Podcasts about collaborative divorce

Divorce can disrupt every aspect of your life—your home, finances, and family dynamic. Clarity is key to navigating this challenge successfully. In this episode, I sit down with Andrea Vacca, a leading New York divorce attorney and expert in collaborative divorce, to explore essential steps for a smoother process. We discuss understanding your legal rights, organizing financials, initiating the conversation with your spouse, and co-parenting, especially while living under the same roof. It's about starting strong, staying child-focused, and minimizing conflict. Andrea also shares strategies for setting boundaries, improving communication, and avoiding court through a collaborative divorce approach. If you're feeling overwhelmed, know that with the right mindset, you can navigate this transition with confidence and dignity. Andrea Vacca is the founder of Vacca Law and Mediation, specializing in non-adversarial divorce and family law. A certified mediator and collaborative divorce attorney, she's committed to helping clients achieve peaceful resolutions, protect their families, and move forward without unnecessary conflict. Resources Mentioned in this episode: FREE Pre-Divorce Checklist - https://www.vaccalaw.com/pre-divorce-checklist/ Join the FREE April 16th Workshop: Overcoming Divorce Fear and Paralysis - https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/overcoming-divorce-fear Learn more about Pre-Divorce Guidance: https://www.vaccalaw.com/pre-divorce-guidance/ A word from our sponsor: TalkingParents provides a comprehensive platform designed to simplify co-parenting and enhance communication between parents. With secure messaging, a shared calendar, and features for tracking parenting time, TalkingParents ensures that all important details and agreements are documented and accessible.  We're grateful for TalkingParents' support in simplifying co-parenting and enhancing communication for our listeners. Discover how TalkingParents can bring clarity and organization to your co-parenting journey at www.talkingparents.com/jbd  

Divorce doesn't have to be a war zone.In this episode, I sit down with three top professionals in the collaborative divorce field—Suzy Eckstein (family law attorney), Natalie Goldberg (divorce coach & child specialist), and Margie Hofberg (mortgage expert)—to break down how collaborative law offers a healthier, more solution-focused approach to divorce.Listen in as we discuss how this method fosters better co-parenting, financial clarity, and long-term stability for families.You'll learn the benefits of this approach, why having a well-structured divorce agreement is crucial, and how the collaborative process can help even the most contentious divorces.For show notes and more, visit: https://tinyurl.com/yn32zfj7

Divorce is often seen as a turbulent chapter in life, overshadowed by feelings of fear, separation, and scarcity. But what if we could rethink this transition as an opportunity for positive growth? Just as marriage begins with love, unity, and prosperity, divorce can also be guided by these powerful energies.In this episode, I'll share key points of a presentation I attended, where a Florida circuit court judge discussed his role and some of the limitations that he faces as he presides over a docket of cases within the family court. Listen in to learn how to bring positive energy into divorce, as well as how collaborative divorce can remove the adversarial approach of the traditional legal battle.For show notes and more, visit: https://tinyurl.com/3nt9f8vu

If you're singing "Single Bells" this season or just need some tips on how to take better care of yourself during the holiday rush, this episode is for you! Jenny Stevens, founder of Create Change Consultants, shares insights on how to navigate the challenges of the season and make your holidays the best they can be. As part of our special holiday archive series, we're resharing this episode to help you navigate the season with strength and resilience. If you're feeling the weight of solitude this holiday season, Jenny's advice will help you create a holiday experience that's filled with joy, meaning, and self-compassion. What You Will Discover in This Episode: How to handle feelings of loneliness and find joy during the holidays Tips for prioritizing self-care and emotional well-being during stressful times Practical strategies for making the most of the season on your own terms Ways to set boundaries and manage family expectations during holiday gatherings Jenny's advice for cultivating meaningful moments and celebrating yourself More About Our Special Guest Jenny Stevens: Jenny Stevens is a licensed clinical professional counselor and a Personal and Professional Coach, known for her honest, approachable, and no-nonsense style. With a deep passion for helping others, Jenny empowers her clients to create the changes they've always wanted but didn't have the right roadmap to make happen. Drawing on her extensive background in counseling and coaching, she provides the clarity and tools needed to navigate personal and professional challenges with confidence and ease. Jenny holds a Master's in Professional Counseling from Argosy Chicago and a B.A. in Health and Fitness Promotion from Texas Christian University. She also completed Mediation Skills Training at Northwestern University and is a licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in the state of Illinois. In 2023, Jenny was honored as a Fellow in Collaborative Divorce, further expanding her expertise in helping individuals through complex life transitions. With a wealth of experience and a heartfelt commitment to her clients, Jenny is dedicated to helping them achieve lasting transformation and success. Website: https://jennystevenscoach.com Social Media: http://instagram.com/jennystevens_coach Make the Most of Your Listening Experience: If this episode resonates with you, be sure to: Subscribe to Divorce & Beyond so you never miss an episode. Share this episode with friends or loved ones who need hope and healing. Leave a 5-star review to help us reach even more listeners. Follow Us Online: Divorce & Beyond:  https://divorceandbeyondpod.com, IG: @divorceandbeyond MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, has been nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country for more than 30 years.  Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://susaneguthrie.com Divorce & Beyond is a Top 1% Overall and Top 100 Self-Help podcast designed to help you with all you need to know to navigate your divorce journey and most importantly, to thrive in your beautiful beyond!   ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show and reach our large community of those going through and healing from divorce, please reach out to us at  divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!! ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

In today's episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, we dive deep into the collaborative divorce process with Lucia Levias, a family law attorney specializing in this approach. We discuss what collaborative divorce is, how it differs from traditional litigation, and whether it might be the right choice for your situation. Lucia shares the benefits of this process, including cost savings and a more peaceful resolution, while also addressing who is best suited for this approach and the potential pitfalls to watch out for.In this episode, you'll learn:The basics of collaborative divorce and how it worksHow collaborative divorce can potentially save you money compared to traditional litigationWhat professionals are involved in a collaborative divorce and how they support the processWhen a collaborative divorce may or may not be right for youHow to approach your spouse about considering a collaborative divorceThe importance of being aligned with your spouse for this process to succeedReal-life examples of how collaborative divorce can help resolve tough issues like spousal support and parenting plansLucia's website: https://duboislaw.net/Our Divorce Crash Course was designed to hold your hand through the process and help you avoid major and expensive mistakes. Learn more here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-courseOur Family Wizard is another fantasitc resource for those who need help navigating the "fun" world of coparenting. Head to this landing page to see how we work closely with them to support our listeners! http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuckFriends, slide into our dms, we love love love hearing from you. We are always here to listen and help in any way we can. You've got this and we've got you.Instagram: @hownotosuckatdivorceFollow Andrea: @theandrearappaportFollow Morgan: @divorceattorneychicago

Send Us a Message (include your contact info if you'd like a reply)In this week's episode, we're exploring why empathy is so challenging in the context of divorce, why it's a key factor in conflict resolution and negotiation, and what can be done to foster it.One of the primary reasons empathy is so challenging during divorce and co-parenting is the intensity of emotions involved. Big feelings like anger, betrayal, resentment, injustice and more can invoke our natural instinct is to protect ourselves. Also, the legal process and the adversarial nature of divorce proceedings can create an environment of competition rather than cooperation where any show of empathy might be seen as weakness.Listen in as Tracy and Debra talk about the role of empathy in divorce and the 7 tools we can use to effectively use empathy strategically to improve outcomes for families. Learn more about DCA® or any of the classes or events mentioned in this episode at the links below:Website: www.divorcecoachesacademy.comInstagram: @divorcecoachesacademyLinkedIn: divorce-coaches-academyEmail: DCA@divorcecoachesacademy.com

Going through a divorce is one of the most challenging life experiences. I know this firsthand, having navigated my divorce after 26 years of marriage and raising four children. It's a process that can leave you feeling vulnerable and unsure about your future.Educating yourself about the process is key to making the right decision for you!In this episode, I sit down with Ann Grant, a divorce attorney, author, and entrepreneur, to dive into the emotional and legal aspects of divorce. Ann shares her own experience of going through a high-conflict divorce and how that shaped her desire to help others navigate their separations. We discuss the importance of finding the right divorce process, and Ann explains why the collaborative divorce approach can save money and emotional stress.Here's what you'll learn from this episode: The differences between traditional divorce litigation, mediation, and the collaborative process.  Why bringing in mental health professionals and child specialists can help avoid messy custody battles and save money when done right.Common mistakes people make during the divorce process and how to avoid them. How to navigate the hard financial decisions that come with divorce. Why it's important to empower yourself and not let emotions or revenge drive your decisions. This episode offers helpful advice if you're facing the possibility of divorce or want to know how to support someone going through it. Remember, divorce isn't the end; it can be the beginning of a more empowered and joyful life.Fly Free Freebirds,LaurieThese guides will help you take the next step in life. Click here to watch my FREE Intro to Somatic Healing Class Replay - Request permission to watch necessaryClick here to learn about my Monthly “Somatic Healing” class -RECOVERClick here for my FREE “Somatic Healing for Beginners Guide”Click here for my FREE Core Values ExerciseClick here to purchase my book: Sandwiched: A Memoir of Holding On and Letting GoSign up for my newsletter here to stay current on my upcoming offerings and podcast interviews!WebsiteConnect with Ann:Website: www.FamLawSC.comEmail: Ann@FamLawSC.comThe Divorce Hacker's Guide to Untying the Knot: What Every Woman Needs to Know about Finances, Child Custody, Lawyers, and Planning AheadSend us a text***************************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL, MEDICAL OR PROFESSIONAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT A LICENSED THERAPIST IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING SUICIDAL THOUGHTS. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT A LICENSED MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL WITH RESPECT TO ANY MEDICAL ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

Send Us a Message (include your contact info if you'd like a reply)One thing we've noticed this year is that the Olympians we admire most have some lessons to teach us about divorce and co-parenting including sportsmanship, teamwork, and how to handle stress, victory and defeat.Let's take Katie Ledecky for example. She is widely regarded as the greatest female swimmer of all time and one of the greatest Olympians of all time. At just 27 years old, she has won eight Olympic gold medals and 21 world championship gold medals. What sets Ledecky apart from her competitors is her incredible work ethic and unyielding determination.And Ledecky is just one of thousands of athletes who are showing us this level of dedication, sacrifice, and commitment to excellence and teaching us important lessons about teamwork, collaboration, managing stress, sportsmanship, the role of coaching, the importance of goals, and knowing when to retire.Listen in as Tracy and Debra chat about the 12 divorce and co-parenting lessons they're taking away from the Olympic athletes. Learn more about DCA® or any of the classes or events mentioned in this episode at the links below:Website: www.divorcecoachesacademy.comInstagram: @divorcecoachesacademyLinkedIn: divorce-coaches-academyEmail: DCA@divorcecoachesacademy.com

This episode focuses on helping individuals understand the collaborative divorce process and how it can offer a better perspective on financial management for all involved. I have the privilege of speaking with John LeMieux, co-founder and principal of Anton LeMieux Financial Group. With extensive credentials as a Certified Financial Planner and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, John brings decades of expertise to the table. In our conversation, he breaks down the collaborative divorce process, sharing its benefits and the roles of professionals involved. Discover why collaborative divorce might be the right path for you and how it can lead to more amicable resolutions.John shares his unique journey from working with family-owned businesses to pioneering the development of collaborative divorce in Maine. John sheds light on the role of financial consultants in both collaborative and traditional divorce processes, emphasizing the importance of understanding, empathy, and the distinction between fairness and equity. Whether you're navigating the stormy waters of divorce or simply interested in the financial dynamics involved, this episode offers invaluable insights and practical advice. Tune in as we explore how to ensure financial security and well-being during and after a divorce.About the Guest:Using his expertise and experience, John LeMieux has played a role in promoting the practice of "collaborative divorce" in Maine, where both parties involved are advised by legal counsel, a neutral financial expert, and a mental health professional. John has been guiding clients through the complex world of financial planning and investing since 1993. He is a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER TM professional and a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® professional.John was a founding member of the Maine Collaborative Law Alliance and is founder and the board president of the Amputee Association of Maine. He was a long-time board member and officer of the Institution of Family Owned Business.To connect with John:Website: www.antonlemieux.comAbout the Host: Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Thanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!Subscribe to the PodcastIf you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.Leave us an Apple Podcast ReviewRatings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

You might assume that mediators who specialize in prenups recommend them for everyone. But Laurie Israel is actually against prenuptial agreements for most couples. So, when should you consider creating a prenup? And how do you write one in a fair and loving way that strengthens the new marriage? Laurie is a collaborative lawyer and mediator based in Massachusetts, where she concentrates her practice exclusively on prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. Laurie also writes extensively about the art of mediating prenups, and she is the author of The Generous Prenup: How to Support Your Marriage and Avoid the Pitfalls. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Laurie joins Katherine to explain when a prenup is a good idea and when it isn't, discussing why it's inappropriate to think of a marriage as a business deal. Laurie shares her thoughts on prenups for inheritances, second marriages, and business owners, describing what to look for in a mediator to negotiate your agreement. Listen in for Laurie's insight on protecting both parties (not just the moneyed spouse) and learn how the right kind of prenup creates peace, certainty and fairness for all involved. Topics Covered Why Laurie is against prenuptial agreements for most couples When a prenup is a good idea and how it can create peace, certainty and fairness in those cases Why it's inappropriate to think of a marriage as a business deal Laurie's advice on what to look for in a mediator to negotiate your prenup Why Laurie suggests a prenup for second marriages and marriages involving children from previous relationships How Laurie thinks about building a prenup or postnup for business owners How fairness in a prenup is influenced by the laws in your particular state When it might be appropriate to draft a postnuptial agreement Laurie's thoughts on the complexities of money and marriage Laurie's loving approach to prenups that protect both people in a marriage (not just the moneyed spouse) How to address student loans and inheritances in a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement Providing for the surviving spouse when a marriage ends in death Connect with Laurie Israel Laurie Israel Law and Mediation: https://www.laurieisrael.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources The Generous Prenup by Laurie Israel: https://www.laurieisrael.com/book/ Ten Things I Hate About Prenuptial Agreements: https://www.laurieisrael.com/ten-things-i-hate-about-prenuptial-agreements/

In Episode 44 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I discuss the legal costs of divorce. I look at four different divorce processes; traditional litigious divorce through the courts, Collaborative Divorce, mediation and the Amicable Divorce Network and discuss the financial costs of each. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!

In the early days of her family law practice, Heather Quick noticed a troubling pattern among the women she represented. Women often undervalued what they brought to the marriage and failed to stand up for themselves in the divorce process. So, what can women do to change their mindset around divorce and fight for what they deserve? Heather Quick is Founder and CEO of Florida Women's Law Group, the only divorce and family law firm in Northeast Florida that serves women exclusively. Consistent with her message of women's empowerment, Heather has published several books on divorce and business, including Women's Guide to Divorce in Florida and Women's Guide to Becoming a Successful Entrepreneur. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Heather joins Katherine to discuss the unique challenges facing women in divorce, from stay-at-home moms to female breadwinners. Heather explains how women compromise on finances to protect their children and why that's a bad idea, challenging couples to stop using their children as a negotiating tool in divorce. Listen in to understand how entrepreneurship can help women own their financial destiny and learn how FWLG advocates for women before, during and after divorce. Topics Covered What inspired Heather to focus on helping women stand up for themselves in divorce Why women tend to undervalue what they bring to a marriage What issues affect women in particular during the divorce process How women compromise on finances in divorce to protect their children (and why they shouldn't) The danger in using your children as a negotiating tool in divorce Common issues facing female breadwinners in divorce, e.g.: custody, alimony, etc. How Heather's books educate and empower women before, during and after divorce Heather's experience working with a team of all women at Florida Women's Law Group How Heather benefits from having a divorce coach on her team What motivated Heather to expand her focus to helping women excel as entrepreneurs Connect with Heather Quick Florida Women's Law Group: https://www.floridawomenslawgroup.com/ Women Winning Divorce Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/685277376560289 Women Winning Divorce Podcast: https://womenwinningdivorce.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources Women's Guide to Divorce in Florida by Heather Brooke Quick, Esq.: https://www.amazon.com/Womens-Guide-Divorce-Florida-Advantage/dp/150323326X Is Divorce Right for You? by Heather B. Quick, Esq.: https://www.amazon.com/Divorce-Right-You-Guide-Determine-ebook/dp/B00NH2QK1G/ Women's Guide to Becoming a Successful Entrepreneur by Heather B. Quick, Esq.: https://www.amazon.com/Womens-Guide-Becoming-Successful-Entrepreneur/dp/1511734655/ Julie Rountree on Divorce Dialogues: https://miller-law.com/podcast/the-missing-professional-from-a-divorce-litigation-team/ Changes to Florida's Divorce Law: https://www.attorneylauraolson.com/an-overview-of-floridas-new-alimony-law-elimination-of-permanent-alimony/

If you're going through a divorce, writing a love letter is probably the last thing on your mind. But Jennifer Lee, AWMA, AIF, suggests that sharing your values and hopes for the future in a family love letter to your children is a good first step for financial planning in divorce. So, how does a love letter help you set meaningful financial goals and make better money decisions? Jennifer is the founder of Modern Wealth, a Sarasota-based financial firm with a focus on helping individuals in transition, and author of Squeeze the Juice: Live with Purpose, Then Leave a Legacy. Jennifer brings a fresh perspective on the financial planning process by digging deep to understand her clients' values and helping them use money as a tool to accomplish their dreams. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Jennifer joins Katherine to share the personal experience that inspired her idea for a family love letter in the financial planning process. Jennifer explains why financial anxiety is such a common issue in the divorce process and challenges us to see money as a tool to reach our goals—not the goal itself. Listen in to understand how Jennifer supports the ‘non-moneyed' spouse in settlement negotiations and learn how Squeeze the Juice can help you make informed financial decisions in divorce. Topics Covered Why Jennifer includes writing a family love letter in the financial planning process Thinking of money as a tool to accomplish our dreams vs. the goal itself What drove Jennifer's father to communicate his values in a kind of family love letter Why anxiety around money is such a common issue in the divorce process How Jennifer helps the non-moneyed spouse in a divorce make financial decisions The danger in rushing through divorce negotiations because you want it to be done What experiences inspired Jennifer to write her book, Squeeze the Juice How your money story impacts the way you navigate financial decisions The 2 most important chapters in Squeeze the Juice for people going through divorce What it means to be the non-moneyed spouse in divorce (and what it doesn't mean) Why there's a power imbalance in divorce negotiations for the non-moneyed spouse Connect with Jennifer Lee Modern Wealth: https://modern-wealth.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources Squeeze the Juice by Jennifer Lee: https://squeezethejuicebook.com/

New EasYoga Podcast Episode 163 - Join Gemma in this episode where she talks to special Nanci A. Smith, Esq.Nanci is an attorney licensed to practice in Vermont and New York. She is the chair of the Collaborative Divorce section of the Vermont Bar Association, a leader in her collaborative divorce practice group, and a member of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals. She frequently writes and talks about divorce, family law, ethics, and collaborative divorce practices. She believes that a good divorce is possible when you show up for it with humility, compassion, and the correct support. Nanci is the author of Untangling Your Marriage: A Guide to Collaborative Divorce (Rowman & Littlefield Publishers, Oct 11, 2022). You can find more out about Nanci here:Learn more at nancismithlaw.com. NANCI PHONE 802-249-7313 (c)NANCI EMAIL nanci@nancismithlaw.comNANCI WEBSITE: https://nancismithlaw.com/SOCIAL MEDIA:https://www.facebook.com/DivorceUntangldhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/nanciasmith/https://twitter.com/DivorceUntangldhttps://www.instagram.com/divorceuntangled/Easyoga Podcast was voted #2 of the Best 15 UK Yoga Podcasts by Feedspot in October 2021. Go check it out. https://blog.feedspot.com/uk_yoga_podcasts/Podcast Ad's Affiliate LinksGrab yourself a coupon code to the affiliate links below.Confused Girl LA use code 'Yogigemma' at the checkouthttps://confusedgirlinthecity.com/Zencore Yoga use code 'Yogigemma15' at the checkouthttps://zencoreyoga.com/Tovi Gifts use code 'Yogigemma10' at the checkouthttps://tovigifts.com/Have a great day and as always, let me know your thoughts by leaving a comment below also please make sure to subscribe to this podcast.Did You Know...That You Only Need To Move Your Body For 30 Minutes Per Day 3 Times Per Week To Feel Awesome And Shift That Stressed Weight.Discover The #1 Secret Which Is 100% FREE!https://www.easyoga.co.uk/accessnow100percentfreeHave a great day and as always, let me know your thoughts by leaving a comment below also please make sure to subscribe to this podcast.Connect with Gemma via her website and social platforms:Calendly Link https://calendly.com/gemmahayleyniceWebsite is : https://www.gemmanice.comParadise Movement Website: https://www.paradisemvmnt.com/share/Ly1OUBA_tiXtCizF?utm_source=manualSocial Platforms:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/gemmahayleynice/Pintrest – https://www.pinterest.co.uk/GemmaHayleyNice/YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3AzNc6oBLzanU-MgZsd-6ATwitter – https://twitter.com/GemmaHayleyNiceLinkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/gemmanicerelationshipcoach/EasYoga Podcast - https://link.chtbl.com/BUafvby8Insight Timer Meditation App - https://insighttimer.com/yogigemma

Virtually everyone who works in the divorce industry will agree that the court system is broken and often does more harm than good for those facing divorce. Unless your situation is extreme and needing the heavy hand of the court, there are significantly better, more amicable approaches to dissolving your marriage such as mediation and the collaborative process. Family lawyer, Andrea Vacca, joins to discuss.

Asking your partner for a divorce is challenging under any circumstances. But the conversation can be downright dangerous if you're leaving an abusive spouse. In fact, upwards of 70% of women who leave an abusive spouse are murdered. So, what resources are available to victims of intimate partner violence? How do you mitigate the risks associated with divorcing an abuser? Beverly Price is the driving force behind Her Empowered Divorce, a coaching practice that has supported thousands of women facing the most challenging aspects of divorce. Beverly is also the visionary behind the Divorce Coalition, a network of divorce professionals and survivor advocates united to transform the landscape of domestic abuse. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Beverly joins Katherine to explore the impact of domestic abuse in divorce and explain why you shouldn't leave an abuser without a safety plan. Beverly discusses the benefit of having a divorce coach, describing how she offers clients education and preparation around the process to reduce their anxiety. Listen in for Beverly's insight into the many forms of abuse and learn how survivors of domestic partner violence can work through the divorce process safely and with adequate support. Topics Covered The benefit of divorce coaching that goes beyond emotional management How education and preparation for divorce reduces the anxiety associated with the process Why Beverly suggests hiring an attorney, financial professional and divorce coach How Beverly's personal experiences inform her work as a divorce coach Divorce Coalition's work to improve abuse survivors' experiences in the court process The many forms of domestic abuse, i.e.: physical, financial, sexual, legal, emotional, etc. Why you shouldn't leave an abuser until you have support and a safety plan How Beverly coaches people through the conversation of asking for a divorce The statistics re: the number of men and women who experience intimate partner violence Beverly's advice on documenting abuse to prepare for divorce litigation Connect with Beverly Price Her Empowered Divorce: https://herempowereddivorce.com/ Her Empowered Divorce Podcast: https://herempowereddivorce.com/podcast Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/

Is your relationship causing you a great deal of stress? Do you suspect that your partner has a diagnosable mental illness? In such a challenging situation, it's human nature to blame the other person in the relationship. To label their behavior as wrong and ask, ‘Why won't they change?' But if their mental health is in question, they may not be able to change. And the better question is, ‘What is YOUR next right step?' Judy Herman is a mental health professional and relationship wellness advocate dedicated to equipping high-achieving women in the helping professions go from trauma drama into vibrant karma. Judy is also the host of Better Relationships, Better Life: The Podcast and author of Beyond Messy Relationships and Relationships with Purpose. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Judy joins Katherine to explain how her personal experience as a twice-divorced relationship therapist inspired her to write Relationships with Purpose. Judy discusses what differentiates someone with self-centered characteristics from a diagnosable narcissist and shares questions to ask yourself if you're married to someone with mental illness. Listen in for Judy's insight on shifting your attitude toward your partner from judgement to curiosity and learn strategies for staying grounded during challenging interactions in any relationship. Topics Covered How Judy's own challenging relationships inspired her to write her first book The identity crisis Judy faced as a twice-divorced relationship therapist What differentiates someone with self-centered characteristics from a diagnosable narcissist What questions to ask yourself if you're married to someone with mental illness How to shift your attitude toward your partner from judgement to curiosity Judy's strategies for staying grounded in challenging interactions with your partner Why Judy suggests getting professional help if you're feeling shame around your relationship Judy's deep breathing exercises for navigating intense interpersonal situations Connect with Judy Herman Judy's Website: https://www.judycounselor.com/ Better Relationships, Better Life: The Podcast: https://www.judycounselor.com/podcast/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources Beyond Messy Relationships by Judy K. Herman: https://www.judycounselor.com/product/premier-author-signed-single-book/ Relationships with Purpose by Judy K. Herman: https://www.judycounselor.com/relationships-with-purpose/ Brene Brown: https://brenebrown.com/ My Lovely Wife in the Psych Ward by Mark Lukach: https://www.marklukach.com/book Judy's Relationship Stress Quiz: https://www.judycounselor.com/ Judy's From Chaos to Calm Online Course: https://www.judycounselor.com/jumpstart-emotionally-safe-conversations/

In this bonus episode, host Erica Bennett welcomes collaborative divorce attorney Kristen Goss to unpack the intricate world of collaborative divorce.  As they explore this alternative path to traditional divorce proceedings, Kristen shares insights on building a team of professionals tailored to support families without additional costs.  They delve into personal stories, emphasize the importance of understanding motivations in negotiations, and discuss tailoring settlements for each family's needs.  Both women underscore the value of taking time in the divorce process, the emotional toll involved, and the advantages of trial runs for co-parenting schedules.  Join us in The Crazy Ex-Wives Club for a conversation that promises legal wisdom, emotional guidance, and empowerment—tools essential for navigating the complexities of ending a marriage with grace and collaboration. Enjoy this season's bonus episode, and make sure to subscribe to The Crazy Ex-Wives Club podcast to get Season Three sent right to your phone.  Season Three Starts Jan 10th, 2024. Visit www.thecrazyexwivesclub.com for Full Transcripts Learn more about This Week's Guest, Kirsten Goss Kristen Goss is the founder and managing partner of KWG Family Legal and Mediation Services, LLC. Her areas of focus include Divorce, Child Support, Timesharing, Adoption, Surrogacy, Dependency, Wills, Trusts, Probate, and Guardianship. https://kwglaw.net/ INSTAGRAM FACEBOOK --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/the-crazy-ex-wives-club/support

If you aren't fully informed about your finances in marriage, you can't negotiate from a level playing field in divorce. That's why Adrienne Grace is committed to helping women with what she calls holistic financial planning. So, what is holistic financial planning? How can it help you negotiate a realistic divorce settlement and build a plan for the future? Adrienne is the Women's Wealth Advocate and Holistic Financial Planner behind Transitioning Finances, a platform where she guides women and couples to successfully negotiate divorce settlements, survive financial transitions and rebuild afterward. Adrienne has 30-plus years of experience working in every area of the financial world, and she is passionate about helping you overcome your financial challenges and move empowered into the next phase of your life. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Adrienne joins Katherine to discuss why the inability to communicate about money is often the cause of divorce. Adrienne explains how she helps people understand the relative value of their assets and empowers them with the confidence to negotiate a divorce settlement. Listen in for Adrienne's advice on ‘talking to your honey about money' early in the relationship and learn how to design a holistic spending and savings plan to ensure your financial security in divorce. Topics Covered The personal experiences that led to Adrienne's work helping people through transitions How Adrienne defines holistic financial planning as looking at money as it relates to your life Why the inability to communicate about money is often the cause of divorce Adrienne's advice around talking to your honey about money before you get married Why Adrienne suggests setting aside private time to talk with your partner about money How women who are not fully informed about their finances struggle to negotiate a divorce settlement How Adrienne helps people understand the relative value of their assets Why it's crucial to design a spending + savings plan with a realist view of what it costs to live How Adrienne empowers people with the confidence to negotiate their divorce settlement Adrienne's experiences helping people find hidden assets in the divorce process Connect with Adrienne Grace Transitioning Finances: https://adriennegrace.com/ Adrienne on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenswealthadvocate/ Adrienne on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adrienne-rothstein-grace-cdfa/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources From We to Me: A Financial Guide to Divorce by Adrienne Grace: https://adriennegrace.com/adriennes-books/ I'm Divorced. Now What? by Adrienne Grace: https://www.amazon.com/Im-Divorced-Now-What-Guide/dp/B0C6W6HX5Y Adrienne's Blog on Talking to Your Honey About Money: https://adriennegrace.com/remarriage-living-together-second-time-around/ Adrienne's Divorce Academy Online Course:https://adriennegrace.com/classes_and_courses/

As a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Jesse Deason helps individuals and couples make informed financial decisions during and after divorce. On today's episode, she walks us through: Collecting the financial data needed in a divorce How she helps clients weigh short-term vs. long-term needs when evaluating asset division scenarios What to consider when deciding whether to keep or sell a home during divorce How she helps clients stay focused on facts and take the emotion out of financial decision-making What the Collaborative Divorce meeting process looks like in Washington State and much more! If you are thinking about divorce or in the midst of it, you'll find so much useful information in this episode! Jesse also hosts the monthly Washington Divorce Workshop, a virtual educational workshop about divorce in our state. //Connect with Jesse Serene Divorce //Connect with Meg For more information on Meg's private co-parenting coaching practice and free resources for improving your co-parenting relationship, visit https://meggluckman.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/welcometotheotherside/message

For Sara Horowitz, practicing Family Law and Collaborative Divorce is a calling. Her North Star is helping families and children through divorce and adoption with kindness, education, and integrity. Sara has built a reputation for results by focusing her legal efforts on uncontested and collaborative dissolutions of marriage, child and spousal support, child timesharing, property division, paternity, and stepparent, relative, and foster care adoptions.   Sara graduated summa cum laude from the University of Florida in Gainesville with a Bachelor of Arts in Business Administration and a Minor in Criminology. She went on to receive her JD from UF Levin College of Law, with honors.   In this episode, Kris Flammang talks to Sara Horowitz about her transition from traditional litigation to collaborative and uncontested divorce resolutions. She shares her decade-long experience in family law, emphasizing the emotional toll of litigation on families, particularly children. Sara discusses the benefits of collaborative divorce, a non-adversarial process involving a professional team working together to help spouses reach resolutions outside of court. She encourages clients to consider alternatives to the traditional adversarial process, promoting open communication, collaboration, and a focus on the well-being of the family unit.   Sarah highlights her commitment to directly working with clients, providing care, compassion, and dignity throughout the process. She manages expectations and emotions by collaborating with a neutral facilitator in the collaborative process, ensuring transparent communication and avoiding surprises. The podcast delves into misconceptions about divorce, Sarah's passion for educating clients about collaborative and uncontested options, and her vision for the future, which includes growing the collaborative process in her practice.   Here is what to expect on this week's show: ·       Alternative to Traditional Litigation: Listeners will gain an understanding of how collaborative divorce involves a professional team working together to help spouses reach resolutions outside of court, with a focus on reducing emotional and financial stress.   ·       Navigating Emotional Challenges: Explore the emotional toll of litigation on families, especially children. Learn about the role of a neutral facilitator in managing emotions, promoting open communication, and ensuring that both spouses are well-prepared for discussions during the collaborative process.   ·       Benefits of Uncontested Divorce: Insights Into the benefits of this approach, which involves negotiations between spouses or attorneys and may include pre-suit mediation, ultimately streamlining the divorce process.   ·       The Solo Practitioner Approach: Emphasizing direct involvement with clients, which provides personalized legal services with care, compassion, and dignity, creating a supportive environment for clients going through significant life transitions.   ·       The Shifting Paradigm within the Legal Community: Getting more attorneys to embrace collaborative divorce principles. A glimpse into the potential future of family law resolutions.     Connect with Sara Horowitz https://horowitzlawpa.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What do you need to know about filing your taxes during or after divorce? Are asset transfers taxable? What about alimony and child support? Who claims the children? And what if your ex mishandled the finances and there's tax debt you knew nothing about? Tax Attorney Hubert Johnson is Founder of Guardian Tax Law, where he has assisted thousands of individuals and businesses dealing with IRS and state tax issues. Hubert lectures to tax professionals in seminars and training sessions across the country and has cowritten two books on tax debt resolution. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Hubert joins Katherine to answer your questions around tax issues in divorce, explaining where to go for tax information if your soon-to-be-ex handled the finances. Hubert walks us through the pros and cons of delaying divorce to file taxes jointly and discusses when asset transfers are a taxable event—and when they're not. Listen in for Hubert's insight on the tax rules around alimony and child support and learn where to go for help settling tax debt in the aftermath of divorce. Topics Covered The pros and cons of delaying divorce to file your taxes jointly Where to go for tax information if your ex-spouse handled the finances How to qualify as an ‘innocent spouse' if your partner fails to pay taxes Why the IRS pursues both parties equally for tax debt (filing jointly) When asset transfers are a taxable event and when they're not How to avoid capital gains on the sale of an asset in divorce When the IRS respects a marital settlement agreement Who should consider applying for ‘offer in compromise' with the IRS The state and federal tax rules re: alimony and child support What to do if your ex claims the children on their taxes but shouldn't Connect with Hubert Johnson Guardian Tax Law: https://guardiantaxlaw.com/ Guardian on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@guardiantaxlaw Guardian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/guardian-tax-law/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources IRS.gov

Newly married couples swear that they will love each other “till death do us part.” But for many couples, love ends far sooner than life. Half of first marriages and two-thirds of second marriages end in divorce. Is a happy ending still possible after a divorce? Collaborative divorce is a process of ending a marriage through cooperation and negotiation. Couples agree to work together with their respective attorneys to resolve differences and not go to court. Collaborative divorce usually includes the help of neutral third parties including a financial advisor and a mental health coach. Some of the advantages of collaborative divorce are that it is typically faster, cheaper and more amicable than traditional divorce. Burlington attorney Nanci Smith was a typical adversarial divorce lawyer for 30 years — a “shark.” But her combative style made her feel that she was deepening the misery of her already unhappy clients. She decided to change her approach and now specializes in collaborative divorce. Smith is the author of the book, “Untangling Your Marriage: A Guide to Collaborative Divorce.” “You have to come together to separate well,” insisted Smith. “You have an important primary relationship that was very, very valuable to you for many years and now it's not working anymore. So the question is, how do we untangle that? How do we move forward in a way that offers mutual respect and dignity?”  “A collaborative model is both a mindset and a process. The mindset is that you want to come to it with at least the hope that you could do this well and not screw up your children,” said Smith. “You can set a new narrative, which is that we are going to be better friends and co-parents than we were a married couple.”Collaborative divorce is not for everyone. Relationships where there is abuse or child endangerment, or cases in which a spouse is hiding assets may not lend themselves to collaboration. Martine Antell of Waterbury Center is a mother of two children who recently went through a collaborative divorce with her husband. “You just get to the point where you see the other person as this human being and you just want the best for them, just like you want the best for your kids and you want the best for yourself,” she said. Asked how she would characterize her relationship with her ex-husband following their collaborative divorce, Antell stopped to consider it. After a long pause, she replied, “I would call him a friend.”

Julie Rountree began her career as a divorce attorney. And she quickly realized that clients expected her to be both their legal advocate and counselor. But it was very difficult to wear both hats. Julie recognized that her clients needed someone to help them navigate the emotions of divorce. That's when she stumbled on divorce coaching and thought, ‘This is professional who's been missing from the divorce litigation team.' Today, Julie is the Certified Divorce Coach behind Divorce Coaching Solutions, a practice that helps clients navigate the frustration of divorce, grow their confidence, and transition into life beyond divorce. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Julie joins Katherine to discuss her role in helping people work through their emotions, articulate their goals, and manage expectations around divorce. Julie walks us through what a divorce coach does for their clients, describing how she helps people become and remain the best version of themselves through the process. Listen in for Julie's advice on managing your anger to focus on negotiating a settlement and learn how a family law attorney can benefit from teaming up with a divorce coach. Topics Covered What inspired Julie's transition from family law attorney to divorce coach Julie's role in helping clients manage their frustrations and expectations around divorce What a divorce coach can do for someone who's considering divorce or working through the process Julie's goal to help clients remain the best version of themselves through divorce Julie's advice to someone who's worried about how reentering the workforce will impact alimony Why spousal support can be a bitter pill to swallow for the breadwinner of a divorcing couple How family law attorneys can benefit from teaming up with a divorce coach Managing your anger in divorce to focus on negotiating a settlement Connect with Julie Rountree Divorce Coaching Solutions: https://www.mydivorcecoaches.com/ Divorce Coaching Solutions on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100078882049039 Julie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-anna-rountree-3967748/ Email julie@mydivorcecoaches.com Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765

We all assume that when we get divorced, things are going to get better. But when a marriage ends, communication is usually at a low point. And that communication style tends to stick, which causes ongoing conflict in the co-parenting relationship. So, what can you do to interrupt that conflict dynamic with your ex? How do you build a constructive, positive co-parenting relationship? Jenni Rock is the creator of Co-Parenting Without Conflict, a coaching practice that helps divorced parents exit toxic relationships and communicate in a way that prioritizes the needs of their children. Jenni brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise to the table, helping parents navigate the often-challenging terrain of co-parenting after a divorce. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Jenni joins Katherine to share the story of her own horrific divorce and explain how that experience informs her work in co-parenting conflict resolution. Jenni discusses the most common conflicts in co-parenting relationships and describes the consequences of using your children as a bartering tool. Listen in for Jenni's insight on navigating reactive feelings toward your ex and learn the first steps to changing the way you communicate and co-parenting without conflict! Topics Covered How Jenni's own horrific divorce informs her work in co-parenting conflict resolution Why divorced couples get stuck in the communication style at play when the marriage ended How Jenni helps people interrupt their conflict dynamic with an ex-spouse What differentiates a toxic relationship from a difficult moment in a relationship Blaming your partner vs. taking responsibility for what's not working in your relationship Jenni's insight on the most common conflicts in co-parenting relationships The consequences of using your children as a bartering tool in the divorce process What to consider before you hit SEND on a text or email to your ex-spouse Jenni's advice on what to do with reactive feelings you're tempted to fire at your ex How to set up a constructive, positive co-parenting relationship with your ex-spouse Connect with Jenni Rock Co-Parenting Without Conflict: https://coparentingwithoutconflict.com/home Email jennirock1@outlook.com The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765

When clients tell us that their goal is an amicable divorce, we wonder what their expectations are when they say that. What are they really anticipating their divorce experience will be like? So that's the topic of today's conversation. What does it mean to have an amicable divorce and if it's not amicable, then what is it? In 2014, Goop ( Gwyneth Paltrow's wellness and lifestyle brand) published an article titled “Conscious Uncoupling” and that started a new wave of thinking about how couples could do this thing called divorce. But it's also gotten a bit twisted over the years and many people have gotten the idea that an "amicable" divorce means being BFF's with your ex, having family dinners, and vacationing together.Somehow we've created this binary where a divorce is either amicable (meaning we get along all the time) or it's high conflict. But there's always conflict in divorce. So how can we work with clients to manage expectations when it comes to divorce conflict open them up to some new ways of thinking about what it means to be amicable?We'll review some powerful questions as well as some tools and strategies you can use with clients to explore:1.  The possibility that there is a wide space between being BFF's and being enemies2. The possibility that our client can show up amicably regardless of how their partner shows upWe believe an amicable divorce truly is possible for the majority of couples if we focus on those words pleasant, respectful and polite. And one key is working with your client to get past some of these limiting beliefs that the existence of conflict means that it's not amicable. Learn more about DCA™ or  any of the classes or events mentioned in this episode at the links below:Website: www.divorcecoachesacademy.comInstagram: www.instagram.com/divorcecoachesacademyLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/divorce-coaches-academyEmail: DCA@divorcecoachesacademy.com

Is There a Better Way to Divorce? In this episode of The Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie have an intriguing conversation with Nanci Smith about collaborative divorce and its advantages. She explains how collaborative divorce can be a positive alternative that promotes personal growth and healthy co-parenting with trust and respectful communication. Listen to this episode to learn how collaborative practices can transform a divorce journey for the better! For the full transcript, show notes, and resources, visit us at thriveinc.com

Do you suspect that your soon-to-be-ex-spouse is hiding money? If your partner is trying to avoid equitable distribution in a divorce settlement, they might be keeping assets from you or transferring money into a secret account. But is it necessary to hire a forensic accountant? Or can you do the job yourself? Tracey Coenen is a renowned forensic accountant and the brains behind the Divorce Money Guide. She is also the author of the book Find Me the Money and host of the podcast of the same name. Tracey is passionate about helping people who feel powerless in the divorce process regain their confidence and take control of their money. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Tracey joins Katherine to explain how to identify when your spouse is hiding money and where they might be keeping it. Tracey walks us through the common reasons why people hide money in a marriage and describes why financial infidelity is just as devastating as romantic infidelity—if not more. Listen in for Tracey's insight on initiating the conversation around money in your marriage and learn the first steps to educating yourself about the family finances in divorce. Topics Covered How your relationship with money impacts the way you handle finances in a marriage Why we need to change the language we use to talk about money in divorce How to identify when your spouse is hiding money and where they might be keeping it When to hire a forensic accountant (and when you can do the job yourself) How Tracey's Divorce Money Guide helps you understand the financial piece of divorce The most common reasons why people hide money in a marriage What makes financial infidelity just as devastating as romantic infidelity Why talking about money in a marriage is so challenging and how to initiate the conversation Why Tracey suggests listing all the accounts you know about as the first step in getting more financial information The benefit of regularly running a credit report on yourself and exchanging that information with your spouse What Tracey says to women who want to educate themselves about the family finances How knowing where you're spending gives you power to create the life you want Connect with Tracey Coenen Fraud Coach: https://www.fraudcoach.com/dd Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources Divorce Money Guide: https://www.fraudcoach.com/ Find Me the Money: Take Control, Uncover the Truth, and Win the Money You Deserve in Your Divorce by Tracey Coenen: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BYFCRMJR?&linkCode=sl1&tag=sequenceinc-20&linkId=ee67be01fe036601f36861168c84e524&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl Find Me the Money Podcast: https://www.fraudcoach.com/podcast

Joining Susan Guthrie on today's episode of Divorce & Beyond is Attorney Anthony Diaz! Believe it or not, there is more than one way to divorce - litigation is not always the answer. Anthony takes us behind the scenes of a consultation to understand the various divorce process options available. Once you know these options, you can make the best decision for your family and future.  Anthony J. Diaz, Esq, is a Family Law and Collaborative Divorce attorney and Florida Certified Family Law mediator specializing in resolving disputes easily, effortlessly, and amicably. Anthony has been Collaboratively trained since 2009, taken numerous advanced trainings, and collaborated on numerous cases.  Topics and Golden Nuggets include: When you go into your divorce consultation, have a summary of where you are and an idea of what life would look like after divorce. Anthony takes us through out-of-court options with no attorney involvement, some attorney involvement, or attorney + other professional involvement. Can divorcing couples consult with a divorce attorney together?   The most supportive out-of-court option: Collaborative divorce The difference between litigation and a collaborative approach to divorce  **************************************** About this week's special guest: Anthony Diaz Anthony J. Diaz, Esq, is a Family Law and Collaborative Divorce attorney and Florida Certified Family Law mediator specializing in resolving disputes easily, effortlessly and amicably. Anthony has been Collaboratively trained since 2009, taken numerous advanced trainings and collaborated numerous cases. He was selected as 1 of 21 participants of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals Leadership Academy. He is currently co-chair of the Florida Academy of Collaborative Professionals Outreach Committee. In his out of court practice, Anthony is known as The Peacemaker. He is passionate in supporting his clients to do divorce differently with many non-litigation options. As Collaborative attorney and mediator, Anthony utilizes his professional and personal experiences to guide others from pain to peace. He also helps others to resolve conflict with compassion and have relationships with passion and purpose. Anthony is also an international speaker whose passion, mission and purpose is to help those in pain to move on from their divorce with dignity. 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What story are you telling yourself about your divorce? Blaming your ex may seem justified, but that story only gets you stuck in a victim mentality with no control over your own life. So, how do you rewrite your story and start building an empowered life post-divorce? Kimberly Kelley is the neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) practitioner and hypnotherapist behind Reinvent Yourself, a program that helps newly single people create the life they want. She is also the author of No Blame No Shame: Living an Empowered Life After Divorce, where she describes the profound changes she made after her own marriage of 30 years came to an end. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Kimberly joins Katherine to discuss how the stories we tell ourselves affect our experience of divorce. Kimberly explains how the internal shame of another failed marriage drove her fears around what other people would think and describes how hypnotherapy empowered her to imagine a life beyond divorce. Listen in for Kimberly's advice on navigating a divorce you didn't choose and learn how NLP can help you reframe your divorce as a growth opportunity rather than a mistake! Topics Covered How NLP is the study of how we communicate with ourselves How we can leverage neuro-linguistic programming to live a more empowered life How the stories we tell ourselves affect our experience of divorce How Kimberly's internal shame drove her fears of what other people would think of her divorce Reframing your negative self-talk around divorce into something constructive How Kimberly helps people reframe their divorce story as a growth opportunity vs. a mistake Why blaming your ex-spouse puts you into a victim mentality Why Kimberly suggests exploring what you got out of your marriage How Kimberly uses hypnotherapy to help people imagine a life beyond divorce Kimberly's advice for navigating a divorce you didn't choose Connect with Kimberly Kelley Body Mind Spirit Healing Arts: https://kimberly-kelley.com/ Kimberly on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.dyer.kelley Email kimberlykelleyauthor@gmail.com Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources No Blame No Shame: Living an Empowered Life After Divorce by Kimberly Kelley: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C6YPXH3J?ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_9TSY3G3AE7589AQ5ARWK&tag=kpembed-20&linkCode=kpe Peggy McColl's Power Life Script: https://go.peggymccoll.com/powerlifescript-special-promotion

Wonder what your kids are experiencing during the divorce process? What if you could ask adult children of divorce for advice? Grace Casper became a child of divorce at the age of eight. By age 10, she had written the first draft of her book, Dear Parents: Notes from a Child of Divorce by Grace Casper. Today, Grace runs Divorce Tips from Kids, a platform dedicated to helping families navigate divorce, and hosts Divorce: What I Wish My Parents Knew, a podcast about divorce from the kids' perspective. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Grace joins Katherine to describe the pressure she felt to be the source of her parents' happiness after their divorce. Grace explains what inspired her to write about her parents' divorce and how we can apply Grace's story in Dear Parents to our own individual circumstances. Listen in for insight on the commoditization of kids in divorce negotiations and learn how Grace's resources can help you improve the experience of divorce for your children. Topics Covered What adult children of divorce would like to go back in time and tell their parents The pressure Grace felt to be the source of her parents' happiness after their divorce Why so many children of divorce see themselves as peacekeepers The power of apologizing to your child when you make a mistake as a parent What inspired Grace to journal about her parents' divorce when she was 10 years old How Grace turned her original 10 tips for kids into a book for divorced parents How Grace learned to let go of her bitterness & resentment and forgive her dad How you can apply Grace's advice in Dear Parents to your own situation How divorce lawyers, coaches and therapists can use Grace's resources to serve clients How Grace thinks about the commoditization of kids in divorce negotiations Grace's advice on keeping your children at the forefront of your thinking in divorce Connect with Grace Casper Divorce Tips from Kids: https://www.divorcetipsfromkids.com/ Divorce Tips on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcetipsfromkids/ Divorce Tips on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/divorcetipsfromkids/ Divorce: What I Wish My Parents Knew Podcast: https://www.divorcetipsfromkids.com/podcast Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources Dear Parents: Notes from a Child of Divorce by Grace Casper: https://www.divorcetipsfromkids.com/dear-parents-notes-from-a-child-of-divorce

Worried thoughts about the future generate anxiety. And divorce begets an uncertain future. So, it's no surprise that anxiety is such a common emotion in divorce. But how do you navigate that anxiety without getting overwhelmed in the process? Bernadette Purcell is Founder of Shore Behavioral Health, a practice that helps patients with anxiety disorders enjoy more fulfilling lives and supports individuals and couples through all phases of divorce. A licensed clinical social worker in private practice since 2008, Bernadette is also the author of Divorced as F* in Seven Spiritual Steps. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Bernadette joins Katherine to discuss how worry impacts the divorce process and what to do about it. Bernadette explains how to prevent worry from turning into anxiety, challenging you to surrender to the fact that divorce is happening and leverage acceptance to take the next right step for you. Listen in for insight on getting comfortable with uncertainty and learn Bernadette's top stress management interventions for managing the anxiety of divorce. Topics Covered How thoughts about the future generate anxiety Bernadette's strategy for bringing yourself back to the present moment How to prevent worry from turning into anxiety What inspired Bernadette to write Divorced as F* How Bernadette defines spirituality as learning something that resonates and then truly living it Why it's crucial to surrender to the fact that divorce is happening Why it's a mistake to discontinue stress management interventions when you start to feel better How anxiety impacts the divorce process Bernadette's advice for getting comfortable with uncertainty What to do if divorce is making you anxious about the future Connect with Bernadette Purcell Shore Behavioral Health: http://www.shorebehavioralhealth.net/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources Divorced as F* in Seven Spiritual Steps by Bernadette Purcell: https://www.bernadettepurcell.com/

Divorce makes us feel vulnerable. And many of us lawyer up and come out swinging to protect ourselves. But what if there's a more effective way to reach an agreement with your ex? What if a little self-reflection early on can help you improve the process of working with a divorce professional? Jacinta Gallant is a respected lawyer, mediator and educator recognized internationally for her innovative approach to conflict resolution training. Jacinta's Our Family in Two Homes resources for divorce professionals help their clients prepare for effective dispute resolution. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Jacinta joins Katherine to share her journey from cutthroat divorce litigator to effective mediator, describing how she leverages curiosity to understand clients on a deeper level and deliver what they need. Jacinta walks us through the reflection questions she encourages people to ask themselves before they meet with a divorce lawyer and explains how divorce attorneys serve clients better when they don't pretend to have all the answers. Listen in to understand why people who take the ‘high road' get better deals than those who come out swinging and get Jacinta's advice on using divorce as an opportunity for self-discovery and catalyst for a better life! Topics Covered Jacinta's journey from cutthroat divorce litigator to effective mediator Why divorce attorneys can't serve clients well when we pretend to have all the answers How Jacinta leverages curiosity to understand clients on a deeper level and deliver what they need What Jacinta learned by asking clients what it was like to work with her How Jacinta's reflection questions help clients get to know themselves better How Jacinta's Our Family in Two Homes workbook is delivered through the services of a collaborative divorce professional The benefit of reflecting on your hopes and fears re: parenting and finances before you meet with a divorce lawyer Why people who take the ‘high road' get better deals than those who come out swinging Divorce as an opportunity for self-discovery + catalyst for a better life Connect with Jacinta Gallant Jacinta's Website: https://jacintagallant.ca/ The Authentic Professional Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2WY6tXaASxiQkXBWebQmSY Our Family in Two Homes: https://intwohomes.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources Dr. Cheryl Picard's Insight Approach to Conflict Resolution: https://www.collaborativepractice.com/system/files/The Insight Approach and CP - essay.pdf Going Steady: A Toolkit for Building Our Future Together by Jacinta Gallant: https://goingsteadytoolkit.com/

Have you heard of Collaborative Divorce?  If not, this episode is for you!  It's an alternative to litigation and going through the courts.  All parties and professionals are acting toward settling the divorce with shared resources instead of fighting over everything.  Check out why a collaborative divorce may be in your best interest! 

If your marriage is ending, you may be convinced that things will never be good again. But what if I told you there is a way to stay positive, even during a divorce? To feel less vulnerable in stressful situations? And change the dynamic of conversations with your ex? Bill Carmody serves as Chief Coaching Officer for Positive Intelligence, where he oversees the application of mental fitness for thousands of coaches worldwide. Bill is also the author of the bestselling book The 3 Rules of Marriage, and he is dedicated to being an inspirational leader who creates breakthroughs for himself and solves problems for others. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Bill joins Katherine to explain how Positive Intelligence strategies can help you be less reactive in stressful situations and stay positive regardless of your circumstances. Bill shares his approach to making progress in high-conflict conversations, challenging us to develop mental fitness and stop the cycle of judgement when we feel criticized by our ex. Listen in for Bill's PQ Reps exercise for dropping into your fully present self and learn how to leverage Positive Intelligence to focus on the outcomes you want during a divorce. Topics Covered How Positive Intelligence helps us stay positive regardless of our circumstances What happens when we let our emotions run us in the process of divorce Using Positive Intelligence to feel less vulnerable and be less reactive in stressful situations How to adjust your autonomic nervous system to cultivate a sense of calm Bill's PQ Reps exercise for dropping into your body and being fully present in the moment Bill's strategies for changing the dynamic of conversations in high-conflict circumstances How mental fitness allows you to focus on the outcome you want in divorce Bill's 3 rules of marriage (don't keep score, show appreciation & don't go to bed angry) Why we tend to judge others when we feel criticized and how to stop that cycle How PQ Reps can help people who are contemplating or navigating divorce Why Bill recommends coaching to help you focus on what's important in divorce Connect with Bill Carmody Positive Intelligence: https://www.positiveintelligence.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources The 3 Rules of Marriage by Bill and Elena Carmody: https://www.threerulesofmarriage.com/free The Saboteur Assessment: https://www.positiveintelligence.com/saboteurs/

According to the Holmes and Rahe Stress Scale, divorce is the second most stressful life event after the death of a spouse. And that stress has an impact on our food choices and overall health. So, how might we leverage integrative nutrition to make positive, lasting lifestyle changes while we're coping with divorce? Suzy Wood is the Integrative Nutrition Health Coach behind True Wellness Within, a platform that helps people make healthy food and lifestyle choices and rebuild their lives after the stress of divorce. Suzy's divorce was a calling card to reinvent herself, inspiring her to leave a career in high tech marketing to start her own business and live her best life. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Suzy joins Katherine to discuss the 12 lifestyle factors that must be in balance for you to live a healthy life. Suzy shares tips for finding an avenue for self-care to help you detox during or after divorce and discusses the importance of discerning what divorce advice works for you—and what doesn't. Listen in for Suzy's techniques to navigate the stressful moments of a divorce negotiation and learn how to leverage divorce as an opportunity to transform your life! Topics Covered How divorce gave Suzy the opportunity to transform her outlook on life How integrative nutrition looks at both lifestyle factors and the foods you eat The 12 lifestyle factors that must be in balance for you to live a healthy life How the stress of divorce impacts our food choices and overall health Suzy's tips for finding an avenue for self-care to detox during/after divorce Why Suzy suggests having an outlet to discuss divorce beyond friends and family How to discern what divorce advice works for you and what doesn't What Suzy says to people who are afraid of divorce and don't know what to do How Suzy's coaching program helps people make lasting lifestyle changes Stress-reduction techniques to use during triggering events in divorce Connect with Suzy Wood True Wellness Within: https://www.truewellnesswithin.com/ True Wellness on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/truewellnesswithin/ Suzy on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/suzanne-wood-true-wellness-within/ Email suzy@truewellnesswithin.com Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources Divorce Detox Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1634325603620269

In today's episode, I interview Dr. Deb Gilman, a psychologist who works with parents and children throughout the collaborative divorce process. Dr. Gilman describes an alternative to ugly court battles where couples communicate their own needs, while considering the needs of their children during the divorce process. We discuss the difference between a child specialist and a parent evaluation and the role of conflict resolution in the process. Dr. Deb also recounts the many benefits of the collaborative process. Dr. Gilman describes this rewarding work and offers anyone interested in becoming a collaborative divorce specialist can email her at deb@drdebgilman.com or contact her through her LinkedIn profile.

Traditional coparenting arrangements put the focus on the divorcing couple. They establish new, separate households, and the kids go back and forth. But what happens if you shift your focus and build a coparenting plan around the children? When Bill DeSalvo's ex-wife introduced him to the idea of nesting, he had misgivings. But he was open to the alternative because of its benefits for his kids. On the last episode of Divorce Dialogues, Bill's ex-wife, Beth Behrendt, walked us through the fundamentals of nesting, a coparenting strategy in which the children stay in the family home and the parents move in and out. Today, Bill joins Katherine to discuss the experience of nesting from his perspective, sharing the logistical questions he had around how it would work and how their arrangement has evolved over time. Bill explains what he learned about himself through nesting and describes the mutual respect he and Beth established by putting rules in place early on. Listen in for Bill's advice on building structure into a nesting arrangement without ‘scoreboarding' and find out if you have what it takes to make nesting work for your family. Topics Covered What differentiates nesting from traditional coparenting arrangements How nesting puts the focus on the children vs. the couple getting divorced Why Bill was receptive when his ex-wife introduced the idea of nesting The logistical questions Bill had around how nesting would work How Bill and his ex-wife's nesting arrangement has evolved over time What Bill learned about himself and how he grew as a person through nesting Bill's reaction to his ex-wife's decision to write Nesting After Divorce Bill's insight on what it takes to make a nesting arrangement work The rules Bill and his ex put in place early in their nesting arrangement How to build structure into a nesting arrangement without ‘scoreboarding' Connect with Bill DeSalvo Family Nesting: https://familynesting.org/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com Call (914) 738-7765 Resources Beth Behrendt on Divorce Dialogues EP202: https://divorcedialogues.miller-law.com/make-divorce-easier-on-your-kids-with-nesting-with-beth-behrendt Nesting After Divorce: Co-Parenting in the Family Home by Beth Behrendt: https://www.amazon.com/Nesting-After-Divorce-Co-Parenting-Family/dp/1454949791/ref=sr_1_1?crid=39FZ0XEIJ3SN3&keywords=nesting+after+divorce&qid=1671135810&s=books&sprefix=nesting+after+dicorce%2Cstripbooks%2C74&sr=1-1

  Okay, WTF is a collabortive divorce and how would you know if you qualify for one? Today on our show, we have Austin attorney, Kris Algert, who is an EXPERT on collaborative divorces. A collaborative divorce is a dispute resolution process where both parties commit upfont that they will not go to court. Meaning, both parties are committed to being HONEST and WILLING to WORK TOGETHER to resolve issues.  If you've wondered: Can I get a collaborative divorce? What's the difference between a collaborative divorce and regular divorce? Then this episode is for YOU! A collaborative divorce offers a unique way to resolve a divorce without spending a ton of money: less court fees, less time. HOWEVER, and this is BIG however, you need to understand that a collaboritve process is NOT for every divorcing couple.  Make sure you listen to the episode to learn whether a collaborative divorce would be right for you.  If you're interested in learning more about a collaborative divorce, make sure you ask a prosepctive divorce attorney these questions: 1) What percentage of your work is in doing collaborative divorces? 2) What do you view the benefits and the risks are for my case? 3) Ask what the likelyhood of success for their case to be resloved with a collaboritve divorce?   To reach Kris Algert, please visit: Head here!   Make sure you check out our private communites! Patreon: if you need to listen to our episodes privately http://www.patreon.com/hownottosuckatdivorce.com Facebook: if you need more support http://www.facebook.com/thehownottosuckatdivorcecommunity And make sure you're following us on Instagram!! http://www.instagram.com/hownottosuckatdivorce    

Separated parents often worry about the upheaval a divorce causes in their kids' lives, especially the stress that comes with moving back and forth between two households. But what if you could give your children the security of staying in the family home? Nesting allows kids to do just that. And it's the parents who move in and out. So, how does nesting work? Is it right for your family? Beth Behrendt is the author of Nesting After Divorce: Co-Parenting in the Family Home. A freelance writer and single mother of three, Beth has shared her nesting experiences in several national publications, including The New York Times and Psychology Today. She is also a regular contributor to Divorce Magazine and Laura Wasser's It's Over Easy. Beth built Family Nesting to offer advice to other families considering this unique approach to divorce. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Beth joins Katherine to explain why she and her ex-husband made the decision to try nesting and how the arrangement benefits their family. Beth shares her take on nesting temporarily to make the transition to divorce easier, describing what the arrangement looks like for her family and how it's evolved over the last nine years! Listen in for Beth's insight on explaining the nesting situation to a new dating partner and find out if co-parenting in the family home is right for you. Topics Covered How nesting allows kids to stay in the family home after divorce How Beth's personal experience inspired her to write Nesting After Divorce Why Beth and her ex-husband made the decision to try nesting Beth's take on nesting for a year or two to make the transition to divorce easier How Beth, her ex and her kids benefit from the nesting arrangement What the nesting arrangement looks like for Beth's family (and how it evolved over the years) How Beth and her ex worked out who was responsible for what, e.g.: shopping, laundry, etc. Establishing rules re: introducing kids to new dating partners and allowing other adults to the nest How to explain the nesting situation to a new dating partner What qualities Beth's ex has that made nesting work for them How nesting impacted Beth's relationship with her ex and how it evolved over time Why nesting isn't right for every family but can work for many Connect with Beth Behrendt Family Nesting: https://familynesting.org/ Family Nesting on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/familynesting.org Family Nesting on Twitter: https://twitter.com/familynesting Beth on Twitter: https://twitter.com/bethbehrendt?lang=en Beth on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bethbehrendt/?hl=en Beth on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bethbehrendt Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: oii Call (914) 738-7765 Resources Nesting After Divorce: Co-Parenting in the Family Home by Beth Behrendt: https://www.amazon.com/Nesting-After-Divorce-Co-Parenting-Family/dp/1454949791/ref=sr_1_1?crid=39FZ0XEIJ3SN3&keywords=nesting+after+divorce&qid=1671135810&s=books&sprefix=nesting+after+dicorce%2Cstripbooks%2C74&sr=1-1 It Doesn't Have to Be That Way by Laura A. Wasser: https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/it-doesnt-have-to-be-that-way-how-to-divorce-without-destroying-your-family-or-bankrupting-yourself_laura-a-wasser/1636713/item/27286672/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=pmax_high_vol_midlist_under_%2410&utm_adgroup=&utm_term=&utm_content=&gclid=Cj0KCQjwmZejBhC_ARIsAGhCqncwxp8zb23HfEWYC7GEGIM50vaGJMsZnN9UVTJooWO507qOqOCYBtgaAmMIEALw_wcB#idiq=27286672&edition=8856959

At the beginning of a new romance, we're not worried about repeating the unhealthy patterns that ended our previous relationships. We tell ourselves that this one is different. But statistics tell a different story. The divorce rate is 41% for first marriages, 60% for second marriages and 73% the third time around. So, what's behind those dismal statistics? And what can we do to heal a disappointing love life? Dr. Thomas Jordan is a clinical psychologist and a psychoanalyst in private practice in New York City. He also serves on the faculty of the NYU Postdoctoral Program in Psychoanalysis. Dr. Jordan founded the Love Life Learning Center to help people strengthen their ability to form and sustain healthy relationships, and he is the author of Learn to Love: A Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Dr. Jordan joins Katherine to discuss the three features of a disappointing love life, describing how we unconsciously repeat unhealthy patterns learned in childhood. Dr. Jordan explains how to stop the generational transmission of unhealthy learning in relationships, challenging us to set up a marriage that nurtures the love experience and grows over time. Listen in to understand when your marriage can be saved and when it's time to divorce—and learn the first steps to healing your disappointing love life. Topics Covered The unhealthy patterns Dr. Jordan noticed in his practice that inspired Learn to Love Dr. Jordan's 3 features of a disappointing love life—repetition, replication and recreation The case study of a client whose childhood experience with a violent father informed her disappointing love life How we can't control our experience of love but can set up a relationship that nurtures that experience What it looks like to stop the generational transmission of unhealthy learning in love relationships Dr. Jordan's insight on the value in looking at divorce as a learning experience How an awareness of your psychological love life serves as the foundation of a growing relationship How to know whether your marriage can be saved or if it's time for divorce Why after divorce is a good time to ‘work on your love life' The first steps to examining your own love life and moving it in a healthier direction Connect with Dr. Thomas Jordan Love Life Learning Center: https://lovelifelearningcenter.com/ Love Life Learning Center on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Dr.ThomasJordan/?ref=tn_tnmn Love Life Learning Center on Twitter: https://twitter.com/LLLearningCtr Love Life Learning Center on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovelifelearningcenter/ Dr. Jordan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drthomasjordan/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker's Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com Call (914) 738-7765 Resources Learn to Love: A Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life by Thomas Jordan, PhD: https://www.amazon.com/Learn-Love-Guide-Healing-Disappointing/dp/1543987877/ref=sr_1_1?crid=6UIMHWDD2O54&keywords=learn+to+love+guide+to+healing+your+disappointing+love+life&qid=1574997753&s=books&sprefix=Learn+to+Love,aps,147&sr=1-1

Divorce. Is not a word we love to hear. Right?! If you want a divorce. You're not the only one. In the United States, between 35%-50% of first-time marriages end in divorce. Many women have and will face a divorce, which is why when given the opportunity to have my guest, Nanci Smith, Esq on my podcast, I jumped at the chance. Nanci Smith is an attorney licensed to practice in Vermont and New York. She is the chair of the Collaborative Divorce section of the Vermont Bar Association, a leader in her collaborative divorce practice group, and a member of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals. She frequently writes and talks about divorce, family law, ethics, and collaborative divorce practices. She believes that a good divorce is possible when you show up for it with humility, compassion, and the correct support. Smith is the author of Untangling Your Marriage: A Guide to Collaborative Divorce which is available now.   In this episode, Nanci and I talk about what it means to have a collaborative divorce, how you can get emotional closure after a divorce, how to take care of yourself during a divorce, and how you can be there for your friends and family who are going through a divorce. Divorce can take a huge toll on your self-esteem and if you want to emerge more confident after one of probably the hardest things you've faced in your life, you want to know what your options are, right? If you're considering a divorce, going through one, or have gone through a divorce, I hope you find this episode helpful. In this episode of the Contagious Confidence Podcast, we talk about:What is a collaborative divorce? Why you should consider a collaborative divorceSigns you should get a divorce The best way to divorce for your kidsHow to take care of yourself during a divorce How to support someone who is going through a divorceEsther PerelTo Break a Promise by David WhyteThe Book of Joy by Lasting Happiness in a Changing World by His Holiness the Dalai Lama and Archbishop Desmond TutuWhere to Find Nanci:Book: Untangling Your Marriage: A Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Nanci Smith, Esq.Website: https://nancismithlaw.com/ Instagram: @divorceuntangled Stay Connected: Katie's IG: @katieehawkes Podcast's IG: @contagiousconfidencepodcast Email: contagiousconfidencepodcast@gmail.com

Collaborative divorce is the newest ‘kid on the block' when it comes to divorce.  It is a process in which you and your spouse commit to staying out of the court system and working in a spirit of creative problem solving, transparency and trust.  Beth Dalena, Esq. shares what a Collaborative Divorce looks like and who is a good couple candidate and who is not.  We also explore the emotional, legal and financial benefits of divorcing outside the court system. Learn more about Beth Dalena, Esq. here: Family Law Attorney at Dalena & Bosch, LLC Dalena & Bosch 265 Main Street, 2nd Floor, Madison, NJ 07940 tel: 973 377-2066 fax: 973 765-0379 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dalena_bosch/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063749582366 Request a Free Rapid Relief Call at www.rapidreliefcall.comFor more information on Journey Beyond Divorce visit:  www.jbddivorcesupport.com

Gregory Gann brings an unparalleled combination of skills and experience in divorce financial analysis and mediation. His experience and perspectives are highly sought after by ancillary divorce professionals, and he is an advocate for a collaborative, team-oriented approach to resolving family issues.He started the Gann Partnership in 1989. He is a licenced attorney and a member of the Maryland bar, but he doesn't specifically practice law but prefers to collaborate and complement his specialty in coordinating with practicing attorneys.Greg is an LPL Registered Representative with, and securities and advisory services offered through LPL Financial, a registered investment advisor, Member FINRA/SIPC. LPL Financial is one of the leading financial services companies and the largest independent broker/dealer in the nationIn this episode, Greg shares insights into:In this episode,  we talk about:◈ How important to navigate financial plans.◈ The concept of collaborative divorce and mediation.◈ How to set up financial plannings and analysist.[00:04:30]- Greg's law background.[00:07:45]- “Divorce is a matter of compromise and sacrifice”[00:10:50]- They become happier after the divorce.[00:15:19]- Don't call a lawyer to negotiate.[00:20:50]- Collaborative family law.[00:26:02]- From registered investment adviser to certified divorce financial analyst.[00:28:40]- Training to be a certified divorce financial analyst.[00:30:45]- “The number one conflict in relationships is money.”[00:39:11]- A lot of it is about finesse.[00:43:40]- Success is generally measured in terms of speed, effectiveness, and cost.[00:48:38]- “There are six pillars of discernment counseling.”[00:51:43]- “When you're billing on an hourly basis, it's distorted.”[00:56:48]- The tract of the money will disclose where the bias is.[00:59:14]- The passion is to create awareness.http://www.gannpartnership.com/Please do me a favor, subscribe, leave a positive review on iTunes, follow us on Instagram and share if you know anyone who would benefit from this or other episodes!Do you want to work with me? Reach out and let me know!https://www.instagram.com/youwinninglife/https://www.tiktok.com/@youwinninglifehttps://linktr.ee/jasonwasserlmftThank you for joining me on this ride!Jason Wasser Therapist/CoachOnline Tele-Therapy & Coaching

— Your psycho-spiritual-emotional health is crucial to a successful divorce. Collaborative divorce is available, both as a legal and a mindset process. Would you like an amicable divorce? Would your spouse be interested in an amicable divorce? Can you resist pressure from friends and family to handle divorce in a confrontational manner and stand up to their pressure? Is it important to you to maintain a functional relationship with your former spouse in the future? Considering collaborative divorce could be a good bet if you're looking for a legal, respectful, and practical divorce process. Making sense of your life during divorce is possible through collaborative divorce, an out-of-court dispute resolution model. Valeria interviews Nanci A. Smith, Esq — the author of “Untangling Your Marriage: A Guide to Collaborative Divorce.”  - (co-LA-borative) Nanci is an attorney licensed to practice in Vermont and New York. She is the chair of the Collaborative Divorce section of the Vermont Bar Association, a leader in her collaborative divorce practice group, and a member of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals. She frequently writes and talks about divorce, family law, ethics, and collaborative divorce practices. She believes that a good divorce is possible when you show up for it with humility, compassion, and the correct support. To learn more about Nanci A. Smith and her work, please visit: nancismithlaw.com         — This podcast is a quest for well-being, a quest for a meaningful life through the exploration of fundamental truths, enlightening ideas, insights on physical, mental, and spiritual health. The inspiration is Love. The aspiration is to awaken new ways of thinking that can lead us to a new way of being, being well. 

E281 – Inner Voice – a Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan. In this episode, Dr. Foojan Chats with Nanci Smith, a veteran divorce lawyer with over 30 years of litigation experience and who is now a leading advocate for the Collaborative Divorce model and mindset. She is licensed to practice in Vermont and New York and offers nationwide consultation services. She teaches other lawyers about Ethics, Family Law, Custody, and Collaborative Divorce. She believes a good divorce is possible with the proper legal, financial, and emotional support. Her first book, Untangling Your Marriage: A Guide to Collaborative Divorce, was recently published by Rowman & Littlefield and is now available. https://www.nancismithlaw.com. Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com.

Answering the call that she heard at 7 years old, Nanci Smith always knew that she would pursue a career in law.  Early exposure to injustices around her, motivated Nanci to advocate for those who couldn't advocate for themselves.  Nanci is a veteran divorce lawyer with over 30 years of litigation experience who is now a leading advocate for the collaborative divorce model and mindset. She is licensed to practice in Vermont and New York, and she teaches other lawyers about ethics, family law, custody, and collaborative divorce. Her first book, Untangling Your Marriage: A Guide to Collaborative Divorce,  dropped in October. Nanci  grew up in Detroit and Northern California.  She went to college at UC San Diego and obtained her JD and a Masters in environmental law from Vermont Law School.  She worked in private practice and for Vermont Legal Aid doing domestic violence work, representing people with severe psychiatric diagnoses, before she opened her own family law firm in 2005. She was married, now divorced, and has a fully launched daughter. What You Will Hear in This Episode:  03:28  Nancy's personal journey 08:13  Self discovery and her own divorce  14:01  Biggest challenges when going through a divorce 15:33  Collaborative divorce model 20:25  How you find a collaborative divorce attorney 24:04  Adversarial vs collaborative 28:13  Choosing a divorce process 40:07 Advice on not giving your power away Quotes “I tend to look at divorce now through the lens of grief and  that has really fundamentally shifted the way I sort of approach life and people.” “I'm a student of life and I like learning, life-long learning.” “The hardest part is working through the emotions. What I say is a divorce is 80% emotional, 10% people, 10% financial.” “There's a difference between stonewalling and just grieving and allowing somebody the dignity of their grief and their feelings.” “It's easy to behave badly,when you're just not feeling your best.” “None of us are entirely blameless and I think the adversarial system sets it up so that we can just shame and blame rather than taking individual, radical responsibility for ourselves and I think that's where the opportunity is.” Mentioned: International Academy of Collaborative Professionals Nanci Smith Law Nanci@nancismithlaw.com Connect with Bonnie https://bonniemarcusleadership.com/ Facebook LinkedIn Twitter Instagram Gendered Ageism Survey Results Forbes article 5 Tips to own the superpower of your age IAMMusicGroup Purchase my book Not Done Yet on Amazon:  If you enjoyed this episode of Badass Women Podcast, then make sure to subscribe to the podcast and drop us a five-star review.

Today on the show we're talking divorce. In the first half of the show I talk about my "divorce" and then share a bit of my experience as a divorce attorney and some general thoughts on divorce and separation. Did you know that 40-50% of all marriages end in divorce? Then in the second half of the show I am joined by Nanci A. Smith, Esq., an attorney licensed to practice in Vermont and New York. She is the chair of the Collaborative Divorce section of the Vermont Bar Association, a leader in her collaborative divorce practice group, and a member of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals. She frequently writes and talks about divorce, family law, ethics, and collaborative divorce practices. She believes that a good divorce is possible when you show up for it with humility, compassion, and the correct support. Smith is the author of Untangling Your Marriage: A Guide to Collaborative Divorce (Rowman & Littlefield Publishers, Oct 11, 2022). Learn more at nancismithlaw.com.Today Nancy explains what Collaborative Divorce is, the ways of getting divorced, the things to consider when choosing how to get divorced, how to help kids through a divorce and how to take care of yourself and rebuild after a divorce. NOTE: There was a glitch at some point during the recording of the show where 20 seconds was not picked up so there will be a less than seamless explanation when Nanci is taking about the ways of getting divorced. Apologies!I shared from this article Why it's so hard to leave when things aren't working from the Elephant Journal, and the stats that I shared came from these websites. I also played a few of the songs that got me through my big separation. Those and more can be found at this playlist. https://legaljobs.io/blog/divorce-rate-in-america/https://www.itsovereasy.com/insights/causes-of-divorcehttps://memphisdivorce.com/tennessee-divorce-law/divorce-rates-statistics-and-trends-for-2022/https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/Today's bonus conversation with Warren is about loving yourself and seeing the signs when you're not.Today's show was engineered by Ian Seda from Radiokingston.org.Our show music is from Shana Falana!Feel free to email me, say hello: she@iwantwhatshehas.org** Please: SUBSCRIBE to the pod and leave a REVIEW wherever you are listening, it helps other users FIND IThttp://iwantwhatshehas.org/podcastITUNES | SPOTIFY | STITCHERITUNES: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/i-want-what-she-has/id1451648361?mt=2SPOTIFY:https://open.spotify.com/show/77pmJwS2q9vTywz7Uhiyff?si=G2eYCjLjT3KltgdfA6XXCASTITCHER: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/she-wants/i-want-what-she-has?refid=stpr'Follow:INSTAGRAM * https://www.instagram.com/iwantwhatshehaspodcast/FACEBOOK * https://www.facebook.com/iwantwhatshehaspodcastTWITTER * https://twitter.com/wantwhatshehas

This week on the show, I have Kurt Chacon joining me. Kurt Chacon is a collaborative lawyer and certified divorce coach based in Dallas, Texas.  As both a child of divorce and a parent of divorce, Kurt has seen divorce from every possible angle. This perspective is why his goal is always to mitigate the effects of divorce on children. He is a member of both the Collaborative Law and Family Law Sections of the State Bar of Texas. He is also a member of the Collaborative Law Institute of Texas (CLI-TX), Collaborative Divorce Denton County, and Collaborative Divorce Texas In this episode we talked about: Growing up as an only child with divorced parents. How he got involved with collaborative divorce, as someone who went through it firsthand. Going through his own divorce and having the need to be supported by a collaborative lawyer. The effects of divorce on children. What a collaborative divorce is and what the collaborative process looks like. Children's perspective on divorce. Situations where collaborative divorce is not recommended. The difference between the collaborative process and cooperative law. The general timeline in a collaborative divorce process. Personally, I believe a collaborative divorce is a fantastic option if it's possible in your situation, and I hope this episode helps you learn more about what it is, and if it's a good fit for you. Links mentioned in the episode:  Contact Kurt by emailing him at coachkurt@me.com You can also connect with him on Facebook.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

COLLABORATIVE DIVORCE: a podcast about love, marriage & relationships by relationship experts Dr Ray & Jean offering relationship advice for couples, we talk with attorney Margaret Zuleger about collaborative divorce and how to have a conflict-free divorce For more info about Margaret, visit: https://www.zulegerlaw.com/ Please subscribe to our podcast and leave us a comment and review. If you have questions, topic suggestions or would like to be considered as guests, email us at contact@couplessynergy.com. For more information about Couples Synergy, look us up online at Couplessynergy.com