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I am a retired Police Officer with service dating back to 1994 and about 23 active years in the field. I have held many positions in law enforcement, but the last two years of my career ended where it began, as a patrol officer. I spent the last 12.5 years of my career with the Brighton Colorado Police Department. Outside of law enforcement I spent the last 25 years in Christian Ministry. I began most of my ministry work with a Rap Group called "Preachas In Tha Hood" Age and Flow, (You know him as Original Flow here on Holy Radio, were the main attractions or artists. Ultimately, my late father became a pastor and I worked along side him as an associate pastor for about six years. Since, I have worked in children's and youth ministries. dvsdan@holyradio.org
Get ready for some magic… because in Episode 14, I'm joined by none other than Megan Hale! Megan is a dynamic leadership coach, integrity expert, and host of the wildly popular Wild & Holy Radio podcast. In this interview, Megan and I get real about leading with integrity, staying true to who you are and to your role in this world, and how spiritual entrepreneurs can enjoy their work and find success beyond their wildest dreams. LINKS: Show notes: https://workyourinnerwisdom.com/14/ Megan Hale: https://www.megan-hale.com Wild and Holy Radio: http://www.megan-hale.com/category/wh-radio/ The Enoughness Revolution: http://www.megan-hale.com/category/podcast-season-1/ ACT on Your Business: https://actonyourbusiness.com/
I am a retired Police Officer with service dating back to 1994 and about 23 active years in the field. I have held many positions in law enforcement, but the last two years of my career ended where it began, as a patrol officer. I spent the last 12.5 years of my career with the Brighton Colorado Police Department. Outside of law enforcement I spent the last 25 years in Christian Ministry. I began most of my ministry work with a Rap Group called "Preachas In Tha Hood" Age and Flow, (You know him as Original Flow here on Holy Radio, were the main attractions or artists. Ultimately, my late father became a pastor and I worked along side him as an associate pastor for about six years. Since, I have worked in children's and youth ministries.
I am a retired Police Officer with service dating back to 1994 and about 23 active years in the field. I have held many positions in law enforcement, but the last two years of my career ended where it began, as a patrol officer. I spent the last 12.5 years of my career with the Brighton Colorado Police Department. Outside of law enforcement I spent the last 25 years in Christian Ministry. I began most of my ministry work with a Rap Group called "Preachas In Tha Hood" Age and Flow, (You know him as Original Flow here on Holy Radio, were the main attractions or artists. Ultimately, my late father became a pastor and I worked along side him as an associate pastor for about six years. Since, I have worked in children's and youth ministries.
I am a retired Police Officer with service dating back to 1994 and about 23 active years in the field. I have held many positions in law enforcement, but the last two years of my career ended where it began, as a patrol officer. I spent the last 12.5 years of my career with the Brighton Colorado Police Department. Outside of law enforcement I spent the last 25 years in Christian Ministry. I began most of my ministry work with a Rap Group called "Preachas In Tha Hood" Age and Flow, (You know him as Original Flow here on Holy Radio, were the main attractions or artists. Ultimately, my late father became a pastor and I worked along side him as an associate pastor for about six years. Since, I have worked in children's and youth ministries.
I am a retired Police Officer with service dating back to 1994 and about 23 active years in the field. I have held many positions in law enforcement, but the last two years of my career ended where it began, as a patrol officer. I spent the last 12.5 years of my career with the Brighton Colorado Police Department. Outside of law enforcement I spent the last 25 years in Christian Ministry. I began most of my ministry work with a Rap Group called "Preachas In Tha Hood" Age and Flow, (You know him as Original Flow here on Holy Radio, were the main attractions or artists. Ultimately, my late father became a pastor and I worked along side him as an associate pastor for about six years. Since, I have worked in children's and youth ministries.
I am a retired Police Officer with service dating back to 1994 and about 23 active years in the field. I have held many positions in law enforcement, but the last two years of my career ended where it began, as a patrol officer. I spent the last 12.5 years of my career with the Brighton Colorado Police Department. Outside of law enforcement I spent the last 25 years in Christian Ministry. I began most of my ministry work with a Rap Group called "Preachas In Tha Hood" Age and Flow, (You know him as Original Flow here on Holy Radio, were the main attractions or artists. Ultimately, my late father became a pastor and I worked along side him as an associate pastor for about six years. Since, I have worked in children's and youth ministries. dvsdan@holyradio.org
I am a retired Police Officer with service dating back to 1994 and about 23 active years in the field. I have held many positions in law enforcement, but the last two years of my career ended where it began, as a patrol officer. I spent the last 12.5 years of my career with the Brighton Colorado Police Department. Outside of law enforcement I spent the last 25 years in Christian Ministry. I began most of my ministry work with a Rap Group called "Preachas In Tha Hood" Age and Flow, (You know him as Original Flow here on Holy Radio, were the main attractions or artists. Ultimately, my late father became a pastor and I worked along side him as an associate pastor for about six years. Since, I have worked in children's and youth ministries. dvsdan@holyradio.org
I am a retired Police Officer with service dating back to 1994 and about 23 active years in the field. I have held many positions in law enforcement, but the last two years of my career ended where it began, as a patrol officer. I spent the last 12.5 years of my career with the Brighton Colorado Police Department. Outside of law enforcement I spent the last 25 years in Christian Ministry. I began most of my ministry work with a Rap Group called "Preachas In Tha Hood" Age and Flow, (You know him as Original Flow here on Holy Radio, were the main attractions or artists. Ultimately, my late father became a pastor and I worked along side him as an associate pastor for about six years. Since, I have worked in children's and youth ministries. dvsdan@holyradio.org
I am a retired Police Officer with service dating back to 1994 and about 23 active years in the field. I have held many positions in law enforcement, but the last two years of my career ended where it began, as a patrol officer. I spent the last 12.5 years of my career with the Brighton Colorado Police Department. Outside of law enforcement I spent the last 25 years in Christian Ministry. I began most of my ministry work with a Rap Group called "Preachas In Tha Hood" Age and Flow, (You know him as Original Flow here on Holy Radio, were the main attractions or artists. Ultimately, my late father became a pastor and I worked along side him as an associate pastor for about six years. Since, I have worked in children's and youth ministries. dvsdan@holyradio.org
I am a retired Police Officer with service dating back to 1994 and about 23 active years in the field. I have held many positions in law enforcement, but the last two years of my career ended where it began, as a patrol officer. I spent the last 12.5 years of my career with the Brighton Colorado Police Department. Outside of law enforcement I spent the last 25 years in Christian Ministry. I began most of my ministry work with a Rap Group called "Preachas In Tha Hood" Age and Flow, (You know him as Original Flow here on Holy Radio, were the main attractions or artists. Ultimately, my late father became a pastor and I worked along side him as an associate pastor for about six years. Since, I have worked in children's and youth ministries. dvsdan@holyradio.org
I am a retired Police Officer with service dating back to 1994 and about 23 active years in the field. I have held many positions in law enforcement, but the last two years of my career ended where it began, as a patrol officer. I spent the last 12.5 years of my career with the Brighton Colorado Police Department. Outside of law enforcement I spent the last 25 years in Christian Ministry. I began most of my ministry work with a Rap Group called "Preachas In Tha Hood" Age and Flow, (You know him as Original Flow here on Holy Radio, were the main attractions or artists. Ultimately, my late father became a pastor and I worked along side him as an associate pastor for about six years. Since, I have worked in children's and youth ministries. dvsdan@holyradio.org
I am a retired Police Officer with service dating back to 1994 and about 23 active years in the field. I have held many positions in law enforcement, but the last two years of my career ended where it began, as a patrol officer. I spent the last 12.5 years of my career with the Brighton Colorado Police Department. Outside of law enforcement I spent the last 25 years in Christian Ministry. I began most of my ministry work with a Rap Group called "Preachas In Tha Hood" Age and Flow, (You know him as Original Flow here on Holy Radio, were the main attractions or artists. Ultimately, my late father became a pastor and I worked along side him as an associate pastor for about six years. Since, I have worked in children's and youth ministries. dvsdan@holyradio.org
I am a retired Police Officer with service dating back to 1994 and about 23 active years in the field. I have held many positions in law enforcement, but the last two years of my career ended where it began, as a patrol officer. I spent the last 12.5 years of my career with the Brighton Colorado Police Department. Outside of law enforcement I spent the last 25 years in Christian Ministry. I began most of my ministry work with a Rap Group called "Preachas In Tha Hood" Age and Flow, (You know him as Original Flow here on Holy Radio, were the main attractions or artists. Ultimately, my late father became a pastor and I worked along side him as an associate pastor for about six years. Since, I have worked in children's and youth ministries. dvsdan@holyradio.org
I am a retired Police Officer with service dating back to 1994 and about 23 active years in the field. I have held many positions in law enforcement, but the last two years of my career ended where it began, as a patrol officer. I spent the last 12.5 years of my career with the Brighton Colorado Police Department. Outside of law enforcement I spent the last 25 years in Christian Ministry. I began most of my ministry work with a Rap Group called "Preachas In Tha Hood" Age and Flow, (You know him as Original Flow here on Holy Radio, were the main attractions or artists. Ultimately, my late father became a pastor and I worked along side him as an associate pastor for about six years. Since, I have worked in children's and youth ministries.
I am a retired Police Officer with service dating back to 1994 and about 23 active years in the field. I have held many positions in law enforcement, but the last two years of my career ended where it began, as a patrol officer. I spent the last 12.5 years of my career with the Brighton Colorado Police Department. Outside of law enforcement I spent the last 25 years in Christian Ministry. I began most of my ministry work with a Rap Group called "Preachas In Tha Hood" Age and Flow, (You know him as Original Flow here on Holy Radio, were the main attractions or artists. Ultimately, my late father became a pastor and I worked along side him as an associate pastor for about six years. Since, I have worked in children's and youth ministries.
I am a retired Police Officer with service dating back to 1994 and about 23 active years in the field. I have held many positions in law enforcement, but the last two years of my career ended where it began, as a patrol officer. I spent the last 12.5 years of my career with the Brighton Colorado Police Department. Outside of law enforcement I spent the last 25 years in Christian Ministry. I began most of my ministry work with a Rap Group called "Preachas In Tha Hood" Age and Flow, (You know him as Original Flow here on Holy Radio, were the main attractions or artists. Ultimately, my late father became a pastor and I worked along side him as an associate pastor for about six years. Since, I have worked in children's and youth ministries. dvsdan@holyradio.org
I am a retired Police Officer with service dating back to 1994 and about 23 active years in the field. I have held many positions in law enforcement, but the last two years of my career ended where it began, as a patrol officer. I spent the last 12.5 years of my career with the Brighton Colorado Police Department. Outside of law enforcement I spent the last 25 years in Christian Ministry. I began most of my ministry work with a Rap Group called "Preachas In Tha Hood" Age and Flow, (You know him as Original Flow here on Holy Radio, were the main attractions or artists. Ultimately, my late father became a pastor and I worked along side him as an associate pastor for about six years. Since, I have worked in children's and youth ministries. dvsdan@holyradio.org
DVS Dan from Holy Radio shares the word from the Lord
Get ready for some magic… because in this episode, I’m joined by none other than Megan Hale! Megan is a dynamic leadership coach, integrity expert, and host of the wildly popular Wild & Holy Radio podcast. In this interview, Megan and I get real about leading with integrity, staying true to who you are and to your role in this world, and how spiritual entrepreneurs can enjoy their work and find success beyond their wildest dreams. LINKS: Show notes: https://workyourinnerwisdom.com/14/ Megan Hale: http://megan-hale.co/ Wild and Holy Radio: http://www.megan-hale.com/category/wh-radio/ The Enoughness Revolution: http://www.megan-hale.com/category/podcast-season-1/ ACT on Your Business: https://actonyourbusiness.com/ The Wisdom Library: https://workyourinnerwisdom.com/free Work Your Inner Wisdom Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/workyourinnerwisdom/
Get ready for some magic… because in Episode 14, I’m joined by none other than Megan Hale! Megan is a dynamic leadership coach, integrity expert, and host of the wildly popular Wild & Holy Radio podcast. In this interview, Megan and I get real about leading with integrity, staying true to who you are and to your role in this world, and how spiritual entrepreneurs can enjoy their work and find success beyond their wildest dreams. LINKS: Show notes: https://workyourinnerwisdom.com/14/ Megan Hale: https://www.megan-hale.com Wild and Holy Radio: http://www.megan-hale.com/category/wh-radio/ The Enoughness Revolution: http://www.megan-hale.com/category/podcast-season-1/ ACT on Your Business: https://actonyourbusiness.com/ The Wisdom Library: https://workyourinnerwisdom.com/free Work Your Inner Wisdom Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/workyourinnerwisdom/
Megan Hale is a leadership coach, integrity expert, and founder of Wild & Holy® providing mindset and energetic wisdom mixed with business strategy for women entrepreneurs to show up braver, go all in, and expand into their fullest expression. She has so much wisdom and over delivers in her weekly podcast, Wild and Holy Radio. In this episode, Megan and I talk about what it looks like to step into money confidence and how healing your relationship with money will change your life!
This week I'm thrilled to welcome my friend & fellow mastermind group member, Megan Hale! Megan focuses on spiritual development & relationship coaching, and she also has a brand new podcast called Wild & Holy Radio. Before that, she hosted a podcast called The Enoughness Revolution for 150+ episodes (!) This episode is veers into some unchartered territory here on the Courage & Clarity podcast, and I love it.We're talking about spirituality, but it's now what you think.If you consider yourself even remotely spiritually inclined, but perhaps you've dealt with frustration and helplessness in a more traditional religious setting (um, hand raised over here), I think you will love Megan & this conversation. In this Courage episode, you'll hear: How Megan made the crazy decision to close her successful podcast & start overWhat spirituality can teach us about business How to get out of your own way and let the process guide you (hint: it feels AMAZING)How to tap into the feeling that you've already arrived at your goalWhat to do to resolve discomfort, fear and anxiety, in business & in life SHOW NOTES: Megan's websiteWild & Holy RadioWild & Holy Weekend
It's a brand new conversation [and the realest conversation] on spirituality, living your truth, and creating a life that honors your soul! This episode is brought to you by Wild and Holy Weekend, an intimate TX retreat for women ready to be their fullest expression. Join me this September for an unforgettable weekend to hear your own wisdom, take a courageous leap forward, and expand into your next evolution of self! Find out more by visiting wildandholyweekend.com. It feels so good to be back from my 6 week hiatus after the final episode aired of my first podcast, The Enoughness Revolution. To say I'm excited to get this new party started is a complete understatement. On Season 1, we're diving into the depths of spirituality, defining God, building faith, and healing wounds so we can expand into our fullest expression. I'm joined by some amazing guests including authors, speakers, inspirational thought leaders, and spiritual teachers as we tease apart the power of spirituality in our lives to become who we really are and pursue our holy work in the world. Tune in to learn more about what's new for Season 1 and make sure you've subscribed so you don't miss an episode! As with any podcast, your reviews are so helpful! There's nothing like potential listeners hearing straight from your heart. Please take a moment and leave a review for Wild & Holy™ Radio. I've included the "how to" right here.
It's here, you guys! The finale episode of The Enoughness Revolution and I'm ready. The past two weeks have been somewhat of a whirlwind while I've been processing the end of this chapter and the beginning of the next. There's been grief and excitement, anticipation and anxiety, and whole host of other emotions happening as several life events have lined up around the same time. As if life, right? I had no idea I'd be celebrating my first year of motherhood while getting ready to birth a new podcast baby into the world just a few weeks later, but cycles line up like that sometimes. We celebrate one milestone of achievement while starting new quests that have no milestones yet. In this way, maybe we're always beginners at something and I think thats a good thing. To always be evolving and growing and shifting and stretching. I could take this episode's air time to talk all about Wild and Holy Radio and how great it's going to be and why you should absolutely, positively make sure you're a part of the Launch Team (which you totally should and you can join right here!), but I'd rather take this time to share 3 Non-Negotiables for Cultivating Enoughness. I've gained so much wisdom from hosting this conversation for the past two years, so much so, I should probably write a book, which I'm sure my book coach Amy Brooks is over there like "duh"!!! I'm getting to the book writing, Amy, I promise! But truly, reflecting back on all the stories I've heard, journeys I've walked, work I've done personally and with clients - there's been a lot gained on what it means to cultivate that feeling of being enough. And let's be real... underneath it all, this is what we crave most. To know that we're enough on a cognitive level, an emotional level, on a physical level, on a spiritual level. In fact, the fear that we're not enough is the biggest deterrent for us being who we know we're capable of being and pursuing the things that our soul really wants, but will require us to be brave. Enoughness is the foundation for so many other things. There's this quote by Brené Brown that I go back to over and over again and it goes... "The most dangerous stories we make up are the narratives that diminish our inherent worthiness. We must reclaim the truth about our lovability, divinity, and creativity/ability." Woah! I did a whole email series last year teasing these three concepts apart and what these really look like in action when we doubt ourselves in any of these areas. I went even further into how we actually reclaim these pieces for ourselves. Why? Because when we talk about enoughness, we're talking about worthiness and the places where we doubt ourselves the most are here. We wonder if we're truly lovable, especially if we've had a history of broken relationships, relationship issues, or haven't yet found "the one". We wonder if we're worthy of divine intervention if we haven't lived up to the dogma or rules some other person or group of persons have announced/proclaimed is the way you achieve your goodness. And we surely wonder if we're capable and creative and unique and have something worthy of offering the world. Just ask any entrepreneur as they're launching something new into the world. All of these come back to believing you're enough, yet there's a distance difference between knowing something on an intellectual level and knowing it on a spiritual level and knowing something spiritually will always trump what you rationalize or justify or reason away in your head. Fear lives in the head. Truth lives in the heart, which is why doing the spiritual work of healing your stories is so paramount to creating a new baseline of enoughness, confidence, courage, and conviction, which brings me to my first non-negotiable. 1. Cultivating Enoughness means rewriting the story on what it means to be enough. In every single conversation I've had from all of the guests who've been on The Enoughness Revolution and in every single client I've worked with on the topic of enoughness and even in my own personal work on healing my own beliefs of unworthiness and brokenness, cultivating more enoughness has required a rewriting of the story. Brené talks about this a lot, which is probably why I resonate so deeply with her work and why I admire Glennon Doyle (no Melton now since she's remarried! Congrats G and Abby
Happy Monday, Friends! It's our last Motivational Monday of The Enoughness Revolution, which makes me feel so excited for what's to come with Wild and Holy Radio launching July 31st, but also a little sad. The Enoughness Revolution was a conversation I started in October of 2015 out of a pure passion to understand enoughness and the voices of "not enough" and dispel the myth that it doesn't matter how much we make, how much we become, how much we achieve, or how much we do, the experience of not enough is part of the human experience. For the past almost 2 years, I've interviewed over a hundred people on their personal journeys to finding worthiness, revolutionizing what they believe they deserve, and cultivating the courage to actually pursue it. Each of these conversations has left an imprint on my heart. Each one has given me a piece of wisdom I've carried with me on my journey and hopefully have also passed onto you. So, as we meet for our last Monday together until Wild and Holy Radio launches July 31st (p.s. don't forget to join the launch team here!), I want to take some time to sum up some of the biggest lessons I've learned the past 2 years of running this podcast. 1. Enoughness is deeply spiritual. I've done all kinds of work to heal the voices of "not enough". Before beginning my path of personal development, I tried to numb them any way I could. I'd hide myself in other people and relationships to feel wanted and desired. I'd hide myself under substances and alcohol to offer a short relief of my feelings of unworthiness. I ran from God as far as I could go until I literally couldn't go any further. I hardened my heart and put up walls so I'd never have to feel pain again. I self-abandoned my own ideas and opinions because I didn't want to "rock the boat" or risk disapproval. I stayed in relationships that weren't right for me because I was terrified of being alone. All because I needed the approval of others. I needed their validation because I hadn't learned to give myself my own. Which, of course, was a catch 22. I desperately needed my own validation and self-belief, but didn't think my opinion of myself held any weight. Then 2006 happened, the year I lost everything. My best friend died. I lost a whole group of friends. I lost myself in drugs and alcohol. I left everything I knew behind to travel Europe on my own and by the grace of God, I had no other choice but to rely on myself to recover from some of the deepest grief I've ever known. That was the turning point. Sometimes rock bottom is the best place to rebuild your life. I know that's been true for me. For the past 11 years now, I've been on a personal development journey to learn how to honor my soul, release shame and guilt, and heal the holes I felt I had in my heart. Year after year, I've challenged myself to become more and more whole. The last place I'd ever expect to arrive is to this deeply spiritual place of knowing I'm enough, I always have been, and I always will be even if I do nothing more in my life. Enoughness isn't attached to anything outside of ourselves. It's attached to our Divinity. 2. We all experience the voices of "not enough". I used to think I could out run fear and I wasn't done with my personal development until I got to this place where fear didn't exist. Then I realized, that was completely absurd. Fear is part of the human experience. Fast forward 5 years and again, I found myself in the same trap - wanting to get to this place where the voices of "not enough" didn't exist. I hadn't truly done my enoughness work until I got to this place where I knew I was enough and was no longer plagued by the voices of "not enough". About six months in, I realized I was in the same situation - trying to perfect my own self-improvement. Brené Brown talks about the difference between self-improvement and perfection in The Gifts of Imperfection and it's stuck with me every since. Our goal isn't to get rid of fear or the voices of "not enough". Rather, it's to learn how find our way back home to our truth and our soul when these voices do pop up. And they will pop up. And for good reason. For me, I've come to recognize fear and the voices of "not enough" as a sign I'm stepping out of my comfort zone, but deeper than that, I'm owning my truth in a more powerful way and my truth may very much differ from conventional wisdom. There's risk in speaking your mind and sharing your truth. There's risk in pivoting in new directions. There's risk in trying something new or pursuing a passion or loving someone with your whole heart. But there is no way around this risk... only through. And the way we get through is with vulnerability, which is probably why I love Brené's work so much. Courage and vulnerability are so deeply entwined and both are necessary for us to rise to our own truths in spite of fear and the voices of "not enough". 3. The voices of "not enough" are not your truth. This is one of those truths that I wish I would have learned when I was about 11. Before anxiety started. Before depression started. Before addiction started. Before codependency started. Before self-abandonment started. If I would have known that the voices of "not enough" were never my truth, maybe I wouldn't have given them so much power. But that wasn't my journey. Instead, my life has been a journey of coming home to my truth. If you've done this work, you know what this journey is like. You know that it can feel like a street fight for a good long while. You know you can stay in self-defeating patterns for years even when you "know" how to change. And you can get stuck in a downward spiral of knowing how to do differently, but not truly being ready to do it because you don't believe you're worth better. And it's toxic. But, I will say... taking the soul's journey of coming home to your truth and realizing the journey is never done changes the way you live your life. It changes the way you see yourself. It changes the way you love. And for all the years I've spent in non-truths, to be in place where life feels much more full of real truths is like I've arrived for myself in a way that feels like home. For years, I needed other people's validation more than my own. I desperately needed to belong, which is a basic human need. But I feel more than ever, what is most important, is to belong to and with yourself - to live with integrity and integrity is built on living your truth. So, how do you know your truth? It's simple. You're whole. You're perfect. You're deserving. You're complete. You're capable. You're strong. You're lovable. You're worthy. You're enough. That's the truth of all of our souls because that's the nature of souls. Souls don't hustle for any of these things because they don't need to. You don't need to. Be wary of any relationship, institution, culture, group, or belief system that makes you question your worthiness. 4. Discernment is the path to enoughness. If there's anything I'm most excited about diving into on Wild and Holy Radio, it's this - how we find our truth and live it and what this actually looks like in action. I know I've shared this quote probably hundreds of times now, but it speaks to the gravity of discernment with such conviction, it warrants me to share it again. "Re-examine all you've been told in school or church or in any book, and dismiss whatever insults your own soul." There are two parts here - re-examining and dismissing. And both take courage. But both lead to truth. The journey of cultivating more enoughness has been a process of unsubscribing from anything and everything that hasn't felt like my truth. And truth, to me, feels a lot like love. Not judgmental, manipulative, needy, or fearful love, but unconditional, all-welcoming, non-judgmental, healthy, whole love. It's required me to open my mind to things I was previously closed to. It's required I look at life through someone else's view point. It's required I explore things I previously thought were weird or crazy. It's required me to realize I have much more to learn than what I already know. And because of that, I've embraced a curiosity for life instead of living in the places of certainty or black and white. But more than that, discernment isn't just re-examining. It's learning how to hear your own voice over the noise of the world and choosing to follow that voice as often as possible. It's about flexing your bravery muscles and learning to recognize what alignment feels like for you and let go of, shift, pivot, dismiss the things that no longer feel like truth. Dismissing is hard. Letting go is hard. Shifting and pivoting... also hard. Which is why I'm so big on permission. You're allowed to leave any story that no longer feels like truth. You're allowed to leave any relationship that no longer feels like love. You're allowed to leave work that no longer feels like your calling. You're allowed to shift, to grow, to evolve, and change. Discernment and Shifting are in a beautiful love affair, but it always leads to more alignment and alignment feels like truth and truth is the foundation for enoughness. I can't wait to dive into this one even more so on Wild and Holy Radio and really take it to it's deepest spiritual levels. There's so much here and it's so rich and so good and so liberating! I can't wait! 5. Enoughness is the foundation for healthy love. With every single conversation I've had on enoughness, it always comes back to love. Enoughness gives us a certainty in who we are and what we deserve. It not only revolutionizes the way we think about and treat ourselves, but it drastically shifts the way we love the people closest to us. And this goes for how we love our spouse, our friends, our co-workers, and our children because it allows us to be the ultimate receivers of love as well. When enoughness is our foundation, we view other people's action through a loving lens. We recognize that everyone is doing the best they can. We realize other people's actions have so much more to do with what they're going through than they have to do with us and just this gift alone, this gift of depersonalization, deeply shifts the way we experience others and ourselves. Instead of walking through life feeling triggered, we walk through life feeling whole and serene. It doesn't mean we're void of worry. It doesn't mean our feelings don't get hurt from time to time. It doesn't mean we won't need to set boundaries because we will, but we see and experience people through a loving perspective instead of needing more from them than they can give at the time. We are more able to let people be who they are instead of needing them to be someone different. We learn to celebrate the people close to us just like we learn to celebrate ourselves with all our dichotomies and paradoxes. We start to see the people we love as perfect just as they are for who they're to become, the impact they're here to make, the lessons they're here to learn, and the lessons they're here to teach us. So not only does enoughness shift the way we love, but it also shifts what we deserve. We no longer stay in toxic relationships. We no longer put up with abuse. We no longer stay in situations out of obligation or outdated thinking. We're willing to choose ourselves, ask for what we need, stay in the room when things are hard, be willing to be vulnerable and be all in while also knowing where our lines are and knowing what actions we'll take if they're crossed. Enoughness is deeply honoring. It's deeply loving. And it's deeply courageous. Enoughness is the foundation for healthy, vibrant, soul-shifting love! Whew! When I first started this podcast, I had no idea where this conversation was going to lead me. I didn't know enoughness would be this whole thing that took over my life for two years. I also didn't know doing my own work around this would set me free in ways I couldn't have imagined. And yet, I know my work isn't done. It never will be. Because just like fear and "not enough" are part of the human experience, so is choosing courage and truth and the longer I walk this planet, I become aware of more and more layers I want to strip away to live braver and live truer. And I hope you're right there with me!! Join me for the final episode on Thursday as we go even deeper on the topic of enoughness and don't forget to join me on the Wild and Holy Radio Launch Team for the behind the scenes launch of this new conversation plus my first sponsors, first guests, and never before heard interviews you get to hear first! I'll see you on Thursday for our final episode! You guys.... a new adventure is in sight and I am SO excited!!!! xx
It's Transformational Thursday, y'all and I'm so pumped for our guest today! Not only is it the last guest interview of the season AND of The Enoughness Revolution, but I'm getting to talk to an amazing entrepreneur who has been so inspiring for me on my journey! But before I introduce you to her, I want to make sure you heard my announcement on Monday! The Enoughness Revolution is coming to an end with episode 150 debuting next week and there's a whole new conversation starting July 31st called Wild and Holy Radio! You guys, if you've loved The Enoughness Revolution and the conversation on worthiness, you're going to love Wild and Holy Radio because we're going WAY deeper into living our truth, becoming whole, knowing we're holy, and being our wildest and fullest expression in the world. Seriously.... you do NOT want to miss this! I've already put together a free FB group for us called the Wild and Holy Radio Launch Team where I'll be giving you a behind the scenes look as I reach out to guests,, secure sponsorship from some amazing product based businesses who are supporting spiritual living, plus giveaways, and all kinds of excitement as we launch this new conversation in the world and I would REALLY LOVE if you were a part of all that. You can join me right here! So, to say I'm excited about our guest today is an understatement. I've been following her for several years now and not only does she create killer content, but I love the way she connects with people and I so knew we would have an amazing conversation. And an amazing conversation we had! Today, I'm speaking to the lovely Alex Beadon. With over 1.6 million views on YouTube, Alex Beadon is a business coach who helps people learn how to sell their digital products and services online in a way that feels good *and* makes money. She's the founder of "The Spark Lounge" and is on a mission to help business owners blend energy and mindset work with proven business strategy, so that they can make a full-time income creating work in the world that matters to them the most. Alex is such the real deal and I couldn't help but fall in love with her top 3 tips for creating joy in life work and love, which are: 1. Clarify what joy looks like and feels like for you 2. Own it before it arrives 3. Take inspired action We go into all kinds of juicy details on all three of these plus what staying in alignment really looks like while riding the emotional rollercoaster that is entrepreneurship! Such a good conversation! Connect with her on social! She has one of the most engaged audiences I've ever seen and she's always doing something fun for her community. Youtube Channel: youtube.com/user/alexbeadon Instagram instagram.com/alexbeadon/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/thealexbeadon Facebook Personal Page https://www.facebook.com/abeadon Twitter twitter.com/alexbeadon Website alexbeadon.com I'll see you in a few days for our last Motivational Monday before we take a short summer break and come back with a whole new conversation that is Wild and Holy Radio! Don't miss out. Join the launch team here for a backstage pass
Happy Memorial Day, everyone! Especially if you're in the US. Before we get into today's episode, I want to bring our focus to why we celebrate today and what we're honoring. There are hundreds of families today who are missing a loved one, a loved one who paid the ultimate price for our freedom and safety. Yet, it wasn't just them that paid this price. It's also the spouses and children growing up without their parent. There is no greater sacrifice than that. As a military spouse, I feel this intimately. My husband has been the pilot on four angel flights where he's brought fallen soldiers home to their families. On one hand there's been honor to be able to bring these soldiers home. And on the other, there's been grief as it's a somber reminder of the cost of war. So as you celebrate today, please don't forget what we're honoring and please send some intentional love and light to those who have paid the ultimate price. Thank you! So, this weekend was my son's first birthday and with that came a wave of emotion. I noticed how fast the year went by and yet how long some of those days have been in between. This past year has been quite the journey of deepening into motherhood and watching this part of me ascend. It's made me acutely aware of my strengths, but also acutely aware of my shortcomings. Being a mom has made me want to be a better a person, a braver person, and teach my child the magic and miracles of life that surround him and are in him as he pursues his own path. I didn't always used to look for magic or miracles or signs or breadcrumbs. For a long while, it seemed I spent the majority of my time creating plans – my plans. There was no room for magic or miracles or signs or breadcrumbs. And because of that, there was a lot of anxiety. Anxiety happens when we need to be in control. We have a vision and stress ourselves to death to make sure it all works out. And there are plenty of things we can focus on to control – our partners- the way they talk, the way they act, the way they help us with chores. Our children – what they eat, what they wear, how they present themselves, what grades they get, what schools they get into. Our lives- we can spend an awful lot of energy trying to ensure certain things happen while preventing others. It took me a long time to realize there's very little in my control. This awareness increased my anxiety the first time I realized it, but then a peace came over me as I realized control was all a fallacy. The times things did go well weren't all my doing. The times bad things could have happened, but didn't were also not all my doing. There was some other hand in all of this. Coming face to face with the limits of my power was infuriating at first. I'd still fall into the same old trap of trying to change my partner. I still fall into the same old trap of trying to make my child nap when I want him to. And every now and then, I still fall into the deep dark hole of trying to force my way in the world instead of allowing, instead of inviting, instead of having a preference instead of a goal. It's funny…. the more I sought control over things outside of myself, the more out of control I felt. And the more I let go of control, the more in control of my life I became. This has shown up over and over again for me. Especially in relationships wanting people to feel a certain way about me, but not being able to force it. Or trying to force a certain career path when it was never meant for me in the first place. Or trying to meet a goal that my ego had set for me to feel enough only to feel as though I horribly missed the mark. The more and more I tried to get my way, the more powerless I felt. And looking back, I was so attached to “MY WAY”, I didn't see all the signs. I didn't see all the breadcrumbs leading me in a different direction. I didn't see those relationships were never my forever love. I didn't see those life directions were taking me further away from my true calling. I didn't see all the synchronicities that were lining me up pointing me in the right direction. And the thing that skewed my vision the most was the idea I wasn't enough. Why else do we try and convince someone to love us when true love needs no convincing? Why else do we get in power struggles with our kids other than it threatens our authority? Why else do we stay in a job that makes us feel like we're dying? Because we don't trust ourselves enough to take the leap? Maybe we're not good enough after all! The past two years, I've been talking about enoughness, how we cultivate it, how we maintain it, how we find our way back to it when we get lost in the voices of “not enough”, which are never our truth by the way. For the past two years, I've been studying worthiness and the way it plays out in all kinds of ways keeping us from the love we deserve, the life we deserve, the work we deserve, and the courage we deserve. I think we all know the ways in which it shows up in our own lives, the way we cower instead of believe, the way we second guess instead of have faith, the way we try and control instead of surrender. It's a vulnerable thing to stand in your worthiness, but something magical happens when you do. You become a much more powerful observer of your life, yet you also become increasingly aware of your power. You realize you don't have to force or control or predict or prove. You're whole as you are. You're enough as you are and you can surely have preferences, you can surely have dreams, but you become much more open to the way in which they all play out. You start to become increasingly more aware that everything is always working in your favor. There is never a need to worry because the Universe has your back. All the fears of being judged or misunderstood are replaced with a silent power that's strong and unyielding because you know other people's validation will never be more important than your own. And because of this, you trust yourself more, but you trust the Universe and God even more so because you no longer doubt your divinity. And that's where the belief in breadcrumbs come in. Instead of needing to know the whole plan, your life becomes an adventure taking one step after one step as it appears in front of you and letting where this path may lead tickle your curiosity. I've found that each time I follow a breadcrumb, a new vision for the future comes with it. My soul dreams up all kinds of ideas of where these breadcrumbs may lead and just like any good dream, it motivates me to keep on going, to keep on following the breadcrumbs. Each breadcrumb leads to a deeper vision for the future and keeps carrying me in ways I couldn't have predicted nor could I have planned. And then you realize how boring life would be if you knew what was coming all along. And in a way, we do know what's coming. The people I run with will live extraordinary lives – wide open to love and adventure, blessings and loss. Their hearts will experience the depth and breadth of life as they always move forward in search of what feels like truth and good in their bones. They're curious, so curious, as to where their life will lead and without even noticing it, they'll weave a beautiful life, a life more beautiful than they could have ever planned. That's the power of breadcrumbs. I don't need to know where mine lead, only that they feel like truth and good in my bones and that the next step is necessary for more of the future to be revealed. And so I'm taking it! The concept of Wild and Holy found me earlier this year as I was deepening into my book writing process and the message I feel most called to share. Wild and Holy came to me while I was making my way back to church, a very vulnerable practice for me and it's seriously no surprise that this idea found me then because I needed to be reminded that no church or school or book or system will ever be the decider of my holiness. I've already claimed that for myself and it comes from living my truth. It comes from running wild. Of reclaiming the pieces of me I had given away because I thought they weren't enough, I thought they didn't belong. I needed that reminder as I sat in those pews that brought up all kinds of negative feelings. I needed those words to remind me that nothing will ever be between me and my divinity – no person outside myself making the rules or suggesting I conform myself to boxes. Divinity is free. Worthiness is free. Enoughness is free. And we only get to these things when we refuse to let others opinions or beliefs dictate who we are in the world. We have to be brave enough to hold our own opinions, to trust ourselves, to cultivate our own beliefs and live by them with integrity. That's what wildness means to me and it's the holiest work you'll ever do. It's the holiest work I've ever done and continue to do. After all, this is the journey of the seeker – always on the search for what feels like truth and good in our bones. So, friends….. The Enoughness Revolution is coming to an end at it's 150th episode and Wild and Holy Radio will be coming in it's place! I'm ready to follow this breadcrumb to wherever it shall lead and bring our community along with me! I don't know if anything has felt this good in my bones or felt more true than Wild and Holy does to me every single time I say it. There's something that moves through me like electricity and a shiver. I feel turned on in a way I can't explain, enlivened, excited, and like I'm stepping into some really big shoes. But dreams and visions are supposed to scare you. They're supposed to scare you with a rock steady flow of certainty flowing underneath. It's intuitive and guided, certain and strong and I am so excited for this next conversation! Wild and Holy Radio will be launching on July 31st, my 34th birthday with new conversations on how we reclaim our real truths, release our non-truths, and become our fullest expression in the world. We'll be talking about God and all the mystical ways this powerful life force shows up. We'll be talking about love – how we choose it, how we become it, how we offer it and receive it, how we pour it into our relationships for life-changing experiences of feeling seen, heard, supported, and known. We'll be talking about purpose – how we find it, how we pursue it, how we creatively express it in the world. And we'll be talking about spiritual living – how we trust more and worry less, how we forgive more and grudge less, how we bravely experience the messiness of life with all it's twists and turns and losses and celebrations. We'll talk about becoming our most loving selves, our most trusting selves, our bravest selves, our wildest selves. Because all of this is holy work. There is no holier work than living your truth and honoring your soul and I want to be a lighthouse for the wildest and holiest work we can do! I hope you'll join me! We still have three more amazing episodes on the Enoughness Revolution. I've already opened a Wild and Holy Radio Launch Team FB group, which I've linked to in the show notes. Together, we'll be sharing Wild and Holy Radio far and wide. There will be giveaways and celebration. There will be behind the scenes as I reach out to spiritual teachers. There will be sneak peaks of some of the newest episodes. And there will be a whole lot of community as we gear up to share this new message with the world. So…. This is where my breadcrumbs are leading me. To Wild and Holy. To a new conversation, a deeper conversation on spirituality, love, purpose, faith, trust, magic, and miracles. Are you excited? I'm excited, y'all! There's nothing more exhilarating that taking a leap in faith, than following the signs not knowing where you're going to end up, but if I were a betting woman, I'd bet they're going to lead us somewhere great, somewhere deep, somewhere free, and somewhere holy! Ahhhhhhh….. come join me on the Wild and Holy Radio Launch Team you guys! This is going to be sooooooooooo good!!!! Ok… I have an amazing guest for you guys on Thursday, a person I've been following for awhile now and we had the best conversation about a lot of the things we talked about today, actually. She's a firecracker with a huge heart who's going to be sharing so many juicy nuggets behind the scenes of following her heart and reaching her dreams. It's a good one! Until then, happy Monday. Have a powerful, magical, loving start to your week