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In this moving episode, Ramani Durvasula talks about narcissism that often comes with relationships. She breaks down manipulation, invalidation, and control patterns while explaining why these dynamics can leave people feeling disconnected from themselves. Through conversations on emotional abuse, self-worth, boundaries, and healing, Dr. Ramani offers a grounded framework for understanding narcissistic relationship patterns. This episode is a powerful reminder that naming what's happening is the first step toward reclaiming yourself. Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top-rated podcast. With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Microdose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought-provoking conversations…all in digestible 10-minute episodes.  Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday. If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify ⁠here⁠ and on Apple ⁠here⁠.  Sponsors: AirDoctor | Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code MICRODOSE to get $250 off select AirDoctor air purifiers, including the 3500, 4000, and 5500 models.

ரமணி நாடகக் குழுவில் வேலை செய்யும் ஒரு சுட்டிச் சிறுவன். மதுரநாயகம் அந்த நாடக சபையை நடத்தி வரும் கண்டிப்பான மேலாளர். இவர்கள் இருவருக்கும் இடையே நடக்கும் அந்த ஒரு நிமிடப் பரபரப்பு ரமணியின் தலையெழுத்தையே மாற்றப் போகிறது. ஒரு சிறிய நாடக மேடையில் தொடங்கிய இந்தச் சிறுவனின் பயணம், கடல் கடந்து பர்மா வரை எப்படிச் சென்றது? #tamilbooks #kidsstory #azhavalliyappa #burmaramani #deepikaarun #chittukuruvi #tamilpodcast #tamilaudiobookstory

Welcome back to part 2 of this POWERFUL episode of Women of Impact with the world's #1 narcissist expert, Dr. Ramani!And guys, we just. keep. frikin'. digging DEEPER into the complex emotions and feelings that come up when you're in a toxic relationship and how to heal from the abuse. We cover…- How shame deeply affects your actions AND the narcissist's actions - How confusion & despair wear down your spirit and energy for life- The 3 Rs that keep you trapped in the toxic web- How to finally move on with the “recover from the lie” method Don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Dr. Ramani. And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable!Follow Dr. Ramani:Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamaniOrder “It's Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fFollow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-ImprovementSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and today we're joined by the world's #1 narcissist expert who is here to help you actually heal and move on from narcissistic abuse!As a licensed clinical psychologist and expert in narcissistic relationships, Dr. Ramani digs deep into the behaviors and patterns that narcissists use every single day to manipulate the hell out of you and keep you sucked into the relationship. Most people don't know this about her, but my girl Dr. Ramani has actually been a victim of narcissistic abuse many times throughout her own life. And in this episode she is sharing some of the lessons she learned from her own experiences and the knock-on effects those experiences still have on her to this day.In this episode, we're diving into:- Societal myths about narcissists that diminish the seriousness of their abuse - The best way to approach someone you think is in a relationship with a narcissist (and how to respond if YOU'RE the one approached!)- The self-blame spiral that has you thinking it's YOUR fault & why you MUST escape it to take your power BACK from the narcissist!- AND SOOOO MUCH MORE!! And that's just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! So if you're ready to finally frikin' MOVE ON from that toxic person in your life then grab a cuppa and listen close homie, because this episode does NOT disappoint! Order your copy of Dr. Ramani's new book here: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fFollow Dr. Ramani:Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamaniOrder “It's Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fFollow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-ImprovementSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Some relationships leave us questioning whether love is enough to stay. In this conversation, Jay sits down with Dr. Ramani to explore the painful reality of family estrangement and the growing number of people considering no contact with those closest to them. Together, they unpack the difference between self-protection and punishment, why guilt often accompanies healthy boundaries, and how years of unresolved hurt can lead someone to step away from a relationship they once fought hard to save. Rather than offering simple answers, this episode invites a deeper reflection on safety, repair, accountability, and healing. It challenges the belief that family ties should come at the expense of your well-being and reminds us that choosing yourself is rarely easy. Whether you're navigating a difficult relationship, supporting someone who is, or trying to understand a loved one's decision, this conversation offers compassion, clarity, and the reassurance that healing doesn't always look the way we expect. In this episode you'll learn: How to Know When No Contact Is Necessary How to Stop Abandoning Yourself for Family How to Recognize When Repair Isn’t Working How to Handle Guilt After Going No Contact How to Protect Your Peace Around Toxic Relatives How to Navigate Family Pressure and Backlash How to Choose Self-Protection Over Self-Betrayal Not every relationship is meant to be kept at the cost of your peace. Sometimes healing means repairing a connection, and sometimes it means creating distance from what continues to hurt you. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty JAY’S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX Join 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe https://news.jayshetty.me/subscribe Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:29 What Does Going No Contact Really Mean? 06:24 When No Contact Becomes Your Only Option 08:10 Can a Broken Relationship Be Repaired? 11:40 The Most Common Reasons People Go No Contact 14:48 It's Not the Mistake, It's the Repair 17:01 Pay Attention to Your Why 21:58 Detaching from a Harmful Relationship 26:29 You Have to Do What Feels Right for You 30:12 When Family Requires Self-Abandonment 35:37 The Weight of Internal Shame 36:44 The Hidden Cost of Always Keeping the Peace 42:26 When Someone Cuts You Off Without Explanation 44:13 When Is It Time to Cut Off Contact? 48:01 But They're Family... 53:16 Building Your Chosen Family 55:05 No Contact vs. A Falling Out 55:54 The Silent Treatment Is a Form of Emotional Aggression 58:01 Are We Getting Worse at Repairing Relationships? 01:02:38 The Relief of Finally Deciding to Go No Contact 01:04:09 How to Repair a Relationship After Being Cut Off 01:05:37 Forgiveness Isn't Always Healthy 01:08:26 The Challenges of Trying to Heal Trauma 01:11:29 Why Some Parents Don't Understand Estrangement 01:13:13 Handling Family Backlash After Going No Contact 01:15:12 When a Parent Is Both Supportive and Harmful 01:17:54 When Breaking No Contact Is Worth Considering 01:19:26 Can a Narcissistic Parent Change? 01:22:16 Should You Invite an Estranged Family Member to Your Wedding? Episode Resources: Website | https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/doctorramani Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/ LinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/ramani-durvasula-4132067 TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@doctorramani X | https://x.com/DoctorRamaniSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

ரமணி நாடகக் குழுவில் வேலை செய்யும் ஒரு சுட்டிச் சிறுவன். மதுரநாயகம் அந்த நாடக சபையை நடத்தி வரும் கண்டிப்பான மேலாளர். இவர்கள் இருவருக்கும் இடையே நடக்கும் அந்த ஒரு நிமிடப் பரபரப்பு ரமணியின் தலையெழுத்தையே மாற்றப் போகிறது. ஒரு சிறிய நாடக மேடையில் தொடங்கிய இந்தச் சிறுவனின் பயணம், கடல் கடந்து பர்மா வரை எப்படிச் சென்றது? #tamilbooks #kidsstory #azhavalliyappa #burmaramani #deepikaarun #chittukuruvi #tamilpodcast #tamilaudiobookstory

What is the real difference between a psychopath, a sociopath, and antisocial personality disorder? In this episode, I respond to Dr. Ramani's claim that "psychopaths are born and sociopaths are made" and explain why that framing is far too simplistic. I also explain why cold psychopaths unsettle us so much and how antisocial personality disorder fits into this.    

ரமணி நாடகக் குழுவில் வேலை செய்யும் ஒரு சுட்டிச் சிறுவன். மதுரநாயகம் அந்த நாடக சபையை நடத்தி வரும் கண்டிப்பான மேலாளர். இவர்கள் இருவருக்கும் இடையே நடக்கும் அந்த ஒரு நிமிடப் பரபரப்பு ரமணியின் தலையெழுத்தையே மாற்றப் போகிறது. ஒரு சிறிய நாடக மேடையில் தொடங்கிய இந்தச் சிறுவனின் பயணம், கடல் கடந்து பர்மா வரை எப்படிச் சென்றது? #tamilbooks #kidsstory #azhavalliyappa #burmaramani #deepikaarun #chittukuruvi #tamilpodcast #tamilaudiobookstory

One of the greatest challenges after divorce is communication, especially when co-parenting with a high-conflict ex. Every text message, email, or notification can trigger anxiety, frustration, and emotional exhaustion.In this episode of The D Shift, Mardi Winder welcomes Sol Kennedy, founder of BestInterest, an innovative AI-powered co-parenting app designed to reduce conflict and help parents focus on what matters most: their children.After experiencing his own difficult divorce, Sol set out to create a tool that shields parents from toxic communication while preserving the information they actually need to effectively co-parent. The result is a unique platform that is changing the way divorced parents communicate.If you struggle with difficult co-parenting conversations, emotional triggers, or constant conflict, this episode offers practical insights and a glimpse into how technology may help reduce stress during one of life's most challenging transitions.Sol shares:• Why communication becomes so difficult after divorce• The emotional toll of high-conflict co-parenting• How toxic messages impact mental health and decision making• The story behind the creation of the BestInterest app• How AI can help filter conflict and reduce emotional triggers• Protecting your peace while still effectively co-parenting• Why self-love and healing remain essential after divorceAbout the Guest:Sol Kennedy is a former Google product manager, a devoted dad, and the founder of BestInterest—the AI co-parenting app endorsed by Dr. Ramani. After navigating his own high-conflict divorce, Sol built the tool he wished he'd had: an app that acts as an emotional shield, filtering out toxic messages and leaving only what matters: the kids. WIRED calls BestInterest "life saving" for coparents experiencing conflict. Through his app and his podcast, Coparenting Beyond Conflict, Sol helps parents set boundaries, reduce daily anxiety, and build a future where they can proudly sit at their child's graduation without a lifetime of resentment.For Sol's gift: Use when purchasing BestInterest on any app platform: DSHIFT10 - $10 off BestInterest for CoparentsTo connect with Sol: Website: https://bestinterest.app Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bestinterest.app/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/bestinterestapp/About the HostMardi Winder is a Strategic Divorce Consultant and High-Conflict Divorce Coach who helps high-achieving individuals navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and control. Drawing on more than 30 years of experience in mediation, divorce coaching and conflict resolution, she supports clients in making smart decisions while reducing emotional and financial fallout, particularly in high-conflict, high-asset and complex divorces. Mardi is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and the Strategic Divorce Directory, LLC.For Mardi's gift: The Resilience Building Blueprint: A 28-Day Journey To A Stronger You https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/rbbConnect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!Subscribe to the PodcastIf you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.Leave an Apple Podcast ReviewRatings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

ரமணி நாடகக் குழுவில் வேலை செய்யும் ஒரு சுட்டிச் சிறுவன். மதுரநாயகம் அந்த நாடக சபையை நடத்தி வரும் கண்டிப்பான மேலாளர். இவர்கள் இருவருக்கும் இடையே நடக்கும் அந்த ஒரு நிமிடப் பரபரப்பு ரமணியின் தலையெழுத்தையே மாற்றப் போகிறது. ஒரு சிறிய நாடக மேடையில் தொடங்கிய இந்தச் சிறுவனின் பயணம், கடல் கடந்து பர்மா வரை எப்படிச் சென்றது? #tamilbooks #kidsstory #azhavalliyappa #burmaramani #deepikaarun #chittukuruvi #tamilpodcast #tamilaudiobookstory

On today's episode of The CLS Experience we have a powerful live conversation from CLS Genesis in New York City with one of the world's leading experts on narcissism, Dr. Ramani. Together, Craig and Dr. Ramani go deep into how narcissistic patterns show up in relationships, leadership, business, family dynamics, and everyday life. Dr. Ramani breaks down what narcissism actually is, including validation seeking, entitlement, emotional dysregulation, manipulation, gaslighting, and inconsistent empathy, while explaining why culture often rewards these traits. They explore trauma bonding, why traditional boundaries often fail with narcissistic people, and how self abandonment becomes one of the biggest warning signs. Dr. Ramani also shares the difference between healthy ego and narcissism, how childhood wounds and conditional love can fuel achievement and success, and why healing begins by reclaiming your power instead of waiting for closure. This conversation is emotional, practical, deeply eye opening, and filled with breakthroughs for anyone navigating toxic dynamics, healing trauma, or seeking deeper self awareness and personal freedom. Let's go deep.5:54 What Narcissism Really Is12:43 Signs You're In A Narcissistic Dynamic14:55 Why Boundaries Can Backfire27:12 Ego Versus Narcissism47:29 Understanding Trauma Triggers56:16 Covert Narcissists And Why We StayCheck out Dr. Ramani on YouTube HERE:Check out Dr. Ramani's Website HERE:Early Bird Tickets now available for our October live event, CLS: Formation HERE:To join our community click here.➤ Order a copy of Craig's book The Reinvention Formula today! ➤ Join our CLS texting community for free daily inspiration and wisdom to elevate your life, text (917) 634-3796➤ INSTAGRAM➤ FACEBOOK➤ TIKTOK➤ YOUTUBE➤ WEBSITE➤ LINKEDIN➤ X

ரமணி நாடகக் குழுவில் வேலை செய்யும் ஒரு சுட்டிச் சிறுவன். மதுரநாயகம் அந்த நாடக சபையை நடத்தி வரும் கண்டிப்பான மேலாளர். இவர்கள் இருவருக்கும் இடையே நடக்கும் அந்த ஒரு நிமிடப் பரபரப்பு ரமணியின் தலையெழுத்தையே மாற்றப் போகிறது. ஒரு சிறிய நாடக மேடையில் தொடங்கிய இந்தச் சிறுவனின் பயணம், கடல் கடந்து பர்மா வரை எப்படிச் சென்றது? #tamilbooks #kidsstory #azhavalliyappa #burmaramani #deepikaarun #chittukuruvi #tamilpodcast #tamilaudiobookstory

EPISODE SUMMARY  In this powerful and insightful episode, Vanessa Reiser sits down with Dr. Ramani Durvasula, one of the world's leading experts on narcissistic abuse and coercive control. They explore how public understanding of narcissistic abuse has evolved, particularly among younger generations who now have expanded language around gaslighting, love bombing, and coercive control. Dr. Ramani and Vanessa discuss the dangers of over-labeling, the limitations of "just leave" advice in complex situations, and how culture continues to reflect these toxic dynamics. Using the Epstein files as a lens, they examine grooming, enablers, epistemic power, and how unchecked power shapes harmful systems. Dr. Ramani shares practical harm-reduction strategies, the importance of healing in community, and the value of "climbing into the gray" without excusing harm. KEY TOPICS DISCUSSED  Youth and the New Vocabulary Around Narcissistic Abuse Therapy Shifts and Rebuilding Agency Culture Rewriting Old Narratives (Amy Fisher / Joey Buttafuoco Case) Epstein Files: Grooming, Enablers, and Institutional Betrayal Kids Facing Modern Horror and Pattern Recognition Power Sadism and Lack of Accountability Covert Narcissists Explained Avoiding Narcissists: Practical Tips Spotting Limits and Safe Disengagement Staying Anchored in Yourself Amid Chaos What Continues to Move Dr. Ramani Therapists "Getting It" – Progress and Gaps Wild Gaslighting Examples and Environmental Manipulation Epistemic Power Explained When the Narcissist Leaves and Smear Campaigns Supply Networks and Control Tactics Collective Healing Through Community Leaning Into the Gray Without Excusing Harm RESOURCES Dr. Ramani Durvasula's Books: Should I Stay or Should I Go? It's Not You Don't You Know Who I Am? You Are WHY You Eat Dr. Ramani's Podcast: Navigating Narcissism Connect with Dr. Ramani: Instagram: @doctorramani Website: doctor-ramani.com AND Dr. Ramani's therapist only program can be found here:   https://drramaninetwork.mn.co/therapistsonly Connect with Vanessa Reiser: Instagram: @vanessareiserlcsw Patreon: For exclusive bonus content and deeper discussions CONTENT WARNINGS This episode contains discussions of: Narcissistic abuse and coercive control Gaslighting and reality distortion Institutional betrayal and systemic power abuse Epstein-related allegations Emotional manipulation and trauma QUOTES TO REMEMBER "The truth doesn't need your permission to exist." — Dr. Ramani Durvasula "Even when the system fails you, your body still knows the truth." — Dr. Ramani Durvasula "Climbing into the gray doesn't mean excusing harm — it means refusing to live in black-and-white thinking that keeps us stuck." — Vanessa Reiser Disclaimer: This podcast is for mature audiences and is not a substitute for therapy, legal, or medical advice. Guest opinions are their own and don't necessarily reflect those of the host or affiliated platforms. Produced by Vanessa Reiser and music by Alex Productions "Once Upon a Time". #NarcissisticAbuseWithVanessaReiser #VanessaReiser #TellATherapist #CoerciveControl #DrRamani #NarcissisticAbuse

ரமணி நாடகக் குழுவில் வேலை செய்யும் ஒரு சுட்டிச் சிறுவன். மதுரநாயகம் அந்த நாடக சபையை நடத்தி வரும் கண்டிப்பான மேலாளர். இவர்கள் இருவருக்கும் இடையே நடக்கும் அந்த ஒரு நிமிடப் பரபரப்பு ரமணியின் தலையெழுத்தையே மாற்றப் போகிறது. ஒரு சிறிய நாடக மேடையில் தொடங்கிய இந்தச் சிறுவனின் பயணம், கடல் கடந்து பர்மா வரை எப்படிச் சென்றது? #tamilbooks #kidsstory #azhavalliyappa #burmaramani #deepikaarun #chittukuruvi #tamilpodcast #tamilaudiobookstory

Reactive abuse is real, and it is also the disempowered survival persona abusing from the victim position. Both partners are using the same control mechanisms from opposite ends of the same codependence spectrum, and that is the truth nobody in narcissistic abuse recovery wants to hear.If you have spent years in narcissistic abuse recovery, watched every Dr. Ramani video, read every book on covert narcissism, and still keep finding yourself in the same dynamic with a different partner, this video is going to make sense of it differently than anyone else has explained it. You will see the part of the codependent dance that the entire recovery industry refuses to name, and you will see why naming it is the only thing that finally gets you free.This video walks through the Worst Day Cycle™, the Authentic Self Cycle™, and the Emotional Authenticity Method™ as applied to the reactive-abuse dynamic, with the doctrine of the Race to the Victim Position that explains why every conflict turns into a competition for who was hurt more. You will see how the falsely empowered survival persona and the disempowered survival persona are two ends of the same codependence spectrum, why the empath manipulates from below just as effectively as the narcissist manipulates from above, and the boundary script that ends the race in real time.Reactive abuse is real. It is also the disempowered codependent's survival persona running an old childhood program. Kenny Weiss teaches that the person attracted to the narcissist manipulates and controls just as much, but from the victim position, and that the path out of trauma bonding requires both partners to see their side of the dance instead of cataloguing the other side's crimes. Without that, the same pattern recreates itself in every next relationship.The Race to the Victim Position is the relational expression of the Worst Day Cycle™. When a trigger fires, both partners regress into wounded children at the same time, and the room becomes a competition for who is the bigger victim. Nobody wins that race. The relationship loses. The exit is naming the race in real time, pausing the interaction, owning your side of the court, and running the Emotional Authenticity Method™ to trace the activation back to its childhood install point.Kenny Weiss is a relationship, communication, and childhood trauma recovery specialist who works with high-functioning adults stuck in repeating codependent patterns. He created the Worst Day Cycle™, the Authentic Self Cycle™, and the Emotional Authenticity Method™. His books include Your Journey to Success and Your Journey to Being Yourself.TOPICS COVERED: reactive abuse, codependent relationship, trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse recovery, race to the victim position, falsely empowered codependent, disempowered codependent, victim position, kenny weiss, worst day cycle, authentic self cycle, emotional authenticity method, dr ramani alternative, why your therapy did not work, codependent dance, narcissist or codependent, two wounded children manipulating, healing reactive abuse, breaking trauma bonds, empath myth, both sides manipulating, manipulation from below, codependence spectrum, accountability without blame, ending the cycle

ரமணி நாடகக் குழுவில் வேலை செய்யும் ஒரு சுட்டிச் சிறுவன். மதுரநாயகம் அந்த நாடக சபையை நடத்தி வரும் கண்டிப்பான மேலாளர். இவர்கள் இருவருக்கும் இடையே நடக்கும் அந்த ஒரு நிமிடப் பரபரப்பு ரமணியின் தலையெழுத்தையே மாற்றப் போகிறது. ஒரு சிறிய நாடக மேடையில் தொடங்கிய இந்தச் சிறுவனின் பயணம், கடல் கடந்து பர்மா வரை எப்படிச் சென்றது? #tamilbooks #kidsstory #azhavalliyappa #burmaramani #deepikaarun #chittukuruvi #tamilpodcast #tamilaudiobookstory

Your "narcissistic mother" is almost never a narcissist. She is something the rest of YouTube has no language for, and naming it correctly is the only thing that gives you a real shot at getting free.If you have spent years collecting evidence, watching every Dr. Ramani video, and still feel stuck despite finally having a label that explains her behavior, this video is going to land different. You will see why every narcissistic abuse framework identifies the behavior on the surface and never identifies the architecture underneath, and why that gap has kept you in a kind of healing that has no door at the other end.This video walks you through the Worst Day Cycle™, the Authentic Self Cycle™, and the Emotional Authenticity Method™ as applied to the mother-adult-child dynamic, with the Desert vs Denver diagnostic that lets you finally tell the difference between true narcissism and what Kenny Weiss calls the falsely empowered codependent. You will see how enmeshment overwrote your operating system, why setting a boundary with her feels like committing a crime, what the Loyalty Bind is, and the six-step somatic and emotional process that interrupts the collapse in real time.The "narcissistic mother" is almost never a narcissist. She is a falsely empowered codependent, a wounded child in a suit of armor she has been welding on since she was five years old, and the distinction matters because one of these can heal and the other almost never can. The narcissist is the desert, the same weather every day, no buried wound to reach. The falsely empowered codependent is Denver, the weather changes, and the warm days, the real remorse, the genuine apologies are evidence of an Authentic Self that the narcissist does not have.Enmeshment is not closeness. Enmeshment is identity colonization. The mother who used you for emotional intimacy, image management, and ego fulfillment did not just cross your boundaries, she overwrote your entire internal operating system. The Loyalty Bind, the contract your nervous system signed at age five that says if I choose myself I betray her, if I betray her I lose love, if I lose love I die, is why setting a limit with her feels like committing a crime in your body. That contract expired the day you became a functioning adult, but nobody told your nervous system. The withdrawal is real, and it passes.TOPICS COVERED: narcissistic mother, falsely empowered codependent, dr ramani alternative, enmeshment, identity colonization, loyalty bind, codependence spectrum, mother daughter relationship, mother son relationship, kenny weiss, worst day cycle, authentic self cycle, emotional authenticity method, desert vs denver, narcissist or codependent, signs of enmeshment, parentified child, adult child of narcissist00:00 — Why Your Mother Is Probably Not a Narcissist01:30 — Kenny's Safeway Memory at Age Six03:30 — The Real Cultural Epidemic Nobody Names06:00 — Desert vs Denver, The Diagnostic Nobody Else Uses09:00 — The Over-Armored Knight Underneath the Mother Mask11:30 — The Worst Day Cycle™ Running Inside Her14:00 — Enmeshment as Identity Colonization16:00 — The Loyalty Bind and Why Boundaries Feel Like a Crime18:00 — Why the Distinction Decides Whether Healing Is Possible20:00 — The Authentic Self Cycle™ Applied to Your Mother21:30 — The Six-Step Emotional Authenticity Method™ in Real Time23:30 — Three Voices, One Microphone, One Boundary Script24:30 — Why Dr. Ramani Style Frameworks Cannot Touch This25:30 — Identity Close

ரமணி நாடகக் குழுவில் வேலை செய்யும் ஒரு சுட்டிச் சிறுவன். மதுரநாயகம் அந்த நாடக சபையை நடத்தி வரும் கண்டிப்பான மேலாளர். இவர்கள் இருவருக்கும் இடையே நடக்கும் அந்த ஒரு நிமிடப் பரபரப்பு ரமணியின் தலையெழுத்தையே மாற்றப் போகிறது. ஒரு சிறிய நாடக மேடையில் தொடங்கிய இந்தச் சிறுவனின் பயணம், கடல் கடந்து பர்மா வரை எப்படிச் சென்றது? #tamilbooks #kidsstory #azhavalliyappa #burmaramani #deepikaarun #chittukuruvi #tamilpodcast #tamilaudiobookstory

ரமணி நாடகக் குழுவில் வேலை செய்யும் ஒரு சுட்டிச் சிறுவன். மதுரநாயகம் அந்த நாடக சபையை நடத்தி வரும் கண்டிப்பான மேலாளர். இவர்கள் இருவருக்கும் இடையே நடக்கும் அந்த ஒரு நிமிடப் பரபரப்பு ரமணியின் தலையெழுத்தையே மாற்றப் போகிறது. ஒரு சிறிய நாடக மேடையில் தொடங்கிய இந்தச் சிறுவனின் பயணம், கடல் கடந்து பர்மா வரை எப்படிச் சென்றது? #tamilbooks #kidsstory #azhavalliyappa #burmaramani #deepikaarun #chittukuruvi #tamilpodcast #tamilaudiobookstory

ரமணி நாடகக் குழுவில் வேலை செய்யும் ஒரு சுட்டிச் சிறுவன். மதுரநாயகம் அந்த நாடக சபையை நடத்தி வரும் கண்டிப்பான மேலாளர். இவர்கள் இருவருக்கும் இடையே நடக்கும் அந்த ஒரு நிமிடப் பரபரப்பு ரமணியின் தலையெழுத்தையே மாற்றப் போகிறது. ஒரு சிறிய நாடக மேடையில் தொடங்கிய இந்தச் சிறுவனின் பயணம், கடல் கடந்து பர்மா வரை எப்படிச் சென்றது? #tamilbooks #kidsstory #azhavalliyappa #burmaramani #deepikaarun #chittukuruvi #tamilpodcast #tamilaudiobookstory

ரமணி நாடகக் குழுவில் வேலை செய்யும் ஒரு சுட்டிச் சிறுவன். மதுரநாயகம் அந்த நாடக சபையை நடத்தி வரும் கண்டிப்பான மேலாளர். இவர்கள் இருவருக்கும் இடையே நடக்கும் அந்த ஒரு நிமிடப் பரபரப்பு ரமணியின் தலையெழுத்தையே மாற்றப் போகிறது. ஒரு சிறிய நாடக மேடையில் தொடங்கிய இந்தச் சிறுவனின் பயணம், கடல் கடந்து பர்மா வரை எப்படிச் சென்றது?#tamilaudiobooks #tamilbooks #kidsstory #azhavalliyappa #burmaramani #deepikaarun #chittukuruvi #tamilpodcast

From Hinduism to Jesus Powerful Testimony of Transformation – Ashwin Ramani What if the person least likely to follow Jesus became one of His boldest messengers? In this powerful testimony, Pastor Ashwin Ramani shares how God radically transformed his life—from growing up in a devout Hindu family in India to becoming a follower of Jesus Christ and pastor in Canada. As a teenager, Ashwin mocked Christians and rejected the gospel. But through unexpected encounters—including online conversations and a life-changing message about God's grace—everything changed. This is a story of: • Faith in the face of opposition • The power of persistent prayer • God pursuing one heart across nations • The truth that no one is beyond salvation Despite rejection from his own family and intense emotional trials, Ashwin experienced the presence of God in a life-altering way that gave him strength, joy, and purpose. Today, his story is living proof that: Jesus is still transforming lives. Key Takeaways ✔ No one is too far from God ✔ God answers prayer—even years later ✔ Grace is greater than our past ✔ The gospel still changes lives today 

Sujatha Ramani brings together corporate precision and grassroots purpose. With leadership experience at global companies like HP and Wipro, and two entrepreneurial ventures of her own, she made a deliberate shift into the social sector to build opportunity where it matters most.Since 2019, as CEO of Pollinate Group, she has led with clarity and conviction advancing women's entrepreneurship, sustainability, and ethical growth across underserved communities in India and Nepal. She balances sharp execution with long-term vision, always anchored in dignity and agency.An MBA and computer science graduate, Sujatha also finds joy in soulful singing, nurturing her garden, and passionately following Cricket, Tennis, and Football.https://www.linkedin.com/in/sujatha-ramani-226a665?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_app

In this episode, Krista welcomes Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a licensed clinical psychologist famous for her expertise in narcissism. On a mission to educate the masses about this high-conflict personality type, Dr. Ramani hosts the popular Navigating Narcissism podcast and has written several books, including the forthcoming, It's Not You, available for preorder now.  Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast. With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes. Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday. If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.

If you ever looked at your family, friend group, or workplace and thought, “How am I the ONLY ONE who sees the toxicity?” This second half is for YOU. Let's talk solutions… how to unmask narcissists, reclaim your sanity, and navigate the fallout when no one else gets it. Dr. Ramani comes in HOT with real-life scripts, strategic boundaries, and deep wisdom for escaping the sticky residue narcissists leave behind. We get into the six key ways to unmask a narcissist (and why calling them out never works), how NOT to fall for their gaslighting or blame-shifting, and why “no contact” with family isn't about revenge, it's about healing. Plus, we play Red Flag/Green Flag with some of the most COMMON dating scenarios. This episode is your hands-on toolkit for real boundaries, radical self-compassion, and breaking free from those manipulative emotional webs. SHOWNOTES  6 Ways to Unmask a Narcissist (& Why You Should Never Call Them Out) Why Conflict with Narcissists Is Never Equal  Letting Narcissists Expose Themselves: Not Your Job to Fix Why Telling the Truth Never Sets You Free (With a Narcissist) Red Flag/Green Flag: Rapid-Fire Relationship Scenarios Community Q&A: How to Protect Yourself & Spot Red Flags Slowing Down, Trusting Your Body, and Journaling for Self-Discovery  The Truth About No Contact (and Estrangement) with Parents Healing Your Inner Wounds & Creating a New Family Narrative  Final Steps for Adult Children and Parents Looking to Heal  Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Dr. Ramani:Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ Dr. Ramani Network: https://doctor-ramani.com/drn/ The Healing Program: https://doctor-ramani.com/the-healing-program/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you ever looked at your family, friend group, or workplace and thought, “How am I the ONLY ONE who sees the toxicity?” This second half is for YOU. Let's talk solutions… how to unmask narcissists, reclaim your sanity, and navigate the fallout when no one else gets it. Dr. Ramani comes in HOT with real-life scripts, strategic boundaries, and deep wisdom for escaping the sticky residue narcissists leave behind. We get into the six key ways to unmask a narcissist (and why calling them out never works), how NOT to fall for their gaslighting or blame-shifting, and why “no contact” with family isn't about revenge, it's about healing. Plus, we play Red Flag/Green Flag with some of the most COMMON dating scenarios. This episode is your hands-on toolkit for real boundaries, radical self-compassion, and breaking free from those manipulative emotional webs. SHOWNOTES  6 Ways to Unmask a Narcissist (& Why You Should Never Call Them Out) Why Conflict with Narcissists Is Never Equal  Letting Narcissists Expose Themselves: Not Your Job to Fix Why Telling the Truth Never Sets You Free (With a Narcissist) Red Flag/Green Flag: Rapid-Fire Relationship Scenarios Community Q&A: How to Protect Yourself & Spot Red Flags Slowing Down, Trusting Your Body, and Journaling for Self-Discovery  The Truth About No Contact (and Estrangement) with Parents Healing Your Inner Wounds & Creating a New Family Narrative  Final Steps for Adult Children and Parents Looking to Heal  Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Dr. Ramani:Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ Dr. Ramani Network: https://doctor-ramani.com/drn/ The Healing Program: https://doctor-ramani.com/the-healing-program/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever looked at a relationship and thought, “Surely this isn't narcissism, he's so sensitive”? Or wondered how narcissists can show up NOT as the obvious arrogant bad boys, but as gentle, emotionally tuned ‘soft boys' who turn your world upside down? Oh, you're NOT alone. This episode is packed with the truth bombs you need to spot the real signs of narcissistic partners and understand the psychological traps that keep women stuck, confused, and questioning their reality. I'm joined by THE Dr. Ramani — psychologist, best-selling author, and the ultimate expert on narcissistic relationships.Today, she lays out the new faces of narcissism, teaches us the universal warning sign you can spot, and reveals the insidious behaviors that keep you feeling guilty and stuck. For every woman who feels crazy because “no one else sees it”—this is your permission slip to trust yourself. SHOWNOTES The Soft Boy Trap: Why ‘Sensitive' Men Can Still Be Narcissists Vulnerable Narcissists: How Empathy Is Weaponized What Darvo Is & How Narcissists Flip the Script The Resentful Martyr: How Help Turns Toxic Why Setting Boundaries with Narcissists Never Works Grudge-Holding and Self-Righteous Narcissism Why You Feel Crazy: Why No One Else Sees It  6 Reasons You're the Only One Who Sees It  Communal Narcissists, Enablers, and Powerful Dynamics  6 Ways to Unmask a Narcissist (& Why You Should Never Call Them Out) Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ Dr. Ramani Network: https://doctor-ramani.com/drn/ The Healing Program: https://doctor-ramani.com/the-healing-program/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever looked at a relationship and thought, “Surely this isn't narcissism, he's so sensitive”? Or wondered how narcissists can show up NOT as the obvious arrogant bad boys, but as gentle, emotionally tuned ‘soft boys' who turn your world upside down? Oh, you're NOT alone. This episode is packed with the truth bombs you need to spot the real signs of narcissistic partners and understand the psychological traps that keep women stuck, confused, and questioning their reality. I'm joined by THE Dr. Ramani — psychologist, best-selling author, and the ultimate expert on narcissistic relationships.Today, she lays out the new faces of narcissism, teaches us the universal warning sign you can spot, and reveals the insidious behaviors that keep you feeling guilty and stuck. For every woman who feels crazy because “no one else sees it”—this is your permission slip to trust yourself. SHOWNOTES The Soft Boy Trap: Why ‘Sensitive' Men Can Still Be Narcissists Vulnerable Narcissists: How Empathy Is Weaponized What Darvo Is & How Narcissists Flip the Script The Resentful Martyr: How Help Turns Toxic Why Setting Boundaries with Narcissists Never Works Grudge-Holding and Self-Righteous Narcissism Why You Feel Crazy: Why No One Else Sees It  6 Reasons You're the Only One Who Sees It  Communal Narcissists, Enablers, and Powerful Dynamics  6 Ways to Unmask a Narcissist (& Why You Should Never Call Them Out) Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ Dr. Ramani Network: https://doctor-ramani.com/drn/ The Healing Program: https://doctor-ramani.com/the-healing-program/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Vandana Ramani on how UPS is leveraging AI to help SMEs This week on Catalyst Tammy sits down with Vandana Ramani, the Vice President of Global Strategy at UPS. Vandana loves to solve difficult, complex problems. From making sure a live iguana gets delivered to where it needs to be, to thinking about how UPS can leverage AI to improve their customer experience, Vandana is always working at the intersection of business strategy and technology. Tammy and Vandana discuss the integration of AI in small and medium sized businesses and how it can be transformative for data connectivity and developing shared outcomes. Vandana also shares networking tips she's developed from years spent rebuilding her networks from the ground up across the world. Please note that the views expressed may not necessarily be those of NTT DATALinks: Vandana Ramani LinkedInLearn more about Launch by NTT DATASee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Re-Release! Today on the podcast, we have a great conversation with  narcissism expert Dr. Ramani Durvasula. Dr. Ramani is a licensed clinical psychologist. She has spoken at various universities and institutions including Coca-Cola, Amazon, and Universal Studios. Dr. Ramani is a sought-after expert with appearances on the Today Show, Red Table Talk, and Vogue's "Open Minded" series with Kendall Jenner. Her work has been featured in The New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, Men's Health,BBC, USA Today, Refinery29, and more. She discusses narcissism on her popular YouTube channel, on social media as @DoctorRamani, her popular online program on healing from narcissistic abuse, and as the host of the podcast Navigating Narcissism with Dr. Ramani. Her fourth book will be released on February 20th and is a transformative guide titled: It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. What up homie! Let me tell you how excited I am to share the incredibly powerful two-part episode that exposes even more of the narcissistic tricks and emotionally abusive behavior so that you'll never question if you're crazy again! Dr. Ramani is no stranger to Women of Impact and she's an absolute powerhouse when it comes to shining the light on narcissistic abuse and behaviors straight out of their playbook. Not only has Dr Ramani been here more times than I can count, she's delivered levels of insight that has helped millions of people spot it and create their escape strategy to take back their power, every single time.  Today we're unmasking the tricks narcissists use to stay in control, and arming all of the ladies watching with the knowledge to recognize B.S. manipulation and control tactics immediately. *How narcissists use threats, mockery and even the silent treatment to keep you under their control, *Why a typical narcissistic response to you setting boundaries is more manipulation and a fight for control (Girl! Not only is this exhausting, but it's even more reason for you to get away), *Dr Ramani unpacks the unconscious process of narcissistic behavior that makes them unreasonable to stay and deal with.  *When toxic partners weaponize your shame to maintain control over you, Dr Ramani shares exactly how you should respond) *Dr Ramani reveals why self-reflection is absolutely critical in breaking free from narcissists, Whew! Ladies understanding narcissistic behaviors and being able to spot their manipulation tactics may actually save your sanity (or even better, save your life!). I want you to have a little more knowledge, and at least one more tool in your belt to become stronger and more badass. Original air date: 9-14-2023 Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: ⁠http://doctor-ramani.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/user/DoctorRamanDurvasula⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/⁠   Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/doctorramani⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This is a fan fav episode. What up homie! Let me tell you how excited I am to share the incredibly powerful two-part episode that exposes even more of the narcissistic tricks and emotionally abusive behavior so that you'll never question if you're crazy again! Dr. Ramani is no stranger to Women of Impact and she's an absolute powerhouse when it comes to shining the light on narcissistic abuse and behaviors straight out of their playbook. Not only has Dr Ramani been here more times than I can count, she's delivered levels of insight that has helped millions of people spot it and create their escape strategy to take back their power, every single time.  Today we're unmasking the tricks narcissists use to stay in control, and arming all of the ladies watching with the knowledge to recognize B.S. manipulation and control tactics immediately. *How narcissists use threats, mockery and even the silent treatment to keep you under their control, *Why a typical narcissistic response to you setting boundaries is more manipulation and a fight for control (Girl! Not only is this exhausting, but it's even more reason for you to get away), *Dr Ramani unpacks the unconscious process of narcissistic behavior that makes them unreasonable to stay and deal with.  *When toxic partners weaponize your shame to maintain control over you, Dr Ramani shares exactly how you should respond) *Dr Ramani reveals why self-reflection is absolutely critical in breaking free from narcissists, Whew! Ladies understanding narcissistic behaviors and being able to spot their manipulation tactics may actually save your sanity (or even better, save your life!). I want you to have a little more knowledge, and at least one more tool in your belt to become stronger and more badass. Original air date: 9-14-2023 Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: ⁠http://doctor-ramani.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/user/DoctorRamanDurvasula⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/⁠   Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/doctorramani⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. What up homie! Let me tell you how excited I am to share the incredibly powerful two-part episode that exposes even more of the narcissistic tricks and emotionally abusive behavior so that you'll never question if you're crazy again! Dr. Ramani is no stranger to Women of Impact and she's an absolute powerhouse when it comes to shining the light on narcissistic abuse and behaviors straight out of their playbook. Not only has Dr Ramani been here more times than I can count, she's delivered levels of insight that has helped millions of people spot it and create their escape strategy to take back their power, every single time.  Today we're unmasking the tricks narcissists use to stay in control, and arming all of the ladies watching with the knowledge to recognize B.S. manipulation and control tactics immediately. *How narcissists use threats, mockery and even the silent treatment to keep you under their control, *Why a typical narcissistic response to you setting boundaries is more manipulation and a fight for control (Girl! Not only is this exhausting, but it's even more reason for you to get away), *Dr Ramani unpacks the unconscious process of narcissistic behavior that makes them unreasonable to stay and deal with.  *When toxic partners weaponize your shame to maintain control over you, Dr Ramani shares exactly how you should respond) *Dr Ramani reveals why self-reflection is absolutely critical in breaking free from narcissists, Whew! Ladies understanding narcissistic behaviors and being able to spot their manipulation tactics may actually save your sanity (or even better, save your life!). I want you to have a little more knowledge, and at least one more tool in your belt to become stronger and more badass. Original air date: 9-13-2023 Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: ⁠http://doctor-ramani.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/user/DoctorRamanDurvasula⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/⁠   Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/doctorramani⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This is a fan fav episode. What up homie! Let me tell you how excited I am to share the incredibly powerful two-part episode that exposes even more of the narcissistic tricks and emotionally abusive behavior so that you'll never question if you're crazy again! Dr. Ramani is no stranger to Women of Impact and she's an absolute powerhouse when it comes to shining the light on narcissistic abuse and behaviors straight out of their playbook. Not only has Dr Ramani been here more times than I can count, she's delivered levels of insight that has helped millions of people spot it and create their escape strategy to take back their power, every single time.  Today we're unmasking the tricks narcissists use to stay in control, and arming all of the ladies watching with the knowledge to recognize B.S. manipulation and control tactics immediately. *How narcissists use threats, mockery and even the silent treatment to keep you under their control, *Why a typical narcissistic response to you setting boundaries is more manipulation and a fight for control (Girl! Not only is this exhausting, but it's even more reason for you to get away), *Dr Ramani unpacks the unconscious process of narcissistic behavior that makes them unreasonable to stay and deal with.  *When toxic partners weaponize your shame to maintain control over you, Dr Ramani shares exactly how you should respond) *Dr Ramani reveals why self-reflection is absolutely critical in breaking free from narcissists, Whew! Ladies understanding narcissistic behaviors and being able to spot their manipulation tactics may actually save your sanity (or even better, save your life!). I want you to have a little more knowledge, and at least one more tool in your belt to become stronger and more badass. Original air date: 9-13-2023 Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: ⁠http://doctor-ramani.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/user/DoctorRamanDurvasula⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/⁠   Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/doctorramani⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Check out the full episode: https://greatness.lnk.to/1858"These kids, these difficult temperaments, actually have this relationship with the world that's pretty unpleasant. Everyone's like, sit down, stop that, don't do that. And there's even this vibe these kids get, like nobody really wants to spend time with them." - Dr. Ramani DurvasulaDr. Ramani Durvasula walks through something most parents never want to hear: some kids are just born difficult. High energy, low frustration tolerance, constantly getting into trouble at school, and nobody wants to be around them. She's spent her career working with narcissistic adults, and without exception, every single one had a difficult temperament as a child. But here's where it gets interesting. That difficult temperament isn't a life sentence. The difference between a difficult kid who becomes a confident adult and one who becomes a narcissist comes down to how their parents respond. Lewis shares the story of Kobe Bryant, who went an entire summer without scoring a single point in basketball at age 13. His father told him, "I'm gonna love you no matter what. Whether you score zero points or you're the highest scorer, I'm gonna love you no matter what you do." That conversation gave Kobe the confidence to keep going. Dr. Ramani explains how rare that kind of support is, where a kid feels loved unconditionally, has their energy channeled into athletics or building things, and experiences boundaries without rejection.The conversation takes a sharp turn into modern parenting's biggest trap. Parents are celebrating their kids for nothing, telling them they're special just for existing, but nobody's actually sitting with these kids' emotions. Dr. Ramani calls it being "overindulged for their outsides" while their emotional world goes completely unnourished. Narcissistic parents need their kids to be great because it reflects on them, so they heap praise on everything while never teaching their kids to handle disappointment or sit with sadness. The result? Adults who get blindsided by life's inevitable difficulties and can't handle it. She breaks down exactly what great actually means (it's about excelling, not just being), how to love a child while still calling out bad behavior, and why the most dangerous thing you can do is protect a kid from struggle while telling them they're amazing. If you've got a difficult kid or you're trying to figure out where confidence ends and narcissism begins, this conversation draws the lines with surgical precision.Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Dr. Ramani Durvasula reveals the shocking truth that one in five people you know may be narcissistic, explaining why this personality pattern has exploded with the rise of social media and reality TV. She shares how narcissistic relationships follow a predictable cycle of love bombing, devaluation, and discarding that leaves survivors confused and blaming themselves. Through raw personal stories and decades of clinical research, she exposes why trying to fix or change a narcissist is a fool's errand, and introduces practical tools like the DEEP technique to protect yourself. You'll walk away understanding that the greatest defense against narcissism is radical self-acceptance and learning to spot red flags before you're in too deep.Dr. Ramani's books:Should I Stay or Should I Go?"Don't You Know Who I Am?"It's Not YouDr. Ramani's InstagramDr. Ramani's YouTube channelIn this episode you will:Discover why personality doesn't change and how narcissists are trapped in a cycle of self-loathing they project onto everyone around themUnderstand the DEEP technique that protects you from narcissistic manipulation without engaging in exhausting argumentsBreak free from the athlete's trap of believing you can fix any relationship if you just work harder at itRecognize the love bombing cycle that seduces you in the beginning and keeps you hoping things will return to how they wereMaster the difference between healthy jealousy and pathological jealousy that signals dangerous narcissistic patternsFor more information go to https://lewishowes.com/1858For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More SOG episodes we think you'll love:Evy Poumpouras – greatness.lnk.to/1852SCJerry Wise  – greatness.lnk.to/1747SCGabor Maté – greatness.lnk.to/1849SC Get more from Lewis! Get my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Get The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

It's Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and if you're dealing with a narcissist, this episode is PACKED with truthbombs that you NEED to hear so you can change the way you interact with a narcissist FOREVER.  Today my girl Dr. Ramani is pulling the curtain back and exposing the mind games that narcissists play ON THE DAILY to make you doubt yourself and even question your own frikin' sanity. Dr. Ramani is no stranger to Women of Impact. As a licensed clinical psychologist and expert in narcissistic relationships, Dr. Ramani digs deep into the BEHAVIORAL PATTERNS that narcissists use every single day to manipulate the hell out of you and keep you sucked into the relationship. PRE-ORDER Dr. Ramani's new book here: ⁠https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f⁠ Original air date: 2-5-24 In this episode, we're diving into: Why narcissists will NEVER CHANGE, EVEN IF you leave them! What narcissists will do to look good in the world, so that NO ONE ELSE sees how they play on your fears and steal your sense of self. Why it's SOOO easy to be in denial and accept domination, gaslighting, and indoctrination as your “new normal”. And why ANYONE is vulnerable to a narcissist's mind games because you can't always see them coming… So whether you're in a romantic relationship with a narcissist, or maybe you suspect a family member or friend is, this episode is here to help you spot the toxic behavior patterns so you can heal from the abuse and put the pieces back together.  Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani Pre-Order “It's Not You”: ⁠https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f⁠ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and if you're dealing with a narcissist, this episode is PACKED with truthbombs that you NEED to hear so you can change the way you interact with a narcissist FOREVER.  Today my girl Dr. Ramani is pulling the curtain back and exposing the mind games that narcissists play ON THE DAILY to make you doubt yourself and even question your own frikin' sanity. Dr. Ramani is no stranger to Women of Impact. As a licensed clinical psychologist and expert in narcissistic relationships, Dr. Ramani digs deep into the BEHAVIORAL PATTERNS that narcissists use every single day to manipulate the hell out of you and keep you sucked into the relationship. PRE-ORDER Dr. Ramani's new book here: ⁠https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f⁠ Original air date: 2-5-24 In this episode, we're diving into: Why narcissists will NEVER CHANGE, EVEN IF you leave them! What narcissists will do to look good in the world, so that NO ONE ELSE sees how they play on your fears and steal your sense of self. Why it's SOOO easy to be in denial and accept domination, gaslighting, and indoctrination as your “new normal”. And why ANYONE is vulnerable to a narcissist's mind games because you can't always see them coming… So whether you're in a romantic relationship with a narcissist, or maybe you suspect a family member or friend is, this episode is here to help you spot the toxic behavior patterns so you can heal from the abuse and put the pieces back together.  Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani Pre-Order “It's Not You”: ⁠https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f⁠ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Perfect Prey I'm joined by my friend and colleague Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a clinical psychologist, author, professor, and internationally recognized expert on narcissistic abuse. We dig into why coercive control feels like imprisonment without bars, how systems (including family court) retraumatize survivors, and what survivors can do to protect themselves and their children. What we coverWhy coercive control is often invisible — and why the myth of “free will” makes it so hard for institutions to understand emotional abuse.How victim-blaming and the DARVO pattern (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim & Offender) let abusers manipulate sympathy in court.The difference between milder narcissistic traits and the kind of malignant, coercive abuse that creates real danger and CPTSD-like responses.Practical, trauma-informed strategies for surviving family court: what to document, when to prioritize safety over “justice,” and how to protect your children while minimizing retraumatization.The “industrial divorce complex” — how systems and money can deepen harm, and what survivors can do strategically to preserve their safety and sense of self.Why listen If you're a survivor, a clinician, a legal professional, or someone trying to understand a loved one's experience, this conversation names the harms you may not see on the surface and gives clear, compassionate guidance for staying safe and getting validated. You'll hear clinical insight paired with real-world, tactical advice about custody, court behavior, and how to build a safety-first plan.Guest bio (short) Dr. Ramani Durvasula, Ph.D., is a licensed clinical psychologist, author, and media expert who writes and speaks widely about narcissism, personality disorders, and relationship dynamics. She maintains a clinical practice and educational network focused on helping people heal from narcissistic relationships. Connect with Dr. Ramani:Official site: https://doctor-ramani.com/drn/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamaniTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doctorramaniIG: https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/Podcast: Navigating Narcissism with Dr. RamaniBooks: https://www.amazon.co.uk/stores/Ramani-Durvasula/author/B00C2C5U0O?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=trueConnect with Dr. Christine:Protective Parenting Program: https://www.coercivecontrolconsulting.com/services/for-parents/Official site: https://www.coercivecontrolconsulting.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrCocchiola-coercivecontrol/videosTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr.c_coercivecontrolIG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.cocchiola_coercivecontrol/TEDxTalks: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gp2qByKOue4&t=24sBooks: https://url-shortener.me/c/FramedBookhttps://url-shortener.me/c/EveryMomentOfEveryDayIf this episode landed for you: share it with someone who needs to hear it, subscribe for more trauma-informed conversations, and leave a rating — it helps more survivors find validation and safety.— Dr. Christine Cocchiola & guest Dr. Ramani Durvasula

Clinical psychologist Dr. Ramani Durvasula joins Kelly to discuss how to navigate through the world of narcissism and high conflict relationships. Dr. Ramani shares if you need to leave or end relationships with narcissists, how to co-parent with one AND Andy Cohen dials in to ask how to win an argument with a narcissist. Plus, Producer Lisa takes us behind the scenes of BravoCon! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This is a fan fav episode. The term narcissist gets thrown around a lot to the misfortune of people who are not actually narcissistic. Toxicity, emotional, mental, and verbal abuse are clear common markers of narcissistic behavior. Hopefully, you're not in a relationship with a narcissistic person, but perhaps you've recently left a toxic situation and still feel lost, confused and uncertain how to handle the narcissist in your life. Dr. Ramani doesn't mince words when it comes to dealing with narcissists. The depth of knowledge she has from working with victims of narcissism is mind-blowing. In this episode we've packed some of the best advice Dr. Ramani has shared with Lisa on Women of Impact so you can take notes and the cycle of abuse and start healing. If you've managed to avoid relationships with narcissists to this point, we're cheering for you. We want you to be safe and be aware of the red fags many people miss until it's too far gone. SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction to Dr. Ramani 0:09 | Look for These Red Flags 26:02 | They Weaponize Vulnerabilities 47:48 | 6 Types of Narcissists 1:04:44 | Red Flags in Conversation 1:15:15 | How to Heal & Detox 1:37:06 | Break the Trauma Bond 1:52:15 | How to Leave a Narcissist Original air date: 5-15-2022 Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: ⁠http://doctor-ramani.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/user/DoctorRamanDurvasula⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/DoctorRamani⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/doctorramani⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. The term narcissist gets thrown around a lot to the misfortune of people who are not actually narcissistic. Toxicity, emotional, mental, and verbal abuse are clear common markers of narcissistic behavior. Hopefully, you're not in a relationship with a narcissistic person, but perhaps you've recently left a toxic situation and still feel lost, confused and uncertain how to handle the narcissist in your life. Dr. Ramani doesn't mince words when it comes to dealing with narcissists. The depth of knowledge she has from working with victims of narcissism is mind-blowing. In this episode we've packed some of the best advice Dr. Ramani has shared with Lisa on Women of Impact so you can take notes and the cycle of abuse and start healing. If you've managed to avoid relationships with narcissists to this point, we're cheering for you. We want you to be safe and be aware of the red fags many people miss until it's too far gone. SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction to Dr. Ramani 0:09 | Look for These Red Flags 26:02 | They Weaponize Vulnerabilities 47:48 | 6 Types of Narcissists 1:04:44 | Red Flags in Conversation 1:15:15 | How to Heal & Detox 1:37:06 | Break the Trauma Bond 1:52:15 | How to Leave a Narcissist Original air date: 5-15-2022 Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: ⁠http://doctor-ramani.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/user/DoctorRamanDurvasula⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/DoctorRamani⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/doctorramani⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this powerful episode of Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu is joined by an incredible lineup of guests: clinical psychologist Dr. Ramani Durvasula, communication strategist Jefferson Fisher, powerhouse entrepreneur and femininity coach April Mason, and legendary executive and author Bozoma Saint John. Together, they dive deep into the complexities of confidence, self-worth, emotional resilience, and navigating difficult relationships—especially with narcissists and toxic personalities. Dr. Ramani opens up about the difference between charisma and authentic connection, offering tactical strategies for protecting your peace and self-esteem around difficult people. Jefferson Fisher provides actionable insights on reclaiming your power and confidence through the art of the pause—and explains exactly why silence, composure, and thoughtfully measured responses are your secret weapons in heated conversations. April Mason shares a masterclass in self-awareness and boundaries, decoding the subtle “dripping effect” of manipulation in relationships, the importance of tuning into your femininity and wisdom, and how your standards protect you from heartbreak and narcissists alike. Rounding out the episode, Bozoma Saint John takes us on a deeply personal journey—from the loss of her college boyfriend to suicide, to finding resilience in even the darkest moments of her life. She shares life-changing truths about letting go of blame, moving past pain, and honoring your own strength through adversity. If you're ready for real talk about confidence, boundaries, healing, and the courage to stand in your power, this mashup is for you. SHOWNOTES Spotting the difference between real confidence and performative charisma How to “soul distance” and protect your energy from narcissists Tactical tools for handling toxic conversations, including the power of the pause Mastering boundaries, self-respect, and subtle cues in relationships Healing from emotional trauma and the journey from victimhood to survivor Finding your voice and reclaiming your story after heartbreak and loss Why self-blame stands in the way of growth—and how to move past it FOLLOW TODAYS GUESTS: Dr. Ramani: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani  Jefferson Fisher: https://www.instagram.com/jefferson_fisher/  April Mason: https://www.instagram.com/msaprilmason/  Bozoma Saint John: https://www.instagram.com/badassboz/  CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this powerful episode of Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu is joined by an incredible lineup of guests: clinical psychologist Dr. Ramani Durvasula, communication strategist Jefferson Fisher, powerhouse entrepreneur and femininity coach April Mason, and legendary executive and author Bozoma Saint John. Together, they dive deep into the complexities of confidence, self-worth, emotional resilience, and navigating difficult relationships—especially with narcissists and toxic personalities. Dr. Ramani opens up about the difference between charisma and authentic connection, offering tactical strategies for protecting your peace and self-esteem around difficult people. Jefferson Fisher provides actionable insights on reclaiming your power and confidence through the art of the pause—and explains exactly why silence, composure, and thoughtfully measured responses are your secret weapons in heated conversations. April Mason shares a masterclass in self-awareness and boundaries, decoding the subtle “dripping effect” of manipulation in relationships, the importance of tuning into your femininity and wisdom, and how your standards protect you from heartbreak and narcissists alike. Rounding out the episode, Bozoma Saint John takes us on a deeply personal journey—from the loss of her college boyfriend to suicide, to finding resilience in even the darkest moments of her life. She shares life-changing truths about letting go of blame, moving past pain, and honoring your own strength through adversity. If you're ready for real talk about confidence, boundaries, healing, and the courage to stand in your power, this mashup is for you. SHOWNOTES Spotting the difference between real confidence and performative charisma How to “soul distance” and protect your energy from narcissists Tactical tools for handling toxic conversations, including the power of the pause Mastering boundaries, self-respect, and subtle cues in relationships Healing from emotional trauma and the journey from victimhood to survivor Finding your voice and reclaiming your story after heartbreak and loss Why self-blame stands in the way of growth—and how to move past it FOLLOW TODAYS GUESTS: Dr. Ramani: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani  Jefferson Fisher: https://www.instagram.com/jefferson_fisher/  April Mason: https://www.instagram.com/msaprilmason/  Bozoma Saint John: https://www.instagram.com/badassboz/  CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Narcissism isn't just a buzzword. In this episode, psychologist Dr. Ramani Durvasula breaks down narcissism and gaslighting, shows how they appear in relationships and workplaces, and shares practical tools for spotting red flags, setting boundaries, and protecting your peace. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Think narcissism only affects insecure or naive people? Think again. In this episode of Habits and Hustle, I talk with Dr. Ramani Durvasula who explains how narcissists manipulate even the most self-aware, high-achieving individuals. We dive into why narcissistic relationships are so hard to leave, how gaslighting corrodes your self-trust, and the emotional price we pay for constantly managing toxic people. Whether it's a partner, boss, parent, or friend, this episode is your guide to recognizing and protecting yourself from covert manipulation. Dr. Ramani is a licensed clinical psychologist, bestselling author, and the internet's go-to expert on narcissistic abuse. Her work has helped millions decode toxic dynamics through her YouTube channel, books like “Don't You Know Who I Am?”, and expert commentary on major media outlets. What We Discuss:  (03:22) Why narcissistic abuse happens to smart, strong people (08:40) The subtle signs of emotional manipulation (13:05) Why narcissists never play by the same rules (21:55) The unique pain of having a narcissistic parent (32:48) How to set boundaries when leaving isn't an option (39:12) The myth of the “narcissist who will change” (49:20) Dr. Ramani's tools for reclaiming your identity (56:44) Can narcissists ever truly love or feel regret? (01:01:15) Are you the narcissist? How to do a reality check (01:06:30) The healing path: therapy, no-contact, and radical clarity …and more! Thank you to our sponsors: Momentous: Shop this link and use code Jen for 20% off Therasage: Head over to therasage.com and use code Be Bold for 15% off  TruNiagen: Head over to truniagen.com and use code HUSTLE20 to get $20 off any purchase over $100. Magic Mind: Head over to www.magicmind.com/jen and use code Jen at checkout. Bio.me: Link to daily prebiotic fiber here, code Jennifer20 for 20% off.  David: Buy 4, get the 5th free at davidprotein.com/habitsandhustle. 99designs by Vista: 99designs.com/jen20  – click "Claim my discount" to get $20 off your first design contest.    Find more from Jen:  Website: https://www.jennifercohen.com/ Instagram: @therealjencohen   Books: https://www.jennifercohen.com/books Speaking: https://www.jennifercohen.com/speaking-engagement Find more from Dr Ramani Durvasula: Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani

People-pleasing isn't a personality flaw—often it's a nervous-system strategy. Licensed Professional Counselor and ADHD-CCSP Anita Sandoval joins Eric to unpack how the fawn response shows up with ADHD, trauma, and RSD; how it differs from masking and conflict avoidance; and what real change looks like. We cover Anita's “Empower → Resilient → Authentic” model, ADHD-friendly EMDR adaptations, and the messy-but-worth-it work of boundaries (including with narcissistic family dynamics). Resources, Anita's links, and a quick survey about a potential evening coaching group are in the full notes at ADHDreWired.com. Guest: Anita Sandoval, LPC-S, EMDR-Certified, ADHD-CCSP — therapist, supervisor, and author of Broken Chains (English & Spanish). Host of Empowering Women in Conversations and creator of Empower Her Pathways. We cover: People-pleasing as a neuro-adaptive response (fight/flight/freeze/fawn) People-pleasing vs. conflict avoidance vs. masking ADHD & RSD: why “neutral” feedback stings and how regulation shifts it Differentiating from personality disorders (dependent/BPD) Hypervigilance, ACEs, and emotional regulation circuits Boundaries with narcissistic dynamics (including the “victim narcissist” pattern) Anita's staged model (Stages of Change × grief work): Unaware → Aware → Ready → Action → Maintenance → Integration (Empowered → Resilient → Authentic) Therapies that help ADHD brains: EMDR with resourcing, IFS/parts work, polyvagal-informed regulation Eric's EMDR story: from trigger spirals to co-regulation Try this: Notice your next automatic “yes.” Ask: Is this aligned with my values, or is my nervous system chasing safety? Then practice one tiny boundary this week and track before/during/after. Resources mentioned: Anita Sandoval — (course: Empower Her Pathways) Broken Chains (English/Spanish) Dr. Ramani's work on narcissism (Should I Stay or Should I Go?) Modalities: EMDR, IFS/Parts, Polyvagal-informed approaches Coaching & community: Evening Coaching Group — interest survey We're exploring a fall evening section (proposed Wed, Sept 18 • 5pm PT / 8pm ET) led by ADHD reWired Coach & LCSW Kristin Marts, at a budget-friendly rate (starting at $999) if we move forward. Deadline to weigh in: Aug 15. Take the short survey at .  Complete the survey to enter to win 6 months free in our Alumni community ($240 value) or 1 year free of Adult Study Hall ($240 value). Adult Study Hall (ASH) — virtual co-working & body doubling. Free 1-week trial, then $19.99/mo or $150/yr at . Connect with Anita:  | Podcast: Empowering Women in Conversations

By now, you are most likely aware of narcissistic behavior being grandiose, egotistical and charming. If many of us can describe a narcissistic person, then how do we fall into unhealthy relationships with people that have zero concern for our happiness or well being? If you've experienced a relationship with a narcissistic person or happen to be currently living through narcissistic abuse then you are familiar with the frustration, the gaslighting, and feeling totally lost on how to end it or get out of the relationship. There are very clear traps narcissists use to keep hold of the people they want to control. Dr. Ramani Durvasula is an expert in narcissism and clinical psychologist. She is also a repeat guest on the show, joining Lisa for the third time. She's breaking down all the ways narcissists are trying to trap you, how to heal from narcissistic abuse to move on, and how to create better boundaries and a plan for revenge. Original air date: 1-5-22 SHOW NOTES: Feeling Lost | What does moving on from a narcissistic relationship look like [1:02] 5 Traps to Avoid | Dr. Ramani breaks down 5 traps in narcissistic relationships [5:39] Hoovering Trap | A powerplay tactic narcissist use to suck you in after you've left [9:38] Avoid Enablers | Dr. Ramani explains how enablers make it harder to walk away [11:44] The Hope Trap | Dr. Ramani reveals how narcissist trigger hope to keep you baited [13:44] Trapped by Guilt | When vulnerable narcissists trap with the belief you can save them [15:24] Responsibility | Dr. Ramani on why responsibility of being treated poorly is not on you [17:27] Trauma Bonding | Why people hold onto the good things in bad relationships explained [21:47] Breaking Triggers | Dr. Ramani explains why being alone for a whole year is necessary [25:35] Danger of Control | Why controlling what someone wears is a dangerous dynamic [35:53] Be Cherished | Dr. Ramani reveals why being cherished over desired is important [38:37] Rebuilding Trust | Why it's hard to rebuild trust for with yourself and tips for progress [42:00] Boundaries | Dr. Ramani's tips for setting boundaries when you don't feel safe [55:21] Revenge | Dr. Ramani explains the best form of revenge against a narcissist [57:25] Self Efficacy | Dr. Ramani reveals how to heal from narcissistic abuse with indifference [1:04:38] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if some of the traits that drive high performance – are also at the very core of narcissism? This week on Finding Mastery, we welcome clinical psychologist and narcissism expert Dr. Ramani Durvasula to explore one of the most complex psychological dynamics of our time.Narcissism isn't always loud or obvious. Dr. Ramani breaks down how narcissism lives on a spectrum, from subtle manipulation and gaslighting to full-blown disorders, and how it shows up in high performers, workplaces, relationships, and even within ourselves.In this conversation, we explore:The 4 major types of narcissism and how gender influences their expressionWhy high achievers may unknowingly enable narcissistic tendenciesHow to recognize gaslighting, and why we often miss itHer 5-step framework for managing narcissistic relationshipsThe cost of constantly accommodating others at the expense of your own wellbeingThis conversation is a must-listen for anyone navigating tough personalities, leadership challenges, or recovering from emotionally confusing relationships. Dr. Ramani's insights are practical, powerful, and grounded in decades of research and clinical experience.Links & ResourcesSubscribe to our Youtube Channel for more conversations at the intersection of high performance, leadership, and wellbeing: https://www.youtube.com/c/FindingMasteryGet exclusive discounts and support our amazing sponsors! Go to: https://findingmastery.com/sponsors/Subscribe to the Finding Mastery newsletter for weekly high performance insights: https://www.findingmastery.com/newsletter Download Dr. Mike's Morning Mindset Routine: findingmastery.com/morningmindsetFollow on YouTube, Instagram, LinkedIn, and XSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you've ever felt trapped, confused, or emotionally drained by someone who constantly makes everything about them—this episode is for you.I'm joined by world-renowned narcissism expert Dr. Ramani Durvasula to explore the reality of narcissistic relationships and how to recover from their impact. We talk about:What narcissism really is (and isn't)The signs of emotional abuse most people overlookWhy reclaiming your identity requires radical acceptanceWhat healing actually looks like — with or without going no-contactWhy some people stay — and how to survive if you doHow parents can navigate narcissistic adult childrenThe role of love bombing, guilt, and controlWhat makes healing harder — and how to make it easierDr. Ramani breaks down practical ways to protect your peace, build emotional clarity, and rebuild your self-worth.