Their relationship struggled in the early years, as they didn't have tough conversations about roles and expectations within their marriage and blended family. This lack of communication led to unnecessary chaos and hurt. However, they learned to lean into their faith and make intentional efforts to course-correct. They discovered the importance of creating an environment of empathy, understanding, and trust. This enabled them to navigate challenges together, and over time, their relationship started to grow stronger.Devon and Asha also discussed how critical it is to take accountability and seek resources to help them through difficult seasons. The couple admitted to feeling tired at times, but they emphasized that the key to making it through tough situations is not to give up, but to stay intentional. Their journey shows that when couples prioritize communication, faith, and intentional effort, they can overcome the challenges that come with blended families. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29

FamilyLife Today® on Oneplace.com
From Chaos to Connection - Faith, Football, and Blending Families: Devon and Asha Still

FamilyLife Today® on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2025 25:53


On this episode of FamilyLife Today, Ron Deal, along with hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, introduces Devon and Asha Still as they share their personal journey of overcoming the challenges that come with a blended family. This conversation dives deep into how they navigated both blended family struggles and personal battles, focusing on communication, faith, and intentional effort.Devon and Asha came together under difficult circumstances. Devon, a former NFL player, had to make life-changing decisions when his daughter, Leah, was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. He decided to retire from football to care for his daughter. After Leah went into remission, Devon and Asha married, but they soon realized they had not fully prepared for the challenges of blending their families. Both came from divorced homes, which made it difficult to establish a clear understanding of what a healthy marriage and blended family should look like.Their relationship struggled in the early years, as they didn't have tough conversations about roles and expectations within their marriage and blended family. This lack of communication led to unnecessary chaos and hurt. However, they learned to lean into their faith and make intentional efforts to course-correct. They discovered the importance of creating an environment of empathy, understanding, and trust. This enabled them to navigate challenges together, and over time, their relationship started to grow stronger.Devon and Asha also discussed how critical it is to take accountability and seek resources to help them through difficult seasons. The couple admitted to feeling tired at times, but they emphasized that the key to making it through tough situations is not to give up, but to stay intentional. Their journey shows that when couples prioritize communication, faith, and intentional effort, they can overcome the challenges that come with blended families. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29

MoneyWise on Oneplace.com
Navigating Finances in Blended Families with Ron Deal and Greg Pettys

MoneyWise on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2025 24:57


Martin Luther once said, “There is no more lovely, friendly, and charming relationship, communion, or company than a good marriage.”A strong marriage is a blessing but requires intentional effort, especially in a blended family. Today, Ron Deal and Greg Pettys join the show to discuss a valuable resource for second marriages.Ron Deal is a bestselling author, licensed marriage & family therapist, podcaster, and popular conference speaker who specializes in marriage enrichment and stepfamily education and is the co-author of The Smart Stepfamily Guide to Financial Planning: Money Management Before and After You Blend a Family. Greg Pettys, CLU, ChFC, CFP, has thirty-four years of specialized experience in securities and life insurance sales and services. He is the co-author of The Smart Stepfamily Guide to Financial Planning: Money Management Before and After You Blend a Family.Understanding the Financial Challenges of Blended FamiliesWhen two people enter a marriage with previous financial histories, children, and life experiences, their financial situation becomes more complex than that of a first-time marriage. They may bring:Separate bank accounts and investmentsExisting debts and financial obligationsDifferent parenting and financial philosophiesThe need to provide for children from previous relationshipsConcerns over inheritance and estate planningMerging finances in a blended family isn't just about money—it's about trust, provision, and love. Without clear communication and planning, financial disagreements can create tension, causing stress in the relationship.What Is a Togetherness Agreement?A Togetherness Agreement is a structured approach for blended couples to clarify their financial decisions, ensuring transparency and unity. More than just a financial plan, it is a tool for fostering trust and eliminating fear. It's not just about bank accounts and investments—it's about love, respect, and providing well for one another. It brings clarity to emotionally charged financial topics, ensuring that both partners are aligned in their vision for the future.Why Is a Togetherness Agreement Important?1. It Provides Financial TransparencyMany couples enter marriage with financial baggage—whether it's debt, differing views on money management, or past experiences that have led to distrust. A Togetherness Agreement creates a safe space for full financial disclosure.2. It Helps Prevent Conflict Over MoneyMoney is one of the top stressors in any marriage, but in blended families, the stakes are even higher. The agreement ensures both spouses are on the same page regarding financial expectations and responsibilities.3. It Protects Children and Future GenerationsWithout a clear plan, assets and inheritance can unintentionally drift away from children from previous marriages. The agreement helps ensure that financial resources are distributed according to the couple's wishes, not just default legal systems.4. It Strengthens Marital Trust and UnityA Togetherness Agreement fosters open communication, allowing couples to plan their future confidently rather than fearfully. It shifts financial discussions from potential sources of conflict to proactive, loving conversations.What Should a Togetherness Agreement Include?A Togetherness Agreement can be as formal or informal as a couple chooses. While some opt for a legally binding contract, even a simple written plan can be valuable. Key components may include:Bank Account Structure—Should finances be merged, kept separate, or a combination of both?Debt and Credit Considerations—How will existing debts be managed, and how will future credit decisions be made?Business Ownership—If one spouse owns a business, what will happen to it in the event of death or divorce?Financial Responsibilities—Who is responsible for household expenses, savings, and long-term care for aging parents?Inheritance and Estate Planning—How will assets be distributed to biological and stepchildren?Contingency Plans—What provisions are in place for special needs children, elderly parents, or unexpected life changes?When Should Couples Create a Togetherness Agreement?Ideally, discussions about financial planning should begin before marriage. However, it's never too late to start if you're already married and haven't had these conversations.If you're dating, start the conversation now. If you're already married, don't wait—begin today. The Smart Step Family Guide to Financial Planning provides a step-by-step guide to help you navigate these important discussions.A Togetherness Agreement is an essential tool for blended families to navigate finances with wisdom, clarity, and love. By fostering open communication and financial unity, couples can build a secure foundation for their marriage and their future.If you're in a blended family, consider creating your own Togetherness Agreement today—it might be the most valuable financial decision you ever make.For more insights, pick up a copy of The Smart Step Family Guide to Financial Planning and start building a financial roadmap that aligns with your family's unique needs.On Today's Program, Rob Answers Listener Questions:My question has two parts. First, what is the best way to protect myself from identity theft? And second, our home is paid off - what's the best way to protect ourselves so someone can't come in and put a mortgage or lien on our house without us knowing about it?I'm calling regarding my estate planning. I remember somewhere in the Bible saying we are required or should leave something for our children and grandchildren. How much should we leave for our grandchildren?Resources Mentioned:Faithful Steward: FaithFi's New Quarterly MagazineThe Smart Stepfamily Guide to Financial Planning: Money Management Before and After You Blend a Family by Ron L. Deal, Greg S. Pettys, and David O. EdwardsSplitting Heirs: Giving Your Money and Things to Your Children Without Ruining Their Lives by Ron BlueWisdom Over Wealth: 12 Lessons from Ecclesiastes on Money (Pre-Order)Look At The Sparrows: A 21-Day Devotional on Financial Fear and AnxietyRich Toward God: A Study on the Parable of the Rich FoolFind a Certified Kingdom Advisor (CKA) or Certified Christian Financial Counselor (CertCFC)FaithFi App Remember, you can call in to ask your questions most days at (800) 525-7000. Faith & Finance is also available on the Moody Radio Network and American Family Radio. Visit our website at FaithFi.com where you can join the FaithFi Community and give as we expand our outreach.

MoneyWise Live
Navigating Finances in Blended Families

MoneyWise Live

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2025 43:00 Transcription Available


A strong marriage is a blessing—but it also takes intentional effort, especially in a blended family. On today's Faith & Finance Live, Rob West will talk with Ron Deal and Greg Pettys about a valuable resource for those in second marriages who are seeking to handle their combined finances in a way that honors God. Then Rob will tackle some financial questions. Faith & Finance Live is a listener supported program on Moody Radio. To join our team of supporters, click here.To support the ministry of FaithFi, click here.To learn more about Rob West, click here.To learn more about Faith & Finance Live, click here.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Blended Family Coaching Show
204. 4 Facets of Stepparenting: Defining Appropriate Roles and Responsibilities (Part 1)

The Blended Family Coaching Show

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2025 38:13


Stepparenting raises many questions: What's my role? How involved should I be? What if my stepkids don't accept me? It's easy to make wrong turns without even realizing it.In this episode, we're delving into four key facets of parenting: meeting practical needs, providing support, teaching life lessons, and delivering discipline. We'll uncover the unique roles and responsibilities of a stepparent regarding each facet and define what's appropriate and inappropriate.If you're feeling frustrated, disconnected, or unsure how to navigate parenting in your blended family, this conversation is for you! We'll share best practices, real-life examples (yes, including our own!), and strategies to help you stay in your lane while building healthy bonds with your stepkids and strengthening your parenting partnership.You'll Discover:Why stepparents should focus on connection before correction How to support your stepkids and meet practical needs without overstepping or experiencing resentment The best approach for building genuine connection, trust, and respect with your stepkids Why delivering discipline too soon can backfire—and what to do insteadA simple but powerful strategy to create a strong parenting partnership with your spouse and reduce tension in your homeResources from this Episode:Episode 47. How to Like Your Stepchild Even When You're Feeling Frustrated and AnnoyedEpisode 39. How to Create Strong Bonds with Resistant StepkidsEpisode 9. A Surprisingly Simple Strategy for Bonding with Step-KidsEpisode 29. What is a Loyalty Bind and What Can You Do About It?Episode 102. 4 Revealing Myths About 1 on 1 Time Between Parents and their Bio-Kids (Part 1 of 2)Episode 192. A Simple Process to Navigate Sensitive Conversations About Each Other's KidsEpisode 25. How to Survive Time Alone with Your Step-Kids (Transfer of Power Strategy)Building Love Together in Blended Families by Ron Deal & Gary ChapmanStepparenting: Keeping it Sane by Charles Fay, Ph.D.In Their Shoes by Lauren ReitsemaPreparing to Blend by Ron DealReady for some extra support?Connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

Building Relationships
The Mindful Marriage | Ron Deal

Building Relationships

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2025 49:11 Transcription Available


When Ron and Nan Deal suffered the devastating loss of their child, their marriage was nearly shattered by destructive cycles. On this Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, you’ll hear how a different approach to their conflict patterns helped break those cycles and bring them together. Hear about their “mindful marriage” and how it could help yours on Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Featured resource: The Mindful Marriage: Create Your Best Relationship Through Understanding and Managing YourselfDonate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/buildingrelationshipsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Lion Within Us - Leadership for Christian Men 
475. Harmonious Living - Fun Friday

The Lion Within Us - Leadership for Christian Men 

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2025 14:45 Transcription Available


Unlock a harmonious life by exploring the power of a gentle response and the profound impact it can have on your relationships.  Join us as we recap the previous episode with marriage expert Ron Deal, who sheds light on mindful marriage practices and the transformative potential of restoration therapy. We tackle essential themes such as blame, shame, control, and trust, while offering practical advice on health, wealth, and self-improvement for Christian men striving to lead as God intended. Discover the importance of managing stress, pausing before reacting, and fostering open financial communication with your spouse to align goals and reduce conflict, all in the spirit of glorifying God through enhanced stewardship and relationships.For full show note details, go to the episode webpage:

The Lion Within Us - Leadership for Christian Men 
474. The Mindful Marriage With Ron Deal

The Lion Within Us - Leadership for Christian Men 

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2025 58:30 Transcription Available


Discover the transformative power of a "Mindful Marriage" in our enlightening conversation with Ron Deal, a leading expert in the field of marriage and blended families. Ron shares the profound impact of restoration therapy on his own relationship and introduces practical steps anyone can apply to foster peace and unity in their marriage. Alongside insights from his latest book, Ron also opens up about the newfound joy of becoming a grandfather, adding a personal and heartfelt touch to our discussion.For full show note details, go to the episode webpage:

FamilyLife Today® on Oneplace.com
Making the Most of Blended Family Holidays: Ron Deal & Gayla Grace

FamilyLife Today® on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2024 29:18


Christmas can be a complicated time for blended families. Join us as we discuss the challenges and joys of navigating the holidays with step-parents, step-siblings, and divided households. We'll hear from Ron Deal and Gayla Grace, experts on blended families, as they share practical tips and heartfelt advice. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29

Visionary Family
Navigating Step Family Relationships with Ron Deal

Visionary Family

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2024 22:49


Continuing the conversation on blended families, Ron Deal joins Rob Rienow to address complex topics, including favoritism, step-parenting roles, and co-parenting with a non-believer. With biblical wisdom and practical advice, this episode equips families to tackle challenges like unjust courts, strained relationships, and creating a culture of belonging. Learn how to deepen connections within your stepfamily while growing in Christ. Featured Resource: Preparing to Blend: A comprehensive premarital book for couples forming blended families. Perfect for individual use or group counseling. Learn more: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09GD14T22 Dating and the Single Parent: Guidance for navigating dating and blending families. Learn more: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09S1DKZ36 Family Life: To explore these tools and learn more, visit https://www.familylife.com/blended 

Visionary Family
Encouragement For Blended Families with Ron Deal

Visionary Family

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2024 23:44


Blended families and stepfamilies face unique challenges on their journey of faith. In this episode of Family Vision, Rob Rienow welcomes Ron Deal, founder of FamilyLife Blended, to share insights, resources, and encouragement for stepfamilies seeking to grow in unity and Christ-centered love. Topics include essential steps for thriving as a blended family, how to approach remarriage conversations with children, and creating emotional safety in the home. This heartfelt conversation will equip you with wisdom and practical tools for navigating the complexities of stepfamily life. Featured Resource: Preparing to Blend: A comprehensive premarital book for couples forming blended families. Perfect for individual use or group counseling. Learn more: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09GD14T22 Dating and the Single Parent: Guidance for navigating dating and blending families. Learn more: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09S1DKZ36 Family Life: To explore these tools and learn more, visit https://www.familylife.com/blended 

FamilyLife Today® on Oneplace.com
Growing Up Blended: Ron Deal & Kim Walker Smith

FamilyLife Today® on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2024 25:22


Singer-songwriter, Kim Walker Smith, joins Ron Deal to share her story of childhood trauma, blended family struggles, and how persistent love transformed her life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29

Fathering Our Future
All Dads Need Help - Here's How To Get It | Interview with Dr. Chad Flowers

Fathering Our Future

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2024 62:54


There is a lie we tell ourselves as men. We convince ourselves that we do not need help. We believe we can rub some dirt on it and it will feel better when it stops hurting. The truth is all of us need help and a lot more than we probably realize.   I'm joined by my friend Dr. Chad Flowers, a pastor and licensed counselor, to discuss our need for help. We dive into why we need it and explore multiple ways we can go about getting the help we need. Chad also provides guidance on staying ahead of the curve and shares one thing that has been a huge factor in his life.   Books recommended in this episode:   Play the Man by Mark Batterson: https://amzn.to/3UK3QPY Love & Respect in the Family by Emerson Eggerichs: https://amzn.to/48GdPvv The Smart Stepfamily by Ron Deal: https://amzn.to/3UMScUq   —   Get your copy of the new devotional for dads, Following Our Father: https://amzn.to/4dtGfKD   Get your free gift, a copy of Cut The Crap (E-book): https://fatheringourfuture.com/2024/08/04/free-download-for-new-dads/   Become a financial partner with Fathering Our Future and make a direct impact on dads: https://fatheringourfuture.com/support/

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast
148 Dealing With A Narcissist

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2024 44:17


How do you identify narcissism? How do you deal with a narcissist in marriage or co-parenting? Ron Deal talks with counselor Laurel Slade-Waggoner about her personal journey with narcissism and now the professional help she offers to those in a relationship when someone seeks to control, manipulate, shift blame, gaslight, create fear, or act out in other narcissistic ways. Counselor Slade-Waggoner offers an understanding of how narcissism develops, what it looks like in a relationship, and biblical strategies to manage the behavior, particularly in a blended family setting. Waggoner says you don't have to stay stuck in an unhealthy cycle—there is help! Show Notes and Resources Check out Laurel's website and available books. Laurel's Podcast Join us for the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry! Ron's comprehensive list of Recognized Smart Stepfamily Therapy Providers Check out everything FamilyLife Blended has to offer. Send in a tax deductible gift to the FamilyLife Blended Team.

FamilyLife Today®
Childhood Grief & Family Disruption: Scott Kedersha & Ron Deal

FamilyLife Today®

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2024 26:42


Dave and Ann Wilson welcome Scott Kedersha, author and marriage pastor, and Ron Deal to the show. They explore how Scott's early experiences of grief and family disruption shaped his approach to marriage and parenting. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry: SummitOnStepfamilies.com Connect with Scott Kedersha and hear more of his thoughts at scottkedersha.com. And you can find his book, Ready or Knot?, at scottkedersha.com/ready-or-knot. Enjoyed this episode? Listen to more with Scott here! Ron Deal leads FamilyLife Blended and hosts the FamilyLife Blended Podcast. Find more resources for Blended Families: https://shop.familylife.com/product/the-smart-stepfamily/. Listen to the full episode: https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-blended-podcast/132-growing-up-blended-navigating-loss/ Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

FamilyLife Today® on Oneplace.com
Childhood Grief & Family Disruption: Scott Kedersha & Ron Deal

FamilyLife Today® on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2024 26:41


Dave and Ann Wilson welcome Scott Kedersha, author and marriage pastor, and Ron Deal to the show. They explore how Scott's early experiences of grief and family disruption shaped his approach to marriage and parenting. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29

Intentional Living with Dr. Randy Carlson

You and your spouse are on the same page, except for the kids you brought into the family. Blended family expert Ron Deal joins Randy, and they're gonna help you have peace, cooperation, and love in that blended family of yours. You can become more intentional in just 30 days! Sign up for Dr. Randy’s […]

Chris Fabry Live
Unrealistic Expectations in Stepfamilies

Chris Fabry Live

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2024 46:54 Transcription Available


If you're in a blended family, did you have any unrealistic expectations going into the marriage? Our correspondent to all things blended, Ron Deal, joins us to talk about those expectations. A step-family is started in the shadow of some kind of loss. How can you be more realistic with those blended expectations? Find out on Chris Fabry Live. For more information about the work of Care Net, click here. Chris Fabry Live is listener-supported. To support the program, click here. The Summit on Stepfamily Ministry - October 10-11, 2024See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast
147 Reimagining Christian Sabbath

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2024 49:15


Does your family have a designated Sabbath? How do you spend that day? Author Kathi Lipp shares with Ron Deal her suggestions for reimagining Christian Sabbath that is a meaningful day with the Lord and one another as you prioritize rest and share a meal together. On Sabbath, we want to focus on who God is and His provision for us as we rest and connect with one another. Lipp suggests that food provides the platform to linger in relationships, and feeding your family shows you care for them. She shares recipes from her new book, Sabbath Soup, and offers ideas on preparing for Sabbath and creating a special day each week. Show Notes and Resources  Watch Women and Blended Families! Join us for the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry! Learn more about Kathi and get her new book: Sabbath Soup Thank you for supporting FamilyLife Blended with a donation!

The Lion Within Us - Leadership for Christian Men 
427. Building Resilient Christian Families - Fun Friday

The Lion Within Us - Leadership for Christian Men 

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2024 17:29 Transcription Available


Discover how to build a resilient Christian family, even when blending families together, with insights from our special guest, Ron Deal. We start with the profound scripture from Ruth 1:16-17, celebrating loyalty and commitment as foundations for any family. Ron, a leading expert on blended families, shares crucial advice on extending grace and navigating the intricate dynamics within these unique family structures. Plus, we offer practical tips for invigorating your mornings with scripture and stretching, and for achieving financial contentment and simplicity as guided by 1 Timothy 6.For full show note details, go to the episode webpage:https://thelionwithin.us/podcast/427-ff-building-resilient-christian-families/Send us a textJoin us for the Iron in Autumn Men's Retreat, October 18-20, 2024, at Abundant Blessings Farm in Stem, North Carolina. This is a men's-only event, open to all men 18 and up. Whether you're gathering around the bonfire, hiking through God's creation, or engaging in group sports, every moment is crafted to foster deep connections and personal growth. Reserve your spot at this link. Get ready for iron sharpening iron! Get started for free with our 30 Day to Unleash the Lion Within series In just 30 days, you'll embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth. This free resource offers a series of messages, with proven methods to simplify and apply God's Word to your life, empowering you to be an effective leader. Visit thelionwith.us/unleash to get started for free today. Support the showJoin the Community TodayThe exclusive community for men who are seeking Truth and Accountability which creates courage to lead, fulfillment and direction. Start your 30-Day Risk-Free trial today!Join the Daily Spiritual Kick OffJoin Chris and other members every weekday morning in our app FREE! Dive into God's Word and leave with practical ways to simplify and apply it to your daily walk. Join the Daily Spiritual Kick Off today!

The Lion Within Us - Leadership for Christian Men 
426. Building Love Together In Blended Families With Ron Deal

The Lion Within Us - Leadership for Christian Men 

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2024 60:05 Transcription Available


Discover the transformative journey of building love and unity in blended families with insights from scripture and our esteemed guest, Ron Deal. Renowned for his expertise on stepfamilies, Ron shares his personal journey and professional wisdom, making this episode a treasure trove of practical advice and spiritual encouragement. We reflect on the themes of loyalty and commitment illustrated in Ruth 1:16-17 and explore the profound dynamics of blended family life, touching on the roles of stepdads and stepmoms, and the critical application of Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages.For full show note details, go to the episode webpage:https://thelionwithin.us/podcast/426-building-love-together-in-blended-families-with-ron-deal/Send us a textJoin us for the Iron in Autumn Men's Retreat, October 18-20, 2024, at Abundant Blessings Farm in Stem, North Carolina. This is a men's-only event, open to all men 18 and up. Whether you're gathering around the bonfire, hiking through God's creation, or engaging in group sports, every moment is crafted to foster deep connections and personal growth. Reserve your spot at this link. Get ready for iron sharpening iron! Get started for free with our 30 Day to Unleash the Lion Within series In just 30 days, you'll embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth. This free resource offers a series of messages, with proven methods to simplify and apply God's Word to your life, empowering you to be an effective leader. Visit thelionwith.us/unleash to get started for free today. Support the showJoin the Community TodayThe exclusive community for men who are seeking Truth and Accountability which creates courage to lead, fulfillment and direction. Start your 30-Day Risk-Free trial today!Join the Daily Spiritual Kick OffJoin Chris and other members every weekday morning in our app FREE! Dive into God's Word and leave with practical ways to simplify and apply it to your daily walk. Join the Daily Spiritual Kick Off today!

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast
146 Stepfamilies: Stepparent Dynamics and Your Marriage

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2024 30:51


The intersection of marriage and parenting often creates tension for stepcouples that leads to disagreements and, as a result, slows down relationship building. Listen to Ron Deal and Gayla Grace give valuable input on how to become a parenting team and strengthen your marriage in the process as you cope with common stepfamily dynamics such as: different parenting styles, co-parenting struggles, rejection from stepchildren, stepparent ambiguity, fear of failure, a paralyzed biological parent, a stepparent who oversteps their place, guilt from the past and fear to parent well because of what the children have already walked through, and other challenging dynamics. Show Notes and Resources Register for this year's Summit on Stepfamily Ministry! Watch Women and Blended Families Watch: No Threat video Check out Stepparenting with Grace and Building Love Together. The Smart Stepfamily on RightNow Media 

FamilyLife Today®
Who Comes First In a Blended Marriage? Ron Deal & Gayla Grace

FamilyLife Today®

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2024 27:40


Who comes first in a marriage? And how to communicate it well? Hear from Dennis and Barbara Rainey, Bob Lepine, and Ron Deal and Gayla Grace as they discuss how to prioritize marriage in a blended family and how to implement family meetings towards that end. Show Notes and Resources Help make YOUR mark: Your donation supports crucial resources for families and includes a special FamilyLife Pen and Brant Hansen's book, "Unoffendable"—join us today! Learn More About The Summit on Stepfamily Ministry Listen to the full episode here Discover more resources for blended families and listen to more on the FamilyLife Blended podcast Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

FamilyLife Today® on Oneplace.com
Who Comes First In a Blended Marriage? Ron Deal & Gayla Grace

FamilyLife Today® on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2024 27:40


Who comes first in a marriage? And how to communicate it well? Hear from Dennis Barbara Rainey, Bob Lepine, and Ron Deal Gayla Grace as they discuss how to prioritize marriage in a blended family and how to implement family meetings towards that end. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29

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FamilyLife Today®
Should Your Partner Be Your First Priority? Ron Deal and Gayla Grace

FamilyLife Today®

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2024 25:45


Should your partner be your first priority in a blended family? What if your biological kids are still reeling from transition? Hear what Ron Deal and Gayla Grace, of FamilyLife Blended have to say on this important question! Show Notes and Resources Help make YOUR mark: Your donation supports crucial resources for families and includes a special FamilyLife Pen and Brant Hansen's book, "Unoffendable"—join us today! Learn More About The Summit on Stepfamily Ministry Listen to the full episode here Discover more resources for blended families and listen to more on the FamilyLife Blended podcast Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

FamilyLife Today® on Oneplace.com
Should Your Partner Be Your First Priority? Ron Deal and Gayla Grace

FamilyLife Today® on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2024 25:44


Should your partner be your first priority in a blended family? What if your biological kids are still reeling from transition? Hear what Ron Deal Gayla Grace, of FamilyLife Blended have to say on this important question! To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast
145 Physical Intimacy Issues for Stepfamily Couples

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2024 30:14


As a blended family couple, it's not uncommon to experience sexual pitfalls that bring additional stress to your relationship. How do you prevent physical intimacy issues and work through those that have shown up? In this episode, Ron Deal and Gayla Grace talk about how to build trust and emotional safety to overcome common pitfalls such as: the comparison trap, fear and insecurity from "ghosts" of marriage past, unlearning old rhythms of sexual practice and learning new ones, and lingering messages from prior sexual experiences that can inhibit healthy physical intimacy in marriage. In addition, you'll understand more about the biblical view of healthy sexuality and why God established boundaries around it. Show Notes and Resources Make plans to join us at the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry! Check out where Ron will be speaking. Listen to or watch episode 30, 66, or 131. Send a donation and get a copy of The Smart Stepfamily Marriage

More than Roommates
Episode 90 - Our Favorite Marriage Resources

More than Roommates

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2024 28:58


In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss the books, podcasts, and resources that have most deeply affected their marriages. With a lot of great resources out there, we want to help you to be thoughtful about the resources that impact your marriage.  Scriptures:Proverbs 11:2Job 12:12Proverbs 13:20Resources Mentioned:The Glorious Pursuit, by Gary ThomasThe Meaning of Marriage, by Tim and Kathy KellerCherish, by Gary ThomasMarried Sex, by Gary Thomas and Debra FiletaThe Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, by John GottmanReady or Knot?, by Scott KedershaThe Ready or Knot Prayer Guide, by Scott KedershaOutdated, by Jonathan PokludaFriends, Partner, and Lovers, by Kevin ThompsonMarried Into the Family, by Dave & Ashley WillisHold Me Tight, and Created For Connection by Sue JohnsonA Lasting Promise, by Scott StanleyUs In Mind, by Ted LoweGreater Joy Twogether, by Ted CunninghamMore Than Roommates, Episode 35 – How to Identify the Four Negative Horsemen of Communication and ConflictMore Than Roommates, Episodes 53 – Friends, Partners, and Lovers in Marriage feat. Kevin ThompsonMore Than Roommates, Episode 58 – How to Thrive in a Blended Family feat. Ron DealMore Than Roommates, Episode 43 – The Not-So-Secret Guide to In-Law Relationships, feat. Dave WillisMore Than Roommates, Episode 12 – Identifying Negative Communication PatternsWebsite & Podcast - Authentic Intimacy, Juli SlatteryWebsite & Podcast - Fierce MarriageWebsite & Podcast – Family Life TodayQuestions to Discuss:1. If you were on a deserted, and could only bring 1-2 books (besides the Bible), what book(s) would you bring with you?2. What marriage book has been most helpful for you and your spouse?3. Out of all the resources mentioned, which one will you and your spouse read and/or listen to?

The Best of You
Episode 116: Blended Families—How to Heal, Build, & Sustain a Healthy Family Through Grief, Loss, & Complicated Circumstances

The Best of You

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2024 54:36


Did you grow up in a blended family? Are you navigating the complexities of creating one? Blended families face unique challenges, and it can be overwhelming to sift through the stigmas and bad advice that often surround step-parenting. In today's very personal episode, I'm joined by blended family expert Ron Deal. Together, we explore how step-families can become a powerful part of God's redemptive story, offering healing and hope in the midst of grief, loss, and complicated circumstances. Today's episode is filled with powerful tips for ANY family about how to become healthier. Here's what we cover: 1. The two key ingredients to building and sustaining a healthy family (8:39) 2. Common sources of dysfunction in families and how to address them (11:32) 3. What the church often misunderstands about blended families and how we can shift the narrative (25:00) 4. The redemptive power of step-families in transforming pain into purpose. (36:53) 5. Empowering children to navigate change and loss with resilience (29:41) 6. Practical ways to honor grief within families and create a supportive environment (41:39) Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here. Want to receive free bonus content? ⁠⁠Sign up for my free weekly email here. If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love: Episode 85: The Goal of a Healthy Family & 6 Roles We Take On In Dysfunction Episode 12: Overcoming the Pain of Divorce with Eryn Eddy Thanks to our sponsors: Go to www.organifi.com/bestofyou today and use code BESTOFYOU for 20% off your order today. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/BESTOFYOU and get on your way to being your best self. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code BESTOFYOU to receive UP TO 39%! Head over to WildHealth.com/BESTOFYOU and use code BESTOFYOU at checkout for 20% off! Go to thrivemarket.com/bestofyou for 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift! Whether you're exploring distant lands or enjoying a staycation at home, Cozy Earth has your back. Visit cozyearth.com and unlock an exclusive 35% off with code BESTOFYOU. Music by Andy Luiten Sound editing by Kelly Kramarik While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Blended Family Coaching Show
Simple Step: Money Matters

The Blended Family Coaching Show

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2024 8:52


Resources Episode 191.   Achieve Financial Harmony:  Expert Guidance for Blending Your Finances [with special guests Ron Deal & Greg Pettys]Book by Ron Deal, Greg Pettys & David Edwards:  The Smart Stepfamily's Guide to Financial Planning:  Money Management Before and After You Blend a FamilyClick here to connect with Greg Pettys for a FREE consult regarding basic estate planning (wills, trusts, power of attorney, and guardianship) Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!Are you ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click this link: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast
144 Hope Is What the Dr. Ordered

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2024


The dynamics of blended family life can bring hopelessness, and we lose the ability to see a future where God can make our situation better. But there's always hope for a brighter tomorrow. In this episode, Ron Deal speaks with Dr. Lee Warren, a neurosurgeon who has experienced personal trauma and loss, and explains the difference between our mind and our brain and how to use our mind to face hard things in a constructive manner. As we transform our thoughts and consider our feelings against the Truth of what God's Word says, we find hope again for healing, for purpose, for change. Show Notes and Resources  Send a gift and receive The Smart Stepfamily Marriage  Learn more about the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry Get Dr. Lee's book, HOPE IS THE FIRST DOSE  Dr. Lee Warren's website and podcast Email us for a chance to win a hard copy of Hope Is The First Dose! blended@familylife.com Ron's list of Smart Stepfamily therapists. 

FamilyLife Today®
Remarried? Here’s What Your Kids Need: Ron Deal and Rod & Rachel Faulkner Brown

FamilyLife Today®

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2024


What's it like for a child when their parent remarries? Explore the unique losses and needs of children in blended families in this important conversation with Ron Deal and Rod and Rachel Faulkner Brown. Show Notes and Resources Help make YOUR mark: Your donation supports crucial resources for families and includes a special FamilyLife Pen and Brant Hansen's book, ""Unoffendable""—join us today! Connect with Rachel and catch more of their ideas at rachelfaulknerbrown.com and find her on Insta at @rachelfaulknerbrown. Listen to the full episode here Discover more resources and listen to more on the FamilyLife Blended podcast. And think deeper about ministering to blended families at the Blended Summit -- coming up in October. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

FamilyLife Today®
Remarriage After Loss: Ron Deal and Rod & Rachel Faulkner Brown

FamilyLife Today®

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2024


Remarriage after loss is never easy. Rachel Faulkner Brown, widowed twice, shares her journey of loss, grief and eventual remarriage to her husband, Rod. Listen in to their conversation with Ron Deal about the complexities of blending families after loss. Show Notes and Resources Help make YOUR mark: Your donation supports crucial resources for families and includes a special FamilyLife Pen and Brant Hansen's book, ""Unoffendable""—join us today! Connect with Rachel and catch more of their ideas at rachelfaulknerbrown.com and find her on Insta at @rachelfaulknerbrown. Listen to the full episode here Discover more resources and listen to more on the FamilyLife Blended podcast. And think deeper about ministering to blended families at the Blended Summit -- coming up in October. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

The Blended Family Coaching Show
191. Achieve Financial Harmony: Expert Guidance for Blending Your Finances [with special guests Ron Deal & Greg Pettys]

The Blended Family Coaching Show

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2024 70:40


Money is emotional.That's why it can be a touchy subject for couples — whether they're preparing to blend or if they've been blending for a while.  Discussing finances can lead to very real challenges.The process of "merging money"  can easily become complicated and overwhelming for blended family couples.  The complexities tap into deeper emotions tied to things like fear, trust, loyalty, security, and stability. But "complex" and "impossible" are two different things.  The emotional nature of money doesn't have to keep couples stuck.  It is possible to create transparency, understanding, and alignment around your finances — for today and for the future. And the great part is, alignment around finances often creates greater levels of trust and intimacy in your relationship.So if your goal is to love, care, and provide for everyone in your family, but you just aren't sure how to effectively merge your finances — this episode is for you!We're so grateful to have Ron Deal and Greg Pettys on the show to share expert advice and practical steps for discussing and managing your financial expectations and future plans…  …this episode is a MUST for every blended couple.You'll Discover:How to move beyond fear and ambiguity to create transparency, understanding, and alignment around moneyThe difference between a Prenuptial Agreement (which is a contingency plan that assumes failure) and a Togetherness Agreement (which is a proactive plan that assumes success)How to build emotional and financial security and safety while making decisions around money — even when there's doubt and distrustHow to honor and provide for your children's future, while offering care and concern for your spouse and stepchildren's financial future as wellResources from this Episode:Book by Ron Deal, Greg Pettys & David Edwards:  The Smart Stepfamily's Guide to Financial Planning:  Money Management Before and After You Blend a FamilyClick here to connect with Greg Pettys for a FREE consult regarding basic estate planning (wills, trusts, power of attorney, and guardianship) Click here for a list of Smart Stepfamily Providers for help with 'under the surface' issues. Ready for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!Are you ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click this link: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether

Doing Divorce Different A Podcast Guide to Doing Divorce Differently

In this episode, Lesa Koski interviews Ron Deal, a world-renowned expert on blending families. The discussion covers Ron's background and the journey that led him to his current role, including his professional experiences and personal challenges. Ron shares practical advice for single parents considering dating, the role of a stepparent, and handling complex family dynamics. He emphasizes the importance of managing fears to build successful blended families and touches on crucial topics such as co-parenting and involving children in the dating process. The episode also highlights Ron's various resources, including books, podcasts, and online courses, aimed at supporting blended families.00:00 Introduction and Special Guest Announcement01:37 Ron's Journey to Becoming a Blended Family Expert04:57 Personal Challenges and Triumphs07:15 Dating and the Single Parent10:26 Red Flags and Yellow Lights in Relationships15:29 The Role of a Stepparent20:54 Navigating Grief in Blended Families22:40 The Importance of Intentionality in Blended Families24:01 Single Parenting vs. Blended Families26:17 Co-Parenting and Conflict Resolution28:13 Managing Fear in New Relationships31:30 Involving Kids in the Dating Process34:57 Guidelines for Introducing a New Partner37:11 Resources for Blended Families Resources by Ron Deal ----------------------------------- Ron L. Deal, LMFT, LPC President, As For Me and My House MinistriesDirector, FamilyLife Blended®, a ministry of FamilyLife®10201 W. Markham, Ste 105, Little Rock, AR 72205www.RonDeal.org | SmartStepfamilies.com www.FamilyLife.com/blended Listen or Subscribe to my FamilyLife Blended podcast hereSample media interviews and presentations Facebook: @SmartStepfamiliesFacebook: @FamilyLifeBlendedTwitter: @RonLDealInstagram: @FamilyLifeBlended

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast
143 Ghosts of Marriage Past—Dealing with Relationship Baggage

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2024 27:42


Ghosts of marriage past—triggers from past hurt that we carry into a new relationship—are common for blended family couples. But emotional ghosts don't just appear from relationship baggage. We can be triggered by childhood wounds, grief, or other hurts that leave a residue on our heart and create hypersensitivity to getting hurt again. As a result, we guard our heart and resist vulnerability in our relationships. In this episode, Ron Deal speaks with Gayla Grace about how to recognize our ghosts and take responsibility to move past our fears. Ron and Gayla both share ghosts they've wrestled with and how to have conversations with your partner that build trust in your relationship. Show Notes and Resources Register for the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry! Get your copy of The Smart Stepfamily Marriage Make a tax dedecutible donation and get a free gift! Watch Women and Blended Families on YouTube Call and leave a message with your podcast suggestions: 407-826-2606

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast
142 Troubled Teens & Addiction Help

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2024 44:24


How do we help kids who are struggling with addictive behaviors such as pornography, drinking, drugging, video game addiction, or others? In this episode, Ron Deal speaks with Dr Adrian Hickmon, founder of Capstone Treatment Center, about the best approach, particularly for blended families. Hickmon says it starts by understanding the pain and void in the child's life and using your influence as a parent and stepparent to impact their behavior. He explains the value of creating deeper attachments and practicing healthy boundaries in a way that provides the connection and motivation a child needs to make changes in their life. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry. Learn about Capstone. Watch the Brain, Heart, World documentary. Get In Their Shoes with any gift amount! Email us a review or a comment! blended@familylife.com

FamilyLife Today®
Overcoming Childhood Trauma: Jim Ramos and Ron Deal

FamilyLife Today®

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2024 27:53


How does childhood trauma echo in our adult lives? When an adult's parents got divorced, it can still impact them decades later— from their relationship with stepparents, to blended family dynamics, and ongoing healing. Jim Ramos, founder of the men's ministry "Men in the Arena," describes his challenging upbringing. Listen in for hope in navigating the complexities of family life and pursuing personal growth, community support, and a steadfast faith. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Jim Ramos and catch more of his ideas at meninthearena.org. Find him on social media on Insta, X, and Facebook. Listen to the full episode on FamilyLife Blended: EP. 51: Growing Up in a Blender: Play the Long Game. His book, 5 Traits of a Healthy Family, is out now! We'll send it at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge "Thank you!" for partnering with us toward stronger families around the world. Discover more resources and listen to more on the FamilyLife Blended podcast. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast
141 Overcoming Blended Family Myths

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2024 25:49


Stepparenting myths have been around a long time, and they can negatively impact stepparents if not understood well. Although there might be some truth to them, the non-truth messages create tension and confusion for us. Ron Deal talks with Gayla Grace about how to sort through the reality and false messages of myths such as: All stepmothers are wicked and all stepfathers are abusive, stepparents can easily take on a high parental role, stepfamilies can behave as traditional families, we will love biological and stepchildren the same, and if you call them "my children," they will like being your children. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry. Get a copy of In Their Shoes for a gift of any amount! Check out books and resources for Blended Families! Email us a review or a comment! blended@familylife.com

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast
140 A Home Built From Love & Loss

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2024 47:14


After losing her husband in a tragic accident, Sabrina McDonald looked forward to her young kids having a dad again. But she wasn't prepared for the challenges that followed. Her kids felt threatened by her new spouse and competed for her attention. Her dream of being part of a family again didn't happen quickly. And stepparenting felt awkward and unfamiliar in the beginning. In this episode, Sabrina shares her lessons of love and loss with Ron Deal and how God met her in the wilderness, showed her that brokenness didn't mean ugliness, and encouraged her to keep going despite her fears and uncertainty about the future. Today, she rejoices to have found familyness again after remarriage. Show Notes and Resources Get your copy of A Home Built from Love and Loss. Learn about Sabrina. Donate and receive the book: The Smart Stepdad!  Learn about The Summit on Stepfamily Ministry!  Leave us a voicemail with a review! 407-826-2606

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast
139: Growing Up Blended: My Stepdad

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2024 37:30


Growing up blended often includes hard transitions and isolation for those involved. But Marshall West's story is different. He shares with Ron Deal the beauty of God's provision for two families coming together after loss, giving him a dad he never had and two brothers who were never considered “step.” Marshall was 12 when his mom married his stepdad, a pivotal point for him. Marshall had been praying to have brothers join his family, and his stepdad had been praying for a Mom for his two boys. Marshall credits the Lord and His goodness for bringing two broken things together and creating a family. Show Notes and Resources Get the donor premium gift! Events and resources for you. Join us for the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry! Watch Women and Blended Families on You Tube

FamilyLife Today®
Mother’s Day for Stepmoms: Ron Deal, Gayla Grace and Summer Butler

FamilyLife Today®

Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2024 29:39


Mother's Day can be rough for stepmoms. Maybe you feel left out, unloved, and unappreciated. Ron Deal, Gayla Grace and Summer Butler discuss how tough times, like the stepmom Mother's Day dilemma, can build strength. They offer advice on how to reclaim identity and make Mother's Day a little less miserable. Show Notes and Resources Check out more content on FamilyLife Blended Listen to Gayla Grace's full episode Double your gift this month when you give to FamilyLife! Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast
138 Cancer, NFL, and Family

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2024 38:18


Ex-NFL football player Devon Still and his wife Asha married shortly after Devon's young daughter, Leah, went into remission from stage four cancer. While rejoicing over Leah's healing, they were soon blindsided by blended family struggles. Devon and Asha talk with Ron Deal about how they had both been raised in divorced homes and didn't understand how to create a lasting marriage. They began to learn about blended family dynamics and take intentional steps toward harmony in their relationship. They quit avoiding hard conversations, listened to each other's feelings, and created new habits in their communication to connect well. They also leaned into their faith to work through misguided expectations and move toward love and trust, ultimately finding hope in a long-term relationship. Show Notes and Resources Get this month's premium offer with a donation! Get free access to Smart Stepfamily sessions. Check out the blended small group map Listen to Devon and Asha's podcast Please send us your comments! blended@familylife.com

The Blended Family Coaching Show
183. What's the difference between "coupleness" and "familyness" and why does it matter?

The Blended Family Coaching Show

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2024 45:19


Does it ever feel like you have a bit of a double life going?You have those moments when it's just you and your partner and it feels like all is right with the world……but suddenly, when one or both sets of kids enter the scene — everything seems to fall apart!That's because when it comes to blended families, "coupleness" does NOT necessarily equal "familyness".This is often a tough reality to accept.  You're deeply in love and excited about building a life together, but it seems that you've got some emotional and relational whiplash as it feels like you're tossed back and forth between two dynamics over and over.If that strikes a chord, you might want to consider the difference between "coupleness" and "familyness"..  Otherwise disappointment and confusion can quickly set in.Blending a family is so much more than your couple relationship.  That's why it's important to carefully consider  what it takes to build "familyness" and prepare for the road ahead.  In this episode, we'll explore how to intentionally approach "Familyness" so that you can reduce relational tension and create genuine connection in your home.You'll Discover:How to avoid the 'easy wrong turns' couples tend to make around building "familyness"Empowering insights and practical strategies to successfully build "familyness" Resources from this Episode:Episode 39. How to Create Strong Bonds with Resistant StepkidsEpisode 130. How to Build Trust that Nurtures Bonds with Your Kids and StepkidsEpisode 136. How to Intentionally Create Positive Family Time and Reduce Relational TensionEpisode 72. The Best Way to Create Healthy Bonded Relationships (How to "Cook" a Stepfamily)All Episodes that Focus on:      Bonding     Parenting/Stepparenting           Books by Ron Deal:        The Smart Stepfamily          Preparing to Blend    Building Love Together in Blended Families                                       Ready for some extra support?You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionClick this link to join our community today: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast
136: Help Me with My Finances

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2024


Help for your finances! Money matters can be a hot topic for blended families, creating strife and inequity if not handled well. Listen in as Ron Deal speaks with Gayla Grace and financial expert Greg Pettys about how couples can make wise decisions on financial issues that benefit all members of their blended family. Gain insight from listener questions such as: Should my spouse and I carry separate bank accounts? How do we spend our money equitably with “his and her” kids? Why do blended families need to do estate planning? What budgeting tools do you recommend? How do we share our resources? And more great topics applicable to every blended family. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about resources for blended families. You can watch the podcast on YouTube. You can still join the Blended and Blessed Livestream! Look for a small group in your area. Get your copy of The Smart Stepfamily Guide to Financial Planning Make a donation to FamilyLife Blended.

FamilyLife Today®
Letting Go of Control in Your Stepfamily: Ron Deal & Gayla Grace

FamilyLife Today®

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2024 28:23


Instead of stressing out and working overtime, are there easier ways to handle things? Here is some helpful stepfamily advice from Ron Deal and author Gayla Grace about stepfamily dynamics. Maybe peace is closer than you think. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Ron Deal and catch more of their thoughts at rondeal.org, and on X @RonLdeal and Instagram @FamilyLife Blended. And grab Ron's book, "The Smart Stepfamily" in our shop. Intrigued by today's episode? Think deeper about blending families by listening to Working Smarter Not Harder. Want to hear more episodes by Ron Deal, listen here! Get ready to tune in or join us in person for Blended and Blessed, running from January 1, 2024, to April 27, 2024! Get ready for the most anticipated event of the year, tailored specifically for stepfamily couples, dating couples with kids, and all those committed to the prosperity of blended families. Donate to FamilyLife Today! Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

FamilyLife Today®
How to Keep the Romance Alive: Dr. Juli Slattery, and Dr. Michael Sytsma

FamilyLife Today®

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2024 26:14


What's it look like to keep the romance alive when it things are flaming out? Well, Ron and Nan Deal, Juli Slattery, and Michael R. Sytsma, PhD are here to help. They're talking about bringing back that love, having meaningful chats and noticing when things feel off. Show Notes and Resources Want to hear more episodes by Ron Deal? Listen here! Catch more of his thoughts at rondeal.org, and on X @RonLDeal Want to hear more episodes by Dr. Juli Slattery? Listen here! Catch more of her thoughts at authenticintimacy.com, and on Instagram and Facebook @authenticintimacy Want to hear more episodes by Michael Sytsma? Listen here! Catch more of their thoughts on Facebook @drsytsma Set sail on the ultimate romantic getaway! Book now for the 2025 Love Like You Mean It Marriage Cruise, sailing from Miami, FL on February 8 - 15, 2025. Don't miss our LLYMI Cruise Madness Sale! Secure your spot at lovelikeyoumeanitcruise.com. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

FamilyLife Today®
Blending a Family after Loss: Ron Deal

FamilyLife Today®

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2024 28:24


Stepparenting is hard, especially after loss of a family member. Ron Deal understands how blending a family can be hard, and in his book 'Preparing to Blend,' crafted for engaged or pre-engaged couples with kids from previous relationships, he guides you through the journey of combining loss and love, touching on wedding planning and communication. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Ron Deal and catch more of his thoughts at rondeal.org/about, and on X @RonLDeal and Facebook @SmartStepfamilies and @FamilyLifeBlended And grab Ron Deal's book "Preparing to Blend", in our shop. Listen to the full episode of on FamilyLife Blended Intrigued by today's episode? Think deeper about blending families. Want to hear more episodes by Ron Deal, listen here! Join the Robbins in exploring five must-have conversations on finances, sex, God, family, and the future in our all new Preparing for Marriage study! Resurrection Eggs for Kids: Make Easter memorable! Enjoy a fun egg hunt tradition with storybook, symbols, stickers, and Jesus Film Project videos. Free with any donation! Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network