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Stefanie the Life Architect and I link up and share a beautiful conversation about therapy, where she's at right now in life and interestingly enough get into a discussion about career and knowing your worth as an employee. You know a description won't do this reunion justice so you're just going to have to listen to get the juiciness that is NYMP. Stefanie's IG Stefanie's Patreon Book Stefanie for Coaching Listen to ISNPOD --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/vibehigh/message
We talk boundaries with Stefanie, The Life Architect! She is the Founder of Better Life Choices of New York (BLCNY), an emotional architectural empowerment firm she began in 2015 specializing in life coaching for emotional health, pain management, change management, personal development, and life skills. As a certified professional life coach, speaker, and host of The I SAID NO! Podcast, as an Emotional Health Specialist, Stefanie is highly requested as a keynote speaker, panel participant, podcast guest, one on one and group life coach to build, customize, and design healthy emotional lives, with her boundary-setting development coaching.Stefanie actively spreads her empowerment and permission-giving message to aid everyone, specifically girls and women of all ages and backgrounds, to build, customize, and design their lives.You can find Stefanie and all of her amazing work @ www.blcny.orgWant more? www.marcusanthonytable.com / www.wahgwan.com
We're BACK with an all new season! To kick things off our founder & CEO, Maria I. Melendez chats with special guest, Stefanie - The Life Architect on healing heart break after infidelity!
It’s been a minute...I KNOW. Apologies for my absence. But I’m back with a treat for your ears. BJ has been holding on to this episode for a month now. A great conversation was had on a getaway to SEVERN, MD for a recharge. Only a small few were in attendance. And two of which had a conversation with me over dinner that spawned an idea. And if you know BJ, he always has equipment on hand. So he decided to discuss an adage that we vow before God unnecessarily, with the idea that it truly benefits your relationship. When in fact, it may actually hinder it. Yes...we discuss For Better or For Worse. With two amazing people who have seen both of those things with each other. And have stood the test of time facing both advantage and adversity...WITHOUT EVEN MENTIONING THAT IN THEIR VOWS.Today we return with the dynamic duo known as RBC (Respect Boundaries Communication)...known individually as Stefanie The Life Architect and Denny Blanco. We shared a great conversation with each about acceptance and allowances in relationships. So many thoughts were shared. One in particular was how For Better or For Worse is detrimental to anyone who may feel, at any time, that another person’s better or worse may not be sufficient enough for their fulfillment. In this case...do you settle just because you committed to that vow? There is a chance that without fully understanding the responsibility of the words, you may have signed up for the demise of your relationship health.To us, For Better or Worse is very critical to say to anyone who isn’t committed to the betterment of self and spouse. If things get worse, then we as adults deal with those consequences. But in a spiritual realm, this has evolved our matrimony into settling, bondage, abuse, and a loss of love for your relationship.We decided to talk from the title of For Better No Worse. This simply means that with Respect, Boundaries, and Communication in your relationship...you are prepared for the worse that can happen. And it won’t break or bind you to an emotionally challenged clause in your relationship contract.We talk about how women desire marriage, when you haven’t seen or supported him at his worse. Why do you feel he should marry you, when he hasn’t experienced anything in terms of support in his worse case scenarios? As well as how women will say “I only do that for my husband” though she has never been married to know if a husband will appreciate it. We talk about women being strict in terms of standards and requirements of men...due to the world’s mistreatments of women...especially Black Women. Is a high standard of man fair, if you are responsible for loving him in much lesser conditions (based on your vows before God)?This is a great conversation with great minds who have a great idea of marriage. Don’t say shit you don’t mean. Even in marriage. Because if worse comes to worse, better may just be the exit. You never know.
Ladies and Gentlemen!...welcome to episode 32 of Change the Subject. Today we bring to you an episode called Lead and background Vocals...which is a sophisticated way to address a few things. And because of such a sophisticated conversation, I needed someone who has wit, experience, and perspective to drive these points home for the listeners. So I called in today's co-host Stefanie The Life Architect to assist me in addressing today's topics at hand.First we set out to address accord, and the belief that that resembles or exemplifies unity. Stef and I discuss how accord can sometimes be mislead with ego and intentions. And how we as people need to really understand what it means to be an individual within a group. And to take the topic further, we were able to take our love for R&B music to bring out intricate pointers to help you understand the nuances of accord within our social groups.We then discussed the rise and fall of so many of our favorite groups in music. The politics of relationships. The lack of respect for each person's job in the group. We also discuss the position and responsibility of both the lead and background vocalist. And with each example, we are positive that you will find yourself within your group of friends and family. Are you a lead singer who carries a group of people to success or sustainability? Or are you a background singer who stays behind the scenes and only come forward when its time for praise or profits?The way this topic was created will discuss where we are in our lives, circles and our world. You will completely see yourself in this conversation. This is ear candy that will surely entertain, as well as get your thoughts running wildly within your mind. For some, it may go over heads. But the end result should be a conversation about how we should learn to appreciate those who carry the brunt of the work. Or who are responsible for the most minimal things that we take for granted. because accord does not mean we agree...it means how well we perform together despite the fact we are different!!!
Episode 91 has been updated no longer a quickie, more like a don't give up and do over -ie.. LOL!! Previous Episode 91 ( not quite ten minutes but close) A quick episode all the same. Stefanie The Life Architect posted a message, a word if you will, back in September. I don't know what she was speaking to that day. I just know where my mind went.
Today is a very special episode of Change The Subject! Five days before her highly anticipated 1 Year Anniversary Live Show of her amazing podcast, The I SAID NO! Podcast....we are blessed to hold a conversation with an exceptional content creator and well respected life coach we know as Stefanie, The Life Architect. She has set a new milestone for BJ in his podcast career, as well as his personal life. And it takes place in this episode that we are now sharing with you!This episode is titled Where Two or Three Are Gathered...which derives from the scripture Matthew 18:20 in the Bible. Those of us who grew up in the church are very familiar with this scripture, and its intentions. But in this conversation, it was used on BJ in a very manipulative manner. It raised an eyebrow, rage and questions within BJ, and ultimately led to isolation, disconnect, and feelings of grief in terms of his family life. But fortunately for BJ, he has been able to build some very strong, resourceful relationships along the way...one of which is Stefanie. She completely unraveled and tore apart this dysfunction with so many hay maker power points, perspectives, and spiritual knowledge. This conversation is relative to many of us who deal with family and church hurt, manipulation, and trauma bondage. And prayerfully after hearing this, your perspectives will completely change...and will encourage you to deal with the bondage of your own life.In this conversation, Stefanie and I discussed:Trauma Bondage, Causes, and EffectsChanging The Terminology of Feelings That Traumatically Bind You With Toxic PeopleEmotional HomelessnessCommon Enemy IntimacyLabeling and AcceptanceThere were so many great talk points that we were able to discuss in this conversation. To those of you who are struggling with relationships of any kind, this is an excellent conversation to begin your emotional renovation process. Stefanie equipped the listeners with amazing emotional strategy and spiritual base to build your foundation on. I can't say enough about this show. Give it a listen, and tell us what you think! And if you listen to the very end...you will hear Stefanie ask " Is that It???"....expecting more from the conversation, based on what we originally discussed before we started recording. Reason being is because BJ forgot a huge portion of the conversation, from simply being floored by her wisdom. So be on the lookout for a Part 2!!! But for now, enjoy Where Two or Three Are Gathered! This is great content that everyone will enjoy!!!
2nd Episode of 2019 Episode 78 Confidence or Insecurity, bragging or celebrating self. I can speak for no one but myself and I try my hardest not to. I do not like those that brag and I never want to catch myself or people I admire doing so. With that being said there's a lot that may fall under the bragging category that I don't consider bragging. I'm never trying to call anyone out because I want everyone in question to examine themselves accordingly. I'm not letting you off the hook, if you hear something that hits home, clean house. Where can you find Stefanie? Podcast - I Said No ! Instagram - Blcnewyork Website - https://blcny.org/ Email - coachstefanie@blcny.org
This episode we discuss imposter syndrome and how to cope with the feeling you’ll be uncovered as a fraud for being unworthy of what you’ve worked hard to achieve. This can affect you professionally and in your love life as well. I sat down with Stefanie the fabulous Life Architect to delve into my issues with imposter syndrome and get to the root. Stefanie gives us tips and tools that are sure to help you overcome this wack ass imposter syndrome. Stefanie The Life Architect https://blcny.org/meet-the-life-architect1/ Contact Stefanie: coachstefanie@blcny.orgInstagram: Instagram: @blcnewyork Please follow, rate, comment and subscribe HELP YA GIRL OUT! Catch Analog girl on Itunes, Sticher, Tunein, and GooglePlay Stitcher: www.stitcher.com/podcast/latoya-d…log-girl-podcast Tunein: tun.in/pi2RH Itunes: itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/analo…d1396317476?mt=2 GooglePlay: https://play.google.com/music/m/Igh7dwkq4ggclodwgwcsr3momt4?t=Analog_Girl_Podcast Contact Analog Girl Email: info@analoggirlpodcast.com Twitter: @toyadeezworld IG: @toyadeezworld Facebook: www.Facebook.com/analoggirlpodcast
Episode 45 is simply Amazing. Christal Clear is at an all time transparent high on this episode. I felt so understood and heard. On this episode I realized I still struggle with fear and people pleasing & learned the importance of investing in yourself