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If your actual family life isn't quite as awesome as what everyone else is putting on social media, then you've come to the right place. With a fast-moving format, Barrett and Jenifer Johnson of INFOforFamilies.com take an authentic (and faith-based) look at family life for people who are honest eno…

Barrett and Jenifer Johnson


    • Jun 1, 2020 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 38m AVG DURATION
    • 36 EPISODES

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    Episode 018 - How to Confront 3 Big Lies that Teenagers Believe

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2020


    On this episode, you can listen in on an insightful interview Barrett had with Dr. Scott Turansky of the National Center for Biblical Parenting. They discuss three lies that most teenagers believe, and what parents can do about it. You’ll also hear a different perspective on Coronavirus restrictions as well as a suggestion for a personal response to the racial tension in America right now.

    018 - How to Confront 3 Big Lies That Teenagers Believe

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2020 24:35


    On this episode, you can listen in on an insightful interview Barrett had with Dr. Scott Turansky of the National Center for Biblical Parenting. They discuss three lies that most teenagers believe, and what parents can do about it. You'll also hear a different perspective on Coronavirus restrictions as well as a suggestion for a personal response to the racial tension in America right now.

    Episode 017 - How Your Family Can Thrive in Quarantine

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2020


    With schools closing and so many people working from home, many families are feeling the pressure of "close quarters." How can you manage the (temporary) new normal without murdering your spouse? On this episode, Barrett and Jenifer let you listen in on a terrific conversation they had with their friends Jarrod and Brooke, who have been working from home together for years. It's like a master class on how to keep your relationships and rhythms intact while living and working in close proximity. They discuss schedules, flexibility, expectations, priorities, communication, and so much more.

    017 - How Your Family Can Thrive in Quarantine

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2020 53:35


    With schools closing and so many people working from home, many families are feeling the pressure of "close quarters." How can you manage the (temporary) new normal without murdering your spouse? On this episode, Barrett and Jenifer let you listen in on a terrific conversation they had with their friends Jarrod and Brooke, who have been working from home together for years. It's like a master class on how to keep your relationships and rhythms intact while living and working in close proximity. They discuss schedules, flexibility, expectations, priorities, communication, and so much more.

    016 - How to Disciple Your Kids

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2020 30:56


    For people of faith, parenting = discipleship. On this episode, Barrett and Jenifer discuss some practical and easy ways to create a culture of spiritual growth in your home. You get to listen in to a conversation that Barrett had with author and speaker Philip Nation about a few simple shifts you can make to become more intentional with your kids. Barrett and Jen also discuss how easy it is for predators to connect with your kids via social media and give a call for diligence in how we protect our kids online.

    Episode 016 - How to Disciple Your Kids

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2020


    For people of faith, parenting = discipleship. On this episode, Barrett and Jenifer discuss some practical and easy ways to create a culture of spiritual growth in your home. They also discuss how easy it is for predators to connect with your kids via social media and give a call for diligence in how we protect our kids online.

    015 - How to Get the INFO for Families App

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2020 20:40


    On this episode, Barrett and Jenifer talk about the brand new INFO for Families App. It's been cooking for several months and it's finally time to get it out of the oven! They give some background on the app, download instructions for even the least tech-savvy person, and a comprehensive tour of what you'll find in the app. The bottom line is that you'll want to listen in and discover some great tools and resources for YOUR family.

    Episode 015 - How to Get the INFO for Families App

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2020


    On this episode, Barrett and Jenifer talk about the brand new INFO for Families App. It’s been cooking for several months and it’s finally time to get it out of the oven! They give some background on the app, download instructions for even the least tech-savvy person, and a comprehensive tour of what you’ll find in the app. The bottom line is that you’ll want to listen in and discover some great tools and resources for YOUR family.

    Episode 014 - How Your Imperfect Family Can Learn from Other Imperfect Families

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2019


    We’re back after a long break! On this episode, Barrett and Jenifer share a very special conversation that Jenifer had with blogger and inspirational mom Krisi Monsivaiz, who just happens to be one of her best friends. During a special weekend away in Savannah, Jen and Krisi set up a mic and recorded an important conversation about family, faith, and taking a long-term view for our kids. Listening in will encourage you no matter where you are in your journey, and it will remind you of the importance of walking through life with good friends. Along the way, they reflect on their Great Marriage Getaway retreat and introduce a series of interviews that you will get to hear in the coming weeks.

    014 - How Your Imperfect Family Can Learn from Other Imperfect Families

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2019 36:42


    We're back after a long break! On this episode, Barrett and Jenifer share a very special conversation that Jenifer had with blogger and inspirational mom Krisi Monsivaiz, who just happens to be one of her best friends. During a special weekend away in Savannah, Jen and Krisi set up a mic and recorded an important conversation about family, faith, and taking a long-term view for our kids. Listening in will encourage you no matter where you are in your journey, and it will remind you of the importance of walking through life with good friends.

    Episode 013 - How to Know the 10 Ways to Find the 7 Keys to the 5 Secrets to Being a Successful Parent, Husband or Wife (in 3 Easy Steps) - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2019


    Why are there so many checklists? On this episode, Barrett and Jenifer tackle part two of what they feel is perhaps is the most important component of building a healthy family life. (If you haven’t listened to part one yet, do that first.) It may or may not have anything to do with a list. Along the way, they discuss some funny ways people characterize marriage on Twitter, the crazy couple who got married at 100 and 102, and how to recover when you treat your spouse terribly….in her dreams.

    013 - How to Know the 10 Ways to Find the 7 Keys to the 5 Secrets to Being a Successful Parent, Husb

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2019 41:09


    Why are there so many checklists? On this episode, Barrett and Jenifer tackle part two of what they feel is perhaps is the most important component of building a healthy family life. (If you haven't listened to part one yet, do that first.) It may or may not have anything to do with a list. Along the way, they discuss some funny ways people characterize marriage on Twitter, the crazy couple who got married at 100 and 102, and how to recover when you treat your spouse terribly….in her dreams.

    Episode 012 - How to Know the 10 Ways to Find the 7 Keys to the 5 Secrets to Being a Successful Parent, Husband or Wife (in 3 Easy Steps) - Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2019


    On this episode, Barrett and Jenifer take a tongue-in-cheek look at our fascination with lists…and all the people who make promises that if you just do “these things,” your family will be awesome. More importantly, they explore a critical (but often neglected) dimension of the Christian life that makes all the checklists and top 10 lists unnecessary. Along the way, they discuss a recent study on teen sexting, loving your kids (even if you don’t always like them), and why men who take their wives to action movies rarely get any action when the movie is over.

    012 - How to Know the 10 Ways to Find the 7 Keys to the 5 Secrets to Being a Successful Parent, Husb

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2019 48:23


    On this episode, Barrett and Jenifer take a tongue-in-cheek look at our fascination with lists…and all the people who make promises that if you just do “these things,” your family will be awesome. More importantly, they explore a critical (but often neglected) dimension of the Christian life that makes all the checklists and top 10 lists unnecessary. Along the way, they discuss a recent study on teen sexting, loving your kids (even if you don't always like them), and why men who take their wives to action movies rarely get any action when the movie is over.

    Episode 011 - How to Survive When Bad Things Happen to Your Family

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2019


    On this episode, Barrett and Jenifer welcome a very special guest….Jenifer’s younger sister Julie. They share openly and honestly about some incredibly difficult struggles their families have had to endure (and continue to endure). They offer hope of God’s activity and redemption in the midst of the pain, reminding us that God can use hard times to bring about good things in our lives and families. Along they way, they share a few embarrassing stories from childhood, discuss a troubling article about sex workers from Teen Vogue, and offer some great resources to help your family get through hard times.

    011 - How to Survive When Bad Things Happen to Your Family

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2019 45:55


    On this episode, Barrett and Jenifer welcome a very special guest….Jenifer's younger sister Julie. They share openly and honestly about some incredibly difficult struggles their families have had to endure (and continue to endure). They offer hope of God's activity and redemption in the midst of the pain, reminding us that God can use hard times to bring about good things in our lives and families. Along the way, they share a few embarrassing stories from childhood, discuss a troubling article about sex workers from Teen Vogue, and offer some great resources to help your family get through hard times.

    010 - How and Why You Need to Build Guardrails in Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2019 34:54


    On this episode, Barrett and Jenifer talk about why it's so important to carefully guard your marriage from outside forces. If you value your marriage, it's worth protecting! They specifically discuss boundaries in opposite sex relationships, with technology, and with your extended family. Along the way, they also dish on “the talk,” whose job it is to kill spiders, and what we can learn about marriage from Beyonce's Homecoming concert on Netflix.

    Episode 010 - How and Why You Need to Build Guardrails in Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2019


    On this episode, Barrett and Jenifer talk about why it’s so important to carefully guard your marriage from outside forces. If you value your marriage, it’s worth protecting! They specifically discuss boundaries in opposite sex relationships, with technology, and with your extended family. Along the way, they also dish on “the talk,” whose job it is to kill spiders, and what we can learn about marriage from Beyonce’s Homecoming concert on Netflix.

    Episode 009 - How to Address the Unique Struggles of Our Daughters

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2019


    On this episode, Barrett and Jenifer discuss how all the issues our pre-teen and teenage girls face are amplified by smartphone technology. They examine a study that chronicles the sharp increase in depression, anxiety, and suicide among our daughters’ generation. In response to the many stories parents have told us about their daughters finding porn, Jenifer has a special segment where she talks to girls about God’s love and His plan for restoration. Along the way, they talk about the challenges of modern parenting, lying to their kids about the ice cream truck, and a dad’s role in shepherding his daughter’s heart.

    009 - How to Address the Unique Struggles of our Daughters

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2019 46:07


    On this episode, Barrett and Jenifer discuss how all the issues our pre-teen and teenage girls face are amplified by smartphone technology. They examine a study that chronicles the sharp increase in depression, anxiety, and suicide among our daughters' generation. In response to the many stories parents have told us about their daughters finding porn, Jenifer has a special segment where she talks to girls about God's love and His plan for restoration. Along the way, they talk about the challenges of modern parenting, lying to their kids about the ice cream truck, and a dad's role in shepherding his daughter's heart.

    Episode 008 - How To Minimize the Impact of Porn on Your Family - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2019


    In the second part of a two part series, Barrett Johnson examines the ways that porn is negatively affecting today’s families. He shares part two of the live talk he recently gave, focusing on what a family must do to stay on guard. (You need an action plan!) He also shares the “four streams of healing” for those who find themselves stuck in a pattern of addiction. The question of the week is one that he and Jenifer encounter often: “What if my spouse thinks porn is no big deal?”

    008 - How to Minimize the Impact of Porn on Your Family - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2019 37:13


    In the second part of a two part series, Barrett Johnson examines the ways that porn is negatively affecting today's families. He shares part two of the live talk he recently gave, focusing on what a family must do to stay on guard. (You need an action plan!) He also shares the “four streams of healing” for those who find themselves stuck in a pattern of addiction. The question of the week is one that he and Jenifer encounter often: “What if my spouse thinks porn is no big deal?”

    Episode 007 - How To Minimize the Impact of Porn on Your Family - Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2019


    In this unique episode, Barrett Johnson addresses the porn epidemic head-on. After giving a brief introduction (and an apology for his pollen-induced congestion), he shares part one of a live talk he recently gave about the unavoidable impact of porn on our families, focusing on just how widespread the problem is. He also answers a specific question about when to talk about “self-gratification” with your kids (the M word might get flagged here), and shares a ton of resources that will help you to have healthy (and necessary) conversations about porn with your kids.

    007 - How to Minimize the Impact of Porn on Your Family - Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2019 40:52


    In this unique episode, Barrett Johnson addresses the porn epidemic head-on. After giving a brief introduction (and an apology for his pollen-induced congestion), he shares part one of a live talk he recently gave about the unavoidable impact of porn on our families, focusing on just how widespread the problem is. He also answers a specific question about when to talk about “self-gratification” with your kids (the M word might get flagged here), and shares a ton of resources that will help you to have healthy (and necessary) conversations about porn with your kids.

    Episode 006 - How to Show Love to Your Wife

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2019


    How can a husband express love to his wife in ways that keep them powerfully connected? On today’s episode, Barrett and Jenifer discuss the truth that most wives have a real need for a satisfying love relationship with their husbands. And they have a built-in barometer that lets them know when they have that or not. Barrett shares some simple things a husband can do that go a long way to make his wife feel cherished. Along the way, they discuss toddlers & their vomit, how long a french fry can survive in a mini-van, and a study that connects the amount of housework a man does and how much sex he has.

    006 - How to Show Love to Your Wife

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2019 34:48


    How can a husband express love to his wife in ways that keep them powerfully connected? On today's episode, Barrett and Jenifer discuss the truth that most wives have a real need for a satisfying love relationship with their husbands. And they have a built in barometer that lets them know when they have that or not. Barrett shares some simple things a husband can do that go a long way to make his wife feel cherished. Along the way, they discuss toddlers & their vomit, how long a french fry can survive in a mini-van, and a study that connects the amount of housework a man does and how much sex he has.

    Episode 005 - How to Encourage Your Husband

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2019


    How can a wife bring out the best in her husband? On today’s episode, Barrett and Jenifer talk about the incredible power a wife wields when she encourages her man. They also discuss some very practical ways that a wife can become the cheerleader he longs for, including how most popular movies totally get this truth. Along the way, they share Forbes’ list of the 9 toughest jobs (number one will surprise you) and talk about the worst story in the history of mankind involving a preschooler, some poop, and a Chick-Fil-A restroom.

    005 - How to Encourage Your Husband

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2019 39:34


    How can a wife bring out the best in her husband? On today's episode, Barrett and Jenifer talk about the incredible power a wife wields when she encourages her man. They also discuss some very practical ways that a wife can become the cheerleader he longs for, including how most popular movies totally get this truth. Along the way, they share Forbes' list of the 9 toughest jobs (number one will surprise you) and talk about the worst story in the history of mankind involving a preschooler, some poop, and a Chick-Fil-A restroom.

    Episode 004 - How to Change Your Spouse

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2019


    Do you secretly wish that you could fix your spouse and make them more of what you want them to be? On today’s episode, Barrett and Jenifer discuss how you can join God in your spouse’s transformation, but they also suggest that many of the things we want to change in our spouse are actually God-given differences that we need to value. Along the way, they discuss toilet seats, the recent college admissions cheating scandal, and how the greatest challenge of parenthood is helping your children find their shoes.

    004 - How to Change Your Spouse

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2019 39:05


    Do you secretly wish that you could fix your spouse and make them more of what you want them to be? On today's episode, Barrett and Jenifer discuss how you can join God in your spouse's transformation, but they also suggest that many of the things we want to change in our spouse are actually God-given differences that we need to value. Along the way, they discuss toilet seats, the recent college admissions cheating scandal, and how the greatest challenge of parenthood is helping your children find their shoes.

    003 - How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2019 40:09


    It's one of the scariest jobs that parents have, but in our rapidly changing culture, it's one of the most important. On today's episode, Barrett and Jenifer suggest some practical ways to get your family talking about God's design for sex. Along the way, they discuss some kids' reactions to the “birds and bees,” the 70% premarital cohabitation rate, and why Dax Shepard and Kristen Bell bored their kids when talking about where babies come from.

    Episode 003 - How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2019


    It’s one of the scariest jobs that parents have, but in our rapidly changing culture, it’s one of the most important. On today’s episode, Barrett and Jenifer suggest some practical ways to get your family talking about God’s design for sex. Along the way, they discuss some kids’ reactions to the “birds and bees,” the 70% premarital cohabitation rate, and why Dax Shepard and Kristen Bell bored their kids when talking about where babies come from.

    Episode 002 - Let's Talk About Sex (In Marriage)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2019


    On this, our first “official” episode, we jump right in and deal with an unmentionable topic. And we mention it…a lot. We talk about why so many couples are NOT having sex and what to do about it. Along the way, we have a quiz to see how messed up your family is, a brief discussion of The (virgin) Bachelor, and some thoughts on how to have sex when the kids are still awake (and in the room next door).

    002 - Let's Talk About Sex In Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2019 39:54


    On this, our first “official” episode, we jump right in and deal with an unmentionable topic. And we mention it…a lot. We talk about why so many couples are NOT having sex and what to do about it. Along the way, we have a quiz to see how messed up your family is, a brief discussion of The (virgin) Bachelor, and some thoughts on how to have sex when the kids are still awake (and in the room next door).

    Episode 001 - Introducing the Imperfect & Normal Families Only Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2019


    Welcome to the launch of the official podcast designed exclusively for imperfect & normal families. If you’ve got the perfect marriage and your kids are always awesome, them move along…there’s nothing for you here. If you sometimes feel like your family is making it up as you go along, then you’ve come to the right place. On this, our first episode, Barrett and Jenifer Johnson introduce who they are, why they’re doing this thing, and what you can expect in upcoming episodes.

    001 - Introducing The Imperfect & Normal Families Only Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2019 35:04


    Welcome to the launch of the official podcast designed exclusively for imperfect & normal families. If you've got the perfect marriage and your kids are always awesome, them move along…there's nothing for you here. If you sometimes feel like your family is making it up as you go along, then you've come to the right place. On this, our first episode, Barrett and Jenifer Johnson introduce who they are, why they're doing this thing, and what you can expect in upcoming episodes.

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