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Realitea is an lgbtq life affirming introspective podcast hosted by Jake Hughes and Jallen Messersmith. They serve the tea straight from the tea pot on every topic imaginable, while always mixing in a healthy dose of pop culture. Discussing everything from Drag to the Mormon church, sit down with Ja…

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    • Aug 14, 2019 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 1h 19m AVG DURATION
    • 28 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from RealiTea with Jake and Jallen

    The Final Countdown

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2019 37:16


    THAT'S A WRAP ON SEASON 1! Jake and Jallen look back on their first season of RealiTea and talk about some of their absolute fave mems and what their goals are for season 2! After this ep, they are taking a cute little baby break to grow and plan more podcast fun for the future. Sit down with them and taste the rest of S1 tea bb!

    She Works Hard For The Money

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2019 66:43


    Work. Whether you love it or hate it, it pays the bills and provides you with opportunities you otherwise might not experience. While laying in bed and vegging out might seem ideal at times, getting on your grind and committing to getting the job done is a whole other level of rewarding! This week Jake and Jallen sit down to discuss all things job-related and dissect what even IS this 9-5 grind we all seem to take part of.

    We Are Family w/ Cooper and Luca Coyle

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2019 63:40


    We are family! I’ve got all my sisters with me! Family can be tricky for anyone, but regardless of your relationship with yours, no one can deny that family plays a significant role in your life at some point. This week, the boys sit down with YouTubers Cooper and Luca Coyle (who are also twin brothers) and talk about the ins and outs of what family is, what it means, and why it matters.

    Hot Topics

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2019 59:47


    Extra extra hear all about it! Jake and Jallen have some news for you they can’t wait to spill the tea on. This week the boys are switching it up and bringing you a whole episode dedicated to hot topics! Join Jake and Jallen as they go through twitter and talk about all things trending and get the 411 on what even is going on in this crazy world.

    Love Myself

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2019 77:19


    If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love somebody else can we get an amen up in here?? RuPaul said it, and so it shall be done. We are loving ourselves babiezzzz! This week, the boys sit down to talk about the most important care in the world, SELF CARE. Get cozy and treat yo self to a warm little baby cup of tea as we dish about the ins and outs of self care!

    Workin 9 to 5 w/ No Name Outfitters

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2019 80:08


    Sorry Fifth Harmony, this week we ARE going to work (work work work work work work). Literally having a job is not always easy. The stress of working AND doing so successfully can get to anyone. BUT on top of dealing with the typical professional pressures, even more can be added when a person experiences inequality at their job. This week, the boys sit down with No Name Outfitters to discuss inequality in the work place, and how it pertains, specifically, to the LGBTQIA+ community.

    Born This Way w/ Alex Clark

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2019 102:18


    In society today, people have like a MILLION contradicting opinions on the topic of gender. While it seems there are disagreements all across the board, the fact of the matter is that gender is not as black and white (or as blue and pink) as the world acts like it is. This week, the boys sit down with Alex Clark to talk about gender identity and expression as well as hear what it’s like to be something other than cisgendered and learn what we can do, as a society, to gain a little more unity on the topic.

    This Is America w/ Jordan Colovos

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2019 117:38


    In America, racial inequality and stereotypes are still deeply rooted throughout our society and culture. This week, Jake and Jallen sit down with NYC dancer Jordan Colovos to discuss the topic of race, the experiences of being a person of color while also belonging to the LGBTQ+ community, and how we can all progress together to gain a little bit of unity up in this gig.

    Get On Your Feet w/ Marti G Cummings

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2019 73:28


    In life, there are a lot of things to be passionate about. With everyone’s opinions constantly flying around us the list of things to get fired up about, truly goes on and on. But just as it’s important to have an opinion, it is also important to ACT on it. This week, the boys sit down with NYC drag queen Marti G Cummings and discuss the ins and outs of activism. Join them as they learn about the different ways to get involved and dive into what even IS activism and WHY it’s important.

    Proud Mary

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2019 88:21


    HAPPY PRIDE MONTH SWEET ANGELS! If we have said it once we have said it a gay-zillion times, we are here, queer, severe, and PROUD of it. So to kick off Pride Month, Jake and Jallen are dedicating this episode to PRIDE! Join the boys as they talk about the history of pride, what pride means to them, and like, why we even NEED gay pride in the first place.

    God is a Woman w/ Kanon Sapp

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2019 91:45


    It’s no secret that Jake and Jallen love them some boyz. BUT there is nothing quite like the admiration and respect they have for all of the bad ass females out there. When it comes to being a woman, the challenges they face are far more complex than either Jake or Jallen can possibly comprehend in their little baby brains. On top of that, being a queer woman adds a whole other layer of hurdles for our fabulous females to jump over. This week, the boys sit down with dancer and choreographer Kanon Sapp as she provides a pansexual perspective on what it’s like being a queer woman in America and how we, as a community, can come together.

    Man, I Feel Like a Woman w/ Jan Sport

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2019 111:06


    If you’re interested in a “masc only” situation, tbh listen no further. This week, the boys sit down with NYC drag queen Jan Sport and the dolls dish on all things fem. Join Jake, Jallen, and Jan as they share stories on being a feminine man, expressing their femininity, and try to figure out what even is fem?

    Club Can't Handle Me w/ Ruby Roo

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2019 86:27


    New York City during the day is literally crazy enough on its own, but once the sun goes down, mama, it’s a whole other animal. We’re known as the city that never sleeps, so what do we do instead? This week, the boys sit down with NYC Drag Queen and award winning bartender Ruby Roo to talk about New York City nightlife and share some of their happy (and horror) stories of going out in The Big Apple.

    Mean

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2019 76:53


    Okay so bullying is NOT cute. But it IS something that we have all had experiences with at one time or another. Whether you’ve been the bully or bullied (or tbh both) we can all say that we’ve experienced a bit of shade thrown our way that may have just been a little too shady. This week, join the boys as they dissect the topic of bullying and get into what it is, what it means, and how it’s changed over the years.

    Potential Breakup Song w/ Joshua Pauley

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2019 96:05


    Literally relationships are HARD WORK. But what seems to be even harder is when one comes to an end. Whether it’s ghosting, through a text, or just flat out being DUMPED, we can all agree that this shit ain’t easy. This week, the boys sit down with Josh and share their thoughts on relationships ending, spill tea on their own experiences, and break down EVERYTHING that has to do with breaking up.

    I Believe w/ Jacklynn Hyde

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2019 108:16


    Growing up as two little baby gay boys, Jake and Jallen have a lot in common when it comes to their childhoods. However, one aspect of their lives is vastly different from one another, in that Jallen actually grew up in the Mormon Church. This week, the boys sit down with NYC Drag Queen Jacklynn Hyde (who also grew up Mormon) to discuss what it was like to go from The Church to The City and how their lives have been vastly different ever since.

    On The Road Again

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2019 78:05


    Flying first class (tbh actually coach) up in the sky! Honestly, whether you are from a small town, a big city, or anywhere in between, traveling is literally VITAL for all of us to experience if we can. This week, Jake and Jallen put their tea in a to go mug because they are on the MOVE, honey. Take a little trip with them as they discuss just what even IS the tea on traveling!

    1-800-273-8255 w/ Justin Russo

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2019 125:42


    This week, Jake and Jallen sit down with Justin Russo to discuss suicide; an important topic that effects millions of people across the world every day. While the topic of suicide may be difficult to grapple with, it is something Jake, Jallen, and Justin have all had personal experiences with and find important to process alongside of you, and the rest of the world. Please be aware that the following content may be difficult and/or triggering to listen to.

    Empire State of Mind w/ Brian Robotham

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2019 75:09


    Literally New York is coo coo bananas. There are people everywhere, there are sometimes rats bopping around, and like also things smell just genuinely icky sometimes. But if we’re being all the way honest NYC is also randomly the best city in the world. But like, why? And why did Jake and Jallen even end up here? This week Jake and Jallen sit down with NY baby himself, Brian Robotham, and explore all up and down all the ins and outs of their home,  New York City.

    How Will I Know? w/ Eddie Gooch

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2019 69:35


    So we’ve def already established that Jake and Jallen are Gay with a capital G, but now we need to dive into HOW they knew they were here, queer, and severe. This week, Jake, Jallen, and special guest Eddie are jumping into their bedazzled time machine and reflecting on the moments in their lives they KNEW they were gay. Listen to stories from their weird childhood, awkward middle school days, and confusing adult lives that transformed these sweet angel babies into full blown homos; and ultimately, the self loving individuals they’ve learned to be today.

    Blame It On the Alcohol w/ Abby Scofield

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2019 115:55


    Bottoms up! (and we’re not talking about Jake). This week, Jake, Jallen, and special guest Abby are putting a splash of vodka in their tea to discuss the good, the bad, and the ugly of their favorite type of juice: alcohol. Listen to Jake, Jallen, and Abby share embarrassing drunk stories, talk about their favorite drinks, and maybe even get a little tipsy themselves (we apologize in advance for the slurred words).

    Drag Up Your Life w/ Izzy Uncut

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2019 90:59


    If you know anything about Jake and Jallen at all, you know that they are OBSESSED with drag. But there is a lot about drag their little baby brains have yet to learn. Like how do you glue down a wig? What’s the hardest part about drag? And how bad DOES tucking actually hurt? More importantly though, what are all of the beautiful things drag does for our community? This week Jake and Jallen sit down with New York City Drag Queen, Izzy Uncut as she spills the tea on what it’s like to truly live like a Queen!

    Reality Check

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2019 62:12


    A lot of people have passions. Maybe it’s a sport. Maybe it’s a hobby. Maybe it’s like, performing brain surgery or something. For Jake and Jallen, one of their main passions in life is, and always has been, Reality TV (No like seriously, they love it). But how “real” IS “reality” TV? And what about it is SO addicting? This week, Jake and Jallen take you on a journey through the world of Reality TV and all that it encompasses. Touching on everything from Flavor of Love to The Real Housewives, they dish on iconic Reality TV moments, legendary personalities, and Jallen spills some tea on his personal experiences as someone who has been in front of the camera himself.

    Big Boys Don't Cry

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2019 59:38


    Unlike Ariana, we actually DO have some tears left to cry. In life, we all get a little emo. And sometimes it’s okay to just let some tears fall. But like, why do we even? What do we get out of it? And also, where tf did the idea that “boy’s don’t cry” even COME from? This week, Jake and Jallen put the TEA in TEArs and discuss the concept of crying, the culture around it, and what makes THEM emo.

    Like, Comment, Share, Repeat

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2019 57:37


    Social Media has LITERALLY taken over. Whether you are an insta-addict or an off the grid queen, chances are, at some point, the various forms of social media have found a way to sneak their way into your life. This week, Jake and Jallen take you from Xanga to Instagram as they explore the world of social media and how it’s shaped our culture.

    Boys, Boys, Boys

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2019 69:19


    Boys. They are literally everywhere. Sometimes when we meet a nice one, our little hormones get the best of us and we end up DATING them. But why? And what does dating even look like in 2019? Jake and Jallen are on the case and ready to dish on the ins and outs of dating, boys, and maybe even spill some tea on their own love lives as well.

    I’m Coming Out!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2019 70:15


    Come out, come out, wherever you are (only if you’re ready though). Hey, did you know that Jake and Jallen are gay? Well, for their premiere episode they are taking a deep dive OUT of their closets and dissecting like, what even IS coming out?

    How We Like Our Tea

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2019 16:48


    What are you even listening to? Find out via this little intro that’s not a full gulp of tea, but a cute sip. Get acquainted with Jake and Jallen as they introduce you to RealiTea and tell you what to expect from this cute a** podcast.

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