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We start off with Frank Crist presents, They're Fine, Just Fine and Kerry has the latest Geek News for us. Then we award the Boner of the Day and Victoria joins us with her Secret Lives of Mormon Wives updates. After that, we challenge a listener to Beat Gina and talk with Robert Gehrke. And we finish out with Boner Recap and news!

We start off with Frank Christ presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and then we list off your Things That Must Go. After that, we crown Boner of the Day and our veterinarian Josh Davis answers your pet questions. Then we play a round of Beat Gina and finish with the Boner Recap, news and our Concert and Community Calendar!

We start with Frank Christ presents They're Fine, Just Fine and we talk about Don and Denver Criddle and the Utah Word of the Day, plus we award the Boner of the Day. After that, Wade Taylor joins us for a new Ask Salt Mediation, just before we challenge a listener to Beat Gina and we get some scream treats from Other Side Donuts. And of course, we finish with the Boner Recap and news.

We begin with Frank Crist presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and our sports update with Amy Donaldson. After that, we award the winner of Boner of the Day, Kerry shows us the cake he made and we taste test Reese's vs. Trader Joe's Peanut Butter Cups. Then, Bill Frost is back with what to watch on TV and we play a round of Beat Gina followed by Kerry's Geek News. As always, we finish out with Boner Recap and news.

We start off with Frank Crist presents, They're Fine, Just Fine and Kerry has the latest Geek News for us. Then we award the Boner of the Day and Victoria joins us with her Below Decks and Secret Lives of Mormon Wives updates. After that, we challenge a listener to Beat Gina and Bill has an Email of Interest for us. And we finish out with Boner Recap and news!

We start off with Frank Christ presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and then we list off your Things That Must Go. After that, we crown Boner of the Day and want to hear about your favorite RFH memories with the X Poll. Then we play a round of Beat Gina and finish with the Boner Recap, news and our Concert and Community Calendar!

We start with Frank Christ presents They're Fine, Just Fine and Eli McCann joins us to talk about his new book releasing today plus we award the Boner of the Day. After that, Bill Frost joins us since we didn't have a show on Monday, just before we challenge a listener to Beat Gina and the Donut Critic brings us sweets. And of course, we finish with the Boner Recap and news.

https://www.uncommen.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/Roommates.mp3 When Your Soulmate Becomes Just a Tenant Quick Answers What is roommate syndrome? It is a state in marriage where emotional and physical intimacy dissolves, leaving two people who manage a household together but live separate lives. Is it normal? All marriages go through dry seasons, but accepting this disconnection as a permanent status quo is dangerous and often a precursor to divorce. How do we fix it? It requires breaking the silence, practicing vulnerability, and intentionally pursuing your wife again—spiritually and emotionally. Does counseling mean we failed? No. seeking help is a sign of strength. It means you value the marriage enough to fight for it rather than watching it die a slow death. What if I'm the only one trying? You are called to lead. Even if your wife seems checked out, your consistency in prayer and pursuit can change the atmosphere of the home. The Silent Shift You know the drill. You walk in the door after a long day, drop your keys, and maybe mutter a quick "hey" to your wife who is busy in the kitchen. You eat dinner, talk about the kids' schedules, discuss which bill needs to be paid, and then retreat to your separate corners. Maybe you scroll through your phone on the couch while she watches a show in the bedroom. Then, it's lights out. You sleep in the same bed, but you might as well be miles apart. There is no yelling. There is no throwing plates. on the surface, everything looks "fine." But deep down, you know the fire is gone. You aren't lovers anymore; you are logistics managers. You are business partners running "Family, Inc." This is roommate syndrome. It is one of the most insidious threats to modern marriage because it doesn't look like a crisis. It looks like peace. But as we discussed on the podcast, silence isn't always peace; sometimes, it's just the sound of a marriage slowly suffocating. If you feel like you and your wife are just "ships in the night," passing each other in the hallway with a high-five before handling the next task, you are in the danger zone. Defining the Diagnosis: What is Roommate Syndrome? Roommate syndrome is exactly what it sounds like: a relationship dynamic where the romantic, spiritual, and emotional connection has eroded, leaving only a functional partnership. You share a mortgage, a Netflix password, and maybe some DNA in the form of children, but you don't share hearts. In the podcast, we talked about how easy it is to slide into this. Life gets busy. Careers demand 60 hours a week. Kids need to be driven to practice. The "tyranny of the urgent" takes over, and the first thing to get cut from the schedule is the energy required to pursue your spouse. The problem with roommate syndrome is that it feels safe. It's comfortable. It doesn't demand vulnerability. You can stay in your lane, she stays in hers, and you avoid the messy work of intimacy. But God did not design marriage to be a co-op living arrangement. He designed it to be a reflection of Christ and the Church—a union of oneness. When we settle for roommate syndrome, we aren't just missing out on a better marriage; we are missing the very point of the covenant we made. The "Middle of the Movie" Trap We all love the beginning of a romance movie. It's exciting, passionate, and full of pursuit. And we like the end, where the old couple sits on the porch holding hands, having weathered the storms of life. But as Joshua pointed out in the podcast, nobody likes the "middle part of the movie." The middle is where the work happens. The middle is where the bills pile up, the babies are crying at 3:00 AM, and the exhaustion sets in. This is the breeding ground for roommate syndrome. It is in this "boring middle" that we stop trying. We assume that because we said "I do" five or ten years ago, the work is done. But marriage isn't a slow cooker; you can't just set it and forget it. If you stop feeding the fire, it will go out. Many men find themselves in the grip of roommate syndrome simply because they stopped dating their wives once they "sealed the deal." They stopped asking questions. They stopped listening. They replaced curiosity with routine. The Danger of "We're Just Fine" If someone asked you how your marriage is right now, would you say, "We're fine"? "Fine" is the most dangerous four-letter word in a marriage. "Fine" is the waiting room for divorce. When you are suffering from roommate syndrome, "fine" is the lie you tell yourself to avoid rocking the boat. You might think, "Well, we aren't fighting." But the absence of conflict is not the presence of intimacy. Two corpses in a morgue don't fight either, but that doesn't mean they have a relationship. Roommate syndrome thrives on apathy. It convinces you that a lack of arguing is a sign of health, when in reality, it might just mean you've both stopped caring enough to engage. As mentioned in the episode, lack of communication is the primary fuel for roommate syndrome. You stop sharing your fears, your dreams, and your struggles because it takes too much effort, or you fear rejection. So you talk about the weather. You talk about the schedule. You keep it surface level. And slowly, the woman you promised to give your life to becomes a stranger you live with. The Generational Shift: Staying vs. Leaving There is an interesting generational divide when it comes to roommate syndrome. The Older Generation: Often stays together out of duty. They might sleep in separate rooms or live separate lives for 30 years, resigned to the fact that "this is just how it is." They honor the commitment, but they lose the joy. The Younger Generation: Often views roommate syndrome as a valid reason to bail. The mindset is, "I'm not happy, I'm not fulfilled, so I'm out." Neither of these is the biblical model. God doesn't want you to be miserable or divorced. He wants you to be restored. Whether you have been married for 36 years or 6 years, roommate syndrome is not a life sentence. It is a warning light on the dashboard. It's telling you that the engine needs oil. We have to reject the cultural lie that says passion inevitably fades and that becoming roommates is the natural evolution of a long marriage. That is false. Intimacy changes, yes, but it should deepen, not disappear. Vulnerability: The Cure for the Common Roommate So, how do you break free from roommate syndrome? It starts with the one thing men hate most: vulnerability. You have to be the one to break the silence. You have to be the one to say, "Hey, I feel like we are drifting apart, and I miss you." That is terrifying. It opens you up to rejection. She might say, "Well, that's your fault." She might not be ready to hear it. But as the leader of your home, you cannot wait for her to fix the dynamic. Roommate syndrome feeds on pride. It says, "I won't pursue her until she respects me," or "I'm tired of trying." You have to kill that pride. You have to be willing to look foolish in the pursuit of your wife's heart. In the podcast, we discussed the importance of talking through the disconnect. You can't fix what you won't name. If you are just "high-fiving in the hallway," sit her down. Ask her, "Do you feel like we are just roommates?" You might be surprised to find that she has been feeling the exact same loneliness but was too afraid to bring it up. The "Hunting License" on Your Life Here is a concept from the podcast that might sting a bit: Your wife has a "hunting license" on your life. When you got married, you gave her the right to call you out. You gave her the right to speak into your blind spots. Often, roommate syndrome sets in because men revoke that license. We get defensive. We stop listening to her input because it feels like nagging. So, she stops talking. She stops trying to help you grow. She withdraws. And suddenly, you have peace and quiet, but you also have roommate syndrome. To heal, you have to re-issue that license. You need to invite her back into your life as a partner, not just a spectator. Ask her, "Where am I failing you? How can I love you better?" When you give her permission to speak truth into your life again, you bridge the gap that roommate syndrome created. You show her that you value her voice more than your ego. The Spiritual Disconnect We cannot talk about roommate syndrome without talking about your spiritual walk. If you and your wife are spiritually disconnected, you will inevitably be relationally disconnected. The Bible talks about being "unequally yoked." Usually, we apply this to a believer marrying a non-believer. But it can happen in a Christian marriage too. If you are growing in your faith and she is stagnant, or if she is chasing God and you are content with Sunday morning Christianity, you are pulling in different directions. Roommate syndrome is often a symptom of a spiritual drought. When was the last time you prayed with your wife? Not just over a meal, but really prayed? When was the last time you discussed Scripture together? If the answer is "I don't remember," then you have found the root of the problem. Intimacy with God fuels intimacy with your spouse. If you are running on empty spiritually, you have nothing to offer her but your own limited patience and energy. Practical Steps to Evict the Roommate You can't just think your way out of roommate syndrome; you have to act your way out. Here are practical steps to start turning the ship around today: 1. The 10-Minute Check-In Stop the "ships in the night" routine. Dedicate 10 minutes every day—no screens, no kids—to just talk. And you can't talk about logistics. No bills, no schedules. Ask about her heart. Ask about her day. Re-learn the art of conversation. 2. Date Your Wife Again It sounds cliché, but it works. When you were dating, you put in the effort. You shaved, you made plans,

We start off with Frank Crist presents, They're Fine, Just Fine and Kerry has the latest Geek News for us. Then we award the Boner of the Day and Victoria joins us with her Below Decks and Secret Lives of Mormon Wives updates. After that, Guinn from the Humane Society joins us with Houdini the bunny, just before we challenge a listener to Beat Gina and Robert Gehrke joins us with his SLC Update. And we finish out with Boner Recap and news!

We start off with Frank Christ presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and then we list off your Things That Must Go. After that, we crown Boner of the Day and veterinarian Josh Davis is back to answer your pet questions. Then we play a round of Beat Gina and finish with the Boner Recap, news and our Concert and Community Calendar!

We start with Frank Christ presents They're Fine, Just Fine and it's a new Utah Word of the Day, plus we award the Boner of the Day. After that, Jonathan Dessing is back with out Tuesday Tech Talk, just before we challenge a listener to Beat Gina. And of course, we finish with the Boner Recap, news and our Wellness Check with Alaina Wood.

We begin with Frank Crist presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and our sports update with Amy Donaldson. After that, we award the winner of Boner of the Day, and talk about the Superbowl Commercials. Then, Bill Frost is back with what to watch on TV and we play a round of Beat Gina followed by Kerry's Geek News. As always, we finish out with Boner Recap and news.

We start off with Frank Crist presents, They're Fine, Just Fine and Kerry has the latest Geek News for us. Then we award the Boner of the Day and Victoria joins us with her Real Housewives of SLC Update and more. After that, we challenge a listener to Beat Gina before Gina talks about the Masked Singer and getting in trouble in front of guests. And we finish out with Boner Recap and news!

We start off with Frank Christ presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and then we list off your Things That Must Go. After that, we crown Boner of the Day and Dr. Cobble is back to answer your health questions. Then we play a round of Beat Gina and finish with the Boner Recap, news and our Concert and Community Calendar!

We start with Frank Christ presents They're Fine, Just Fine and Bill has a list for us, plus we award the Boner of the Day. After that, we take your calls for the X Poll, wanting to know what product you miss that isn't around anymore, just before we challenge a listener to Beat Gina. And of course, we finish with the Boner Recap and news.

We begin with Frank Crist presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and Ed Brass joins us with his VIS update. After that, we award the winner of Boner of the Day, and we have an Email of Interest. Then, Bill Frost is back with what to watch on TV and we play a round of Beat Gina followed by Kerry's Geek News. As always, we finish out with Boner Recap and news.

We start off with Frank Crist presents, They're Fine, Just Fine and Kerry has the latest Geek News for us. Then we award the Boner of the Day and Victoria joins us with her Real Housewives of SLC Update. After that, we challenge a listener to Beat Gina before talking with Robert Gehrke. And we finish out with Boner Recap and news!

We start off with Frank Christ presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and then we list off your Things That Must Go. After that, we crown Boner of the Day and vet Josh Davis is back answering your pet questions. Then we play a round of Beat Gina and of course, finish with the Boner Recap, news and our Concert and Community Calendar!

We start with Frank Christ presents They're Fine, Just Fine. After that, we have a new Utah Word of the Day and award the Boner of the Day. Then we take your calls for Hello Yeah What, just before we challenge a listener to Beat Gina. And of course, we finish with the Boner Recap, news and our Wellness Check with Alaina Wood from Nightingale College.

We begin with Frank Crist presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and Amy Donaldson is back with her sports update. After that, we award the winner of Boner of the Day, and talk about the NSFW Lights Camera Brunch Podcast event. Then, Bill Frost is back with what to watch on TV and we play a round of Beat Gina followed by Kerry's Geek News. As always, we finish out with Boner Recap and news.

We start off with Frank Crist presents, They're Fine, Just Fine and Kerry has the latest Geek News for us. After that, we award the Boner of the Day and Victoria joins us with her Real Housewives of SLC Update. Then we challenge a listener to Beat Gina and talk about the Razzies Nominations. And we finish out with Boner Recap and news!

We start off with Frank Christ presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and then we list off your Things That Must Go. After that, we crown Boner of the Day and Dr. Cobble is back to answer your health questions. Then we play a round of Beat Gina and of course, finish with the Boner Recap, news and our Concert and Community Calendar!

We start with Frank Christ presents They're Fine, Just Fine. After that, Bill tells us about the personal cards he found from the Russian Family him and Kerry stayed with and we award the Boner of the Day. Then JD is back with his Tech Talk, just before we challenge a listener to Beat Gina and enjoy sweet treats with the Donut Critic. And of course, we finish with the Boner Recap, news and our Wellness Check with Alaina Wood from Nightingale College.

We begin with Frank Crist presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and Amy Donaldson is back with her sports update. After that, we award the winner of Boner of the Day, and Gina tells us about her dinner and the new tech to organize orders by seat. Then, Bill Frost is back with what to watch on TV, and we play a round of Beat Gina followed by some Geek News. As always, we finish out with Boner Recap and news.

We start off with Frank Christ presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and then we list off your Things That Must Go. After that, we crown Boner of the Day and veterinarian Josh Davis is back to answer your pet questions. Then we play a round of Beat Gina and of course, finish with the Boner Recap, news and our Concert and Community Calendar!

Feeling lost, but you aren't sure what steps to take to find yourself again? In this episode, Kendra shares some signs of self-abandonment and her best tips for getting back on track. She emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and self-worth, and identifying your desires, even if they differ from societal norms and expectations. Kendra encourages women to recognize their worth and establish anchors to realign and live a more fulfilling life. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Introduction and Purpose of the Podcast 00:50 Signs You've Disappeared 03:54 You Don't Know What You Want 06:44 Performing the Expected Version of Yourself 11:00 Feeling Numb or Just Fine 13:34 Outsourcing Your Self-Worth 17:31 Your Life Runs, but You Don't 19:20 Conclusion and Final Thoughts LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe Produced by SocialPodcast.co

We start with Frank Christ presents They're Fine, Just Fine. After that, we have a Utah Word of the Day for you and we award the Boner of the Day. Then we take your calls for the X Poll, wanting to know what you hope happens when you die, just before we challenge a listener to Beat Gina. And of course, we finish with the Boner Recap and news.

We begin with Frank Crist presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and Amy Donaldson is back with her sports update. After that, we award the winner of Boner of the Day, and Sue made Bischoff rice crispys for Gina. Then, Bill Frost is back with what to watch on TV, and we play a round of Beat Gina followed by some Geek News. As always, we finish out with Boner Recap and news.

We start off with Frank Crist presents, They're Fine, Just Fine and Kerry has the latest Geek News for us. After that, we award the Boner of the Day and Victoria joins us with her Real Housewives of SLC Update. Then just before we challenge a listener to Beat Gina, our friends from the Humane Society join us with River, a 6 YO male Australian Cattle Dog (red heeler) mix. And we finish out with Boner Recap and news!

We start off with Frank Christ presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and then we list off your Things That Must Go. After that, we crown Boner of the Day and take your calls for the X Poll talking about your real super powers. Then we play a round of Beat Gina and of course, finish with the Boner Recap, news and our Concert and Community Calendar!

We start with Frank Christ presents They're Fine, Just Fine. After that, we open a gift from listener, Mike in Nashville and we award the Boner of the Day. Then Kerry tells us about his first Trader Joes experience and we have a list for you, just before we challenge a listener to Beat Gina and the Donut Critic joins us with something sweet. And of course, we finish with the Boner Recap and news.

We begin with Frank Crist presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and Amy Donaldson is back with her sports update. After that, we award the winner of Boner of the Day, and Bill tells us about his New Year injury. Then, Bill Frost is back with what to watch on TV, and we play a round of Beat Gina followed by some Geek News. As always, we finish out with Boner Recap and news.

We start off with Frank Crist presents, They're Fine, Just Fine and then Kerry has the latest Geek News for us. After that, we award the Boner of the Day and Victoria joins us with her Real Housewives of SLC Update. Then we challenge a listener to Beat Gina just before talking with our friends from The Road Home. And we finish out with Boner Recap and news!

We start off with Frank Christ presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and then we list off your Things That Must Go. After that, we crown Boner of the Day and 10 year old listener Nolan calls in, who is raising donations for the Road Home. Then we play a round of Beat Gina and of course, finish with the Boner Recap, news and our Concert and Community Calendar!

We start with Frank Christ presents They're Fine, Just Fine. After that, we tease our Road Home Mediathon coming up this week and we award the Boner of the Day. Then we take your calls for Hello Yeah What, just before we challenge a listener to Beat Gina and the Donut Critic joins us with something sweet. And of course, we finish with the Boner Recap and news.

We begin with Frank Crist presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and Gina gives us her best sports report. After that, we award the winner of Boner of the Day, and we talk about the Road Home and mediathon coming up. Then, Bill Frost is back with what to watch on TV, and we play a round of Beat Gina followed by some Geek News. As always, we finish out with Boner Recap and news.

We start off with Frank Crist presents, They're Fine, Just Fine and then Kerry has the latest Geek News for us. After that, we award the Boner of the Day and Victoria joins us with her Real Housewives of SLC Update. Then we challenge a listener to Beat Gina just before Robert Gehrke joins us with his SLC Update. And we finish out with Boner Recap and news!

We start off with Frank Christ presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and then we list off your Things That Must Go. After that, we crown Boner of the Day and Dallon Weeks from IDK How and The Brobeck's joins us with his drummer Matt Glass. Then we play a round of Beat Gina and of course, finish with the Boner Recap, news and our Concert and Community Calendar!

We start with Frank Christ presents They're Fine, Just Fine. After that, Gina has the Goup Gift Guide for us and we award the Boner of the Day. Then Jonathan Deesing is back with his gaming update, just before we challenge a listener to Beat Gina. And of course, we finish with the Boner Recap and news.

We begin with Frank Crist presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and Amy Donaldson is back with her sports report. After that, we award the winner of Boner of the Day, and Bill tells us about his eye doctor visit. Then, Bill Frost is back with what to watch on TV, and we play a round of Beat Gina followed by some Geek News. As always, we finish out with Boner Recap and news.

We start off with Frank Crist presents, They're Fine, Just Fine and then Kerry has the latest Geek News for us. After that, we award the Boner of the Day and Victoria joins us with her Real Housewives of SLC Update. Then, Gina has a Morsel of Murder for us just before we challenge a listener to Beat Gina.. And we finish out with Boner Recap and news!

We start off with Frank Christ presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and then we list off your Things That Must Go. After that, we crown Boner of the Day and finish off the Greatest Comedy List! Then we play a round of Beat Gina and of course, finish with the Boner Recap, news and our Concert and Community Calendar!

We start with Frank Christ presents They're Fine, Just Fine. After that, we continue with the Top 100 Comedy Movies of All Time List and we award the Boner of the Day. Then we take your calls for our X Poll wanting to know who your Role Model is or was, just before we challenge a listener to Beat Gina, plus the Donut Critic joins us with churros. And of course, we finish with the Boner Recap and news.

We begin with Frank Crist presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and Amy Donaldson is back with her sports report. After that, we award the winner of Boner of the Day, and talk about our Thanksgiving. Then, Bill Frost is back with what to watch on TV, and we play a round of Beat Gina followed by some Geek News. As always, we finish out with Boner Recap and news.

We start off with Frank Christ presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and then we list off your Things That Must Go. After that, we crown Boner of the Day and Dr. Cobble is back to answer your health question just before Thanksgiving! Then we play a round of Beat Gina and of course, finish with the Boner Recap, news and our Concert and Community Calendar!

We start with Frank Christ presents They're Fine, Just Fine. After that, Sean Means is back with this week's movies since we are gone on Friday and we award the Boner of the Day. Then Jimmy is back to Have Another Drink with us featuring wine for Thanksgiving, just before we challenge a listener to Beat Gina. And of course, we finish with the Boner Recap and news.

We begin with Frank Crist presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and Amy Donaldson is back with her sports report. After that, we award the winner of Boner of the Day, and Disturbing Text from Friends about Uber Assault. Then, Bill Frost is back with what to watch on TV, and we play a round of Beat Gina followed by some Geek News. As always, we finish out with Boner Recap and news.

We start off with Frank Crist presents, They're Fine, Just Fine and then Kerry has the latest Geek News for us. After that, we award the Boner of the Day and Victoria joins us with her Real Housewives of SLC Update. Then, we have a Hello Sailor Boy Update and challenge a listener to Beat Gina, just before we get a Hello Sailor Boy Update. And we finish out with Boner Recap and news!

We start off with Frank Christ presents, 'They're Fine, Just Fine,' and then we list off your Things That Must Go. After that, we crown Boner of the Day and veterinarian Josh Davis is back to answer your pet questions! Then we play a round of Beat Gina and of course, finish with the Boner Recap, news and our Concert and Community Calendar!

We start with Frank Christ presents They're Fine, Just Fine. After that, Gina tells us about her colonoscopy and we award the Boner of the Day. Then we take your calls for Hello Yeah What, just before we challenge a listener to Beat Gina, plus the Donut Critic joins us with Focaccia bread. And of course, we finish with the Boner Recap and news.