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As a special holiday celebration and the END OF OUR FIRST SEASON!!! We review the holiday "classic" Love Actually. We look at each relationship, and ask the question, "Ummmm, is this love, actually?" Come hang with us this holiday season and question what messages all of those holiday movies are spewing all over us like snow on Christmas Eve. Happy Holidays Everyone! Jenn and Amy' Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

 In this episode Amy gets interviewed by Sarah K. Ramsey, toxic relationship specialist and host of the podcast “Toxic Person Proof.” We chat about the lies we tell ourselves that stop us from getting the relationship we want. Enjoy! Jenn and Amy www.successfulsinglefemale.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

'Tis a holiday season like no other... In this episode we discuss how to survive the holidays as a successful, single female, ESPECIALLY with the unique circumstances of the holidays in 2020.   We cover: Your annoying aunt who keeps asking you when you are going to find a guy. How to avoid the depressing rom-com vortex How to connect with others even when we are isolated How to connect with yourself How to give back (we mention virtual opportunities on volunteer match.org) How to productively navigate through this reflective season and make 2021 work for you! We wish you an insightful, cathartic and joyous holiday season! Jenn and Amy Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle www.successfulsinglefemale.org/programs --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

In this episode I interview Best Selling Author and Podcast host, Tiffany Johnson. At the age of 21, Tiffany’s adventure started in the search for self-discovery, as many young people do as a rite of passage. After leaving home at 17, going to university and falling in love with the wrong man, Tiffany was finally brave enough to leave and pursue adventure. She explored Europe in hope of finding her missing puzzle piece. And she found it, only the day before her life would change forever. Tiffany is a survivor from the 1999 Swiss Canyoning Disaster, where 21 young people lost their lives. It wasn’t until she returned home that the extent of her injuries were discovered.  5 broken bones, including a broken leg, dislocation to her jaw and soft tissue damage. Through damage sustained in the flood waters, her pancreas no longer works. Tiffany is now an insulin dependent diabetic. Like many survivors of this event and others similar to it, she also struggled with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. After months back home, she finally began to truly listen to her own inner voice. She realised that no matter how dire things seem, the human spirt can overcome anything. Her determination to live her best life, not just for herself but for her friends that were lost has showered her in determination for their story and hers to never be forgotten. And now it is time fo Tiffany to go back to the place that changed her life. Tiffany has shared her story on Channel 7 News, Sunrise and ABC Radio National. Her new book Brave Enough Now is on sale now. Tiffany presents her inspirational message based her themes of resilience, truth, and listening, helping audiences to make a positive change to their own lives. You can find Tiffany here: https://tiffanyjohnson.com.au And you can find her book and other tools for bravery here: https://whenwearebrave.com Here book can also be found on Amazon. Enjoy! Jenn and Amy  Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Today we release our episode a day early to discuss Clare Crawley's claims that she knew that Dale would be her husband the moment he stepped out of the limo. We also talk all things involving episodes 1-3: Yosef, strip dodgeball, and bachelor nation during Covid. Enjoy! -Jenn & Amy --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

This is the first installment of our episodes covering what we are watching/reading right now, and what the shows are saying about women and relationships.  Jenn covers Emily in Paris, and Amy covers The Mindy Project.   Some of the topics we cover: What women are considered attractive What women are considered acceptable for a relationship Why women like assholes The way the entertainment industry normalizes objectifying women Why women should fart! Enjoy! Amy and Jenn Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

In this episode, I chat with Lauren Paton, coach and energy therapist, about navigating the dating world as a woman who knows for sure that she does not want to have children.   We discuss: What influences make women believe that they SHOULD want to have children What society says about women who do not want to have children How online dating has made it more comfortable for women to date having made this choice The ease Lauren felt after making this decision and how women who want to have children can feel the same ease If you would like to hear more about Lauren and what she is up to, you can find her here: Website: ‪www.BeUnleashedCoaching.com‬ Instagram: ‪https://www.instagram.com/laurenpatoncoaching/‬ Facebook: ‪https://www.facebook.com/laurenpatoncoaching/‬ If you would like to hear more about how we can support you, check out our programs at www.successfulsinglefemale.com/programs Enjoy! Jenn and Amy Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

It's our 50th episode! And this is an important one- we discuss rejection, and how to manage dating without feeling its sting so intensely. In this episode we cover: The true impact rejection has on our ability to stick with dating and get what we want How we are unfortunately set up to be pummeled by the feel of being rejected What steps we can take to lessen the blow of rejection Why we are resistant to following steps How else we can help If you would like more support, check out our programs at www.successfulsinglefemale.com/programs Enjoy! Jenn & Amy Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

What rules do you think you have to follow in order to be seen as desirable and attractive? From the old school book that is actually called The Rules, to the more overt modern rules of showcasing you femininity, Janis and I have a candid insightful discussion about what these rules said, and the influence they have on women and relationships. In this episode we are reviewing Janis's article F*ck Dating Rules: This is the Only Rule You Need that is published in the elephant journal. Janis shares her insights from being in the dating world for over 25 years, and openly shares her journey to authenticity and self acceptance so we can reflect and grow as well. You can find Janis in the following ways: mybodycouture.com Facebook: Facebook.com/mybodycouture Instagram: Instagram.com/mybodycouture Twitter: twitter.com/mybodycouture Elephant Journal: https://www.elephantjournal.com/author/janis_isaman/ LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/jisaman YouTube: https://m.youtube.com/user/janisisaman Enjoy! Jenn and Amy Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle www.successfulsinglefemale.com/programs --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

In this episode we review Dr. Ramani's video: What Type of People Attract Narcissists? We review the 5 personality and situational signs that might make you more susceptible to attracting someone who is narcissistic.  We also share ways to be on guard so, if you have these traits, you can arm yourself from falling into a relationship with a narcissit. Tune in to get all of this information. Jenn and Amy Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Have you just gone through a breakup, or do you feel like you can't get over a past relationship? If so, we are here to help! In this episode, we go through the 4 step process to go through a breakup: Feel, Celebrate, Reflect, and Plan. In addition, we discuss the signs that let you know you missed a step and signs that you are hanging in one of the steps for too long! To learn more about our flagship program that is mentioned in this episode, go to www.successfulsinglefemale.com/programs or click here. For our Inner Work mini program, go tohttps://www.successfulsinglefemale.com/offers/YZvnvfHJ or click here Jenn & Amy Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

In our instagram stories, we asked whether you though you could find love during the time of virtual dating, and a whopping 74% of you said NO! So, we hopped on here to tell you why that is not true! We go through 5 reasons Virtual Dating is AWESOME, and 5 pitfalls to look out for (and solutions to those pitfalls) when virtual dating. So many goodies in this episode! Enjoy! Jenn & Amy Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Nice jacket; Wanna F&%$? In this episode we look at S1, E2 of Netflix's Reality Show: Dating Around which features Lex. We discuss topics like: Assessing whether your first date nerves are reflecting who you really are or getting in your way, the importance of being self reflective during the dating process, picking up on micro and macro expressions on the first date, the awkwardness of being serenaded, sequin bomber jackets, and our favorite super villains, And much more! Even Bebe C weighs in! Check it out and let us know what you think! Jenn and Amy Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

In this episode, we review Season 1, Episode 1 of the Netflix reality show, Dating Around. We discuss the premise of the show, and we take a close look at the first date flirting style of the women on the show. We get to see, first hand, how nervous we all get on date one (not to mention when there are cameras following you around!), and how we act when we are trying to connect with or attract someone else. From guarded, to ironic, to no filter flirt, to abrasiveness, we have got it all here! So much so, that at the start of the episode, we say we are going to review Luke and Lex's episode, but we run out of time! Enjoy our deconstruction of flirting styles, and see if you can see yourself in anyone here! Jenn and Amy Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

In this episode I (Amy) interview Yael Rosenstock Gonzales, a sex educator researcher coach and author founder of Kaleidoscope Vibrations, a company dedicated to supporting people in finding confidence in their identities through which they can find community and build representation. In this episode we discuss How we form our identities when we are younger How we are forced into identities and how the static nature of identities are for other's convenience How those perceptions influence us later in life What we are told femininity should look or feel like, and what happens when we do not look or feel that way How two separate people can perceive the same experience differently Yael and I discuss these intense topics, that influence how we see ourselves and therefore influence how we present ourselves in the world and who we attract into our lives. And we address these topics by discussing the 1990's sitcom, The Nanny, and how we each received messages about what it means to be a sexy Jewish woman in very different ways because of our upbringings, our influences and our genetics. Tune in for this very raw and real conversation and let the self reflection begin! If you would like to connect with Yael, you can follow her on Instagram @yaelthesexgeek or find her goodies on her link tree at linktr.ee/yaelthesexgeek Enjoy! Jenn & Amy Successful, Single & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

In this episode, I chat with Veronika Winski, who works with corporate women to help them recondition unhealthy mindsets and behavior patterns and step into their dream lives. In our conversation we discuss how scary it can be to leave what is comfortable and move towards what we deep inside know we need- and that this is true in our careers and in our relationships. We also discuss how, if we do not feel like we fit into the "norm" (aka what is expected of us as women) we sometimes bring a combative energy with us, because we are expecting to be rejected because we don't fit the right mold. Check out our full conversation here, and let us know what you think! If you would like to connect with Veronika, you can find her here: Free Reinvention guide https://www.thedreamlifeformula.com/reinvention-guide Website: www.TheDreamLifeFormula.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheDreamLifeFormula Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedreamlifeformula.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/veronikawinski/ Enjoy! Jenn & Amy Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

In this episode Amber Renae and I speak all things self-love.  Amber is a civil engineer, acclaimed fashion stylist and leading e-learning specialist from Australia. With three six-figure businesses under her belt, she has defied all the odds and challenges thrown her way to crack the entrepreneurial code and design her own dream life.  Amber is a huge advocate for self-love. Life isn’t about waiting for ‘the one’ to swoop in. It’s about realising that we are born complete and that the feeling of completeness people try to find in others really comes from within. Relationships can trick you into throwing your power away and to define your happiness according to another person, but Amber decided to take her power back. She got down on one knee, bought herself a beautiful ring and made a commitment to herself. That commitment was to put herself first, put her happiness first and achieve complete self-love and self-acceptance.  Since her self-proposal in 2016, Amber has made it her mission to help empower people all over the world to take control of their lives, careers and mindsets. She’s done this through several hugely successful e-courses, and most recently was chosen as the leading expert to create an online education program for a new reality series. Dream Life Los Angeles which premiered on the FYI Network last Sunday. The show follows Amber and her team members as they build this program and see what it’s like to date in Hollywood. Now Amber is taking all her experience in love, life and career, and everything she’s experienced between home and Hollywood, and writing the ultimate book to help people create their own ‘dream life’.  Completeness starts from within, and Amber is empowering everyone to take that energy back and channel it into designing their own happiness by putting themselves first. It all starts with self-love and self-acceptance. In this episode we chat about so many things!  The biggest takeaways are: How she recovered from a history of toxic relationships and self hate How important it is to follow your heart, even if no one else seems to understand it Why it is important to be clear regarding what you want from a partner How to notice and push through what's blocking you from happiness How to face and overcome the fear that men are intimidated by success If you are interested in what Amber has to offer, check out her e-courses here. Enjoy! Jenn & Amy  Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

In our final review of the Netflix sensation, Indian Matchmaking, returning guest, Poornima and I (Amy) discuss:  When it’s the right time to reveal secrets of your past,  How we can be seduced by expectations to move forward in a situation that is not working,  Can you build your biz, be independent, and find a partner?  Enjoy!! Jenn and Amy Successful, Single,& Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Our short answer is...NO! We deconstruct the impact being told that you need to "increase your feminine energy" has on your psyche, your dating results, and the men you are dating.  And our conclusion is that it is not about increasing your feminine energy, it's about your authentic energy.  And just because you know who you are, that doesn't mean you know how to be who you are on a date or in a relationship! We discuss the work we did and the work we do with our clients to help them dig through some of their unhelpful stories to embrace who they are when they are dating!  And we are offering you a program that helps you do this for a limited amount of time for only $37! If you are ready to no longer allow your past pain to get in the way of your next relationship, and  if you are ready to get in touch with how awesome you are and what you deserve click here for our program while it is still available! Jenn & Amy Successful, Single, & Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

In this review, returning guest, Poornima and I (Amy) discuss the difference between matchmaking and an online algorithm (if there is a difference), the definition of Monster-in-law, and the toxicity of generations of women telling other women that they have to change and be flexible because their future husband’s lives will be more important than theirs. Oh yeah, I get pretty heated in this one. You don’t want to miss it! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

In this week's coaching episode, I have Alison Brown, Wealth Empowerment Coach and Real Estate Investor, who talks about the balance between having a relationship with money before getting into a relationship with a partner, but leaving room for a partner's relationship with money as well!   We chat money mindset and dating mindset, and if you want more of Alison, you can find her at simplyalisonbrown.com or you can join her FaceBook Group! If your job is empowering women and you would like to be a part of our podcast, send us an email ! Also, if you would like us to shout out your women run or supporting business- send us an email! Enjoy! Jenn & Amy Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Today we have a very special guest host, Poornima, our friend, and former client who worked our program so well that she was featured in the CNN article Is Social Distancing Good For Your Dating Life and, is now in a really fulfilling, committed relationship. So she weighs in with me on episodes 3 and 4 of Indian Matchmaking where we discuss how Aparna's quick with can come across as abrasive, and might be an unwanted defense mechanism that is not serving her; we debate if Nadia gave Vinay too many chances before moving on, and we weigh in on why so many viewers seem to be swooning over Vyasar!  For this and more check out this episode! Enjoy! Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Did you ever wonder where you got the message that guys would think you were awesome if you just made sure you never smiled, acted like you were never interested, and made your own, albeit really ugly prom dress?  If you were around to see the movies of the brat pack generation, then you were given HORRIBLE INFORMATION when it comes to relationships, love, friendship, and self worth. We go back into the archives to our first movie review to show how the movies of our past can have an intense impact on our lives as we look at the 80's classic: Pretty in Pink!  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Have you ever been called "too picky" when it comes to your dating style? Is your criteria helping you or working against you? Are the things on your list actually important elements to have in a successful relationship?  Are you using your list to help you find a match or  or are you using your list to be able to stay safe and single?  Today we review the first two episode of the new Netflix reality show: Indian Matchmaking! (We are LOVING this show!!) We discuss the following (and more): 1.  When is being selective ok, and what might be going on if you are being told that you are too picky. 2.  Appropriate conversations to have on a first date (when is it ok to reveal that you hate ketchup?). 3.  Signs that the date isn't going well. 4.  When you need to put a fingerprint-reading lock on your closet door. And if you have any other shows you want us to review or topics you want us to cover, you can email us at support@successfulsinglefemale.com. Enjoy! Jenn & amy Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Have you given up on dating? We polled our insta followers to find out why they have sworn off dating, and we found the results so interesting, that this podcast is dedicated to addressing their (and perhaps your) concerns. Is it because you feel that no men are attracted to you? We covered that. Is it because you feel that no one takes the process seriously? We covered that too! Come listen to those two topics and more! Jenn and Amy --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Have messages and lessons telling women that they are supposed to be coy and chaste left them unable to communicate openly with their partner?  In this episode, we look at the evolution of the Bachelor from the first season to today, and cover  interesting dating topics like the one above.  WE also touch on how much our sense of fashion has changes since 2002!  Finally we also discuss how, in the first season, norms were set, and how we too, navigate around and adapt to dating norms- some that work for us and some that work against us. Enjoy! Jenn and Amy  Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Courtney is back for an anniversary celebration!  One year after starting our program, Courtney looks over where she was (a self proclaimed "hater" of dating) and where she was able to get to (loving dating and now in a committed relationship) - even during a year with obstacles like quarantines and social distancing. This is the difference investing in yourself and your dating life can make!  What do you want your next year to look like? Click here to see what programs we are currently running, or email us if you are interested in being our next mastermind client. Jenn and Amy Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

We are taught that we should want a strong man who can provide for us and protect us, so how do we know when he a line is being crossed?  We discuss Chad in Jojo's season of The Bachelorette, analyzing his behavior on screen so we can share the red flags that let you now that he is more likely to put you in danger than he is to protect you. Oh, and we also talk about what real, authentic manliness is-and it's possibly not what you think (it is certainly not what Chris thinks)! Enjoy! Jenn and Amy Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Is your biological clock ticking (insert Marisa Tomei here)? Do you feel rushed to find a guy and lock it down so you still have time to have babies before you shrivel up?!?  We know we are being a little dramatic here, but this is a REAL concern that so many women have! How do you keep an open mind and make a sound decision when looking for a partner if you know your baby making days are numbered?!?!  In this episode, we look at this real question and concern that so many women have, and really discuss whether it is possible to date with a level head and pick a good partner with that annoying clock ticking away in the background!  Leave us a message and let us know what you thought! Jenn and Amy  Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Can you love someone if you don't love yourself? Ben Higgins was coined the man who feared he was "unloveable," when he was on Kaitlyn's season of the Bachelorette. So what did the network do? They made him the Bachelor! But can someone be ready to receive and give love if they think they are unloveable? We explore this question, along with digging into what happens when you are given a time line to say you love someone, and some other goodies that again show the major faults in trying to find love Bachelor style! If you need help loving yourself, check out our mini course: Before the Next Relationship: The Inner Work Enjoy! Jenn and Amy Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Do your friends tell you how awesome you are? Are they shocked that you are single? Do they tell you that you are amazing and any guy would be a fool not to see it? And yet, are the guys you actually find attractive just not reciprocating? Well, there is a REASON this is happening! We peel through the possibilities, and guess what? In the end your friends are NOT WRONG! You are awesome! You are just doing some things that prevents guys from seeing it that! Listen up ladies, and start attracting the attention you want today! XOXO, Jenn and Amy --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

What would men think if you embraced the power you had in the dating process and really took your time, without apology, to find out which partner is right for you? Well, we know Bachelor is not a true litmus test of society, but when Kaitlyn refused to be intimidated and swayed by the men on her season and made the moves she needed to figure out who she wanted to be with, the women were cheering and the men were pissed! We discuss this and more in our review of Episode 2 I The Best of The Bachelor: Kaitlyn's Season. Even if you do not watch the show, you will get something from this review! And if you have any other shows or movies you'd like us to review, leave us a message! For more support, find us at Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle! Enjoy! Amy and Jenn --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Do you feel like you have to play down your success when you are on a date or in a relationship? Have you been told before that you are alone because you are too successful and that is emasculating? Well, we say that is a crock of poo in the pile of poo we have been told as women in regards to finding a partner. In this episode we show you why this is a lie, and how to move forward in your dating, unapologetic for the awesome and successful person you are! Enjoy! Jenn and Amy Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

We dive into the issues we found in the premise of the Bachelor as a show, and then we review Episode 1 of The Best of the Bachelor: Sean Lowe.  We discuss chasing the guy, scarcity mentality, giving up the things you love for the guy, and playing the role of damsel in distress for attention. So  many goodies in this review! Enjoy! Jenn and Amy --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Are you in the middle of a fairy tale or at the beginning of a nightmare? We review the MedCircle video featuring Dr. Ramani entitled "How to Avoid Dating a Narcissist with Dr. Ramani" What are the signs that the guy in the bar is a narcissist? How have we been programed by Rom Coms and fairy tales to desire this behavior in the beginning of a relationship? What red flags should you be aware of? We answer all of these questions and more in this podcast. We give a shout out to Dr. Ramani and her wealth of knowledge surrounding Narcissism, and we encourage you to watch this video and more on youtube. Thank you Dr. Ramani for these wonderful videos! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Ever been called a needy or bitchy or a nag? Have you been in relationships where you silence your needs and wants to avoid these labels? If that sounds like you, you need to listen to this podcast. Surrounded by a review of the "delightful" Ron Com How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, we unpack hurtful labels like nag and bitch that have stripped women of their voices in relationships. We also deconstruct the love story between Andy and Ben and the messages it gives us about how a woman needs to look and behave in order to attract a man. And finally, we do have a giggle or two over Crawl the Warrior King! This is not just a movie review- it is an intense look at the stories we are told regarding how we need to be in order to find love. And and we are calling Bullshit on all of it! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Are you ready to get back out there but you are overwhelmed thinking about- How the hell am I supposed to do this?!?! Well, look no further! Today we peel through 6 Tips for Social Distance Dating. These tips include: how to stay safe, where to go and what to do, and how to know if he is just looking for a booty call! We also cover why now is actually an amazing time to be dating if you are looking for something long term! So come hang with us and get your date on! If you have any topics you want us to cover, or if you want any further support, email us at support@successfulsinglefemale.com or see what other goodies we have here: Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle Stay Safe! Jenn and Amy --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Jenn and Amy review Season 2, Episode 4 of Netflix's Thriller, You. In this episode, they discuss when it is (or is not) a good time to introduce a guy you are dating to your family. When is it too soon, and why is it ever too soon? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Jenn and Amy peel apart the lie that women tell themselves, "Guys Don't Like Me Because I am Too..." You can really fill in the blank with anything here: successful, fat, tall, loud, opinionated... this coaching podcast covers all of the above with an explanation of where that message came from, how we know it is a lie, and what you can do to heal from and change those hurtful beliefs. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Jenn and Amy Review Season 2, Episode 5 of Netflix's Romantic Thriller, You. They run through the gaslighting character traits and ask the question- Can some be gaslighting someone else without knowing it? There are some triggering topics in this episode, so be aware before you listen. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Jenn and Amy deconstruct the story women tell themselves that they do not have time to date. It's not about having time, but it's about figuring out how to keep your life and all of it's wonderful things in it AND date. If you feel like you just do not have time to date, you have to listen to this episode! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Did you binge watch Netflix's You? Did you ask yourself how these women fell for Joe?  Jenn and Amy dive into Season 2, Episode 1 and talk about all of the red flags and missteps that can land you with someone who is hiding something-even if that something is not a glass cage and a laundry list of dead bodies. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Have you given up on dating during social distancing? Are you nervous to try virtual dating? Today we interview one of our clients, Courtney, who went from in person dating to virtual dating and gives you the ins and outs of her experience. Before you finally decide to throw in the towel until life is "back to normal," you have to listen to this podcast. It is filled with so many goodies! Message us with your thoughts! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Jenn and Amy take a deeper look at the workshops shown on Too Hot to Handle. How much CAN you learn by rubbing mud on each other and staring at your vagina? You might be surprised with the answer! In this review we also deconstruct Francesca and Harry's relationship and Bryce's keyboarding "skills"! So many goodies-don't miss out! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Jenn and Amy deconstruct the mindset that ALL MEN ONLINE SUCK! They discuss how having this mindset can be impacting your return on the time you have been investing in finding a partner (DATING ROI). They also discuss the traps that you might be falling into in your dating profile that might be attracting the wrong guys! If you want even more help at the end of this training go to https://bit.ly/2YVmWXu or click on our link in the profile to get access to our Secrets to Make a Perfect Dating App Profile! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Jenn and Amy dive and and tear apart the Netflix's sexperiment: Too Hot to Handle. They discuss the shows premise, the characters and the happenings in this eight episode unfolding of what happens when you put a bunch of sex crazed self proclaimed pretty people on an island and then tell them that they can't have sex- not even with themselves. Tune in, laugh, learn and send a message! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

In this episode, Jenn and Amy dive into the struggle women have- "Am I going to spend my entire life looking for someone I'll never find, or should I just give up on dating and looking all together and just enjoy what is infant of me?" They have an answer for you- and it's probably not what you think! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Jenn and Amy deep dive into the 90's Rom Com Classic: 10 Things I Hate About You in a hilarious and relationship way. No relationship is left unturned. Laugh and learn with them! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Do you come out of relationships only to realize that there was a person you had been missing the entire time you were in one...YOU??? If you tend to lose your identity when you are in a relationship and feel like you can either be yourself OR be in a relationship, you NEED to hear this podcast. Jenn and Amy debunk the myth that strong, independent women with options and hobbies, cannot remain as such while in relationships. They also let you know why you are doing this, and how to turn the tables so you can have a partner AND remain true to who you are. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

So, we know that dating may have been put on the back burner during this time, and we know that NOT putting on a bra is a nice luxury to have but in this episode Jenn and Amy talk about the benefits of connecting with new people during this time of isolation.   --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support

Jenn and Amy discuss the very human desire to want to fill some of this alone time with an ex who "doesn't seem that bad" anymore. They discuss why you might be feeling that way, and how to capitalize on those feelings to catapult you into readiness for your next and better relationship! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/successfulsingle/support