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This video discusses what a narcissist thinks when you ask to get back together after a break up. Navigating narcissism often means understanding their thought processes during break ups and the importance of no contact. This self-development video will help you avoid falling back into a toxic relationship. Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
Why do we cling to people who hurt us? Why does the fear of abandonment feel so unbearable? In this episode, Lisa A. Romano, expert in trauma recovery and codependency healing, unpacks the powerful link between attachment theory and codependency. From early childhood dynamics to the subconscious fears that drive our adult relationships, Lisa breaks down how insecure attachment styles—like anxious or avoidant—set the stage for emotional dependency, people-pleasing, and self-abandonment. If you've ever felt like you're addicted to love, overly responsible for others, or terrified of being alone, this episode will help you trace those patterns back to their origin—so you can begin to heal them. In this episode, you'll learn: What attachment theory is—and how it relates to codependency How unmet childhood needs create fear-based attachment styles Why codependents often attract emotionally unavailable partners How anxious attachment leads to over-functioning in relationships Steps to begin forming healthier, more secure connections This episode is for you if you: ✔️ Fear abandonment or rejection in relationships ✔️ Struggle to speak your truth or set healthy boundaries ✔️ Feel responsible for other people's emotions ✔️ Tend to give more than you receive in friendships or love Resources Mentioned:
Struggling with a narcissist who ignores your kindness and disrespects you?
https://www.davideclarkephd.comIn this episode, Dr. David Clarke discusses the critical distinction between genuine repentance and false repentance, particularly when dealing with a narcissist. He provides guidance on recognizing true change versus manipulation within toxic relationship dynamics. Gain insights on navigating these narcissistic relationships and understanding the patterns of narcissistic abuse. Narcissists are masters of fake repentance—tears, promises, and empty words designed to keep you stuck. But how do you know when it's real repentance versus a manipulative act? You'll learn: ✅ The 7 signs of true repentance (what genuine change actually looks like) ✅ The 7 signs of fake repentance (the classic narcissist performance) ✅ Why a full-blown narcissist will never truly repent or change ✅ How pastors, churches, and counselors often get it wrong—and why that keeps victims trapped ✅ How you can finally see the truth, stop being fooled, and take steps toward freedom
Submit your question be answered on air to the Fan Mail link below!Can you ever be “good enough” for a difficult mother? In this episode, psychotherapist Katherine Fabrizio, author of The Good Daughter Syndrome, reveals why empathic daughters feel trapped in cycles of guilt, exhaustion, and approval-seeking—and how to finally reclaim your power and identity. Tronick's Still (Blank) Face ExperimentPODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW Find it here: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse for the exclusive interview and weekly newsletter. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA
Welcome to the narcissist playbookThink you've never dated a narcissist? Think again. From love bombing to gaslighting to the classic “I'm sorry you feel that way” non-apology—these are the Top 5 Mind Games Narcissists Play that'll have you questioning your reality, your group chat, and maybe even your sanity. On today's episode, Violetta is breaking down their playbook, exposing every trick, and telling you exactly how to spot the BS before it wrecks your self-esteem. If you've ever left a date wondering if you're crazy… spoiler: you're not. He's just a narcissist.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This video discusses the greatest narcissist weakness and how it impacts their behavior. Gaining insight into the psychology of a narcissist can aid in narcissistic abuse recovery. Understanding this can be useful relationship advice for those dealing with these personalities and even hurting a narcissist. Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
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Do you ever wonder what really defines narcissism and high-conflict behavior — and how you can protect yourself when faced with it? In this episode, I sit down with Rebecca Zung to break it down in a way that's clear, empowering, and practical. Rebecca's journey is remarkable: once a college dropout and single mom, she went on to become one of the nation's most powerful attorneys and a bestselling author. She's now dedicated to helping people recognize toxic dynamics and learn how to negotiate with confidence. Her latest book, SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win, offers proven strategies that have reached millions through her podcast, YouTube channel, and writing. Together, we explore the key traits of narcissism, what makes someone high-conflict, and most importantly, what you can do to reclaim your power in the face of manipulation. Whether you're navigating a difficult relationship, workplace conflict, or just want to better understand human behavior, this conversation will give you tools to feel stronger, clearer, and more free
When a narcissist sees you happy with someone else.Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
This video provides honest insights, exploring the psychology behind how narcissists truly feel about themselves. Understanding narcissism and the potential red flags can be a crucial part of abuse recovery and healing from emotional abuse after leaving a toxic relationship. Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
In this podcast episode you'll learn: How narcissists use sex for power, validation, and punishment. Get my new video series, He's Not Changing https://dr-david-e-clarke-teaches-counseling.thinkific.com/courses/hes-not-changing The brain-chemistry trap: dopamine + oxytocin and the trauma bond. Why “great chemistry” ≠ love (it's intermittent reinforcement). The aftermath: shame, anxiety, dissociation, isolation, and self-blame. The spiritual impact of sexual sin and violated boundaries. How to start healing: no/low contact, detox from triggers, body-based recovery, prayer, safe community, and trauma-informed counseling. You are not broken—you've been conditioned. With truth, boundaries, and support, you can reclaim your peace, your body, and your future. Don't forget to subscribe to the Enough is Enough podcast for more content on escaping a toxic relationship and starting a new life. Gain valuable relationship advice rooted in Christian counseling. Visit my website for books, coaching, and video courses. https://www.davideclarkephd.com/
Subscribe in a reader If you’re trying to find yourself after abuse by a narcissist, this conversation with Johanna Lynn is exactly what you need. We talk about healing, rebuilding trust, and finally feeling whole again. In this episode, Johanna and I dive deep into what it means to untangle yourself from a narcissist […] The post How to Find Yourself After Abuse by a Narcissist | Healing with Johanna Lynn appeared first on Narcissist Abuse Support.
In this episode of the Post Narc Life podcast, Laura Bytheway discusses the emotional turmoil of dealing with the role of narcissists and the grief that often accompanies such relationships. She emphasizes that narcissists serve as catalysts for personal growth, helping individuals confront their own emotional wounds. The conversation explores the complexities of grief, the illusion of narcissists' happiness, and the importance of rebuilding self-worth. Laura encourages listeners to process their feelings of injustice and to focus on creating a fulfilling life beyond their past experiences with narcissism.Want help applying this to your journey?DM me on IG “HEAL” and I'll invite you to:A complimentary Voxer consultationSpecial access to my No More Breadcrumbs MasterclassTogether, we'll reclaim your caps in your life and business, emotional safety rooted in identity, hope, and spiritual sovereignty.Takeaways:Narcissists are not a problem; they are a curriculum for growth.Grief is essential for healing and personal development.Processing feelings of injustice is a crucial part of grief.Narcissists often move on quickly, leaving their partners in pain.Self-worth must be rebuilt after a relationship with a narcissist.Grief allows for the processing of deep emotional truths.Narcissists live in a fantasy world, avoiding real emotional connections.Healing requires facing uncomfortable emotions and truths.Letting go of the need for justice is vital for personal growth.Creating a new life after grief is possible and rewarding.
What happens when a narcissist realizes that you don't care anymore?Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
Leaving a covert narcissist isn't a single moment of walking out the door—it's a layered process that unfolds in stages. In this episode, I explore the three different ways survivors leave: physically, emotionally, and mentally. In physically abusive relationships, your body often leaves first for safety, while your heart and mind lag behind. In emotionally abusive relationships, your heart shuts down long before your body can walk away. And mentally? That's the hardest and final stage—when you finally kick them out of your head and reclaim your thoughts. Through stories, examples, and practical tools, I'll guide you through each stage of leaving. You'll learn why this process feels so different depending on the type of abuse, and how to give yourself grace along the way. Most importantly, you'll walk away with real strategies for physical safety, emotional boundaries, and mental freedom—plus a touch of humor to lighten the load. Your journey matters, and every step is part of your healing. DISCLAIMER: THE INFORMATION PROVIDED BY RENEE SWANSON, COVERT NARCISSISM PODCAST, AND CNG LIFE COACHING IS FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND IS NOT TO BE USED FOR DIAGNOSIS PURPOSES AND NOT INTENDED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR CLINICAL CARE. PLEASE CONSULT A HEALTH CARE PROVIDER FOR GUIDANCE SPECIFIC TO YOUR CASE. THIS MATERIAL DISCUSSES NARCISSISM IN GENERAL. RENEE SHARES STORIES FROM HER PERSONAL EXPERIENCES AS WELL AS FROM THOSE SHE HAS TALKED WITH FOR SEVERAL YEARS. HER MATERIAL DOES NOT CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON HAS NARCISSISM AND SHOULD NOT BE USED TO REFER TO ANY SPECIFIC PERSON AS HAVING NARCISSISM. PERMISSION IS NOT GRANTED TO LINK TO OR REPOST THIS MATERIAL TO SUPPORT AN ALLEGATION OR SUPPORT A CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON IS A NARCISSIST. THAT WOULD BE AN UNAUTHORIZED MISUSE OF THE MATERIAL AND INFORMATION PROVIDED.
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Submit your question be answered on air to the Fan Mail link below!This week's fan mail dives into two powerful questions about surviving emotional abuse.First, Dr. Kerry explores what it means when you stop crying—and why emotional shutdown can be a survival mechanism in toxic relationships. Then she tackles whether the sunk cost fallacy is really what keeps us stuck with a narcissist, or if something deeper is at play.Submit Your Question!If you would like your question addressed on air, please respond here! ****************************************Stay in Touch Dr. Kerry!YoutubeInstagramTikTokFacebookMore About Dr. KerryKerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D, a retired psychologist and author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships and deconstructing narcissism. Her blogs have been featured in Mamami, YourTango, Scary Mommy, and The Good Men Project. In Love You More, Dr. McAvoy gives an uncensored glimpse into her survival of narcissistic abuse, and her workbook, First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist, helps victims break free from the confusion common in abusive relationships. She hosts the Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse podcast and offers trauma-related advice on social media.Support the show
What really makes someone a narcissist, and why is it so hard to spot the red flags when you're the one in the relationship? In this episode, Chalene Johnson mixes storytelling with real talk about intuition, manipulation, and how predators can fool not just their victims but everyone around them. From DIY headboard projects gone sideways to a Hulu documentary that exposes chilling patterns, you'll hear why it's so important to trust your gut and let your closest friends call out what you might not want to see. If you've ever second-guessed yourself about a partner, or worried that AI and dating apps make it easier for bad actors to fake their way in, this conversation will give you perspective and protection.
This video explains why narcissists want you to be the one to break no contact after a toxic relationship. Understanding this behavior is key to avoiding further emotional abuse and navigating narcissism. Learn why you should never break no contact and text them first because it will set you up to be treated horribly. Thank you so much.Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
Discover the hidden weaknesses of narcissists that they desperately try to keep secret.
What if the one thing that could save your sanity at work isn't learning to “tough it out”—but actually doing the exact opposite? Dr. Laura Hamley Lovett spent 25 years studying toxic bosses and she's not just got the research, she's got the receipts from her own career. In this episode, she uncovers survival tactics you've probably never considered, reveals the surprising signs you might be walking into a toxic environment before you even accept the offer, and shares why the people who care the most often get targeted the hardest. But here's the twist: the real game-changer for escaping toxic leadership isn't what you think. Ready to find out what it is—and why it might change everything for your career and your mental health? In this episode, you will be able to: Discover how to survive toxic bosses and workplaces without losing your sanity or passion for your career. Learn strategies for navigating toxic leadership that protect your mental health and keep you moving forward. Spot red flags in job interviews early to avoid stepping into a toxic work environment. Understand the hidden impact toxic bosses have on your mental health and how to shield yourself from burnout. Build a supportive network that empowers you to stand strong against workplace toxicity and thrive. My special guest is Dr. Laura Hambley Lovett DR. LAURA HAMBLEY LOVETT is an organizational psychologist and thought leader sought-after internationally for her expertise on workplace culture, career development, toxic leadership, and burnout. Along with her 25 years of experience in her field, she holds a PhD in industrial/organizational psychology from the University of Calgary, where she is currently an adjunct professor. A passionate entrepreneur, she has founded several psychology practices in Canada and hosts the widely followed podcast Where Work Meets Life. In addition to I Wish I'd Quit Sooner, she has published two psychological thrillers, Losing Cadence and Finding Sophie, aimed at both captivating readers and raising awareness on important topics around mental health and domestic violence, currently being adapted for a TV series. Dr. Laura is also co-founder of the WITH HER movement focused on ending violence against women and girls. She received a Canadian Women of Inspiration Award as a Global Influencer in 2018. The key moments in this episode are: 00:01:20 - Defining Toxic Bosses vs Difficult Bosses with Dr. Laura Hambley Lovett 00:05:30 - Survival Strategies When Stuck with a Toxic Boss 00:11:40 - The Psychological Contract and Reframing Mindset to Cope 00:13:30 - Avoiding Toxic Bosses in Future Roles and Importance of Empathy 00:14:16 - Understanding Why Empaths Attract Toxic Bosses and Narcissists 00:16:01 - How to Avoid Reporting to a Toxic Boss: Due Diligence and Networking Strategies 00:18:21 - Assessing Workplace Culture and Leadership Authenticity Before Joining 00:22:37 - Why Organizations Retain Toxic Rock Star Leaders Despite Talent Loss 00:26:47 - Toxic Leadership's Role in Burnout and Effective Systemic Interventions 00:28:45 - Understanding Toxic Leadership and Generational Burnout 00:30:00 - Navigating Multi-Generational Workplaces and Emotional Intelligence 00:33:00 - Advocating for Workplace Flexibility and Neurodiversity Inclusion 00:36:00 - Eradicating Toxic Leadership for Healthy Organizational Culture 00:37:30 - Parallels Between Workplace Toxicity and Gender-Based Violence 00:42:43 - Recognizing and Overcoming Toxic Leadership in the Workplace Check out the exclusive bonus episode coming soon with Dr. Lovett on Patreon at www.patreon.com/theWorldofDifference. Pre-order or purchase Dr. Laura Hambley Lovett's book, I Wish I'd Quit Sooner, available for pre-order and soon on her website, Dr. Laura Live. Listen to the Where Work Meets Life podcast with Dr. Laura Hambley Lovett. Get 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp by signing up at www.betterhelp.com/difference. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
MEET AMERICA'S FIRST MILF. Before the trend, before the tag, before MILF was a household genre — there was Rachel Steele. This week, the legendary performer, producer, and adult innovator joins Dustin to talk about her decades-long career, from pioneering taboo content before it was cool to helping push the term “MILF” into the mainstream spotlight.We dive into her first-ever reverse gangbang for Adult Time, the wildest custom request she's ever received on OnlyFans, and how she continues to reinvent herself in both independent and studio content. Rachel also drops some real talk on how anyone — man or woman — can get into the world of content creation and make it their own.She's a pioneer, a powerhouse, and still pushing limits. This is the one that started it all.Welcome to EP 190: "First MILF" with Rachel Steele.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQListen to the showApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1607014303Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5HINKYCFqmamOuCRXmtS3gFollow Rachel SteeleInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachel_steelexoxo (@rachel_steelexoxo)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
n this raw and validating conversation, fitness expert and former pro athlete Holly Rilinger shares her first public telling of the emotional abuse she endured inside a long-term relationship that looked perfect on the outside.Holly opens up about how the relationship began with admiration and love bombing, then slowly eroded her confidence, identity, and sense of self. From subtle criticisms about her appearance to the complete absence of repair after conflict, she found herself living in constant fatigue, self-doubt, and silence — all while running a successful fitness business and motivating others to feel strong in their own skin.The discussion unpacks the patterns of narcissistic abuse, the manufactured discard, the loss of identity, and the physical toll of living in fight-or-flight for years. Holly reflects on the moment a friend finally witnessed the behavior, how she began waking up to the truth, and the small ways she's reclaiming her body, voice, and power in the seven months since leaving.If you've ever questioned your reality in a relationship that looked “fine” to the outside world but felt like slow erasure on the inside, Holly's story will remind you that you're not crazy — and that healing is possible.You can follow Holly here: https://www.theliftedmethodcoaching.com/Support the showJoin the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy *New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your Relationship Website: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse {E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner
This video addresses the question of whether you meant anything to a narcissist, which many survivors grapple with after experiencing a toxic relationship. Understanding the dynamics of narcissism can aid in healing from emotional abuse and rebuilding self worth. It's vital to remember your emotional well-being in these relationships.Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
Tracy talks with pyschologist Dr. Peter Salerno about the intersection of infidelity and personality disorders. A lot of conventional therapy assumes that clients lack insight into their behavior and that antisocial behavior is the result of childhood trauma. Dr. Salerno argues that this approach ignores the behavioral science of personality disorders. Manipulation, deception, and a pathological lack of remorse are hallmarks of narcissism and sociopathy and these abusive acts are intentional. And to a certain extent, even hard-wired. How does this science challenge the victim-blaming narratives around infidelity? Could the serial cheater, family abandoner, or deadbeat parent have a personality disorder? Do these manipulative characters keep you confused and hopeful on purpose? *** Peter Salerno, PsyD, is a retired licensed psychotherapist, trauma-informed educator, and the author of Nature and Nurture of Narcissism; and Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance: Healing from an Abusive Relationship with a Disordered Personality. Dr. Salerno has received specialized training in trauma treatment and personality disorders and was trained to administer and score the Hare Psychopathy Checklist-Revised (PCL-R), the international standard for the clinical and forensic assessment of psychopathy. He has treated mental health conditions in a variety of clinical settings. His first book, Fit For Off Duty, has been required reading for law enforcement officers at the FBI Academy in Quantico, Virginia. Dr. Salerno has consulted internationally for educational purposes with individuals who have experienced traumatic cognitive dissonance resulting from pathological relationship abuse. He is also a featured expert in the Hulu/Disney+ docuseries Ted Bundy: Dialogue with the Devil, where he contributed his expertise on psychopathy and personality pathology. Follow him at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno/ On Youtube https://www.youtube.com/@DrPeterSalerno
If you're curious as to if you have any stored emotions or trauma that might be causing your illness, preventing you from achieving your or even just showing up as the best, authentic version of yourself, I invite you to take my free Stored Emotions and Trauma QuizWhat if the very thing you think makes you sound credible is actually weakening your voice?In this episode, the spotlight is on overexplaining and how it sneaks into everyday conversations, from patient visits to talks with friends. Six root causes fuel this cycle, including toxic thought loops, gaslighting, family dynamics, and the fear of silence. Personal stories reveal how rambling dilutes authority and leadership, even when the intention is good. The brain's wiring for safety and early childhood patterns show why this habit is so hard to break, but there are two practical strategies that offer a way forward to stop the spiral, retrain the brain, and speak with clarity and confidence.You'll Learn:How to recognize the signs that you're overexplainingWhy the brain wires this habit as a safety mechanismThe six root causes that drive overexplaining (you might have more than one)How toxic thought patterns set the stage for ramblingWhat happens when gaslighting or narcissistic dynamics distort your truthWhy overexplaining can become a barrier when you haven't felt heardThe peacekeeper role and how blame can fuel overexplainingWhy being chatty often fills the silence and masks discomfortTwo ways to start overcoming the verbal vomit cycle todayTimestamps:[00:00] Introduction[06:02] How the brain wires overexplaining as a safety response[07:12] Toxic thought patterns as the first root cause[08:04] Being gaslit or living with a narcissist[10:57] Overexplaining as a barrier when you haven't been heard[12:34] Justification to prove worthiness or avoid judgment[14:05] The peacekeeper role and carrying blame[16:00] How chatty space-filling masks anxiety or discomfort[21:27] Neurodivergence and traumatic brain injury as factors[22:58] Two practical ways to disrupt and rewire the overexplaining cycleResources Mentioned:How Your Birthdate Can Reveal Patterns of Challenges and Transformation with Michelle Dowker | Spotify or AppleFind More From Dr. Stephanie Davis:Dr. Stephanie Davis | WebsiteQuantum Rx | InstagramQuantum Rx | Skool
This video discusses the worst things you can say to someone who experienced narcissistic abuse and/or domestic violence. It is important to be mindful when talking to survivors of a narcissist and those who have endured toxic relationships, especially if they are leaving a narcissist.Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
This video discusses the worst things you can say to someone who experienced narcissistic abuse and/or domestic violence. It is important to be mindful when talking to survivors of a narcissist and those who have endured toxic relationships, especially if they are leaving a narcissist.Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
Struggling with a narcissist who ignores your kindness and disrespects you?
Are you still hoping and praying the narcissist will change? In this video, Dr. David E. Clarke reveals his new online course “He's Not Changing”—a step-by-step plan to see the truth about narcissists, break the trauma bond, and reclaim your life from narcissistic abuse. ➡️ Pre-order now “He's Not Changing”: https://dr-david-e-clarke-teaches-counseling.thinkific.com/courses/hes-not-changing You'll learn: Why narcissists don't change (and how false hope keeps you stuck) The “Big Lie” that traps Christian women in abusive marriages How to identify a narcissist, detach emotionally, and fight the real spiritual battle What forgiveness is—and isn't—and how to get yourself back How this course walks you, step by step, toward clarity, safety, and freedom
Submit your question be answered on air to the Fan Mail link below!Going through a custody battle or divorce with a narcissist? The you know the legal system can feel stacked against you.This week, former family law judge and attorney Michele Locke reveals exactly how narcissists twist the truth, exploit legal loopholes, and weaponize the court process — and what you can do to outsmart them.Whether you're divorcing a narcissist, navigating parental alienation, or preparing for a high-conflict custody hearing, discover the insider tools to safeguard your case and your peace of mind.Podcast Extra Exclusive InterviewFind it here the exclusive interview and weekly newsletter.More About the Podcast Extra Interview
How to recognize a Narcissist
You've researched. You've reasoned. You've shown empathy. You've tried again and again to help them see the truth—about their behavior, the damage, the disconnection. But nothing changes. In this episode, Renee Swanson explores one of the most painful patterns survivors of covert narcissistic abuse face: the endless attempts to help, to explain, to connect—and the devastating realization that it never leads to real progress. Through personal stories, listener reflections, and a powerful metaphor about stalled software updates, Renee unpacks why covert narcissists rarely "wake up," even when the truth is laid out in front of them. She shares what happens when you finally name the problem… and they still don't (or won't) see it. And she reminds you that your growth, your healing, and your peace don't have to wait for someone else's transformation. Because when you're the only one trying, it's not a relationship—it's a rescue mission. DISCLAIMER:The information provided by Renee Swanson, Covert Narcissism Podcast, and CNG Life Coaching is for educational purposes only and is not to be used for diagnosis purposes and not intended to be a substitute for clinical care. Please consult a health care provider for guidance specific to your case. This material discusses narcissism in general. Renee shares stories from her personal experiences as well as from those she has talked with for several years. Her material does not claim that any specific person has narcissism and should not be used to refer to any specific person as having narcissism. Permission is not granted to link to or repost this material to support an allegation or support a claim that any specific person is a narcissist. That would be an unauthorized misuse of the material and information provided.
This video discusses 4 things that all narcissists have, according to a diagnosed narcissist. While every narcissist is different, these traits often stem from deep rooted insecurities and a pervasive fear of abandonment. Understanding these core issues can provide insight into their mental health.Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
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Why do narcissists want to be just like you? why do they copy your personality and start to act like when they try to make you feel bad about yourselfContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Dakota shares her story of dating a hero playing abuser. After years of battling alcohol addiction, Dakota was finally sober. She was living in a women's home, going to meetings, and taking long bus rides to see her beautiful child. Then one day, the abuser who pretended to be her hero, showed up to her meeting, swept her off her feet, and almost took her life. It's a story of guilt reverse psychology, minimization, invalidation, isolation, addiction, blame shifting, ptsd, shame, self esteem, sowing the seeds of doubt, coercive control, gaslighting, escape plans, and much more. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode has extremely graphic descriptions of physical abuse. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
If you're facing a narcissist in family court, divorce, custody battles, or legal disputes, you NEED these strategies. In this episode, Rebecca Zung reveals 5 proven courtroom tactics to take back your power
Turning Generational Pain Into Generational Healing w/Avonley LightstoneFrom suffering to strength—Our scars make us strongToday's guest is someone whose story will move you deeply and inspire you powerfully.Avonley Lightstone is the author of Strength of Scars, a raw and redemptive autobiography that takes readers through a childhood marked by tragedy, trauma, and abuse — and the unwavering faith that helped her rise from it all. At just three years old, she tried to save her mother from a house fire. Tragically, her mother didn't survive, and shortly after, her father placed her up for adoption.What followed was a journey through emotional, physical, and mental abuse — but also a path toward healing, resilience, and forgiveness. Through her book, her speaking, and her bold transparency, Avonley helps others find beauty in brokenness and strength through their scars.She's here today to share her powerful testimony, how God carried her through the darkest valleys, and how listeners can find freedom and purpose — no matter what they've been through.Links:https://www.avonleylightstone.com/https://www.instagram.com/avonleylightstone/Tags:Abuse Recovery,Childhood Trauma,Empowering,God,Inspiring,Life Mastery,Narcissist,Strengths Finder,Therapy,Trauma Recovery,Turning Generational Pain Into Generational Healing w/Avonley Lightstone,Live Video Podcast Interview,Phantom Electric Ghost Podcast,Podcast,Podmatch,InterviewSupport PEG by checking out our Sponsors:Download and use Newsly for free now from www.newsly.me or from the link in the description, and use promo code “GHOST” and receive a 1-month free premium subscription.The best tool for getting podcast guests:https://podmatch.com/signup/phantomelectricghostSubscribe to our Instagram for exclusive content:https://www.instagram.com/expansive_sound_experiments/Subscribe to our YouTube https://youtube.com/@phantomelectricghost?si=rEyT56WQvDsAoRprRSShttps://anchor.fm/s/3b31908/podcast/rssSubstackhttps://substack.com/@phantomelectricghost?utm_source=edit-profile-page
This video gives you the perspective of a self-aware narcissist about how a narcissist would show you love. It also answers the question "can a narcissist love you?" It provides relationship advice for those in a toxic relationship or dealing with toxic love.Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
Why do narcissists get worse when you leave them? Why do they overreact when you choose yourself and break up with them and choose a better life? Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
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Are you tired of the chaos, manipulation, and endless drama that narcissists create?
Content note: This episode discusses manipulative and abusive relationship dynamics that may be triggering for some readers. Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who made you question your own reality? Maybe it's romantic, familial, or even just a friendship where every disagreement somehow leaves you thinking, "Did I misremember that? I really thought I said that out loud... maybe I didn't?" If you're nodding your head right now, you're not alone. For years, my community has been asking me to break down how to identify narcissists and sociopaths because the confusion around these two personality types can literally be dangerous. When you can't tell what you're dealing with, you can't protect yourself effectively. After 25 years as a licensed psychotherapist, I've seen too many brilliant, capable people get trapped in relationships that slowly eroded their sense of self. The good news? Once you understand the key differences between narcissistic personality disorder and antisocial personality disorder (which includes sociopathy), you can spot the red flags early and protect your peace. Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/755
Ever wondered how to get a narcissist to do what you want? As a self aware narcissist, I'm here to give you some insight. Understanding how to potentially go about manipulating a narcissist may offer a different perspective on dealing with narcissistic abuse from the viewpoint of mental healness.Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
It's Episode 447 and we're just trying to feed our air hunger! This week Em brings the gradual gasps with the story of Jan Wolski and the Emilcin Abduction, a famous alien abduction case from Poland. Then Christine covers the tragic case of the Bishop Family Murders where the killer remains at-large to this day. And is anyone else hoping for a Hannah Montana Tour announcement? …and that's why we drink! Photo Links:The Emilcin alien drawingThe Emilcin hovercraft depictionSculpture in honor of the UFOEmilcin Alien sculptureThe Bishop FamilyWilliam Bradford Bishop, Jr Want to hear more from us? Subscribe to our bonus Yappy Hours on Patreon or Apple Podcasts! http://patreon.com/ATWWDPodcast___________________ Get $5 off your next order at http://magicspoon.com/drink Cancel your unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster with Rocket Money. Go to http://RocketMoney.com/drink today. That's http://hungryroot.com/drink , code DRINK to get 40% off your first box and a free item of your choice for life. Earn points on rent and around your neighborhood, wherever you call home, by going to http://joinbilt.com/DRINK Save 20% Off Honeylove by going to http://honeylove.com/drink ! #honeylovepod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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