Podcast appearances and mentions of laurie berger

Consumer reporter Laurie Berger joins Paul and Elizabeth to reveal what hotels and resorts are doing to enhance cleaning and safety protocols in this age of coronavirus and to recommend things you can do to enhance your own health and safety at hotels. Is it safe to stay at a hotel today? Will you have to have a temperature check at check in? How dangerous is the hotel swimming pool? Laurie, a former editor of the Consumer Reports Travel Letter, answers these questions and more on this lively and informative show.

On this episode of Couple Collective, Emily and I recap the second season of Couple Collective. Below I've highlighted what we discussed, so feel free to jump ahead (only on Spotify mobile): (0:55) - Emily discusses her favorite parts of season 2 (08:20) - I discuss what I felt was missing from season 2 (mainly having more experts like Sean!) - let me know your thoughts (09:25) - Em and I talk about where our relationship is and why we felt it was been great for us to have a longer engagement (15:25) - We recap our feelings coming out of the last two weddings we attended (18:18) - I want to thank you for listening and Emily for supporting me. Please send me your feedback on the podcast This particular episode was recorded at my crib in Albany, after my in home consultation with  @couplecollective (https://www.instagram.com/couplecollective/) ; I want to hear your stories and your feedback. If I’m bringing value, please subscribe and share with those that may pull value from this as well. If you find value in the idea behind Couple Collective, but feel I am missing the mark, please let me know what you would like to see and hear. Much Love! Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com)

On this episode of Couple Collective, I'm pumped to speak with two of my best friends, Katie and Matt. I've known Matt since before kindergarten (Tiger Cubs stand up), and I met Katie at our first job out of college. I take credit for the two of them getting together, but in all reality, I just put two great people in the same room and they've done the rest. Both in their mid 30's, they've been together for over 10 years, and have always beat to the sound of their own drum. I've learned from them to enjoy the moment that you're currently in, together with your partner vs. rushing to check the next box. Additionally, have a strong understanding of your strengths and that of your partners, and you'll be able to better communicate and work together. If you are interested in a particular topic we discussed, below I’ve included time stamps that you can click on to jump ahead (only on Spotify mobile) (01:13) - What happens when you put two great people in a room together - ‘Julian was the one that actually made it happen.’ (07:59) - ‘We were fairly slow on our relationship path but always on the same page.’ - in reference to their relationship journey (11:47) - ‘Eventually, we would move in together but it was not a rushed factor at that point.’ - they moves to a new city together without moving in with one another (13:50) - How their relationship transitioned into an engagement - ‘When he did propose, I was really surprised cause I thought we would have another conversation or two to solidify like, this is going to happen.’ (22:14) - ‘We were looking towards like the big picture, how does this benefit his career and our lifestyle in the future.’ - When Matt went to school (26:46) - Before moving to Austria they took a cultural personality test, and it turned out to help them to understand how they each thinking about planning (37:45) - Katie explaining the challenge of having to communicate with a partner when you are an introvert (41:20) - What Katie & Matt hope to learn from other couples This particular episode was recorded at my crib in Albany, after my in home consultation with  @couplecollective (https://www.instagram.com/couplecollective/) ; I want to hear your stories and your feedback. If I’m bringing value, please subscribe and share with those that may pull value from this as well. If you find value in the idea behind Couple Collective, but feel I am missing the mark, please let me know what you would like to see and hear. Much Love! Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com)

On this episode of Couple Collective, I interview another individual, Annie. She is a single, 39 year old female, who used to see commitment as a constraint, a tether or even restrictive. Her phobia of commitment was not specific to relationships, but also with everything else. Fortunately for her, she had been "lucky in love", she just preferred to focus on her and do things she felt she may not have been able to do when solo. As she sees "the beauty on the other side of commitment" through the people she surrounds herself with, she now yearns for that commitment more now than ever before. If you are interested in a particular question we are asked, I’ve updated the notes to include time stamps that you can click on to jump ahead. (01:50) - Annie’s relationship history: ‘I’ve been really lucky in love' (03:18) - "I spent a couple years licking my wounds on that one" - Annie describes the closest she got to getting married (06:57) - I ask Annie: "Do you feel like you are in purgatory, and what exactly does that mean?" (09:12) - Do you need to be married? - Annie describes her fierce independence and how she used to see commitment as a constraint (11:58) - "I've done a lot of cool shit; I’ve gotten to do some stuff that I could only have done flying solo" (15:00) - "Even if it's 150% I know in my gut in my heart it's the right person, I think I will still be scared; that's okay, I can push through that" (18:48) - What would you say to someone who’s female, and 30? - "worrying doesn’t do a whole lot of good... you're wasting precious energy and time" AND "if you have the resources, or if you don't, try to get the resources to freeze your eggs" This particular episode was recorded and edited by  StudioPod (https://studiopodsf.com/) in San Francisco; you can tell the quality is a vast improvement from my earlier episodes. If you are local to the Bay check them out; if not, but want editing love and help with your show notes, they can help you out too. As always, you can continue to engage beyond the podcast on the website @couplecollective (https://www.instagram.com/couplecollective/) ; I want to hear your stories and your feedback. If I’m bringing value, please subscribe and share with those that may pull value from this as well. If you find value in the idea behind Couple Collective, but feel I am missing the mark, please let me know what you would like to see and hear. Much Love! Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com)

On this episode of Couple collective, I interview an individual rather than a couple. TJ is the founder of (https://studiopodsf.com/) , a podcasting studio in San Francisco where I have been recording the latest episodes. He discusses being married to someone he was in a relationship with for a quarter of his life and how he bounced back. Tune in and learn why being selfless and not putting your needs and wants upfront might actually be harmful, and how timing plays a key role when getting involved with a new person. If you are interested in a particular topic we discussed, below I’ve included time stamps that you can click on to jump ahead (only on Spotify) (02:47) - On TJ’s current relationship status and his former marriage: “I think when I ended and I moved back, that was kind of like the scariest thing to think about is like… starting over” (06:08) - TJ elaborates on what he means by saying he was "aggressively single" (09:20) - I ask TJ, "Did you not know who you were in your last relationship?", and he provides his family and friends thoughts (17:02) - Why does timing matter? (21:29) - “I see myself as like a piece of clay, and I can mold myself to the person that I am with [...] and it gets me in trouble.” (23:04) - What do you want to take from a platform like Couple Collective? - “I just want to know how couples deal with adversity” This particular episode was recorded and edited by  @couplecollective (https://www.instagram.com/couplecollective/) ; I want to hear your stories and your feedback. If I’m bringing value, please subscribe and share with those that may pull value from this as well. If you find value in the idea behind Couple Collective, but feel I am missing the mark, please let me know what you would like to see and hear. Much Love! Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com)

On this episode of Couple Collective, I had the pleasure to chat with a couple that has been together since 6th grade, Alyssa and Ryan. Not only have they been homies with Emily since elementary school, they have become a couple Em and I love to spend time with. Alyssa and Ryan had that instant puppy love from youth; they were separated in high-school and college but have back together for some time, recently getting engaged! Tune in to learn how they communicate effectively and powered through obstacles with the weight of their joint friends and close knit families on their shoulders. If you are interested in a particular topic we discussed, below I’ve included time stamps that you can click on to jump ahead (only on Spotify) (05:27) - “I honestly was on one path she was on her own and no way that I think that our journeys would reconnect” (11:38) - Fast forward to the last 7 years, how has the relationship evolved to engagement point? (16:40) - How do you guys deal through tough times or when having those tough conversations? - “Always trying to be honest whenever that communication happens”. (25:17) - On wedding planning: "Make sure you’re happy doing it. The process can be a struggle but, you know, love the struggle”. (30:14) - What you've love to earn from other couples This particular episode was recorded and edited by  @couplecollective (https://www.instagram.com/couplecollective/) ; I want to hear your stories and your feedback. If I’m bringing value, please subscribe and share with those that may pull value from this as well. If you find value in the idea behind Couple Collective, but feel I am missing the mark, please let me know what you would like to see and hear. Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com). Much Love!

On this episode of Couple Collective, Courtney & Paxton come back to discuss the miscarriage they went through together. I've listened to this episode many times before publishing and it's gut wrenching every time. I am extremely thankful to the two of them for being brave enough to tell their story. When it comes to miscarriages, unfortunately no one talks about it, which made going through it that much harder for Courtney. I created the hashtag #NoOneTalksAboutIt with hopes that more people share tough times they go through. In the episode, Courtney discussed searching the web for stories; among those resources she found was the IG account 'Like a Mother' (https://www.amazon.com/Like-Mother-Feminist-Journey-Pregnancy/dp/0062662945/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1QMTIKJMYQ1WL&keywords=like+a+mother&qid=1571632608&sprefix=like+a+mother%2Caps%2C731&sr=8-1) by Angela Garbes If you are interested in a particular topic we discussed, below I’ve included time stamps that you can click on to jump ahead (only on Spotify). (2:05) - Miscarriage was never in my brain… it was more about, can I get pregnant (4:55) - Courtney tells Pax she is pregnant (6:51) - Court & Px see a heart beat for the first time (10:54) - Court & Pax tell their families with some feeling of guilt because of how quickly they got pregnant (14:38) - Court & Pax go to the doctor and she is unable to see a heartbeat - "you go into this and the absolute last thing on your mind is anything negative" (24:59) - #NoOneTalksAboutIt - "All I wanted was to hear other people’s stories; I spent my nights looking up, 'I had a miscarriage stories' just to not feel alone" (32:04) - The second we get pregnant I want to tell everyone... I don’t want to feel like I am going through it alone again As always, you can continue to engage beyond the podcast on the website www.couplecollective.com and via our social channels @couplecollective; I want to hear your stories and feedback. If I’m bringing value, please subscribe and share with those that may pull value from this as well. If find value in the idea behind Couple Collective, but feel I am missing the mark, please let me know what you would like to see and hear. Much Love! Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com)

On this episode of Couple Collective, I interview a couple who recalibrate through counseling together. Chris was my college roommate and is now one of my best friends. He and his finance (now wife), Mary, discuss how they came out of the gates with NRE (new relationship energy), but when Chris pumped the breaks, they sought out counseling to recalibrate. This episode was recorded in August 2018 just before they got married on 9/1/19. If you are interested in a particular topic we discussed, below I’ve included time stamps that you can click on to jump ahead (only on Spotify). (0:59) - How Chris & Mary met (10:10) - Chris asks Mary if she'll go to Hawaii with him on their first date; she says 'no' (16:32) - Chris discusses new relationship energy (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_relationship_energy) , why he pumped the breaks (19:53) - "Is this going to be like Carrie & Big?" - Mary describes the social pressures she encountered (35:22) - "Do we break up or do we go to counseling" - Chris & Mary discuss going to counseling As always, you can continue to engage beyond the podcast on the website www.couplecollective.com and via our social channels @couplecollective; I want to hear your stories and your feedback. If I’m bringing value, please subscribe and share with those that may pull value from this as well. If find value in the idea behind Couple Collective, but feel I am missing the mark, please let me know what you would like to see and hear. Much Love! Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com)

On this episode of Couple Collective, Sean Holcombe (http://www.seanholcombetherapy.com/) , our neighbor and the Couple Collective resident therapist, interviews Emily and me. Coming off our engagement, Sean offered to flip the script and host. No questions were shared in advance, and both Em and me were expecting a fluffy ‘How did the engagement go down’ type conversation. Instead, Sean grabbed questions from his wife Bekah’s pre-marital counseling book (she is a Rabbi and meets with couple pre marriage).  If you are interested in a particular question we are asked, I’ve updated the notes to include time stamps that you can click on to jump ahead. (2:11) - "Why get married?" - (link to our engagement video (https://youtu.be/NNV8bBZ-jGA) ) (10:19) - "Are there certain things you're looking forward to once you're married?" (12:04) - "What are some of your short term and longer term goals for your marriage?" (17:00) - "What are your ideas around conflict? How do you deal with it" - Reference Bill Ramsey's 'Total Money Make Over' & Harville Hendrix 'Getting the Love You Want' + 1440 Multiversity (23:32) - "Are there other business goals we have as a part of our marriage?"... Ayesha Curry shout out (27:50) - Wants & Needs: "How do we fight fair for the things that are important to us?" As always, you can continue to engage beyond the podcast on the website www.couplecollective.com and via our social channels @couplecollective; I want to hear your stories and your feedback. If I’m bringing value, please subscribe and share with those that may pull value from this as well. If find value in the idea behind Couple Collective, but feel I am missing the mark, please let me know what you would like to see and hear. Much Love! Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com)

On this episode of Couple Collective, I kick off season 2 by provide what's the same with the format and what's new. I also give a preview of episode 12, where Sean Holcombe (http://www.seanholcombetherapy.com/) , our neighbor and the Couple Collective resident therapist, interviews Emily and me, episode 13, where I feature a couple who recalibrate via counseling (Chris & Mary) and episode 14, where Court & Pax come back to speak about the miscarriage they went through. It's a quick 7:30 episode, but If you are more interested in a particular update, I’ve updated the notes to include time stamps that you can click on to jump ahead. (0:32) - Couple Collective is back - what has not changed and what has changed (1:47) - Preview of episodes 12, 13 & 14 (2:46) - A few life updates; we bought our house and got engaged (check out the video of our engagement (https://youtu.be/NNV8bBZ-jGA) ) (5:10) - What do you want to see and hear from Couple Collective? As always, you can continue to engage beyond the podcast on the website www.couplecollective.com and via our social channels @couplecollective; I want to hear your stories and your feedback. If I’m bringing value, please subscribe and share with those that may pull value from this as well. If find value in the idea behind Couple Collective, but feel I am missing the mark, please let me know what you would like to see and hear. Much Love! Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com)

In episode ten, Sean is back in the lab (my garage), and we discuss the New I Do by Susan Pease Gadoua and Vicki Larson. The book touches on how you have the ability to redefine your marriage based on what works best for you. We spend most of our time discussing a 'starter marriage' but read the book to find others that may work better for you. Don't forget to check Sean out at www.seanholcombetherapy.com after. You can grab your copy of the New I Do in the library www.couplecollective.com/library. If you do read it, I would love to hear your thoughts. As always, you can continue to engage beyond the podcast on the website www.couplecollective.com and via our social channels @couplecollective; I want to hear your stories and your feedback. Leave a review wherever you listen to podcasts. Much Love! Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com)

In episode nine, I self reflect. Based on the first eight episodes, I take a step back and discuss what I've learned to date, from guests as well as conversations I've had outside of the podcast. Additionally, I give a preview of what's to come; round two with Sean, a future interview with a sex therapist, and why I'd like to include singles as guest after a conversation with my sister. Between now and next time, check out the library (couplecollective.com/library), where I recommend books that I've read or have been recommended to me. As always, you can continue to engage beyond the podcast on the website www.couplecollective.com and via our social channels @couplecollective; I want to hear your stories and your feedback. Leave a review wherever you listen to podcasts. Much Love! Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com)

In the 8th episode of Couple Collective, I interviewed two of my favorite people, Court & Pax. Pax (aka Earl) and I have known each other since Pop Warner football; we both met Court in college. Part 1 captures the story of how they transitioned from a friendship to a partnership. Additionally, we discuss the unique way they celebrated their wedding. Court & Pax will be coming back for a Part 2, to dive deep into challenges they've faced with pregnancy. As always, you can continue to engage beyond the podcast on the website www.couplecollective.com and via our social channels @couplecollective; I want to hear your stories and your feedback. Much Love! Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com)

In the seventh episode of Couple Collective I interviewed my former co-workers and now friends, Erin and Matt. They met young, and while their relationship did start and stop a number of times, their early immaturity evolved into a beautiful partnership; as Matt describes it, they are like fine wine, only getting better with age. As always, you can continue to engage beyond the podcast on the website www.couplecollective.com and via our social channels @couplecollective; I want to hear your stories and your feedback. Much Love! Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com)

In the sixth episode of Couple Collective I interviewed my across the street neighbor, Sean, who also happens to be a Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT). He and I discuss how relationship success can be defined differently, and how the institution of marriage can really be anything you make it to be. As this podcast focuses on couples, he weighs in on couple's therapy, providing the what, how, and when. Enjoy, and check out Sean at www.seanholcombetherapy.com after. Following my conversation with Sean, he suggested I read, The New "I Do" by Susan Pease Gadoua and Vicki Larson (affiliate link - https://amzn.to/2Ksw63u). He and I will discuss on a future episode. As always, you can continue to engage beyond the podcast on the website www.couplecollective.com and via our social channels @couplecollective; I want to hear your stories and your feedback. Please suggest a topic you would like for Sean and I to discuss next. Much Love! Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com)

In the fifth episode of Couple Collective I interviewed my parents. Although I was very much a part of their relationship story, I loved learning about how they partnered to raise my sister and me. From powering through a distance relationship, to working multiple jobs, to going back to school, there are plenty of gems that define what a true partnership looks like. As I say in the episode, if I have half the success they've had, I will be alright. As always, you can continue to engage beyond the podcast on the website www.couplecollective.com and via our social channels @couplecollective; I want to hear your stories and your feedback. Much Love! Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com)

The fourth episode of Couple Collective is part two of the interview I did with my good friends Jack and Jess, in Atlanta. In part one, we learned about how they met, spent some time apart, and came back together; check it out if you haven't already. In part two, we discuss how finances and setting goals as a couple was the key to driving success in their relationship. There are great nuggets of advice that Emily and I will take for our relationship. Outside of the recording, they suggested we read The Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey (affiliate link - https://amzn.to/2tYDKvE), which is the foundation of a lot of Jack's advice. As always, you can continue to engage beyond the podcast on the website www.couplecollective.com and via our social channels @couplecollective; I want to hear your stories and your feedback. Much Love! Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com)

In the third episode of Couple Collective, I present to you the interview I did with my good friends Jack and Jess, when we visited them in Atlanta last month. This is the first part of a two part episode, where I introduce them and let you hear their story about how they met. For background, Jess and I met at work in Boston and quickly became friends; chatting regularly about current and past relationships. Jack's name kept coming up during those conversations, so I'm excited for you to learn how they met and how I may have has a small part in them getting together. Part 2 will be dropped later this week, so make sure to tune in; you'll be getting a lesson in finance and why it's important to set goals as a couple. As always, you can continue to engage beyond the podcast on the website www.couplecollective.com and via our social channels @couplecollective; I want to hear your stories and your feedback. Much Love! Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com)

In the second episode of Couple Collective, I discuss my journey and how I have approached relationship differently since reading Don Miguel Ruiz's book titled the Mastery of Love (affiliate link - https://amzn.to/2KuLzjs). You can continue to engage beyond the podcast at www.couplecollective.com and via our social channels @couplecollective; I want to hear your stories and your feedback. Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com)

New podcast focused on bringing you stories from couples to understand their path to making their relationship work. In this introduction of the Couple Collective, I touch on why I want to learn from other couples and what value I hope to bring to you, the listener. It's the start of an exciting journey and I'm excited for you to join me on it. You can continue to engage beyond the podcast at www.couplecollective.com and via our social channels @couplecollective; I want to hear your stories and your feedback. Cover art by Laurie Berger (www.laurenjanestudio.com)