Christal Clear The Podcast

Challenge yourself to communicate beyond " I don't care".

https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/JBce6cECqAb We are finally here at the finale for Push The Button. Here we discuss the support you give for the friend who looks crazy, stupid, or plain dumb based on your standards, when it comes to cheating or betrayal. We don't see support often being shown in moments where our own beliefs don't align with the choices being made. So we discuss what it looks like to support someone for something you disagree with. Christal is more willing to sympathize here in this instance. Feeling like there has to be a shoulder to lean on for such a hard choice to stay with someone who betrays you. BJ, on the other hand, feels like you should have an understanding that this road is often less traveled. As well as taking full responsibility for the hard choice. Simply put...most of us, if not all of us, feel like we deserve more from our partners when it comes to infidelity. So to think that you should expect your support system to be dishonest with their beliefs just to support your decision is difficult to ask someone. And can sometimes create a tension amongst your support system, while the focus should be on your partner. How would you handle an instance like this where the odds are against you...and the only person who may understand you is YOU? because even your partner is removed from what you feel simply because they are hurting from actually hurting you. Very tough conversation to have. tune in and let us know what you think!

Wrong and Unsafe (Rough Draft 1) https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/CcZF6NhhdAb https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whogetslove

Here we have a conversation built around the discovery of Christal's intuitive abilities to see the undetected traits of people around her. And what she has noticed is the methods people are using to express the needs they currently have. In this conversation, titled The Outcry, we break down what a need sounds like today. The details that you now see when an expectation is made known. And how the actions we see from men and women don't line up with the request at hand. Let's get to the bottom of this one. Tune In!!!! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whogetslove

https://www.flowcode.com/page/whogetslove BJ and Christal begin this conversation with their own perspectives to Willingness. An entendre if you will. Saying their perspectives out loud made the other variable that much powerful. We break those perspectives down in pieces, and we realize that we communicate the same things, just differently. Which is why we subtitled this conversation, The Common Misconceptions. Listen as we discuss being willing, scared, in the dark, in the know, and in fear….in one conversation. And what each of us should do for each other once we arrive to these spaces. There was so much uncovered in this, that made sense to all of the challenging moments we experienced that may have led to us being unwilling today. You will enjoy Part 1 of THREE conversations we are having this month. The Willingness is such a great dialogue from your new Co-Ed content creatives. Let's dig in!!

Episode 142 Did the "Jarrett & Iyanna" match (on Love is Blind S2) leave you angry? I wonder why?

Episode 141 The question " Can you receive freely? " sat upon my heart and mind today and inspired this episode.

Episode 140 He loves me not?

Episode 139 Do you want love on display or do you really need your boo to prove their love. Or is this a test. have they been paying attention!?

Episode 138 Look at me.. look at me .. I am changing.

Episode 137 1. Do you own your presence? 2. 8:57 - Can you trust? On this episode I talk about both.

EPISODE 136 Y'all do know that New Years Resolutions can't make you improve. It was you, that wouldn't let you improve. Resolve that.

Episode 135 Marriage ain't for punks. Put some respect on they name.

Episode 134 Being kind is rising above the low energy and urge to be unruly and disrespectful.

Episode 133 I am not a clear communicator. Life has made that clear, so I am going to take the necessary steps to improve.

Episode 132 What fortifies you? was already a title in use so I had to change up the name of the episode. My core group , my circle fortifies me is what you will learn as you listen. I am also thankful for my circle so it's a fitting topic this week. Thank you for listening.

Episode 131 5 years of podcasting Y'all I Slowed down here but never stopped working. check out Reigning Opinions https://soundcloud.com/reigningpod check out Who gets love https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-who-gets-love-hosted-by-ch-81606930/ https://castbox.fm/channel/Who-Gets-Love---(Hosted-by%3A-Christal-Clear-%26-BJ)-id4074577?country=us

Episode 130 Is me saying it's time to get some real rest so I can come back stronger a little later in the year. I LOVED, this segment of shows from 10/2020 - 2/2/2021. THANK YOU TO ALL OF MY GUESTS!

Episode 129 Y'all I have been moved to ask questions to anyone willing to answer and this episode is a product of me reaching out to the well spoken, super impressive Charneil. We challenged ourselves to talking for just an hour and not having Bible study. I challenged myself not to cry because Charneil's story exudes beauty and victory despite the hardship that littered his path.

Episode 128 How do you honor your negative feelings or moods? Did you know that you can do more harm trying to "positive" your way into a better feeling mood? Allowing your current emotion to just be what it is , happens to be the easiest way to feel better.

Episode 127 Relationship Talk Segment https://soundcloud.com/s-hyneman joins me again to chat and this time we are discussing soul ties. Y'all I'm skeptical , but I am open to having a great conversation anytime.

Episode 126 Pre-recorded in 2020 On this episode I invite a childhood friend to the show to answer the question, "What fortifies you as a man?" He delivered an all around great answer to that question plus more. Enjoy !

Short break announcement Checkout my take over episode on https://soundcloud.com/flagrant2 Happy Holidays!!

Episode 125 On this episode invited a fellow podcaster over to chat. I created questions specifically for her because I think asking people things is a form of support. Kaytherebel from https://soundcloud.com/thiscantbelyfe showed up like I thought she would and then some. It's worth a listen!

Episode 124 This episode is a wonderful interview the pi'ece de resistance of heart felt transparent conversations. I speak with the, my co-host of https://soundcloud.com/reigningopinionspod Carmen and the conversation was simply beautiful! Carmen didn't hold back and I truly treasure how she showed up on my platform. Clear and brilliant!

Episode 123 This episode is about conflict, church & scandal. BJ & I chat it up about all things church and have an awesome long conversation!! I open up about being raised in the church and learning the difference between the truth and a lie and at some point realizing I didn't believe I was living the truth.

Episode 122 A recap of sorts thanking my most recent guests and just me being me. Happy to be in the 11th month of 2020

Episode 121 Segment 2 of the Relationship Talk Segment ( Dedicated episodes where I discuss different relationship topics with co-host Shon Hyneman https://soundcloud.com/s-hyneman "It's Scary To Remarry") On this Episode we talk about what it means to be equally yoked or how to even qualify as equally yoked. Is this required for a successful relationship? What do you think? Why do you think that?

Epsiode 120 Do you know what comes with your presence? Do you understand how you make people feel? I am trying to get a better grasp on this for myself, so I interviewed someone I felt owned their presence. Maybe that is a tall order and everybody is stil trying to figure out how to actually do it. More about the guest - Jonathan Jones https://soundcloud.com/syspodcast1 instagram @jonathanjonesspeaks

Episode 119 I could simply call this episode " Do Better" because I actively try to do better, but that doesn't mean I actively feel and see the change for the better in my day to day life. I have an amazing guest that knows her stuff. LSR was so kind to share her knowledge with us. We have a beautiful conversation that is worth the listen.

Episode 118 Look everybody is like less than 25 people if you think about it so why are we always grouping people into such large groups when we are hurt. I am not going to pretend I know the intent of every person who posts the meme I just know it inspired this episode. What meme you ask? "Everybody Is Not Going To Like You" and my rebuttal is the title of the show this week.

Episode 117 Segment 1 of the Relationship Talk Segment ( Dedicated episodes where I discuss different relationship topics with co-host Shon Hyneman https://soundcloud.com/s-hyneman "It's Scary To Remarry") Honesty vs. Truthfulness Honesty and truthfulness are not the same thing. Being honest means not telling lies. Being truthful means actively making known all the full truth of a matter. ... But if they unknowingly say something that isn't true, they are being honest. Articles Over Communication https://www.sonima.com/meditation/over-communication/ Healthy Communication https://www.bustle.com/p/heres-how-experts-define-healthy-communication-in-a-relationship-15830872

Episode 116 Is preparation for what is to come. I got quiet and now I'm ready to go!!! Sometimes silence is the noise of the focused - Christal Clear

Episode 115 Arrest The Cops that killed Breonna Taylor! Still writing to clear my head. Still troubled and will be until racism is dead.

Episode 114 This episode is my attempt to communicate where my head is. - I'm still upset - I will not understand - Don't ask me to forgive - I'm sensitive AF about my black people - Be careful with me I Probably need to log off of social media, but honestly there's no escape for the clear problem trying to bully us all into submission. America isn't safe for anyone in it's current state but specifically not safe for my black people. I want anyone trying to strike a balance and tell black folks what they need to do, to stop!!!! Black people know! Black people have tried! Black people keep trying! Black people are tired! Racism needs to completely end. Racism is the problem.

Episode 113 I planned on being back sooner but here I am with a new episode and an awesome guest @DergoBJ My intention for this conversation was to explore where we put ourselves, and keep ourselves. During this global pandemic we are asked to shelter in place for our health and safety. That requirement inspired the name of this episode and thought regarding how we shelter ourselves out of fear of the outcome if and when exposed. We could be hiding something beautiful but if we don't define it that way it stays hidden. We may have the answer but if we are not comfortable with the idea of sharing it remains a secret. We can have beautiful relationships but if we aren't sure how our feelings will be perceived in their entirety we withhold them. Just a few examples of the many ways we can be " Sheltered in Place". Me and my guest have an incredible thought provoking conversation that goes beyond my intention of the show and does more than I could even imagine. So take your time and listen. While this is a longer episode it is a great episode all the same.

Episode 112 Hey Sorry it took me so long I was mentally prepping for this. This year isn't playing any games with any of us! On this episode of course I talk about Corona Virus aka Covid -19, who isn't?! I talk about my plans for the year and using a planner / journal to help make my show complete. I give a list of do's during this trying time. I even read Psalms 91 for those who appreciate additional covering. This year may seem sketchy but the hardest most challenging years propel you to your next level. Journal PlanIt Planner link https://journalplanit.shop/

Episode 111 The last episode of 2019 This episode wraps up my podcast goals for 2019 and sets the tone for 2020.

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