Podcasts about Betrayal

You did everything right. You were the smart couple. The committed couple. The high-achieving, “we've got this” couple. Date nights. Careers. Kids. Goals. You worked hard. You showed up. You performed well. So how did infidelity happen to you? If you've ever thought, “We were the perfect couple. This doesn't make sense,” this episode will open your eyes in the most grounded, compassionate way. In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Rachel Dornianu of Sage Counseling & Wellness to unpack the hidden dynamics behind the “perfect couple” myth — and why high-achieving, Type A, perfectionistic relationships are often more vulnerable than they appear. We explore how perfectionism, people-pleasing, high sensitivity, emotional avoidance, and the Gottman “Four Horsemen” quietly erode intimacy over time — even in relationships that look beautiful on the outside. If you're navigating infidelity, feeling blindsided, or wondering how something could fall apart when you both “did everything right,” this episode will help you understand what really happened — and what healing actually requires. Top 3 Takeaways Perfection Isn't the Same as Connection High achievement, polished date nights, and shared goals can mask roommate syndrome, emotional loneliness, and avoidance. When couples stop pausing, attuning, and truly connecting, resentment and unmet needs quietly build beneath the surface. Performance is not intimacy. Infidelity Is Often a Maladaptive Coping Mechanism While betrayal is devastating, it's frequently rooted in avoidance, trauma, shame, unmet emotional needs, and poor coping skills — not pure moral corruption. Understanding the why doesn't excuse the behavior, but it creates clarity. And clarity is the first step toward healing. Healing Requires Addressing What Was Already There Perfectionism. People-pleasing. High sensitivity. Fawning. Walking on eggshells. Avoidance. Emotional flooding. Infidelity doesn't create these patterns — it exposes them. Whether you choose to stay or separate, the real work is learning how to regulate your nervous system, communicate honestly, and stop performing so you can start being. Favorite Quote “Perfection isn't intimacy. Performance isn't connection. And infidelity doesn't create the cracks — it exposes the ones that were already there.” Loving this show? Ready to go deeper? If this episode hit close to home and you're thinking, “This is exactly what happened in my relationship,” you don't have to figure this out alone. Download your free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and begin making sense of the chaos. If you're ready for personalized support — whether through Voxer coaching, private sessions, or deeper transformational work — visit www.LoraCheadle.com. And if this conversation resonated, make sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear that perfection is not the goal — connection is. Favorite Quote #PerfectCoupleMyth #InfidelityRecovery #BetrayalHealing #PerfectionismInMarriage #HighAchievingWomen #RelationshipAfterInfidelity #EmotionalIntimacy #MarriageAfterAffair #FlauntPodcast   About Rachel Dorneanu Rachel Dorneanu (she/her) is a licensed therapist, AASECT- certified sex therapist, and board-certified coach specializing in Anxiety, HSPs, People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Sex Therapy, with a passion for helping people reconnect with their bodies, reduce shame, and find freedom in their wellness journey. She holds a Master's in Counseling and brings over 8 years of experience working with millennial women and moms. Through her work as a therapist and coach, Rachel integrates evidence-based approaches with compassionate education to normalize topics often left in the dark—like pelvic pain, pleasure, and embodiment. She is known for her relatable, down-to-earth style and her ability to make complex or uncomfortable topics accessible and affirming. Outside of her professional life, Rachel enjoys practicing yoga, spending time with her husband and 2 children, and traveling.

"Am I betraying my child if I start to feel better?" It's a question most grieving moms never say out loud. Not because you love your child any less. But because pain has started to feel like the only bridge between you and them. Somewhere along the way, suffering begins to feel like loyalty — and the thought of healing feels like forgetting. In this episode, we step into that tension. The guilt that surfaces when you laugh for a moment. The heaviness that follows a day that didn't end in tears. And the fear that hope for your future might somehow dishonor your child. Anchored in Psalm 94, we talk about what happens when your "foot feels like it's slipping" — and how God's comfort meets you right there. Inside this conversation, you'll discover… Why guilt often shows up the moment you begin to feel lighter The hidden belief that suffering proves your love What Psalm 94 reveals about God's support when your heart feels unsteady How to move forward in strength without leaving your child behind If you've ever felt afraid that healing might mean betrayal, I hope you'll press play. God's comfort does not erase your love — it strengthens you to carry it differently. You are not dishonoring your child by stepping toward peace.     ✨ Live Gathering for Grieving Moms — February 26 & 27 If you're realizing that life without your child has shifted everything — the way you see yourself, your relationships, and the future you thought you were moving toward — you don't have to navigate that disorientation on your own. I'm hosting a two-day live gathering for grieving moms. This will be a time to come together, be present, and talk honestly about grief, identity, and what it looks like to keep lliving when life no longer feels familiar.

CBS lawyers shut down Stephen Colbert's Senate interview — and suddenly it's “Trump censorship.” A Democrat Super PAC darkens Jasmine Crockett's skin in a primary ad. A DHS building is targeted in Idaho. And the New England Journal of Medicine quietly admits COVID vaccine blood clots were real. Tara connects the dots on media double standards, political hypocrisy, terror labeling, and the slow unraveling of the COVID narrative.

Mike reacts to Susan Rice’s viral warning that Democrats will pursue an “accountability agenda” against corporations, media, and institutions that supported Trump—raising alarms about political retribution if power shifts in November. He also breaks down a major Supreme Court ruling striking down Trump’s tariffs in a 6–3 decision, calling it a serious blow to the President’s economic strategy and questioning the court’s consistency. Mike ties it all to growing voter frustration, the stakes of the midterms, and why Republican turnout could determine whether Trump’s agenda survives—or gets dismantled.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Elizabeth Bathory is alleged to have been the most prolific serial killer of all time, responsible for butchering as many as 650 virgins and bathing in their blood. Her Hungarian water castles are the sites of gruesome ghost tours, a metal band named itself for her, and for years she was in the Guinness Book of World Records. The number of women she's said to have killed is four times the population of an average 17th-century village, but when it comes to Bathory's story, even the Guinness Book concedes that “it is impossible to separate fact from fiction.” Shelley Puhak disagrees: In her new book,The Blood Countess, she contends that Bathory was instead the victim of possibly the greatest misinformation campaign in history, brought against a powerful, wealthy woman at a tumultuous time. Lutherans and Calvinists were at one another's throats at the height of the Protestant Reformation, the Ottoman Empire lurked just across the border, and medicine in upheaval, with both new and old practices bringing accusations of heresy and witchcraft. It was a dark time to be a woman—especially one with 17 castles to her name, and no husband to defend her.Go beyond the episode:Shelley Puhak's The Blood Countess: Murder, Betrayal, and the Making of a MonsterTune in every (other) week to catch interviews with the liveliest voices from literature, the arts, sciences, history, and public affairs; reports on cutting-edge works in progress; long-form narratives; and compelling excerpts from new books. Hosted by Stephanie Bastek and sponsored by the Phi Beta Kappa Society.Subscribe: iTunes/Apple • Amazon • Google • Acast • PandoraHave suggestions for projects you'd like us to catch up on, or writers you want to hear from? Send us a note: podcast [at] theamericanscholar [dot] org. And rate us on iTunes! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The extent of Mike’s crimes comes to light. But a legal loophole threatens to turn an open-and-shut case into an uphill battle for justice. Content Warning for tech-enabled sexual abuse, rape, substance dependence, mental health struggles, nonconsensual intimate image distribution, and chronic illness. If you would like to reach out to the Betrayal Team, email us at betrayalpod@gmail.com. Follow us on Instagram @betrayalpod and @glasspodcasts. Follow our newsletter and join the Betrayal community at betrayal.substack.com. For resources on sexual violence, visit rainn.org/betrayal. You can also get free, confidential, 24/7 support through RAINN’s National Sexual Assault Hotline. Text HOPE to 64673 or call 1-800-656-HOPE. Every state has a domestic violence coalition, and many counties also have resources available. If you’re looking for help, go onto your county’s website to see what resources are available locally, or search the web for your state’s domestic violence coalition. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

An astronaut. A bitter divorce. A bank account accessed from orbit. When decorated NASA astronaut Anne McClain was accused of committing the first crime aboard the International Space Station, headlines exploded around the world. But investigators soon uncovered something far more deliberate and exceptionally false. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn.info/    Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here:  sam@healingcouples.org   Episode show notes: When a wife goes emotionally numb after betrayal, most couples assume the relationship is dying. But numbness isn't indifference — it's protection. In this episode, we break down what betrayal trauma actually is, why the nervous system shuts down after a defensive blowup, and what truly restores safety in a marriage affected by pornography use and emotional betrayal. If you're walking through porn addiction recovery and your wife feels distant, withdrawn, or emotionally flat, this conversation will help you understand why. Betrayal trauma isn't just anxiety or depression — it's a relational injury. And it cannot be healed through individual therapy alone. You'll learn: • The real root of betrayal trauma and why the relationship gets redefined as unsafe • Why emotional numbness happens (and why it doesn't mean she's done) • The difference between regulation and repair • Why “giving her space” often keeps couples stuck • The specific security-building skills that rebuild trust • How to respond without defensiveness when she shares pain • What actually thaws emotional shutdown after pornography triggers and broken trust Whether you're working through porn addiction recovery, trying to overcome porn urges, navigating relapse prevention, or rebuilding trust in a marriage after pornography triggers, this episode gives you a clear roadmap. If you've ever wondered whether your marriage can recover from betrayal trauma — or how to restore emotional and sexual connection after porn addiction counseling — this conversation will show you what really moves the needle. Because healing from the root cause of pornography addiction isn't just about staying clean. It's about rebuilding security — one steady moment at a time.

Marty Baron spent almost a decade as Executive Editor of the Washington Post, which gave him a close-up view of Jeff Bezos' stewardship of one of our city's most important institutions during the first Trump term. And it's why Baron's emergence as one of the sharpest critics of Bezos' stewardship during the second Trump term has been such a big deal. In the wake of Bezos' decision to dismantle much of his old paper, Baron here to share his own thoughts.  Want some more DC news? Then make sure to sign up for our morning newsletter Hey DC. You can text us or leave a voicemail at: (202) 642-2654. You can also become a member, with ad-free listening, for as little as $10 a month. Learn more about the sponsors of this February 19th episode: South by Southwest - use code "citycast10" for a 10% discount on your Innovation Badge Interested in advertising with City Cast? Find more info HERE.

On this episode of America at Night with McGraw Milhaven, Lt. Gen. Richard Newton (Ret.), NewsNation Senior National Security Contributor, analyzed rising tensions with Iran, discussing regional instability, U.S. strategic options, and what current developments mean for American and global security. Later, author Christine Kuehn joined the show to discuss her book “Family of Spies: A World War II Story of Nazi Espionage, Betrayal, and the Secret History Behind Pearl Harbor.” Kuehn revealed the lesser-known intelligence battles leading up to Pearl Harbor, exploring espionage networks, betrayal, and how covert operations shaped one of the most consequential moments in U.S. history. The episode connected modern national security challenges with historical intelligence lessons that continue to resonate today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Grief is one of the most misunderstood parts of betrayal recovery — especially for couples who are choosing to stay.In this episode, Hali Roderick explores how grief shows up differently for betrayed partners and betraying partners, why couples often feel out of sync in the healing process, and how the APSATS Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model (MPTM) helps couples navigate grief in the post-traumatic growth phase.You'll learn why “parallel grief” is normal, how grief becomes a relational stressor, and what healthy shared grieving can actually look like after infidelity and betrayal trauma.This episode offers practical conversation prompts, trauma-sensitive insight, and hope for couples learning how to stay human together in the aftermath of betrayal.Listen to my other episodes on grief that I mention in the episode:#146 Grief After Betrayal: What Men Lose—and Why It Matters for Healing#21 The Grief Nobody Talks About After Betrayal (Coming 2/23/26)#22 Part 1: The Early Grief Phases You Didn't Expect After Betrayal (Coming 3/2/26)#23 Part 2: From Grief to Growth Part 2 (Coming 3/9/26)Connect With Me + Continue Your HealingIf today's episode resonated with you, you don't have to walk the healing journey after betrayal alone. I create trauma-informed resources, conversations, and learning experiences to support individuals and couples navigating infidelity, betrayal trauma, and relational repair.Here are a few ways to stay connected and continue your healing:Join me at a Retreat or IntensiveIf you're craving deeper, in-person support and embodied healing, I'm helping facilitate two upcoming experiences created specifically for betrayed partners. The Courage to Thrive Betrayal Trauma Intensive takes place March 17–20 in Spanish Fork, Utah and offers a structured, trauma-informed space to understand betrayal trauma, regulate your nervous system, and rebuild self-trust. Later this year, the Rise, Renew, Restore Retreat in Costa Rica, happening July 13–18, offers a more spacious, restorative experience focused on slowing down, reconnecting with your body, and healing in the presence of nature and supportive community. Free Resources & DownloadsAccess free tools, guided practices, and educational resources designed to support nervous system regulation, self-trust, boundaries, and clarity after betrayal.

We're a little late, but Happy 7th Anniversary to US! If you've been listening to us that long -WE LOVE YOU! If you're a new listener, we LOVE YOU, TOO! Thanks, y'all - we truly mean that. This week, Kat dives into the case of Brenda Andrew, the only woman on death row in Oklahoma.What began as a churchgoing suburban marriage ended in an affair, a bitter divorce and custody fight, and the fatal shooting of Rob Andrew in his own garage just before Thanksgiving 2001.We examine the controversy surrounding Brenda's trial and failed appeals, while keeping the focus where it belongs: on Rob Andrew, the father whose life was taken and whose children lost him forever.Join us as we explore the dark side of humanity...with beerReferences:The Heartbreaking Andrew Family Murder - Robert & Brenda Andrew - True Crime Stories | Deep Dive: https://youtu.be/u67tz4ziaj4?si=j8o3hUq84ouc_sczHer Website: https://www.savebrendaandrew.orgU.S. Supreme Court Opinion:https://www.supremecourt.gov/opinions/24pdf/23-6573_m647.pdfFindLaw Case Summary:https://caselaw.findlaw.com/court/us-supreme-court/23-6573.htmlDeath Penalty Information Center:https://deathpenaltyinfo.org/supreme-court-rules-in-favor-of-only-woman-on-oklahoma-death-row-confirming-admission-of-prejudicial-gendered-evidence-can-violate-due-process-rightsAmerican University WCL (Amicus Advocacy):https://www.american.edu/wcl/news-events/news/auwcl-professor-supports-amicus-advocacy-leading-to-death-row-case-reconsideration.cfmCornell Death Penalty Project:https://dpw.lawschool.cornell.edu/advocacy/brenda-andrew-sex-shamed-to-death-in-oklahoma/People Magazine:https://people.com/death-row-inmate-convicted-killing-husband-claims-sex-shamed-trial-8778143ABC News:https://abcnews.com/Primetime/story?id=132093&page=1KOCO:https://www.koco.com/article/brenda-andrew-oklahoma-woman-death-row-loses-appeal/69993112Murderpedia Summary:https://murderpedia.org/female.A/a/andrew-brenda.htmRob Andrew Obituary:https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/oklahoman/name/rob-andrew-obituary?id=29449261Please like, follow, and share this podcast - we're on all of the platforms! Oh, and please leave reviews so other true crime lovers can find us. If you are trying to get a hold of us, we can only respond via: Case Files with Kat and Ashley FacebookInstagram We're here if you need us! NEVER hesitate to reach out! FOR HELP WITH STALKING OR CYBERSTALKING: https://rainn.org/news/resources-survivors-stalking-and-cyberstalking https://www.stalkingawareness.org/ FOR HELP WITH DOMESTIC VIOLENCE: NATIONWIDE: https://www.thehotline.org/get-help/domestic-violence-local-resources/ IN HOUSTON AREA: https://www.bayareaturningpoint.org/ or call 24/7: (281) 286-2525 FOR HELP WITH SEXUAL ASSAULT: https://rainn.org/resources INTERNATIONAL RESOURCES - YOU ARE NOT ALONE! https://nomoredirectory.org/ https://www.domesticshelters.org/resources/national-global-organizations/international-organizations SUICIDE & CRISIS HELPLINE: 988 - 24/7 Help if you or someone you know is struggling. YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

Told and retold in many languages, the legend of the Blood Countess has consumed cultural imaginations around the world. But despite claims that Elizabeth Báthory tortured and killed as many as 650 girls, some have wondered if the Countess was herself a victim- of one of the most successful disinformation campaigns known to history. So, was Elizabeth Báthory a monster, a victim, or a bit of both? My guest is Shelley Puhak, author of the new book "The Blood Countess: Murder, Betrayal, and the Making of a Monster". She helps us separate fact from fiction as she reexamines the life of Elizabeth Báthory, long labeled one of history's most notorious killers, and unpacks a complex story of power, politics, and how it all led to the making of a "monster". The author's website: https://shelleypuhak.com/ The author's publisher page: https://www.bloomsbury.com/us/blood-countess-9781639732159/ Become a Most Notorious patron here: https://www.patreon.com/c/mostnotorious Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On a bitterly cold night just before New Year's Eve, 23-year-old Ashley Kline disappeared from her home in Robesonia, Pennsylvania, after walking to a friend's house just four blocks away. She was never seen alive again. When Ashley vanished, her family and community were left searching for answers, clinging to hope that she would return. But as investigators traced her final movements, they uncovered a devastating truth and a brutal betrayal. Join Cam and Jen of Our True Crime Podcast on this episode entitled “The Cruelest Betrayal: Ashley Kline.' Listener Discretion by @octoberpodVHS Music is by our EP @theinkypawprint Sources:  https://www.reuters.com/article/world/us/two-pennsylvania-men-get-life-in-prison-in-murder-of-disabled-woman-idUSKBN0JM2HX/ https://www.facebook.com/ashleyklinelaw/ https://lancasteronline.com/news/local/family-to-charged-killers-i-just-dont-want-them-to-ever-be-able-to-hurt/article_03564a38-6ff6-11e4-82b6-37d915877836.html https://www.the-express.com/news/us-news/194741/woman-raped-stabbed-burned-alive-friends-she-left-home-new-year-s-eve https://www.wfmz.com/news/area/berks/family-reacts-to-death-penalty-for-accused-killers-of-ashley-kline/article_4fb044ec-1ad9-5456-abbc-bb3dabbc9e30.html https://lancasteronline.com/news/woman-found-in-wildlife-area-idd-as-ashley-lynn-kline/article_9b0912f8-8934-53f4-8a8e-bc2a6df4b862.html https://6abc.com/archive/9395586/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PM14Hin5ktM https://www.imdb.com/title/tt28616008/ https://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/world-news/woman-told-family-going-nye-33145175 https://lancasteronline.com/news/local/victims-father-was-ashley-klines-killer-upset-over-rejection/article_6a1b59b4-7edf-11e4-8759-17ebcd4c9538.html Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Welcome to a deeply personal and transformative episode of Strong Mind, Strong Body, hosted by Angie Miller. In this raw and honest solo episode, Angie shares her unexpected DNA discovery journey—one that rocked her identity, led to profound questions about family, and ignited a path toward resilience and acceptance. What You'll Learn in This Episode: ·      How a consumer DNA test upended Angie's understanding of her heritage and family history ·      The emotional rollercoaster of grappling with Not Parent Expected (NPE) results ·      Strategies for navigating identity shifts, uncertainty, and the grief of unanswered questions ·      Why giving your pain purpose can be a powerful step toward healing ·      Tips for supporting loved ones experiencing DNA surprises and disruptions Whether you've experienced a DNA discovery, are supporting someone who has, or are deeply curious about the impact of genetic testing on mental health and family dynamics, this episode offers validation, empathy, and practical advice. Key Topics: ·      DNA Testing & NPE (Not Parent Expected) ·      Identity Trauma & Narrative Disruption ·      Grief, Betrayal, and Radical Acceptance ·      The Impact of Generational and Family Secrets ·      Finding Community and Healing after DNA Surprises ·      Tools for Coaches, Therapists, and Friends SHOW NOTES: Angie opens up about learning she's 49% Ashkenazi Jewish—a revelation that didn't match her family narrative. She reflects on the isolation, emotional complexity, and her journey to acceptance after being the only sibling with this genetic truth. You'll hear about her attempts to find answers, including reaching out to relatives and hiring DNA Angels, and the heartbreak of hitting dead ends. Through vulnerability, Angie discusses: ·      The importance of “both/and” thinking—holding compassion and grief at once ·      How sharing your story and connecting with understanding communities can loosen shame and isolation ·      Practical guidance for those supporting NPEs, late-discovery adoptees, and donor-conceived individuals Why Watch This Episode? ·      If you or someone you know has experienced a life-changing DNA result, you'll find comfort, solidarity, and actionable tips here. ·      Mental health professionals, coaches, and trainers will gain insights on supporting clients through modern identity crises. ·      Anyone interested in family, belonging, and self-discovery will be moved by Angie's journey. If you like what you just consumed, leave us a 5-star review, and share this episode with a friend to help grow our NASM health and wellness community!  The content shared in this podcast is solely for educational and entertainment purposes. It is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek out the guidance of your healthcare provider or other qualified professional. Any opinions expressed by guests and hosts are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of NASM.  CTA: The most trusted name in fitness is now expanding into the wellness world. Become an NASM Certified Wellness Coach and you'll be able to guide and motivate clients to make lasting changes through mental and emotional well-being, recovery, and more. https://bit.ly/3PbopkM

How do you build an affair-proof marriage? Dr. Willard Harley knows the secret! Willard is the creator of Marriage Builders and the author of His Needs Her Needs: Making Romantic Love Last. With decades of marriage under his belt and a lifetime of expertise counseling couples through a gamut of sticky situations, he talks about his heartfelt mission to help people take the steps needed to steer clear of infidelity. Willard also highlights a growing trend among young adults: the fear of matrimony. What is driving this fear? Is it generational trauma? Is it seen as a cultural norm? Willard observes that as society becomes more sophisticated and educated, the more fearful they become of marriage. Willard is passionate about addressing these fears and encouraging healthy marriages.TAKEAWAYSThose who get married today tend to have fewer children than previous generationsWillard says that up to 70 percent of marriages are affected by infidelityStaying in love makes remaining faithful a lot easier and dating your spouse is a great way to enjoy the best things about lifeFear of marriage likely stems from observing unhappy parental figures

The first 30 days after discovering betrayal can feel like emotional chaos. Shock. Rage. Numbness. Obsession. Hope. Despair. All before lunch. In this episode, Infidelity recovery coach - Luke Shillings breaks down what actually matters in the immediate aftermath of discovery, and the common mistakes that can quietly make things worse. This isn't about long-term healing or whether you should stay or leave. It's about stabilising yourself when your nervous system is on fire. You'll learn: Why timeframes can become weapons Why you shouldn't make permanent decisions in a temporary state The danger of trying to “solve” betrayal like a logic puzzle How to create rules of engagement instead of emotional extremes The subtle way children can become emotional amplifiers Why rushing forgiveness can backfire How to stop searching for certainty and start building stability If you're in the early days, overwhelmed, unsure, and questioning everything, this episode will help you slow down and take the next right step. Because right now, you don't need the whole path. You need stability. Key Takeaways You are not failing because you're emotionally unstable, you're in shock Don't use imaginary timelines to measure your progress Avoid making permanent identity decisions while dysregulated Structure should hold your emotions, not replace them Boundaries are about clarity, not punishment Reassurance with children should stabilise, not amplify fear Forgiveness is not a switch, and you don't need to rush it More information does not equal more safety Choose one or two anchors instead of chasing every new idea Who This Episode Is For Anyone in the first weeks after discovering an affair Betrayed partners feeling emotionally volatile Listeners stuck between “fight for it” and “burn it down” Parents navigating early co-parenting chaos after discovery Reflective individuals who don't want to make decisions they regret later A Grounding Reminder You don't need to decide your future in week two. You need to stabilise your present. Healing isn't about speed. It's about staying aligned with yourself while the storm passes. Support & Next Steps If you're in the early days after betrayal and feel overwhelmed by conflicting advice, you don't have to navigate it alone. Through one-to-one coaching and The After the Affair Collective, Luke helps betrayed partners build stability, clarity, and emotional authority, without rushing decisions or suppressing truth. Learn more at lifecoachluke.com You don't need certainty yet. You need support that helps you think clearly. Connect with Luke: Website: www.lifecoachluke.com Instagram: @mylifecoachluke Email: luke@lifecoachluke.com

Happy Wednesday EIConversationalists. This week we ask, should everything be content?As of early February 2026, there are at least seven major television and streaming documentaries specifically focused on the case of Lucy Letby. The latest documentary The Investigation of Lucy Letby landed on Netflix earlier this month, featuring, in their words ‘never-before-seen footage as well as interviews with case investigators, a friend of Letby, and one of the victims' parents.'The words “digitally anonymised” popped up every time the grieving mother, or Letby's college friend, “Maisie”, appeared on screen, because although the documentary used their real voices, and real words they used Ai generated humans to represent them.In a piece for Newsweek H. Alan Scott writes, ‘On paper, the logic is sound. In practice, it is deeply unsettling. The closer you look, the more the illusion unravels. They are talking FaceTuned images—avatars trapped in the uncanny valley, mimicking sorrow without any of the soul, Instead of honoring the victims and grappling with the incomprehensible horror of Letby's crimes, we are left debating the ethics of a visual effect.'Netflix defended the decision to Esquire, stating the technology was used "to protect the anonymity of the contributors at their request." The evening standard said it was 'a morally egregious use of AI slop'Aside from the AI issue which we go into, we can't stop thinking about how many documentaries are popping up, seemingly constantly, about things that have just happened or are still happening.Do true crime documentaries need to have such a big place in our culture?Thank you so much for all of your opinions and takes on this topic, we love being in conversation with you all. O, R, B xxoxoThe Investigation of Lucy Letby review – this sensationalist take isn't what this awful case needsWhy The Investigation of Lucy Letby's 'Digitally Anonymised' Documentary is Causing ControversyLucy Letby's parents: Netflix show is an ‘invasion of privacy'Netflix's Use of AI Deepfakes is a Betrayal of True Crime Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A heartbreaking case out of Rhode Island sparks a blunt conversation about mental health in America, and Joe Pags doesn't hold back—calling for real solutions instead of culture-war slogans. Then the gloves come off: while the Trump administration talks about cutting costs, Congress appears to be barreling ahead anyway—and Pags says even Republicans are part of the problem. If you're frustrated about rising prices and empty campaign promises, this hour hits home. Breanna Morello returns for part two, breaking down why Elise Stefanik dropped out, what's really happening with Mamdani in NYC, and the fallout from Munich that has global headlines swirling. Sharp, direct, and no sugarcoating—classic Pags. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Malta. A fortress carved from rock, surrounded by sea, ruled by warrior monks who pray at dawn and kill by noon.Caravaggio arrives to paint a portrait. He stays because he has no choice. The Grand Master offers sanctuary, admiration, and something neither man is prepared to name. The Captain at Arms offers suspicion, jealousy, and a locked door every night.Act Two is the cage. Beautiful. Suffocating. Holy.Caravaggio paints the Grand Master's portrait and captures more than armor and scars. He captures a man's loneliness. The Knights throw a feast in his honor. He dances on tables. He is knighted with a gold sword. He is watched from every window.Back in Rome, Cardinal Del Monte fights for a papal pardon while the Tomassoni brothers hire bounty hunters. The Pope dies. A new Pope rises. The Church still cannot decide what Caravaggio is worth.On the beach, the Turks attack. Knights are nailed to crosses and set on fire, floated into the harbor at dawn. Caravaggio picks up a sword for the first time. He gives water to a dying boy. The boy is killed in front of him.Flashbacks pull him back to Rome. To Lena. To the night Ranuccio came for him with a blade. To the moment that changed everything.He paints The Beheading of Saint John the Baptist on a chapel wall and signs his name in the blood flowing from the saint's neck. The only painting he ever signed.Then he paints a Cupid so grotesque it seals his fate.Act Two is devotion. Desire. Betrayal. The moment a man realizes that the sanctuary he was promised is just a prison with better art on the walls.The fuse is burning.CastDennis Kleinman · NarratorCraig Parker · CaravaggioDan Lauria · Cardinal Del MonteBruce Davison · Alof de WignacourtShaan Sharma · Stefano della CroceCatherine Lidstone · LenaSarah Elmaleh · MariaBrendan Bradley · Annibale CarracciNoah James · Ranuccio TomassoniJosh Sterling · Ottavio TomassoniZeke Alton · Giovan TomassoniNick Monteleone · ManciniMatt Curtin · ToppaBjorn Johnson · Pope Paul VRay Abruzzo · Pope Clement VIIIWritten byRichard VetereExecutive Produced byJack Levy, Shaan Sharma, and Mark KnellTable Read is a Manifest Media production.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Resentment isn't bitterness or weakness, and it doesn't mean you're failing at healing. In this conversation, we unpack how resentment develops after betrayal trauma, how it protects you from further harm, and why suppressing it can lead to emotional shutdown, hypervigilance, and loss of joy.Chapters01:35 Understanding Anger vs. Resentment02:37 The Roots of Resentment04:54 Manifestations of Resentment07:49 Instinctive Defenses and Resentment09:32 The Traps of Resentment13:58 Healing from ResentmentRegister Now!✨Courage to Thrive - This intensive brings together expert trauma specialists in the serene Utah mountains for a transformative experience that goes beyond healing—it's about getting your power back. Join other courageous women March 17th-20th, and leave with proven strategies, unshakeable boundaries, and renewed hope.

Recorded on a Monday at the Palm Street Studio and no shoveling or salt required.  We are syndicated!  Catch us on the 360 Radio Network.  No one wants to present a gear grind. Betrayal!  Junior pulls an unethical move in regards to bowling.  The Grumpy Griller brings some Big Black Dick (Rum).  Stick figures and getting stabbed in the back.  We lost some big name celebrities.  A weight loss update.  Land the plane!   Featuring Hall of Famer JTK!, The Grumpy Griller, Brian "The Blade", Hall of Famer Junior!, Phil Nichol, and Adam Filkins.  Make good choices!

Episode 321: Broken trust doesn't just hurt—it reshapes how we see people, relationships, and ourselves. In this episode, Vonda and Lori talk candidly about betrayal in friendships, mentorships, and the workplace, especially during high-stress seasons like Valentine's Day. They explore why emotional pain mirrors physical pain, how kindness restores psychological safety, and why healing starts with acknowledgment, boundaries, and compassion—for others and for ourselves.Sponsored by: Flower CliqueFlower Clique Prep SchoolReal Life Retail Florist

There have long been whispers, coming from the castle; from the village square; from the dark woods. The great lady-a countess, from one of Europe's oldest families-is a vicious killer. Some even say she bathes in the blood of her victims. When the king's men force their way into her manor house, she has blood on her hands, caught in the act of murdering yet another of her maids. She is walled up in a tower and never seen again, except in the uppermost barred window, where she broods over the countryside, cursing all those who dared speak up against her. Told and retold in many languages, the legend of the Blood Countess has consumed cultural imaginations around the world. But despite claims that Elizabeth Bathory tortured and killed as many as 650 girls, some have wondered if the Countess was herself a victim- of one of the most successful disinformation campaigns known to history. So, was Elizabeth Bathory a monster, a victim, or a bit of both? With the breathlessness of a whodunit, drawing upon new archival evidence and questioning old assumptions, in The Blood Countess: Murder, Betrayal, and the Making of a Monster (Bloomsbury, 2026) Shelley Puhak traces the Countess's downfall, bringing to life an assertive woman leader in a world sliding into anti-scientific, reactionary darkness-a world where nothing is ever as it seems. In this exhilarating narrative, Puhak renders a vivid portrait of history's most dangerous woman and her tumultuous time, revealing just how far we will go to destroy a woman in power. This interview was conducted by Dr. Miranda Melcher whose book focuses on post-conflict military integration, understanding treaty negotiation and implementation in civil war contexts, with qualitative analysis of the Angolan and Mozambican civil wars. You can find Miranda's interviews on New Books with Miranda Melcher, wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network

Send a textLet's talk about bloodbaths! Shelley Puhak returns to talk The Blood Countess: Murder, Betrayal, and the Making of a Monster.Buy The Blood CountessSupport the show

There have long been whispers, coming from the castle; from the village square; from the dark woods. The great lady-a countess, from one of Europe's oldest families-is a vicious killer. Some even say she bathes in the blood of her victims. When the king's men force their way into her manor house, she has blood on her hands, caught in the act of murdering yet another of her maids. She is walled up in a tower and never seen again, except in the uppermost barred window, where she broods over the countryside, cursing all those who dared speak up against her. Told and retold in many languages, the legend of the Blood Countess has consumed cultural imaginations around the world. But despite claims that Elizabeth Bathory tortured and killed as many as 650 girls, some have wondered if the Countess was herself a victim- of one of the most successful disinformation campaigns known to history. So, was Elizabeth Bathory a monster, a victim, or a bit of both? With the breathlessness of a whodunit, drawing upon new archival evidence and questioning old assumptions, in The Blood Countess: Murder, Betrayal, and the Making of a Monster (Bloomsbury, 2026) Shelley Puhak traces the Countess's downfall, bringing to life an assertive woman leader in a world sliding into anti-scientific, reactionary darkness-a world where nothing is ever as it seems. In this exhilarating narrative, Puhak renders a vivid portrait of history's most dangerous woman and her tumultuous time, revealing just how far we will go to destroy a woman in power. This interview was conducted by Dr. Miranda Melcher whose book focuses on post-conflict military integration, understanding treaty negotiation and implementation in civil war contexts, with qualitative analysis of the Angolan and Mozambican civil wars. You can find Miranda's interviews on New Books with Miranda Melcher, wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/intellectual-history

There have long been whispers, coming from the castle; from the village square; from the dark woods. The great lady-a countess, from one of Europe's oldest families-is a vicious killer. Some even say she bathes in the blood of her victims. When the king's men force their way into her manor house, she has blood on her hands, caught in the act of murdering yet another of her maids. She is walled up in a tower and never seen again, except in the uppermost barred window, where she broods over the countryside, cursing all those who dared speak up against her. Told and retold in many languages, the legend of the Blood Countess has consumed cultural imaginations around the world. But despite claims that Elizabeth Bathory tortured and killed as many as 650 girls, some have wondered if the Countess was herself a victim- of one of the most successful disinformation campaigns known to history. So, was Elizabeth Bathory a monster, a victim, or a bit of both? With the breathlessness of a whodunit, drawing upon new archival evidence and questioning old assumptions, in The Blood Countess: Murder, Betrayal, and the Making of a Monster (Bloomsbury, 2026) Shelley Puhak traces the Countess's downfall, bringing to life an assertive woman leader in a world sliding into anti-scientific, reactionary darkness-a world where nothing is ever as it seems. In this exhilarating narrative, Puhak renders a vivid portrait of history's most dangerous woman and her tumultuous time, revealing just how far we will go to destroy a woman in power. This interview was conducted by Dr. Miranda Melcher whose book focuses on post-conflict military integration, understanding treaty negotiation and implementation in civil war contexts, with qualitative analysis of the Angolan and Mozambican civil wars. You can find Miranda's interviews on New Books with Miranda Melcher, wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There have long been whispers, coming from the castle; from the village square; from the dark woods. The great lady-a countess, from one of Europe's oldest families-is a vicious killer. Some even say she bathes in the blood of her victims. When the king's men force their way into her manor house, she has blood on her hands, caught in the act of murdering yet another of her maids. She is walled up in a tower and never seen again, except in the uppermost barred window, where she broods over the countryside, cursing all those who dared speak up against her. Told and retold in many languages, the legend of the Blood Countess has consumed cultural imaginations around the world. But despite claims that Elizabeth Bathory tortured and killed as many as 650 girls, some have wondered if the Countess was herself a victim- of one of the most successful disinformation campaigns known to history. So, was Elizabeth Bathory a monster, a victim, or a bit of both? With the breathlessness of a whodunit, drawing upon new archival evidence and questioning old assumptions, in The Blood Countess: Murder, Betrayal, and the Making of a Monster (Bloomsbury, 2026) Shelley Puhak traces the Countess's downfall, bringing to life an assertive woman leader in a world sliding into anti-scientific, reactionary darkness-a world where nothing is ever as it seems. In this exhilarating narrative, Puhak renders a vivid portrait of history's most dangerous woman and her tumultuous time, revealing just how far we will go to destroy a woman in power. This interview was conducted by Dr. Miranda Melcher whose book focuses on post-conflict military integration, understanding treaty negotiation and implementation in civil war contexts, with qualitative analysis of the Angolan and Mozambican civil wars. You can find Miranda's interviews on New Books with Miranda Melcher, wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Winning doesn't start with talent. It starts with ownership. In this episode of Harder Than Life, Kelly Siegel sits down with Dan Sachkowski for a real conversation about leadership, discipline, and taking responsibility for your outcomes. Dan shares lessons from navigating adversity, building standards that don't fluctuate, and why most people stay stuck blaming circumstances instead of owning results. This episode explores pressure, accountability, discipline over motivation, and why leadership always starts with leading yourself first. Key Takeaways

Subscribe to Bad Faith on Patreon to instantly unlock this episode and our entire premium episode library: http://patreon.com/badfaithpodcast Pulitzer Prize winning journalist, author, & theologian Chris Hedges returns to Bad Faith to engage in a spirited debate about how to act now that liberal incrementalism has led to incremental fascism. Why does it feel like so much left discourse is explaining why we aren't ready to act: "Insufficient union density, insufficient political consciousness, insufficient organization"? If it only takes 3% of the population to spark revolutionary change, what can we do with the tens of millions who mobilized for George Floyd or Palestine? How do we sustain civil disobedience as the state increasingly criminalizes free speech and ratchets up penalties as they did for Jessica Reznicek? Also, Hedges discusses his viral commentary on Epstein's relationship with Noam Chomsky, why he's not a Marxist, and more. Can't skip this one. Subscribe to Bad Faith on YouTube for video of this episode. Find Bad Faith on Twitter (@badfaithpod) and Instagram (@badfaithpod). Produced by Armand Aviram. Theme by Nick Thorburn (@nickfromislands).

If you've done the therapy, read the books, and tried everything to move on from betrayal—but you're STILL not okay—this episode explains why.  Dr. Debi reveals what Post Betrayal Syndrome® (PBS®) is, why conventional support often falls short, and what betrayal-informed care actually looks like. You'll learn why your body won't let go, why your mind won't quiet, and why the healing path requires specialized support.  This isn't about trying harder. It's about getting the right kind of help.    IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN:  What Post Betrayal Syndrome Really Is  The physical symptoms: exhaustion, digestive issues, immune dysfunction, unexplained pain  The mental symptoms: brain fog, obsessive thoughts, decision paralysis, hypervigilance  The emotional symptoms: numbness, endless grief, anger that won't leave, inability to trust  The identity impact: not recognizing yourself, questioning your judgment, feeling fundamentally broken  Why Conventional Support Hasn't Worked  Why therapy alone often isn't enough for betrayal recovery  Why self-help books skip essential stages of healing  Why wellness protocols don't resolve symptoms when betrayal is the root cause  Why coaching strategies hit an invisible barrier  The training gap: what most practitioners weren't taught  What Betrayal Does to Your Body  How betrayal creates a nervous system paradox that keeps you stuck in hypervigilance  Why your immune system dysregulates (and the autoimmune connection)  The gut-brain-betrayal axis: why digestive issues start after betrayal  How your entire endocrine system becomes depleted  Why conventional medicine treats these as separate issues when they're all connected  The Five Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough  Stage 1: This isn't happening (shock and denial)  Stage 2: What happened? (making sense of shattered reality)  Stage 3: The need for control (hypervigilance and trust issues)  Stage 4: Finding a new normal (rebuilding identity and boundaries)  Stage 5: Healing and rebirth (complete transformation)  Why you can't skip stages—and what happens when you try  What Betrayal-Informed Support Actually Looks Like  Why betrayal is different from general trauma  What practitioners miss when they aren't betrayal-trained  The difference between coping, managing, and actually healing  How to recognize if support is truly betrayal-informed  Why demand for this support currently exceeds availability    KEY QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE:  "You're not stuck because you're broken. You're stuck because you haven't had access to the right kind of support."  "Your body isn't broken. Your body is responding exactly as it should to betrayal."  "It's not that you hired the wrong people. It's not that you didn't try hard enough. It's that betrayal requires betrayal-specific support."  "With betrayal, the threat came from someone you trusted. Someone your nervous system believed was safe. That creates a paradox your nervous system can't resolve."  "You can't skip stages. You can't rush them. And you need support that understands which stage you're in and what you need at that stage."  "Most practitioners weren't trained in this—not because they're behind, but because it wasn't included in most certifications."    RESOURCES MENTIONED:  Looking for Betrayal-Informed Support? Join the waitlist to be notified when certified PBT practitioners become available in your area or specialty:

Send a textMost women don't get betrayed because they're stupid. They get betrayed because they were never prepared.No one taught you how to protect your heart. No one showed you how to trust your intuition, set boundaries, walk away at the first red flag, or name emotional abuse for what it is.In this solo episode of The Dimple Bindra Show, we go straight into the uncomfortable truth: You weren't betrayed because something is wrong with you. You were betrayed because nobody ever taught you how to keep yourself safe.We explore:How betrayal really begins in girlhood, long before a man cheats, lies, or manipulatesThe silent inheritance your mother (and her mother) carried, niceness, self-sacrifice, emotional abandonment, and fearWhy powerful, intelligent, spiritual women still respond to betrayal from the unhealed little girl inside them4 signs there's still a girl inside the woman who got betrayed:You were taught to be nice, not honestYou confuse attention with loveYou were never taught to say no with a straight faceYou were raised to work for love instead of receiving itThis episode is not about blaming your mother. It's about finally seeing the patterns you inherited, silence, overgiving, over-explaining, chasing crumbs, and calling chaos “chemistry.”You'll be invited to:Look back at the first time you betrayed yourself as a girlRecognize how that unhealed version of you still chooses partners, bosses, friends, and dynamics todayUnderstand that betrayal is not your failure, it's your origin story, and your awareness can be the start of your spiritual revolutionYour body remembers everything,  the betrayal, the fear, the collapse.But it also remembers how to rise.Check Out My Previous Episode 109 - Ditch Your Narcissist Magnet: Why You Keep Attracting Toxic Love (and How to Break the Pattern) with Dr Sage✨ Not sure why you keep choosing pain over peace? Take the free WHY YOU GOT BETRAYED QUIZ and uncover the pattern you didn't even know was holding you back.Betrayal disconnects women from themselves. This work brings you home.

In this powerful Voices of Celebration episode, Gail shares an honest and deeply personal journey from chronic self-doubt to grounded self-confidence. For years, self-doubt shaped how she showed up in her marriage, her divorce, and her relationship with herself. Fear of conflict, second-guessing her decisions, and a lack of self-trust left her feeling small and uncertain about her future. What makes Gail's story especially compelling is not just what she healed — but how she did it. She speaks candidly about how coaching provided something she hadn't found elsewhere: practical strategies, real-time awareness, and tools that changed her behavior, not just her understanding. Instead of revisiting the past, she learned how to engage differently, interrupt old patterns, and rebuild confidence from the inside out. One of the most powerful moments in this conversation is Gail's realization that the outcomes she feared most never came true. Rather than confirming her worst beliefs about herself, divorce became a turning point — a doorway to clarity, self-trust, and a deeper relationship with herself. This episode is a celebration of growth, courage, and the possibility of real change. Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/jbdpod

It is so hard to forgive betrayal, especially when it comes from someone you know. Far too often, that is the case with cheating; there's too much opportunity to pass it up, and cheating can become its own kink with the excitement of getting caught. However, ruminating over it all day long won't make you feel any better. Once you document it, you can tell your brain that we're going to digest it. We don't need to count the ways today. The best revenge is your happiness. This is actually a blessing in disguise. Thank God you know now and can move on with the life you're destined to have. I'll end with sexy messages. Thankfully, the winter mess is starting to thaw, and I'm already feeling the energy of the Year of the Horse! Onward and upward! ⚠️ These are performances and for entertainment purposes only. Make Good Decisions www.lovesexandtarot.com lovesexandtarot@gmail.com Socials: @lovesexandtarot Find me on YouTube and TikTok

Send a textThe calendar doesn't stop when your heart breaks. We dive into the invisible mental load that betrayal creates—those long days of smiling at work, holding it together for the kids, and lying awake while your brain scans for threats. I share how that constant vigilance is your nervous system trying to protect you, why it's so exhausting, and what actually lightens the weight.Together we name what's happening in your body—tight jaw, heavy chest, brain fog—and the mental noise that makes everything heavier: I should be over this, everyone else seems fine, why can't I forget. Then we pivot to practical, humane tools. You'll hear simple ways to release pressure without blowing up your life: five-minute resets, dark journaling to drain rumination, trimming nonessentials, and swapping intensity for gentler routines. We look at the difference between functioning and healing, and how rest isn't just sleep—it's relief from worry.You'll also learn how to regulate from the bottom up. Instead of trying to outthink survival mode, we use somatic cues—breath, movement, hydration, sunlight, and sensory grounding—to teach your body it's safe to settle. We talk boundaries around phone-checking and reassurance loops, choosing “good enough” as a skill, and why you don't need to be stronger—you need to be supported. If betrayal trauma has you stuck in hypervigilance, this conversation offers clear language, grounded tools, and permission to heal while still living.If this helped you see your next step, share it with someone who needs it, then subscribe and leave a review so more people can find this support. When you're ready for real help, visit lifecoachgen.com—Jen with one N. Your happily even after starts today.Please follow me on instagram and facebook @happilyevenaftercoach and if you want to see what coaching is all about I offer a free 45 min. clarity call via zoom. Email me: hello@lifecoachjen.com for any comments or questions. Thanks for listening, please like and review as well as share with your family and friends. My website is www.lifecoachjen.com

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Betrayal destroys trust—but rebuilding safety in marriage is possible.In The 'NEW' Marriage Podcast Ep377, Cass and Kathryn break down the real steps to restore safety after cheating, betrayal, or broken promises.Learn why enabling isn't true safety, how to set boundaries, and what it takes to rebuild trust for good.No fluff, just raw truth and practical tools for couples ready to heal and lead again. Listen now and reclaim your connection.

Send a textWhat happens when the people of God become comfortable with their chains—and ask their bravest voice to quiet down? We follow Samson to the rock of Etam and watch three thousand leaders plead for peace with oppressors rather than purpose with God. That ancient moment feels current: a community normalizes bondage, relabels sin to soften conscience, and turns its energy on the one person willing to act. We talk about why believers often attack their own champions, how conviction gets mistaken for condemnation, and what it costs to keep your footing when comfort pressures you to retreat.As we unpack Judges, we draw a straight line to today's church culture. Silence signals consent. Euphemisms blur moral lines. The loudest passion sometimes belongs to falsehood while truth sits in the back row, nodding but not standing. We wrestle with real stories of speaking up in rooms where most agreed privately yet stayed quiet publicly, and we ask hard questions: Where have we defended our chains? Where have we told the called to calm down because their courage unsettled our peace? Samson's mandate—justice in service of mercy—pushes us to see calling not as personal vendetta, but as obedience to a God who rescues through solitary instruments when crowds refuse.This conversation isn't about noise for its own sake; it's about clarity that refuses to trade holiness for harmony. We explore how refuge and separation prepare us to reenter the fight with steady hearts, why naming sin truthfully is an act of love, and how to wear pushback as a sign that truth has reached its target. If you've felt isolated for refusing to compromise, you'll find language, courage, and a path forward here.If this resonates, share it with a friend who needs a spine-stiffening word, subscribe for more straight talk on faith and culture, and leave a review with the one place you refuse to give an inch. Where will you stand this week?Support the showBE PROVOKED AND BE PERSUADED!

Send a textA holy God who calls sin “sin” leaves no room for our soft edges—and that's exactly where we begin. We push back on the modern habit of shrinking the gospel to a slogan while dodging the hard parts of Scripture. From the raw reality of abortion to the quiet ways we numb our conscience, we confront why polite evasions don't heal a wounded soul and why only Christ's blood can cleanse, reconcile, and restore a person to God.As the conversation deepens, we test our friendships and our courage. If staying in a Christian circle requires silence, is that fellowship or fear? We talk about media that dulls our senses, the idolatry of politicians dressed up as “pragmatism,” and the spiritual cost of hitching the church to any party platform. Our citizenship is in heaven, which means our mission cannot be outsourced to headlines or elections. We're here to preach a different government—the reign of the King of Kings—where truth is not a talking point and holiness is not optional.Anchoring it all is a biblical thread that still cuts: Samson betrayed by his own people, a pattern that anticipates Jesus being handed over. Cowardice often masquerades as wisdom. We expose the instinct to choose self-preservation over faith and recast courage as steady, focused obedience. Suffering will visit those who follow Christ, but despair doesn't have the final word. With clear-eyed hope, we call listeners to reject lukewarm living, speak the truth in love, and keep their zeal aimed at the real enemy, not at brothers or culture-war trophies.If this resonates, subscribe, share the episode with someone who needs clarity over comfort, and leave a review to help others find the show. What truth do you need courage to speak today?Support the showBE PROVOKED AND BE PERSUADED!

Send a textWhen enemies pitch their tents in sacred ground, it's rarely overnight. We open Judges 15 and watch the Philistines “go up” and “spread themselves” in Judah—a chilling twist on language usually reserved for worship. That turn of phrase becomes our roadmap to understanding how spiritual decline works: not through sudden collapse, but through slow, tolerated encroachment that feels polite until it conquers.We walk the path from Moses to Joshua to Samson to show how a people charged to drive out oppression came to negotiate with it. At Lehi—literally “jawbone”—God stages a reversal. The place of humiliation turns into a theater of deliverance, and Samson, the last warlike judge, stands as God's instrument against an occupying power. But Judah's response exposes the deeper wound: instead of rallying to the defender raised on their behalf, three thousand men choose appeasement, bind Samson, and hope for peace on the enemy's terms. We confront why communities still make that trade today, renaming compromise as kindness and surrender as prudence.Across the conversation, we draw out the principles that make this ancient account uncomfortably current: how toleration of error becomes invasion; how gradual encroachment studies our fear; and how the church can resist without spectacle by guarding doctrine, cultivating courage, and standing where Scripture stands. We also reframe the big-picture arc—judges to kings to the King of Kings—underscoring that national promises have been fulfilled and the call now is faith in Christ alone. If you've felt the pressure to “keep the peace” by giving up ground, this is a clear, steadying case for faithful resistance and a reminder that deliverance often begins where pride expects defeat.If this resonated, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs courage today, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway—we'd love to hear where you're choosing conviction over comfort.Support the showBE PROVOKED AND BE PERSUADED!

Send a textWhat if the freedom to read Scripture disappeared overnight? We start with that unsettling question and let it reframe everything—our habits, our courage, and the quiet compromises we make when comfort becomes our compass. From there we step into Judges 15 and watch Samson not as a mythic strongman, but as a study in crowd pressure, personal responsibility, and the hard discipline of restraint.Three thousand respected voices agree, and none stand with him. That's where the conversation gets uncomfortably relevant: it's easy to outsource conscience to leaders, but the moral weight still lands on us. Samson asks for an oath, not to save himself, but to protect his own people from their panic. He accepts the cords, holds his strength in check, and waits for God to vindicate. The pattern is familiar and deeply Christ-shaped—power contained, mission kept, character preserved under fire.We also take on the seduction of false security. New cords become a metaphor for the ways we try to control our future with plans, money, stockpiles, and networks. The blunt takeaway: none of it can secure your soul. Only faith in Christ can hold when pressure rises. That conviction fuels a tougher conversation about modern allegiances—why we should love our enemies and pray for persecutors, yet refuse to sanctify ideologies or partnerships that openly disdain the Lord. Along the way, we challenge theological systems that keep every bold claim safely pushed into the future, eroding accountability and dulling discernment.This is an episode about practicing courage before the crisis, reading the Word while it's easy, and learning when standing back is the bravest move you can make. If you've felt the tug to follow the crowd, to grasp at control, or to trade conviction for influence, this one aims straight for the heart. Listen, share with a friend, and tell us: where do you feel called to trust Christ over comfort today? If this resonates, subscribe, leave a review, and join the conversation so others can find the show too.Support the showBE PROVOKED AND BE PERSUADED!

Send a textProphecy that never lands still pulls crowds—and cash. We open with a hard look at how unfalsifiable end-times claims, red heifer headlines, and celebrity pulpits keep believers distracted from the quiet work of reading the Bible and obeying Jesus. If you've felt that tug toward the sensational while your soul grows thin, this conversation brings you back to center: Scripture over spectacle, discernment over vibes, faithfulness over hype.We trace a thread from Judges through Israel's history to the life of Christ: God's people often choose comfort over courage and sometimes sell out their own. Samson's binding, Moses' exposure, Joseph's betrayal, and the crowd's rejection of Jesus remind us why bold faith today still meets resistance at the dinner table and in the pews. We talk frankly about examining our hearts, guarding our minds, and learning to contend for doctrine without tearing down people. The Psalms anchor us: don't trust war horses or platforms; trust the Lord's steadfast love.From there we reframe mission with Paul's victory procession: Christ has already won, and the church moves on offense. That means the gospel will smell like life to some and death to others, but it must be spoken. We share encouragement for the weary, stories of gratitude and humility, and a practical path back to strength—rest when needed, then reengage with open Bibles and steady hearts. We also hint at a future study of Revelation that treats the book as urgent and pastoral, not a playground for speculation.If you're ready to trade speculation for Scripture and comfort for courage, you're in the right place. Subscribe, share this episode with a friend who needs clarity, and leave a review with the one insight you're taking into your week. What will you do differently starting today?Support the showBE PROVOKED AND BE PERSUADED!

The Questions Everyone Asks After Betrayal (But Are Sometimes Hard to Put Into Words) begin long before you say them out loud. After betrayal, the questions don't stop. They wake you up at 2 a.m. They loop in your mind while you're driving. They rise in your throat… and sometimes you're too afraid to even ask them. Why does this hurt so much? Will I ever trust again? Should I stay or leave? Am I broken? Will I survive the answer? In this powerful, nervous-system–aware episode, Lora answers the most common questions people search for after infidelity and betrayal — not with platitudes, but with grounded insight, lived experience, and deep compassion. More importantly, she helps you listen for the question beneath the question — the one that's really asking: Am I safe? Am I going to be okay? Can I trust myself again? If you've ever Googled your pain late at night, wondered how long healing takes, or feared that asking the wrong question might make everything worse, this episode is for you. You are not wrong for having questions. You are not weak for needing reassurance. And you are not broken. Top 3 Takeaways The question beneath the question is always about safety. Whether you're asking why it hurts, how long healing takes, or whether you should stay or go — underneath it all is a deeper question: Am I safe? Can I trust myself again? Healing is not linear — but it is possible. The nervous system needs time, regulation, and support. Feeling better is not the same as feeling regulated — and that distinction matters. Trust is rebuilt inside you first. You cannot rely on your partner to restore your safety. Rebuilding self-trust, alignment, and internal steadiness is the foundation for everything else.   Favorite Quote “The most important work after betrayal isn't answering the loudest question — it's listening for the question beneath the question.”   In This Episode, We Explore: Why betrayal hurts more than you imagined Why your nervous system feels overloaded How long healing really takes Why “stay or go” is often the wrong first question Why triggers persist (and what they actually mean) Whether relationships can truly recover Why you might be afraid to ask certain questions How to listen for the question beneath the question   Couples Q&A Invitation If you're in a relationship and have questions about rebuilding trust, repair, reconciliation, or what's realistic after infidelity, we want to hear from you. Lora and her husband, Sean, will be recording a special follow-up episode answering your top couples questions — not as experts pretending it's easy, but as two people who have walked this path. Send your questions to:

On Valentine's Day, while the world talks about romance, we confront something deeper love under pressure.In this powerful message from our series Love That Won't Quit, we walk through the story of Book of Hosea and the painful prophecy of Hosea and Gomer. Betrayal. Humiliation. Covenant-breaking. And a love that refuses to quit.We also unpack what Jesus actually said in Gospel of Matthew 19 about divorce and sexual immorality (porneia), and how Paul the Apostle addresses complicated marriages in First Epistle to the Corinthians 7.Main Scripture: Hosea 1-2; Matthew 19:3-11; 1 Corinthians 7; Psalm 51; John 8:1-11Topic: Bible Teaching, Bible Study, Christian Leadership, Kingdom Builders, Living on a Mission, Use Your Gifts, Serve God, Pray Give Serve, Faith ForwardSupport the show ------------------------------------------WANT MORE?Say You Love Me 1: Building Healthy RelationshipsToxic 1: What are Toxic Thoughts? Things Jesus Never Said 1: Is Loving Money Bad? Bondage Breaker 1: Tormented by your past? ------------------------------------------ JOIN US!Visit us at www.FusionChurchNY.com for the most up-to-date in-person service times and events. Join a Small Group.------------------------------------------FOLLOW US!Make sure to follow us on Instagram, Facebook, Youtube, and Tiktok.

Unknown Broadcast slips into the Weekly Spooky feed again—bringing you old-time radio horror stories, classic OTR suspense, and vintage radio thrills where love curdles into obsession, reputations become weapons, and the truth arrives late… if it arrives at all.Tonight's broadcast features four chilling tales:

This story unfolds a gripping narrative involving murder, courtroom drama, jealousy, love, betrayal, and the haunting consequences of guilt. The story revolves around a judge, a murderer, and the complexities of human emotions as they intertwine in a tale of revenge and justice.Uncover the chilling secrets behind guilt, revenge, and the haunting power of the past in a murder story where ghosts aren't what they seem. If you're drawn to psychological thrillers, stories of retribution, or tales that blur the line between reality and hallucination, this episode will leave you questioning what's real—and what's inside us all.In this gripping narrative, a judge's courtroom becomes a battleground of guilt and justice. As the judge sentences a man convicted of murder, memories of past crimes collide with spectral visions, revealing that some ghosts aren't just in the mind—they're in the very fabric of justice itself. With surreal encounters and a murder plot rooted in revenge, this episode explores how guilt can manifest as an unstoppable force, pushing suspects to the brink of madness.You'll discover:The psychological power of guilt and how it warps perceptionHow revenge fuels deadly motives and cunning plotsThe eerie symbolism of ghosts as manifestations of inner turmoilSurprising twists that challenge your understanding of reality—think spirits and hallucinations intertwinedThe importance of moral responsibility in the face of human darknessThis episode is perfect for fans of psychological horror, crime mysteries, and stories that keep you guessing long after the final line. It's a masterclass in storytelling that explores whether justice is served through law, or if some sins linger beyond the grave—and inside our minds.Don't miss this intense journey into the psyche of guilt and retribution, where the line between life and the afterlife blurs into unsettling shadows. Hit play and experience a tale that revolves around the ghosts we carry, the sins we hide, and the laughs that last—long after the story ends.TakeawaysThe interplay of humor and horror in storytelling.The psychological impact of guilt on individuals.Jealousy can lead to tragic outcomes.Love can complicate moral decisions.The consequences of a judge's decision can haunt them.Betrayal often leads to revenge.The theme of ghosts symbolizes unresolved guilt.Murder can stem from deep emotional conflicts.The courtroom serves as a backdrop for moral dilemmas.The narrative explores the thin line between justice and revenge.murder, courtroom, jealousy, betrayal, ghost, guilt, revenge, drama, love, intrigue

A Florida teen vanished in October 2021 shortly after he began talking to a girl from his high school in Miramar. Eighteen-year-old Dwight "DJ" Grant never came home after he went to hang out with one of his classmates Christie Parisien. Two days later investigators found the body of Grant in the bushes behind an apartment complex. Police soon set their sights on Parisien and two of Grant's other classmates Andre Clements and Jaslyn Smith. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this hard-hitting special edition of The Right Side with Doug Billings, I expose the feckless Kansas Republican leadership—Speaker Dan Hawkins, Senate President Ty Masterson, and RINO Rep. Bob Lewis—for gutting SB 254 and preserving in-state tuition perks for illegal immigrants. While American families struggle with college costs, these cronies reward lawbreakers and cut shady $3B deals like the Kansas City Chiefs stadium giveaway without a public vote. True conservative Sen. Mike Thompson sounds the alarm—it's time to vote out the swamp! No spin, just outrage, historical insights, and a rally cry for patriots.Support the show at DougBillings.us with a $5 monthly donation—keep the fight alive. Follow @DougBillings on X for updates. Subscribe wherever you listen for more unfiltered conservative analysis. God bless America—join the movement!Support the show

Mike’s mask comes off, and Saskia’s friends and family rush to gather evidence before it’s too late. Content Warning for tech-enabled sexual abuse, nonconsensual intimate image distribution, and rape. If you would like to reach out to the Betrayal Team, email us at betrayalpod@gmail.com. Follow us on Instagram @betrayalpod and @glasspodcasts. Follow our newsletter and join the Betrayal community at betrayal.substack.com. For resources on sexual violence, visit rainn.org/betrayal. You can also get free, confidential, 24/7 support through RAINN’s National Sexual Assault Hotline. Text HOPE to 64673 or call 1-800-656-HOPE. Every state has a domestic violence coalition, and many counties also have resources available. If you’re looking for help, go onto your county’s website to see what resources are available locally, or search the web for your state’s domestic violence coalition. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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