The Childfree Connection

Brita's story is a raw and honest exploration of one of the most challenging scenarios in relationships: the discovery that one partner wants a child, and the other doesn't. She and her ex-husband started their romance young, with the societal script of "happily ever after plus baby" playing in the background. But as time went on, that traditional script began to unravel.In this episode, Brita peels back the layers of her decision-making process, revealing the internal struggles, the relationship tensions, and ultimately, the path to self-discovery.If you've ever wondered about the real-life implications of how the "baby decision" impacts a relationship, or if you're grappling with your own childfree choice, Brita's story will inspire you to check in with your true authentic self. Doors to "Is Childfree For Me? The Essential Guide to Exploring Childfree Life" ARE OPEN! (This is an invite-only program.) Book your FREE call with me so together, we can decide if this exploration journey is exactly what you need. The next cohort begins soon!ischildfreeforme.comEnjoying the podcast? Hit subscribe to get notified when new episodes are released. We would also love your support with a review or a rating!More about The Childfree Connection: https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/Test Us HERE With Questions!

Ever catch yourself in a spiral of anxiety and worry? If your answer is “no,” we want your secret! Chances are, at some point in the last few weeks, you found yourself overthinking about SOMETHING.As childfree individuals, society likes to warn us about our potentially regretful future. While these thoughts may sneak in from time to time, what about all the other pesky worries that line up in our brains? In this episode, Rick and I share the four tips that help us cope when we catch ourselves overthinking.Join us as we celebrate the final episode of Season 1! Rick shares his fears about an old injury, and I explain why I refuse to watch movie trailers. We also discuss a disturbing event at an adults-only pool that we now refer to as “the incident.”If you're looking to make new childfree friends around the globe, there's a whole community of childfree people waiting to meet you.

Should you be shouting “I'm Childfree!” to the world? We think so! In this episode, we share some powerful reasons why it's important to be vocal about your childfree choice.Even if it doesn't come naturally to you, the benefits of sharing this aspect of your life can often outweigh any potential drawbacks. We'll explain exactly why.Rick reveals the stress his brother experiences with four kids, Veronica talks about healing from a foot injury, and we answer a listener's question with an impromptu role play. Join us as we continue to celebrate our childfree life!If you're looking to make new childfree friends around the globe, there's a whole community of childfree people waiting to meet you.

Ericka didn't initially choose to be childfree. She spent 10 years navigating a challenging infertility journey, leaving her uncertain about her future. She grappled with concerns about not becoming a mother and feared her life might always feel incomplete. Ericka also faced the judgement and expectation from her faith based community.When joining my program, "Is Childfree For Me?", Ericka embarked on an intense self-discovery journey, which continues to this day. Her willingness to be vulnerable and open has illuminated her complex but intentional path to finding joy with her childfree life.If you find yourself questioning your decision, Ericka's determination to shape her own destiny will inspire you to take charge of yours.Doors to "Is Childfree For Me? The Essential Guide To Exploring Childfree Life" CLOSE IN JUST 3 DAYS! This is an invite-only program. Book your FREE call with me so together, we can decide if this exploration is exactly what you need.ischildfreeforme.comEnjoying the podcast? Hit subscribe to get notified when new episodes are released. We would also love your support with a review or a rating!Rick and I host a community of incredible childfree people around the globe 

We're diving into the all-too-familiar rude comments that childfree people just can't seem to avoid. You know the ones – the hurtful, confusing, and downright insane remarks that make us shake our heads. These comments have become so ingrained in our society that people often don't realize just how insensitive they're being. In this episode, we'll tackle gems like "What are you going to do if your partner dies before you?", "You'll change your mind" and a bunch more that you may have yet to hear.Rick gives kudos to Veronica for her workout commitment and introduces a new AI tool that could be handy for childfree folks in the future. Meanwhile, Veronica recounts her eye-opening airport experience and announces the date for her Free Live Training- “Help! I Can't Decide If I Want Kids”.Enjoying the podcast? Hit subscribe to get notified when new episodes are released. We would also love your support with a review or a rating!Rick and I host a community of incredible childfree people around the globe 

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Send us a Text Message.Ever felt a bit out of place in your friend circle because everyone else has kids? Or maybe you find yourself holding back in conversations? In this episode, we unleash the top reasons why it feels so good to be surrounded by childfree friends.It's so refreshing to connect with people who understand your frustrations, your wins and also share similar opinions. And let's face it, some of our family and friends have zero understanding of the childfree choice because they just don't get it.We share one woman's journey down the dark hole of childfree communities and give you insight on our own childfree tribe. Also, Rick and I have our first on-air disagreement about something you may totally relate to.Enjoying the podcast? Hit subscribe to get notified when new episodes are released. We would also love your support with a review or a rating! Rick and I host a community of incredible childfree people around the globe 

Ever been asked what you do with your free time as a childfree person? If not, get ready – it's likely that you'll eventually be hit with this baffling query. In this episode, we dive into why this question pops up and why our free time is still frowned upon by society.Regardless of these silly assumptions, you know we always turn the spotlight back to the joys of our childfree lifestyle. From our latest escapade in a charming small town to a side-splitting comedy night, we're all about embracing our personal desires.Join us as we reveal the many ways we and our childfree community make the most of our time! Plus, Rick announces his new childfree gratitude for the week which was sparked by a disturbing news article.We invite you to join in on the conversation! Did your family have a positive or negative reaction to your childfree decision?And don't forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there's a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to.

Rick and I will be back next time but stick with me today because I have a very special bonus episode of "Is Childfree For Me?" where my program graduates share their personal story of how they found peace and confidence with the childfree choice.Today you will meet Charlotte, a 32 year old woman from Sweden, who's anxiety intensified when her best friend announced her pregnancy. Charlotte didn't feel ready to have kids so she panicked with the thought that it was her turn to have kids too.The initial panic led to a sea of confusion about motherhood and children. Charlotte first worked with a therapist, who, although helpful, didn't contribute to her confidence in making a final decision. She also felt lonely and isolated because she didn't have anyone close to her that was considering the childfree choice.Charlotte's determination to find clarity was fueled by a New Year's resolution to prioritize self love and self care. I am certain that you'll be inspired by her dedication and willingness to find inner peace.If you feel STUCK in the decision to have or not have kids, I can help! My program "Is Childfree For Me? The Essential Guide to Exploring Childfree Life" is a step by step guide to reaching an informed decision with the peace and confidence you deserve. Doors are NOW OPEN! This is an invite-only program. Book your FREE call with me so together, we can decide if this is exactly what you need!ischildfreeforme.comAnd don't forget, if you are feeling isolated or would love to grow your childfree tribe, we have a whole community of childfree people who are ready to welcome you.

What happens when you tell your family that you decided NOT to have kids? In this episode, we explore the positive and sometimes uncomfortable reactions that our childfree community has received when they break the no kids news.We uncover a common lie that childfree people resort to when faced with relentless judgment or pressure. (Please comment if you've done this!) Plus, I share an example of one family's heartbreaking reaction which is sure to leave you speechless.Join us as we reveal Rick's odd security mission during our hill country getaway and discuss the reason why we are both taking ice cold showers!We invite you to join in on the conversation! Did your family have a positive or negative reaction to your childfree decision?And don't forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there's a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to.

Rick and I are on the struggle bus in this candid episode of The Childfree Connection Podcast! We're laying it all out as we unpack the recent challenges that life has thrown our way. We considered skipping this episode but instead found ourselves inspired to tackle a question we're frequently asked by the childfree community, "Is Childfree Life Easy?".Rick shares his insight on an emotion that many of us feel, but is often clouded by shame (spoiler alert: loneliness). Meanwhile, I reveal some heartbreaking news that's led me to reassess the very essence of gratitude.And don't forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there's a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to.

Rick and I will be back next time but today I have a very special bonus episode of "Is Childfree For Me? " where my program graduates share their personal story of how they found peace and confidence with the childfree choice.Today you will meet Delilah.Do you ever feel like you keep pushing back the goal post when it comes to having kids? For example, you may think– I'll have kids once I'm financially stable, when I meet "the one", once I'm done traveling the world –and then you find yourself at that moment only to find a new reason to push back?Delilah is a childfree woman who was doing exactly that and wait till you hear the crazy marker she ended up setting for herself (craziest I've heard yet!)! Delilah shares how she joined my program "Is Childfree For Me?" because she no longer wanted to sit with the feelings of shame and guilt of making this life altering decision and how sterilization surgery started to become an option.If you find yourself ruminating about this decision or perhaps pushing the goal post as well, you will be inspired by Delilah's decision to take control of her life.If you feel STUCK in the decision to have or not have kids, I can help! My program "Is Childfree For Me? The Essential Guide to Exploring Childfree Life" is a step by step guide to reaching an informed decision with the peace and confidence you deserve. Doors for my program CLOSE in just 3 DAYS! This is an invite-only program. Book your FREE call with me so together, we can decide if this is exactly what you need!ischildfreeforme.comAnd don't forget, if you are feeling isolated or would love to grow your childfree tribe, we have a whole community of childfree people who are ready to welcome you.

Have you ever found yourself caught in the crossfire of defensiveness or judgment from parents? Or, maybe you have felt outcasted or overlooked? Rick and I have received so many negative comments from parents that we started wondering about the root of this divide between parents and those without kids. In this episode, we share the leading causes that will shed some light on this strange “competition”.I also explore my family tree and share a surprising conclusion that raises thought-provoking questions about future childfree generations. Meanwhile, Rick continues his exploration of how AI and Robotics will impact our childfree elder years and shares a fresh new reason to appreciate the childfree lifestyle.We invite you to join in on the conversation! Have you noticed that some parents cannot accept the childfree choice?And don't forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there's a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to.

In this episode, Rick and I dismantle the Top 5 Assumptions that society often casts on those of us living childfree – we debunk childfree myths and shed some light on the actual truth of the childfree lifestyle. We go from dispelling the notion of us being baby haters to challenging the prevailing misconception that all childfree people are rich.We share with you a very special encounter that unfolded at the Austin airport as I was on my way to Florida. This latest visit to see my mom sparked yet another childfree gratitude moment and a personal reflection that some of you may be experiencing as well. We invite you to join in on the conversation so that together, we can unravel all the false narratives that STILL exist and continue celebrating our childfree choice!And don't forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there's a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to.

In this episode, we unpack the relentless pressure that STILL exists within our pronatalist society to convince childfree people to have kids. We dissect the origin of these pesky pressures and offer some insight in how to shoo them away or support others to do so. Rick debuts his "poem writing" skills and reads a heartfelt-ish message for childfree people to enjoy. (wait till you hear ) We also share how we recently found ourselves sitting next to a couple with a toddler and how we reacted to their communication style. By the way- where are all the films celebrating a happy and fulfilled childfree life? The search is on!And don't forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there's a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to.

In this Bonus Episode, I interview an alumni member of my program "Is Childfree For Me?" The intention of this episode is to explore the intricate journey of embracing a childfree life—a path that can be marked by uncertainty, anxiety, stress and profound introspection.Rick and I will be back next week but today, I have the privilege of chatting with Vera, a remarkable woman who found herself at a crossroads in her early thirties. Surrounded by friends diving into parenthood, Vera and her soon-to-be husband were charting their own course, preparing for their wedding while contemplating a childfree future. However, a family tragedy shook their world, prompting them to reevaluate their plans.Vera candidly describes how they began to Feel responsible for bringing joy to the family which resulted in them trying to conceive. BUT, they soon realized that they were grappling with infertility.She very honestly and openly shares how she had to decide how far she was willing to go with fertility treatment and how reaching out to me led her down a path of discovering what she truly wanted for herself and her future. Vera's story resonates with the profound significance of exploring the childfree life with authenticity and depth.“Is Childfree For Me?” is a group program for women who are childfree or leaning into a childfree life but feel a roller coaster of emotions about solidifying this choice. If you are ruminating in anxiety, doubt, fear, shame or the idea of regret, this program is for you. “Is Childfree For Me?” guides you through the cause of those feelings and offers actionable steps to move forward with confidence and peace. This is an invite-only program. You can book a FREE call with Veronica to grab your seat for the next round. Doors open soon! (https://www.ischildfreeforme.com) Reminder: We are now accepting guest applications for our 2024 podcast episodes! (https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/childfree-podcast-episodes).And don't forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there's a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to.

As a childfree person, have you ever heard someone say that having a kid makes you a better person? (We've heard that a lot!) In today's episode of The Childfree Connection Podcast, Rick shares a clip where the guest said exactly that -so, we're going to dive into what a “better” person means and how is having children related to this supposed transformation? Also, Rick wants to know if celebrity pregnancy announcements are really necessary after he sees one as a top headline on his favorite site. Plus, we both share why our gratitude for being childfree was higher than usual these past two weeks (way high!). And lastly, Rick questions if it's weird to go to Disney without kids? And, don't forget, if your community of friends are all having kids and you're feeling left out, there's a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to.

Are parents happier than those without children? If you had asked either of us in our 20s and 30s, we likely would have answered yes. I can still hear the refrain in my head: "You'll never be truly happy until you become a mom." This concept was so deeply ingrained in my mind that the possibility of it not being true didn't even occur to me. I simply assumed that my lack of desire meant I would never experience true happiness.In this episode, I share the results of some recent research studies which answer this question and of course, we share our own thoughts on happiness and living a childfree life. I also report on Rick's latest stunt that resulted in a broken TV set and how he (annoyingly) won our 24 Hour contest.We can't wait to hear your thoughts on how you frame happiness as a childfree person! And, don't forget, if your community of friends are all having kids and you're feeling left out, there's a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to.

Does Childhood Affect Your Childfree Choice? Ina Garten “The Barefoot Contessa” did a recent interview where she spoke about her childfree choice and how she “did not want to recreate her childhood”. Rick and I were inspired to post about this on our social media accounts and decided to discuss if that was a reason for us as well. Also in this first episode of 2024, we share some details of our NYE party where I performed a choreographed dance routine for one of my best friends. Continuing on our true crime obsession, an investigation scene left Rick wondering if we “have to” say congratulations to people who announce a pregnancy. And don't forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there's a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to.

Will I be bored without kids? Rick and I were asked this question at a recent Holiday party. This is a common fear that is placed on childfree people along with the mindset that the only way not to be bored is to have children. We start exploring this topic with each other but also wonder if this fear has crossed your mind too?In this episode, Rick and I also discuss a recent headline where a childfree woman finds out her husband has 2 secret children. Yikes! We also dive into the polarity that a DINK viral video caused as people defended opposite ends of the spectrum. Not surprisingly, Elon Musk gets involved in this controversy as he continues to blame childfree people for declining birth rates.And don't forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there's a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to.

We deserve to enjoy the Holiday Season! As childfree people, we have been conditioned to believe that the Holidays are “for the kids”. With all the pronatalism in media and social media during this season, it can be easy for childfree people to brush off the Holidays or feel a bit lost during this time. In this episode, Rick and I discuss the joy of the Holiday Season and the importance of childfree traditions. We share some of our own and a few that we want to start incorporating as of this year.We appreciate the quiet time, the ability to choose what we want to do and the space for adult fun. We also share a list of Holiday Fun ideas that you can do for the Holidays!  We hope that this episode motivates you to join in and start your own childfree traditions. And don't forget, if you are feeling lonely now or at any time, there's a whole community of childfree people you can instantly relate to.

Fear of future regret can be a common emotion in the childfree community. Unless you were 100% certain that you didn't want kids from day one, your mind can automatically flow into the murky waters of the “what ifs”. In this episode, Rick and I dive into the difference between feeling regret about the past and the fear of future regret once a person decides to be childfree. I discuss my experience in speaking to the members of my program “Is Childfree For Me?” and how deeply this fear can affect their mindset.What causes regret? What can you do about it? What is the one important thing that will help you avoid the fear of regret?We answer these questions and share examples of other parts of our lives where the fear of regret can set in. We hope that this conversation sparks some introspection for you or motivates you to support a childfree friend who may be stuck in this fear loop.Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments below. We'd love to hear what topics you'd like us to explore in future episodes!"More about The Childfree Connection: https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/Interested in being a guest? Email veronica@thechildfreeconnection.comConnect with us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thechildfreeconnection/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijDaIWP2XcXMNPaUG08t8gFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/thechildfreeconnectionX (Twitter): https://twitter.com/TheChildfreeCxn

As childfree people, it's so important to practice gratitude about our lifestyle! In this episode, we discuss the state of the world and how our process is very different from parents. We share gratitude for having the time to focus on our health and wellness and the opportunity to heal ourselves or our relationship. We also welcome the opportunity for self-help and how we can grow as people. Once you make it a regular practice, you'll be surprised how many grateful moments will show up for you. If you want to join the gratitude party, kick off your practice with us! We'd love to hear what topics you'd like us to explore in future childfree podcast episodes!More about The Childfree Connection: https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/Interested in being a guest? Email veronica@thechildfreeconnection.comConnect with us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thechildfreeconnection/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijDaIWP2XcXMNPaUG08t8gFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/thechildfreeconnectionX (Twitter): https://twitter.com/TheChildfreeCxn

When your friends have kids and you are childfree, it can instantly transform your friendship beyond what you may have imagined. In this episode, Rick and I identify some of the challenges that can arise once your friends begin to have children. You may realize that choosing a childfree life can mean losing commonality with your friends who become parents. How can you manage those inevitable changes? Should the topic be addressed although it may feel uncomfortable or inappropriate? Should you compromise or just let it go?When you're the only childfree person in your circle, it may also feel more isolating as time goes on. (we don't want you to feel this way!)Rick and I share our personal stories and share some tips that may help you ease the transition.We'd love to hear what topics you'd like us to explore in future childfree podcast episodes!More about The Childfree Connection: https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/Interested in being a guest? Email veronica@thechildfreeconnection.comConnect with us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thechildfreeconnection/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijDaIWP2XcXMNPaUG08t8gFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/thechildfreeconnectionX (Twitter): https://twitter.com/TheChildfreeCxn

It's Veronica's turn as she describes her personal childfree journey and how different areas of her life guided her to this difficult choice. Veronica's road to choosing childfree was very bumpy and included 10+ years of confusion, doubt and panic. She spent a significant amount of time reflecting, researching and exploring what being childfree would mean to her. Now, she is a proud and confident childfree woman who spends her time helping younger women explore and dissect why they are leaning towards a childfree life but still don't feel at peace with choosing childfree. We'd love to hear what topics you'd like us to explore in future childfree podcast episodes!More about The Childfree Connection: https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/Interested in being a guest? Email veronica@thechildfreeconnection.comConnect with us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thechildfreeconnection/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijDaIWP2XcXMNPaUG08t8gFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/thechildfreeconnectionX (Twitter): https://twitter.com/TheChildfreeCxn

We dive deep into a childfree man's (Rick) personal childfree journey. Discover how his upbringing shaped his views on parenthood, hear about his past relationships, and the close call with the 'I'll have a baby if you want one' dilemma.  We'd love to hear what topics you'd like us to explore in future childfree podcast episodes!Let us know if you enjoyed listening and what you would love to hear in future episodes.More about The Childfree Connection: https://www.thechildfreeconnection.com/Interested in being a guest? Email veronica@thechildfreeconnection.comConnect with us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thechildfreeconnection/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijDaIWP2XcXMNPaUG08t8gFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/thechildfreeconnectionX (Twitter): https://twitter.com/TheChildfreeCxn

We're a childfree and happy couple who have a lot to say and share! In our very first podcast episode, we break down how we both ended up together (including Rick's stalking