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Growing up in a broken home with a loving mother, a woman faces disturbing and routine abuse from her brother, but after it escalates, and the unthinkable happens, the terror never ends. Today's episode featured Amy Chesler. To find out more about her and her story, you can find her book on Working for Justice on Amazon. Amy also has her own podcast, What Came Next, which chronicles in greater depth her experiences with the criminal justice system and the media, as well as other firsthand accounts from survivors and advocates throughout history. You can also find her on Instagram @amybchesler, and on her website amybchesler.com.Working for Justice: https://amzn.to/483m9Ut Amy's Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/amybcheslerWhat Came Next on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/whatcamenext_podcastWhat Came Next on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/what-came-next/id1674051643Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Aviva LipkowitzContent/Trigger Warnings: sexual assault of a minor, domestic abuse and violence, graphic bodily injury, alcohol and drug abuse, murder, explicit language Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappeningTwitter: @TIAHPodcastWebsite: thisisactuallyhappening.comWebsite for Andrew Waits: andrewwaits.comWebsite for Aviva Lipkowitz: avivalipkowitz.com/Support the Show: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happeningWondery Plus: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the full catalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus Shop at the Store: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.comIntro Music: "Illabye" – TipperMusic Bed: “Union Flow” - Spuntic ServicesIf you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources:National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
CONTENT WARNING: Sexual Abuse, Descriptions of Violence & MurderToday Jan is joined by Amy B. Chesler, author, podcaster, speaker, survivor, and victim advocate from Los Angeles, California. Her training in the arts and public speaking began in childhood, but it wasn't until losing her mother to domestic violence in 2007 that she found her true calling: trauma-informing the public, and inspiring legal and social change. Her advocacy-related work has been seen on IDtv's Evil Lives Here and in Chicken Soup for the Soul (several times over), The New York Post, Scary Mommy, Something Was Wrong podcast, and many more major platforms. Amy was even gifted the BlogHer honor of Voice of the Year in 2017, and became M.C. of the popular Moms Meet conference in 2018 & 2019. In April of 2021 she celebrated the release of her true crime memoir, Working for Justice, and in 2023 she launched the chart-topping true crime/self-help podcast, What Came Next with Tiffany Reese of Something Was Wrong. Utilizing her experience in the education and the criminal justice systems, as well as her degree in Psychology, Amy often speaks about parenthood, grief, domestic violence, the nature of abuse, trauma healing, and ethics in the genre of true crime. Amy is here to tell her harrowing story of growing up with a violent sibling who eventually snapped. Through her trauma and grief she became an advocate for others who are survivors of domestic violence, sexual abuse, and familial violence. Keep up with Amy Chesler on all of her platforms:Amy's Website: amybchesler.comAmy's Twitter: @amybcheslerAmy's Insta: @amybcheslerAmy's FacebookAmy's LinkedInAmy's Podcast: What Came Next?Buy Amy's Book: Working for Justice: One Family's Tale of Murder, Betrayal, and Healing With Amy CheslerThis episode is sponsored by Betterhelp Online Therapy. Get in touch with the right therapist today! Use our link to get 10% off your first month: www.betterhelp.com/janSubscribe / Support / Contact:
** For Ad-Free Episodes, Join Our Patreon! ** https://www.patreon.com/thesurvivorsquad This is Part 2 of our two-part interview with Amy Chesler. Amy B. Chesler is an author, podcaster, survivor, and victim advocate. Amy shared her experiences of sibling abuse, as well as her mother's murder, on Something Was Wrong Season 7. Her consequent experiences in the criminal justice system & the media are largely what inspired the creation of the show "What Came Next." Website: https://amybchesler.com What Came Next Podcast: https://audioboom.com/channels/5100300-what-came-next Instagram @amybchesler Tik Tok @amybchesler Book: https://amzn.to/3Zze6Mc ***Join our Survivor Squad True Crime Podcasting Course!*** https://coaching.terranewellsurvival.com/ethical-true-crime-podcasting/ Survivor Squad Podcast links: https://linktr.ee/thesurvivorsqaud Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thesurvivorsquad • Terra's links: https://linktr.ee/terranewell • Collier's links: https://collierlandry.com/links • Collier's Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-collier-landry-show/id1551076031 • Book a 1-on-1 with Terra for trauma/ toxic relationship coaching: https://calendly.com/terranewell91/15-minute-coaching-consult?month=2023-06 • Join Terra's Complementary Trauma Support Group: Every 1st and 3rd Monday 5:00 PM PT mailto: Terranewellcoaching@gmail.com It's important to consider seeking support from a licensed mental health professional or support group. Talking to a trusted friend/family member can also be beneficial in overcoming trauma and its aftermath. •Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ •Trauma-Recovery.org: https://trauma-recovery.org/ •American Psychological Association: https://www.apa.org/ •National Institute of Mental Health: https://www.nimh.nih.gov/index.shtml •National SA Hotline 1-800-656-4673 https://www.rainn.org/ •National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 https://www.thehotline.org/
** For Ad-Free Episodes, Join Our Patreon! ** https://www.patreon.com/thesurvivorsquad This is Part 1 of our two-part episode with Amy Chesler. Amy B. Chesler is an author, podcaster, survivor, and victim advocate. Amy shared her experiences of sibling abuse, as well as her mother's murder, on Something Was Wrong Season 7. Her consequent experiences in the criminal justice system & the media are largely what inspired the creation of the show "What Came Next." Website: https://amybchesler.com What Came Next Podcast: https://audioboom.com/channels/5100300-what-came-next Instagram @amybchesler Tik Tok @amybchesler Book: https://amzn.to/3Zze6Mc ***Join our Survivor Squad True Crime Podcasting Course!*** https://coaching.terranewellsurvival.com/ethical-true-crime-podcasting/ Survivor Squad Podcast links: https://linktr.ee/thesurvivorsqaud Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thesurvivorsquad • Terra's links: https://linktr.ee/terranewell • Collier's links: https://collierlandry.com/links • Collier's Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-collier-landry-show/id1551076031 • Book a 1-on-1 with Terra for trauma/ toxic relationship coaching: https://calendly.com/terranewell91/15-minute-coaching-consult?month=2023-06 • Join Terra's Complementary Trauma Support Group: Every 1st and 3rd Monday 5:00 PM PT mailto: Terranewellcoaching@gmail.com It's important to consider seeking support from a licensed mental health professional or support group. Talking to a trusted friend/family member can also be beneficial in overcoming trauma and its aftermath. •Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ •Trauma-Recovery.org: https://trauma-recovery.org/ •American Psychological Association: https://www.apa.org/ •National Institute of Mental Health: https://www.nimh.nih.gov/index.shtml •National SA Hotline 1-800-656-4673 https://www.rainn.org/ •National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 https://www.thehotline.org/
Portions of Amy's interview were featured in Episode 12 - Hadas Winnick, which tells the story of her mother's murder at the hands of her brother. This is Amy's full interview where she discusses her perspective on the criminal justice system, mental health and more. Special thanks to Amy Chesler for sharing her story. You can follow Amy on social media on Instagram @amybchesler and on Twitter at the same handle. Her memoir Working for Justice: One Family's Tale of Murder, Betrayal, and Healing is available on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08YLDRMM7/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_44GR680Y72318679SZ81 If you like the show, please take a second to leave a rating and review. You can follow the podcast on social media on Instagram @thestrangeryouknowpodcast and on Twitter @tsykpod. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thestrangeryouknowpodcast/message
When Amy rushed home one September night to the house she shared with her mother after a chilling phone call with her brother, she found her mother's lifeless body on the kitchen floor and she knew immediately that her worst fear had finally happened. One that felt like years in the making after a vicious cycle of abuse at the hands of her mother's murderer. Special thanks to Amy Chesler for interviewing for this episode. You can follow Amy on social media on Instagram @amybchesler and on Twitter at the same handle. Her memoir Working for Justice: One Family's Tale of Murder, Betrayal, and Healing is available on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08YLDRMM7/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_44GR680Y72318679SZ81 If you like the show, please take a second to leave a rating and review. You can follow the podcast on social media on Instagram @thestrangeryouknowpodcast and on Twitter @tsykpod. ADDITIONAL SOURCES: https://nypost.com/2021/05/01/my-brother-killed-my-mother-and-now-i-fear-hell-get-out-of-prison-soon/ https://thecinemaholic.com/hadas-winnick-murder-where-is-jesse-winnick-now/ https://starcasm.net/evil-lives-here-what-if-he-gets-out-sister-of-jesse-winnick-fears-for-her-life-after-he-murdered-their-mom/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thestrangeryouknowpodcast/message
Amy B. Chesler is author of an award-winning blog and the new true crime memoir, Working for Justice: One Family's Tale of Murder, Betrayal, and Healing, and published by Post Hill Press (and distributed by Simon & Schuster) on April 6th, 2021. In the book, Amy discusses her mother's murder, and the harrowing efforts it took to imprison her admittedly guilty killer. With Working for Justice, she talks about mental health, violence, & the way our social services protect or enflame each. She wrote this book in an effort to spread awareness about victim's rights and the often difficult procedure of securing them. ABOUT THE BOOK When beloved educator Hadas Winnick was murdered, her sleepy, affluent hometown of Calabasas was rocked to the core. More shocking than her killing, though, was the process of convicting her admittedly guilty murderer. Calabasas is a quiet, well-to-do California town often referred to as “The Bubble.” But on September 25th, 2007, that bubble burst with the murder of one of its longtime residents—high school math teacher Hadas Winnick. The upscale community may have been deeply affected by her gruesome death, but as shocking as the tragedy seemed, the years of abuse she faced that preceded it were more so. Even more devastating still, was the effort and time it took to sentence her murderer to prison, and the power that our systems-in-place allowed him while on his way there. Follow Hadas's daughter, award-winning blogger Amy Chesler, on her often heart-wrenching—but eventually heart-warming—road to justice.
Please note: today's discussion is centered around an abuse survival story. When it comes to dealing with different kinds of grief, whose grief is the worst? Losing a child? A spouse? A parent? The truth-it’s always our own. And yet, the more we connect instead of compare, the more we will find healing. Author and actress Amy Chesler is with us today to share her own healing journey as she dealt with the tragedy that her brother killed her mother. That kind of pain sounds unfathomable, but through time and writing, Amy has discovered the power of her voice. When she has chosen to speak out about her pain, it has enabled others to find their voices as well. As she has connected to others in her story-telling, the loss of her mom is in some way redeemed. You’ll get a good laugh learning about what it was like for Amy to work with Arnold Schwarzenegger or the time Amy got Corey Feldman to go on a date with her mom. Learn how Amy has taken her grief and used it as a platform to call B.S. on the criminal justice system and why she will always refuse to stay quiet when it comes to abuse. Stay connected to Amy on social media to be the first to know when her true crime memoir is available. In this episode, we’ll explore: How there is power and healing through expressing the written word Why the less we talk the more power we give to abusers When death means something different Why support doesn’t always have to say yes How your perspective in loss and grieving is everything Win or learn-you’ll never loose “Once you decide authenticity is your message, it doesn’t matter what the noise is around you. ” -Amy Chesler Resources and Links Mentioned in this episode: Amy’s Website Amy’s Instagram Domestic Abuse Website Or Call 1-800-799-7233 or Text: LOVEIS to 22522 The Official Podcast Instagram Sinead’s Instagram Brittany’s Instagram
Hey, it’s Amy Newmark and it’s Friend Friday on the Chicken Soup for the Soul podcast. Today I’m going to introduce you to one of our storywriters, Amy Chesler, who has had quite an interesting life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Amy Chesler in Silverlake, CA: Expressing Motherhood
Accomplished author, Amy Chesler at thishouseoflove.net breaks down how to better yourself through reflection without setting yourself up to fail through resolutions.
In this episode, we are talking about "Seeking Out Your Village" so I have brought on a very special guest, accomplished author, content creator and well one of my best friends, Amy Chesler @abcauthor and thishouseoflove.net
Expressing Motherhood: Amy Chesler In Silver Lake
Hey, it’s Amy Newmark and it’s Friend Friday on the Chicken Soup for the Soul podcast. Today I’m going to introduce you to one of our storywriters, Amy Chesler, who has had quite an interesting life. Amy Chesler is an award-winning blogger and content creator from Los Angeles, CA. She is a proud six-time contributor to the Chicken Soup for the Soul series as well as the author of an illustrated tale for all ages entitled A Man and His Books. When she’s not writing, she enjoys spending time with her family, traveling, creating stained glass, cooking, and watching movies. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Amy Chesler always knew her brother Jesse struggled with anger. He never developed the tools to manage his emotions. But then he started taking his frustrations out on her in harmful and abusive ways. The power and control he exerted over Amy was just the beginning. In this chilling and powerful episode, Amy shares the story of the day her brother killed their mother, her fight to navigate a difficult legal system for justice, and ultimately how she stayed alive.In this episode:Undiagnosed mental illness.Understanding the effects of sibling abuse.Discerning the types of abuse.The aftermath of her mother's murder.Healing the pain and trauma through educating and storytelling.The need for a shift in the narrative of true crime.Resources & Links:Book: Working For Justice: One Family's Tale of Murder, Betrayal, and HealingPodcast: What Came NextWebsite: www.amybchesler.comInstagram: @amybcheslerFacebook: Amy B CheslerTwitter: @amybcheslerLinkedIn: Amy-CheslerCharity: The Army of SurvivorsIf you enjoy listening to the show and find value and inspiration in the stories you hear, we hope you'll consider supporting our work and becoming an All The Wiser member. As a thank you for your support, we give you early, ad free access, exclusive content, Zoom meetups with Kimi and the team, and much more. Join us and BECOME A MEMBER ON PATREON!Or contribute what you can by making a custom pledge.Follow the show at @allthewiserpodcast on Instagram.Keep the conversation going! Join our new Facebook group and connect with other listeners like you!Stay in the know with all things All The Wiser! Sign up for our newsletter for personal reflections from Kimi, new episodes, and recommendations from our team!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy