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Learn how to end toxic self-talk, release limiting beliefs and rewire your inner dialogue with Taoist wisdom and the Golden Thread Process.Are you struggling with harsh, toxic self-talk that you know isn't true — but still can't stop? This episode dives into how limiting beliefs take root, why your Inner Child clings to them for “safety,” and how to release them using Taoist wu wei principles and the Golden Thread Process therapy model.You'll learn how unhealthy self-talk becomes identity, how to trace emotional triggers back to their root beliefs, and how to gently rewire your inner dialogue into clarity, compassion, and emotional freedom. If you're ready to end toxic self-talk and create a healthier, grounded inner voice, this conversation will guide you step by step.With your hosts, David James Lees (ordained Taoist monk, emotional and spiritual health teacher) and Alexandra Lees (mindset and business coach).Discover our online consultations, events and shop: https://www.wuweiwisdom.comSubscribe to David's FREE Journal: https://davidjameslees.substack.com/Other related teachings on our YouTube channel that will help you:How to Stop Negative Thoughts & Critical Self-Talk https://youtu.be/GD1O1EsET1E?si=9WOVZHrY8KuP_ymnSilence Your Inner Critic – Guided Meditation https://youtu.be/UJi8uOyaarU?si=gyDDVTHQFWwuel8IOur INNER CHILD PLAYLIST https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qqOur GOLDEN THREAD PROCESS PLAYLIST https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9NQ_PWX4zIAsS_wgdRN7QGBKIk54sbyDIs there a question you'd like answered on the show? Submit it at: https://bit.ly/askusyourquestion Join our free Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity If you love our work, you can now make a small donation to help fund the continued production of our weekly teachings by buying us a 'virtual coffee'! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/wuweiwisdom Book an online Golden Thread Process & Inner Child Consultation with David: https://www.wuweiwisdom.com/therapies-for-body-mind/ Follow us on Instagram: @wuweiwisdomSign up to receive a relaxing guided meditation gift, plus our weekly newsletter + offers via email: https://www.wuweiwisdom.com/signup Music by Earth Tree HealingDisclaimer: This podcast and any associated teaching and comments shared are not a substitute for professional therapy, mental health care, crisis support, medical advice, doctor diagnosis, or professional healthcare treatment. Our show episodes provide general information for educational purposes only and are offered as suggestions for you and your professional therapist or healthcare advisor to consider and research.
Why do you order pizza, pour a glass of wine, or reach for chocolate or chips when you're not actually hungry?It may not be about willpower. And it may not even be about food.In this episode, Lisa Oldson, MD explains how distress tolerance, your ability to sit with uncomfortable emotions without immediately trying to escape them, may be the missing link in sustainable weight loss and healthy habit change.Drawing from research in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT), Dr. Oldson walks you through how increasing psychological flexibility can reduce impulsive eating, late-night snacking, emotional eating, and even binge behaviors.You'll learn:What distress tolerance really is (and what it's not)Why cravings are often about emotional discomfort, not hungerHow urge surfing works to reduce impulsive eatingA simple 5-minute daily practice to build emotional enduranceHow to use TIP skills to calm your nervous system during intense cravingsWhy delaying a binge by even 5 minutes is meaningful progressWhat real improvement looks like (hint: not perfection)If you feel like you “know what to do” but struggle to actually do it, this episode will help you understand why, and give you practical tools to finally make healthy habits stick.Thanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
In this show, Dr. Ray conducts a self-interview with Dr. Sandrew Wright, an experienced addiction counselor. They discuss the seriousness of addictions within today's Church, explore ways to confront these issues, and examine how they can be addressed both biblically and through effective Christian counseling. John 8:32 "and you will know the truth, and the truth will make you free." Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website: https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
What if thriving wasn't about having more, but about choosing differently? Rand Selig has spent a lifetime studying growth, leadership, relationships, and what it truly means to live well. With decades of global experience in business, service, and personal development, Rand believes thriving is not accidental. It's the result of intentional choices made over time. This episode explores how self-reflection, forgiveness, resilience, and personal responsibility shape the quality of our lives. Through thoughtful dialogue, Rand Selig and Chuck Thuss unpack why thriving starts with the relationship you have with yourself, how setbacks can become turning points, and what it takes to stop living on autopilot and start authoring your own story. Guest Bio Rand Selig holds an MBA from Stanford and dual undergraduate degrees in mathematics and psychology. For over 35 years, he has led his own financial services firm while living and working across Europe, Asia, Mexico, and the Caribbean. Deeply committed to personal growth, service, and environmental conservation, Rand created Thriving! to help others embrace meaningful, positive change. He lives in Mill Valley, California, with his wife of over four decades and remains actively involved in mentorship, community leadership, and global service. You'll hear About What it really means to "thrive" in today's world Why the most important relationship you'll ever have is with yourself How forgiveness and letting go free emotional energy Reframing setbacks as opportunities for growth Becoming the author of your own life story Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Introduction 02:40 Rand's Background and Global Life Experience 05:20 Defining Thriving and Its Four Core Pillars 08:10 Why Personal Thriving Comes First 11:30 Self-Sabotage, Forgiveness, and Letting Go 15:00 The Power of Personal Choice 18:20 Navigating Setbacks and Building Resilience 22:30 Pain vs. Suffering and Reclaiming Agency 26:00 Becoming the Author of Your Own Story 30:20 Words, Self-Talk, and Emotional Health 34:00 Small Steps Toward Lasting Change 38:00 Rand's Message to Anyone Feeling Stuck 41:30 Where to Find Thriving! and Additional Resources 44:30 Chuck's Closing Reflections Chuck's Challenge This week, identify one area of your life where you've been reacting instead of choosing. Pause and ask yourself, "Is this aligned with the life I want to be living?" Make one intentional choice, even a small one, that moves you toward thriving rather than defaulting to habit. Connect with Rand Selig Website: https://www.randselig.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rand-selig-43525a6/ Connect with Chuck Check out the website: https://www.thecompassionateconnection.com/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chuck-thuss-a9aa044/ Follow on Instagram: @warriorsunmasked Join the Warriors Unmasked community by subscribing to the show. Together, we're breaking stigmas and shining a light on mental health, one story at a time.
How to turn down the chatter of negative self-talk.If you want to have better conversations with others, Ethan Kross says you first have to quiet down the chatter in your own head.A professor, researcher, and author, Kross defines chatter as a “negative thought loop” that hijacks our attention and undermines our ability to perform. “We have a limited capacity to focus our attention,” he says. “Attentional resources are a limited commodity, and chatter acts like a sponge that consumes that capacity. It leaves very little leftover that allows us to do the things that we want or need to do.” In his work researching, teaching, and writing about emotional regulation and the conscious mind, Kross has explored how to manage the negative self-talk that sabotages our concentration. “Here's the good news,” he says. “You can get out of it. Managing your chatter [is] a lot like becoming physically fit” — and he's developed tools and frameworks for building the muscles to turn down the noise.In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Kross joins host Matt Abrahams to share methods for quieting chatter and reclaiming precious mental resources. From distanced self-talk to mental time travel, his tools offer a way to tune out the static and tune into clarity and connection.To listen to the extended Deep Thinks version of this episode, please visit FasterSmarter.io/premium.Episode Reference Links:Ethan KrossEthan's Books: Chatter / ShiftEp.179 Finding Positive in Negative Emotions: Communication, Happiness & Wellbeing Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInChapters:(00:00) - Introduction (02:27) - Defining Chatter (04:57) - Breaking the Loop (09:54) - Technology & Emotional Sharing (13:20) - Why “Get Over It” Fails (18:40) - Emotions as Data (21:11) - The Final Three Questions (25:01) - Conclusion ********Thank you to our sponsors. These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.This episode is brought to you by Babbel. Think Fast Talk Smart listeners can get started on your language learning journey today- visit Babbel.com/Thinkfast and get up to 55% off your Babbel subscription.Join our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.
Join Dr. Cara Quant as she debunks common health misconceptions and separates fact from fiction in this myth-busting episode of Viva La Vulva.Prepare to be amazed by the science behind self-talk and itsmeasurable impact on your physical health—your words might be more powerful than you think.This episode is perfect for anyone ready to approach their health with curiosity, critical thinking, and a fresh perspective for the new year. Dr. Quant cuts through the noise with her signature blend of accessible science and practical advice you can actually use.Viva La Vulva is a podcast dedicated to women's health, wellness, and empowerment through evidence-based medicine. Resources: Follow Viva La Vulva and Dr. Cara on IG: @vivalavulvalaand @drcaraquant
I would love to hear how this episode impacted you.hat voice in your head—the one that hesitates, questions, and pulls you back—isn't trying to sabotage you.It's trying to protect you.In this episode, we reframe self-talk through a nervous-system and identity-based lens, explaining why fighting your thoughts actually makes them louder—and why forcing positivity rarely works.You'll learn:Why your inner voice forms through stress and emotional memoryThe real fear behind self-doubt (hint: it's not failure)Why arguing with your thoughts escalates resistanceHow pausing—not fighting—creates clarity and alignmentWhy identity anchors are more powerful than self-criticismIf you've ever felt stuck, hesitant, or like you keep pulling back just as you're about to step forward, this episode will help you understand why—and show you a calmer, more effective way to lead yourself.You don't need to silence your inner voice. You need to stop fighting it.That's how you stop talking yourself out of your potential.Support the showNew to Adam Henson Coaching? Start Here → https://youtu.be/HHLdVPMha10
Grace & Grit Podcast: Helping Women Everywhere Live Happier, Healthier and More Fit Lives
Your self-talk either moves you forward or holds you back. Learn productive self-coaching techniques for midlife women during perimenopause and menopause when motivation naturally fluctuates. Discover common excuse patterns for women over 40, the difference between legitimate rest needs and avoidance, and practical self-coaching techniques helping you show up for workouts, meal prep, and wellness practices. Perfect for women struggling with consistency, negative self-talk, or expert-level excuse-making around fitness and nutrition. Includes empowering mantras, reframing techniques, and strategies for supportive rather than punishing internal dialogue. If you want to take this work deeper, grab my book The Consistency Code: A Midlife Woman's Guide to Deep Health and Happiness. ✨ It's the roadmap midlife women are using to lead themselves powerfully in the health arena and beyond. Available now at https://theconsistencycode.com
Tired of following diet plans that work temporarily but never stick? In this episode, Lisa Oldson, MD explains why she doesn't give clients a specific menu or meal plan, and why that's actually better for long-term weight loss success. Drawing on research about habit formation, dietary adherence, and incremental change, Dr. Lisa shares why personalized, gradual modifications to your current eating habits are more sustainable than radical diet overhauls. Learn how small, manageable changes compound over time to create lasting transformation without the yo-yo dieting cycle. Discover the science behind why the best diet is the one you'll actually stick to, and get practical strategies for building your own sustainable eating system based on foods you already like and eat.Thanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
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In this episode, Dr. Ray Self discusses the controlling spirit, including why people use it, how it affects and hinders you, and ways to overcome it. Proverbs 3:5 -7 Trust in the LORD with all your heart And do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He will make your paths straight. Do not be wise in your own eyes; Fear the LORD and turn away from evil. Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website: https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses
Your inner voice is shaping your parenting more than any tool, rule, or consequence you use, and this episode helps you retrain it on purpose. You'll learn simple self-talk phrases to use in hard moments —when you're triggered, overwhelmed, or doubting yourself —so you can stay regulated, lead with wisdom, and model emotional strength for your kids. These phrases aren't fluffy affirmations; they're practical anchors that help you slow down, break reactive cycles, and show up as the parent you actually want to be. Go deeper with Sean www.SaveMyFamily.us Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Do you ever find yourself standing in front of the fridge at 6 PM just staring into the light? It is that heavy feeling of being completely "done" for the day. It is not just physical fatigue. It is your brain telling you it has nothing left to give. I have been there so many times and I want you to know that it is not a failure of willpower. This week is a little different because it is just you and me. I wanted to sit down and have a real heart to heart about why staying healthy feels so incredibly hard right now. We are living in such a loud and polarizing world when it comes to nutrition and honestly it is exhausting. I am sharing the concept of the Brain Bank Account which has been a total game changer for how I manage my own energy. We are moving away from the "shoulds" and looking at how to build gentle systems that actually hold you up when life gets messy.Here's what we dive into:- Why the world of nutrition feels so loud and confusing and how to find your own quiet center again.- How to use the Brain Bank Account method to stop overdrawing your internal energy.- What happens to our brains when we hit that 3 PM slump and how to nourish our way through it.- Why making decisions about food is actually one of the most taxing things we do every day.- How to align your natural biological rhythms with your busy social life without the stress.- What the Great British Veg Out is all about and why adding more is always better than taking away.- Why your health is individual and how to stop comparing your "off days" to someone else's highlight reel.Love, Sarah Ann
Auf Herz und Nieren – Der Podcast für ein gutes Körpergefühl
“Jetzt reiß dich doch mal zusammen! Was ist eigentlich dein Problem?” Würdet ihr so mit Freunden sprechen? Und mit euch selbst? Die innere Stimme in unserem Kopf kann richtig fies sein. Und das hat großen Einfluss auf die mentale Gesundheit – auf unser Selbstbewusstsein, Stressmanagement und das Risiko für psychische Erkrankungen. Die gute Nachricht: Self-Talk ist veränderbar. In dieser Folge sprechen wir mit der Psychologin Dr. Eva Elisa Schneider darüber, wie wir wohlwollender mit uns selbst reden, aber auch Selbstkritik optimal nutzen, um uns zu verbessern. Wir klären, warum es manchmal hilfreich sein kann, sich mit “du” anstatt “ich” anzusprechen und wie die Kommunikation in unserem Umfeld, etwa in der Arbeit, die innere Stimme beeinflussen. Außerdem geben wir euch konkrete Übungen an die Hand, um an eurer Selbstansprache zu arbeiten.
What if your performance issues aren't mental weakness… but brain function? In this episode of the Champion Living Podcast, Doug sits down with neurofeedback specialist Becky Lauridsen to break down how brain mapping is changing the way we understand focus, self-talk, concussions, and athlete development—especially in the sport of rodeo. They dive into: Why many athletes have frontal lobes stuck in "delta" (a suppressed brain state) The difference between motivation and discipline from a neurological perspective How upbringing and self-talk create real neural pathways What actually happens after a concussion—and what's missing from traditional protocol How neurofeedback works to ignite suppressed areas of the brain Why alpha waves are the key to calm, locked-in focus This conversation bridges performance, brain health, and long-term athlete development in a way most rodeo athletes have never heard before. If you're serious about competing at a high level—and protecting your brain while you do it—this episode is a must-listen.
Sometimes it's hard to love yourself, so let's help make it easier.. . .A full transcript of this episode is available in the 10 for Teens + Tweens Ep. 144 show notes on EmpowerfulGirls.com.
The longest relationship you will ever have is the one with yourself.And the words you speak inside your own mind?They are either building you… or breaking you.In this episode, I'm sharing a powerful theme from one of my recent yoga classes: Our Self-Talk Is Self-Love.If you struggle with anxiety, self-doubt, or feeling like you're never enough — this conversation is for you. Because manifestation doesn't begin with vision boards. It begins with your inner dialogue.Today we talk about: • How your self-talk shapes your nervous system • The connection between inner criticism and anxiety • Why harsh self-talk blocks manifestation • How to gently rewire your inner voice • Simple phrases to start speaking over yourself nowYou cannot create a peaceful life while waging war inside your own mind.It's time to make your inner voice sound like someone who loves you.In This Episode You'll Learn:✨ Why your thoughts are energetic instructions✨ How to notice your default internal dialogue✨ What to say instead of “I can't” or “I'm not enough”✨ How yoga and breathwork help soften inner criticism✨ A powerful self-love affirmation practiceJournal Prompts From This Episode: • What have I been saying to myself lately? • Would I speak to someone I love the way I speak to myself? • What loving phrase am I ready to adopt?⸻Affirmations From This Episode: • I speak to myself with kindness. • My words create my world. • I am gentle with myself. • I am worthy of love — especially my own.⸻Work With DawnIf this episode resonated with you and you're ready to: • Heal anxiety from the inside out • Shift your mindset and manifestation patterns • Experience yoga, Reiki, or sound healing • Or receive 1:1 manifestation coachingServices Offered By DawnDawn offers a range of services designed to help individuals harness the power of manifestation:1:1 Coaching: Personalized sessions to help women connect with their inner selves, prioritize emotions, and embrace their new manifested selves with love and peace.Reiki and Sound Healing: Energy healing sessions to balance emotions and promote holistic well-being.Workshops and Activations: Group activities that provide practical tools and techniques for effective manifestation.Yoga and Meditation: Practices aimed at enhancing mindfulness and relaxation, aiding the manifestation process.Connect with DawnFor more information or to schedule a session, reach out to Dawn at dawn@manifestmorewithdawnmaynor.com. Join the community and explore free resources available on Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, and TikTok.Share the LoveIf you enjoyed this episode, please share it with a friend or on social media. Your support helps spread the message of peace, purpose, and passion.Thank you for tuning in!Sending you all Love and Light, and remember to Manifest More with Dawn Maynor.LINKS:Dotterra GreensDoterra ElectrolytesThe Rest of the Water Fast Supplements here on my Amazon List!You don't have to do this alone.
Is low-carb better than low-fat? Should you be eating 120 grams of protein a day? The internet says yes, but the science says it's not that simple. In this episode, Dr. Lisa Oldson digs into Dr. Kevin Hall's groundbreaking NIH research to explain why your macro ratio matters far less than you think. The real key to weight loss? The quality of the food on your plate; not the ratio of macros in it. Plus, Dr. Lisa shares why she's never counted her own macros, what to know if you're on a GLP-1 medication, and how to find your NBA, your next best action, without overhauling your entire life.Thanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
Have you ever wondered what it truly means to live life free? To live a life unhindered and unobstructed, in this show, Dr. Self explores and explains why you're hindered and obstructed and how to break free and move forward without so many obstacles blocking your path. Gal 5:1 It was for freedom that Christ set us free; therefore keep standing firm and do not be subject again to a yoke of slavery. Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website: https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
What does it really take to build a long-term, sustainable business in Direct Selling - especially when motivation dips and things feel heavy? In this powerful episode of the Direct Selling Accelerator Podcast, I’m joined by Zelia Malherbe, a Norwex leader with over 16 years of experience navigating growth, leadership, and change in the industry. Zelia shares her honest journey from introverted beginnings to leading with confidence, why simplicity always outperforms complexity, and how real connection - not social media broadcasting - builds lasting success. We unpack motivation vs discipline, the importance of systems, personal development, conferences, and why Direct Selling remains a people-first business. If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or questioning your next step, this episode will ground you, refocus you, and remind you that consistent small actions truly compound to make a difference. Grab a cuppa and a notebook - this conversation is packed with wisdom you can implement immediately. We’ll be talking about: ➡ [00:00] Why Direct Selling Can Feel Lonely — And How to Change That ➡ [02:47] Introducing Zelia Malherbe & Her 16-Year Journey ➡ [04:12] From Hobby to Real Business: The Conference Turning Point ➡ [06:00] Why Conferences Still Matter in Direct Selling ➡ [08:54] Introvert to Leader: Borrowing Confidence ➡ [11:24] Why Simplicity Wins in Business ➡ [13:00] The Social Media Broadcasting Trap ➡ [14:24] Language, Self-Talk & Consistency Over Intensity ➡ [16:21] Simple Daily Systems That Build Momentum ➡ [18:57] Why Personal Conversations Beat Social Media Posts ➡ [21:45] Motivation vs Discipline: What to Rely On ➡ [25:12] The Future of the Direct Selling Industry ➡ [30:24] Leading Yourself Before Leading Others ➡ [33:09] Coaching, Mentorship & Personal Development ➡ [36:51] Zelia Malherbe’s Favourite Books ➡ [37:39] Zelia Malherbe’s Favourite Quote ➡ [37:54] Zelia Malherbe’s Superpower ➡ [38:30] Zelia Malherbe’s Advice She’d Give Her Past Self ➡ [39:09] Final Advice for Direct Sellers Feeling Stuck ➡ [40:27] Final Thoughts Resources Recommended Book: ➡ Atomic Habits — James Clear: https://bit.ly/49FT84X ➡ Let Them — Mel Robbins: https://bit.ly/4sZ2Zuf Quotes:➡ “If it’s to be, it’s up to me.” About our guest: Zelia Malherbe is a Senior Leader with Norwex and leader of Team Impact, a high-performing community of consultants focused on sustainable growth, strong culture and values-driven leadership. With more than 16 years in the business, Zelia mentors leaders across Australia and New Zealand in building consistent bookings, customer care systems, and confident team leadership. Known for her steady, grounded style, she believes that long-term success comes from integrity, service and consistent action rather than hype or shortcuts. Connect with Zelia Malherbe: ➡ Zelia Malherbe’s Website: https://zelia.norwexbiz.com.au/ ➡ Zelia Malherbe’s Facebook: www.facebook.com/CleanCloth ➡ Zelia Malherbe’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/zeliamalherbe Connect with Norwex ➡ X: https://x.com/norwex ➡ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/norwexaunz/ ➡ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NorwexAustralia ➡ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/norwex-anz/ ➡ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/norwexaustralia ➡ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/norwex/ Connect with Direct Selling Accelerator: ➡ Visit our website: https://www.auxano.global/ ➡ Subscribe to YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/DirectSellingAccelerator ➡ Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/auxanomarketing/ ➡ Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/auxanomarketing/ ➡ Email us at communnity_manager@auxano.global If you have any podcast suggestions or things you’d like to learn about specifically, please send us an email at the address above. And if you liked this episode, please don’t forget to subscribe, tune in, and share this podcast. Are you ready to join the Auxano Family to get live weekly training, support and the latest proven posting strategies to get leads and sales right now - find out more here https://go.auxano.global/welcomeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
This is a recording of a Viewer Questions livestream from Youtube. With Jocelyne & Corey in this live stream. In this stream we primality discuss viewers dating and relationship questions. But we also talk about how to improve your life, financial help and world events. If you enjoy lively conversation and want your questions answered in real time, click on this link to watch upcoming live streams and be part of the conversation: https://www.youtube.com/@CoachCoreyWayne/streams
Have you noticed how negative your own self-talk can be? We say, “A REAL Christian wouldn’t think or say that!” If only we could replace that garbage talk with biblical talk. This week on The Land and the Book, we’ll explore Powerful Self-Talk from the Psalms. You’ll walk away with tools to anchor your mind in David’s words—biblical words. Let’s think better! We’ll help you as you join us for The Land and the Book.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/landandthebookSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Language We Use With OurselvesJust before heading out to meet friends, I caught myself in a small moment of self-judgement: 'I'm meant to be ready already.' It's such familiar territory, isn't it? That subtle criticism we layer onto ourselves throughout the day. Recognising that moment sparked some thoughts... that led to this episode, exploring:How our self-talk is a vital part of our self-care practice, shaping not only how we see ourselves but how we expect others to see usThe origins of our inner critic — recognising whose voice we're really hearing when we speak harshly to ourselvesThe difference between self-compassion and self-indulgence, and why compassion doesn't mean condoning all our behavioursA simple journaling prompt that can reveal what shifts when we speak to ourselves with kindnessHow the way we relate to ourselves ripples outward into how we show up in the worldThis is lived work, and I share my own recent experience with the 'vulnerability boomerang' after launching my new website — a reminder that even when we teach this work, we're always practicing it too.If you'd like to explore that journaling prompt, try writing these words at the top of your page, and see where they take you: When I Speak Kindly to Myself, I See...Currently… my work is centred around:Thoughtful connection, including live gatherings and courses, gently shared through my mailing list - join to hear more https://hennyflynn.kit.com/profileYou can find everything I offer here: https://www.hennyflynn.co.uk/ ★ Support this podcast ★
The noise at the Super Bowl can be overwhelming—tens of thousands of voices colliding into a single roar. But the loudest voice a player hears isn't coming from the stands. It's the one inside their own head.In this episode of The Game Inside the Games, Dr. Michael Gervais and All-Pro wide receiver Brandon Marshall sit down with former NFL MVP Cam Newton to explore one of the most overlooked forces in elite performance: self-talk.Rather than revisiting highlights or headlines, the conversation focuses on the internal dialogue that shapes performance in football's biggest moments. From the intensity of the Super Bowl stage to the quieter moments when doubt creeps in, Cam and Brandon share how the words athletes say to themselves can either steady them—or pull them out of the moment entirely.This is a candid, human conversation about confidence, pressure, imagination, and the unseen work required to stay grounded when everything is on the line. And while the stories come from the highest level of sport, the lessons reach far beyond the field—offering insight into how anyone can use self-talk to access their best when it matters most.Follow Finding Mastery all week as The Game Inside the Games continues to unpack the inner game at global sporting events,, available on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen._____________This episode is brought to you by CDW and Microsoft. AI is revolutionizing how work gets done. CDW and Microsoft can play a vital role in unlocking the transformative potential of Microsoft Copilot. By leveraging this technology, organizations can achieve significant productivity gains, enhance innovation and streamline workflows.Unlock opportunities to improve both employee and customer experiences when you partner with CDW to deploy your Copilot solutions. Our experts can help maximize the capabilities of Copilot, by building out roadmaps, use cases, and agent experiences that supercharge efficiency for your organization. Aka.ms/CDWMicrosoftCopilotLearn more about CDW's internal Copilot adoption story: CDW rolls out Microsoft 365 Copilot to 10,000 employees, reporting 85% productivity gains | Microsoft Customer Stories_____________Links & ResourcesSubscribe to our Youtube Channel for more conversations at the intersection of high performance, leadership, and wellbeing: https://www.youtube.com/c/FindingMasteryGet exclusive discounts and support our amazing sponsors! Go to: https://findingmastery.com/sponsors/Subscribe to the Finding Mastery newsletter for weekly high performance insights: https://www.findingmastery.com/newsletter Download Dr. Mike's Morning Mindset Routine: findingmastery.com/morningmindset Follow on YouTube, Instagram, LinkedIn, and XSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Nutrition Nugget! Bite-sized bonus episodes offer tips, tricks and approachable science. This week, Jenn is talking about the C-C-C, which stands for Catch, Challenge, Change. Do your negative thoughts secretly sabotage your health goals? When that inner voice says "you're too busy," "you have no willpower," or "you've failed again," is it telling the truth or just repeating old patterns that hold you back? Jenn introduces a practical mental tool to interrupt the defeating thought loops we all experience on our wellness journeys. But here's the real question: are you actually too tired for that workout, or is something else going on? Could the "evidence" of failure actually be hiding signs of progress you're refusing to see? Jenn breaks down how to catch these negative thoughts in action, challenge the beliefs behind them, and ultimately transform your inner dialogue. But the approach might surprise you. Is it really about being "1% better every day," or is there a more realistic way to build mental toughness without the pressure? Like what you're hearing? Be sure to check out the full-length episodes of new releases every Wednesday. Have an idea for a nutrition nugget? Submit it here: https://asaladwithasideoffries.com/index.php/contact/ RESOURCES:Become a Happy Healthy Hub MemberJenn's Free Menu PlanA Salad With a Side of FriesA Salad With A Side Of Fries MerchA Salad With a Side of Fries InstagramKEYWORDS: Jenn Trepeck, Nutrition Nugget, Salad With A Side Of Fries, Health Tips, Wellness Tips, Negative Self-Talk. Catch, Challenge, Change, Mental Framework, Thought Patterns, Old Habits, Inner Dialogue, Limiting Beliefs, Self-Talk, Wellness Mindset, Weight Loss Mindset, Positive Thinking, Mental Toughness, Cognitive Reframing, Healthy Mindset, Behavior Change, Self-Sabotage, Motivation Strategies, Willpower Myths, Progress Tracking, Mindset Shift, Personal Growth, Mental Health Tools, Habit Building, Wellness Journey, Diet Culture, Fitness Goals, Self-Compassion, Negative Thoughts, Brain Patterns, Thought Management, Success Mindset, Health Goals, Mental Strength, Lifestyle Change, Wellness Tips, Healthy Habits, Self-Improvement, Goal Setting, Mindful Eating, Weight Management, Personal Development, How To Challenge Negative Thoughts About Dieting, Overcoming Limiting Beliefs In Weight Loss
Discover the powerful connection between weight loss, exercise, and cancer risk. Dr. Lisa Oldson breaks down the latest research showing how intentional weight loss, whether through lifestyle changes, GLP-1 medications, or bariatric surgery, can significantly reduce your risk of 13 different types of cancer. Learn why exercise is one of the most effective tools for both preventing cancer and improving outcomes after diagnosis, with reductions in recurrence rates of up to 48%. This episode empowers you with five actionable strategies you can implement today to lower your cancer risk and lengthen your health span.Thanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
Have you ever wondered why you get triggered or overreact in certain situations? Perhaps you've witnessed someone else overreacting, or maybe you have reacted poorly yourself and later regretted it. You might have even been affected by someone else's triggers. Dr. Ray explores how these reactions relate to demonic schemes. This vital show will help you recognize these patterns and find ways to break free. 2 Cor 2:11 so that no advantage would be taken of us by Satan, for we are not ignorant of his schemes. Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website: https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
If you've ever told yourself, "I just need to stay calm," you've been sold a half-truth. Because elite performers don't win by being calm. They win by using emotion as data—and refusing to let it drive the steering wheel. In this masterclass conversation, I sit down with Mindset and Performance Coach Collin Henderson to unpack what actually separates average performers from elite ones: not talent… not even skill… but the ability to reduce internal interference when pressure spikes—on the first tee, on the back nine, or in the biggest moments in business. We break down Collin's "4 levels of confidence," the #1 performance killer (FOPO: fear of other people's opinions), why your brain is always trying to keep you safe (even when it sabotages you), and how to build unshakable confidence through identity, self-talk, and a repeatable process. In this episode, you'll learn: Why emotional regulation isn't "staying calm," but staying in control How to perform confidently without feeling confident Collin's 4 levels of confidence—and why most people get trapped in levels 2–3 The equation that explains choking under pressure: Talent + Skill – Internal Interference How to kill FOPO and stop playing golf (and life) like you're being judged by a panel Why identity is the true ceiling—and how to change it The simple framework to shift your "don'ts" into "do's" and stop carving failure into your nervous system Get your pencils ready and start listening. P.S. UPDATE: I have decided to start anew on Instagram. Follow me @thepaulsalter for your daily dose of high-performance wisdom, insights, and actions. P.P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. Apply for 1-1 Mindset and Performance Coaching: Click here to apply to work with me. More About Collin Collin Henderson is the founder and CEO of Master Your Mindset, LLC, and one of today's leading voices in mental conditioning. A former two-sport Division I athlete and top-ranked medical sales professional, he left corporate success to coach elite performers full-time. Acclaimed broadcaster Jim Rome calls him "an authority of what matters most — an elite mindset." Collin has authored seven books, hosts the Master Your Mindset podcast, and has trained #1 NBA draft picks, Heisman finalists, and top performers across pro sports and Fortune 500 companies. His trainings have been utilized by organizations like Nike, Microsoft, Salesforce, Amazon, and Novartis. A proud family man and dad of five, Collin also loves Fruity Pebbles, pizza, Ted Lasso, and cute puppy videos on Instagram. Learn more about Collin by visiting his website. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my "Play Your Best Round" free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course. Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist Key Takeaways: Emotions are information, not instructions; use them as data without letting them dictate behavior. You don't have to feel great to perform great; elite performers execute through uncertainty and discomfort. Most people operate with conditional confidence, while unshakable confidence commits without needing results or validation. Talent plus skill minus internal interference determines execution probability, not talent alone. Fear of other people's opinions (FOPO) quietly sabotages performance, even though others are focused on themselves. Negative self-labels reinforce a fixed identity and set a ceiling on performance. Scripted self-talk and repeatable processes prevent the mind from freelancing under pressure. Key Quotes: "Words are the language of the brain. Emotions are the language of the body." "You don't have to feel great to perform great." "If you can't control your state, you can't control your performance." "If you want to change your psychology, use your physiology." "Talent plus skill minus internal interference equals execution probability." "You never outperform your self-image." Time Stamps: 00:00: Understanding Emotional Regulation 03:01: The Four Levels of Confidence 05:42: Building Unshakable Confidence 08:22: The Impact of Internal Interference 11:04: The Role of Identity in Confidence 13:42: Self-Talk and Performance 16:32: The Importance of Process in Golf 19:15: Cognitive Diffusion and Overcoming Interference 21:08: Reframing Self-Talk for Success 24:05: The Power of Self-Image and Self-Talk 27:52: Creating a Reset Routine for Performance 29:13: Managing Pressure and Mental Interference 32:44: Detaching Self-Worth from Results 36:40: Building a Balanced Identity 39:34: The Importance of Mindset Training 43:07: The Process of Figuring It Out
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Supersize You Annual Challenge Day 36: Confidence, Mastering Your Self-Talk! Join us every day in 2026 for a quick challenge that is all about you Improving and creating the life you want! https://www.facebook.com/ThrivingSharon Ask your questions and share your wisdom! #supersizeannualchallenge #doonethingeverydaytosupersizeyou #annualchallenge #confidence #confidencepose #supersizeyouannualchallenge #affirmations #negativeselftalk #supersizeyouchallenge #replacenegativeselftalk #createpowerfulaffirmations #beyou
Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you.Okay, you spotted the victim habit. Now what? If you listened to episode 66 and thought, "that is me,” this is your next step.If you have been in divorce stress, family conflict, or a rough life season, it is so easy to slip into patterns that keep you stuck, right? Not because you're weak. Because your brain is trying to protect you. But protection and progress are not the same thing.In this episode, I walk you through the ways you can disrupt the victim habits that are holding you back. These shifts in your thinking help you get your footing back (yes!), change the pattern, and start moving forward again…. without having to overhaul your whole life overnight.Want to get out of your own way? We talk about:How to spot the moment you are sliding into an old patternThe small changes that create momentum… fastWhy your environment and your inner circle matter more than people realizeWhat to do when you know better but still keep doing the same thingA mindset shift that helps you stop beating yourself up and start taking actionRESOURCESMEDIATION STARTER GUIDE: https://mailchi.mp/2939c428981d/mediation-resourcesKELLY'S BOOK: Victim Is Not Your Name https://a.co/d/e4VguRkAMEN CLINICS: (Dr. Daniel Amen): https://www.amenclinics.comBOOK MENTIONED: Resilient, Rick Hanson PhD https://a.co/d/05blH36PLEGAL & MEDIATION HELP: https://saperelawfirm.comINSTAGRAM: https://instagram.com/saperelawfirmFACEBOOK: https://facebook.com/saperelawfirm
It's been a minute since I've dropped a new episode. I will be back soon with brand new episodes for you. For now, I wanted to share my most recent interview with Emily Hirsch of the Embodied CEO podcast. We recorded this three months ago and then she asked me to speak at her live event in Austin, TX!I really hope our conversation inspires you to use your voice, get on camera, and unapologetically say the thing you know you need to say, OUT LOUD.If this episode stirred something in you, then you belong inside The Out Loud School, my global voice + visibility membership. Join us here. Send us Fan Mail Support the showResources + Links
Send Rachel a text message.It's not that you must be free from fear… What is needed rather than running away or controlling or suppressing or any other resistance is understanding fear; that means watch it; learn about it; come directly into contact with it.—J. KrishnamurtiWhat if fear isn't something to eliminate—but something asking to be seen?In this episode of Self Talk, we explore the transformative practice of bringing our fears closer rather than avoiding them. When fear is met with presence and curiosity, it loses its power to hijack our inner world and instead becomes a source of insight, integration, and self-trust.Together, we'll look at why we avoid fear, how avoidance quietly shapes our behavior, and how welcoming even the most uncomfortable parts of ourselves creates inner transparency and resilience. At the heart of it all is the Foundation of Self: the understanding that each of us is a unique expression of Pure Consciousness—and nothing within us is separate or unworthy of belonging.EPISODE TIMELINE[0:00:00 – 0:00:38] Opening & ThemeKrishnamurti quote on understanding fear and brief introduction to the season's focus on practicing the foundation of self. The core theme of “bringing fear closer” is introduced.[0:00:38 – 0:03:10] Fear as ProtectionFear is framed as an evolutionary protection mechanism. Its role in the nervous system and its destabilizing psychological impact are outlined.[0:03:10 – 0:05:40] Underdeveloped Ego & AvoidanceThe underdeveloped ego is described as equating fear with danger and annihilation. Common avoidance patterns—distraction, overworking, numbing, and spiritual bypassing—are named.[0:05:40 – 0:07:50] Unnamed Fear & AnxietyUnacknowledged fear is shown to become anxiety and other symptoms like irritability and self-sabotage. A client story illustrates how vague fear can be clarified into a specific, workable concern.[0:07:50 – 0:09:40] Fear as a Frightened ChildFear is reimagined as a frightened child seeking reassurance. “Bringing it closer” is presented as turning toward fear with steadiness and curiosity, held by the larger Self.[0:09:40 – 0:12:20] Naming & Integrating FearThe importance of naming and feeling fear without judgment is highlighted. Fear is shown to carry old stories that can be updated when brought into conscious awareness.[0:12:20 – 0:15:00] Wholeness & CongruencyHealing is framed as integrating, not eliminating, inner parts. The “cottage of the self” metaphor illustrates welcoming all parts to create congruency between inner and outer life.[0:15:00 – 0:18:00] Consciousness & BelongingEach person is described as a unique expression of pure consciousness. From this view, nothing within is foreign, and fear loses power to enforce a sense of isolation.[0:18:00 – 0:20:00] Daily Practice InvitationListeners are invited to notice one moment of fear and gently bring it closer. Simple witnessing with non-judgment is offered as a daily integrative practice.Got a question about your self? Send it to me at rachel@selftalkpodcast.com and it may be featured on a future episode. Support the showContinue working with Rachel at foundationofself.com • Subscribe here, at youtube.com/@selftalkpodcast, or wherever you get podcasts. •Music:"Ave Marimba"Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0
Here's the myth we've all been sold:If your motivation fades, you didn't want the goal badly enough.But motivation is emotional. It's fueled by novelty, excitement, and fresh starts — which is why January feels so powerful. February is when reality sets in.Research shows that most goals fade by mid-February, not because people stop caring, but because motivation was doing all the heavy lifting.And for high-achieving women especially:we internalize setbacks as personal failurewe expect ourselves to push through instead of redesignand we confuse inconsistency with lack of disciplineIf this is sounding familiar, pause here — this is not a you problem. It's a strategy problem.3 STRATEGIES TO BUILD GOALS THAT DON'T RELY ON MOTIVATION1️⃣ Replace Motivation with StructureMotivation asks, “Do I feel like it today?” Structure asks, “What's the plan when I don't?”Goals that survive February are built on routines, decisions made in advance, and small, repeatable actions — not willpower.2️⃣ Stop Treating Setbacks Like a Personality FlawSo many women interpret a missed week or slow progress as proof:“I'm just not disciplined.”“I always fall off.”“This is why I shouldn't even try.”Progress isn't about perfection — it's about recovery.3️⃣ Design Goals for Real Life, Not Ideal LifeThe most sustainable goals aren't extreme — they're flexible.They assume:work gets busyenergy fluctuateslife interruptsGoals don't fail because people are weak — they fail because they were designed for perfect days instead of real ones.Workshop Invite Just for You + Coupon Code:If one of your goals this year is to feel more confident, more present, and more in control of how you show up — especially at work — I want to invite you to join us for an upcoming workshop called “The Confidence Advantage: 5 Body Language Secrets That Transform Every Conversation.”This workshop is all about understanding how confidence is communicated before you even say a word — through posture, eye contact, facial awareness, and body language — and how small, intentional shifts can dramatically change how you're perceived. Use Coupon Code VIP20 for 20% off your ticket as a thank you for being an audience member!Workshop Link: https://www.drdawnshoptalk.com/workshopsVideos Mentioned Today:New Year New You - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yvN0HAQEjwMGuilt in Your Way? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lpCGplSSPC4Power of Self-Talk - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zSTC0CnKlkkCan't Finish What You Start? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jqOK47IeltMOther Episodes - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YaBdDqTo7qY&list=PLdguFjdYMwqWXnvIeSAIhDrtPdHdsLGdehttps://www.youtube.com/@drdawnshoptalk/podcasts
Have you already abandoned your New Year's Resolution? No judgement! You're not alone. New Year's resolutions often fail because they feel like obligations rather than invitations. In this episode, a month after the new year, Lisa Oldson, MD shares why choosing a single word to guide your year, especially the word PRACTICE, can transform your approach to weight loss and building healthier habits. Drawing from her own experience learning Argentine tango, sports psychology research, and Malcolm Gladwell's 10,000-hour rule, she explains why healthy habits are skills that require deliberate practice, patience, and repetition. If your resolution has already fallen by the wayside, this episode offers a fresh start with a more sustainable, compassionate approach to weight loss, longevity, and better health.You'll learn:Why resolutions fail by February, and why a word of the year is a better option.The 10,000-hour rule and deliberate practice.How to create healthy habits.Why don't elite athletes give up when they get off track?PRACTICE as your word for 2026.Thanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
In this episode, we're dissecting the constant conversations happening in your head, and how it's shaping the way you show up in meetings, at dinners and events, and everyday workplace interactions. Because here's the truth: Your inner dialogue becomes your outer presence. If your self-talk sounds like: "I'll never get the job" "I never know what to say" "I hope I don't mess this up" "Other people are naturally better at this" …then no amount of communication tips or confidence hacks will fully stick. Today, you'll learn how to identify the subtle phrases that are reinforcing a socially hesitant identity and how to replace them with thoughts that align with the confident, respected, and socially at-ease professional you're becoming. ** Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Confidence on Cue: a powerful 5-minute audio that resets your mind before any meeting, presentation, or social interaction. Book a Social Strategy Session HERE Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com LinkedIn Instagram TikTok
Do you believe you are called to prophetic ministry? Do you hear God speaking, but you're unsure of what to do with it? Or perhaps you desire to hear God more clearly and want to grow in the gifts of the Holy Spirit. Dr. Ray Self is starting a four-part series called "Prophetic Foundations," which will teach about the prophetic gift and help stir and activate this gift in your life. In this episode, you will hear the final lesson of the Prophetic Foundations series. 1 Cor 14:1 Pursue love, yet desire earnestly spiritual gifts, but especially that you may prophesy. Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donateAnswer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website:https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com.Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com.Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self atdrrayself@gmail.comEnjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free CoursesShow host bio -Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
The way you talk to yourself isn't just background noise, it's the blueprint for your entire life.In this episode, I'll unpack what self-talk actually is, how it silently shapes your energy, decisions, and outcomes, and how to shift it so your inner voice finally matches the future you're building.This is the identity-level rewire most people skip… and it changes everything.Want help rewiring your self-talk in real time? I got you here: Ready to upgrade your identity + reality? Get the SELF-TALK MENU HERE
Ready for a game-changer? In today's episode, Dr. Lisa shares eye-opening insights about how even that casual glass of wine with dinner might be holding you back from your weight loss goals. She also delivers the latest science about the impact of even light social drinking on your risk for cancer. But here's the good news, you're about to learn exactly what to do about it! Discover the latest research on alcohol's real impact on your body and brain, plus practical, science-backed strategies from experts like Anna Lembke, James Clear, and Charles Duhigg that actually work for breaking the drinking habit (no judgment, just solutions!). You'll learn about habit loops, brilliant self-binding techniques, and how a simple one-month reset like Dry January, Dry July, or Sober October can rewire your brain's reward pathways. Whether you're a weekend wine lover or a daily drinker looking to cut back, this episode will empower you with the knowledge and tools to make lasting change. Thanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
Do you believe you are called to prophetic ministry? Do you hear God speaking, but you're unsure of what to do with it? Or perhaps you desire to hear God more clearly and want to grow in the gifts of the Holy Spirit. Dr. Ray Self is starting a four-part series called "Prophetic Foundations," which will teach about the prophetic gift and help stir and activate this gift in your life. This week, you will get to hear part three of this series. 1 Cor 14:1 Pursue love, yet desire earnestly spiritual gifts, but especially that you may prophesy. Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donateAnswer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website:https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com.Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com.Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self atdrrayself@gmail.comEnjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free CoursesShow host bio -Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
Join hosts Jacqueline Smith and Ryan Greigg as they dive into the importance of positive self-talk and resilience in personal growth. Despite her successes, Jacqueline candidly shares her struggles with self-talk and how being around uplifting individuals helps combat negative spirals. Discover the value of journaling, speaking your dreams, and the skill of resilience, highlighted in inspiring insights from a recent event featuring John Maxwell and Valerie Burton. Gain practical advice on transforming negative thoughts and staying motivated. Connect with Jacqueline and Ryan on Instagram for more insights. ---------- Connect with the 15 Point Plan: 15 Point Plan: https://WinMakeGive.com/15-point-plan/ Win Make Give Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/WinMakeGive Learn more about the co-hosts: Jacqueline Smith: https://www.instagram.com/jacquelinerae_smith/ Ryan Greigg: https://www.instagram.com/ryanparkgreigg/ Book one of our co-hosts for your next event: https://WinMakeGive.com/speakers/ Part of the Win Make Give Podcast Network
How we respond when we fail reveals a lot about our hearts and how well we are believing and applying the gospel to our lives. Listen in as Jesse shares about how God unexpectedly used a recent "failure" in Jesse's life to reveal pride and shame in his heart, and to open up some powerful communication in our family on how we should respond when we fail.
Mindset isn't just motivation — it's the dialogue you have with yourself every single day.Your self-talk is the voice that decides how you show up, what you tolerate, and what you chase after.Change the words, and you change the outcome.
What changes when anxiety shows up—and you stop trying to outrun it, and start learning how to work with it?Dan Harris—journalist, bestselling author, and host of 10% Happier—returns to Finding Mastery to explore practical ways to work with anxiety. Dan unpacks how meditation, compassionate self-talk, and exposure built his capacity after a panic attack on live TV—and why curiosity is a powerful antidote to fear.Dan and Dr. Mike go beyond optimization into the human side: rebuilding from collapse, confronting panic (on planes, elevators, and big stages), and the daily reps that make composure more accessible. This is a grounded look at attention, identity, and training your inner life—without hacks or magical thinking.What you'll learnHow to use meditation as “bicep curls for the brain”Why self-talk (especially in third person) regulates panic in real timeThe key to working at your edge without traumatizing yourselfHow to turn exposure into confidence and capacityWhy curiosity beats cynicism for mental performanceAt its heart, this episode is a reminder: mastery isn't a shortcut; it's alignment between awareness, training, and what matters most._____________________________________________________________Links & ResourcesSubscribe to our Youtube Channel for more conversations at the intersection of high performance, leadership, and wellbeing: https://www.youtube.com/c/FindingMasteryGet exclusive discounts and support our amazing sponsors! Go to: https://findingmastery.com/sponsors/Subscribe to the Finding Mastery newsletter for weekly high performance insights: https://www.findingmastery.com/newsletter Download Dr. Mike's Morning Mindset Routine: findingmastery.com/morningmindset Follow on YouTube, Instagram, LinkedIn, and XDan Harris on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TenPercentHappierSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Will Murray is a pro trail runner living in Bellingham, WA. He was one of the breakout stars of the 2025 season, finishing 2nd at the Black Canyon 100k and winning the Javelina Jundred in a new course record time. Entering the 2026 season in partnership with Brooks, Will is poised to continue the momentum into a new year and towards the Western States 100 - his main goal for the season. This is his first time on the podcast. Chapters: 04:15 – Introduction and Personal Insights 06:59 – Recognition as #8 Ultra Runner of the Year 09:40 – Athletic Roots and Trail Running Discovery 12:26 – Mathematical Mindset in Running 14:59 – Cultivating Clarity in High-Pressure Situations 20:52 – Psychological Strength and Self-Talk 23:25 – Relationship with Social Media 26:01 – Injury Just Before Western States 33:08 – Training Evolution and Strategies 36:51 – Mindset and Preparation for Javelina 39:37 – Race Dynamics and Internal Dialogue 42:48 – Celebrating Success and Future Aspirations 45:58 – Joining Brooks and Team Dynamics 50:44 – Future Goals and Upcoming Races Follow Will on Strava REGISTER FOR THE BIG ALTA REGISTER FOR GORGE WATERFALLS Sponsors: Grab a trail running pack from Osprey Use code FREETRAIL25 for 25% off your first order of NEVERSECOND nutrition at never2.com Go to ketone.com/freetrail30 for 30% off a subscription of Ketone IQ Freetrail Links: Website | Freetrail Pro | Patreon | Instagram | YouTube | Freetrail Experts Dylan Links: Instagram | Twitter | LinkedIn | Strava
We talk to ourselves all day, every day – sometimes even out loud! And a lot of those messages are self-condemning. On this edition of Equipped, learn about a model for better self-talk – the Psalms! Jon Gauger will help us begin to form a biblical mindset by rooting our self-talk in the words of David. Hope you can join us for the next Equipped. Featured resource:Powerful Self-Talk from the Psalms by Jon Gauger January thank you gift:Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become Like Him. Do as He Did. by John Mark Comer Equipped with Chris Brooks is made possible through your support. To donate now, click here.
Go to www.LearningLeader.com to learn more... This is brought to you by Insight Global. If you need to hire one person, hire a team of people, or transform your business through Talent or Technical Services, Insight Global's team of 30,000 people around the world has the hustle and grit to deliver. www.InsightGlobal.com/LearningLeader My Guest: Mike Deegan just led Denison University Baseball to their first College World Series appearance in program history. He's been named Coach of the Year in back-to-back years and is the all-time winningest coach in school history. In this conversation, Mike shares how he uses Mudita to build culture, how to help people get out of slumps, and why discipline and consistency are superpowers. Key Learnings (in Mike's words) Mudita is a vicarious joy. Can I be happy for another's success as if it's my own? To me, that is like the secret sauce of life. Obviously, in a sports team, not everyone can be the star. One of the biggest misconceptions is that the star rotates. Yeah, you need a superstar to compete at the highest levels, but to win, you're going to need pinch runners, you're going to need the guy laying a big block. It's going to take everyone. It's really celebrating everyone's contribution. In recruiting, I ask parents: Can you be happy for another kid's success as if it's your own? If your neighbor gets a new car, are you happy for them? Or do you say, "Oh, I wish. I bet his parents bought that for him." There are just different ways to show up for people, where you can just have joy. By pouring yourself into others, especially in sports, I think it frees you up to perform your best. Envy is a natural feeling. I don't want anyone to feel that envy from me. I think what we're saying is that envy is a natural feeling. Wanting to do great yourself, those are very natural, and I want people to live in that space. But can we just stop it and be a little bit more intentional and just celebrate what other people are doing well? Spot the good first. As a consultant, there are two ways you can do things. One is to find the negative, and that's really easy to do. But I try to go and spot the good first. There's plenty of time to nitpick later on. Find some opportunities to help people grow. People love to talk about themselves. My wife is very quiet, a great listener, and people love her. She has a million best friends, and no one knows it because she doesn't talk a whole lot. She just listens. If you can just listen and get people to talk about what they're passionate about, it's a life secret. You can tell when someone's really passionate about what they're doing, and you can tell when they're on the fence because they speed up when they talk, they get a little excited. Curiosity is a great way to show love. If you approach it from envy, we don't unpack the cool story. But if you lead with curiosity and not envy, it unpacks everything. I do think it takes a level of self-awareness and comfort in your own skin. How to build self-awareness: Read, write, and get around wise people. If you read a decent amount, if you write (and that was my forcing function, to actually write and put thought to paper), and then get around wise people and just have conversations, I think you'll start building out the awareness of who you are and what you value. A systems thinker builds frameworks that outlast individuals. It's someone who can build out frameworks that are built to put people and the organization in the best spot to win and be successful. It's a framework that outlasts individuals. Coaches may leave or players may leave, but if you have a system built out that it can sustain losing certain individuals, because things are cranking and you can repeat the work. You can do iterations and quickly test if you're getting closer or further from your goals. I almost try to talk people out of coming here. The most underrated thing in our recruiting is when they sit with me, I almost try to talk people out of coming here. I'll say, "Hey, what's the main driver?" If they say playing time, I'm like, "Hey, that's great. That's an awesome goal, but I wouldn't come here for that. We're going to play our best players. But that's not why you come to Denison. You come to be a part of something bigger than yourself, and there are all these other places where you're going to have a much better shot at that." I'm always listening in on what they value and trying to challenge it. Almost get people to self-select out. The better your culture is, you can take chances on people. It's like Randy Moss and the New England Patriots. Tom Brady was an alpha, and you could bring people in and take a risk and see if they can conform to the culture a little bit. When you have things in place, our locker room was phenomenal. People would say, "Hey, I don't know, this kid has some red flags." I'm like, "Red flags, like he's a serial killer? Or like red flag,s like he's super competitive?" The locker room would take care of a lot of that. If there's something built out that you feel pretty strongly about, I think you can take in some of these high-risk, high-reward people because they can't damage the culture like you would think they can. Early on in that tenure, I was very, very careful with this. But now we can take some chances on people if the DNA is right. The lack of seriousness pushed people out. When I took over, I'm the opposite of the guy I played for. And every time someone quit, I would just say thank you. And I meant that too because we were going in a certain direction. There was talent. It needed more seriousness. We had enough talent that it was going to allow us to compete at a conference level. I think it's amazing when you can just put boundaries and guardrails and point people in the right direction. We just provided a little structure, a little discipline. The DNA of great teams: Roles, sacrifice, discipline, leadership, joy. Everyone has a role and to beat objective expectations. When good meets good, you have got to understand that every role is essential to the cause. Status goes away. Second, we're in this together. There's no prima donna. I think that's what happens with championship teams. For us to compete on a national level, our guys do miss out on a lot. Grades may suffer. There are trade-offs with this thing. Then I hear discipline. Discipline and consistency is a superpower. The people that I see that really excel in the professional baseball world they seem to have a maturity about them at a much younger age. And that comes with discipline and consistency. Then leadership. There's going to be someone that's navigating the ship. In my beautiful world, it would be where that person's not an egomaniac. They're not in front. They're just waiting for everyone to get out. The last thing is joy. People tend to enjoy what they're doing. They do it with a smile on their face. "Don't hire for when you think times are good. Hire for the person you wanna be around when times are bad because they're coming." An example of a great team outside of sports: The Chilean miners found roles quickly and stuck together. They had food for two days but rationed it out. They had a spiritual leader, medical guy, someone to keep them on task. Everyone had a specific role and they performed it. How you talk to your teammates is how you should talk to yourself. I had a conversation with a kid that I really admire on our team and I said, "Hey man, I never hear you talk to your teammates like you talk to yourself. Give yourself some grace." Being really hard on yourself can also be a cop out because there are ways to channel that. Sometimes people will say "I'm a perfectionist, or that's just who I am." Come on man. A perfectionist to me, they put an insane amount of work to earn the right to be. I think we use that term pretty lightly sometimes. Confidence is built through evidence. Ryan's self-talk before a keynote sounds like this, "What an opportunity to create some evidence." How to help a hitter get out of a slump: Simplify and control the controllables. When a player's in a slump, they're probably working harder than they've ever worked in their life. But I think it's almost like they're working aimlessly. So what I try to do is simplify. I had a hitter once, he's trying everything. I gave him one swing thought for two weeks. Just get the barrel to the ball. Don't worry about launch angle, don't worry about exit velo. Can you just put good wood on the ball? We're going to control what we can control. And slowly you start seeing some results and that evidence starts compounding and you get your mojo back. You gotta be intentional with your energy before high performance. As a coach, how you show up is going to be really, really important. I saw Texas A&M's coach say you have to be the opposite of what the moment requires. While everyone's excited, you need to be the calm. And then when the proverbial is hitting the fan, you have to be the one with optimism. Getting yourself in the right mental frame to handle high performance is required of a coach and a leader. Baseball teaches you to stay calm for three hours. You don't play baseball at 130 heartbeat. It's more of Can you get that thing down? And anything I do to increase it myself, I'm going against what it takes to be a successful player. People can think baseball is boring, but what you're seeing is people trying to stay calm for three hours. Does that intensity actually lead to results? It's just basic stoicism. Baseball is the ultimate controlling what you can control and releasing what you can't. I don't know if this next ball's coming to me, but what do I do now? I can control my breathing. I control my first pitch prep step. What can you control? And I would challenge you to think, does that intensity or that emotion, does it actually lead to results or not? If it's helping you be the best version of yourself, go ahead and do it. But sometimes that overstimulation, that over emotion, it's probably just putting a lot of anxiety on your people. Just regulate, stay calm and execute. What does the team need from you right now? I think a good analogy is a cornerman in boxing. My dad used to always say, Watch a cornerman in boxing because some people you gotta smack. Some people say, "Come on champ. You're the best. You're the best. You're the best." When you're walking out there, you're trying to think, what does the team need from you right now? What message? If I'm a mirror, what do they need to see? Do they need to see calm, they need to see reassurance? Are we playing a little timid and scared? And maybe you're trying to jolt them a little bit with some energy and some choice words. There's an intentionality to it. You're trying to speak some stuff into existence, even if you're making stuff up. You acknowledge it, and then you also try to point them in a direction for improvement. Life throws haymakers at you all the time. I think that's the greatest gift that we can give people through sports. Most of us experience adversity along the way. It's this unique ability to just keep moving. You reflect, you try to get better. You give yourself some grace, you move on. You just keep working through that process. As simple as it may sound to us, I don't think many people can get there. "Setbacks are temporary. I bounce back quickly." I write this down in my lineup card. You're creating evidence. It's something very simple, but I'm going to take a punch and I'll bounce back quickly. I think those are just good reminders in life. This happens. We're going to respond. Reflection Questions Mike practices Mudita by being genuinely happy for others' success without envy. Think of someone in your life who recently had a big win (promotion, new house, achievement). Were you genuinely happy for them, or did envy creep in? What would it look like to celebrate them more fully? He says "Don't hire for when you think times are good. Hire for the person you wanna be around when times are bad." Who on your current team would you want in the foxhole with you during a crisis, and what qualities make them that person? Mike asks himself before big moments: "What does the team need from me right now?" rather than just reacting emotionally. Think about a high-pressure situation coming up in your life. What will your team/family/colleagues need from you in that moment, and how can you prepare to show up that way? More Learning #217 - JJ Reddick: You've Never Arrived, You're Always Becoming #281 - George Raveling: Eight Decades of Wisdom #509 - Buzz Williams: The 9 Daily Disciplines Audio Timestamps: 02:11 Implementing Mudita in Teams 06:22 Curiosity and Spotting the Good 14:54 Recruiting and Hiring Philosophy 20:36 Building a Winning Culture 24:46 DNA of Great Teams 27:55 The Importance of Team Sacrifice 28:53 Leadership and Joy in Tough Times 29:42 Handling Adversity in Sports 31:06 The Role of Self-Talk in Performance 36:52 Staying Calm Under Pressure 42:26 Lessons from Sports for Life 46:12 The Value of Resilience and Bouncing Back 48:29 EOPC
Your mind wanders — that's normal. But letting it drift too much may come at a cost. Research shows that frequent mind-wandering can make you less happy, less focused, and more stressed than you realize. This episode begins with why an unfocused mind can quietly work against you. http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/11/101111141759.htm You talk to yourself constantly — and much of that inner dialogue is critical, harsh, and unhelpful. The good news is that voice can be changed. Dr. Rachel Goldsmith Turow explains how self-talk shapes how you think, feel, and act — and why learning to speak to yourself with more kindness can be life-changing. Rachel is a psychotherapist, research scientist, adjunct faculty member at Seattle University, and author of The Self-Talk Workout: Six Science-Backed Strategies to Dissolve Self-Criticism and Transform the Voice in Your Head. (https://amzn.to/3L6H5Sq) Rachel also mentions a free UCLA course on mindfulness from the Mindful Awareness Research Center, which you can find here: https://www.uclahealth.org/programs/marc Just because something is considered normal doesn't mean it's healthy — or even right. That's the core message from Dr. Gabor Maté, an acclaimed physician and author of The Myth of Normal (https://amzn.to/3lcqW3i). Many common practices in parenting, work, and society are accepted simply because they're familiar. Gabor challenges us to question those assumptions and rethink what “normal” really means. And finally, we've all encountered people who dominate conversations by talking endlessly about themselves. If you ever get the chance to speak, there's a surprisingly effective phrase you can use to steer the conversation — or end it altogether. https://www.uexpress.com/life/miss-manners/2014/09/02 PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! INDEED: Get a $75 sponsored job credit to get your jobs more visibility at https://Indeed.com/SOMETHING right now! QUINCE: Give and get timeless holiday staples that last this season with Quince. Go to https://Quince.com/sysk for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AG1: Head to https://DrinkAG1.com/SYSK to get a FREE Welcome Kit with an AG1 Flavor Sampler and a bottle of Vitamin D3 plus K2, when you first subscribe! NOTION: Notion brings all your notes, docs, and projects into one connected space that just works . It's seamless, flexible, powerful, and actually fun to use! Try Notion, now with Notion Agent, at: https://notion.com/something SHOPIFY: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial and start selling today at https://Shopify.com/sysk Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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