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A lot of new managers tell me they're conflict avoidant and struggle to communicate directly when it feels like there's conflict brewing. If that's you, then this episode is for you. I've been reading a book, Dignity: The Essential Role It Plays in Resolving Conflict. The author is Dr. Donna Hicks, an Associate at the Weatherhead Center for International Affairs at Harvard University. She has worked as a conflict resolution specialist for years. In her book, she talks about dignity violations and describes these ten essential elements of dignity: Acceptance of Identity Inclusion Safety Acknowledgment Recognition Fairness Benefit of the Doubt Understanding Independence Accountability In today's episode you'll get introduced to these elements. I highly recommend reading her book in full! I've found it to be a helpful model for thinking in a new way about conflict, and how to heal from conflict. Dignity: The Essential Role It Plays in Resolving Conflict https://www.amazon.com/Dignity-Essential-Role-Resolving-Conflict/dp/030026142X/ Dr. Donna Hicks https://drdonnahicks.com/ **After the Episode** Join my course, Communication Strategies for Managers https://maven.com/kimnicol/communication-strategies For private coaching: https://kimnicol.com/ Follow me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimnicol/
This episode delves into the principles of human dignity and their relevance to social justice within the field of behavior analysis. Featuring insights from Nasiah Cirincione-Ulezi, Ph.D., BCBA-D, the discussion highlights the ethical considerations and responsibilities of behavior analysts in addressing racial injustice and equity. The episode emphasizes the necessity of ethical communication and conflict resolution strategies, aligning with the BACB's code of ethics. To earn CEUs for listening, click here, log in or sign up, pay the CEU fee, + take the attendance verification to generate your certificate! Don't forget to subscribe and follow and leave us a rating and review. Show Notes References and Resources: Hicks, D. (2011). Dignity: The Essential Role It Plays in Resolving Conflict. Yale University Press. Rosenberg, M. B. (2015). Nonviolent communication: A language of life (3rd edition). PuddleDancer Press.
Join us for an insightful interview with Dr. Donna Hicks, author of Dignity: The Essential Role It Plays in Resolving Conflict. We'll discuss how leading with dignity is now a human imperative, the role dignity plays in the evolution of innovative, engaged cultures, and how easily dignity can slip through the organizational cracks. Learn the essential elements of dignity and how they can transform your organizational culture.
Join us for an insightful interview with Dr. Donna Hicks, author of Dignity: The Essential Role It Plays in Resolving Conflict. We'll discuss how leading with dignity is now a human imperative, the role dignity plays in the evolution of innovative, engaged cultures, and how easily dignity can slip through the organizational cracks. Learn the essential elements of dignity and how they can transform your organizational culture.
Whether a conflict involves international powers, corporate leadership, or a husband and wife, a violation of dignity is always the underlying cause. No matter the situation, we are all looking to be treated as if we have worth and value, and it is this fundamental desire for dignity that makes us human. How can a better understanding of the principles of dignity help us improve our relationships and address conflicts in a way that doesn’t perpetuate a destructive dynamic? Donna Hicks has 20-plus years of experience as a facilitator in international conflicts in the Middle East, Sri Lanka, Colombia, Cuba, Northern Ireland and the US. Her understanding of dignity and the role it plays in resolving conflict has transformed work environments for prominent companies, nonprofits and government agencies, and Donna’s impressive client roster includes the World Bank, the United Nations, the US Navy and the Senate of Colombia. She was a featured speaker at TEDx Stormont in 2013 and co-host of Facing the Truth for the BBC with Archbishop Desmond Tutu in 2006. Donna is the author of the bestseller Dignity: The Essential Role It Plays in Resolving Conflict, and she has been invited to discuss the topic on prominent media outlets including the BBC, Fox News and NPR. Today, Donna sits down with Katherine to explain how her work with international conflict resolution translates to families. She discusses the universal desire to be treated as if we matter as the one aspiration that unites us all. Donna speaks to the concept of dignity within the context of marriage, describing how self-preservation instincts make it difficult to give our partners the benefit of the doubt and apologize for dignity violations. Listen in for insight around the technique of ‘getting up on the balcony’ to reflect on your behavior and pausing for 90 seconds before responding to a dignity violation. Topics Covered How Donna’s work with international conflict translates to families The universal desire to be treated as someone with value, worth How a dignity violation is the underlying cause of every conflict Donna’s insight around dignity as the aspiration that unites us all The concept of dignity in the framework of marriage How external pressures undermine our sense of dignity for our partners The idea of attribution error in the context of marriage The benefit of the doubt as an essential element of honoring dignity How the desire to get even is prompted by self-preservation instinct The technique of ‘getting up on the balcony’ to reflect on your behavior How the brain responds to dignity violations the same as physical harm The value in pausing for 90 seconds before responding to a violation The challenge of apologizing in spite of the instinct to eliminate a threat How to provide feedback about how you were hurt without returning harm Connect with Donna Hicks Donna’s Website: http://drdonnahicks.com/ Declare Dignity: https://declaredignity.com/ Resources Dignity: The Essential Role It Plays in Resolving Conflict by Donna Hicks: https://www.amazon.com/Dignity-Essential-Role-Resolving-Conflict/dp/0300188056 Swimmy by Leo Lionni: https://www.amazon.com/Swimmy-Leo-Lionni/dp/0399555501 Facing the Truth: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hxPseZEGMCI My Stroke of Insight: A Brain Scientist’s Personal Journey by Jill Bolte Taylor: https://www.amazon.com/My-Stroke-Insight-Scientists-Personal-ebook/dp/B0019IB0II Connect with Katherine Miller Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@westchesterfamilylaw.com Call (914) 738-7765
Two Harvard scholars with recent books are featured in this edition of Peace Talks Radio. Steven Pinker, author of The Better Angels of Our Nature: Why Violence Has Declined, says we seem to be living in one of the most peaceful eras in human history, despite the level of violence still at play in the world. He talks about his research. Then Donna Hicks talks about her book Dignity: The Essential Role It Plays in Conflict Resolution. She spells out 10 essentials for showing each other dignity and the 10 most common pitfalls. Two engaging interviews. Paul Ingles hosts.
Two Harvard scholars with recent books are featured in this edition of Peace Talks Radio. Steven Pinker, author of The Better Angels of Our Nature: Why Violence Has Declined, says we seem to be living in one of the most peaceful eras in human history, despite the level of violence still at play in the world. He talks about his research. Then Donna Hicks talks about her book Dignity: The Essential Role It Plays in Conflict Resolution. She spells out 10 essentials for showing each other dignity and the 10 most common pitfalls. Two engaging interviews. Paul Ingles hosts.
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Dr. Donna Hicks is the author of the book, Dignity: The Essential Role It Plays in Resolving Conflict and Associate at the Weatherhead Center for International Affairs at Harvard. Get the transcript for this interview here.