The dynamic duo of seasoned licensed social workers, Ancy Lewis and Dr. Cindy Bautista-Thomas created this podcast to help busy people find easy to apply self-care skills in their fast-paced lives. They will help you heal, transform, and make an impact by
Dr. Cindy Bautista-Thomas and Ancy Lewis
There are so many benefits to engaging in mindfulness practices. Mindfulness helps improve your physical health, enhance relationships, improve work performance and it helps increase your emotional wellbeing. There is a lot of research that supports how much mindfulness can enhance your overall life. And of course there have been cultural traditions and communities that have engaged in these practices for thousands of years. Mindfulness practices are for everyone! In this episode, Cindy introduces you to mindfulness and guides you through a few exercises to support your journey of getting back to you. Please make sure you are in a stable, quiet place while listening. Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Do you want better answers? Well then ask better questions! If you listened to Season 1 of Velocity Visions Inc.'s podcast you learned the importance and influence of your self-talk. You learned how to watch the language and commentary that runs through your head and how to steer it in a better direction. What people often ignore are the questions that they ask themselves in the midst of this running self-talk. If you are human, you have likely asked yourself unhelpful questions that make you feel worse when you receive the answer. Our brains are powerful. When we ask ourselves questions, our brains work hard on finding the answers. Phrasing the questions we ask ourselves in a more mindful way, will help us generate thoughts and ideas that will be more in line with what we want. So here's a question, wouldn't receiving more helpful answers that could unlock more powerful parts of you be worth 15 minutes of your time? Yes? Then please listen. Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Is there something weighing heavy on your heart or in your life that gets in the way of you moving forward in particular areas of your life? Letting it go is a self care practice that can support your overall well being and open up room for new possibilities and opportunities. It is not easy to let go of something that has become something we are used to, whether it is a way of being or a friendship or relationship. In this episode, Cindy challenges you to examine what you might need to let go of in your life and reassign its role so that you can position yourself to get the best that life has to offer to you. Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Self-care takes practice and it often doesn't come easily to most. However, the investment of self-care has reaped some great benefits for those that commit to it. It is even more challenging to practice self-care when you are a recipient of biased words, actions, or experiences. These are probably some of the toughest conditions to engage in self-care, but some of the most necessary to preserve well-being. In this episode, Ancy identifies some of the sneaky covert ways bias can affect your emotional state and how to maintain self-care in those moments. Healing from experiences of bias, can help you not only be resilient, but can give you the strength to help others. Now that is a win/win! Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Friendships are essential to the fabric of who we are as human beings. Sometimes we are so busy that we do not take the time to connect with our most valuable relationships and friendships. When you don't water a plant, it dies. Friendships and personal relationships also need nurturing to create sustaining intimacy and meaningful connections. In this episode, Cindy offers tips on how to sustain and nourish those relationships that are important to us. There are some friends that can't wait to hear from you! Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/DBVG Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Are you saying “no” to opportunities that could be right for you? Are you avoiding saying “yes” to your betterment even though an inner voice is telling you to say “yes”? Sometimes we easily say “yes” to others but say “no” to ourselves. Saying “yes” might very well be what you need to move to that next level in your life. In this episode, Ancy candidly shares where saying “yes”when she wanted to say “no” proved to have some pleasant outcomes. She also offers some journal prompts to help you realize what is getting in the way of your saying “YES” to you. Listen to this podcast, try the journal prompts, and give yourself the “YES!” you deserve. Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Intuition. We don't learn about it in elementary school, high school, nor in college. Intuition can be described as that inner knowing; that inner voice that nudges us to make a decision or to take an action. Many times we allow our external environment to get in the way of paying attention to our intuition. Cindy discusses a few tips on how to listen to that inner voice that can literally shift your life's trajectory in ways that are rewarding and can help you make good choices. Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Whether we like it or not, other people rub off on us. We are influenced by their energy, their words, and their actions. Have you ever been around someone who makes you smile or feel good just by being in their company? Or, do you dread being around certain people because you know that they will make you feel worse ? These are examples of how other people influence our mood. What makes things even more challenging is when the company of certain people influences what actions we take that can affect our self-care or our progress and achievements. How do we maintain healthy relationships that support us without getting rid of family and friends that may not feed us the best energy? In this podcast, Ancy explains the impact on your well-being from the time spent with people in your life. She explains how forming a healthy balance in your relationships can bring out the best in you. Now that's time well spent! Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Losing a loved one is difficult no matter who it is and no matter how it happens. Depending on what culture or social group you are a part of, there are social norms that are expected. What happens when you are in a pandemic that gets in the way of certain practices? How do you engage when you are hurting? How do you handle it when how you want to respond is in direct conflict with how society thinks you should grieve? Recently, Cindy lost her mother to COVID-19. Cindy shares how she is using self-care techniques during her time of grief, without compromising all of who she is and while accessing her power through it all. How do you access love, joy and fun when you are actively grieving? Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Are you someone who cares about what others think of you? Even just a little? Do you adjust your behavior or your decisions based on what you perceive others might think? A big part of self-care is to make peace with the fact that other people will have opinions and feelings about you that you may not like. The raw truth is that their opinions about you are their business, not yours. This is often hard to digest, but even when we do everything with the best intentions, the best efforts, and hard work, there might still be someone who doesn't appreciate you. In this podcast, Ancy reveals how when focusing on what others think or feel about us we can end up “dimming our light”. She talks about how to shift away from our perceptions of what others think of us so it does not hold so much power over us. Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Journaling is such a great way to express your thoughts, feelings and emotions on everything going on in your life - the good, the bad and the ugly. It can be a therapeutic practice that can support your overall well being. Journaling for a few minutes a day is a self-care practice that has been used all over the world. Do you need some prompts to get you going? Cindy will share how journaling has supported her wellness. When you listen to this podcast, have a notebook handy as Cindy will share some journaling prompts to get you started! Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
You may have decided to leave your comfort zone and go after your dreams. You are excited, but as you take the first step you are taken over by this unpleasant and charged feeling that starts to haunt you. That is not the way you wanted to feel in the dream life you imagined! This feeling is called fear. It is a normal human experience and it often comes with the journey of greatness. Fear often indicates you are up to something big! How can you understand and manage this fear to move forward to success? Ancy will review how fear is part of the fuel to success, and go through some exploratory questions to identify what your fear is telling you and how to manage it. Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
There are millions of books and apps written about time management. My sister used to say, if you want something done give it to a busy person because they will get it done. Sometimes we are so busy being busy that we do not intentionally plan out how we spend our time. Time is such a precious commodity and wouldn't it be great to feel guilt free about how you spend your time daily? In this episode, Cindy invites you to consider some strategies in curating your time in energy to be your best self while having fun in the process! Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Ever find that there are dreams and hopes that seem just outside your reach? You may not have reached those dreams yet, because being comfortable with the status quo feels so safe and reassuring. Is it worth it to leave the comfort of what you know, to enter a new but scary realm that could help you live out your dream? Only you can decide, but listen to this podcast for guidance and understanding. At the very least, this episode can help you pinpoint one area that is calling to your heart to leave your comfort zone and enter a new possibility. It could be the beginning of living a dream that hasn't come true before. Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
One of the most important conversations are the ones we have with ourselves. We talk to ourselves every day, all day. What are you saying to yourself? Are you saying things to yourself that encourage and inspire you? In this episode, Cindy invites you to create your own affirmations and shares a few to get you started! Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Watch your words, because they have power over you that you do not realize! You could be falling short in achieving higher levels of success in certain areas of your life due to the words and statements you say to yourself. Self-talk is more influential than you think. In this episode, Ancy introduces you to a way to feel the power of words, and understand how they may be sabotaging your success. Learn about the impact of your self-talk and ways to change it that can benefit you. Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Some of us overcommit ourselves to only find ourselves overwhelmed and feeling resentful. In this episode, Cindy discusses some simple tips to consider when asked to do something. Wouldn't you rather spend time doing the things you really want to do for the people you really care about? No is a complete sentence and is a great way to practice self-care especially when you are already overcommitted and overextended. By following these simple steps you will feel emboldened to say No with confidence and with love. Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Self-love is rising in popularity. However, many individuals feel it is selfish or unimportant. Find out how a lack of self-love might be harming areas of your life in a way that you did not imagine. Ancy leads you through some questions that will help you understand if you are unknowingly struggling in self-love. By recognizing negative impacts of a lack of self-love in your life, you can improve your relationship with self and others. Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Many people take the beginning of the year as an opportunity to set intentions and goals for the new year. Velocity Visions, Inc. usually hosts their Create the Life You Want Vision Board Workshops in the beginning months of the year to support people's journey of living their best lives. What is a Vision Board anyway and how can it be used as a self-care tool for you and your loved ones? Can you really attract the love of your life or the job of your dreams by using a Vision Board? In this episode, Cindy discusses how she used her Vision Board to attract the love of her life many years ago. She walks you through the very important steps that accompany creating a vision board to get the most out of the tool. Spend some time with yourself and get to know who you need to be, in order to get clear with what you have to do, to have what you want in your life. When you are spending time honoring your dreams, goals and aspirations, you are practicing self-care. Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Many of us have engaged in comparison with others at some point in our lives. At times, you may have felt “less than” or not “good enough” when looking at what others may have achieved that you haven't yet. When those feelings of comparison are persistent and leave you feeling depressed, angry, or unhappy, you are engaged in “comparison despair”. Not only does it feel lousy, but it is a deterrent for success and achieving what we want. Ancy discusses ways comparison despair affected her life and how she changed the despair into motivation, leading to much more fruitful outcomes. Shift your own despair by practicing this self-care tool. Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Life challenges including obstacles and traumas are very real. Some folks have been exposed to a myriad of challenges and then have difficulty advancing in areas of their life. Being able to acknowledge what you are experiencing, acknowledging what it is and its role in your life can help support your personal and professional growth. Learning to use the challenge to work for you as opposed to working against you is something that can shift your life's trajectory. Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
.Many mothers are forced to balance a lot, and it can be very difficult and challenging. Work, partner, family, and caring for self, all compete for attention with your children. How on earth does a mother manage it all? Well there is a balancing act that mothers often ignore, and it can be an underlying cause of stress that interferes with mothers doing the best for their self care. Ancy helps mothers understand how this factor may possibly be affecting you as a mother and how it can be managed so you and your children can both benefit from your success. Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
.What is a healthy boundary? Many people were socialized to blur boundary lines with work and family. What if you set boundaries and felt good about it? Setting boundaries is a self-care strategy that many people have difficulty enforcing, especially when it comes to the people we care most about. When practiced effectively it can increase your mind, body and spirit wellness. Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Let's quickly and simply breakdown this one famous powerful concept from the personal growth world. Yes, it's likely you have heard of this concept before, but you may not realize it's power for your life when you work with it in a particular way. It truly is a game-changer when you practice it daily. Ancy guides you through a few powerful questions that can easily help you make this concept a practice that can uplift your life. Velocity Visions FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/velocityvisionsinc Velocity Visions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velocityvisionsinc/ Velocity Visions Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisionsVelocity?lang=en Velocity Visions Website: https://www.velocityvisionsinc.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message
Welcome to the very first episode of The Self Care to Success Podcast! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/velocityvisionsinc/message