Podcasts about Child custody

Are you a grandparent fighting to legally adopt your grandchild, drowning in red tape and wondering if the finish line will ever come? Have you sat through courtrooms hoping to be heard, worried for your grandchild's safety, and navigating a system that seems to mistake your love for inconvenience? Do you long for the day you can finally just parent—no more last-minute visits or home inspections, no more lingering uncertainty?I'm Laura Brazan, and I know how heavy the “club sandwich” of multigenerational caretaking can feel. With four generations stacked under one roof and the weight of system delays on your shoulders, it's easy to forget you're not just a stand-in—you're a permanent, life-changing presence.In this episode of 'Grandparents Raising Grandchildren: Nurturing Through Adversity,' I welcome back Mary Hels-Jager, who takes us step-by-step through her hard-won journey from tense protective custody battles to the joyful moment of finalizing her granddaughter's adoption. We'll talk about speaking up when the system won't listen, surviving silly clerical errors that threaten everything, and the relief—and odd numbness—that finally arrives when the monitoring ends and family life resumes.You'll hear how trauma, attachment, and healing show up in real homes, why kin need to know their rights from day one, and what it means to truly secure a legacy for the next generation. Grandparenting this way is never simple, never sitcom-perfect—but closing those gaps with love and steadfastness is possible.Join us as we share resources, advice, and affirmation for every grandparent navigating the maze. You are not an inconvenience. You are the solution. Together, we nurture through adversity and claim victories for the future—one hard-fought step at a time.Send us Fan MailI recently started listening to your podcast on Amazon Music. I'm addicted! You have validated so many of my feelings associated with raising young kiddos at an older age. No one in our life really gets it. Our girls are not blood related as their mom was a friend of our daughter and we wanted to get them out of a shelter. 6 years later...thank you!  Jill Bryant has spent years researching the deep complexities of counseling and the lived reality of kinship care as a professor and a grandparent raising a grandchild. Her work, focusing on the complete subjective well-being of kinship caregivers. Taking this 10-minute survey gives our advocates the timely, real-world data they need to fight for the funding and structural support your family deserves right now.  Kinship care—stepping up to raise your grandchildren—can often feel like an incredibly lonely journey. When custody happens unexpectedly, it's easy to feel like you are the only one navigating the trauma, the system, and the sheer exhaustion.But you aren't alone. And that is exactly why your story matters. Your unique experience holds the power to change the system for the next family. Share your story with us at laurabrazan@grandparents-raising-grandchildren.orgThank you for tuning into today's episode. It's been a journey of shared stories, insights, and invaluable advice from the heart of a community that knows the beauty and challenges of raising grandchildren. Your presence and engagement mean the world to us and to grandparents everywhere stepping up in ways they never imagined.Remember, you're not alone on this journey. For more resources, support, and stories, visit our website and follow us on our social media channels. If today's episode moved you, consider sharing it with someone who might find comfort and connection in our shared experiences.We look forward to bringing more stories and expert advice your way next week. Until then, take care of yourselves and each other.Want to be a guest on Grandparents Raising Grandchildren: Nurturing Through Adversity? Send Laura Brazan a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/grgLiked this episode? Share it and tag us on Facebook @GrandparentsRaisingGrandchilden Love the show? Leave a review and let us know!CONNECT WITH US: Website | Facebook 

Most people going through a divorce focus on what happens in the courtroom or mediation sessions. Very few stop to think about what happens behind the scenes, and that gap is costing them real money. The person who sees your case every single day, fields your calls, organizes your documents, tracks your deadlines, and watches how clients either help or hurt their own cases? That's your paralegal. And until now, she's never been on this show.In this episode, Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt, pulls back the curtain with her colleague Liz Morgan, a family law paralegal with more than 30 years of experience working exclusively in family law. Liz joined Gailor Hunt in January of 1996 and has spent her career managing complex property and support cases, handling large-scale document discovery, and building the trial presentations that help clients tell their story clearly in the courtroom.Liz breaks down what paralegals actually do, why financial transparency is non-negotiable in North Carolina courts, and how client behavior, specifically disorganization, poor communication, and emotional decision-making, directly drives up legal fees. She also walks through the discovery process in plain language: why attorneys ask for so many documents, what they're looking for when they trace bank statements, and what happens when clients miss deadlines or delete digital evidence.Key TakeawaysConflict for conflict's sake is expensive. Fighting over a $100 piece of furniture or credit card points will cost far more in attorney fees than the item is worth. Liz identifies unnecessary conflict as one of the top drivers of avoidable legal costs.Your documents need to be complete and organized from day one. Uploading a screenshot of an account balance or the first page of a statement is not enough. Liz explains exactly how to submit financial records in a way that saves significant processing time and fees.Deleting texts, emails, or social media posts during litigation can have serious legal consequences. Once litigation begins or is anticipated, clients have a duty to preserve all digital evidence. Courts view destruction of electronic evidence negatively, even when it is unintentional.There is no such thing as winning in a divorce. Liz outlines what the clients who navigate divorce most successfully have in common: they stay organized, they listen to their attorneys, they separate legal decisions from emotional reactions, and they focus on what life looks like when their divorce is over.Liz Morgan is a family law paralegal at Gailor Hunt. To learn more or to connect with the Gailor Hunt team, visit divorceistough.com.Follow A Year and a Day wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss an episode.For legal assistance in North Carolina, contact Gailor Hunt at divorceistough.com.While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.

https://thedallasdivorceattorney.com/ 972-653-0448 In this episode of The Attorney Post, Dallas family law attorney Robin Zegen shares her perspective on the challenges families face during divorce and custody disputes. As the founder of Zegen Law Firm PLLC, Robin focuses her practice on helping clients navigate emotionally complex situations while protecting their rights and long-term interests. One of the key issues Robin discussed was the importance of proper legal representation in family law matters. Divorce and custody cases often involve heightened emotions, uncertainty, and life-changing decisions. According to Robin, clients need more than legal filings and courtroom appearances—they need guidance, education, and support throughout the process. Robin believes that attorneys play a critical role in helping clients understand their options and make informed choices. Family law disputes can affect finances, parenting arrangements, and future relationships, making effective communication essential. By providing realistic expectations and practical advice, attorneys can help clients avoid unnecessary conflict and focus on achieving productive outcomes. A major topic during the conversation was collaborative divorce. Robin strongly supports collaborative approaches because they allow families to resolve disputes through cooperation rather than confrontation. In a collaborative divorce, both spouses work with attorneys and, when necessary, other professionals to negotiate solutions outside of a traditional courtroom setting. This process can be particularly beneficial for parents. Since many divorced couples must continue co-parenting after their marriage ends, reducing hostility during the divorce process can create healthier long-term relationships. Robin emphasized that collaborative divorce encourages problem-solving and communication rather than a win-at-all-costs mentality. The discussion also explored the impact of the COVID-19 pandemic on family law. Robin observed that the pandemic led to an increase in divorce cases as families faced financial stress, uncertainty, and prolonged periods together at home. For many couples, existing challenges became more difficult to manage under these extraordinary circumstances. At the same time, courts and law firms had to adapt quickly to virtual hearings and remote communication. Despite these changes, Robin noted that the emotional needs of clients remained unchanged. Families still needed guidance, reassurance, and effective legal representation during difficult times. Throughout the episode, Robin emphasized that family law should focus on creating solutions rather than escalating conflict. Whether handling divorce, custody disputes, or parenting arrangements, her goal is to help clients move forward with stability and confidence. By promoting collaborative divorce and client-centered representation, Robin Zegen continues to advocate for a family law approach that prioritizes communication, cooperation, and the long-term well-being of everyone involved—especially children. Sponsors: RankWith.NewsThe Attorney PostNational ERCAndropology

What happens when artificial intelligence meets co-parenting and family mediation?In Part 1 of Episode 155, Matthew Brickman sits down with entrepreneur and Best Interest App founder Sol Kennedy for a powerful conversation about divorce, conflict, communication, and how AI may be reshaping the future of family law.Drawing from his own high-conflict divorce experience, Sol explains how the Best Interest App uses AI to help co-parents reduce emotional triggers, filter toxic communication, and stay focused on what truly matters: the best interests of the children.Matthew and Sol dive deep into: The psychology of co-parent conflict  Emotional triggers during divorce  AI-powered communication moderation  Differences between Best Interest and apps like OurFamilyWizard & Talking Parents  Solo-mode communication tools  Parenting plans and mediation  How courts and mediators use co-parenting apps  Why reducing conflict early can change a child's future This episode blends technology, psychology, mediation, and real-world family dynamics into one fascinating discussion about the future of co-parenting support systems.If you're a parent, mediator, attorney, therapist, or simply interested in how AI is transforming human communication, this conversation is a must-listen.

Seeking Divorce Assistance in These Locations? Our Team Can Help!   Riverside: https://bit.ly/4lYPO9o Corona: https://bit.ly/44gJROv Irvine: https://bit.ly/3EvvQSL San Diego: https://bit.ly/4lOg85X Palm Desert: https://bit.ly/4jNWZzc   Founded in 2021, Reel Fathers Rights APC is a Nationally Recognized Family Law Firm that focuses exclusively on representing Men and Fathers in Family Court in California. RFR boasts over 300 years of combined family court experience and was recognized as the top law Firm on the Inc 5000 List for 2025. RFR attorneys have earned dozens of awards and certifications from being named Certified Family Law Speicialist by the State Bar of California to being named Rising Stars by Best Lawyers and Ones to Watch by Super Lawyers. RFR attorneys are equipped to handle everything from contentious Child Custody disputes to high profile, high-stakes divorce, and defense of serious Domestic Violence Allegations. RFR is the go-to attorney for Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. You can learn more about Reel Fathers Rights and their services on our website www.reelfathersrights.com   Mark Reel Jr. is the Founder and CEO of Reel Fathers Rights APC. Since 2021, Mark and RFR have represented thousands of Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. Mark has been named One to Watch by Best Lawyers and a Rising Star by Super Lawyers. He has also been recognized by Inc on their Ince 500 list of fastest growing companies as well as Elite Lawyer and Expertise.com   About This Episode:   This episode provides a critical update on the ongoing legal battle between Taylor Frankie Paul and Dakota Mortensen, noting that as of April 2026, a Utah judge has officially granted a temporary restraining order (TRO) against Dakota. However, because Dakota was already granted a restraining order against Taylor in March, a mutual "no contact wall" has effectively been established between the parties due to cross-allegations of domestic violence. In a massive blow to Taylor, the judge ruled that their two-year-old son, Ever, will remain in the primary custody of Dakota for the time being, restricting Taylor to just eight hours of supervised visitation per week. The court cited volatile behavior as the reason for this restriction, pointing to multiple leaked videos showing physical altercations while the children were present. The episode concludes by looking ahead to the critical court showdown scheduled for April 30, 2026.        

Seeking Divorce Assistance in These Locations? Our Team Can Help!   Riverside: https://bit.ly/4lYPO9o Corona: https://bit.ly/44gJROv Irvine: https://bit.ly/3EvvQSL San Diego: https://bit.ly/4lOg85X Palm Desert: https://bit.ly/4jNWZzc   Founded in 2021, Reel Fathers Rights APC is a Nationally Recognized Family Law Firm that focuses exclusively on representing Men and Fathers in Family Court in California. RFR boasts over 300 years of combined family court experience and was recognized as the top law Firm on the Inc 5000 List for 2025. RFR attorneys have earned dozens of awards and certifications from being named Certified Family Law Speicialist by the State Bar of California to being named Rising Stars by Best Lawyers and Ones to Watch by Super Lawyers. RFR attorneys are equipped to handle everything from contentious Child Custody disputes to high profile, high-stakes divorce, and defense of serious Domestic Violence Allegations. RFR is the go-to attorney for Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. You can learn more about Reel Fathers Rights and their services on our website www.reelfathersrights.com   Mark Reel Jr. is the Founder and CEO of Reel Fathers Rights APC. Since 2021, Mark and RFR have represented thousands of Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. Mark has been named One to Watch by Best Lawyers and a Rising Star by Super Lawyers. He has also been recognized by Inc on their Ince 500 list of fastest growing companies as well as Elite Lawyer and Expertise.com   About This Episode:   This episode of the podcast covers Mississippi's passage of House Bill 1662, a groundbreaking family law reform that establishes a rebuttable presumption that joint custody with equal parenting time is in the best interest of children. The host, family rights attorney Mark Ruel Jr., celebrates Mississippi for joining an elite group of states—including Kentucky, Arkansas, West Virginia, Florida, and Missouri—that have codified true 50-50 parenting laws. The discussion highlights how this law effectively eliminates the outdated "weekend visitor" dynamic for fathers, shifts the burden of proof to the party trying to deny custody, adjusts child support expectations based on actual parenting time, and aligns with data showing the psychological benefits of dual-parent involvement for children.    

Seeking Divorce Assistance in These Locations? Our Team Can Help!   Riverside: https://bit.ly/4lYPO9o Corona: https://bit.ly/44gJROv Irvine: https://bit.ly/3EvvQSL San Diego: https://bit.ly/4lOg85X Palm Desert: https://bit.ly/4jNWZzc   Founded in 2021, Reel Fathers Rights APC is a Nationally Recognized Family Law Firm that focuses exclusively on representing Men and Fathers in Family Court in California. RFR boasts over 300 years of combined family court experience and was recognized as the top law Firm on the Inc 5000 List for 2025. RFR attorneys have earned dozens of awards and certifications from being named Certified Family Law Speicialist by the State Bar of California to being named Rising Stars by Best Lawyers and Ones to Watch by Super Lawyers. RFR attorneys are equipped to handle everything from contentious Child Custody disputes to high profile, high-stakes divorce, and defense of serious Domestic Violence Allegations. RFR is the go-to attorney for Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. You can learn more about Reel Fathers Rights and their services on our website www.reelfathersrights.com   Mark Reel Jr. is the Founder and CEO of Reel Fathers Rights APC. Since 2021, Mark and RFR have represented thousands of Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. Mark has been named One to Watch by Best Lawyers and a Rising Star by Super Lawyers. He has also been recognized by Inc on their Ince 500 list of fastest growing companies as well as Elite Lawyer and Expertise.com   About This Episode:   This episode of the podcast covers a major legal shift in the ongoing divorce between Real Housewives of Atlanta stars Drew Sidora and Ralph Pittman. After nearly three years of litigation, a judge has issued a temporary order requiring Drew to vacate the marital home by May 31, 2026, ending the "co-parenting limbo" where the couple lived on separate floors of the same house. Most significantly, the judge awarded Ralph primary custody during the school year after his legal team provided evidence that the children had excessive school absences while under Drew's primary care. While Drew's attorneys maintain that this is a temporary order and the matter is still being actively litigated, she currently faces a move-out deadline and a reduction to an alternating weekend visitation schedule starting in August.  

What if the goal of your divorce wasn't to win — but to make sure everyone could sit at a dinner table together a year from now for the sake of your kids?In this episode, Jaime Davis sits down with Hannah Hembree Bell, founder of Hembree Bell Law Firm and creator of My Confident Divorce. Hannah built a multi-million-dollar family law practice rooted in a deceptively simple mission: help marriages end well. She describes herself as a recovering litigator — and for good reason. After navigating her own painful divorce and custody battle while putting herself through law school as a mother of three, Hannah didn't just survive the process. She rebuilt, and then she built a law firm so that she could be the attorney she desperately needed back then.Hannah and Jaime get honest about one of the biggest misconceptions in family law: the idea that going to court means getting justice. As Hannah puts it, a client once told her that "the last place you go for justice is on the courthouse steps" — and after years in the courtroom, she couldn't agree more. The judge is not interested in your vindication. The judge is interested in your children's well-being and a decent application of the law. Understanding that from the beginning, Hannah explains, can reshape the entire divorce process. She and Jaime also discuss what it actually looks like to keep the main thing the main thing — even when the other party is committed to scorched earth litigation — and why the BIFF method (Brief, Informative, Firm, and Friendly) is one of the most powerful tools a divorcing parent can have in their back pocket.Key TakeawaysRedefining the Win: If both parties leave mediation equally unhappy, that's probably the right result. If you feel like you got a slam dunk, that bodes poorly for your future co-parenting relationship — and your ex's ability to recover. A real win looks like dinner together with the kids a year later.Divorce Is a Tool, Not a Destination: A divorce is simply the legal mechanism by which you are no longer married. The real question is: what life are you running toward? Getting clear on that answer changes everything about how you move through the process.Bitter or Better — You Choose: Between stimulus and response, there is a space. How you react to your ex's latest move, how you show up for your kids, how you engage with the process — all of it is within your control, even when everything else feels like it isn't.You Deserve a Happy Life: Hannah's closing message is the one every woman in this process needs to hear. You are worthy because you exist. Not because you survived. Not because you white-knuckled it. Because you exist.Learn more about Hannah's work and explore the My Confident Divorce program at HembreeBell.comIf you found this episode helpful, follow A Year and a Day wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss an episode.For legal assistance in North Carolina, contact Gailor Hunt at divorceistough.com.While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.

Seeking Divorce Assistance in These Locations? Our Team Can Help!   Riverside: https://bit.ly/4lYPO9o Corona: https://bit.ly/44gJROv Irvine: https://bit.ly/3EvvQSL San Diego: https://bit.ly/4lOg85X Palm Desert: https://bit.ly/4jNWZzc   Founded in 2021, Reel Fathers Rights APC is a Nationally Recognized Family Law Firm that focuses exclusively on representing Men and Fathers in Family Court in California. RFR boasts over 300 years of combined family court experience and was recognized as the top law Firm on the Inc 5000 List for 2025. RFR attorneys have earned dozens of awards and certifications from being named Certified Family Law Speicialist by the State Bar of California to being named Rising Stars by Best Lawyers and Ones to Watch by Super Lawyers. RFR attorneys are equipped to handle everything from contentious Child Custody disputes to high profile, high-stakes divorce, and defense of serious Domestic Violence Allegations. RFR is the go-to attorney for Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. You can learn more about Reel Fathers Rights and their services on our website www.reelfathersrights.com   About This Episode:   This episode explores the sudden legal fallout between Dallas Cowboys quarterback Dak Prescott and his former fiancée, Sarah Jane Ramos, following the cancellation of their luxury wedding in Lake Como, Italy, on April 10, 2026. The split followed a high-tension trip to the Bahamas where allegations of infidelity arose, leading to the couple calling off the wedding via an email to 250 guests. The podcast details the legal steps taken by Prescott, who filed a petition in Texas to establish joint managing conservatorship for their two young daughters, MJ and Aurora, seeking specific parental rights such as joint decision-making and a geographic restriction to keep the family in Texas. Despite the initial public drama, the episode highlights a positive development: both parties have agreed to settle custody and co-parenting details privately through mediation rather than a public trial, a move praised by their legal teams and peers as being in the best interest of their children.

When addiction and high conflict personality traits both show up in a custody case, the usual advice stops working. Vague parenting plans become weapons. Standard timelines get exploited. Courts aren't designed to manage what's happening daily between two households—and the divorce itself is often just the beginning.Bill Eddy, LCSW, JD, and Megan Hunter, MBA, co-founders of the High Conflict Institute, lay out what actually works: parenting plans built with iron-clad specificity, consequences written into agreements before problems happen, relapse protocols, objective safety safeguards for young children, and the assertive court strategy Bill describes as the most effective approach—not aggressive, not passive, but steady and information-forward.It's All Your Fault is produced by TruStory FM.Full Show Notes & ResourcesSubmit Questions | Full Show Notes | Bookstore | WebsiteWatch this episode on YouTubeImportant Notice: Our discussions focus on behavioral patterns rather than diagnoses. For specific legal or therapeutic guidance, please consult qualified professionals in your area. (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault (00:56) - Part 2: High Conflict Behavior, Addiction, and Child Custody (02:00) - Parenting Plans (05:58) - When Reluctant to Change (08:27) - Being Prepared (10:05) - Don't Reward the Pushing (13:59) - Build Consequences into Agreements (18:24) - With Younger Children (22:15) - Professional Involvement (26:33) - Top Mistakes (30:17) - Wrap Up

That sick jolt in your chest when her name lights up your phone isn't random. We know exactly what it is: a trigger that pushes good dads into “explaining,” and then into messages that can be twisted into court exhibits. We slow that moment down and replace it with a communication strategy that protects your peace and your parenting time.We walk through the Grey Rock Method for high-conflict divorce communication: how to become emotionally unrewarding, keep replies short and neutral, and stop feeding the fire with long defenses. We also unpack the psychology behind emotional extraction and “narcissistic supply” so you understand why the conflict keeps looping, even when you bring facts, logic, and good intentions. If you've ever thought, “If I just explain it clearly, she'll finally get it,” this conversation shows why that approach backfires.Then we connect it to the reality of family court. When decisions run on preponderance of evidence, the calmest parent often wins the narrative. We share practical scripts for common traps, explain a “yellow rock” variation for false accusations, and warn you about the extinction burst when you change the pattern, and the other side escalates. We also zoom out to parallel parenting as the long-term infrastructure: fewer points of contact, tighter orders, and fewer loopholes for conflict to exploit. Being unprepared is how great fathers become weekend visitors. Most ground is lost quietly through "drift" and decisions made under pressure. Stop the drift today at TheDivorcedDadvocate.com.Access your tactical tools:Risk Assessment: Identify your "quiet loss" exposure in 10 minutes.Protection Session: Book a private triage to ensure mistakes don't become permanent.Your kids are counting on you. Support the show

Seeking Divorce Assistance in These Locations? Our Team Can Help!   Riverside: https://bit.ly/4lYPO9o Corona: https://bit.ly/44gJROv Irvine: https://bit.ly/3EvvQSL San Diego: https://bit.ly/4lOg85X Palm Desert: https://bit.ly/4jNWZzc   Founded in 2021, Reel Fathers Rights APC is a Nationally Recognized Family Law Firm that focuses exclusively on representing Men and Fathers in Family Court in California. RFR boasts over 300 years of combined family court experience and was recognized as the top law Firm on the Inc 5000 List for 2025. RFR attorneys have earned dozens of awards and certifications from being named Certified Family Law Speicialist by the State Bar of California to being named Rising Stars by Best Lawyers and Ones to Watch by Super Lawyers. RFR attorneys are equipped to handle everything from contentious Child Custody disputes to high profile, high-stakes divorce, and defense of serious Domestic Violence Allegations. RFR is the go-to attorney for Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. You can learn more about Reel Fathers Rights and their services on our website www.reelfathersrights.com   Mark Reel Jr. is the Founder and CEO of Reel Fathers Rights APC. Since 2021, Mark and RFR have represented thousands of Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. Mark has been named One to Watch by Best Lawyers and a Rising Star by Super Lawyers. He has also been recognized by Inc on their Ince 500 list of fastest growing companies as well as Elite Lawyer and Expertise.com   About This Episode: This episode covers the stunning legal fallout between former Kentucky Governor Matt Bevin and his 19 teenager son, Jonah Bevin. Matt Bevin, who famously championed "family values" and signed legislation creating a presumption for 50/50 joint custody, now faces a 60-day jail sentence after being found in contempt of court. The conflict centers on Jonah's allegations that his parents abandoned him at a residential facility in Jamaica at age 17—a facility later shut down for abuse—and left him without resources or education. As Jonah sues for child support and educational expenses, the case has sparked further controversy with the introduction of House Bill 707, dubbed the "Bevin Bill," which aims to prevent children from intervening in their parents' divorce cases.

High conflict custody cases are hard enough—but when one parent also demonstrates antisocial personality traits alongside addiction and a pattern of long-term deception, standard parenting plans fall short in ways that can leave a child at real risk. Antisocial personality disorder appears in family court more often than most people realize, and it requires a fundamentally different approach to court orders, parenting plans, and relapse planning.Bill Eddy, LCSW, JD, and Megan Hunter, MBA, co-founders of the High Conflict Institute in Scottsdale, Arizona, walk through how to recognize the pattern, what to actually say to a family court judge, and how to build a relapse plan directly into a custody agreement as a court order. They also cover monitoring options, supervised contact, and why no-contact orders should be extremely rare. This is part one of a two-part conversation.It's All Your Fault is produced by TruStory FM.Full Show Notes & ResourcesSubmit Questions | Full Show Notes | Bookstore | WebsiteWatch this episode on YouTubeImportant Notice: Our discussions focus on behavioral patterns rather than diagnoses. For specific legal or therapeutic guidance, please consult qualified professionals in your area. (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault (00:58) - High Conflict Behavior, Addiction, and Child Custody (01:49) - Case Setup (04:00) - Pattern Recognition (08:50) - Traits (10:05) - Feined Connection (11:58) - What to Do (15:04) - Back to the Case (22:08) - Monitoring Services (23:40) - Parenting Plan (27:11) - No Contact Order? (29:43) - Defining More Extreme Personalities (33:16) - Wrap Up

Divorce attorneys can tell you what to sign. Financial advisors can tell you what to keep. But who helps you understand what you're feeling — and why it's not going to feel this way forever?In this episode, Jaime Davis sits down with Oona Metz, a nationally recognized psychotherapist with over 30 years of clinical experience and the author of Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women. For the last 15 years, Oona has led weekly divorce support groups that have become a lifeline for women navigating one of life's most difficult transitions. Her work fills a gap that the legal and financial world simply cannot: the internal, emotional experience of ending a marriage.Oona introduces her Five Phases of Divorce Grief — Heartbreak, Rollercoaster, Mending, Letting Go, and Moving On — and explains why these stages are not a straight line. She and Jaime discuss why women initiate divorce 70% of the time (and what that actually tells us), the critical difference between legally ending a marriage and emotionally leaving one, and why dating too soon can quietly derail both your healing and your legal case. Oona also makes a powerful case for reframing the language around divorce entirely — moving away from words like "failed marriage" and "broken family" and toward something more accurate: a family restructuring and a life transition.Key TakeawaysThe Sunk Cost Fallacy in Marriage: Staying because you've already been there 20 years is not a strategy — and it's not the definition of success. A long, miserable marriage is not an achievement.Protecting Your Nervous System: When stress goes up, cognition goes down. Self-care during divorce is not a luxury — it's a prerequisite for making sound legal and financial decisions that will affect the rest of your life.The Elevator Speech: Have a short, truthful, privacy-protecting answer ready for people who ask about your divorce. Your feelings about your ex will change over time — what you say in the heat of the moment won't.Dating Post-Separation: A tender heart needs the same care as a broken arm. Jumping into a new relationship before doing the internal work means your needs won't get met — again. And from a legal standpoint, new relationships discovered mid-case can unravel settlements that took months to build.Find Oona's book, Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women, and additional resources at OonaMetz.com.If you found this episode helpful, follow A Year and a Day wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss an episode.For legal assistance in North Carolina, contact Gailor Hunt at divorceistough.com.While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.

Top 5 Accusations in Child Custody Court - Episode 348 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Accusations abound in child custody court but we typically see a few issues that appear repeatedly. In this episode, I'll discuss the 5 most common ones that I see and how to navigate them in the courtroom. To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

Seeking Divorce Assistance in These Locations? Our Team Can Help!   Riverside: https://bit.ly/4lYPO9o Corona: https://bit.ly/44gJROv Irvine: https://bit.ly/3EvvQSL San Diego: https://bit.ly/4lOg85X Palm Desert: https://bit.ly/4jNWZzc   Founded in 2021, Reel Fathers Rights APC is a Nationally Recognized Family Law Firm that focuses exclusively on representing Men and Fathers in Family Court in California. RFR boasts over 300 years of combined family court experience and was recognized as the top law Firm on the Inc 5000 List for 2025. RFR attorneys have earned dozens of awards and certifications from being named Certified Family Law Speicialist by the State Bar of California to being named Rising Stars by Best Lawyers and Ones to Watch by Super Lawyers. RFR attorneys are equipped to handle everything from contentious Child Custody disputes to high profile, high-stakes divorce, and defense of serious Domestic Violence Allegations. RFR is the go-to attorney for Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. You can learn more about Reel Fathers Rights and their services on our website www.reelfathersrights.com   Mark Reel Jr. is the Founder and CEO of Reel Fathers Rights APC. Since 2021, Mark and RFR have represented thousands of Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. Mark has been named One to Watch by Best Lawyers and a Rising Star by Super Lawyers. He has also been recognized by Inc on their Ince 500 list of fastest growing companies as well as Elite Lawyer and Expertise.com   About This Episode:   This podcast episode dives into Title IV-D, a 1975 federal program originally designed as a "safety net" for low-income families that has transformed into what the host calls a "money-maker" for state governments. Originally intended to recover welfare costs from non-custodial parents, the program now serves as a state-subsidized debt collection service for wealthy families regardless of income. The host argues that because the federal government provides performance bonuses based on cost-effectiveness, state case workers are incentivized to prioritize high-dollar cases over impoverished families who actually need the help. To fix the system, the episode proposes implementing means testing and weighted metrics that reward lifting children out of poverty rather than just collecting large checks for the affluent.

If you think family court works like a neutral machine that processes facts and outputs justice, I want you to pause and “lock in.” What wins in custody battles is rarely the tidy binder of receipts you brought to prove you're a good dad. What wins is the narrative, the momentum, and the record the court can scan quickly while clearing a packed docket. That's the dangerous myth we dismantle, because it lures well-meaning fathers into complacency and turns them into weekend visitors.We walk through the cold math behind fathers' rights and child custody outcomes, including why custodial fathers remain a small minority and why parenting time often lands near a level that minimizes a dad's real influence. Then we get blunt about the incentives driving the system: efficiency, risk management, and the lingering cultural assumptions that treat mothers as the default parent. I also share research and real-world observations that highlight the bias gap between what attorneys see and what judges believe about their own neutrality.From there, we pivot to solutions you can execute. We talk about taking operational control, bridging the “decision gap” between hearings, and building a documented record so dense it becomes procedurally hard to ignore. That means moving communication into a court-approved parenting app, creating a forensic paper trail, and mastering emotional regulation so provocation doesn't become “evidence” against you. If you're trying to keep things amicable, we cover why “amicable until it's not” is a real risk and how to prepare before the tone shifts. Being unprepared is how great fathers become weekend visitors. Most ground is lost quietly through "drift" and decisions made under pressure. Stop the drift today at TheDivorcedDadvocate.com.Access your tactical tools:Risk Assessment: Identify your "quiet loss" exposure in 10 minutes.Protection Session: Book a private triage to ensure mistakes don't become permanent.Your kids are counting on you. Support the show

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In this episode, we're turning the mic around! Jaime Davis, host of A Year and a Day, joins Kayleigh Bain for a deep dive into the professional side of family law. With 25 years of experience and a board certification in family law, Jaime shares how she built a thriving practice and why she transitioned from dreaming of criminal law to mastering the complexities of "Divorce Without Destruction."For business owners and professionals, divorce isn't just personal—it's a high-stakes asset management challenge. Jaime explains how to protect your business interests before and after marriage, the strategic importance of prenups (and "postnups"), and why your company's valuation might be more vulnerable than you think. Whether you're a founder looking to shield your equity or an aspiring attorney curious about the "business" of law, this conversation provides the intentional, expert-led roadmap you need.Inside this crossover, we cover:Protecting the Hustle: How business owners can use premarital agreements to ensure their growth remains separate property.Strategic Marketing: Why Jaime launched a podcast to educate individuals considering or going through a divorce and her referral network of realtors, therapists, and financial planners.The "Year and a Day" Logic: Understanding North Carolina's mandatory separation period as a window for financial planning.Need a consultation in North Carolina? Visit divorceistough.com to connect with the team at Gailor Hunt.Have a myth you want Jaime to tackle? Email her at jdavis@divorceistough.com.While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina.

Navigating court-ordered visitation can be overwhelming for children, especially when they're required to spend time with predatory parent. Many kids cope by masking their true emotions, staying compliant during visits, and then unraveling once they're safe at home—often exhibiting behaviors like anger, withdrawal, people-pleasing, or even sudden aggression. These responses leave protective parents feeling confused, guilty, and drained.In this episode, we review Dr. Christine Cocchiola's insightful children's book, Every Moment of Every Day, and delve deeper into what's really going on beneath the surface for mothers and children navigating custody orders. Dr. Cocchiola, a clinician, protective parent, and author, sheds light on how coercive control intentionally disrupts a child's attachment to the safe parent through shame, manipulation, and false narratives. She explains the four stress responses—fight, flight, freeze, and fawn—and why children may mimic an abuser, appear "fine" when they're not, or act out upon returning home.The conversation offers practical strategies for navigating transitions, such as co-regulation instead of interrogation, empowering children with choice, and using rhythmic, relational activities like music, dancing, trampoline play, drumming, or pillow forts to help them release stress. We also discuss Dr. Cocchiola's “three Ps” for managing high-stakes handoffs and acknowledge the difficulty of healing when court-mandated contact persists. Still, Dr. Cocchiola reminds us that meaningful recovery is possible through informed, protective parenting and intentional repair.If you're concerned about child safety, family court custody battles, trauma-informed parenting, or the impact of coercive control, this review and discussion of Every Moment of Every Day will equip you with critical insights and actionable steps for supporting children through challenging transitions.

Seeking Divorce Assistance in These Locations? Our Team Can Help! Riverside: https://bit.ly/4lYPO9o Corona: https://bit.ly/44gJROv Irvine: https://bit.ly/3EvvQSL San Diego: https://bit.ly/4lOg85X Palm Desert: https://bit.ly/4jNWZzc   Founded in 2021, Reel Fathers Rights APC is a Nationally Recognized Family Law Firm that focuses exclusively on representing Men and Fathers in Family Court in California. RFR boasts over 300 years of combined family court experience and was recognized as the top law Firm on the Inc 5000 List for 2025. RFR attorneys have earned dozens of awards and certifications from being named Certified Family Law Speicialist by the State Bar of California to being named Rising Stars by Best Lawyers and Ones to Watch by Super Lawyers. RFR attorneys are equipped to handle everything from contentious Child Custody disputes to high profile, high-stakes divorce, and defense of serious Domestic Violence Allegations. RFR is the go-to attorney for Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. You can learn more about Reel Fathers Rights and their services on our website www.reelfathersrights.com   Mark Reel Jr. is the Founder and CEO of Reel Fathers Rights APC. Since 2021, Mark and RFR have represented thousands of Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. Mark has been named One to Watch by Best Lawyers and a Rising Star by Super Lawyers. He has also been recognized by Inc on their Ince 500 list of fastest growing companies as well as Elite Lawyer and Expertise.com   About This Episode:   In this episode, the host investigates the public downfall of Taylor Frankie Paul, once poised to be the next Bachelorette before her world "went up in flames" in March 2026. The episode provides a detailed timeline of her legal troubles, starting with the 2022 "soft swinging" scandal that ended her marriage to Tate Paul, followed by a volatile relationship with Dakota Mortensen featured on Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. The discussion focuses on a 2023 domestic violence video showing Taylor throwing a metal chair that struck her daughter, which resurfaced alongside new 2026 domestic assault allegations. From a family law perspective, the host analyzes the protective orders filed by both Tate and Dakota, explaining why Taylor faces a significant uphill battle to retain custody of her three children due to evidence of child endangerment.  

Seeking Divorce Assistance in These Locations? Our Team Can Help!   Riverside: https://bit.ly/4lYPO9o Corona: https://bit.ly/44gJROv Irvine: https://bit.ly/3EvvQSL San Diego: https://bit.ly/4lOg85X Palm Desert: https://bit.ly/4jNWZzc   Founded in 2021, Reel Fathers Rights APC is a Nationally Recognized Family Law Firm that focuses exclusively on representing Men and Fathers in Family Court in California. RFR boasts over 300 years of combined family court experience and was recognized as the top law Firm on the Inc 5000 List for 2025. RFR attorneys have earned dozens of awards and certifications from being named Certified Family Law Speicialist by the State Bar of California to being named Rising Stars by Best Lawyers and Ones to Watch by Super Lawyers. RFR attorneys are equipped to handle everything from contentious Child Custody disputes to high profile, high-stakes divorce, and defense of serious Domestic Violence Allegations. RFR is the go-to attorney for Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. You can learn more about Reel Fathers Rights and their services on our website www.reelfathersrights.com   Mark Reel Jr. is the Founder and CEO of Reel Fathers Rights APC. Since 2021, Mark and RFR have represented thousands of Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. Mark has been named One to Watch by Best Lawyers and a Rising Star by Super Lawyers. He has also been recognized by Inc on their Ince 500 list of fastest growing companies as well as Elite Lawyer and Expertise.com   About This Episode:   This episode tells the incredible true story of Joe Newton, a father whose life was defined by the search for his daughter, Michelle, after she was kidnapped by her own mother, Deborah Lee Newton, in April 1983. After Debora fled Kentucky for Florida, she assumed the false identity of Sharon Neely and raised Michelle under a web of lies for 42 years. The podcast details the decades of silence, the breakthrough in 2025 using age-progression software and a Crime Stoppers tip, and the emotional reunion between Joe and Michelle while Joe was recovering from a heart transplant. The episode explores themes of deception, parental bonds, and the legal consequences facing Deborah as she is extradited back to Kentucky to answer for the stolen time.

A single accusation can change your custody case overnight. Not because it's true, but because family court often runs on speed, risk avoidance, and a 51% preponderance-of-evidence standard where the better narrative can beat the better dad. We unpack why false allegations, CPS reports, and ex parte restraining orders function like a “silver bullet” against fathers, and what it takes to stop that story from hardening into a court order.We walk through the mission-critical hours after the ambush: why your instinct to explain can backfire, how your texts and tone can become “evidence,” and why emotional restraint is a legal strategy, not a personality trait. You'll get the exact law enforcement script we recommend using at the door, plus the non-negotiable rule that comes right after it: shut up and stop feeding the machine.From there, we shift into the counteroffensive that wins between court dates. We outline a communication lockdown using court approved apps, then show how to build a forensic paper trail with a contemporaneous log, receipts, GPS location data, and child-focused facts that third parties can't ignore. We also cover how to handle guardians ad litem and custody evaluators, when a forensic psychological evaluation can force objective scrutiny, and why playing defense in a high conflict divorce is a slow path to becoming a weekend visitor.If you're feeling the ground shift, don't guess. Listen, share this with a dad who needs it, and subscribe so you don't miss the next briefing. Then leave a rating or review and tell us what part of the strategy you want us to go deeper on. Being unprepared is how great fathers become weekend visitors. Most ground is lost quietly through "drift" and decisions made under pressure. Stop the drift today at TheDivorcedDadvocate.com.Access your tactical tools:Risk Assessment: Identify your "quiet loss" exposure in 10 minutes.Protection Session: Book a private triage to ensure mistakes don't become permanent.Your kids are counting on you. Support the show

Seeking Divorce Assistance in These Locations? Our Team Can Help!   Riverside: https://bit.ly/4lYPO9o Corona: https://bit.ly/44gJROv Irvine: https://bit.ly/3EvvQSL San Diego: https://bit.ly/4lOg85X Palm Desert: https://bit.ly/4jNWZzc   Founded in 2021, Reel Fathers Rights APC is a Nationally Recognized Family Law Firm that focuses exclusively on representing Men and Fathers in Family Court in California. RFR boasts over 300 years of combined family court experience and was recognized as the top law Firm on the Inc 5000 List for 2025. RFR attorneys have earned dozens of awards and certifications from being named Certified Family Law Speicialist by the State Bar of California to being named Rising Stars by Best Lawyers and Ones to Watch by Super Lawyers. RFR attorneys are equipped to handle everything from contentious Child Custody disputes to high profile, high-stakes divorce, and defense of serious Domestic Violence Allegations. RFR is the go-to attorney for Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. You can learn more about Reel Fathers Rights and their services on our website www.reelfathersrights.com   Mark Reel Jr. is the Founder and CEO of Reel Fathers Rights APC. Since 2021, Mark and RFR have represented thousands of Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. Mark has been named One to Watch by Best Lawyers and a Rising Star by Super Lawyers. He has also been recognized by Inc on their Ince 500 list of fastest growing companies as well as Elite Lawyer and Expertise.com   About This Episode: In this episode, family rights attorney Mark Ruel Jr. explains the five legal "filters" often used by the government to dismiss Section 1983 lawsuits, which are civil actions for rights violations by state actors. He breaks down the Qualified Immunity Trap, where officials can be protected if no identical prior case exists, and the Rooker-Feldman Doctrine, which prevents federal courts from overturning state court family law decisions. Ruel also discusses the Absolute Judicial Immunity of judges and prosecutors, the Monell Standard requiring proof of official policy rather than individual error, and the No Physical Seizure rule that often disqualifies harassment claims if children were not physically removed. The episode aims to educate viewers on the uphill battle of filing these cases and advocates for legal reform to hold government officials accountable.  

In this episode of A Year and a Day, host Jaime Davis takes on the role of "MythBuster." After years of seeing clients enter her office fueled by internet rumors and well-meaning but inaccurate advice, Jaime clears the air on the most common divorce misconceptions in North Carolina.From the "staying together for the kids" trap to the reality of how property is actually divided, this episode replaces "water cooler wisdom" with hard facts. Jaime breaks down the state's unique Year and a Day rule, explains why moving into the spare bedroom isn't a legal separation, and reveals why "winning" the divorce based on a spouse's misconduct is largely a fantasy. Whether you're curious about whether the Courts favor mothers  or wondering if your pre-marital home is excluded from property division, this episode provides the clarity needed to make decisions based on facts, not fear.The Myths We're Busting:The Bedroom Separation Myth: Why you aren't "legally separated" until someone actually moves out.The Child's Choice Myth: Does a 12-year-old really get to pick where they live? (Spoiler: No).The "Cheater Takes All" Myth: How marital misconduct actually affects alimony, post-separation support, and property division.The Equitable vs. Equal Myth: Understanding that "equitable" doesn't always mean a perfect 50-50 split.Mothers are favored in custody decisions, your spouse needs to sign divorce papers, and MORE!Need a consultation in North Carolina? Visit divorceistough.com to connect with the team at Gailor Hunt.Have a myth you want Jaime to tackle? Email her at jdavis@divorceistough.com.While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina.

Seeking Divorce Assistance in These Locations? Our Team Can Help! Seeking Divorce Assistance in These Locations? Our Team Can Help!   Riverside: https://bit.ly/4lYPO9o Corona: https://bit.ly/44gJROv Irvine: https://bit.ly/3EvvQSL San Diego: https://bit.ly/4lOg85X Palm Desert: https://bit.ly/4jNWZzc   Founded in 2021, Reel Fathers Rights APC is a Nationally Recognized Family Law Firm that focuses exclusively on representing Men and Fathers in Family Court in California. RFR boasts over 300 years of combined family court experience and was recognized as the top law Firm on the Inc 5000 List for 2025. RFR attorneys have earned dozens of awards and certifications from being named Certified Family Law Speicialist by the State Bar of California to being named Rising Stars by Best Lawyers and Ones to Watch by Super Lawyers. RFR attorneys are equipped to handle everything from contentious Child Custody disputes to high profile, high-stakes divorce, and defense of serious Domestic Violence Allegations. RFR is the go-to attorney for Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. You can learn more about Reel Fathers Rights and their services on our website www.reelfathersrights.com   Mark Reel Jr. is the Founder and CEO of Reel Fathers Rights APC. Since 2021, Mark and RFR have represented thousands of Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. Mark has been named One to Watch by Best Lawyers and a Rising Star by Super Lawyers. He has also been recognized by Inc on their Ince 500 list of fastest growing companies as well as Elite Lawyer and Expertise.com   About This Episode:   This episode discusses a high-stakes legal battle between NBA superstar Luka Dončić and his ex-fiancée, Anamaria Goltes, who has filed for child support and attorney fees in California. The host explains that Goltes is likely seeking to leverage California's lack of a hard cap on child support for ultra-high-net-worth individuals, which could result in monthly payments exceeding $100,000—significantly more than what she would likely receive in their home country of Slovenia. While California can enforce financial support due to Dončić's employment with the Lakers, the host notes a jurisdictional catch: the California courts cannot decide custody because the children have not lived in the state for the required six months. The episode concludes by predicting a protracted international court battle or a quiet out-of-court settlement as Dončić's legal team attempts to move the case back to Slovenia.    

Can ChatGPT Solve Your Child Custody Issues? - Episode 346 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. ChatGPT can be a great tool and many of my clients rely on it for everything from communication with their ex, to organizing the large volume of documentation and even preparing court documents. I've also had many clients, after extensive use of ChatGPT, start to realize the things that it doesn't do well. Courts are also becoming more aware of and sensitive to ChatGPT and I've seen Judges go as far as ordering a party not to use it. So, it's important to understand what it does well, what it does not do well, and to always remember that it is simply a tool. To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

Welcome to A Year and a Day. I'm Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this episode, I'm joined by Diane Kinlaw, a senior loan officer with Revolution Mortgage, to discuss the critical mortgage challenges that arise during separation and divorce.Diane explains why your credit score is your "financial resume" and why you shouldn't wait until your divorce is finalized to speak with a mortgage professional. We dive into the specific rules for using alimony and child support as qualifying income, why keeping the house isn't always in your best financial interest,  and the logistical hurdles of equity buyouts through cash-out refinances.Together, we discuss the "deal breakers" of debt-to-income ratios, how contingent liabilities on joint credit cards can sink a new loan application, and the reality of navigating today's interest rates versus "stored equity." Diane provides a proactive checklist for gathering financial documents and highlights the importance of working with a team—attorneys, financial advisors, and lenders—to ensure a clean transition to your next chapter.Need help from Diane? Reach out for a free consultation at revolutionmortgage.com/dianekinlaw.If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting www.divorceistough.com.

Seeking Divorce Assistance in These Locations? Our Team Can Help!   Riverside: https://bit.ly/4lYPO9o Corona: https://bit.ly/44gJROv Irvine: https://bit.ly/3EvvQSL San Diego: https://bit.ly/4lOg85X Palm Desert: https://bit.ly/4jNWZzc   Founded in 2021, Reel Fathers Rights APC is a Nationally Recognized Family Law Firm that focuses exclusively on representing Men and Fathers in Family Court in California. RFR boasts over 300 years of combined family court experience and was recognized as the top law Firm on the Inc 5000 List for 2025. RFR attorneys have earned dozens of awards and certifications from being named Certified Family Law Speicialist by the State Bar of California to being named Rising Stars by Best Lawyers and Ones to Watch by Super Lawyers. RFR attorneys are equipped to handle everything from contentious Child Custody disputes to high profile, high-stakes divorce, and defense of serious Domestic Violence Allegations. RFR is the go-to attorney for Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. You can learn more about Reel Fathers Rights and their services on our website www.reelfathersrights.com   Mark Reel Jr. is the Founder and CEO of Reel Fathers Rights APC. Since 2021, Mark and RFR have represented thousands of Men and Fathers in California Family Courts. Mark has been named One to Watch by Best Lawyers and a Rising Star by Super Lawyers. He has also been recognized by Inc on their Ince 500 list of fastest growing companies as well as Elite Lawyer and Expertise.com   About This Episode:   On this episode, Mark Reel Jr. breaks down the two-part constitutional shield of due process that stands between a family and state overreach. He explains that procedural due process acts as the court's "user manual," requiring the three pillars of official notice, a meaningful opportunity to be heard, and an impartial judge to ensure the legal process is fair. Mark then dives into substantive due process, which protects the fundamental liberty interest parents have in the care and control of their children. Because these rights are fundamental, the state must meet the "strict scrutiny" standard, proving they have a compelling reason—such as preventing immediate physical harm—before they can legally interfere with a family. Ultimately, he illustrates how procedural due process protects the trial itself, while substantive due process protects the very fabric of the family.

Navigating child custody law is emotionally charged and legally complex. This episode distills the core legal principles, including the distinction between legal and physical custody, the pivotal role of the best interests of the child, and constitutional protections that guard parental rights. Whether you're preparing for exams or applying this knowledge in practice, this guide emphasizes the importance of stability, the multifactorial analysis, and constitutional considerations like Troxel v. Granville.Most legal battles over child custody hinge on a deceptively simple question: what's truly in the child's best interest? But behind that phrase lies a labyrinth of nuanced standards, constitutional protections, and ever-evolving family dynamics that every legal strategist must master. If you're preparing for exams or navigating real custody disputes, understanding this framework isn't just helpful — it's essential.This episode takes you deep into the core principles guiding custody decisions, revealing how courts prioritize stability, emotional bonds, and safety — all filtered through the towering lens of constitutional rights. You'll discover how the Best Interests of the Child (BIC) standard acts as a flexible, yet powerful, guide that courts use to weigh a multitude of factors. From understanding the critical distinction between legal and physical custody, to deciphering the role of multifactorial analysis, you'll learn what judges actually consider when determining who gets to raise the child.We break down the key factors of the BIC standard: health and safety, emotional ties, stability, and the child's preferences. You'll see how the law treats each, and how the friendly parent provision influences custody rulings. Plus, intriguing nuances like the Nexus Test for parental misconduct, and the constitutional safeguards established in Troxell v. Granville, which protect a fit parent's fundamental rights against third-party claims. This isn't just legal theory—it's the blueprint for understanding high-stakes custody battles, from initial determinations to complex modifications.Why does it matter? Because ignoring these principles can lead to misguided outcomes that disrupt lives. Courts prioritize stability; changing custody requires a substantial and material change in circumstances, not just a desire for a better house or a bigger salary. Moving across states? The law demands a compelling reason, with the burden often on the parent seeking relocation. Domestic violence: now a primary consideration, with strict safety measures and presumption standards in many states—safety always trumps protocol. And when it comes to grandparents or third parties, Troxel reminds us that constitutional rights for fit parents are protected unless actual harm is shown.This episode shines a spotlight on the shifting landscape of family law, especially as guardianship norms evolve. The law's historic focus on biological ties is giving way to a broader understanding of attachment and psychological bonds—meaning, future rulings could prioritize the child's well-being over purely biological rights. As society's definition of family expands, so too must our legal frameworks adapt to serve the child's best interests in diverse circumstances.Perfect for law students preparing for exams, practitioners refining their understanding of complex custody issues, or anyone interested in the intersection of family, constitutional protections, and social change. This is your comprehensive guide to mastering the legal principles that shape the most emotionally charged, yet critically important, aspect of family law—custody. The key takeaways? Focus on the child's welfare, understand the hierarchy of rights, and always remember: in family law, safety first.Main Topics Covered:The dual nature of custody: legal vs physicalThe best interests of the child standard and its factorsConstitutional protections: Troxel and parental rights

    Slam the Gavel host Maryann Petri discusses Michael "Thunder" Phillips article, written 2-22-2026, "Father Ambushed and Stabbed During Custody Swap: When "Routine Exchanges Turn Violent. News4 San Antonio reported this article that Michael is referring to.     The host also questioned why main media is not carrying these articles related to violence perpetuated through the Family Court system. Also in these articles that are mentioned by small news stations such as News4 San Antonio, why aren't the judges, attorneys and Guardian Ad Litems (3rd Party Parasites) mentioned?To Reach Maryann Petri:  dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook:  https://youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcast?si=INW9XaTyprKsaDklhttps://substack.com/@maryannpetri?r=kd7n6&utm_medium=iosInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/  Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com   https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/aboout*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. Content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user/guest should consult with the relevant professionals. IRS CIRCULAR 230 DISCLOSURE: To ensure compliance with requirements imposed by the Internal Revenue Service, we inform you that any U.S. federal tax advice contained in this communication (including any attachments) is not intended or written to be used, and cannot be used, for the purpose of (1) avoiding penalties under the Internal Revenue Code or (2) promoting, marketing or recommending to another party any transaction or matter addressed herein. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. The content creator maintains the exclusive copyright and any unauthorized copyright usage is strictly prohibited.  Podcast is protected by owner from duplication, reproduction, distribution, making a derivative of the work or by owner displaying the podcast. Owner shall be held harmless and indemnified from any and all legal liability.Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

Child support is often one of the most stressful and misunderstood aspects of a family law case. In a recent podcast episode, Abbie Laine, founding attorney of Laine Law Firm, PLLC, sat down to demystify the intricacies of the Texas child support system and how it specifically impacts families in the El Paso border community.The Basics: Who Pays and How Much?In Texas, child support is determined by which parent the court designates as the primary or custodial parent. The other parent, known as the obligor, is responsible for monthly payments.The standard percentages for calculation are:1 Child: 20% of net resources2 Children: 25% of net resources3 Children: 30% of net resourcesAbbie highlighted a critical 2026 update: the income cap for these calculations has increased to $11,700 per month in net resources. For high-income earners in El Paso, this means their obligation could be significantly higher than in previous years.The Border City Challenge: Cash Trades and Undocumented WorkersEl Paso's unique status as a border city brings specific challenges, particularly when parents work in the "cash trade." Abbie explained that enforcing support in these cases is more complex but not impossible. Her firm utilizes tax returns, bank statements, and lifestyle audits to prove income. Furthermore, if a parent refuses to work, the court may find them "intentionally underemployed," presuming an income of at least minimum wage for support calculations.The Trap of Direct PaymentsOne of the most valuable warnings Abbie shared involves the method of payment. Many parents mistakenly believe that paying via Cash App, Venmo, or physical cash is sufficient because it leaves a digital trail.However, without an official record through the Attorney General's Child Support Division, a parent can deny receiving the funds, leading to costly enforcement actions. Abbie strongly advises all parents to pay through the local Attorney General's office—such as the location on Hawkins Blvd—to ensure every cent is tracked and credited.Consequences of Non-Payment: It Never Goes AwayUnlike standard consumer debt, child support is a legal obligation that cannot be discharged. If you fall behind, you face severe consequences, including:Jail Time: Since it isn't considered "debt" by the Texas legislature, you can be incarcerated for non-payment.Life-Long Accrual: Support debt never expires. It continues to accrue interest and can even be collected from your estate after death.When Life Changes: The Need for ModificationIf you lose your job, Abbie's advice is clear: file for a modification immediately. You cannot retroactively reduce your debt; the obligation only changes once a new court order is signed. Generally, you can request a modification every three years, though a "material and substantial change" in income or circumstances can allow for a review much sooner.Beyond the Check: Medical Support and 50/50 CustodyChild support often includes an "umbrella" of medical support, covering expenses like health insurance and even braces. Even in 50/50 custody arrangements, a parent making significantly more may still be ordered to pay "offset" support to ensure the child enjoys a consistent standard of living in both homes.Protect Your Family's FutureWhether you need an uncontested divorce or a fierce child custody attorney, understanding the "whole picture"—including conservatorship and visitation—is essential before you file. Laine Law Firm, PLLC Phone: 915-200-4316Website: lainelawfirm.comLocation: 700 North Stanton St., El Paso, TX 79902

Exploring Child Custody and Divorce in El Paso: Essential Insights from Abbie LaineDivorce is more than just a legal procedure; it is a life-altering transition that requires both legal precision and emotional resilience. In this podcast episode, Abbie Laine, the founding attorney of Laine Law Firm, PLLC, provides a comprehensive look at the realities of filing for divorce in El Paso, Texas. From common legal pitfalls to the intricacies of community property.The Dual Role of a Family LawyerAbbie begins by explaining why she was drawn to family law. Unlike other legal fields, being a divorce lawyer often involves a significant counseling component. While attorneys aren't therapists, the personal nature of divorce means that a lawyer must be prepared to help clients navigate the heavy emotional burden that comes with ending a marriage. This empathetic approach is central to the representation provided at Laine Law Firm.Understanding Texas "No-Fault" DivorceOne of the most frequent questions Abbie receives is about Texas being a "no-fault" divorce state. In the past, Texas required specific proof of "fault," such as infidelity, to grant a divorce. Today, the law has evolved to allow for "insupportability." This means you can seek a divorce simply because the marriage is no longer working—you don't need to prove your spouse did something wrong to be granted a decree.Timelines and the 60-Day RuleIf you are looking for a quick resolution, the absolute minimum time for a divorce in Texas is 60 days. However, this timeline only applies to an uncontested divorce, where both parties agree on every single term, from asset division to child custody. If even one issue is disputed, the case becomes a contested divorce, which typically takes six months to a year to resolve in the El Paso courts.Avoid These Common Divorce MistakesAbbie warns that certain behaviors during litigation can severely damage your case. The top three mistakes she sees are:Hiding Assets: Attempting to conceal property or bank accounts often backfires. Judges may award the other spouse a larger portion of the estate as a punitive measure for fraud.Social Media Missteps: Many believe their posts are protected by "freedom of speech," but in court, photos of partying or spending can be used as evidence of parental unfitness or undisclosed income.Withholding Children: Using children as leverage by refusing visitation makes a parent look unstable to a judge and can lead to unfavorable custody rulings.Property, Debt, and the Family HomeAs a community property state, Texas law presumes that anything acquired during the marriage belongs to both spouses. This includes salaries and retirement contributions made during the marriage, even if an account is in only one name. The only way to protect these earnings as separate property is through a prenuptial agreement.When it comes to the family home, Abbie outlines two paths: one spouse buys the other out by paying 50% of the accrued equity, or the house is sold and the proceeds are split. Debt, including credit cards and car loans, is also generally divided 50/50, though a judge may assign more debt to a higher-earning spouse.Post-Divorce LogisticsThe legal work doesn't end when the judge signs the decree. Abbie emphasizes the importance of "tying up loose ends," such as filing a Special Warranty Deed to transfer home titles or obtaining a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) to divide retirement accounts.Contact: Laine Law Firm, PLLCAddress: 700 N Stanton St #200, El Paso, TX 79902Phone: 915-200-4316Website: https://lainelawfirm.com

Podcast Summary: Family Law, Divorce & Child Custody in El Paso with Attorney Abbie LaineIn this podcast episode, we sit down with Attorney Abbie Laine of Laine Law Firm, PLLC, a trusted family law attorney in El Paso, Texas, to discuss the real-world issues families face when dealing with divorce, child custody, child support, and enforcement of court orders. As a lifelong El Paso resident who returned home to serve the community, Abbie Laine shares practical insight into how the Texas family law system works and what clients should expect when they hire a divorce lawyer or child custody attorney in El Paso.The conversation begins with an overview of family law in Texas, including contested and uncontested divorces, custody disputes, child support calculations, spousal support, protective orders, and post-divorce modifications. Abbie explains that family law cases in El Paso are handled under the Texas Family Code and assigned to one of several local family courts, with hearings sometimes conducted in person and sometimes via Zoom depending on the judge.A major focus of the episode is divorce in El Paso, TX. Abbie outlines the required 60-day waiting period for divorce in Texas and explains how uncontested divorces can be completed relatively quickly when both parties agree on property division and parenting arrangements. For contested divorces involving children or disputed assets, she notes that cases may take several months or longer. She also emphasizes the importance of hiring an experienced El Paso divorce attorney early in the process, warning that representing yourself (“pro se”) can lead to costly mistakes that are difficult to fix later.The podcast also covers child support in Texas, including how support is calculated using statutory guidelines based on a percentage of income, as well as how support can be offset in shared custody situations. Abbie discusses child custody laws in El Paso, explaining that courts make custody decisions based on the best interest of the child, often seeking to maintain stability and continuity in a child's life whenever possible. This is where having a knowledgeable child custody lawyer in El Paso can play a critical role in presenting a parent's case effectively.Finally, the episode addresses enforcement of court orders, including what parents can do when child support is not paid or visitation orders are violated. Abbie explains how enforcement actions in El Paso County can include remedies such as wage garnishment and contempt proceedings, helping parents protect their legal rights and ensure court orders are followed.Overall, this podcast provides valuable insight for anyone facing divorce, child custody disputes, child support issues, or family law enforcement matters in El Paso, Texas. Laine Law Firm, PLLC remains committed to guiding local families through difficult legal situations with professionalism, communication, and strong advocacy.Laine Law Firm, PLLCAddress: 700 N Stanton St #200, El Paso, TX 79902Phone: 915-200-4316Website: https://lainelawfirm.com/

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Welcome to A Year and a Day. I'm Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this episode, I sit down with Autumn Dubois, founder and principal agent of Dubois Property Group, to discuss the strategic management of one of your most significant financial assets during a divorce: the family home.Autumn shares her expertise on navigating the intersection of real estate and divorce, explaining why she views her role as "Switzerland"—a neutral third party dedicated to protecting the sale regardless of the conflict between spouses. We explore the importance of a tight listing strategy, why having a hard date in a separation agreement is the "absolute best scenario" for preventing delays, and how to manage the logistical hurdles of repairs and staging when homeowners are living separately.Together, we weigh the pros and cons of when one party wants to stay in the family home and discuss the financial "red flags" that might make selling a better move than a buyout, the complexities of loan assumptions in today's market, and transitioning into a "new chapter" purchase. Autumn also provides a checklist for coordinating with divorce attorneys to ensure closing disclosures and proceed directives align with legal requirements, helping you maximize your profit and move forward with clarity.Need help from Autumn? Learn more about her transition-specialized real estate services by visiting duboispropertygroup.com.If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting www.divorceistough.com.Like this show? Rate it here!While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.

Welcome to A Year and a Day. I'm Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this episode, I'm talking with Dr. Lee Baucom, a veteran relationship coach, therapist, and creator of the Save the Marriage System.Lee shares his perspective as a "recovering marriage therapist," explaining why traditional marriage counseling often fails by focusing on communication—the "plumbing"—rather than the underlying connection. He breaks down how marriages often hit a "pause button" during busy seasons of life, leading to a slow cascade of disconnection that mirrors the symptoms people mistake for the "reasons" for divorce.Together, we explore the concept of "The We"—viewing the marriage as a third entity or a team—and how this mindset shift can resolve conflicts over money, parenting, in-laws, and more. Lee reveals how one partner can unilaterally change the "dance" of a relationship to invite restoration, even when the other is emotionally withdrawn or "quietly quitting" the marriage. Whether you are looking to save your partnership or create a better  co-parenting relationship, Lee provides a roadmap for moving from high-conflict combat to connection.Need help from Lee? Discover his system and resources by visiting savethemarriage.com.If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting www.divorceistough.com.Like this show? Rate it here!While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.

Kevin Ellis, his mother, and his sister are accused of plotting to kill his brother-in-law so his sister could avoid a custody battle in the event of a divorce. His sister and now widow, Kathryn Restelli, has since pleaded guilty to her role and has taken the stand in the case against her brother. Hear her full direct examination from 1/20/2026 on this episode of the Court TV Podcast. For more on the Family Plot Murder Trial, Click HereWatch 24/7 Court TV LIVE Stream Today https://www.courttv.com/Join the Investigation Newsletter https://www.courttv.com/email/Court TV Podcast https://www.courttv.com/podcast/FOLLOW THE CASE:Facebook https://www.facebook.com/courttvTwitter/X https://twitter.com/CourtTVInstagram https://www.instagram.com/courttvnetwork/TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@courttvliveYouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/COURTTVWATCH +140 FREE TRIALS IN THE COURT TV ARCHIVE https://www.courttv.com/trials/ HOW TO FIND COURT TV https://www.courttv.com/where-to-watch/ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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The child custody system is hurting and impoverishing families while enriching special interests, warned Idaho Sen. Tammy Nichols (R) in this interview on Conversations That Matter with The New American magazine’s Alex Newman.  Nichols, who is part of a legislative task force looking into the matter, is proposing a series of reforms to deal with ... The post Child Custody Regime Needs Major Reform: Sen. Nichols appeared first on The New American.