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Whether you realize it or not, you have a conversation with yourself every day. And many struggle with negative thoughts about themselves and others. On this Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, author and radio host Jon Gauger takes us to the Psalms to offer uplifting ways to speak truth to your heart. There’s a better way to speak to your own soul. It’s the power of biblical self-talk—on Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Featured resource: Powerful Self-Talk from the Psalms: 40 Days to a Biblical MindsetDonate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/buildingrelationshipsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
If the first thing you think about when trying to lose weight is everything you can't have, this episode is for you. Dr. Lisa Oldson introduces one of her favorite mindset shifts for sustainable weight loss: Add Before You Subtract. Instead of leading with restriction, deprivation, and a list of forbidden foods, Dr. Lisa explains why focusing first on adding more protein, fiber-rich fruits & vegetables, and whole foods is not only more effective, it's backed by science. You'll learn how the "crowding out" effect works, why restriction-first thinking triggers your brain's scarcity response, and how a simple abundance mindset can transform your relationship with food. If you're tired of white knuckling your way through diets that don't last and leave you feeling deprived, this episode will show you a SMARTER and more sustainable path forward for weight loss and better health.Thanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
The anointing of the Holy Spirit is not limited to Sunday mornings at church. It is available to you every day. Your awareness of the Holy Spirit can completely transform your life and your way of thinking, leading you to experience many of God's promises each day. Dr. Ray Self discusses this topic and provides valuable insights on how to walk in the anointing continually. 1 John 2:27 But the anointing which you have received from Him abides in you, Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website: https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
If you care about elite golf performance, you can't ignore your golf mindset or your golf mental game. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Michael Lardon—a psychiatrist and performance expert who has worked with Olympians, major champions, and elite competitors—to explore what truly separates good players from those capable of sustained excellence. Together, we go beyond surface-level routines and visualization to clarify the difference between sports psychology and sports psychiatry, unpack what anxiety actually is from a biological and nervous system perspective, and explain why so many golfers sabotage their performance by time-traveling into the past or future. You'll learn why outcome goals create pressure while process goals unlock performance, how to channel intensity without tipping into volatility, and why positive obsession, creativity, rest, and play are essential to sustaining elite golf performance over years—not just one hot stretch. In this episode, you'll learn: The difference between sports psychology vs sports psychiatry—and why it matters What anxiety is (physiology, emotions, thoughts) and why it becomes chronic How "time traveling" creates anxiety—and how presence dissolves it Positive obsession vs destructive obsession—and how to sustain passion for decades How to use the creative mind (visual, rhythm, feel) to access the zone Why the best performers are humble, curious, and mastery-driven The role of rest, recovery, humor, and play in elite longevity If you want a stronger golf mental game, more emotional control under pressure, and a deeper understanding of how to access the zone on demand, this conversation delivers both the science and the strategy. Get your pencils ready and start listening. Apply for 1-1 High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching: Click here to apply to work with me. The 90-Day Golf Identity Upgrade Accelerator: This is a private 3-month coaching container designed to help serious golfers rapidly upgrade their beliefs, rewire their golf identity, and accelerate lower scores through deep subconscious transformation — not surface-level tactics. Click here to learn more and DM me "identity upgrade on Instagram (@thepaulsalter) to learn more. More About Dr. Michael T. Lardon Dr. Michael T. Lardon is a board-certified psychiatrist and one of the pioneers in applying clinical psychiatry to elite sports performance. He has worked with Olympic athletes, professional golfers, and high-performing competitors across multiple disciplines. He is the author of Mastering Golf's Mental Game and Finding Your Zone, where he blends neuroscience, temperament research, emotional regulation, and disciplined focus into practical frameworks for sustained peak performance. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my "Play Your Best Round" free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course. Instagram: @thepaulsalter Key Takeaways: Anxiety is often a presence problem, not a performance problem. It arises when your mind leaves the present moment and starts time traveling into the past or future, creating a gap between where you are and where your thoughts are. Elite golf performance is built on process goals, not outcome goals. Winning, making the cut, or shooting a number are results; committing fully to each shot is the only controllable path to those results. Positive obsession fuels mastery; destructive obsession fuels burnout. The difference is whether your intensity is rooted in passion and love for the craft—or fear, validation, and imbalance. The creative mind unlocks the zone. Great players move from left-brain planning (distance, wind, lie) to right-brain creation (see it, feel it, rhythm it) before executing with trust and "no brain." Fun and pressure cannot coexist at full volume. Reconnecting to enjoyment, perspective, and passion lowers anxiety and opens the door to freer, more instinctive performance. Key Quotes: "So if I can be fully present, there is no anxiety, if you will. Now, not an easy thing to do… but where should my mind be? It should be in the gap between two thoughts." "If you want the good grade, you don't think, 'I'm gonna make the good grade.' What you think about is, 'This is the material in front of me and I need to master it.' And if I do that, that translates into a good grade." "Fun and being pathologically nervous—they're not possible together. If you're laughing and you're having fun, we open up the avenue of really doing good things." "Those who know do not think. And those who think do not know." "We're the noisiest passenger of our own ship. We think we know what's going on—we think we control it—but not really. Our unconscious mind is processing things all the time." Time Stamps: 00:00: Understanding Sports Psychiatry vs. Sports Psychology 05:36: The Nature of Anxiety in Performance 10:38: Strategies to Manage Performance Anxiety 15:05: Positive Obsession vs. Negative Obsession 17:38: Sustaining Passion and Avoiding Burnout 24:35: The Unique Approach to Self-Discovery 26:13: Managing Intensity in High Performers 29:36: The Role of Passion and Fun in Performance 36:15: Self-Talk and the Mindset of Champions 41:05: Exploring Altered States of Consciousness 45:21: Final Takeaway: Enjoy the Game
Welcome to season four of Restorative Works! Podcast! In this episode, Dr. Claire de Mézerville López welcomes Johari "J.P." Mitchell for a discussion around positive self-talk, children's literature, and how the power of storytelling helps shape how we relate to ourselves and one another. J.P. explores how children's literature, especially picture books, can serve as a restorative practices tool across all ages. She emphasizes the concept of restorative practices-rooted self-talk: the internal narratives we use to make sense of shame, grief, identity, and belonging. J.P. illustrates how stories offer young people and adults pro-social alternatives to dealing with shame. She explains how picture books act as mirrors and windows, reflecting our inner lives while inviting us to step into experiences we may not yet have lived. Through age-appropriate storytelling, children gain language for complex emotions like loss, difference, and empathy long before crisis arrives. This proactive exposure builds emotional literacy, resilience, and relational capacity. The episode also challenges the assumption that children's books are only for children. J.P. and Claire reflect on how picture books speak powerfully to adults, educators, parents, and leaders by reconnecting us to the "child within" and creating space for intergenerational dialogue. From navigating grief to understanding identity and difference, children's literature becomes a shared entry point for meaningful, restorative conversations. Johari "J.P." Mitchell is an educator, writer and speaker whose passion is helping leaders link vision to opportunity through the power of words. J.P. is a restorative practices trainer with Columbus City Schools, as well as a 2-time TEDx speaker, author, and Gallup-Certified Strengths Coach. She lives in Columbus, Ohio with her family. Tune in to learn how to become a friend of children's literature, not just a consumer, and use stories as a bridge to stronger relationships and healthier communities.
In this episode, we are talking all about the power of self-talk and why men, especially, could benefit from understanding how it works.
Your self-talk is powerful. It will build you up or tear you down. What is your self-talk saying about you? Positive self-talk will build you up, give you strength, and confidence. Negative self-talk will tear you down, wear you down, and hold you back from healthy relationships and success. What self-talk does to you. How is self-talk biological Intersection of science and Scripture Mind over matter The neuroscience connection Self-talk has roots in scripture Genesis 1:26 2 Timothy 1:7 James 1:21 Philippians 4:6-7 Matthew 28:18 Proverbs 23:7 Psalm 145:3 Romans 12:2 Romans 11:33 Proverbs 3:5-6 Proverbs 19:21 2 Corinthians 10:5 Matthew 6:25-33 When your mind starts to take a wrong turn, pause, assess, and adjust. Ask yourself these questions and implement the 6 C's strategy: Where is this thought coming from? What do I know to be true about this thought? Would someone that I know, love, and respect be thinking the same thing about me? What does Jesus say about me? What is my identity in Him? If the answers to those questions do not align with what you know to be true, change the thought. Write down a positive self-talk alternative and repeat it to yourself. Over and over. Read the full show notes and access all links. Schedule a free consult discovery call with me today to move from being stuck in an anxiety response loop to renewing your mind to become calm, confident, and consistent in your work, relationships, and the communities you serve. Download the free eBook: Alleviate Anxiety by Developing Health Habits for a Healthy Mind, including the 6 C's strategy.
Workouts often fall apart long before the body gives out. Negative self-talk, stress, and old mental habits can push a full day off course in a matter of minutes. Training your inner language with the same intention you bring to movement helps protect follow-through. A few honest replacement thoughts can steady your choices, strengthen your consistency, and make fitness feel more reliable in real life. Help me celebrate 2000 Power Blast Episodes Share any takeaways or shifts that the show has helped you create by leaving a message here: https://www.speakpipe.com/PowerBlastStories Please include your name and where you are from! BOOK A CALL WITH PERRY: http://talktoperry.com TEXT ME: (208) 400-5095 JOIN MY FREE COMMUNITY: http://upsidedownfit.com The Legacy Continues with Syona and Tony Horton: https://sharesyona.co/?url=perrytinsley RESOURCES Best Probiotic for Gut Health: https://bit.ly/probyo Best Focus & Memory Product: https://bit.ly/dryvefocus Daily Success Habits (Free Download): morningsuccesshabits.com Best Home Workouts – Power Nation: https://sharesyona.co/?url=perrytinsley WOW! You made it all the way down here. I'm seriously impressed! Most people stop scrolling way earlier. You officially rock, my friend.
Why beliefs can either cap our potential or push us toward possibility.What you believe about yourself could be holding you back. Fortunately, Nir Eyal says beliefs aren't truths — and you can choose new ones.Eyal is a former lecturer at Stanford Graduate School of Business and the Stanford d.school, a celebrated author, and a renowned expert on human behavior and potential. His latest book, Beyond Belief, reveals how limiting beliefs — like “I'm a bad communicator” — quietly shape what we see, feel, and do. “A belief doesn't have to be true” to limit our potential, he says. But the same holds in reverse: a belief doesn't have to be true to expand who and what we can become. “Beliefs are tools, not truths. It just has to be useful.”In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Eyal and host Matt Abrahams explore how to identify the beliefs that hold us back — and how to replace them with ones that propel us forward. From keeping a belief journal to practicing perspective-shifting “turnarounds,” Eyal offers practical tips for rewriting the stories we tell ourselves and becoming the people we want to be.To listen to the extended Deep Thinks version of this episode, please visit FasterSmarter.io/premium.Episode Reference Links:Nir EyalNir's Book: Beyond Belief104. How to Change: Building Better Habits and Behaviors (And Getting Out of Your Own Way)115. Rethinks: How We Set and Achieve Goals Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInChapters:(00:00) - Introduction (02:45) - The Power of Attention (04:30) - The Hook Model & Surprise (06:55) - Structure vs. Novelty (08:50) - Identity & Limiting Beliefs (11:52) - Beliefs Vs. Facts (15:17) - The Four-Question Test (21:20) - The Final Three Questions (24:31) - Conclusion ********Thank you to our sponsors. These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.Strawberry.me. Get 50% off your first coaching session today at Strawberry.me/smartJoin our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.
A calming meditation to rewire negative self-talk and replace fear-based thinking with trust, clarity, and self-compassion - with Taoist monk and teacher, David James Lees.This guided meditation will help you rewire negative self-talk, release fear-based thinking, and move from emotional reactivity into calm self-trust. Learn how to pause before believing anxious thoughts, recognise emotional logic for what it is, and shift your inner dialogue from control to clarity.Through breath, affirmations, and gentle visualisation, you'll reconnect with your authentic self (Shen) and cultivate a kind, grounded inner voice rooted in trust rather than fear. Perfect for reducing anxiety, calming overthinking, and building emotional resilience.⚠️ PLEASE DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS MEDITATION WHILE DRIVING OR OPERATING MACHINERYThis meditation can be practised daily or whenever you need it. Learn more about our online consultations, events and shop: https://www.wuweiwisdom.comSubscribe to David's FREE Journal: https://davidjameslees.substack.com/Other teachings and guided meditations you may enjoy: End Toxic Self-Talk | How to Release Limiting Beliefs and Rewire Your Inner Dialogue https://youtu.be/KiD3ZgnhtywGUIDED MEDITATION PLAYLIST https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9NQ_PWX4zIA12P7BftG6a18lIWFDjL35&si=bWWub6YyoZpXhFubLOVE & RELATIONSHIPS PLAYLIST https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9NQ_PWX4zID3yxrdCbbZFuKHCwgV6qhX&si=-zdah_z6MiSZIl0tIs there a question you'd like answered on the show? Submit it at: https://bit.ly/askusyourquestion Join our free Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity If you love our work, you can now make a small donation to help fund the continued production of our weekly teachings by buying us a 'virtual coffee'! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/wuweiwisdom Book an online Golden Thread Process & Inner Child Consultation with David: https://www.wuweiwisdom.com/therapies-for-body-mind/ Follow us on Instagram: @wuweiwisdomSign up to receive a relaxing guided meditation gift, plus our weekly newsletter + offers via email: https://www.wuweiwisdom.com/signup -Disclaimer: This podcast and any associated teaching and comments shared are not a substitute for professional therapy, mental health care, crisis support, medical advice, doctor diagnosis, or professional healthcare treatment. Our show episodes provide general information for educational purposes only and are offered as suggestions for you and your professional therapist or healthcare advisor to consider and research.Music by Earth Tree Healing
Is calorie counting sabotaging your weight loss? New research says you're missing something big. In this episode, Dr. Lisa Oldson breaks down a newly published randomized controlled trial that challenges the "eat less, move more" approach to weight loss once and for all.Dr. Oldson shares what she observed early in her career about why calorie restriction alone almost never leads to lasting results, and what the science actually says about sustainable weight loss. Spoiler: it has a lot more to do with stress hormones, sleep, self-compassion, and community than it does with counting calories.You'll learn:Why calorie restriction triggers hunger hormones that work against your weight loss effortsHow chronic stress and elevated cortisol drive weight gain and abdominal fatWhat a new study from Brazil reveals about the power of mindfulness, behavioral support, and community in producing better outcomes than a low-calorie diet aloneWhy low adherence to calorie-restricted diets isn't a willpower problem, it's a biology problemThe questions to ask about any weight loss program to know if it will actually work long-termIf you've ever felt like you were doing everything right and still not losing weight, or losing it and gaining it right back, this episode is for you.Thanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
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In this episode of Raising Serotonin, I open up about the pressure I've been putting on myself to do more, be more, and question whether I'm actually doing “enough.” Sharing vulnerably from my practicum experience, I talk through the overthinking spiral, the inner critic that loves to show up uninvited, and what it looks like to catch myself before I let that negative voice take over. This conversation is a reminder, for me and for you, that growth isn't about perfection, it's about trying. And if you're choosing to show up, stretch yourself, and do the work (even imperfectly), you're already doing more than most.Get your Raising Serotonin Merch here! FOLLOW RAISING SEROTONIN ON INSTAGRAM HERE Support the show
What has happened to the anointing in today's Church? What are we missing, and what can we do about it? In this episode, Dr. Ray discusses the anointing in the Church, why he believes it is lacking, and what steps the Church can take to invite the Holy Spirit back into the house of God. 1 John 2:27 But the anointing which you have received from Him abides in you, Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website: https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
Send Rachel a text message.Meditation practice isn't about trying to throw ourselves away and become something better. It's about befriending who we are already.— Pema ChödrönIn this episode of Self Talk, we redefine what meditation can be—beyond rules, shame, and “shoulds.” We'll explore why so many of us resist meditating, debunk the myth that meditation is about “reaching enlightenment,” and reframe practice as a personal check‑in with Source. You'll learn simple, accessible ways to make meditation your own, including a 60‑second drop‑in, a daily self‑alignment practice, and turning everyday activities into a mindfulness practice. You're also invited to join Write Your Self Open, a guided meditation and reflective writing course that supports your ongoing inner work—and invites you to be lovingly, radically gentle with yourself.EPISODE TIMELINE00:00 – What Meditation Really IsPema Chödrön quote, intro to the episode, and why so many of us resist meditation or feel guilty about not doing it.01:08 – Rachel's First Meditation Attempt as a ChildStory of Rachel's early experience with meditation, boredom, shame, and how that shaped her later practice.03:18 – Common Blocks: Shame, “Shoulds,” and ComparisonHow meditation becomes another item on the to‑do list, the comparison trap, and the fear of “doing it wrong.”05:23 – Fear of Thoughts and the Quiet MindA client's fear of being alone with his thoughts, why quieting the mind can feel scary, and how self‑work helps.06:21 – Why We Don't Meditate: Enlightenment MythsWhy chasing enlightenment through meditation is problematic, non‑duality, and the limits of the ego in this pursuit.08:00 – Real Benefits of Meditation (Mind, Body, Spirit)Nervous system regulation, stress reduction, better sleep, improved focus, and meditation as a “phone call home” to Source.10:45 – No Rules: Making Meditation Your OwnLetting go of shame and rigid rules; reframing meditation as a personal check‑in rather than a performance.11:19 – Simple Practices You Can Start TodayThe 60‑second drop‑in body scan, daily self‑alignment meditation, and “whatever you're doing, do it” mindfulness in everyday life.15:51 – Guided Meditation & ‘Write Your Self Open'How guided meditation and reflective writing work in Rachel's “Write Your Self Open” course, plus details about the new Monday cohort beginning April 13.Write Your Self Open is a revolution in self-development that blends guided meditation, journaling, and supportive group discussion led by holistic psychotherapist Rachel Astarte.It's all the benefits of personal transformation + community-building without the constraints of talk therapy.Join anytime. No previous meditation or writing experience necessary.http://writeyourselfopen.com Got a question about your self? Send it to me at rachel@selftalkpodcast.com and it may be featured on a future episode. Support the showContinue working with Rachel at foundationofself.com • Subscribe here, at youtube.com/@selftalkpodcast, or wherever you get podcasts. •Music:"Ave Marimba"Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0
Molly Bloom is the real-life inspiration behind the Oscar-nominated film Molly's Game. She built and ran the most exclusive high-stakes underground poker game in the world, attended by celebrities, billionaires, and powerful figures. In this interview, we discuss power, overcoming fear, self-talk, mental toughness, and the darker sides of human nature—along with the rise, collapse, and hard lessons behind one of the most infamous underground poker stories in the world.Show Sponsors:Upgrade your wardrobe and save on True Classic at https://trueclassic.com/DALTONGo to https://hellofresh.com/DALTON10FM to Get 10 free meals + a free Zwilling Knife (a $144.99 value) on your third boxLive Better Longer with BUBS Naturals. For A limited time get 20% Off your entire order with code DALTON at https://www.bubsnaturals.comFind your forever cookware at Hexclad and get 10% off at https://hexclad.com/DALTONMolly's Links:IG: https://www.instagram.com/immollybloom/Molly's Game Book: https://www.amazon.com/Mollys-Game-26-Year-Old-High-Stakes-Underground/dp/0062213083/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.0M481UOw9s0vjdCD-RbZ9hJLp90ip77lE8RyTmxjFpxXVk1XnIopnlweVeU5rQyNTHEiqYeK779zDQfSx8MK3aVmXz6n6hHd24QqK85RWpiPMXDfFQfrpSG1XNwTAJft_rOaVCGGEyOLkkieayxecpLC_XBa29IONges9SKlfUgQtStyVy4FbVbutpH7LSAFV3USXQbO_BTZVkRBH-ZYX7JW5AfFhIIFt-VIdDdT4Y4.lHV9JndWAO6iW81dVy-CRSaulbbUxwaQWOdoVkPyr2Y&qid=1772236027&sr=8-1Molly's Game Movie: https://www.netflix.com/title/8019995900:00 | Intro02:00 | Parenting06:18 | Victim Mentality09:41 | Kobe Bryant15:04 | Childhood23:52 | Constructive Suffering30:49 | Self Talk & The Voice In Our Heads50:10 | Molly's Game Scene Where Molly Confronts Her Dad01:01:59 | Moving to Los Angeles01:06:56 | First Poker Game at The Viper Room01:11:55 | How to Make Yourself Indispensable 01:17:34 | Poker Skills That Translate to Life Lessons01:41:01 | Human Psychology01:52:42 | Tobey Maguire02:11:27 | Running The Biggest Underground Game in New York City02:26:56 | Italian Organized Crime02:30:09 | FBI02:34:43 | Arrest02:43:27 | Molly's Game Book & Movie02:59:07 | How to Negotiate03:02:26 | Effective Presence03:13:45 | Trust in Yourself & Disregard The Opinions of Others03:20:24 | How to Get Comfortable With Failure03:25:08 | Outro
Learn how to end toxic self-talk, release limiting beliefs and rewire your inner dialogue with Taoist wisdom and the Golden Thread Process.Are you struggling with harsh, toxic self-talk that you know isn't true — but still can't stop? This episode dives into how limiting beliefs take root, why your Inner Child clings to them for “safety,” and how to release them using Taoist wu wei principles and the Golden Thread Process therapy model.You'll learn how unhealthy self-talk becomes identity, how to trace emotional triggers back to their root beliefs, and how to gently rewire your inner dialogue into clarity, compassion, and emotional freedom. If you're ready to end toxic self-talk and create a healthier, grounded inner voice, this conversation will guide you step by step.With your hosts, David James Lees (ordained Taoist monk, emotional and spiritual health teacher) and Alexandra Lees (mindset and business coach).Discover our online consultations, events and shop: https://www.wuweiwisdom.comSubscribe to David's FREE Journal: https://davidjameslees.substack.com/Other related teachings on our YouTube channel that will help you:How to Stop Negative Thoughts & Critical Self-Talk https://youtu.be/GD1O1EsET1E?si=9WOVZHrY8KuP_ymnSilence Your Inner Critic – Guided Meditation https://youtu.be/UJi8uOyaarU?si=gyDDVTHQFWwuel8IOur INNER CHILD PLAYLIST https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qqOur GOLDEN THREAD PROCESS PLAYLIST https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9NQ_PWX4zIAsS_wgdRN7QGBKIk54sbyDIs there a question you'd like answered on the show? Submit it at: https://bit.ly/askusyourquestion Join our free Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity If you love our work, you can now make a small donation to help fund the continued production of our weekly teachings by buying us a 'virtual coffee'! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/wuweiwisdom Book an online Golden Thread Process & Inner Child Consultation with David: https://www.wuweiwisdom.com/therapies-for-body-mind/ Follow us on Instagram: @wuweiwisdomSign up to receive a relaxing guided meditation gift, plus our weekly newsletter + offers via email: https://www.wuweiwisdom.com/signup Music by Earth Tree HealingDisclaimer: This podcast and any associated teaching and comments shared are not a substitute for professional therapy, mental health care, crisis support, medical advice, doctor diagnosis, or professional healthcare treatment. Our show episodes provide general information for educational purposes only and are offered as suggestions for you and your professional therapist or healthcare advisor to consider and research.
Why do you order pizza, pour a glass of wine, or reach for chocolate or chips when you're not actually hungry?It may not be about willpower. And it may not even be about food.In this episode, Lisa Oldson, MD explains how distress tolerance, your ability to sit with uncomfortable emotions without immediately trying to escape them, may be the missing link in sustainable weight loss and healthy habit change.Drawing from research in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT), Dr. Oldson walks you through how increasing psychological flexibility can reduce impulsive eating, late-night snacking, emotional eating, and even binge behaviors.You'll learn:What distress tolerance really is (and what it's not)Why cravings are often about emotional discomfort, not hungerHow urge surfing works to reduce impulsive eatingA simple 5-minute daily practice to build emotional enduranceHow to use TIP skills to calm your nervous system during intense cravingsWhy delaying a binge by even 5 minutes is meaningful progressWhat real improvement looks like (hint: not perfection)If you feel like you “know what to do” but struggle to actually do it, this episode will help you understand why, and give you practical tools to finally make healthy habits stick.Thanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
In this show, Dr. Ray conducts a self-interview with Dr. Sandrew Wright, an experienced addiction counselor. They discuss the seriousness of addictions within today's Church, explore ways to confront these issues, and examine how they can be addressed both biblically and through effective Christian counseling. John 8:32 "and you will know the truth, and the truth will make you free." Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website: https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
What if thriving wasn't about having more, but about choosing differently? Rand Selig has spent a lifetime studying growth, leadership, relationships, and what it truly means to live well. With decades of global experience in business, service, and personal development, Rand believes thriving is not accidental. It's the result of intentional choices made over time. This episode explores how self-reflection, forgiveness, resilience, and personal responsibility shape the quality of our lives. Through thoughtful dialogue, Rand Selig and Chuck Thuss unpack why thriving starts with the relationship you have with yourself, how setbacks can become turning points, and what it takes to stop living on autopilot and start authoring your own story. Guest Bio Rand Selig holds an MBA from Stanford and dual undergraduate degrees in mathematics and psychology. For over 35 years, he has led his own financial services firm while living and working across Europe, Asia, Mexico, and the Caribbean. Deeply committed to personal growth, service, and environmental conservation, Rand created Thriving! to help others embrace meaningful, positive change. He lives in Mill Valley, California, with his wife of over four decades and remains actively involved in mentorship, community leadership, and global service. You'll hear About What it really means to "thrive" in today's world Why the most important relationship you'll ever have is with yourself How forgiveness and letting go free emotional energy Reframing setbacks as opportunities for growth Becoming the author of your own life story Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Introduction 02:40 Rand's Background and Global Life Experience 05:20 Defining Thriving and Its Four Core Pillars 08:10 Why Personal Thriving Comes First 11:30 Self-Sabotage, Forgiveness, and Letting Go 15:00 The Power of Personal Choice 18:20 Navigating Setbacks and Building Resilience 22:30 Pain vs. Suffering and Reclaiming Agency 26:00 Becoming the Author of Your Own Story 30:20 Words, Self-Talk, and Emotional Health 34:00 Small Steps Toward Lasting Change 38:00 Rand's Message to Anyone Feeling Stuck 41:30 Where to Find Thriving! and Additional Resources 44:30 Chuck's Closing Reflections Chuck's Challenge This week, identify one area of your life where you've been reacting instead of choosing. Pause and ask yourself, "Is this aligned with the life I want to be living?" Make one intentional choice, even a small one, that moves you toward thriving rather than defaulting to habit. Connect with Rand Selig Website: https://www.randselig.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rand-selig-43525a6/ Connect with Chuck Check out the website: https://www.thecompassionateconnection.com/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chuck-thuss-a9aa044/ Follow on Instagram: @warriorsunmasked Join the Warriors Unmasked community by subscribing to the show. Together, we're breaking stigmas and shining a light on mental health, one story at a time.
How to turn down the chatter of negative self-talk.If you want to have better conversations with others, Ethan Kross says you first have to quiet down the chatter in your own head.A professor, researcher, and author, Kross defines chatter as a “negative thought loop” that hijacks our attention and undermines our ability to perform. “We have a limited capacity to focus our attention,” he says. “Attentional resources are a limited commodity, and chatter acts like a sponge that consumes that capacity. It leaves very little leftover that allows us to do the things that we want or need to do.” In his work researching, teaching, and writing about emotional regulation and the conscious mind, Kross has explored how to manage the negative self-talk that sabotages our concentration. “Here's the good news,” he says. “You can get out of it. Managing your chatter [is] a lot like becoming physically fit” — and he's developed tools and frameworks for building the muscles to turn down the noise.In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Kross joins host Matt Abrahams to share methods for quieting chatter and reclaiming precious mental resources. From distanced self-talk to mental time travel, his tools offer a way to tune out the static and tune into clarity and connection.To listen to the extended Deep Thinks version of this episode, please visit FasterSmarter.io/premium.Episode Reference Links:Ethan KrossEthan's Books: Chatter / ShiftEp.179 Finding Positive in Negative Emotions: Communication, Happiness & Wellbeing Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInChapters:(00:00) - Introduction (02:27) - Defining Chatter (04:57) - Breaking the Loop (09:54) - Technology & Emotional Sharing (13:20) - Why “Get Over It” Fails (18:40) - Emotions as Data (21:11) - The Final Three Questions (25:01) - Conclusion ********Thank you to our sponsors. These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.This episode is brought to you by Babbel. Think Fast Talk Smart listeners can get started on your language learning journey today- visit Babbel.com/Thinkfast and get up to 55% off your Babbel subscription.Join our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.
Join Dr. Cara Quant as she debunks common health misconceptions and separates fact from fiction in this myth-busting episode of Viva La Vulva.Prepare to be amazed by the science behind self-talk and itsmeasurable impact on your physical health—your words might be more powerful than you think.This episode is perfect for anyone ready to approach their health with curiosity, critical thinking, and a fresh perspective for the new year. Dr. Quant cuts through the noise with her signature blend of accessible science and practical advice you can actually use.Viva La Vulva is a podcast dedicated to women's health, wellness, and empowerment through evidence-based medicine. Resources: Follow Viva La Vulva and Dr. Cara on IG: @vivalavulvalaand @drcaraquant
I would love to hear how this episode impacted you.hat voice in your head—the one that hesitates, questions, and pulls you back—isn't trying to sabotage you.It's trying to protect you.In this episode, we reframe self-talk through a nervous-system and identity-based lens, explaining why fighting your thoughts actually makes them louder—and why forcing positivity rarely works.You'll learn:Why your inner voice forms through stress and emotional memoryThe real fear behind self-doubt (hint: it's not failure)Why arguing with your thoughts escalates resistanceHow pausing—not fighting—creates clarity and alignmentWhy identity anchors are more powerful than self-criticismIf you've ever felt stuck, hesitant, or like you keep pulling back just as you're about to step forward, this episode will help you understand why—and show you a calmer, more effective way to lead yourself.You don't need to silence your inner voice. You need to stop fighting it.That's how you stop talking yourself out of your potential.Support the showNew to Adam Henson Coaching? Start Here → https://youtu.be/HHLdVPMha10
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Your self-talk either moves you forward or holds you back. Learn productive self-coaching techniques for midlife women during perimenopause and menopause when motivation naturally fluctuates. Discover common excuse patterns for women over 40, the difference between legitimate rest needs and avoidance, and practical self-coaching techniques helping you show up for workouts, meal prep, and wellness practices. Perfect for women struggling with consistency, negative self-talk, or expert-level excuse-making around fitness and nutrition. Includes empowering mantras, reframing techniques, and strategies for supportive rather than punishing internal dialogue. If you want to take this work deeper, grab my book The Consistency Code: A Midlife Woman's Guide to Deep Health and Happiness. ✨ It's the roadmap midlife women are using to lead themselves powerfully in the health arena and beyond. Available now at https://theconsistencycode.com
Tired of following diet plans that work temporarily but never stick? In this episode, Lisa Oldson, MD explains why she doesn't give clients a specific menu or meal plan, and why that's actually better for long-term weight loss success. Drawing on research about habit formation, dietary adherence, and incremental change, Dr. Lisa shares why personalized, gradual modifications to your current eating habits are more sustainable than radical diet overhauls. Learn how small, manageable changes compound over time to create lasting transformation without the yo-yo dieting cycle. Discover the science behind why the best diet is the one you'll actually stick to, and get practical strategies for building your own sustainable eating system based on foods you already like and eat.Thanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
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In this episode, Dr. Ray Self discusses the controlling spirit, including why people use it, how it affects and hinders you, and ways to overcome it. Proverbs 3:5 -7 Trust in the LORD with all your heart And do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He will make your paths straight. Do not be wise in your own eyes; Fear the LORD and turn away from evil. Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website: https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses
Your inner voice is shaping your parenting more than any tool, rule, or consequence you use, and this episode helps you retrain it on purpose. You'll learn simple self-talk phrases to use in hard moments —when you're triggered, overwhelmed, or doubting yourself —so you can stay regulated, lead with wisdom, and model emotional strength for your kids. These phrases aren't fluffy affirmations; they're practical anchors that help you slow down, break reactive cycles, and show up as the parent you actually want to be. Go deeper with Sean www.SaveMyFamily.us Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Do you ever find yourself standing in front of the fridge at 6 PM just staring into the light? It is that heavy feeling of being completely "done" for the day. It is not just physical fatigue. It is your brain telling you it has nothing left to give. I have been there so many times and I want you to know that it is not a failure of willpower. This week is a little different because it is just you and me. I wanted to sit down and have a real heart to heart about why staying healthy feels so incredibly hard right now. We are living in such a loud and polarizing world when it comes to nutrition and honestly it is exhausting. I am sharing the concept of the Brain Bank Account which has been a total game changer for how I manage my own energy. We are moving away from the "shoulds" and looking at how to build gentle systems that actually hold you up when life gets messy.Here's what we dive into:- Why the world of nutrition feels so loud and confusing and how to find your own quiet center again.- How to use the Brain Bank Account method to stop overdrawing your internal energy.- What happens to our brains when we hit that 3 PM slump and how to nourish our way through it.- Why making decisions about food is actually one of the most taxing things we do every day.- How to align your natural biological rhythms with your busy social life without the stress.- What the Great British Veg Out is all about and why adding more is always better than taking away.- Why your health is individual and how to stop comparing your "off days" to someone else's highlight reel.Love, Sarah Ann
What if your performance issues aren't mental weakness… but brain function? In this episode of the Champion Living Podcast, Doug sits down with neurofeedback specialist Becky Lauridsen to break down how brain mapping is changing the way we understand focus, self-talk, concussions, and athlete development—especially in the sport of rodeo. They dive into: Why many athletes have frontal lobes stuck in "delta" (a suppressed brain state) The difference between motivation and discipline from a neurological perspective How upbringing and self-talk create real neural pathways What actually happens after a concussion—and what's missing from traditional protocol How neurofeedback works to ignite suppressed areas of the brain Why alpha waves are the key to calm, locked-in focus This conversation bridges performance, brain health, and long-term athlete development in a way most rodeo athletes have never heard before. If you're serious about competing at a high level—and protecting your brain while you do it—this episode is a must-listen.
Sometimes it's hard to love yourself, so let's help make it easier.. . .A full transcript of this episode is available in the 10 for Teens + Tweens Ep. 144 show notes on EmpowerfulGirls.com.
The longest relationship you will ever have is the one with yourself.And the words you speak inside your own mind?They are either building you… or breaking you.In this episode, I'm sharing a powerful theme from one of my recent yoga classes: Our Self-Talk Is Self-Love.If you struggle with anxiety, self-doubt, or feeling like you're never enough — this conversation is for you. Because manifestation doesn't begin with vision boards. It begins with your inner dialogue.Today we talk about: • How your self-talk shapes your nervous system • The connection between inner criticism and anxiety • Why harsh self-talk blocks manifestation • How to gently rewire your inner voice • Simple phrases to start speaking over yourself nowYou cannot create a peaceful life while waging war inside your own mind.It's time to make your inner voice sound like someone who loves you.In This Episode You'll Learn:✨ Why your thoughts are energetic instructions✨ How to notice your default internal dialogue✨ What to say instead of “I can't” or “I'm not enough”✨ How yoga and breathwork help soften inner criticism✨ A powerful self-love affirmation practiceJournal Prompts From This Episode: • What have I been saying to myself lately? • Would I speak to someone I love the way I speak to myself? • What loving phrase am I ready to adopt?⸻Affirmations From This Episode: • I speak to myself with kindness. • My words create my world. • I am gentle with myself. • I am worthy of love — especially my own.⸻Work With DawnIf this episode resonated with you and you're ready to: • Heal anxiety from the inside out • Shift your mindset and manifestation patterns • Experience yoga, Reiki, or sound healing • Or receive 1:1 manifestation coachingServices Offered By DawnDawn offers a range of services designed to help individuals harness the power of manifestation:1:1 Coaching: Personalized sessions to help women connect with their inner selves, prioritize emotions, and embrace their new manifested selves with love and peace.Reiki and Sound Healing: Energy healing sessions to balance emotions and promote holistic well-being.Workshops and Activations: Group activities that provide practical tools and techniques for effective manifestation.Yoga and Meditation: Practices aimed at enhancing mindfulness and relaxation, aiding the manifestation process.Connect with DawnFor more information or to schedule a session, reach out to Dawn at dawn@manifestmorewithdawnmaynor.com. Join the community and explore free resources available on Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, and TikTok.Share the LoveIf you enjoyed this episode, please share it with a friend or on social media. Your support helps spread the message of peace, purpose, and passion.Thank you for tuning in!Sending you all Love and Light, and remember to Manifest More with Dawn Maynor.LINKS:Dotterra GreensDoterra ElectrolytesThe Rest of the Water Fast Supplements here on my Amazon List!You don't have to do this alone.
Is low-carb better than low-fat? Should you be eating 120 grams of protein a day? The internet says yes, but the science says it's not that simple. In this episode, Dr. Lisa Oldson digs into Dr. Kevin Hall's groundbreaking NIH research to explain why your macro ratio matters far less than you think. The real key to weight loss? The quality of the food on your plate; not the ratio of macros in it. Plus, Dr. Lisa shares why she's never counted her own macros, what to know if you're on a GLP-1 medication, and how to find your NBA, your next best action, without overhauling your entire life.Thanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
Have you ever wondered what it truly means to live life free? To live a life unhindered and unobstructed, in this show, Dr. Self explores and explains why you're hindered and obstructed and how to break free and move forward without so many obstacles blocking your path. Gal 5:1 It was for freedom that Christ set us free; therefore keep standing firm and do not be subject again to a yoke of slavery. Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website: https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
What does it really take to build a long-term, sustainable business in Direct Selling - especially when motivation dips and things feel heavy? In this powerful episode of the Direct Selling Accelerator Podcast, I’m joined by Zelia Malherbe, a Norwex leader with over 16 years of experience navigating growth, leadership, and change in the industry. Zelia shares her honest journey from introverted beginnings to leading with confidence, why simplicity always outperforms complexity, and how real connection - not social media broadcasting - builds lasting success. We unpack motivation vs discipline, the importance of systems, personal development, conferences, and why Direct Selling remains a people-first business. If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or questioning your next step, this episode will ground you, refocus you, and remind you that consistent small actions truly compound to make a difference. Grab a cuppa and a notebook - this conversation is packed with wisdom you can implement immediately. We’ll be talking about: ➡ [00:00] Why Direct Selling Can Feel Lonely — And How to Change That ➡ [02:47] Introducing Zelia Malherbe & Her 16-Year Journey ➡ [04:12] From Hobby to Real Business: The Conference Turning Point ➡ [06:00] Why Conferences Still Matter in Direct Selling ➡ [08:54] Introvert to Leader: Borrowing Confidence ➡ [11:24] Why Simplicity Wins in Business ➡ [13:00] The Social Media Broadcasting Trap ➡ [14:24] Language, Self-Talk & Consistency Over Intensity ➡ [16:21] Simple Daily Systems That Build Momentum ➡ [18:57] Why Personal Conversations Beat Social Media Posts ➡ [21:45] Motivation vs Discipline: What to Rely On ➡ [25:12] The Future of the Direct Selling Industry ➡ [30:24] Leading Yourself Before Leading Others ➡ [33:09] Coaching, Mentorship & Personal Development ➡ [36:51] Zelia Malherbe’s Favourite Books ➡ [37:39] Zelia Malherbe’s Favourite Quote ➡ [37:54] Zelia Malherbe’s Superpower ➡ [38:30] Zelia Malherbe’s Advice She’d Give Her Past Self ➡ [39:09] Final Advice for Direct Sellers Feeling Stuck ➡ [40:27] Final Thoughts Resources Recommended Book: ➡ Atomic Habits — James Clear: https://bit.ly/49FT84X ➡ Let Them — Mel Robbins: https://bit.ly/4sZ2Zuf Quotes:➡ “If it’s to be, it’s up to me.” About our guest: Zelia Malherbe is a Senior Leader with Norwex and leader of Team Impact, a high-performing community of consultants focused on sustainable growth, strong culture and values-driven leadership. With more than 16 years in the business, Zelia mentors leaders across Australia and New Zealand in building consistent bookings, customer care systems, and confident team leadership. Known for her steady, grounded style, she believes that long-term success comes from integrity, service and consistent action rather than hype or shortcuts. Connect with Zelia Malherbe: ➡ Zelia Malherbe’s Website: https://zelia.norwexbiz.com.au/ ➡ Zelia Malherbe’s Facebook: www.facebook.com/CleanCloth ➡ Zelia Malherbe’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/zeliamalherbe Connect with Norwex ➡ X: https://x.com/norwex ➡ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/norwexaunz/ ➡ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NorwexAustralia ➡ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/norwex-anz/ ➡ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/norwexaustralia ➡ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/norwex/ Connect with Direct Selling Accelerator: ➡ Visit our website: https://www.auxano.global/ ➡ Subscribe to YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/DirectSellingAccelerator ➡ Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/auxanomarketing/ ➡ Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/auxanomarketing/ ➡ Email us at communnity_manager@auxano.global If you have any podcast suggestions or things you’d like to learn about specifically, please send us an email at the address above. And if you liked this episode, please don’t forget to subscribe, tune in, and share this podcast. Are you ready to join the Auxano Family to get live weekly training, support and the latest proven posting strategies to get leads and sales right now - find out more here https://go.auxano.global/welcomeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
This is a recording of a Viewer Questions livestream from Youtube. With Jocelyne & Corey in this live stream. In this stream we primality discuss viewers dating and relationship questions. But we also talk about how to improve your life, financial help and world events. If you enjoy lively conversation and want your questions answered in real time, click on this link to watch upcoming live streams and be part of the conversation: https://www.youtube.com/@CoachCoreyWayne/streams
Have you noticed how negative your own self-talk can be? We say, “A REAL Christian wouldn’t think or say that!” If only we could replace that garbage talk with biblical talk. This week on The Land and the Book, we’ll explore Powerful Self-Talk from the Psalms. You’ll walk away with tools to anchor your mind in David’s words—biblical words. Let’s think better! We’ll help you as you join us for The Land and the Book.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/landandthebookSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The noise at the Super Bowl can be overwhelming—tens of thousands of voices colliding into a single roar. But the loudest voice a player hears isn't coming from the stands. It's the one inside their own head.In this episode of The Game Inside the Games, Dr. Michael Gervais and All-Pro wide receiver Brandon Marshall sit down with former NFL MVP Cam Newton to explore one of the most overlooked forces in elite performance: self-talk.Rather than revisiting highlights or headlines, the conversation focuses on the internal dialogue that shapes performance in football's biggest moments. From the intensity of the Super Bowl stage to the quieter moments when doubt creeps in, Cam and Brandon share how the words athletes say to themselves can either steady them—or pull them out of the moment entirely.This is a candid, human conversation about confidence, pressure, imagination, and the unseen work required to stay grounded when everything is on the line. And while the stories come from the highest level of sport, the lessons reach far beyond the field—offering insight into how anyone can use self-talk to access their best when it matters most.Follow Finding Mastery all week as The Game Inside the Games continues to unpack the inner game at global sporting events,, available on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen._____________This episode is brought to you by CDW and Microsoft. AI is revolutionizing how work gets done. CDW and Microsoft can play a vital role in unlocking the transformative potential of Microsoft Copilot. By leveraging this technology, organizations can achieve significant productivity gains, enhance innovation and streamline workflows.Unlock opportunities to improve both employee and customer experiences when you partner with CDW to deploy your Copilot solutions. Our experts can help maximize the capabilities of Copilot, by building out roadmaps, use cases, and agent experiences that supercharge efficiency for your organization. Aka.ms/CDWMicrosoftCopilotLearn more about CDW's internal Copilot adoption story: CDW rolls out Microsoft 365 Copilot to 10,000 employees, reporting 85% productivity gains | Microsoft Customer Stories_____________Links & ResourcesSubscribe to our Youtube Channel for more conversations at the intersection of high performance, leadership, and wellbeing: https://www.youtube.com/c/FindingMasteryGet exclusive discounts and support our amazing sponsors! Go to: https://findingmastery.com/sponsors/Subscribe to the Finding Mastery newsletter for weekly high performance insights: https://www.findingmastery.com/newsletter Download Dr. Mike's Morning Mindset Routine: findingmastery.com/morningmindset Follow on YouTube, Instagram, LinkedIn, and XSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Nutrition Nugget! Bite-sized bonus episodes offer tips, tricks and approachable science. This week, Jenn is talking about the C-C-C, which stands for Catch, Challenge, Change. Do your negative thoughts secretly sabotage your health goals? When that inner voice says "you're too busy," "you have no willpower," or "you've failed again," is it telling the truth or just repeating old patterns that hold you back? Jenn introduces a practical mental tool to interrupt the defeating thought loops we all experience on our wellness journeys. But here's the real question: are you actually too tired for that workout, or is something else going on? Could the "evidence" of failure actually be hiding signs of progress you're refusing to see? Jenn breaks down how to catch these negative thoughts in action, challenge the beliefs behind them, and ultimately transform your inner dialogue. But the approach might surprise you. Is it really about being "1% better every day," or is there a more realistic way to build mental toughness without the pressure? Like what you're hearing? Be sure to check out the full-length episodes of new releases every Wednesday. Have an idea for a nutrition nugget? Submit it here: https://asaladwithasideoffries.com/index.php/contact/ RESOURCES:Become a Happy Healthy Hub MemberJenn's Free Menu PlanA Salad With a Side of FriesA Salad With A Side Of Fries MerchA Salad With a Side of Fries InstagramKEYWORDS: Jenn Trepeck, Nutrition Nugget, Salad With A Side Of Fries, Health Tips, Wellness Tips, Negative Self-Talk. Catch, Challenge, Change, Mental Framework, Thought Patterns, Old Habits, Inner Dialogue, Limiting Beliefs, Self-Talk, Wellness Mindset, Weight Loss Mindset, Positive Thinking, Mental Toughness, Cognitive Reframing, Healthy Mindset, Behavior Change, Self-Sabotage, Motivation Strategies, Willpower Myths, Progress Tracking, Mindset Shift, Personal Growth, Mental Health Tools, Habit Building, Wellness Journey, Diet Culture, Fitness Goals, Self-Compassion, Negative Thoughts, Brain Patterns, Thought Management, Success Mindset, Health Goals, Mental Strength, Lifestyle Change, Wellness Tips, Healthy Habits, Self-Improvement, Goal Setting, Mindful Eating, Weight Management, Personal Development, How To Challenge Negative Thoughts About Dieting, Overcoming Limiting Beliefs In Weight Loss
Discover the powerful connection between weight loss, exercise, and cancer risk. Dr. Lisa Oldson breaks down the latest research showing how intentional weight loss, whether through lifestyle changes, GLP-1 medications, or bariatric surgery, can significantly reduce your risk of 13 different types of cancer. Learn why exercise is one of the most effective tools for both preventing cancer and improving outcomes after diagnosis, with reductions in recurrence rates of up to 48%. This episode empowers you with five actionable strategies you can implement today to lower your cancer risk and lengthen your health span.Thanks for listening! If you'd like more support during your SMART weight loss & health focused journey, sign up for our FREE newsletter, or check out our program at: www.SmartWeightLossCoaching.com. We would love to help you reach your happy weight, and transform the way you talk to yourself about your body and the number on the scale. Negative thoughts about yourself don't have to take up so much brain space, and we'd be honored to help you reframe those thoughts. Also…We'd be grateful if you'd follow us and share our podcast with your friends & family. We're here to help you improve your health, live longer, healthier, and lose weight the SMART way! This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.
Have you ever wondered why you get triggered or overreact in certain situations? Perhaps you've witnessed someone else overreacting, or maybe you have reacted poorly yourself and later regretted it. You might have even been affected by someone else's triggers. Dr. Ray explores how these reactions relate to demonic schemes. This vital show will help you recognize these patterns and find ways to break free. 2 Cor 2:11 so that no advantage would be taken of us by Satan, for we are not ignorant of his schemes. Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website: https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804 For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
If you've ever told yourself, "I just need to stay calm," you've been sold a half-truth. Because elite performers don't win by being calm. They win by using emotion as data—and refusing to let it drive the steering wheel. In this masterclass conversation, I sit down with Mindset and Performance Coach Collin Henderson to unpack what actually separates average performers from elite ones: not talent… not even skill… but the ability to reduce internal interference when pressure spikes—on the first tee, on the back nine, or in the biggest moments in business. We break down Collin's "4 levels of confidence," the #1 performance killer (FOPO: fear of other people's opinions), why your brain is always trying to keep you safe (even when it sabotages you), and how to build unshakable confidence through identity, self-talk, and a repeatable process. In this episode, you'll learn: Why emotional regulation isn't "staying calm," but staying in control How to perform confidently without feeling confident Collin's 4 levels of confidence—and why most people get trapped in levels 2–3 The equation that explains choking under pressure: Talent + Skill – Internal Interference How to kill FOPO and stop playing golf (and life) like you're being judged by a panel Why identity is the true ceiling—and how to change it The simple framework to shift your "don'ts" into "do's" and stop carving failure into your nervous system Get your pencils ready and start listening. P.S. UPDATE: I have decided to start anew on Instagram. Follow me @thepaulsalter for your daily dose of high-performance wisdom, insights, and actions. P.P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. Apply for 1-1 Mindset and Performance Coaching: Click here to apply to work with me. More About Collin Collin Henderson is the founder and CEO of Master Your Mindset, LLC, and one of today's leading voices in mental conditioning. A former two-sport Division I athlete and top-ranked medical sales professional, he left corporate success to coach elite performers full-time. Acclaimed broadcaster Jim Rome calls him "an authority of what matters most — an elite mindset." Collin has authored seven books, hosts the Master Your Mindset podcast, and has trained #1 NBA draft picks, Heisman finalists, and top performers across pro sports and Fortune 500 companies. His trainings have been utilized by organizations like Nike, Microsoft, Salesforce, Amazon, and Novartis. A proud family man and dad of five, Collin also loves Fruity Pebbles, pizza, Ted Lasso, and cute puppy videos on Instagram. Learn more about Collin by visiting his website. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my "Play Your Best Round" free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course. Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist Key Takeaways: Emotions are information, not instructions; use them as data without letting them dictate behavior. You don't have to feel great to perform great; elite performers execute through uncertainty and discomfort. Most people operate with conditional confidence, while unshakable confidence commits without needing results or validation. Talent plus skill minus internal interference determines execution probability, not talent alone. Fear of other people's opinions (FOPO) quietly sabotages performance, even though others are focused on themselves. Negative self-labels reinforce a fixed identity and set a ceiling on performance. Scripted self-talk and repeatable processes prevent the mind from freelancing under pressure. Key Quotes: "Words are the language of the brain. Emotions are the language of the body." "You don't have to feel great to perform great." "If you can't control your state, you can't control your performance." "If you want to change your psychology, use your physiology." "Talent plus skill minus internal interference equals execution probability." "You never outperform your self-image." Time Stamps: 00:00: Understanding Emotional Regulation 03:01: The Four Levels of Confidence 05:42: Building Unshakable Confidence 08:22: The Impact of Internal Interference 11:04: The Role of Identity in Confidence 13:42: Self-Talk and Performance 16:32: The Importance of Process in Golf 19:15: Cognitive Diffusion and Overcoming Interference 21:08: Reframing Self-Talk for Success 24:05: The Power of Self-Image and Self-Talk 27:52: Creating a Reset Routine for Performance 29:13: Managing Pressure and Mental Interference 32:44: Detaching Self-Worth from Results 36:40: Building a Balanced Identity 39:34: The Importance of Mindset Training 43:07: The Process of Figuring It Out
Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you.Okay, you spotted the victim habit. Now what? If you listened to episode 66 and thought, "that is me,” this is your next step.If you have been in divorce stress, family conflict, or a rough life season, it is so easy to slip into patterns that keep you stuck, right? Not because you're weak. Because your brain is trying to protect you. But protection and progress are not the same thing.In this episode, I walk you through the ways you can disrupt the victim habits that are holding you back. These shifts in your thinking help you get your footing back (yes!), change the pattern, and start moving forward again…. without having to overhaul your whole life overnight.Want to get out of your own way? We talk about:How to spot the moment you are sliding into an old patternThe small changes that create momentum… fastWhy your environment and your inner circle matter more than people realizeWhat to do when you know better but still keep doing the same thingA mindset shift that helps you stop beating yourself up and start taking actionRESOURCESMEDIATION STARTER GUIDE: https://mailchi.mp/2939c428981d/mediation-resourcesKELLY'S BOOK: Victim Is Not Your Name https://a.co/d/e4VguRkAMEN CLINICS: (Dr. Daniel Amen): https://www.amenclinics.comBOOK MENTIONED: Resilient, Rick Hanson PhD https://a.co/d/05blH36PLEGAL & MEDIATION HELP: https://saperelawfirm.comINSTAGRAM: https://instagram.com/saperelawfirmFACEBOOK: https://facebook.com/saperelawfirm
It's been a minute since I've dropped a new episode. I will be back soon with brand new episodes for you. For now, I wanted to share my most recent interview with Emily Hirsch of the Embodied CEO podcast. We recorded this three months ago and then she asked me to speak at her live event in Austin, TX!I really hope our conversation inspires you to use your voice, get on camera, and unapologetically say the thing you know you need to say, OUT LOUD.If this episode stirred something in you, then you belong inside The Out Loud School, my global voice + visibility membership. Join us here. Send us Fan Mail Support the showResources + Links
Send Rachel a text message.It's not that you must be free from fear… What is needed rather than running away or controlling or suppressing or any other resistance is understanding fear; that means watch it; learn about it; come directly into contact with it.—J. KrishnamurtiWhat if fear isn't something to eliminate—but something asking to be seen?In this episode of Self Talk, we explore the transformative practice of bringing our fears closer rather than avoiding them. When fear is met with presence and curiosity, it loses its power to hijack our inner world and instead becomes a source of insight, integration, and self-trust.Together, we'll look at why we avoid fear, how avoidance quietly shapes our behavior, and how welcoming even the most uncomfortable parts of ourselves creates inner transparency and resilience. At the heart of it all is the Foundation of Self: the understanding that each of us is a unique expression of Pure Consciousness—and nothing within us is separate or unworthy of belonging.EPISODE TIMELINE[0:00:00 – 0:00:38] Opening & ThemeKrishnamurti quote on understanding fear and brief introduction to the season's focus on practicing the foundation of self. The core theme of “bringing fear closer” is introduced.[0:00:38 – 0:03:10] Fear as ProtectionFear is framed as an evolutionary protection mechanism. Its role in the nervous system and its destabilizing psychological impact are outlined.[0:03:10 – 0:05:40] Underdeveloped Ego & AvoidanceThe underdeveloped ego is described as equating fear with danger and annihilation. Common avoidance patterns—distraction, overworking, numbing, and spiritual bypassing—are named.[0:05:40 – 0:07:50] Unnamed Fear & AnxietyUnacknowledged fear is shown to become anxiety and other symptoms like irritability and self-sabotage. A client story illustrates how vague fear can be clarified into a specific, workable concern.[0:07:50 – 0:09:40] Fear as a Frightened ChildFear is reimagined as a frightened child seeking reassurance. “Bringing it closer” is presented as turning toward fear with steadiness and curiosity, held by the larger Self.[0:09:40 – 0:12:20] Naming & Integrating FearThe importance of naming and feeling fear without judgment is highlighted. Fear is shown to carry old stories that can be updated when brought into conscious awareness.[0:12:20 – 0:15:00] Wholeness & CongruencyHealing is framed as integrating, not eliminating, inner parts. The “cottage of the self” metaphor illustrates welcoming all parts to create congruency between inner and outer life.[0:15:00 – 0:18:00] Consciousness & BelongingEach person is described as a unique expression of pure consciousness. From this view, nothing within is foreign, and fear loses power to enforce a sense of isolation.[0:18:00 – 0:20:00] Daily Practice InvitationListeners are invited to notice one moment of fear and gently bring it closer. Simple witnessing with non-judgment is offered as a daily integrative practice.Got a question about your self? Send it to me at rachel@selftalkpodcast.com and it may be featured on a future episode. Support the showContinue working with Rachel at foundationofself.com • Subscribe here, at youtube.com/@selftalkpodcast, or wherever you get podcasts. •Music:"Ave Marimba"Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0
Here's the myth we've all been sold:If your motivation fades, you didn't want the goal badly enough.But motivation is emotional. It's fueled by novelty, excitement, and fresh starts — which is why January feels so powerful. February is when reality sets in.Research shows that most goals fade by mid-February, not because people stop caring, but because motivation was doing all the heavy lifting.And for high-achieving women especially:we internalize setbacks as personal failurewe expect ourselves to push through instead of redesignand we confuse inconsistency with lack of disciplineIf this is sounding familiar, pause here — this is not a you problem. It's a strategy problem.3 STRATEGIES TO BUILD GOALS THAT DON'T RELY ON MOTIVATION1️⃣ Replace Motivation with StructureMotivation asks, “Do I feel like it today?” Structure asks, “What's the plan when I don't?”Goals that survive February are built on routines, decisions made in advance, and small, repeatable actions — not willpower.2️⃣ Stop Treating Setbacks Like a Personality FlawSo many women interpret a missed week or slow progress as proof:“I'm just not disciplined.”“I always fall off.”“This is why I shouldn't even try.”Progress isn't about perfection — it's about recovery.3️⃣ Design Goals for Real Life, Not Ideal LifeThe most sustainable goals aren't extreme — they're flexible.They assume:work gets busyenergy fluctuateslife interruptsGoals don't fail because people are weak — they fail because they were designed for perfect days instead of real ones.Workshop Invite Just for You + Coupon Code:If one of your goals this year is to feel more confident, more present, and more in control of how you show up — especially at work — I want to invite you to join us for an upcoming workshop called “The Confidence Advantage: 5 Body Language Secrets That Transform Every Conversation.”This workshop is all about understanding how confidence is communicated before you even say a word — through posture, eye contact, facial awareness, and body language — and how small, intentional shifts can dramatically change how you're perceived. Use Coupon Code VIP20 for 20% off your ticket as a thank you for being an audience member!Workshop Link: https://www.drdawnshoptalk.com/workshopsVideos Mentioned Today:New Year New You - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yvN0HAQEjwMGuilt in Your Way? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lpCGplSSPC4Power of Self-Talk - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zSTC0CnKlkkCan't Finish What You Start? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jqOK47IeltMOther Episodes - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YaBdDqTo7qY&list=PLdguFjdYMwqWXnvIeSAIhDrtPdHdsLGdehttps://www.youtube.com/@drdawnshoptalk/podcasts
What changes when anxiety shows up—and you stop trying to outrun it, and start learning how to work with it?Dan Harris—journalist, bestselling author, and host of 10% Happier—returns to Finding Mastery to explore practical ways to work with anxiety. Dan unpacks how meditation, compassionate self-talk, and exposure built his capacity after a panic attack on live TV—and why curiosity is a powerful antidote to fear.Dan and Dr. Mike go beyond optimization into the human side: rebuilding from collapse, confronting panic (on planes, elevators, and big stages), and the daily reps that make composure more accessible. This is a grounded look at attention, identity, and training your inner life—without hacks or magical thinking.What you'll learnHow to use meditation as “bicep curls for the brain”Why self-talk (especially in third person) regulates panic in real timeThe key to working at your edge without traumatizing yourselfHow to turn exposure into confidence and capacityWhy curiosity beats cynicism for mental performanceAt its heart, this episode is a reminder: mastery isn't a shortcut; it's alignment between awareness, training, and what matters most._____________________________________________________________Links & ResourcesSubscribe to our Youtube Channel for more conversations at the intersection of high performance, leadership, and wellbeing: https://www.youtube.com/c/FindingMasteryGet exclusive discounts and support our amazing sponsors! Go to: https://findingmastery.com/sponsors/Subscribe to the Finding Mastery newsletter for weekly high performance insights: https://www.findingmastery.com/newsletter Download Dr. Mike's Morning Mindset Routine: findingmastery.com/morningmindset Follow on YouTube, Instagram, LinkedIn, and XDan Harris on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TenPercentHappierSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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