Life is Interesting

Have you ever felt like someone in your life constantly makes you feel small, disrespected, or less than? I talk about my experience with someone who drained my energy and how I've learned to stop giving away my power.It's so easy to get caught up in proving yourself to people who don't even respect you but the truth is, you don't have to. You don't need their validation. You don't need their approval. And you definitely don't need to waste your energy on them. If you've ever struggled with feeling patronized, belittled, or stuck in toxic dynamics, this is for you.

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This is a short lil episode about how I detached from a guy I had a lil fling with. Keep in mind it was easier to detach from him because I never had deep feelings for him. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In order for communication to help you detach, you need to be firm with the fact that you're letting them go so anything they say will not suck you back into the belief that things will work out. This communication is meant to detach you because you're asking for clarification with where things are at. Let them know how they made you feel and tell them that you accept their feelings, but wanted to know if this is truly how they felt. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I give a meditation to help calm you down --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode, I talk about how I dealt with friends who started disrespecting me. The best thing to do is distance yourself from them and I promise you your life will get so much better. You deserve good wholesome friends and it might not seem like it when these toxic people are in your life but once you distance from them you will feel so much better. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I talk about the things that I've noticed lead to charisma and being more attractive. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode, I talk about the red flags I've realized from a close friend that I have. It's give my short list of red flags I've had with one of my close friends. The red flags are ones that I won't tolerate in a best friend and I will not be close with her from now on --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode, I talk about some difficult times I'm dealing with regarding friends. I'm still dealing with it all right now, but I have a few insights that I'm gonna share. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

I'm not friends with eve anymore, and I got my peace from it. I talk about what happened and my reflections from it. It's sort of disorganized and I'm a little sick but I hope it helps ! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I talk about going through a mindset of feeling like I'm not as cool or pretty as I used to be. When I was feeling insecure and depressed and how I got out of it. I also talk about my friend who was going through something similar. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I talk about friends I'm letting go no matter how painful or close I had been with them. It'll make space for those who actually give u the time and energy you need --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I give some life updates as well as explaining my thoughts and feelings towards a “close friend.” I feel dissatisfied but yet disappointment towards this friend as well as feeling guilty in the way I think about them. Is it justified or not? Perhaps there is no black and white answer to my guilty feelings. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I talk about how negative mindsets are easily changed with being open to it. And most people naturally have negative mindsets. I talk about my opinions and things I've gone through. Hope you enjoy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

I'm this episode I talk about how I feel I'm distancing myself from a close friend. In a sense I'm trying to protect myself. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I talk about my advice and experience on chasing someone and hoping they will like me the way I like them. I will be talking about mindsets and other reminders. Hope you enjoy! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I talk about the struggles I've been having in 2022. And how I'm going to change and grow in 2023 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I'm going to be sharing a list I have made about my ‘rules of life.' In the sense of glowing up my mindset! In the list I read affirmations and principles that I try to follow that will make my life better. I hope you enjoy this episode! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

Hey!! In today's episode I talk about ym struggles with loneliness in community college. As well as my struggles with feeling left out from my friends. Times get hard and they get even harder with depression and loneliness.. but things will get better. Sometimes you just gotta out in the effort first. Text that friend you haven't talked to in a while. Tag that person on Instagram, send them a cute video. Do the most and if that doesn't work out, be okay with being alone. You can be you're own company! And you are swag! Anyone would be so happy to hang with you. Confidence is key always, so find that in going out with yourself! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I talk about my experience so far with college as well as an update about me moving on from past traumas/ppl --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I talk about some advice I have about friendships. I also talk about how I have moved on from crushes etc. how the process has gone for me and some things to help. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

Get that space! It doesn't have to be extreme, it can be subtle. But don't be close to ppl who hurt you. There's other ppl out there who care and support u. You don't have to be close with everyone! Be you, and vibe with those who care about you and don't bring you down!! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I talk about my experience with guys I like who stop caring about me even tho they say ‘we can be friends.' Just distance urself from those people. You don't need them. Trust me. You'll be so much happier without the pain of knowing you'll never receive the effort u put in from them. You got this! I believe in you! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I get into the recent friend drama I had. It gets a bit personal, so for that. But I hope it can be relatable and helpful. Don't worry about the friends who bring you down! You'll find good friends. I promise. There may even be those friends in your life right now! That's you've overlooked. Stay true to you. You are worthy of greatness! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

Talking about my problems and some solutions of them. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

Currently I'm struggling with friends and feeling low. I'm sharing that struggle with you guys. If u feel like me atm, know that things will get better. Let's both have some pma (positive mental attitude) and be confident in ourselves! Ily besties --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I talk about my New Year's Eve night including a prank call from moonboy and horse and an add by my fallen out friend James. Wooo girl! Did 2021 rlly say ‘bich sike u thought you would get away easy' idk… hah! I just pray that my 2022 year will let me go easy. In this episode I talk about that as well as my goals for the year! I hope you enjoy it! Thanks❤️❤️ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this podcast episode I talk about some things I'm looking forward to in 2022, things I will be working on. I also talk about some movies and shows I have watched this year. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

Welcome back to my podcasts!!! This episode is un scripted and a bit disorganized but I hope that it is enough! I am working on figuring out topics for more episodes so stay tuned! Thanks so much for listening !! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode it is more of a draft of some of my ideas on friendships. I address some of my idea that you don't have to be friends with people who put u down as well as give advice of how I identify toxic things --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

I read a short story I wrote about my main story that I'm writing. In the short story Takumi goes to the beach in a feeling of loneliness trying to figure out how to deal with his loss of his parents. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

Reading something I wrote after an anxiety attack --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I talk about the things I'm working on and how I'm coping with the things I struggle with --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

This this episode I talk about how to distance yourself from people who aren't different level than you in a friendship. Never be afraid to speak your mind. But never act in a hateful way or to try to condemn anyone. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I read an embarrassing story that I wrote during a time where I couldn't accept the way things were. Now looking back I see how I was feeling done and it's honestly sad and so lonely. But hey! I've grown a lot since then! But I'm sure I'll still have more things I still have yet to move past and accept. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I talk about my struggles with making friends as well as struggling with my own faults and some strange peace of mind I've gotten. Forgive for yourself tbh be kind always bby --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I talk briefly about being left out of some things as well as giving some advice about what to do when feeling pain from that. Sorry this is another not scripted poor quality episode. I'll be sure to make better ones soon!!! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I read to use some of my writings --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

Hey! In this episode I'm going to be talking about going off and starting new friendships/relationships with people, especially after coming out of a breakup with a friend or so. I'm just going to be giving some advice and some things to think about. I hope it helps

In this episode I'm going to be talking about how I have moved on from past relationships and that it gets better over time.. time heals everything! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support

In this episode I'm talking about my dreams, and my sleep paralysis. How I stopped having sleep paralysis. I'll give you my tips on how to get out of the paralysis as well as advice that it's all in your head. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oceangirl/support