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Here's the myth we've all been sold:If your motivation fades, you didn't want the goal badly enough.But motivation is emotional. It's fueled by novelty, excitement, and fresh starts — which is why January feels so powerful. February is when reality sets in.Research shows that most goals fade by mid-February, not because people stop caring, but because motivation was doing all the heavy lifting.And for high-achieving women especially:we internalize setbacks as personal failurewe expect ourselves to push through instead of redesignand we confuse inconsistency with lack of disciplineIf this is sounding familiar, pause here — this is not a you problem. It's a strategy problem.3 STRATEGIES TO BUILD GOALS THAT DON'T RELY ON MOTIVATION1️⃣ Replace Motivation with StructureMotivation asks, “Do I feel like it today?” Structure asks, “What's the plan when I don't?”Goals that survive February are built on routines, decisions made in advance, and small, repeatable actions — not willpower.2️⃣ Stop Treating Setbacks Like a Personality FlawSo many women interpret a missed week or slow progress as proof:“I'm just not disciplined.”“I always fall off.”“This is why I shouldn't even try.”Progress isn't about perfection — it's about recovery.3️⃣ Design Goals for Real Life, Not Ideal LifeThe most sustainable goals aren't extreme — they're flexible.They assume:work gets busyenergy fluctuateslife interruptsGoals don't fail because people are weak — they fail because they were designed for perfect days instead of real ones.Workshop Invite Just for You + Coupon Code:If one of your goals this year is to feel more confident, more present, and more in control of how you show up — especially at work — I want to invite you to join us for an upcoming workshop called “The Confidence Advantage: 5 Body Language Secrets That Transform Every Conversation.”This workshop is all about understanding how confidence is communicated before you even say a word — through posture, eye contact, facial awareness, and body language — and how small, intentional shifts can dramatically change how you're perceived. Use Coupon Code VIP20 for 20% off your ticket as a thank you for being an audience member!Workshop Link: https://www.drdawnshoptalk.com/workshopsVideos Mentioned Today:New Year New You - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yvN0HAQEjwMGuilt in Your Way? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lpCGplSSPC4Power of Self-Talk - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zSTC0CnKlkkCan't Finish What You Start? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jqOK47IeltMOther Episodes - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YaBdDqTo7qY&list=PLdguFjdYMwqWXnvIeSAIhDrtPdHdsLGdehttps://www.youtube.com/@drdawnshoptalk/podcasts
In this episode, we're dissecting the constant conversations happening in your head, and how it's shaping the way you show up in meetings, at dinners and events, and everyday workplace interactions. Because here's the truth: Your inner dialogue becomes your outer presence. If your self-talk sounds like: "I'll never get the job" "I never know what to say" "I hope I don't mess this up" "Other people are naturally better at this" …then no amount of communication tips or confidence hacks will fully stick. Today, you'll learn how to identify the subtle phrases that are reinforcing a socially hesitant identity and how to replace them with thoughts that align with the confident, respected, and socially at-ease professional you're becoming. ** Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Confidence on Cue: a powerful 5-minute audio that resets your mind before any meeting, presentation, or social interaction. Book a Social Strategy Session HERE Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com LinkedIn Instagram TikTok
Do you believe you are called to prophetic ministry? Do you hear God speaking, but you're unsure of what to do with it? Or perhaps you desire to hear God more clearly and want to grow in the gifts of the Holy Spirit. Dr. Ray Self is starting a four-part series called "Prophetic Foundations," which will teach about the prophetic gift and help stir and activate this gift in your life. In this episode, you will hear the final lesson of the Prophetic Foundations series. 1 Cor 14:1 Pursue love, yet desire earnestly spiritual gifts, but especially that you may prophesy. Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donateAnswer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website:https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com.Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com.Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self atdrrayself@gmail.comEnjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free CoursesShow host bio -Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
The way you talk to yourself isn't just background noise, it's the blueprint for your entire life.In this episode, I'll unpack what self-talk actually is, how it silently shapes your energy, decisions, and outcomes, and how to shift it so your inner voice finally matches the future you're building.This is the identity-level rewire most people skip… and it changes everything.Want help rewiring your self-talk in real time? I got you here: Ready to upgrade your identity + reality? Get the SELF-TALK MENU HERE
Ready for a game-changer? In today's episode, Dr. Lisa shares eye-opening insights about how even that casual glass of wine with dinner might be holding you back from your weight loss goals. She also delivers the latest science about the impact of even light social drinking on your risk for cancer. But here's the good news, you're about to learn exactly what to do about it! Discover the latest research on alcohol's real impact on your body and brain, plus practical, science-backed strategies from experts like Anna Lembke, James Clear, and Charles Duhigg that actually work for breaking the drinking habit (no judgment, just solutions!). You'll learn about habit loops, brilliant self-binding techniques, and how a simple one-month reset like Dry January, Dry July, or Sober October can rewire your brain's reward pathways. Whether you're a weekend wine lover or a daily drinker looking to cut back, this episode will empower you with the knowledge and tools to make lasting change. Thanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
Do you believe you are called to prophetic ministry? Do you hear God speaking, but you're unsure of what to do with it? Or perhaps you desire to hear God more clearly and want to grow in the gifts of the Holy Spirit. Dr. Ray Self is starting a four-part series called "Prophetic Foundations," which will teach about the prophetic gift and help stir and activate this gift in your life. This week, you will get to hear part three of this series. 1 Cor 14:1 Pursue love, yet desire earnestly spiritual gifts, but especially that you may prophesy. Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donateAnswer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website:https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com.Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com.Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self atdrrayself@gmail.comEnjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free CoursesShow host bio -Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
Join hosts Jacqueline Smith and Ryan Greigg as they dive into the importance of positive self-talk and resilience in personal growth. Despite her successes, Jacqueline candidly shares her struggles with self-talk and how being around uplifting individuals helps combat negative spirals. Discover the value of journaling, speaking your dreams, and the skill of resilience, highlighted in inspiring insights from a recent event featuring John Maxwell and Valerie Burton. Gain practical advice on transforming negative thoughts and staying motivated. Connect with Jacqueline and Ryan on Instagram for more insights. ---------- Connect with the 15 Point Plan: 15 Point Plan: https://WinMakeGive.com/15-point-plan/ Win Make Give Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/WinMakeGive Learn more about the co-hosts: Jacqueline Smith: https://www.instagram.com/jacquelinerae_smith/ Ryan Greigg: https://www.instagram.com/ryanparkgreigg/ Book one of our co-hosts for your next event: https://WinMakeGive.com/speakers/ Part of the Win Make Give Podcast Network
How we respond when we fail reveals a lot about our hearts and how well we are believing and applying the gospel to our lives. Listen in as Jesse shares about how God unexpectedly used a recent "failure" in Jesse's life to reveal pride and shame in his heart, and to open up some powerful communication in our family on how we should respond when we fail.
Mindset isn't just motivation — it's the dialogue you have with yourself every single day.Your self-talk is the voice that decides how you show up, what you tolerate, and what you chase after.Change the words, and you change the outcome.
What if the reason weight loss feels so hard isn't lack of willpower, but lack of balance? In this episode, Lisa Oldson, MD explores the concept of yin and yang through an unexpected yoga class, and how a gentler, more sustainable approach to weight loss can reduce burnout, perfectionism, and all-or-nothing thinking. Learn how finding your “edge” (without pain or punishment) can reduce stress and help you create lasting weight loss and better health. You'll learn:Why most women approach weight loss from an overly yang mindset; pushing harder, doing more, and relying on discipline aloneWhat yin and yang really mean for health and sustainable weight loss (and why balance matters)How stress, nervous system overload, and constant effort can quietly stall weight lossWhy adding yin practices (rest, recovery, reflection, and embracing gentle progress) can actually improve resultsHow balancing effort with recovery makes weight loss feel easier, more sustainable, and less exhaustingThanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
Do you believe you are called to prophetic ministry? Do you hear God speaking, but you're unsure of what to do with it? Or perhaps you desire to hear God more clearly and want to grow in the gifts of the Holy Spirit. Dr. Ray Self is starting a four-part series called "Prophetic Foundations," which will teach about the prophetic gift and help stir and activate this gift in your life. 1 Cor 14:1 Pursue love, yet desire earnestly spiritual gifts, but especially that you may prophesy. Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donateAnswer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website:https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com.Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com.Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self atdrrayself@gmail.comEnjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free CoursesShow host bio -Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
What changes when anxiety shows up—and you stop trying to outrun it, and start learning how to work with it?Dan Harris—journalist, bestselling author, and host of 10% Happier—returns to Finding Mastery to explore practical ways to work with anxiety. Dan unpacks how meditation, compassionate self-talk, and exposure built his capacity after a panic attack on live TV—and why curiosity is a powerful antidote to fear.Dan and Dr. Mike go beyond optimization into the human side: rebuilding from collapse, confronting panic (on planes, elevators, and big stages), and the daily reps that make composure more accessible. This is a grounded look at attention, identity, and training your inner life—without hacks or magical thinking.What you'll learnHow to use meditation as “bicep curls for the brain”Why self-talk (especially in third person) regulates panic in real timeThe key to working at your edge without traumatizing yourselfHow to turn exposure into confidence and capacityWhy curiosity beats cynicism for mental performanceAt its heart, this episode is a reminder: mastery isn't a shortcut; it's alignment between awareness, training, and what matters most._____________________________________________________________Links & ResourcesSubscribe to our Youtube Channel for more conversations at the intersection of high performance, leadership, and wellbeing: https://www.youtube.com/c/FindingMasteryGet exclusive discounts and support our amazing sponsors! Go to: https://findingmastery.com/sponsors/Subscribe to the Finding Mastery newsletter for weekly high performance insights: https://www.findingmastery.com/newsletter Download Dr. Mike's Morning Mindset Routine: findingmastery.com/morningmindset Follow on YouTube, Instagram, LinkedIn, and XDan Harris on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TenPercentHappierSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Will Murray is a pro trail runner living in Bellingham, WA. He was one of the breakout stars of the 2025 season, finishing 2nd at the Black Canyon 100k and winning the Javelina Jundred in a new course record time. Entering the 2026 season in partnership with Brooks, Will is poised to continue the momentum into a new year and towards the Western States 100 - his main goal for the season. This is his first time on the podcast. Chapters: 04:15 – Introduction and Personal Insights 06:59 – Recognition as #8 Ultra Runner of the Year 09:40 – Athletic Roots and Trail Running Discovery 12:26 – Mathematical Mindset in Running 14:59 – Cultivating Clarity in High-Pressure Situations 20:52 – Psychological Strength and Self-Talk 23:25 – Relationship with Social Media 26:01 – Injury Just Before Western States 33:08 – Training Evolution and Strategies 36:51 – Mindset and Preparation for Javelina 39:37 – Race Dynamics and Internal Dialogue 42:48 – Celebrating Success and Future Aspirations 45:58 – Joining Brooks and Team Dynamics 50:44 – Future Goals and Upcoming Races Follow Will on Strava REGISTER FOR THE BIG ALTA REGISTER FOR GORGE WATERFALLS Sponsors: Grab a trail running pack from Osprey Use code FREETRAIL25 for 25% off your first order of NEVERSECOND nutrition at never2.com Go to ketone.com/freetrail30 for 30% off a subscription of Ketone IQ Freetrail Links: Website | Freetrail Pro | Patreon | Instagram | YouTube | Freetrail Experts Dylan Links: Instagram | Twitter | LinkedIn | Strava
What if the real upgrade this year isn't a new purchase, but a new pattern of thinking? We open the door to a raw, relatable conversation about why we obsess over stuff, set punishing deadlines, and then watch our motivation fade while anxiety grows. From a scratched-CD glitch to a stack of old vinyl and a French bulldog cameo, the setup is light—but the message lands heavy: we've been valuing things over thoughts, and it's costing us peace, progress, and purpose.I get personal about the trophies I once chased: the truck I worshiped that now rusts under a pine, the Challenger I babied that sits unregistered in the snow, the Harley that became garage decor. Each win felt like a finish line before it turned into clutter. The throughline wasn't the gear; it was the inner voice I let run wild with comparison, doubt, and deadlines. We pull apart how rumination spins up from tiny sparks—a “K” text, a lagging reply—and becomes a story that strains relationships and stalls action, all without a single new fact.A vivid dream flips the script. In it, a refinance wipes out debt and the body responds first—deep breath, shoulders light, real relief. Waking up doesn't erase the bills, but it rewires the target: stop giving power to the problem and start giving power to possibility. That shift fuels a practical framework you can use today: label intrusive thoughts as mental events, separate you from you with a firm “not today,” move your body to break the loop and then take one step toward your goal, and control only what you can—especially not other people's opinions.We close with a challenge for 2026: keep the goals, ditch the self-imposed choke points, and talk to yourself like someone whose future matters. Your expectations are your responsibility, and your mindset is the leverage that makes hard things possible. If you're ready to feel lighter without buying a thing, press play, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a quick review so more people can find the show. What thought are you upgrading today?If you found value in today's show please return the favor and leave a positive review and share it with someone important to you! https://www.sharethestrugglepodcast.com/reviews/new/Find all you need to know about the show https://www.sharethestrugglepodcast.com/Official Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100077724159859Join the 2% of Americans that Buy American and support American Together we can bring back American Manufacturing https://www.loudproudamerican.shop/Loud Proud American Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LoudproudamericanLoud Proud American Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loud_proud_american/Loud Proud American TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@loud_proud_americanLoud Proud American YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmYQtOt6KVURuySWYQ2GWtwThank you for Supporting My American Dream!
A quick note before we beginThis year, I'm doing something I've wanted to do for a long time.I want to start this year by sharing something a little different.After four years of Live Well Be Well, I'm introducing regular solo episodes. It's taken me a long time to get here. Not because I didn't have things to say, but because it's taken a lot of belief in myself to sit here and share my own thoughts, reflections, and opinions, alongside the voices of the people I speak to on the show.These episodes aren't about giving answers or telling you what to do. They're about making sense of the patterns that keep showing up — in science, in health, and in ourselves.And I feel incredibly privileged to say that. I speak to some of the most respected, iconic people in this field a few times a week, and over the years, I've accumulated such a breadth of knowledge through those conversations. That breadth really matters when it comes to health, because nothing exists in isolation.These solo episodes are a way for me to distill all of that. To share what's staying with me, what's shaping the way I think, and what's been on my mind each month.I also want this to feel like a conversation. Use the comments. Ask me questions. Tell me what you want to hear more about. These episodes, and this space, are where I want to respond.Love, Sarah Ann
We talk to ourselves all day, every day – sometimes even out loud! And a lot of those messages are self-condemning. On this edition of Equipped, learn about a model for better self-talk – the Psalms! Jon Gauger will help us begin to form a biblical mindset by rooting our self-talk in the words of David. Hope you can join us for the next Equipped. Featured resource:Powerful Self-Talk from the Psalms by Jon Gauger January thank you gift:Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become Like Him. Do as He Did. by John Mark Comer Equipped with Chris Brooks is made possible through your support. To donate now, click here.
Dr. Mike Ronsisvalle joins Something For Everybody this week. Dr. Mike is a licensed clinical psychologist, distinguished author, dynamic speaker, and visionary founder and owner of LiveWell Behavioral Health. In this conversation, Dr. Mike discusses the current state of mental health, highlighting the alarming rise in mental health issues, particularly among young people. We explored the impact of social media, the importance of physical activity, and the distinction between clinical depression and life challenges. Dr. Ronsisvalle emphasizes the need for a strong value system and emotional awareness, especially among men, and addresses the effects of stress in modern life. He also discusses the role of AI in mental health and introduces the LiveWell Coaching platform as a proactive approach to mental wellness. -
Go to www.LearningLeader.com to learn more... This is brought to you by Insight Global. If you need to hire one person, hire a team of people, or transform your business through Talent or Technical Services, Insight Global's team of 30,000 people around the world has the hustle and grit to deliver. www.InsightGlobal.com/LearningLeader My Guest: Mike Deegan just led Denison University Baseball to their first College World Series appearance in program history. He's been named Coach of the Year in back-to-back years and is the all-time winningest coach in school history. In this conversation, Mike shares how he uses Mudita to build culture, how to help people get out of slumps, and why discipline and consistency are superpowers. Key Learnings (in Mike's words) Mudita is a vicarious joy. Can I be happy for another's success as if it's my own? To me, that is like the secret sauce of life. Obviously, in a sports team, not everyone can be the star. One of the biggest misconceptions is that the star rotates. Yeah, you need a superstar to compete at the highest levels, but to win, you're going to need pinch runners, you're going to need the guy laying a big block. It's going to take everyone. It's really celebrating everyone's contribution. In recruiting, I ask parents: Can you be happy for another kid's success as if it's your own? If your neighbor gets a new car, are you happy for them? Or do you say, "Oh, I wish. I bet his parents bought that for him." There are just different ways to show up for people, where you can just have joy. By pouring yourself into others, especially in sports, I think it frees you up to perform your best. Envy is a natural feeling. I don't want anyone to feel that envy from me. I think what we're saying is that envy is a natural feeling. Wanting to do great yourself, those are very natural, and I want people to live in that space. But can we just stop it and be a little bit more intentional and just celebrate what other people are doing well? Spot the good first. As a consultant, there are two ways you can do things. One is to find the negative, and that's really easy to do. But I try to go and spot the good first. There's plenty of time to nitpick later on. Find some opportunities to help people grow. People love to talk about themselves. My wife is very quiet, a great listener, and people love her. She has a million best friends, and no one knows it because she doesn't talk a whole lot. She just listens. If you can just listen and get people to talk about what they're passionate about, it's a life secret. You can tell when someone's really passionate about what they're doing, and you can tell when they're on the fence because they speed up when they talk, they get a little excited. Curiosity is a great way to show love. If you approach it from envy, we don't unpack the cool story. But if you lead with curiosity and not envy, it unpacks everything. I do think it takes a level of self-awareness and comfort in your own skin. How to build self-awareness: Read, write, and get around wise people. If you read a decent amount, if you write (and that was my forcing function, to actually write and put thought to paper), and then get around wise people and just have conversations, I think you'll start building out the awareness of who you are and what you value. A systems thinker builds frameworks that outlast individuals. It's someone who can build out frameworks that are built to put people and the organization in the best spot to win and be successful. It's a framework that outlasts individuals. Coaches may leave or players may leave, but if you have a system built out that it can sustain losing certain individuals, because things are cranking and you can repeat the work. You can do iterations and quickly test if you're getting closer or further from your goals. I almost try to talk people out of coming here. The most underrated thing in our recruiting is when they sit with me, I almost try to talk people out of coming here. I'll say, "Hey, what's the main driver?" If they say playing time, I'm like, "Hey, that's great. That's an awesome goal, but I wouldn't come here for that. We're going to play our best players. But that's not why you come to Denison. You come to be a part of something bigger than yourself, and there are all these other places where you're going to have a much better shot at that." I'm always listening in on what they value and trying to challenge it. Almost get people to self-select out. The better your culture is, you can take chances on people. It's like Randy Moss and the New England Patriots. Tom Brady was an alpha, and you could bring people in and take a risk and see if they can conform to the culture a little bit. When you have things in place, our locker room was phenomenal. People would say, "Hey, I don't know, this kid has some red flags." I'm like, "Red flags, like he's a serial killer? Or like red flag,s like he's super competitive?" The locker room would take care of a lot of that. If there's something built out that you feel pretty strongly about, I think you can take in some of these high-risk, high-reward people because they can't damage the culture like you would think they can. Early on in that tenure, I was very, very careful with this. But now we can take some chances on people if the DNA is right. The lack of seriousness pushed people out. When I took over, I'm the opposite of the guy I played for. And every time someone quit, I would just say thank you. And I meant that too because we were going in a certain direction. There was talent. It needed more seriousness. We had enough talent that it was going to allow us to compete at a conference level. I think it's amazing when you can just put boundaries and guardrails and point people in the right direction. We just provided a little structure, a little discipline. The DNA of great teams: Roles, sacrifice, discipline, leadership, joy. Everyone has a role and to beat objective expectations. When good meets good, you have got to understand that every role is essential to the cause. Status goes away. Second, we're in this together. There's no prima donna. I think that's what happens with championship teams. For us to compete on a national level, our guys do miss out on a lot. Grades may suffer. There are trade-offs with this thing. Then I hear discipline. Discipline and consistency is a superpower. The people that I see that really excel in the professional baseball world they seem to have a maturity about them at a much younger age. And that comes with discipline and consistency. Then leadership. There's going to be someone that's navigating the ship. In my beautiful world, it would be where that person's not an egomaniac. They're not in front. They're just waiting for everyone to get out. The last thing is joy. People tend to enjoy what they're doing. They do it with a smile on their face. "Don't hire for when you think times are good. Hire for the person you wanna be around when times are bad because they're coming." An example of a great team outside of sports: The Chilean miners found roles quickly and stuck together. They had food for two days but rationed it out. They had a spiritual leader, medical guy, someone to keep them on task. Everyone had a specific role and they performed it. How you talk to your teammates is how you should talk to yourself. I had a conversation with a kid that I really admire on our team and I said, "Hey man, I never hear you talk to your teammates like you talk to yourself. Give yourself some grace." Being really hard on yourself can also be a cop out because there are ways to channel that. Sometimes people will say "I'm a perfectionist, or that's just who I am." Come on man. A perfectionist to me, they put an insane amount of work to earn the right to be. I think we use that term pretty lightly sometimes. Confidence is built through evidence. Ryan's self-talk before a keynote sounds like this, "What an opportunity to create some evidence." How to help a hitter get out of a slump: Simplify and control the controllables. When a player's in a slump, they're probably working harder than they've ever worked in their life. But I think it's almost like they're working aimlessly. So what I try to do is simplify. I had a hitter once, he's trying everything. I gave him one swing thought for two weeks. Just get the barrel to the ball. Don't worry about launch angle, don't worry about exit velo. Can you just put good wood on the ball? We're going to control what we can control. And slowly you start seeing some results and that evidence starts compounding and you get your mojo back. You gotta be intentional with your energy before high performance. As a coach, how you show up is going to be really, really important. I saw Texas A&M's coach say you have to be the opposite of what the moment requires. While everyone's excited, you need to be the calm. And then when the proverbial is hitting the fan, you have to be the one with optimism. Getting yourself in the right mental frame to handle high performance is required of a coach and a leader. Baseball teaches you to stay calm for three hours. You don't play baseball at 130 heartbeat. It's more of Can you get that thing down? And anything I do to increase it myself, I'm going against what it takes to be a successful player. People can think baseball is boring, but what you're seeing is people trying to stay calm for three hours. Does that intensity actually lead to results? It's just basic stoicism. Baseball is the ultimate controlling what you can control and releasing what you can't. I don't know if this next ball's coming to me, but what do I do now? I can control my breathing. I control my first pitch prep step. What can you control? And I would challenge you to think, does that intensity or that emotion, does it actually lead to results or not? If it's helping you be the best version of yourself, go ahead and do it. But sometimes that overstimulation, that over emotion, it's probably just putting a lot of anxiety on your people. Just regulate, stay calm and execute. What does the team need from you right now? I think a good analogy is a cornerman in boxing. My dad used to always say, Watch a cornerman in boxing because some people you gotta smack. Some people say, "Come on champ. You're the best. You're the best. You're the best." When you're walking out there, you're trying to think, what does the team need from you right now? What message? If I'm a mirror, what do they need to see? Do they need to see calm, they need to see reassurance? Are we playing a little timid and scared? And maybe you're trying to jolt them a little bit with some energy and some choice words. There's an intentionality to it. You're trying to speak some stuff into existence, even if you're making stuff up. You acknowledge it, and then you also try to point them in a direction for improvement. Life throws haymakers at you all the time. I think that's the greatest gift that we can give people through sports. Most of us experience adversity along the way. It's this unique ability to just keep moving. You reflect, you try to get better. You give yourself some grace, you move on. You just keep working through that process. As simple as it may sound to us, I don't think many people can get there. "Setbacks are temporary. I bounce back quickly." I write this down in my lineup card. You're creating evidence. It's something very simple, but I'm going to take a punch and I'll bounce back quickly. I think those are just good reminders in life. This happens. We're going to respond. Reflection Questions Mike practices Mudita by being genuinely happy for others' success without envy. Think of someone in your life who recently had a big win (promotion, new house, achievement). Were you genuinely happy for them, or did envy creep in? What would it look like to celebrate them more fully? He says "Don't hire for when you think times are good. Hire for the person you wanna be around when times are bad." Who on your current team would you want in the foxhole with you during a crisis, and what qualities make them that person? Mike asks himself before big moments: "What does the team need from me right now?" rather than just reacting emotionally. Think about a high-pressure situation coming up in your life. What will your team/family/colleagues need from you in that moment, and how can you prepare to show up that way? More Learning #217 - JJ Reddick: You've Never Arrived, You're Always Becoming #281 - George Raveling: Eight Decades of Wisdom #509 - Buzz Williams: The 9 Daily Disciplines Audio Timestamps: 02:11 Implementing Mudita in Teams 06:22 Curiosity and Spotting the Good 14:54 Recruiting and Hiring Philosophy 20:36 Building a Winning Culture 24:46 DNA of Great Teams 27:55 The Importance of Team Sacrifice 28:53 Leadership and Joy in Tough Times 29:42 Handling Adversity in Sports 31:06 The Role of Self-Talk in Performance 36:52 Staying Calm Under Pressure 42:26 Lessons from Sports for Life 46:12 The Value of Resilience and Bouncing Back 48:29 EOPC
In this episode, I challenge one of the most common personal development habits—affirmations—and introduce a far more powerful alternative. If confidence feels inconsistent… if discipline fades when motivation disappears… and if you know what to do but still struggle to execute, this conversation is for you. We explore why asking better questions—specifically yes-or-no "Will you?" questions—creates faster, more sustainable behavior change than statements, goals, or affirmations ever could. Drawing on decades of behavioral research, identity psychology, and real-world golf and life examples, I break down how questions engage your subconscious, eliminate excuses, and leverage cognitive dissonance to pull you into action—especially when you don't feel like it. In this episode, you'll learn: Why affirmations often fail to create lasting behavior change How asking "Will you?" activates confidence and ownership The psychology behind cognitive dissonance—and how to use it Why yes/no questions eliminate excuses and justifications How identity-based questions reinforce discipline under pressure The subtle but critical difference between can I and will I How to use questions to execute when motivation is gone This is a tactical yet deeply transformational episode designed to help you strengthen discipline, upgrade your self-talk, and accelerate becoming the version of yourself required to achieve your biggest goals—on the course and in life. Get your pencils ready and start listening. P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my "Play Your Best Round" free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course. Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist Key Takeaways: Confidence is built through your relationship with yourself—especially your self-talk. Questions engage your brain more powerfully than statements or affirmations. "Will you?" implies ownership, commitment, and action—not possibility. Yes/no questions remove the mental loopholes that fuel excuses. Cognitive dissonance pushes behavior to align with identity. Discipline is strengthened when actions answer questions—not feelings. Asking better questions accelerates becoming who you want to be. Key Quotes: "Confidence is intoxicating—and one of its strongest predictors is how you talk to yourself." "Questions engage you; statements let you hide." "When you ask 'Will you?' there's no room for excuses—only action." "Cognitive dissonance is the discomfort that pulls you toward who you want to become." "Discipline is doing what needs to be done when you don't feel like it." "Your actions don't follow motivation—they follow identity." "The answer to who you'll become lies in the question 'Will you?'" Time Stamps: 00:00: The Power of Belief and Self-Talk 02:58: Welcome Back: The Journey of Self-Improvement 04:34: Upgrading Self-Talk: The Importance of Questions 14:17: Cognitive Dissonance: Bridging the Gap to Your Best Self 19:27: Taking Action: The Path to Becoming Your Best Self
Whether you realize it or not, you have a conversation with yourself every day. And many struggle with negative thoughts about themselves and others. Author and radio host Jon Gauger takes us to the Psalms to offer uplifting ways to speak truth to your own heart. If you long for a better way to speak to your own soul, don't miss the power of biblical self-talk on Chris Fabry Live. Featured resource:Powerful Self-Talk from the Psalms: 30 Days to a Biblical Mindset by Jon Gauger January thank you gift:How Should Christians Think About Israel? by Michael Rydelnik Chris Fabry Live is listener-supported. To support the program, click here.Become a Back Fence Partner: https://moodyradio.org/donateto/chrisfabrylive/partnersSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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The first highly effective oral GLP-1 weight loss medication is here. In this episode, Lisa Oldson, MD breaks down the FDA-approved PILL version of semaglutide (oral Wegovy), how GLP-1 receptor agonists work for weight loss, expected results, side effects, cost, and who qualifies for these medications. She also discusses why weight loss medication is not “cheating,” how GLP-1 oral meds compare to injectables, and the World Health Organization's new recommendations supporting long-term use of GLP-1 medications for excess weight. If you're curious about GLP-1 weight loss pills, obesity treatment, and evidence-based approaches to long-term health, this episode is for you.You'll learn:What's new about ORAL (pill form) WegovyWhy weight loss medication is not cheatingHow the brain regulates weightHow GLP-1 medications workMedication + lifestyle: not either / orThanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
Do you believe you are called to prophetic ministry? Do you hear God speaking, but you're unsure of what to do with it? Or perhaps you desire to hear God more clearly and want to grow in the gifts of the Holy Spirit. Dr. Ray Self is starting a four-part series called "Prophetic Foundations," which will teach about the prophetic gift and help stir and activate this gift in your life. 1 Cor 14:1 Pursue love, yet desire earnestly spiritual gifts, but especially that you may prophesy. Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donateAnswer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website:https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com.Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com.Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self atdrrayself@gmail.comEnjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free CoursesShow host bio -Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
Today, on Karl and Crew, we continued our weekly theme of “Say No to Self-Help and Yes to God’s Power” with discussions about shame and allowing God to remove it. We then have Jon Gauger join us to discuss the importance of guiding our inner thoughts with scripture. Jon is a 30-plus-year veteran of Moody Radio and hosts several nationally syndicated programs. He is also an award-winning narrator of more than 50 audiobooks. Jon also has a weekly blog called Thursday Thought. Then Robby Angle joined us to discuss how shame is crippling to our identity and relationship with God, and how, when we know our identity, shame has no power over us. Robby is the President and CEO of Trueface, a ministry dedicated to teaching complex biblical principles of truth and grace and moving people from pleasing God to trusting God with their new identity. He is also the author of several books, including “Embark". You can hear the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following time stamps: Ally Thinks It's Funny [00:50] Robby Angle Interview [11:46] Jon Gauger Interview [42:28 ] Karl and Crew airs live weekday mornings from 5-9 a.m. Central Time. Click this link for ways to listen in your area! https://www.moodyradio.org/ways-to-listen/Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of Acta Non Verba, host Marcus Aurelius Anderson sits down with Rhett Power, CEO and co-founder of Accountability, Inc., to discuss his groundbreaking new book "Head of Metals: How Leaders Silence Negative Self-Talk and Transform How They Lead." In this raw and powerful conversation, Rhett reveals why self-talk is the most ignored driver of leadership performance and shares practical strategies for managing the mental noise that kills focus, concentration, and culture. From the 3 C's of the Maverick Method to the "plutonium problem" of toxic narratives, this episode delivers actionable insights for leaders ready to reclaim control over their inner voice and build championship teams. Episode Highlights: [2:10] The Seven-Year Journey to Head of Metals - Rhett shares the intensive process of writing Head of Metals with co-authors Ryan Gottfredson and Dr. Susie Burkin, including seven rewrites over seven years. He reveals how the book unexpectedly helped a surgeon's teenage sons prepare for exams, proving that self-talk mastery transcends age and profession. [14:57] The Three C's: Catch, Challenge, Change - Rhett breaks down the simple but powerful framework for managing self-talk: Catch it (notice harmful narratives), Challenge it (question if it's true, useful, or even yours), and Change it (replace destructive narratives with grounded thinking). He provides a practical exercise: write down your negative narratives and track them with check marks to identify patterns. [16:38] The Plutonium Problem: When Leader Self-Talk Infects Teams - Discover why negative self-talk is like plutonium—toxic, powerful, and invisible. Rhett explains how leaders' mental narratives leak into their teams, creating radioactive thinking that destroys engagement, retention, and performance. He shares a powerful story of a CEO who discovered his assistant triggered unresolved childhood issues with his mother. [26:15] AI as a Leadership Mirror - Rhett discusses his involvement in developing an AI coaching platform that provides real-time data to help coaches and leaders identify blind spots. He compares it to film study in sports—giving leaders instant replay of their performance to make fewer unforced errors and exploit opportunities for growth. Rhett Power is the CEO and co-founder of Accountability, Inc., where he helps leaders break limits, make bold decisions, and drive growth. Recognized as a global guru of top management thinkers and a Marshall Goldsmith 100 Coach, Rhett is the bestselling author of "The Entrepreneur's Book of Actions" and the newly released "Head of Metals." He co-hosts "Bestseller Live" on Apple TV and is a regular contributor to Forbes, Inc., and CNBC. With decades of experience coaching executives and entrepreneurs worldwide, Rhett brings practical, science-backed strategies to help leaders silence negative self-talk and transform organizational culture. Learn more about the gift of Adversity and my mission to help my fellow humans create a better world by heading to www.marcusaureliusanderson.com. There you can take action by joining my ANV inner circle to get exclusive content and information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Today, on Karl and Crew, we continued our weekly theme of “Say No to Self-Help and Yes to God’s Power” with discussions about shame and allowing God to remove it. We then have Jon Gauger join us to discuss the importance of guiding our inner thoughts with scripture. Jon is a 30-plus-year veteran of Moody Radio and hosts several nationally syndicated programs. He is also an award-winning narrator of more than 50 audiobooks. Jon also has a weekly blog called Thursday Thought. Then Robby Angle joined us to discuss how shame is crippling to our identity and relationship with God, and how, when we know our identity, shame has no power over us. Robby is the President and CEO of Trueface, a ministry dedicated to teaching complex biblical principles of truth and grace and moving people from pleasing God to trusting God with their new identity. He is also the author of several books, including “Embark". You can hear the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following time stamps: Ally Thinks It's Funny [00:50] Robby Angle Interview [11:46] Jon Gauger Interview [42:28 ] Karl and Crew airs live weekday mornings from 5-9 a.m. Central Time. Click this link for ways to listen in your area! https://www.moodyradio.org/ways-to-listen/Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Send Rachel a text message.You have built your Foundation of Self; now it's time to start living it.In this episode of Self Talk, we talk about Genuine Curiosity—the foundational tool at the heart of the Foundation of Self framework. We'll revisit the three core pillars of the work—non-judgment, awareness, and gentleness—and explain why genuine curiosity is the guide you'll return to time and again as you continue to develop your Self.Shift from self-judgment to self-understanding, using curiosity to explore thoughts, emotions, patterns, and relationships with compassion and clarity. We'll also explore how genuine curiosity transforms our interactions with others, reduces ego-driven narratives, and helps us remember our deeper connection to one another and to Source itself.Be more curious than defensive.—Brené BrownEPISODE TIMELINEOpening Quote & Welcome (0:00–0:02)Brené Brown's reminder to “be more curious than defensive” sets the tone as Rachel introduces this season's focus: living the foundation of self.Foundation of Self & Genuine Curiosity (0:02–0:04)A brief recap of last season's foundation work and an introduction to genuine curiosity as the base layer for relating to self, others, and reality without judgment.The Three Pillars Recap (0:04–0:07)Non-judgment, awareness, and gentleness are revisited as the core pillars that allow genuine curiosity to function without collapsing into criticism or control.What Genuine Curiosity Sounds Like (0:07–0:12)Rachel models how genuine curiosity sounds in inner dialogue and explains how it differs from judgment, emphasizing suspension of shaming “othering.”Curiosity in Inner Work – Examples (0:12–0:18)Through real-life examples (repeating relationship patterns, “I hate everybody,” and not progressing fast enough), she shows how to investigate the origins of thoughts and behaviors as an objective observer.Curiosity in Relationships (0:18–0:24)Genuine curiosity is applied to interactions with others, helping us not take things personally, widen our lens, and create space for compassion and connection.Deeper Truth & Sacred Curiosity (0:24–0:28)Rachel frames us as ambassadors of source—unique expressions of consciousness—and describes curiosity as a sacred way that awareness comes to know itself.Daily Practice Invitation (0:28–0:32)Listeners are invited to notice at least one moment each day when they choose curiosity over judgment and to meet their discoveries with gentleness.Closing & Offerings (0:32–0:36)Rachel shares opportunities to go deeper via the Write Your Self Open class and one-on-one work.Write Your Self Open is a revolution in self-development that blends guided meditation, journaling, and supportive group discussion led by holistic psychotherapist Rachel Astarte.It's all the benefits of personal transformation + community-building without the constraints of talk therapy.Join anytime. No previous meditation or writing experience necessary.http://writeyourselfopen.com Got a question about your self? Send it to me at rachel@selftalkpodcast.com and it may be featured on a future episode. Support the show• Subscribe here, at youtube.com/@selftalkpodcast, or wherever you get podcasts. •Music:"Ave Marimba"Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0
Welcome to Raising Confident Girls. In this episode, Melissa Jones dives into a challenge many girls face—but don't always talk about out loud: self-criticism. She explores how negative self-talk can quietly shape a girl's confidence and emotional world, and why it so often comes from pressure rather than truth.Melissa offers 5 practical, compassionate phrases parents can use to help their daughters soften their inner critic and build resilience through kinder self-talk. She reminds parents that perfection isn't the goal—connection is. By recognizing pressure, naming the inner critic, and meeting girls where they are emotionally, parents can support their daughters in developing a healthier, more supportive relationship with themselves.In this episode, we discuss:How self-criticism shows up quietly in girls' everyday livesWhy pressure—not truth—often fuels negative self-talkThe power of naming the inner critic to reduce its holdSimple, supportive phrases parents can use in hard momentsHow embracing imperfection builds emotional resilienceWhy meeting your daughter where she is matters more than fixing feelingsJoin Melissa for this thoughtful and reassuring conversation that will help you support your daughter's confidence from the inside out—by fostering kind self-talk, emotional awareness, and a deeper sense of self-acceptance.Download the Quick Tips PDF of today's episode for future reference.If you know a parent who could benefit from this conversation, share this episode with them! Let's work together to raise the next generation of confident girls.Melissa's Links:• Website • Instagram • Facebook• TikTok• LinkedIn
Why is sticking with exercise so hard, even when we know it's good for us? In this episode, Lisa Oldson MD explains why using exercise primarily for weight loss often backfires, and how reframing it as a tool for physical and mental health, stress relief, and emotional resilience makes consistency much easier. Learn how small, realistic workouts can improve mood, reduce anxiety, and help you build a sustainable exercise habit, without punishing your body. If you're tired of starting and stopping exercise, or feeling like you're failing because weight loss isn't happening, this episode offers a more compassionate, science-backed way forward.Thanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
Your mind wanders — that's normal. But letting it drift too much may come at a cost. Research shows that frequent mind-wandering can make you less happy, less focused, and more stressed than you realize. This episode begins with why an unfocused mind can quietly work against you. http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/11/101111141759.htm You talk to yourself constantly — and much of that inner dialogue is critical, harsh, and unhelpful. The good news is that voice can be changed. Dr. Rachel Goldsmith Turow explains how self-talk shapes how you think, feel, and act — and why learning to speak to yourself with more kindness can be life-changing. Rachel is a psychotherapist, research scientist, adjunct faculty member at Seattle University, and author of The Self-Talk Workout: Six Science-Backed Strategies to Dissolve Self-Criticism and Transform the Voice in Your Head. (https://amzn.to/3L6H5Sq) Rachel also mentions a free UCLA course on mindfulness from the Mindful Awareness Research Center, which you can find here: https://www.uclahealth.org/programs/marc Just because something is considered normal doesn't mean it's healthy — or even right. That's the core message from Dr. Gabor Maté, an acclaimed physician and author of The Myth of Normal (https://amzn.to/3lcqW3i). Many common practices in parenting, work, and society are accepted simply because they're familiar. Gabor challenges us to question those assumptions and rethink what “normal” really means. And finally, we've all encountered people who dominate conversations by talking endlessly about themselves. If you ever get the chance to speak, there's a surprisingly effective phrase you can use to steer the conversation — or end it altogether. https://www.uexpress.com/life/miss-manners/2014/09/02 PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! INDEED: Get a $75 sponsored job credit to get your jobs more visibility at https://Indeed.com/SOMETHING right now! QUINCE: Give and get timeless holiday staples that last this season with Quince. Go to https://Quince.com/sysk for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AG1: Head to https://DrinkAG1.com/SYSK to get a FREE Welcome Kit with an AG1 Flavor Sampler and a bottle of Vitamin D3 plus K2, when you first subscribe! NOTION: Notion brings all your notes, docs, and projects into one connected space that just works . It's seamless, flexible, powerful, and actually fun to use! Try Notion, now with Notion Agent, at: https://notion.com/something SHOPIFY: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial and start selling today at https://Shopify.com/sysk Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Have you ever wanted to share or take a chance on your dreams... only to hear internal thoughts pop up like, "You're not good enough," "You're being too much," "You're going to make others feel bad," "There's already so many people doing this..." or any other flavor? If so, this episode is for you.I share a simple 5-step process I use to improve limiting self-talk... and turn pesky limiting beliefs or worries into thoughts that empower you to take action on your dreams, believe you're worthy, share your unique contribution with the world, and make the difference you're here to make.
In this show, Dr. Ray discusses three critical elements from God that are essential for your healing. Missing any one of these three keys could prevent you from being healed or cause you to lose your healing. This episode is an essential show that addresses many questions you may have about the healing process. Healing can be yours! John 1:14 And the Word became flesh, and dwelt among us, and we saw His glory, glory as of the only begotten from the Father, full of grace and truth. Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website: https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
What if weight loss didn't depend on motivation, but rather on who you believe you are? In this episode, Lisa Oldson, MD explores how identity and self-labels shape habits, health behaviors, and long-term weight loss. Drawing on research from James Clear, Dr. Carol Dweck, Dr. Hazel Markus, and other experts, you'll learn how to choose a more helpful identity for the new year, and take small, sustainable actions to transform your health. Thanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
Your self-talk is the only voice you hear 24/7 — and most days, it's not that kind. For many golfers and entrepreneurs, that inner dialogue quietly runs the show: it talks you out of what you know you should be doing, keeps you glued to comfort, and convinces you you're not ready, not worthy, or not capable of the next level. In this episode of The Scratch Golfer's Mindset Podcast, I sit down with mindset coach Trevor Tellin to unpack how your inner voice shapes your identity, your confidence, and your results — on the golf course and in business. In this episode, you'll learn: Spot the invisible ways your self-talk sabotages your golf game and business. Use a simple "reward scale" to win more debates between the couch and the range. Personify your inner voices so you can work with them instead of being ruled by them. Create space between you and your thoughts so they feel less personal and more workable. Use Interloop to capture real self-talk data from your rounds and turn it into growth. Understand fear of success, over-identifying with "the grind," and how they keep you stuck. Build mental toughness and confidence through repetition, hard things, and self-compassion. Get your pencils ready and start listening. P.P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. More About Trevor Trevor Tellin is a high-performance mindset coach who helps golfers master the mental side of the game so they can perform with confidence, composure, and clarity under pressure. Founder of Mindset Coach Trev, he works with competitive amateurs, college players, and professionals to help them overcome fear, perfectionism, and self-doubt—on and off the course. With a master's degree in psychology and years of experience coaching athletes, leaders, and business professionals, Trevor combines sport psychology, neuroscience, and practical mindset tools to help clients unlock their full potential and play—and live—with greater freedom and fulfillment. Connect with Trevor. Connect on Instagram (mindsetcoachtrev). Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my "Play Your Best Round" free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course. Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist Key Takeaways: Awareness is everything — most self-talk patterns run on autopilot until you finally slow down enough to hear them. Every choice is an exchange; comfort feels good now, but it often carries the hidden cost of slowing or blocking your long-term growth. Scoring your choices helps you override resistance by comparing the real value of short-term comfort vs. long-term reward. Personifying your inner voices creates separation, making it easier to recognize which ones help you and which ones hijack you. Tools like Interloop reveal patterns you'd never notice on your own, giving you tangible data to change your on-course self-talk. Fear of success often drives sabotage — when you get close to the next level, the uncertainty of "what comes with it" pulls you back. Mental toughness and confidence come from repetition, doing hard things, and proving to yourself (again and again) that you can handle discomfort. Key Quotes: "We're so familiar with our inner voice that we don't realize how often it runs the show." "We rationalize sabotage because the excuses sound convincing coming from ourselves." "Every decision is an exchange — you can't get what you want without giving up something." "When you personify a limiting voice, it becomes easier to question and redirect it." "Turning a feeling into a character creates distance, and distance creates choice." "Most people envy the result but not the inputs required to reach it." "Mental toughness is being present in discomfort and choosing to lean in anyway." Time Stamps: 00:00: The Power of Inner Dialogue 02:45: Understanding Self-Sabotage 05:33: Personifying Inner Voices 08:14: Balancing Positive and Negative Voices 11:17: Creating Awareness for Change 14:06: Introducing InnerLoop: A New Tool 17:03: Education and Frameworks for Improvement 19:53: Unlearning Achievement-Based Identity 22:36: Invisible Patterns of Self-Sabotage 24:17: The Cost of Success 27:37: Overcoming Identity Limitations 31:13: Transferring Skills from Practice to Performance 33:20: Understanding Mental Toughness 38:31: The Power of Self-Talk and Kindness 41:47: It's Okay: A Perspective Shift
Hard truth: your kids don't do what you say—they do what you do. In this episode, we unpack how parental behavior shapes children's habits, health, and inner voice. From the food on your plate to the way you talk to yourself, your daily choices become their blueprint. We dive into the ripple effect of parenting, how social media pressure warps expectations, and why personal responsibility beats finger-pointing. You'll learn how to model healthy habits, clean up self-talk so it becomes your child's confidence, and stand firm when critics chirp from the sidelines. This isn't about perfection—it's about leading your home on purpose. APPLY FOR COACHING: https://www.lvltncoaching.com/1-1-coaching SDE Method app: https://www.lvltncoaching.com/sde-method-app The Fitness League app https://www.fitnessleagueapp.com/ Macros Guide https://www.lvltncoaching.com/free-resources/calculate-your-macros Join the Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lvltncoaching FREE TOOLS to start your health and fitness journey: https://www.lvltncoaching.com/resources/freebies Alessandra's Instagram: http://instagram.com/alessandrascutnik Joelle's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joellesamantha?igsh=ZnVhZjFjczN0OTdn Josh's Instagram: http://instagram.com/joshscutnik Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Parenting Reflections 06:14 Modeling Behavior for Kids 11:52 The Ripple Effect of Parenting 17:29 Navigating Parenting Pressures 23:12 Creating Change Through Personal Responsibility 29:43 Confronting Criticism and Embracing Confidence
In this crucial episode of Self-Talk, you will discover that hearing God's voice is paramount. God's voice can guide you, heal you, and lead you in the best direction for your life. It provides answers to every problem you may face. The prophetic gift is a vital way in which God communicates with us today. Do not let anyone convince you that this gift no longer operates. Joel 2:28 "It will come about after this That I will pour out My Spirit on all mankind; And your sons and daughters will prophesy, Your old men will dream dreams, Your young men will see visions. Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website: https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
How Amy Healed Her Relationship With Food & Built Lasting Strength | The Forever Fit Podcast by Mavy Wellness Ep. #420Interested in working with our world class team, Book your application call here: http://book.fitvegancoaching.com/podcastJoin our Free Fit Vegan weekly newsletter: https://fitvegancoaching.com/newsletterTry out the Superfood Adaptogenic Protein Blend from Nutrigazm. Use the code FitVegan15 to save 15% off any one time order and use code FitVegan20 to save 20% off all subscription orders over at www.nutrigazm.comIn this episode of the Forever Fit Podcast, I sit down with Amy Rosen, a 66-year-old member of MAVY Wellness, to unpack her powerful transformation. Amy opens up about her past struggles with eating disorders, the pressure of a demanding executive career, and what finally helped her build strength, confidence, and consistency. We talk whole food, plant-based nutrition, overcoming food addiction, and how community, accountability, and self-commitment changed everything for her. This is an honest, inspiring conversation about redefining what's possible at any age.In This Episode, We Cover: [00:00–03:17] Amy's Story Begins: Career, Identity & Early Struggles[03:18–05:38] Healing From Eating Disorders & Rebuilding Trust With Food[05:39–13:17] Transitioning to Plant-Based Living & Fitness[13:18–18:18] Joining the Community & Early Wins[18:19–25:15] Consistency, Strength Gains & Confidence[25:16–31:39] Athletic Performance, Pickleball & Staying Active[31:40–36:02] Recovery, Sleep & Sustainable Progress[36:03–40:18] Food Addiction, Temptation & Mental Tools[40:19–48:04] Accountability, Self-Talk & Personal Ownership[48:05–55:54] Joy in Training, Nutrition & Community Support[55:55–01:07:25] Identity Shift, Final Reflections & Advice for Anyone StartingKey Quotes“ It takes effort to become effortless at any point.” -Amy.“We're never gonna scream at you for going off track.”-Maxime.My name is Maxime Sigouin. I am the founder of Fit Vegan Coaching and Empire Builders Agency. I have a passion for serving and helping people live to their fullest potential.Book Your FREE Consultation Call Here: http://book.fitvegancoaching.com/podcast- Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maximesigouinofficial/- Join our FREE Fit Vegan Community: www.freefitvegancommunity.com- Youtube Channel : https://linktw.in/AyNrSW
The voice in our head can be an asset at times - but also kind of a jerk at the worst possible moments. And like that one person in the “quiet car” of the train that doesn't seem to understand the rules, it never seems to be quiet when we need it to.A 2014 study identified a self-talk strategy that led to improved performances, and less post-performance shame and rumination.And it doesn't require us to shush the inner critic entirely (whew, because that's really difficult!). It's just a small, simple - yet quirky - tweak that anyone can do.Get all the nerdy details here:How a Small Change in Self-Talk Could Improve Performance Under PressureReferencesKross, E., Bruehlman-Senecal, E., Park, J., Burson, A., Dougherty, A., Shablack, H., Bremner, R., Moser, J., & Ayduk, O. (2014). Self-talk as a regulatory mechanism: How you do it matters. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 106(2), 304–324. https://doi.org/10.1037/a0035173More from The Bulletproof Musician Get the free weekly newsletter, for more nerdy details and bonus subscriber-only content. Pressure Proof: A free 7-day performance practice crash course that will help you shrink the gap between the practice room and the stage. Learning Lab: A continuing education community where musicians and learners are putting research into practice. Live and self-paced courses
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Today, Dr. Lisa explores why weight loss feels so hard, especially during the holidays, and how you can make it easier. She shares the powerful impact of food noise, ultra-processed foods, and GLP-1 medications, and offers a simple two-step plan anyone can use today to make progress. This easy approach mitigates the frustration that can come with working on your weight during the holidays season. Dr. Lisa shares her practical approach to healthier habits, sustainable weight loss, and longevity going into the new year.Thanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
This Christmas special podcast by Dr. Ray explores why Jesus was born and came to us as a human baby. Understanding this concept is essential for your relationship with God and for your life overall. Be sure to share this vital podcast with a friend! Luke 2:11 for today in the city of David there has been born for you a Savior, who is Christ the Lord. Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website: https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
This holiday season, skip the drama, not the treats. In this episode, Lisa Oldson, MD shares a smarter, kinder strategy for managing your weight during the busiest, most food-centric time of year. You'll learn why holiday weight loss goals typically backfire, how to quiet food noise, and the 5-step plan that lets you enjoy the season without gaining weight.If you want to avoid the holiday weight gain cycle, ditch the all-or-nothing thinking, and finally feel in control around splurges, this episode is for you. Perfect for women focused on weight loss, longevity, healthy habits, and stress-free eating through the holidays. Whatever you celebrate this time of year, we wish you a very happy holiday season from Dr. Lisa and the team at Smart Weight Loss Coaching.Thanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
In this episode, Dr. Ray shares a story about getting lost in a cave, experiencing the sheer terror of complete darkness. The life lesson he imparts is powerful: when you find yourself in absolute darkness, nothing is more valuable than light. Isaiah 9:2 The people who walk in darkness Will see a great light; Those who live in a dark land, The light will shine on them. Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website: https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
In this episode, Matt Rieger, CMPC, breaks down how athletes can simplify their internal dialogue for better performance. He explains why self-talk doesn't need to be complicated to be effective—and how keeping it clear, intentional, and repeatable can be the difference-maker under pressure.Part of our bite-sized episode series designed for quick listening and immediate takeaways. Let us know what you think.Connect with a coach in our networkMonkey Mind WebsiteFollow us on Instagram
It's easy to find ourselves in the middle of December with a packed calendar and an unprepared spirit, carrying bitterness, comparison, or disappointment into every day. Drawing from Matthew 3:3, Karen talks about what it means to “prepare the way for the Lord” so we don't miss Jesus in the middle of our own expectations. You'll come away with simple, practical ways to prepare your heart for Christmas, no matter what your circumstances are like.Episode Recap:Today we're talking about preparation (2:15)We must prepare our hearts so we don't miss Christ (3:54)We prepare through self-reflection, repentance, readiness (5:06)It's hard to see the condition of your own heart, so pray about it (6:12)This world is full of trouble, but Christ has overcome the world (13:09)We have to take our thoughts captive over and over and over again (14:45)Practically, how do we prepare our hearts? (17:13)Scripture: Matthew 3:3 (NIV) – ‘Prepare the way for the Lord, make straight paths for him.'Discussion Questions: When you look at this Christmas season, where do you see that your heart might be “unprepared”? (Bitterness, comparison, resentment, fear, exhaustion, etc.)What “self-talk” tends to get loud for you during the holidays (i.e.: life isn't fair, I never have enough, no one appreciates me)? Which scriptures could help you renew your mind with truth instead?Karen shared practical ideas for preparing your heart: starting the day with Jesus, lighting a candle, sitting in silence, simplifying your schedule, serving someone in need. Which one could you realistically try this week?Is there one thing you could say no to this December to create more space for peace, presence, and noticing Jesus? What would it look like to trust God with that decision?Resources:Give today to help us reach more moms with Wire Talk in 2026! boaw.mom/givePick up a copy of Karen's Self Talk curriculum today: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/products/six-truths-study-guide?pr_prod_strat=e5_desc&pr_rec_id=ac36e3440&pr_rec_pid=1414191513677&pr_ref_pid=4773089017933&pr_seq=uniformListen to Noel by Tommee Profitt: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qDyA9W9CaeQ
Today we're diving deep into the way our children communicate! We're asking some difficult but important questions about how we support their speech and language. How do our kids feel when people cannot understand their speech? How do they feel when we, as their parents, cannot understand their speech? How are we supposed to implement all the speech therapy tools? When is it time to just focus on one area of growth for our kids? How do our kids use “self-talk” to share stories and self-soothe? And that's a wrap on this season focused on brain health and Down syndrome! We hope you learned as much as we did from these last 10 episodes. We'll see you again in the new year! SHOW NOTESVisit our Therapist Directory to find mental health support for your loved one with a disability.Fill out THIS FORM to be added to our therapist directory.SPONSORSign up for Enable SNP HERE.
Retention or loyalty on your roadmap? Happy to brainstorm → professorgame.com/chat We unpack the "tell the cab driver where to go" strategy, health quests, and the eight magic words that shift self-talk from guilt and shame to possibility and lasting change on this chat with Stamina Lab CEO Glen Lubbert. We discuss how to turn health and well-being into a game you can actually win. Glen is the co-founder and CEO of Stamina Lab, a health tech company that helps people create lasting well-being—not through willpower, hacks, habits, or fixing themselves—but by building on the inner resources and skills they already have. His company combines solution-focused health coaching, behavior science, and personalized data to improve energy, focus and resilience—without the usual shame or overwhelm. Rob Alvarez is Head of Engagement Strategy, Europe at The Octalysis Group (TOG), a leading gamification and behavioral design consultancy. A globally recognized gamification strategist and TEDx speaker, he founded and hosts Professor Game, the #1 gamification podcast, and has interviewed hundreds of global experts. He designs evidence-based engagement systems that drive motivation, loyalty, and results, and teaches LEGO® SERIOUS PLAY® and gamification at top institutions including IE Business School, EFMD, and EBS University across Europe, the Americas, and Asia. Guest Links and Info Website: staminalab.io LinkedIn: Glen Lubbert Instagram: @staminalab.io X/Twitter: @glenlubbert YouTube: youtube.com/@staminalabTV Links to episode mentions: Proposed guest: Dr. Deborah Teplow Recommended book: Outlive: The Science and Art of Longevity by Peter Attia Favorite game: The Five Crowns Card Game Lets's do stuff together! Let's chat about your gamification project 3 Gamification Hacks To Boost Your Community's Revenue Start Your Community on Skool for Free Game of Skool Community YouTube LinkedIn Instagram Facebook Ask a question
Is your inner critic and self-talk full of negations, blame, and "shoulds"? That's conflict language, and it keeps you small. Coach Jason breaks down the four pillars of self-sabotaging speech and how to transform them into architect language that builds a stronger future. Learn how to stop being a victim (projections) and embrace accountability (reflections). Master the shift from powerless language ("I have to") to an empowering choice ("I get to") to reduce stress, strengthen your self-trust, and eliminate ambiguity in your life. Download my FREE guide: The Alcohol Freedom Formula For Over 30s Entrepreneurs & High Performers: https://social.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/podcast ★ - Learn more about Project 90: www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/Project90 ★ - (Accountability & Support) Speak verbally to a certified Alcohol-Free Lifestyle coach to see if, or how, we could support you having a better relationship with alcohol: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/schedule ★ - The wait is over – My new book "CLEAR" is now available. Get your copy here: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/clear
IM John Barthomew is a former scholastic national champion turned popular and longtime chess Youtuber and serial entrepreneur. His clear and friendly teaching style has garnered him over 200,000 subs and many devotees of the Scandinavian defense, the opening for which he is best known. In our conversation we discuss: Five chess improvement conclusions that John drew from playing in (and documenting) The LiChess LoneWolf League The challenges and rewards of helping to build Chessiverse. Chessiverse offers over 600 “human-like” bots to play against, and is also the site where you can find John's new, Comprehensive Scandinavian course. Lastly, John told a few memorable stories about his good friend GM Daniel Naroditsky that reflect Daniel's unusual talents. It is always enjoyable talking chess with John, and there are many nuggets to be gleaned from this conversation. 0:00- Thanks to our sponsor, Chessable.com! If you sign up for Chessable Pro in order to unlock discounts and additional features, be sure to use the following link: https://www.chessable.com/pro/?utm_source=affiliate&utm_medium=benjohnson&utm_campaign=pro And you can check out their new offerings here: https://www.chessable.com/courses/all/new/ 00:00 Intro and Guest Introduction 03:00 IM John Bartholomew joins. We start with John's chess improvement lessons learned from the LiChess Lone Wolf League https://lichess.org/@/Fins/blog/what-i-learned-from-playing-lonewolf-league-season-37/19yaMKfW Here is John's Lone Wolf game recap playlist- https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLl9uuRYQ-6MCYu9m5ji2tJgIoU7JMHkD9&si=Lg1RvP2PhmX2M68Q 06:00- Self-Talk and Thought Process in Chess 09:00- The Importance of Time Management John's Using the Clock as a Weapon Playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLl9uuRYQ-6MD7go55KaMPOGKSHxXhWED_&si=e34rgZ05auwzOauQ 12:00 The Importance of Opening Variety 14:30 The Value of Longer Time Controls 17:30 Introduction to John's new venture- Chessiverse 21:30 Patreon mailbag questions: How does Chessiverse compare to other online products? What ratings is it best suited for? 23:30 Comparing Chessiverse to Other Platforms 25:45 Chessiverse's Business Model and Future Plans 29:00 John's Scandinavian course 33:00 The Evolution of Scandinavian Theory Mentioned: Ponomariov-Papaioannou 2003 https://lichess.org/q55Y75PQ#15 39:00 Navigating Course Design Challenges 45:00- The Vision for Chessiverse and Bot Experience 48:30 John's memories of GM Daniel Naroditsky Mentioned: John's tribute- https://youtu.be/kclevjiPK5I?si=7CO6ydPqkyFNKBjy Fundraiser for Danya- https://givebutter.com/naroditsky 52:00- Thanks to John for rejoining! Here are links to keep up with him: Newsletter: https://johnbartholomewchess.com/the-chess-mindset-newsletter-im-john-bartholomew/ Course- https://chessiverse.com/courses/scandi?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=scandi_search_tier1_purchase&utm_term=chess%20courses&utm_content=185814884617_782203235972_c&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=23214933240&utm_term=chess%20courses&utm_content=782203235972&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23214933240&gbraid=0AAAAABc5PsgmfRvqVuvKClF-9oZLSp0mn&gclid=Cj0KCQiAoZDJBhC0ARIsAERP-F_lAVpIoPksVCsZ5LG7GydpV4Wi8KIL4HMSbf_V_ZGei2837lHT57gaAu9fEALw_wcB Twitter/X: https://x.com/fins0905?lang=en 55:00- If you would like to help support Perpetual Chess via Patreon, you can do so here: https://www.patreon.com/c/perpetualchess Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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