Podcasts about sex in marriage

Pastor Josh McPherson continues the "Lies We Believe" series by addressing the distortions our culture perpetuates about sex, sexuality, and God's design. Drawing from 1 Corinthians 5–7, Pastor Josh debunks common lies such as “sex is just biological,” “sex is bad,” or “any form of sex brings joy,” and replaces them with biblical truth. He brings clarity, grace, and boldness to a conversation many are too afraid to have.Whether you're single, married, raising kids, or just seeking to live with more clarity, this message will strengthen your foundation on one of the most distorted topics in societyCheck out the full "Lies We Believe" series here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLptTyphw8iGPT-4lrVgijf4ovz3tT4Fb8Have questions? Send them in here: https://us10.list-manage.com/survey?u=e56b1c573d4107e366e1696df&id=054358ea35Support the showThanks for listening! Go to www.StrongerManNation.com for more resources.

The Bible has a lot to say about sex! Sexual intimacy is a sacred gift from God to be celebrated in the exclusivity of marriage. When a husband and wife experience the transparency, openness, and sacredness of marriage as God intended, they realize the miracle of God's divine math in which “one plus one equals one.”

I'm so grateful to have my friend, Ashley Jones, on for the fourth time today during my maternity leave! We are diving into all things sex, and this is definitely a conversation that you will want to buckle your seatbelt for because… we didn't hold back. We cover everything from sex toys to what's really biblical behind closed doors. This is definitely a spicy conversation that you are not going to want to miss! Connect with Ashley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ash1ey__jones/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you wish you wanted sex more often—or actually looked forward to it? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're talking all about how to increase your sexual desire and libido so you can enjoy being intimate with your spouse more.The truth is there are several things you can do to help increase your sexual desire and libido. We're not saying after listening to the episode you are going to be throwing your husband (or wife) against the wall with passion when they walk through the door... but there are several things that you can do help that desire increase and continue to grow so you can enjoy that special connection more, because it is so vital for your marriage!Whether your libido has taken a dip lately or you just want to feel more connected and passionate in your marriage, this episode is full of inspiration and tools to help you enjoy intimacy more often and more fully. Join us for this great episode!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

This PBSE episode (275), inspired by a listener's vulnerable question, dives deep into the emotional complexity of intimacy in long-term relationships—particularly when one partner has struggled with pornography addiction. The woman asks how her husband can look “past” her aging body and be genuinely aroused by real love. Her question reveals the pain of feeling invisible or undesired and touches on the widespread cultural belief that sexual attraction is rigid and solely tied to youth or physical perfection. The article dismantles this myth, showing that arousal is not a static, uncontrollable instinct, but a moldable response shaped by years of influence, experience, and personal choices.Mark and Steve, speaking from their own journeys of recovery and their work with countless clients, explain how pornography warps the arousal template, training the brain to see only surface-level stimulation while disconnecting from emotional and spiritual depth. But through consistent personal work, emotional vulnerability, and intentional connection, that template can be rewritten. Real-life examples—like a therapist who found arousal in his wife's post-mastectomy scars—illustrate that true desire comes not from ignoring reality, but from embracing it. The physical becomes more meaningful, not less, when it's rooted in shared experience, loyalty, admiration, and love.Ultimately, the article reframes arousal not as something to “look past,” but as something to “look through”—to see the fullness of a partner, body and soul. It calls both partners to re-engage in intimacy with eyes wide open, choosing to cultivate love through emotional connection and shared meaning. The grand takeaway is that authentic, meaningful love is not only enough to spark desire—it's the most powerful and lasting form of arousal there is.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to:  How Can He "Look Past" My Body & Be Aroused by Real Love?!Learn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling Services

This PBSE Podcast Episode 274, centers on a partner's heartfelt account of feeling objectified and emotionally disconnected during sex with her spouse, who is in recovery from porn addiction. Though he has given up porn and masturbation, their intimacy remains one-sided, leaving her feeling like a replacement for his addiction rather than a true partner in connection. Mark and Steve explore how sobriety alone isn't enough—emotional growth, mindfulness, and a complete rewiring of sexual expectations are essential for healing.Through neuroscience, they unpack how porn addiction distorts the brain's wiring around sex, creating a dopamine-driven pattern that prioritizes climax over connection. Recovery, then, requires more than behavioral change; it calls for a transformation of mindset, unlearning toxic scripts, and rebuilding intimacy through vulnerability and presence. The metaphor of “remodeling” becomes central: couples must tear down broken patterns and collaboratively design a new vision for their sexual relationship.Ultimately, the article calls couples to take back authorship of their story by replacing silence, shame, and autopilot sex with curiosity, honesty, and shared desire. With intention and effort, couples can elevate their sexual connection from a mechanical act to a space of mutual pleasure and deep intimacy—if they are willing to write that new narrative together.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to:  Sed Isn't Mutually Pleasurable in our Relationship. Howe do We Elevate the Experience?Learn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling Services

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In this episode, Josh McPherson is joined by his wife, Sharon, to tackle your biggest questions about intimacy in marriage. They answer questions such as... - What if one spouse values sex more than the other? - How can a couple feel fulfilled in their sex life when infertility is a reality? - How can a wife heal from her husband's pornography use? - Should Christians use birth control?These questions and more as Josh and Sharon draw insight from the recent WE Conference where they talked all things marital intimacy (those resources will be released soon on our website), and from many book resources mentioned in the episode. Support the showThanks for listening! Go to www.StrongerManNation.com for more resources.

In this candid and biblically grounded conversation, Pastor Josh and his wife, Sharon address real questions about sex in marriage. They open by noting that every couple's situation is unique, and these answers are broad principles rather than one-size-fits-all prescriptions. Topics include how frequently couples should be intimate (emphasizing mutual satisfaction over rigid formulas), the importance of creativity and scheduling when children are older and need constant supervision, and the role of prayer in enhancing sexual intimacy. The conversation also covers the nuances of mutual agreements in marriage, encouraging openness and service rather than grudging obligation. They highlight the importance of staying mentally engaged during intimacy and provide insights for husbands whose wives struggle to believe they are beautiful. Throughout, they emphasize humility, godliness, and mutual edification as the foundation for a thriving sexual relationship.Support the showThanks for listening! Go to www.StrongerManNation.com for more resources.

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This PBSE episode #268, we talk about how recovery is an intensive and transformative journey that goes beyond breaking free from addiction and trauma—it is about rediscovering authenticity, self-worth, and emotional resilience. The process involves patience, self-compassion, and an openness to growth, allowing individuals to step into a life that is vibrant and unshackled from past wounds. Through recovery, people transition from survival mode, where they expend energy on hiding, escaping, or maintaining a façade, to truly living with presence, purpose, and a deeper appreciation for life's possibilities.At the heart of recovery is self-love, which serves as the foundation for long-term healing. Many individuals struggle with feelings of unworthiness, shaped by past traumas and destructive behaviors, but learning to nurture oneself through self-care, self-acceptance, and emotional vulnerability creates a newfound sense of empowerment. When individuals cultivate self-love, they develop resilience, set boundaries, and form healthier relationships that are built on authenticity rather than fear or dependency.The ultimate goal of recovery is not just to avoid relapse but to build a life rich with meaning, joy, and fulfillment. By reclaiming personal power and embracing growth, those in recovery discover a life that is worth fighting for—one where they are no longer prisoners of their past but architects of their future. The journey may be challenging, but the reward is an existence filled with deeper connections, genuine happiness, and the freedom to create a future rooted in purpose and authenticity.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to: "What is All This Recovery & Healing Work For? Is it Worth It? Why?"Learn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling Services

Movies, TV shows, and books on romance all seem to teach that "chemistry" is one of the key factors that lead toward success in a relationship. It's how you know you've found “the one", right? Chemistry is a powerful thing. It can make a relationship feel right—and when a relationship feels right—we often believe it is right. And it might be—but chemistry is not the litmus test to determine that. If God calls you to the incredibly difficult gift of marriage—passion and chemistry are great things to have. But it's not enough. The reality is—chemistry might help spark a relationship—but it will never be powerful enough to sustain it. Chemistry—without commitment—will only lead to confusion and conflict. Cultivating oneness has nothing to do with chemistry, and everything to do with commitment. Watch this message by Senior Pastor Jeff Maness to find out what commitments help cultivate oneness in marriage.*NEW* 5-Day Devotional: https://www.theharbor.life/blog/2025/02/10/the-commitment-to-onenessMessage Notes: https://notes.subsplash.com/fill-in/view?page=Syx_MnZKkxDiscussion Questions: https://storage2.snappages.site/PJBKS3/assets/files/Exposed-5.pdf_____________________________________________________________________________________Subscribe so you don't miss a thing!Christian Copyright Solutions (CCS, BMI, ASCAP, SESAC)License: #14753Find us on:YouTube: YouTube.com/TheHarborInstagram: Instagram.com/TheHarbor_lifeFacebook: Facebook.com/TheHarbordotlifeWebsite: https://www.TheHarbor.lifeWatch/listen on The Harbor AppNew episode every week!Find us on:YouTube: YouTube.com/TheHarborInstagram: Instagram.com/TheHarbor_lifeFacebook: Facebook.com/TheHarbordotlifeWebsite: https://www.TheHarbor.lifeWatch/listen on The Harbor AppNew episode every week!

(This is Intended for Adult Audiences, listener discretion advised) In this episode Dan explores the conditions needed for great sex in marriage. He discusses the importance of cultivating a strong friendship with one's spouse, understanding psychological arousal, and the conditions necessary for pleasurable sexual experiences. RESOURCES BELOW WANT A BETTER SEX LIFE? Download Our Intimacy Guide Here! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.aweber.com/form/25/71380525.htm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ WANT PEACE AT HOME? Family Culture: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.aweber.com/form/19/955349019.htm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.aweber.com/form/31/202341731.htm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ WHAT WORKS IN MARRIAGE Webinar: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.aweber.com/form/25/437413425.htm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch this before you call a divorce attorney: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.aweber.com/form/32/107630932.htm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chesterton Academy of Buffalo⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find a Chesterton School Near You⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Mezanine Creative Co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: Graphic Design for Small Business Good News About Sex and Marriage by Christopher West Holy Sex!: A Catholic Guide to Toe-Curling, Mind-Blowing, Infallible Loving by Greg Popcak

Is sex in marriage really better—or just a myth? What holds couples back from true intimacy? In this episode, we share 5 reasons sex in marriage should be amazing, our honest experiences, and how God's design transforms intimacy into something deeply fulfilling. Whether you're married or waiting, this is your guide to a thriving, godly connection! We pray it blesses you. With love, Nick & Haley. Next Steps: >> Interested in Personalized Guidance for your relationship? Apply for one of our limited 1:1 coaching spots at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.forhiskingdomcoaching.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>Be a part of our Facebook community here: ⁠FB Group⁠ (PS: must answer all questions in order to join). >>Say hello to us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thrivingkingdommarriage⁠⁠⁠⁠ Loving The Content? Please support us by leaving us a 5 star rating, leaving a review & sharing the podcast with those you love! We're grateful for you.

Derek continues our study through 1 Corinthians looking at Paul's instructions for sexual relations within marriage and the cautions given to those who are single.

The inspiration for Episode 259 comes from a heartfelt submission we received from a betrayed partner. Her words encapsulate a struggle that many couples in recovery face. She wrote:"It has been 18 months since D-Day, and my husband has been sober for six months. Recently, he went on a work trip, which already triggered a lot of anxiety for me. While he was there, I received a receipt for a movie he watched that contained nudity and sexual content. Even though I trust that he skipped the raunchy scenes, the issue is that there was no consideration for how this would make me feel.This has been a common theme in our marriage. I have so much compassion for how he got here, but it doesn't seem to go both ways. His sobriety is there, but the selfishness and entitlement don't seem to be shifting. I've asked for an in-home separation because I can't keep living like this. How can I get him to understand how much this hurts?"These words hit home for so many couples navigating recovery. Sobriety may be present, but without consideration—the conscious choice to think about your partner's feelings and anticipate their emotional needs—the pain lingers.Consideration is a vital element in the recovery and healing process, going beyond sobriety to rebuild trust and foster emotional safety. It requires intentional, proactive efforts to understand and empathize with a partner's emotional world, especially in the context of betrayal trauma. Through actions that reflect care and awareness, such as pausing to think about how decisions may impact a partner, consideration demonstrates that their feelings matter. This practice bridges the gap between sobriety and intimacy, as shown in the story of a husband whose thoughtful choice to prioritize his wife's emotional safety became a turning point in their marriage.Despite its importance, practicing consideration is challenging due to significant barriers. Addicts often struggle with emotional awareness, fear of vulnerability, and habits of selfishness rooted in their addiction, while betrayed partners face fears of being hurt again, hypervigilance, and difficulty trusting changes. Both partners may also lack healthy examples of consideration from their past, making it harder to implement. Overcoming these barriers requires consistent effort, including pausing to reflect, validating a partner's feelings, and taking proactive actions that demonstrate thoughtfulness and care.When practiced consistently, consideration transforms relationships by fostering trust, collaboration, and emotional connection. It allows betrayed partners to feel valued and chosen, while helping addicts break free from selfish patterns and grow emotionally. This practice turns recovery into a shared journey, where both partners link arms and work together to create a healthier, more fulfilling relationship. Programs like Dare to Connect offer tools and guidance to integrate consideration into daily life, enabling couples to experience the profound healing it can bring.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to: "The-powerful-potential-of-consideration-in-recovery-the-betrayal-trauma-healing-process"Learn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling Services

What is God's original intent for sex in marriage? When the wife is not in the mood, is she supposed to still cater to her man's needs? Pastors Ron and Hope answer these questions AND MORE in this installment of Ron + Hope: Unfiltered. You won't want to miss this episode!   S3E45 (#149)   Are there any topics you'd like us to discuss? Do you have any questions you'd like us to answer? Send them to unfiltered@ronandhope.com.   Follow Ron Carpenter at https://www.instagram.com/ron.carpenter/ Follow Hope Carpenter at https://www.instagram.com/pastorhope.carpenter/   Subscribe to Ron's YouTube page at https://www.youtube.com/user/pastorroncarpenter Subscribe to Hope's YouTube page at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1TUxyS_-elLEOORZ2YiunA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In PBSE episode 254, Mark & Steve respond to a heart-felt submission by a man who has been married for 45 years and for many of those years, the sexual relationship between he and his wife has been very broken. The reasons are multifaceted and very complex. These include—the horror of emotional and sexual abuse his wife endured during her growing up years; an extremely rigid and shame-based religious culture which they both grew up in and continue to participate in; his periodic use of pornography; his anger and emotional abuse towards his wife; and other factors. He desperately wants to repair the damage he has done and find a way to heal the emotional and physical relationship in his marriage. Mark & Steve not only address the issues that this listener submitted, but the most common issues couples face in connection with healing sexual wounds, creating sexual safety and building a truly healthy sexual relationship. This PBSE listener and his partner's situation is very complicated, with a lot of moving parts:Her past abuse/betrayalTrauma and betrayal within the relationshipRigid religious backgroundShame surrounding sex; lack of open communicationMisinformation surrounding sexSexual secrecyAlthough this situation does have some unique elements, it brings up a lot of common struggles for couples, both in and out of recovery:The changing physical dynamics of sexual expression/reciprocation in an ongoing, long-term committed relationshipThe constantly evolving state of a relationship as a wholeThe need for ongoing, vulnerable discussion in a coupleship regarding the various elements to intimacy, including the physicalWe all have existing “sexual paradigms”—what sex or different sexual acts mean; how critical it is; how it impacts the rest of the relationship, etc. Are willing to step back to openly assess where these paradigms come from; challenge them; be flexible; etc?Really exploring a coupleship's sexuality means backing up from preconceived “norms” around sex acts and forms of physical expression:As a coupleship, you have the right/obligation to determine how and what you would like your physical and sexual relationship to look like, as well as what it means and represents. Mark gives the real-life example of an acquaintance whose wife had a stroke and was permanently paralyzed from the chest down—after tenderly caring for her for a decade, he said it was the most intimate, loving and connected 10 years of their marriage.YOU are the sole architects of your own relationship—you get to collaboratively build it into what YOU want!For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to: "Sex in Our Marriage has Always Been "Broken." How do we Repair and Heal it?"Learn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling Services

In this video, we answer a listeners question about when you should tell someone you're dating that you are waiting for marriage. Also once you are married how do you handle less sex than expected?We discuss all that and more on this week's episode! Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level! https://www.wearejustdating.com/resources || LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM: We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advice https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating || M U S I C Music by Musician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B E https://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J... New Videos Every Tuesday! Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subscribe || F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejustdating Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/WeAreJustDating Threads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdating *Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOO Why adversity is good in dating! | https://youtu.be/ef-Fgkqvvzk How to have conflict and argue well | https://youtu.be/_MhwhqNYXCA— T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!

What is the purpose of sex in marriage? What was God's design? Scriptures reveals 3 purposes: Procreation, Companionship, and Pleasure.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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This is the sixteenth and LAST in a series of episodes delving into Holy Matrimony in an effort to rekindle an appreciation of this sacred sacrament of the Church that has fallen out of favor in our modern and worldly culture. In this final episode, we discuss ways to enrich, enliven, and sustain your One Flesh relationship and to keep the fires burning.

Have a question you want answered? Submit it here!This episode was recorded in 2022.Unlock the secrets to a more fulfilling marriage with the insights of Dr. Corey Allan, a marriage and family therapist, licensed professional counselor, and author of "Naked Marriage: Uncovering Who You Are and Who You Can Be Together." Dr. Allan shares compelling research on the impact of religiosity on marital and sexual satisfaction, revealing how higher levels of religious dogma correlate with lower sexual satisfaction. Learn why open conversations about sex—even before tying the knot—are vital for overcoming shame and guilt from upbringings, and how these dialogues can pave the way for stronger relationships.Ever wondered why desire differences create friction in marriages? This episode sheds light on this often-taboo topic. Dr. Allan and I dig deep into how communication issues in relationships frequently extend to the bedroom, affecting both high and low desire partners. We challenge the stigma around lower desire and offer actionable strategies to better understand and respond to each other's needs. Discover how foreplay and connection can go beyond physical touch, and how reevaluating the quality of sexual experiences can help mitigate feelings of rejection and frustration.Looking to reignite the spark in your relationship? Dr. Allan offers practical advice on rebuilding intimacy and connection through honesty, emotional regulation, and leadership. We discuss a real-life story about a couple struggling with financial transparency and emphasize the importance of self-regulation in fostering trust. Learn how introducing novelty and spontaneity can enhance sexual intimacy and why staying present and attuned to your partner can lead to more fulfilling experiences. Don't miss the exploration of personal growth within marriage, as Dr. Allan shares insights from his book and podcast, "Sexy Marriage Radio," and highlights resources available through his online practice.Dr. Allan's site - https://smrnation.com/Naked Marriage book - https://amzn.to/3G9mpVmSubscribe to the Sexy Marriage Radio podcast: https://smrnation.com/subscribe/Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master's degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper & CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 500,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best they can be.

In this episode, number 247, Mark & Steve discuss a situation and questions submitted by the betrayed partner of a porn/sex addict. She does a great job presenting a balanced description of their situation, while also being very direct, vulnerable and authentic. Her addict partner has struggled with porn addiction nearly his whole life and when all the "trickle truths" started coming out, it nearly finished off their marriage. But, they both got into therapy and did a lot of hard work individually and as a couple for over a year. She describes their marriage as "feeling a lot safer and stronger." At the same time, there are still some significant struggles. Here's how she describes it—The issue that continues to arise for me, is that my husband seems to “need” sex every 4 days, or he will feel that he is too distracted by women and his sexual desires which impacts his recovery. This also impacts my ability to feel that I am in full control of my own body as well as feeling wanted and chosen, as opposed to just being the object of a selfish need. I understand that men are biologically more inclined to feel sexual desire more often, but is he limiting himself in his healing journey by assuming that this need is normal and biological (his words). He does have some sort of goal to increase the amount of days by using self discipline, but it seems that he believes it's a biological need for men and specifically for himself because he feels too much physical and mental discomfort when he pushes it off. He has not masturbated in around 8-10 months (other than 1-2 slips, and a recent relapse) but we have created a plan where he has the option of masturbating after 7 days of no sex if he feels he “needs” it. My question is—does this sound like something that is limiting the recovery process or is each person an individual case and this plan can be something that is helpful for him and helpful for me to feel full control of my own body, while he does his own recovery work?Mark & Steve directly address this couple's situation and this betrayed partner's questions. They discuss the critical importance of the addict taking charge of the healthy wiring and management of his brain's "pleasure/reward system" and how this impacts his recovery. They address the "need" for sex vs. a healthy balance in a WHOLE relationship. They speak raw and real about "his side of the street" and what he is response-able and account-able for in this situation. They also speak directly to what this betrayed partner needs for her own "body sovereignty" and for a path of true healing. In addition, they speak to what is needed to make consistent deposits to the relationship trust account and what true "holistic intimacy" looks like vs. a narrow focus on physical sex. Also discussed are healthy sexual boundaries and what it means for an addict in recovery to evolve, mature and transform. For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to:  https://www.pbsepodcast.com/post/my-porn-addicted-partner-has-adhd-he-insists-i-must-manage-his-recovery-for-him-to-succeed-is-thisLearn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling Services

This is the fifteenth in a series of episodes delving into Holy Matrimony in an effort to rekindle an appreciation of this sacred sacrament of the Church that has fallen out of favor in our modern and worldly culture. In this episode, we offer some incite in the sometimes challenging aspect of finances and the One Flesh relationship.

This is the fourteenth in a series of episodes delving into Holy Matrimony in an effort to rekindle an appreciation of this sacred sacrament of the Church that has fallen out of favor in our modern and worldly culture. In this episode, we offer some tried and true parenting wisdom especially for new parents.

This is the thirteenth in a series of episodes delving into Holy Matrimony in an effort to rekindle an appreciation of this sacred sacrament of the Church that has fallen out of favor in our modern and worldly culture. In this episode, we discuss the openness to life and the blessing of children in the One Flesh relationship.

This is the twelfth in a series of episodes delving into Holy Matrimony in an effort to rekindle an appreciation of this sacred sacrament of the Church that has fallen out of favor in our modern and worldly culture. In this episode, we discuss the ways in which to manage conflict in the married relationship..

This is the eleventh in a series of episodes delving into Holy Matrimony in an effort to rekindle an appreciation of this sacred sacrament of the Church that has fallen out of favor in our modern and worldly culture. In this episode, we discuss the essential characteristics of authentic communication.

Why are so many marriages struggling with bad sex lives? Why are so many men wishing their women wanted more sex but so many women aren't wanting sex at all? Why do troubled and struggling sex lives feel like it's a pandemic that has hit marriage? And isn't it strange that women have an organ specifically designed for pleasure and multiple orgasms yet, they don't really care to use it?Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we're about to create a magnificent sex life!Link to details about my private coaching program and links to schedule your free consultation with me:Private Program | Your Turned on DesireSexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed). Private calls with me are also included in this offer:https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbandsLink for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”:https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807I tried everything to change my sex life for the better. And it wasn't when I was on a fancy vacation in Hawaii where I decided all the things I was trying weren't going to work because my husband and I had been lied to and we needed to address these lies before things would change for the better for us. Read about that story here:https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife?fbclid=PAAabM_AE3_5FfmI5t4wk6UDTtN58QRud3YsTLcOexXXfql9bOVFBbZkVB41g_aem_AcW5A0fihOVZF1WrXMNHqOD8B5QiWHBR6C22WjBHZ3uSLe_imBQNqjg5P8anNXz65G0

This is the tenth in a series of episodes delving into Holy Matrimony in an effort to rekindle an appreciation of this sacred sacrament of the Church that has fallen out of favor in our modern and worldly culture. In this episode, we answer questions about cohabitation and sex before marriage.

What does sex in marriage look like? What are exceptions towards divorce? What does God think about divorce?

This is the ninth in a series of episodes delving into Holy Matrimony in an effort to rekindle an appreciation of this sacred sacrament of the Church that has fallen out of favor in our modern and worldly culture. In this episode, we discuss the proper and grace filled role of the marital embrace in Marriage.

Most couples are not going to be completely aligned with sex drive. There are a lot of factors that  can cause this, but there are also a lot of solutions! Today we want to equip you to have a productive approach to making your sex life the best it can be in marriage.  We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:   Why is it so hard to have a productive conversation about sex?  Should the lower-drive spouse “just do it” for the spouse's sake? Why or why not?  Why respecting your wife's drive level helps her feel sexy  Ways to respect your spouse's drive    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  What would happen if you took the next 4 weeks to reframe your spouse and your marriage with a biblical approach? Learn how to have a better perspective – and a better marriage, with our Reframing Challenge Does your sex life need a reboot? Improve your sex life with our Locking Lips Kissing Game!  If your marriage has been damaged by porn, the Marriage Undefiled Online Course provides a path to rebuild trust and repair your marriage.   Click HERE to get the Couple's Conversation Guide for each week's new episode!   

Mark and Adena share in the episode about how Adena faces trauma from the past while she boldly pursues love. "A person has two powerful forces within...do I protect myself from great pain, or do I pursue great love?" If you would like to fill out an assessment on your marriage, click this link: https://app.assessmentgenerator.com/assessment/17360If you would like to support this work so that hurting families get help, click here: https://markdelaney.com/donate/Support the show

We are so excited to continue in our intimacy series here on the Naked Marriage Podcast. In this episode, we delve into the essential ways to rekindle romance and amplify intimacy in your marriage..... yes we mean SEX. We discuss the pivotal role of physical touch and its immense benefits for a couple's emotional and physical bond. We also explore how engaging all five senses can significantly enhance your sexual intimacy, and we're thrilled to share a special bonus sex tip with you! Join us as we emphasize the importance of making intimacy a priority and the power of open communication to fulfill each other's needs and desires. Get ready to take actionable steps to deepen your connection and enjoy a more fulfilling marital relationship. ------------------------- FREE Resource: What Kind of In-Laws Do You Have? Need Marriage Help?: www.xomarriage.com/help Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage 10:24 The Importance of Physical Touch: Building Trust and Connection 26:17 Prioritizing Intimacy: Breaking the Cycle of Mismatched Sex Drives Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Today on AirTalk, a look into how the role of sex might be taking a backseat in marriage. Also on the show, we celebrate Los Angeles' Oaxacan food culture with the family run restaurant ‘Quiadaiyn;'our film critics review ‘Abigail' and the latest movie releases; and more. Do you tip on takeout? (00:17) Is the role of sex taking a backseat in marriage? (22:18) We try out some Oaxacan cuisine with ‘Quiadaiyn' (45:03) Our film critics review the latest releases (1:08:43) Larry interviews the directors of ‘Sasquatch Sunset' (1:24:48)

Are you enjoying this message? Text us and let us know.In the series, Sex Drive, Dr. Gabe dives deep into a topic that's essential yet often misunderstood—sexuality through the lens of God's perspective. In this sermon, he addresses the importance of commitment, repentance, and choosing godly partners, offering guidance on aligning romantic relationships with spiritual values and divine purpose.Support the Show.Text encounteratl to 94000 to stay up-to-date on all things Encounter.Worship with EncounterSundays at 11 AM ET | Wednesdays at 7:30 PM ETSupport EncounterText egive to 77977 | Cash App $encounteratlanta Connect with EncounterFacebook | Instagram | TikTok | YouTube | WebsiteConnect with Dr. GabeInstagram | YouTube | Website

Feeling comfortable in our own skin, especially in the intimate quarters of marriage, can be a complex dance of emotions and self-perception. Imagine opening up to your partner about the deepest insecurities that haunt your body image, or better yet, embracing those very insecurities to find a deeper connection. That's exactly where we venture in this heartfelt episode as we navigate the sensitive topic of body dysmorphia and its profound impact on marital intimacy. From the physical changes ushered in by childbirth and breastfeeding to the hormonal upheavals that challenge both women and men, we share personal stories and insights that promise to resonate with many. There's a delicate balance in supporting a partner through body image changes, and we don't shy away from the emotional complexities it adds to a relationship. The journey is not just about recognizing and empathizing with one's spouse but learning the nuances of communicating support without offense. Our candid conversation peels back the layers of self-image struggles within marriage, the adjustments in intimacy that come with life's transformations, and the path to fostering a supportive environment as a couple embraces a new chapter of life. With transparency and a touch of humor, we discuss how external stressors and health issues can disrupt the harmony of hormonal balance and intimacy, urging couples to adapt and communicate openly. It's not just an exploration of personal challenges, but also an affirmation of the strength found in camaraderie and the deep connection that grows from shared vulnerability. So grab your partner, settle in, and let's discover the beauty of navigating these universal struggles together. -- Connect with Nathan and Sanaz Mesa https://www.instagram.com/nathanjmesa/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@sanazmesa?lan... Abundant Women https://www.instagram.com/alfcwomen/ -- Couples Card Game: https://a.co/d/3InL8wZ -- BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- Dave Ramsey Course https://www.ramseysolutions.com/ramseyplus/hosts/alfcranchoca?pc=78239020 -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com

Jason and Lauren Vallotton host Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill from Connection Codes as guests in Part 2 of a profound exploration of the intimate conversation about Sex in Marriage. This episode delves into the intricacies of emotional connection and how it fuels a more fulfilling sexual relationship. The Hills unravel the complexities of sex in marriage and explain that emotional safety is not just complementary to intimacy—it's foundational. The Hills' candid reflections on their journey and the practical tools they've developed, like the Core Emotion Wheel, provide actionable steps to help you articulate your feelings and desires, ensuring a richer connection with your partner.Intentionality is the key to an enhanced intimate life. Together with Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, the Vallottons explore the importance of understanding the unique triggers— 'brakes and accelerators'—that influence the transition into the realm of intimacy. Discover how setting the stage with the right atmosphere and a foundation of emotional connection can significantly enhance arousal and satisfaction. Sharing insights into the art of discovering what makes us feel desired, the hosts offer strategies for couples to communicate their needs effectively. This conversation isn't just about improving your sex life; it's about elevating the entire standard of marital intimacy. Candid sharing illuminates the highs and lows of building a sexually fulfilling union, piercing through the layer of silence that often shrouds this delicate aspect of marital bliss. This episode promises an unvarnished look at the journey from purity to passion, unpacking the weighty influences of past experiences and the sheer power of connection and vulnerability between partners.-----Discount on all Connection Codes courses with the code JAY!Connect with Lauren:InstagramFacebook Connect with Jason:Jay's InstagramJay's FacebookBraveCo Instagramwww.braveco.org

Jason and Lauren Vallotton host Aaron and Jenna Zint as guests in Part 1 of a profound exploration of the intimate conversation about Sex in Marriage. These three questions, and more, are answered in this episode:Why is sex important in marriage?What is permissible inside of marriage, when it comes to sex?How does sex change over time and in different seasons of life in marriage?Their candid sharing illuminates the highs and lows of building a sexually fulfilling union, piercing through the layer of silence that often shrouds this delicate aspect of marital bliss. This episode promises an unvarnished look at the journey from purity to passion, unpacking the weighty influences of past experiences and the sheer power of connection and vulnerability between partners.Navigating the complexities of physical desires and emotional intricacies, we engage in heartfelt discussions about the ebb and flow of sexual drives, the pressures that accompany our most intimate moments, and how these elements craft the tapestry of our relationships. The Zints, with remarkable transparency, reveal the transformative impact of addressing unmet expectations, the echo of performance anxiety in the bedroom, and the liberating act of prioritizing emotional bonds over carnal conquests. These conversations are a testament to the courage it takes to confront the unspoken, fostering a space of trust and growth for couples like Jason and Lauren, who graciously share their story.As Jason and Lauren lead this conversation, they also contemplate the practicalities that accompany an evolving sexual relationship. This episode is an invitation for couples seeking rejuvenation and a more profound sense of togetherness. The insights of this episode serve as a lighthouse for lovers venturing through the sometimes-choppy waters of physical and emotional intimacy, offering guidance, compassion, and a shared vision for a fulfilling intimate life. Join the Vallottons to harness the transformative power of trust and communication on the sacred journey of marriage.-----Aaron and Jenna Zint bring nearly 10 years of experience to emotional and relational health coaching, specializing in developing healthy habits around growth area goals. They have worked with a diverse range of male and female clients, empowering them to unlock their full potential and achieve lasting results. Aside from coaching, Jenna is a Bethel Ministry School alumni and deacon at Bethel Church in Redding, California. She runs a business called The Habit Lab. Aaron also graduated from Bethel School of Ministry and is the leader of The Whole Man Project at Bethel Church. They can also be found in the podcast space with The Habit Lab and Marriage Lab. The Zints have been married for 14 years and have three children. Jenna's passion is helping people put action-steps to their breakthrough and healing journey, and Aaron's passion is helping men break out of areas they feel stuck in. Together, they're committed to providing personalized support tailored to each client's unique needs and aspirations.Connect with Lauren:InstagramFacebook Connect with Jason:Jay's InstagramJay's FacebookBraveCo Instagramwww.braveco.org

What does the bible say about sex in marriage? Dr. Juli Slattery joins Greg and Erin to discuss the importance of sex in marriage. Plus, we have an extra long Q&A with some voicemails with some of our listeners!   Get the Juli's book for a gift of any amount!   Check out these conversation starters to use on date night!   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.

Kailey Dickerson joins Caroline on this week's “Call Caroline” bonus episode! They answer listener voicemails and get real about their current sex lives and fostering intimacy in marriage. Kailey opens up about waiting until marriage with her husband Russell Dickerson and why she's glad she made that choice. Follow Get Real on IG: @GetRealCarolineHobby Follow Caroline Hobby on IG: @CaroHobby Follow Kailey Dickerson @KaileyDickerson Have a question for Caroline?? You can leave a voice message and she may answer on a future episode! Click hereSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, we discuss the concept of mercy sex in a marriage. What are the  characteristics of mercy sex and the impact it has on both the lower desire and higher desire spouses? We also discuss the pressure to have sex and how it affects the dynamics of a relationship. As well as a discussion on how to move from mercy sex to freely chosen sex, where both spouses are actively participating and enjoying the experience. Takeaways Mercy sex is characterized by a lack of initiation, a distaste for sex, a desire to get it over with quickly, and a lack of presence and connection during the act. The lower desire spouse may feel pressure and guilt when it comes to sex, while the higher desire spouse may accept mercy sex as a way to ease their own insecurities. Both spouses need to confront their own issues and communicate openly about their desires and boundaries in order to move from mercy sex to freely chosen sex. Facing the pressure to have sex in a marriage is a normal part of committed relationships, and both partners need to accept and navigate this pressure in a healthy way. On the Xtended Version ... Join us in a thought experiment. We all strive for great sex in marriage, or at least many people do. But could great sex actually be a hinderance to good sex in marriage? Listen to hear us explore this idea. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Mercy Sex In Marriage #658 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.