Dee Sister Show

I genuinely believe that holding on to grudges or emotional pain results in all sorts of physical illnesses. These are the ways I believe will help to get you started for the year. 1. Have the will/ make the choice 2. Evaluate your life and be honest 3. Take the time to be still or meditate 4. Feel the emotions as many times as you need. 5. Take it easy on yourself and be patient. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

Many big businesses need to do better in terms of what they ask of their employees and what they give. It seems like the term 'professional family', does not go beyond their wallet to reach their heart. It is no surprise that their is a GREAT RESIGNATION happening globally. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

People who lie to themselves and say that making-money is a bad thing just lack ambition. Wealth does not just land in your bank account, it is something that is accumulated over time, through hard work as a result of adding value to people's lives. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

I hope this brings you an abundance of joy, genuine self-love, positive mental trnasformation and sugar spice and evrything nice! Make some goals, does not have to be big but make some so you end the year much better than when you started (which is TODAY). --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

I believe a mistake can only be made once, afer that it is a choice. How many times did you put your hand in boiling water as a child before you knew not to do it again?.. The answer is probably once. You call an action a mistake once, the second time it is a decision. This is the understanding --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

Selfishness clearly has a bad connotation to it, for good reason of course. But it is still needed to a degree. The problem comes when you get good things for yourself at the expense of other people. After all, you can't give to people what you don't have --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

This is a question that I would like to assume plagues people's minds, when they see us stand up for ourselves. Perhaps we do not tolerate the disrespect they so badly want to give us but rather we reject it and instead of taking accountability for the way they treat, it's more fitting for them to label us as ‘angry'. After all, the black woman is the most disrespected person in the society.

People need to know Christianity teaches us freedom and love. It preaches how you can access and maintain your divine nature as a god. But to live in that realm of divinity, there are limitations that you will need to unlearn and sadly, those are the ones we tend to like to cling to. Just the way you can't be lazy and successful, you can't be your highest self and hold on certain spiritually limiting behaviours and notions. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

In this episode, I explain the reason why people tend to see plussize people as problematic when they voice their opinion. Also, I explain the reasoning behind us voicing our opinons, about what we see in their constantly. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

What is the problem with stereotypes if we all have them. It exists whether we want to admit them or not and we all fall into one stereotypical category or another, whether it's according to race, culture or country. So what is the specific problem with stereotypes? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

Just the way there is a law of karma and gravity, that we can't affect or change. There are a group of laws that govern this life that we must find or else we won't be living a fulfilling life. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

I'm speaking about what I understand political correctness to be and what I think the solution is. This recording might not be exhaustive but based on my knowledge so far, this is what I have to say. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

I talk about the images issues caused by the media and perpetuated by society-happily. NEVER see yourself through the opinions and eyes of other people, because no one said that their opinions carry such importance that it should trump yours. Unless they inflated it themselves through their self-importance. I hope I helped shed some light on this topic with you. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

I talk about what I think the answer to this question is. The realisation of certain things and the acknowledgment of the fact that it's a personal decision and is not a reflection of the woman in the relationship --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

Release yourself from the prison that you have the keys. You've been deceived into thinking that you're a prisoner in a prison that you have the keys to. Make the DECISION to move forward, it's a rollercoaster but it's worth it.

I just had some things to get off my chest. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

I thought to speak on it again after the recent report from the government regarding racism in the UK. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

In this episode, I talk about how the racism in the UK is so minute and covert, that you can easily second guess yourself and undermine your own mistreatment. All their racist acts can be plausibly denied, which is what adds to the anger we all share: IT'S HARD TO PROVE. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

You MUST experience the freedom that has been given to you as the supernatural being that you are. The sky is too wide for two birds to collide. Don't be limited by human opinions and self-inflicted limitations. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

In this episode, I detail how I dealt with my own trauma, how I felt and the steps that I took. I'm hoping it validates some of the thoughts you might be having or something you might be thinking to do; to distance yourself from toxic people. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

In this episode, I talk about how to deal with your trauma and what happens if you don't. You are complete justified in how feeling how it made you feel but YOU must make the decision to deal with it so that it doesn't hold you back any further and you can reach your highest self. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

You don't have to work towards a massive goal in life in order to feel like you have purpose. Just set a goal that YOU want and work for it. Your mind is too powerful for it to be wasted on you just simply existing. Imagine a better version of yourself or a better environment for yourself and you'll see how momentum will begin to build until it's achieved. There's something unique that only you can bring to the world and no one can replicate, find out what that thing is. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

I hope this brings an abundance of love, joy, peace and wealth. Work on YOUrself and give YOUrself everything your heart desires within the boundaries of love. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

In this episode, I talk about the type of people who go the extra mile to market themselves as good people. Anyone who has to make the effort to be seen as a good person is probably not what they say they are. If they are honest, good or generous etc they wouldn't have to say it, they will know and the people around them will confirm it. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

This was my first recording. The audio isn't so clear because my phone was connected to speakers and I didn't realise it until I listened to it back. Anyways, still listen to it because I do talk about myself in it. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

I recorded this as I was taking pictures for a project I was working on and had to face the insecurities, that I'd become comfortable with hiding. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

I talk about the toxic forgiveness that is pervasive in the societies and cultures today. It leads to more unhappiness in life not the freedom we all desire. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

This is the second friend I had that I nearly considered to be a sister. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

I talk about the parasitic friend I called a snake but who turned out to be something else. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

I speak the truth that my autistic brother never had the chance to. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

I give account of the things I experienced at the hands of my brother. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

I talk about my dad and my thoughts and experiences on the ‘relationship' we had. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

I explain what I imagine the trauma my mother went through and what she must've gone through in her life, to become unhappy and take it out on her children. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

The reason we may feel distressed or unhappy on social media is because we only see the ‘successes' that people post. In the moment, we tend to forget that they don't post their failures just like us. We only post the good things that happen in our lives and dismiss the fact that other people's lives are just as normal as ours but social media can magnify whatever feeling it makes us feel. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

The big question of why?, when it comes to narcissistic people and abuse. Why do they do what they do? Did they go through more pain than the rest of us? Or more pain than the rest of us? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

I give an update on my healing so far, and give pointers for those who need help on their healing journey. I also use my experience to explain. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

I explain gaslighting using an experience of my own to explain. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

My opinions on the thoughts of revenge that pop up from time to time in my life. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

I talk about what it's like to have anxiety using my experiences to demonstrate how it slowly builds. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

These are my thoughts on the recent situation that's happening with Kanye. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message

I talk about self-love and the process that goes into making it happen. The people you need to let go of, in order to experience it and what happens if by chance you choose not to let them go. I also provide tips on ways to get there successfully. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deborah-meels/message