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Are your business boundaries working for you? As your home staging business grows, the way you work with clients, your team, and your schedule may need to change, too. Early on, saying yes to everything can feel like good customer service. You answer messages after hours, accommodate last-minute requests, and make exceptions to keep everyone happy. But eventually, too much flexibility can lead to overwhelm, frustration, and a business that feels reactive instead of intentional. That's why better boundaries matter. Boundaries vs. Policies: What's the Difference? Boundaries and policies work together, but they aren't the same thing. A boundary is a limit or expectation you establish for how you want to operate. A policy is the formal business rule that communicates that expectation to your clients or team. For example, you might decide that you don't want to respond to client messages after business hours. That's your boundary. Your policy might state that messages received after 6 p.m. will be answered the next business day. The boundary defines the limit. The policy communicates it clearly. Where Does Your Business Need Better Boundaries? If you're not sure where your boundaries need attention, look at the areas that regularly create stress or frustration. Ask yourself: Am I constantly adjusting my schedule for clients? Do I regularly answer messages outside business hours? Am I making exceptions that have become expected? Am I still doing work that should be handled by someone else? Are my clients and team clear about what I expect? These situations can reveal where your business boundaries need to be strengthened. You don't have to change everything at once. Start with the one area that's creating the most friction. Create Systems That Support You Once you've identified a boundary, communicate it clearly and build it into your systems. Client agreements, onboarding materials, scheduling procedures, communication guidelines, and team processes can all help reinforce your expectations. This makes boundaries easier to maintain because you're not having to make the same decision or explain the same expectation over and over again. And having boundaries doesn't mean you can't be flexible. You can still make exceptions when you genuinely want to. The difference is that you're making a choice rather than feeling like you have to say yes. Your Business Should Work for You, Too You built your home staging business to create something meaningful, not to spend every evening answering messages or constantly rearranging your schedule around everyone else's needs. Better boundaries can bring clarity, protect your time, support your team, and create a more consistent client experience. Take a look at your business and ask yourself: Are my current boundaries supporting the business I want to build? If the answer is no, choose one boundary that needs to change. Clarify it, communicate it, and create a system to support it. Sometimes, building a healthier business isn't about doing more. It's about deciding what you're no longer willing to make room for. It requires deciding what you're no longer willing to let take over your time and attention.   WHAT YOU'LL LEARN FROM THIS EPISODE: The difference between boundaries and policies How to identify where your business needs better boundaries How to communicate expectations clearly How systems can help you maintain those boundaries Why better boundaries can protect your time and reduce overwhelm … and more! RESOURCES: Share your wins and your questions! 1-800-305-7050 Join the Harlowe Inner Circle Waitlist here: https://waitlist.harloweco.com Apply for Private Coaching: www.rethinkhomeinteriors.com/privatecoachingapp Enroll in Staging Business School Accelerate Track: www.rethinkhomeinteriors.com/accelerate Follow Harlowe on Instagram: www.instagram.com/meetharlowe Follow the Staging Business School on Instagram: www.instagram.com/stagingbusinessschool If you want to learn how to market and grow your staging business, enrollment is open for Staging Business School Accelerate Track. This is a year-long mentorship program where I help you and other staging business owners plan, grow, flow, and thrive with the results that you've always wanted. The doors are open and I would love to see you in the classroom! ENJOY THE SHOW? Leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts so that more Staging CEO's find it. Also, include links to your socials so that more Staging CEOs can find you. Follow over on Spotify, Stitcher, Amazon Music, or Audible.  

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In this episode, Alex Dorr breaks down his favorite quotes and insights from Part 2 of How We Could. You'll learn practical ways to clean up your thinking, build real accountability across your team, and make sure people are in the right role for what the situation actually requires. This is part two of a three-part series digging into the sections of the book that didn't make the final cut, sharing Alex's exclusive insights to enrich your reading experience. Pre-order How We Could for you and your team (official release date is September 22nd): https://www.realitybasedleadership.com/pre-order Episode Highlights: 00:00:18 – Welcome and episode intro 00:01:42 – Recap of Part 1 and transition into Part 2 00:04:04 – Part 2 begins: calling people up to greatness 00:04:22 – Step two overview: cleaning up thinking 00:09:34 – Why the five-step sequence matters (the "secret sauce")  00:14:17 – Diving into clean thinking: ego, stories, and facts 00:20:24 – Step three: accounting for our part in the mess  00:24:41 – Breaking down accountability: account + ability 00:27:30 – Step four: knowing your role in the solution 00:34:05 – Non-negotiables, procedures, and avoiding burnout

TMS235-The-Angry-Patient In this episode, we cover: Why trying to “win” an argument with an angry patient almost always costs you the relationship. Exact phrases to use when a patient is furious about wait times, bills, or feeling dismissed. The five-step reset for de-escalating anger: Listen, Acknowledge, Clarify, Respond, Follow through. How to respond when a patient threatens to sue or leave a scathing online review—without violating privacy rules. The three sentences every staff member should know to lower the temperature and reopen communication. Key Takeaway Quote: “Your goal is not to win the argument. Your goal is to understand the experience. Because you can be technically correct and still completely lose the patient.” – Dr. Barbara Hales Connect with Barbara Hales:  Twitter: @DrBarbaraHales Facebook: facebook.com/theMedicalStrategist Business Website: TheMedicalStrategist.com Email: info@TheMedicalStrategist.com  YouTube:@barbarahales LinkedIn: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/barbarahalesBooks: Content Copy Made Easy 14 Tactics to Triple Sales TRANSCRIPT Stop Trying to Win — Understand the Angry Patient Dr. Barbara Hales 0:06 Your patient is furious, and unfortunately, they have Wi-Fi. Hello, everyone, and welcome back to Marketing Tips for Doctors. In our first episode, we talked about trust and the transparency paradox. We challenged the old belief that when something goes wrong, saying less always protects the physician. Then we tackled one of the hardest questions a patient can ask: “Doctor, was this your fault? And we talked about what physicians can actually say when they don’t yet have all the answers. Today we’re taking the next step because sometimes the patient isn’t calmly asking questions. Sometimes they’re angry, really, really angry. They’re angry about the bill. They’re angry because they waited an hour and 15 minutes to see you. They’re angry because nobody returned their call. They’re angry because you didn’t send their prescription to the pharmacy. They’re angry because they think you didn’t listen to them, or they’re angry because the outcome wasn’t what they expected, and now they’re standing at your front desk saying those words everyone in the office dreads. I’m going to leave you a terrible review. What happens next may determine whether you lose a patient, receive a one-star review, damage your reputation, or actually strengthen the relationship. So grab your coffee because today we’re talking about the angry patient, and I’m going to give you actual words to use. First, stop trying to win. Here’s the first thing I want you to remember: your goal is not to win the argument. I know sometimes the patient is wrong, completely wrong. They arrived 25 minutes late, and they’re furious because they had to wait. They didn’t follow the instructions you gave them. The office called three times, and they didn’t return the calls. The charge they’re screaming about is clearly explained in the paperwork they signed. You have facts. You have documentation. You may even have witnesses. And every cell in your body wants to say, actually, be careful, because you can win the argument and still lose the patient. And now that patient has a smartphone, being technically correct does not necessarily repair an emotional experience. Before you correct the facts, you need to understand what the patient believes happened. The waiting room. Let’s imagine a patient named Susan. Susan has a 10 o’clock appointment. At 11 o5′ she’s still sitting in the waiting room. Nobody has told her why. She finally walks up to the receptionist and says, “This is ridiculous. My time matters too. The receptionist answers, “The doctor had an emergency. We’re doing the best we can now. Is that true? Probably. Is it helpful? Not particularly, because what Susan hears is, “Your inconvenience doesn’t matter because we have a good excuse. Then the receptionist makes it worse. Would you like to reschedule? Oh boy, Susan has already rearranged her morning, driven to the office, and waited more than an hour. Now we’re suggesting she do it all again. Imagine instead that someone had gone into the waiting room 30 minutes earlier and said, “Dr. Smith had an emergency this morning, and we’re running behind. I’m really sorry we didn’t tell you sooner. Right now, we’re estimating another 30-minute wait. I can give you some options if that doesn’t work for you. Same delay, same doctor, same emergency, completely different experience. What changed? Not the problem, the communication. Sometimes you cannot fix what’s making the patient angry, but you can fix how they’re experiencing it. Don’t say “calm down. Here’s a phrase I’d like to banish from every medical office. You need to calm down. Has that sentence ever calmed anyone down? Imagine your spouse saying it to you during an argument. How’s that going to work out? Probably not well. “ Calm down” communicates that your emotional reaction is the problem. Instead, try. I can see that you’re upset. Tell me what happened. Then stop talking. This is harder than it sounds. Doctors are problem solvers. While the patient is speaking, our brains are already generating solutions. But an angry person who doesn’t feel heard usually doesn’t get less angry because you interrupted them with a solution. Let them finish. You may discover that what they’re actually angry about isn’t what you assumed. Story number two: The $300 bill. Let’s meet Robert. Robert receives a $300 bill he wasn’t expecting. He calls the practice, furious. I was told insurance covered this. The staff member responds, “You need to call your insurance company. That’s your deductible. Listen, Acknowledge, Clarify, Respond, and Follow Through Dr. Barbara Hales 6:43 That may be factually correct, but Robert doesn’t hear. Here’s an explanation. He hears, not our problem. So he asks for the office manager. Now he’s angrier. By the time the office manager gets on the phone, Robert says this practice is a scam. Here’s where things can go badly very quickly. The office manager can defend the practice. We are absolutely not a scam. Or she can say, I can hear how frustrating it was to receive a bill you weren’t expecting. Let’s look at what happened together. Notice something important. She didn’t say the bill was wrong. She didn’t promise to waive it. She did not blame the insurance company. She acknowledged the problem and offered to investigate it. Then she can say, “Let me pull up your account so I can explain exactly where this charge came from. Now we’re moving from confrontation to problem-solving, and that phrase, “Let’s look at this together, is incredibly powerful. Suddenly, it’s no longer patient versus practice. It’s patient and practice versus problem. That’s where you want to be. The five-step reset. So let’s make this practical. When an angry patient is in front of you, remember five steps: one, listen. Don’t interrupt unless there’s a safety issue. Let the patient tell you what happened. Two, acknowledge. You don’t have to agree with every accusation. You can say, “I understand why that would be frustrating, or “I can see why you’re upset. Three, clarify. Ask what concerns you most right now. That question is gold, because the answer may surprise you. Four, respond now and only now. Explain what you know. Keep it simple. No defensive speech. No 10-minute explanation of office policy. Five. Follow through. If you say you’ll call tomorrow, call tomorrow. If you say someone will investigate. Make sure somebody investigates, because nothing reignites anger faster than a broken promise. But what if the patient is wrong? Now we’re getting to the fun part. What if the patient is absolutely, positively wrong? Let’s say a patient tells you Nobody ever told me I needed this follow-up test. You look at the chart; it’s documented. You discussed it. Your nurse discussed it. The portal message was sent. The patient even replied to. Message; your temptation is to say, ” Actually, we told you three times, technically correct, terrible opening. Try this instead. I can see there was a disconnect somewhere because you didn’t leave understanding that the follow-up was necessary. Let’s go through what happened and make sure we’re clear about what you need now. Does that mean you’re accepting blame? No. It means you’re prioritizing the patient’s care over proving you’re right. You can review the documentation afterward, but first solve the problem that’s in front of you. Story number three: the patient who felt dismissed. Now let’s talk about something even more personal. A patient we’ll call Diane comes in with fatigue, headaches, and difficulty sleeping. The physician evaluates her, orders appropriate tests, and finds nothing alarming. He tells her everything looks fine. He thinks he’s giving her good news. Diane hears There’s nothing wrong with you. She leaves furious. Later, she writes, “The doctor didn’t listen to me and dismissed all my symptoms. Now, imagine the physician reading that review. His immediate reaction might be, “That’s completely unfair. I spent 30 minutes with her. I ordered tests, and he may be right, but remember something: intent and experience are not always the same thing. He meant to reassure her; she felt dismissed. What if he had said The good news is that the testing we’ve done so far has not shown anything dangerous, but I know you’re still having these symptoms, and I don’t want you to think I’m dismissing them. Let’s talk about what we do next. Same test results, different experience. Sometimes the sentence you add at the end changes everything. When the patient says, “I’m going to sue you, now let’s tackle the sentence that makes everyone’s stomach drop. I’m going to sue you. This is not the moment to say, “Go ahead, please don’t say that. It’s also not the time to debate the merits of a potential lawsuit. Once a patient threatens legal action, follow your organization’s policies and notify the appropriate risk management or malpractice professionals. But in the moment, you can still remain calm. You might say, “I can hear how upset you are. Handling Lawsuits, Online Reviews, and Boundaries Dr. Barbara Hales 13:05 I want to make sure your concerns are taken seriously, and I’ll make sure the appropriate people are aware of them. Don’t argue. Don’t threaten. Don’t promise outcomes, and don’t suddenly become a robot. Professional doesn’t have to mean cold. And then there’s the online review. Now we arrive at the Wi-Fi. The patient says, “Everyone is going to hear about this. Here’s what I don’t want you to do. Don’t say If you post something false, we’ll respond. Don’t say you can’t write that, and please don’t start negotiating for five stars while the person is still furious. Your objective is to address the underlying complaint because many negative reviews begin long before somebody opens Google. They begin with the feeling nobody listened to me. If you can address that feeling before the patient leaves your office, you may prevent the conflict from escalating, not because you’re manipulating them into avoiding a bad review, but because you’re actually resolving the problem. That’s reputation management at its best. What if the review is already online? Now suppose you’re too late. You wake up Monday morning, and there it is: one star, and it’s long, very long. Your name is mentioned seven times. Your staff is furious, and you desperately want to respond. That’s not what happened. Don’t, at least not immediately, because there’s another person. Reading that exchange, actually, there may be hundreds of them. Your future patients-they’re not only judging the angry reviewer; they’re judging you. Because healthcare information is protected, your public response also has privacy considerations. You cannot simply publish details from someone’s medical record to prove that you are right. So your public response needs to remain professional and protect patient privacy. Something along the lines of, “We’re sorry to hear that you are unhappy with your experience. We take concerns seriously and would welcome the opportunity to speak with you directly. Please contact our office so we can discuss this further. Simple, professional. No diagnosis, no treatment details, no argument. Then take the conversation offline. Remember, your response isn’t only for the person who wrote the review; it’s for every prospective patient who reads it later. They’re asking themselves, “How does this doctor behave when somebody is unhappy? Show them when anger crosses the line now. I want to make something very clear: empathy does not mean tolerating abuse. A patient can be angry, complain, or disagree with you, but threatening, discriminatory, abusive, or dangerous behavior is different. Your staff deserves a safe workplace, so there is absolutely a point where you may need to say, “I want to help resolve this, but I can’t continue the conversation while you’re speaking to my staff that way. If we could speak respectfully, I’m happy to continue. That’s not being uncaring. That’s having boundaries. And if there’s a genuine safety threat, follow your office safety procedures. You can have empathy and boundaries at the same time. The three sentences I want your staff to know. If I were training a medical office tomorrow, I’d want every staff member to know these three sentences. Tell me what happened. I can understand why you’re frustrated. Let’s see what we can do next. Notice what isn’t there. You’re wrong. That’s our policy. There’s nothing I can do. You need to call your insurance company. You’ll have to speak to someone else. Those phrases shut conversations down. The three phrases I gave you open conversations up, and sometimes that’s all you need to lower the temperature enough to solve the actual problem. Now here’s where this all comes back to marketing tips for doctors. Doctors often think reputation management means getting more five-star reviews. Respond to Google reviews. Improve your website. Post on social media. Yes, those things matter. But real reputation management happens before the review is ever written. It happens at the front desk; it happens on the telephone. It happens when you’re running an hour behind. It happens when there’s a billing problem. It happens when a patient feels ignored, and it happens when something goes wrong. Every one of those moments gives your practice an opportunity- not an opportunity to manipulate the patient, but an opportunity to show them who you are, because your brand isn’t what your website says about you. Your Brand Is What Patients Say About You Dr. Barbara Hales 19:12 Your brand is what patients say about you after they’ve experienced you, and sometimes the patient who was initially the angriest becomes the patient who tells everyone there was a problem, but you should have seen how they handled it. That’s powerful. Not because everything went perfectly, because it didn’t. Trust was tested, and the practice responded. One last thing. So the next time an angry patient is standing in front of you, remember: don’t try to win. Try to understand. Listen before you explain. Acknowledging emotion without agreeing to something that isn’t true doesn’t work. Find out what the patient actually wants resolved. Explain what happens next, and if you promise to follow up, follow up, because sometimes the difference between a furious patient and a loyal patient isn’t whether something went wrong. It’s what happened after it went wrong. And yes, sometimes that difference happens within a few minutes of them getting home. Sit down with their phone and discover they have Wi-Fi. That is the time you can make a difference. Now we’ve spent three episodes talking about what happens when trust is tested, but there’s another question we haven’t addressed: Can you build that trust before anything ever goes wrong? Absolutely, and that’s what we’ll talk about next, because the strongest physician-patient relationships don’t begin in crisis; they’re built long before one happens. If you’ve been enjoying this series, subscribe to Marketing Tips for Doctors and share this episode with another physician or practice manager. Remember your one tweak from greatness.   The post The Angry Patient first appeared on The Medical Strategist.

Fear isn't the problem, how we respond to it is.In this Fearless Friday episode, Dr. Benjamin Ritter walks through his book, Becoming Fearless: A Journey from Self-Doubt to Self-Mastery.This episode is part of an ongoing Fearless Friday series covering all 65 strategies from the book.If this resonates, you can find the full book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3YwGBf1 or learn more at liveforyourselfconsulting.comDon't rush it. One strategy at a time.

In this episode, Christine Gold discusses the journey of building a new chapter in life while still navigating the old one. She emphasizes the importance of incremental changes, self-discovery, and the need for a balance between purpose and economic viability. Christine provides practical anchors to help listeners identify their unique contributions and encourages them to start small, testing their ideas before fully committing. The conversation highlights the significance of quiet decisions and personal sovereignty in the process of transformation.TakeawaysYou don't always need to burn everything down to start anew.Building your next chapter can happen while still in the old one.Incremental changes are often more effective than drastic shifts.Your next chapter can begin with attention to what keeps returning to your mind.Identify the specific person you feel called to support.Clarify the problem you can name clearly that others face.Start with the smallest useful experience you can offer.Purpose alone does not pay the bills; an economic structure is necessary.Engagement and behavior are stronger evidence than likes on social media.Your next chapter can start with one honest decision made quietly.## Chapters00:00 Building Your Next Chapter02:53 Anchoring Your Purpose05:58 Creating Meaningful Experiences09:09 Balancing Purpose and Economic Structure11:57 Quiet Decisions for a New Beginning❤️ If you love this show, please rate and review wherever you listen to your favorite podcast. If you do, send me a screenshot and I'll send you a gift!

When daily problems hit in business, getting angry, anxious, and losing your work-life balance feels completely normal. But the truth is, the best decisions only happen when the mind is calm. Mr. Rishabh C Kothari runs an operation that manufactures over 2,000 different product formulations every single year, managing it all without the mental chaos. In this conversation, you'll discover how to use meditation and mindfulness as an actual power tool in today's demanding corporate world.Explore the true spiritual interpretation of detachment and how it changes your approach to higher work in daily life. Clarify your perspective on what constitutes a genuine spiritual act.This video examines the concept of detachment by breaking down specific interpretations of higher work. If you have struggled to define what makes an action spiritual versus mundane, this discussion offers a grounded perspective on these philosophical distinctions. We look at why certain acts are often mislabeled and how to refine your understanding of spiritual practice.By analyzing these definitions, you can better align your daily efforts with your personal philosophy. This helps in distinguishing between performing tasks and engaging in meaningful, higher work that resonates with your core values.Connect With Pritika -Podcast Related Emails - connect@pritika.coInstagram- https://www.instagram.com/pritika.looniaListen to the full podcast here - https://www.youtube.com/@PritikaLooniaOfficial Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/captainpritika/Learn From Me - www.pritika.co Listen to my podcast on - Jio saavn - https://www.jiosaavn.com/shows/sage-up-with-pritika-loonia/2/ZukCx7qhBVQ_ Spotify- https://open.spotify.com/show/7ErewAP263SgLXOUE8V0SI?si=f0c13ec52bb74062 Apple Podcast- https://podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/sage-up-with-pritika-loonia/id1517629945

Dr. Justin Stein returns to share groundbreaking historical discoveries about the life of Mikao Usui and the early evolution of Reiki. Colleen, Robyn, and Justin explore newly uncovered archival records from Taiwan, revealing Usui's diverse studies in psychology, education, and transnational healing philosophies. This conversation illuminates how early global influences, christianity, esoteric traditions, and historical connections shaped the spiritual practice we know today. In This Episode, You Will Learn: Discover the historical details revealed by Mikao Usui's newly discovered curriculum vitae and early career records. Usui's years in the USA and as a Christian educator in Tokyo  Explore the early twentieth-century New Thought healing movements and texts that influenced the development of the Gokai and breathwork techniques. Examine the roots of the Reiju ceremony and sacred symbols within esoteric Buddhist traditions such as Kanjo and Kaji. Clarify historical perspectives regarding Dr. Hayashi's background, medical framing, and meridian hand positions. Understand the role of Usui's students in Japanese history, including Gizo Tomabechi and the San Francisco Peace Treaty. Mentioned in this Episode Alternate Currents: Reiki Circulation in the 20th Century North Pacific by Dr. Justin Stein The Benevolent Art of Healing (Tomita Kaiji), edited by Dr. Justin Stein A Century of Reiki from Imperial Japan to Global Practice (Forthcoming edited volume by Dr. Justin Stein) Olaf Baum's research and publications on Reiki history We Are All Healers by Sally Hammond (1972) Kenzen no Genri (Principles of Wellness) by Suzuki Bizan The Science of Psychic Healing and The Hindu Science of Breath by Yogi Ramacharaka (William Walker Atkinson) The Kybalion The Second Reiki Symbol (Sanskrit seed syllable origins connected to Amida Buddha and Senju Kannon) Gizo Tomabechi's memoirs Connect with Justin Stein:  Facebook: Justin B. Stein - Reiki Research (@JBSReikiResearch) Website: https://justinstein.academia.edu/ Book - Alternate Currents - Reiki Circulation in the Twentieth Century North Pacific  https://uhpress.hawaii.edu/title/alternate-currents-reikis-circulation-in-the-twentieth-century-north-pacific/ Book - Alternate Currents is  Also on Amazon Book - Reiki and the Benevolent Art of Healing Tomita Kaiji Connect with Colleen & Robyn ReikiLifestyle.com Reiki Lifestyle Podcast - On major podcast channels Free Online Reiki Share: Tuesdays, 9:30 am – 11:00 am Pacific Time, for a global Reiki healing circle. Free phone consultation: with Danni Instagram: @reikilifestyleofficial Email: info@reikilifestyle.com Love the Show? If this episode helped you on your journey, please Subscribe and leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Your support helps us share the gift of Reiki with more people around the world! **DISCLAIMER** This episode is not a substitute for seeking professional medical care but is offered for relaxation and stress reduction, which support the body's natural healing capabilities. Reiki is a complement to and never a replacement for professional medical care. Colleen and Robyn are not licensed professional health care providers and urge you to always seek out the appropriate physical and mental help professional health care providers may offer. Results vary by individual.

Episode 406 explains how movement prepares the brain but does not guarantee learning. It traces the full sequence—movement, RAS-driven readiness, salience and relevance, focused attention, encoding, retrieval and repetition, and recovery and sleep—that turns activation into lasting memory and performance. The episode offers practical steps in a Move–Focus–Learn protocol: use brief movement to create readiness, clearly identify and remove distractions for one learning target, interact with material in meaningful ways, practice retrieval and spaced repetition, and protect recovery to support consolidation. Listeners are encouraged to test these simple experiments for school, work, or personal learning to make experience more usable and improve attention, memory, and performance. ON THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN: ✔ Why movement prepares the brain but does not guarantee learning ✔ How attention directs the capacity movement creates ✔ Why meaning and emotional relevance capture attention ✔ The difference between paying attention and actually learning ✔ How retrieval and repetition help new information stick ✔ How seeing, hearing, explaining, and applying an idea can help us remember it ✔ How restorative sleep supports memory and learning ✔ A practical Move–Focus–Learn Protocol for school, work, or your own personal learning The central idea is simple: Movement opens the window. Attention determines what enters. Repetition strengthens what remains. And recovery helps the brain integrate what it has experienced. Welcome back to the Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast, where we bridge neuroscience, social and emotional learning, and human performance so we can create measurable improvements in our well-being, achievement, leadership, productivity, and results. I'm Andrea Samadi, and if you've been following along through Season 16, you'll know that we have been building what I call The Brain's Operating System for Human Performance—a neuroscience-based framework designed to help us understand how the different systems of the brain and body work together to influence how we learn, adapt, connect, lead, and ultimately, how we perform. We are currently in Phase 3, focused on Movement, Learning, and Cognition. As I prepared for this phase, I went back through more than 400 episodes of the podcast and organized them according to the five phases of this framework. I wanted to see whether any patterns would emerge. And some did. Phase 1, Regulation and Safety, includes 57 episodes. Phase 2, Neurochemistry and Motivation, includes 41 episodes—the smallest category, possibly because this is the area I have explored the least with my learning. Phase 3, Movement, Learning, and Cognition, includes 174 episodes—the largest category by far. Phase 4, Perception and Social Intelligence, includes 68 episodes. And Phase 5, Integration and Meaning, includes 71 episodes. When I saw that 174 episodes—more than 40 percent of the entire podcast—fit into Movement, Learning, and Cognition, it immediately showed me where much of my curiosity has been directed over the years. I have always been fascinated by learning: How do we prepare the brain to learn? What captures our attention? Why do some ideas (or people) remain with us while others disappear? How does knowledge become something we can retrieve, apply, and actually use to improve our lives? And while I am spending most of my spare time hiking, or at the gym over the years, I wonder, how does this movement that I'm doing help to improve my attention, or memory, and finally, where does recovery fit into this process? The past few weeks, I'm finally connecting the dots with how important recovery is with this equation. I'm also learning how to determine what's important to me. John Medina's Brain Rules book explains what holds our attention. He reminds us that “we don't pay attention to boring things (or people).[i] As we continue through these five phases of The Brain's Operating System for Human Performance, I'm especially curious about how we will move beyond understanding these lessons, to begin implementing what we are learning, and connecting more ways to improve how we learn, adapt, connect, lead, and ultimately perform in our day to day lives. That will become an important part of the upcoming workbook—which is a practical way for each of us to identify what we have already strengthened, where gaps may remain, and which specific actions can help us to improve our own learning, well-being, and performance. Because the purpose of this 5 Phase Framework is not simply to collect more information about the brain. It is to understand how the systems connect—and then use that understanding to create meaningful change.  “Attention Is the Gate—How Movement Becomes Learning.” For today's Episode 406, we'll connect Dr. John Medina's Brain Rules to the Movement Loop we have been building throughout Phase 3—and answer the next important question: Once movement activates and prepares the brain, what determines whether that readiness becomes lasting learning? You can review our full interview with John Medina from EP 42[ii] from February 2020. (find the link in the reference section of the show notes). INTRODUCTION: THE MISSING STEP We have spent this phase so far, examining how movement changes the brain. Dr. Chuck Hillman and Paul Zientarski[iii] showed us that movement prepares the brain for learning. Dr. John Ratey[iv] helped us understand how exercise influences neurochemistry, BDNF, and neuroplasticity. Dr. Kristen Holmes[v] showed us that recovery helps determine whether strain becomes adaptation. And our restorative-sleep episode explored where some of that recovery, adaptation, and integration may occur. But one important question remains: A brain can be activated, chemically prepared, and physiologically ready—but what determines what it actually learns? The answer begins with attention. Movement may create the readiness to learn, but readiness alone is not learning. The brain must still select what matters, focus on it, interact with it, encode it, revisit it, and eventually integrate it. That gives us the pathway we will explore today: Movement creates readiness. But what is the filter in our brain that helps us to focus on the things that are most important to us. What gives us the ability to pay attention to something? The RAS- or The Reticular Activating System. Before we continue, let's remind ourselves what the RAS is. The RAS—or reticular activating system—is a network of neurons extending through the brainstem that helps regulate wakefulness, alertness, and our readiness to respond to incoming information. We explored this system previously in Episode 272, “Priming the Reticular Activating System to Achieve Our Goals.” In that episode, we described the RAS as a type of filter that helps us notice information connected to what we have identified as important. For example, once you decide that you are interested in a particular type of car, you may suddenly begin seeing that car everywhere. That's the RAS filtering system in our brain. The cars were already there, but your attention now has a reason to prioritize them. In Episode 272[vi], we applied this idea to goal-setting. When we clearly identify an intention, we may become more likely to notice relevant information, opportunities, and connections that were previously present but did not receive our attention. That explanation gave us a useful starting point. But here in Episode 406, we can add more precision. The RAS is not a tiny gatekeeper sitting in the brain and personally deciding what we will learn. It is part of a broader network that helps maintain the level of arousal and alertness required for our attention. It helps the brain become available to notice whatever it is that is important to us. Then salience, relevance, emotion, intention, and our current goals help determine what receives priority. Focused attention directs our limited cognitive resources toward the selected information. Next, encoding and repetition help strengthen what we want to focus on. And recovery and sleep help to further support its consolidation and integration. So our expanded Movement Loop now looks like this: you can see an image in the show notes to expand this understanding. Movement supports brain activation.   RAS helps the brain become awake, alert, and ready to pay attention. Salience and relevance (or what matters the most to us) helps to determine what receives priority. Our focused attention selects what gets our priority. Encoding and repetition further strengthens this pathway. Recovery and sleep (that we've dove deep into) support consolidation and integration. And together, these processes increase the likelihood that experience becomes learning—and that learning becomes available for future performance. Whatever it is that we have put our attention on, is now made usable.  This shows us how our understanding has evolved since Episode 272, three years ago. Then, we were asking: How can our intention help us notice what matters with the attainment of our goals? Now, years later, with more understanding, we are asking: Once the brain is alert and something important has captured our attention, what sequence of events must occur for that information to become lasting learning? We are no longer asking only what must remain top of mind so we can notice opportunities connected to our goals. We are asking what happens next: How does something we notice become something we understand? How does something we understand become something we remember? And how does something we remember become knowledge or a skill we can retrieve, apply, and use to improve our performance? This is where Dr. John Medina's Brain Rules help us to connect the pieces. Let's begin with Lesson One: Lesson 1: Movement Creates Readiness—Not Guaranteed Learning Movement can increase alertness, circulation, and readiness for cognitive work. But why might movement have such a powerful relationship with the brain? Dr. John Medina explains this through an evolutionary lens. His point is that the human brain did not develop while we were sitting motionless at desks or staring at screens. It developed while human beings were moving through changing outdoor environments, solving immediate problems, and continually responding to the world around them. Let's listen to how he explains it. CLIP 1 John Medina “The human brain was designed to solve problems related to surviving in an outdoor setting, in unstable meteorological conditions—and to do so in constant motion. The constant motion is where the exercise comes in. But the rest of that—the more a school, or any of us, can recreate the world of the Serengeti, the place where this brain actually grew up, the better things are. And exercise, particularly outdoor exercise, is a terrific example of this idea.” When Medina refers to the Serengeti, I don't think he is suggesting that schools should literally recreate the dangers or conditions of an ancient environment. He is giving us an evolutionary picture of the conditions under which the human brain developed: We moved. We navigated changing environments. We encountered new sensory information. We solved problems. We adapted to uncertainty. And we did these things together rather than remaining physically still for most of the day. Outdoor movement may bring several of these conditions together. We are moving our bodies while also responding to changes in light, temperature, terrain, sound, distance, and direction. This helps explain why movement belongs at the beginning of our Movement Loop. But it also brings us to an important distinction: Movement creates readiness. It does not guarantee learning. A student can move before class and still become distracted. A leader can exercise before work and still spend the morning reacting to notifications. An athlete can warm up physically without becoming mentally focused on the strategy or skill required next. Movement can help activate the system. The RAS in the brain helps us become awake and alert. But the brain must still determine what stands out, what is relevant, and what deserves focused attention. Movement opens the window. Attention determines what enters through it. Our Key lesson: Movement prepares the brain. Attention directs the preparation. PUT THIS INTO ACTION Before your next period of demanding cognitive work, use movement to create a window of readiness. Take a five-to-ten-minute walk, complete a brief movement break, stretch, or choose another form of movement appropriate for your ability and environment. But do not move without deciding what comes next. Before you begin, identify the specific task you will return to: “When this movement break ends, what will receive my attention?” For a student, it might be the first problem on a math assignment. For a leader, it might be the one decision that requires uninterrupted thinking. For an athlete, it might be the cue, strategy, or skill that needs to remain at the center of practice. Movement creates the opportunity. A clear intention helps direct what happens next. Your experiment is: Move briefly, choose one target that you want to complete with this intention, and begin that task immediately after the movement ends. Lesson 2: Attention Is the Gate In EP 395[vii], we examined what captures attention: Meaning Emotion Relevance Intention Reward Human connection Now today's episode shows how we move beyond why the brain notices something and explains what attention does after movement has prepared the system to learn. Attention acts as a filter. The brain encounters more information than it can consciously process, so it must select what receives priority. This creates the bridge: Brain activation creates capacity. Attention distributes that capacity. Our Key lesson: What the brain does not attend to has little opportunity to become lasting learning. Andrea's Application This distinction between brain capacity and cognitive efficiency became personal for me when I reviewed the results of my 2020 brain scan. We covered this topic on EP 84[viii] and we will do a thorough review of what was learned with our brain scans at Dr. Daniel Amen's CA Clinic. The evaluation that I received after my scan was completed with Dr. Shane Creado, suggested that I had areas of strong capacity, but that my brain appeared to be working harder than necessary to complete certain tasks in the cognitive testing. A possible contributor we discussed was sleep deprivation. I want to be careful here: a SPECT scan is not a direct measurement of attention or learning, and my results cannot tell us that insufficient sleep caused a specific attention pattern. But the experience gave me a useful way to think about what we are learning today. Having cognitive capacity does not necessarily mean that we are using that capacity efficiently. I may be motivated, active, and ready to work—but if I am under-recovered, under-slept, distracted, or trying to process too many competing inputs, my brain may have to expend more energy to sustain focus. This helped me understand the Movement Loop at a more personal level: Movement can help activate my brain. Attention gives that activation a target. But recovery may influence how efficiently I can sustain that attention and use it for learning. My scan did not define what my brain could do. It gave me another reason to examine the conditions under which my brain performs at its best. PUT THIS INTO ACTION Before asking yourself—or someone else—to focus, make the target of attention clear. Start by completing this sentence: “The most important thing to notice right now is…” Then reduce the competition around it. We all know to do this. Silence unnecessary notifications. Close unrelated tabs. Remove extra materials from view. Avoid asking the brain to switch repeatedly between tasks. If you are teaching, make the relevance visible: “Why does this matter?” “What should students be listening or looking for?” “How does this connect to something they already know?” If you are working independently, write your one priority clearly where you can see it. Remember, the goal is not to force the brain to attend to everything. The goal is to help it identify (with your RAS-that filter in your brain) what deserves your priority. Your experiment is: Choose one target, (something you want to accomplish) remove as many unnecessary sources of interference as possible, and create one meaningful reason to pay attention. This also helps explain why keeping your desk clear, your closet organized, or your car tidy may make you feel calmer and more focused. How we do anything is how we do everything. Every object, notification, unfinished task, or piece of visual clutter can become another potential signal competing for your attention. That does not mean everything must be perfectly organized before you can begin (while some of us would prefer to work this way), perfection can become its own form of interference. Just get started. It simply means that when you reduce unnecessary visual and mental competition, you make it easier for the brain to recognize the priority in front of you. Clear the space. Name the target. Create the relevance. Then give the task your full attention. Lesson 3: Attention Is Necessary—but It Is Not Enough Paying attention to information once does not guarantee that it will be remembered. This is where Dr. Medina's memory rules enter: Repeat to remember. Remember to repeat. The first refers to giving new information more than one opportunity to be encoded. The second points toward revisiting information over time. This allows you to extend the Movement Loop: Movement prepares the brain and body. Attention selects what to focus on. Retrieval and Repetition strengthens our focus. Recovery helps us to integrate what we are learning. PUT THIS INTO ACTION After learning something new, do not immediately reread it. First, look away from the material and try to retrieve it. Ask yourself: “What were the three most important ideas?” “How would I explain this without looking at my notes?” “What can I remember on my own?” Retrieval reveals the difference between recognizing information and actually being able to access it. Then return to the material, check what you missed, and retrieve it again later—after an hour, the next day, or several days afterward. For students, this could mean closing the textbook and explaining the lesson to a partner. For professionals, it could mean summarizing a meeting before reviewing the notes. For personal learning, it could mean recording a short voice memo explaining the idea from memory. Your experiment is: Learn it once, retrieve it without looking, and schedule a brief return to it later. See if you can remember it. Attention begins the pathway. Retrieval and repetition help strengthen it. Andrea's Application This lesson reminded me of one part of the cognitive testing that accompanied my brain scan at Amen Clinics: a Continuous Performance Test, or CPT. In the version I completed, letters appeared on a computer screen. The instruction was to press a button whenever a letter appeared—except when the letter was X. This type of task may sound simple, but it requires you to remain attentive over time, respond consistently, and inhibit your automatic response when the target letter appears. My results indicated that this was an area in which I did not perform as strongly. Looking back, I remember hearing the basic instruction: press the button for every letter except X. But I do not remember fully appreciating that the speed and consistency of my responses also mattered. This gave me an important real-life lesson: Hearing an instruction is not the same as accurately encoding everything the task requires. Before beginning something important, pause and ask: “What exactly am I being asked to do?” “What details determine successful performance?” “Can I explain the instructions back in my own words?” And, when appropriate, write down the key steps before beginning. This applies in a classroom, during a meeting, while completing an assessment, or whenever accuracy matters. First, attend to the full instruction. Then restate or retrieve it. Clarify anything that is missing. And only then begin the task. My experience showed me that attention is not just about working harder or concentrating more intensely. It is also about identifying the correct target—and making sure we understand the complete task before directing our effort toward it. Lesson 4: Learning Becomes Stronger When It Has More Than One Path Dr. Medina's Brain Rule #9 about sensory integration and vision(meaning our brains learn and remember best when multiple senses—like sight, sound, and touch—are engaged at the same time) give you the practical learning background to involve ALL of your senses. While teaching and learning you can ask: Can I see it? Can I hear it? Can I explain it? Can I demonstrate it? Can I connect it to something I already know? Can I apply it physically or practically? The goal is not sensory stimulation for its own sake. It is to provide clear, relevant pathways through which the learner can interact with the information. Our Key lesson: The more meaningfully we interact with information that we are learning, the more opportunities the brain has to encode and retrieve it. PUT THIS INTO ACTION Choose one idea you want to remember and interact with it in at least two meaningful ways. You might: See it in a diagram. Hear it explained. Say it in your own words. Write or draw it. Teach it to someone else. Demonstrate it physically. Connect it to a previous experience. Or apply it to a real problem. The goal is not to add noise or stimulation. More input is not automatically better. Each interaction should make the idea clearer, more relevant, or easier to retrieve. For example, instead of only reading about the Movement Loop, you could draw the sequence, explain it aloud, and identify where it appears in your own daily routine. Your experiment is: Take one important idea and represent it in two different, meaningful ways. The more deeply we work with information, the more opportunities the brain has to encode and retrieve it. Andrea's Application If you have been listening to this podcast for a while, I'm sure you have noticed that when I organize an idea into a framework—or represent it in a visual graphic—it begins to come to life. I can see how the pieces from past episodes connect, can explain the concept more clearly, and retrieve and apply it to my life more easily. It's also difficult to forget something when there's a visual image connected to it if you are the type of learner who needs to see something to make it stick in your memory. LESSON 5: RECOVERY HELPS LEARNING CONTINUE AFTER ATTENTION ENDS So far, we have followed learning through four important steps: Movement prepares the brain and body. RAS helps “turn on the lights,” allowing us to become awake, alert, and ready to respond. Next, the brain begins identifying what might be important to us. Salience refers to something that stands out—perhaps because it is new, unexpected, emotional, or connected to a possible reward or threat. Relevance refers to how closely that information connects to our goals, needs, experiences, or interests. In simple terms: Salience asks, “What stands out?” Relevance asks, “What matters to me?” Attention through the RAS next directs the brain's spotlight toward the information selected for deeper processing. Imagine a flashlight shining on whatever it is that you have picked to be important to learn. Encoding creates the initial memory. Retrieval and repetition strengthen it. But learning does not necessarily end when we close the book, leave the classroom, finish the meeting, or stop practicing. The brain still needs time to stabilize, organize, and connect what we learned. This is where recovery and sleep enter the Movement Loop. SLEEP IS AN IMPORTANT PART OF LEARNING Sleep is not a period when the brain simply switches off. While we sleep, the brain continues processing information from the day. Newly encoded memories may be reactivated, strengthened, reorganized, and connected with knowledge we already have. This is called memory consolidation. In simple terms, consolidation helps make a new memory more stable and easier to access later. Deep non-REM sleep and REM sleep may support different but overlapping parts of this process. Deep sleep is associated with physical restoration and the consolidation of certain facts and experiences. REM sleep has been associated with emotional learning, procedural skills, creative connections, and integrating new experiences with older memories. But we should not think of these as completely separate jobs. Deep sleep and REM are parts of a repeating sleep cycle, and both may contribute to learning. This is why I use the phrases: Deep sleep helps me recover from the hard work I did that day. REM may help me integrate what I experienced and what it meant to me. The word “may” matters because sleep is more complex than saying that deep sleep only restores the body and REM alone integrates learning. The most important lesson is this: What we focus on while we are awake gives the brain something to work with while we sleep. Retrieval and repetition strengthen the information before sleep. Then sleep provides conditions that can help stabilize, organize, and connect what we learned. THE MOVEMENT LOOP IN SIMPLE TERMS Let's put the complete cognitive side of the Movement Loop into simple language. MOVE—to prepare the brain and body. BECOME READY—RAS- in the brain helps us become awake, alert, and available to respond. NOTICE—salience helps something stand out because it is new, emotional, unexpected, rewarding, or potentially threatening. RELEVANCE—relevance helps the brain recognize how that information relates to our goals, needs, interests, or previous experiences. ATTENTION—directs our mental resources or a spotlight toward the selected information. ENCODE—begins forming a memory of what we are focused on. RETRIEVE AND REPEAT—strengthens the memory and makes it easier to access again. RECOVERY and CONSOLIDATION—so the brain and body can restore, and sleep can support memory consolidation. Leading us to-- INTEGRATION—to connect the new learning with what we already know. APPLY—Making the learning available and ready to use when we need it. So, in its expanded form, the Movement Loop looks like this: Movement → RAS-Supports Readiness → Salience and Relevance (what's important to us)→ Focused Attention → Encoding (forms the memory of what we are focused on)→ Retrieval and Repetition (to strengthen the neural pathway) → Recovery and Consolidation (important for the brain and body to be rested and recovered)→ Integration (connect new learning with what we already know)→ NEW Learning and Performance (ready and available for us whenever we need it). Here is an even easier way to remember how we LEARN: Move. Wake or Get Ready. Notice. Focus. Form a Memory. Strengthen it. Recover it. Connect it. Use it. Movement prepares the system. The RAS helps us become alert. Salience and relevance identify possible priorities. Attention selects the target. Encoding begins the memory. Retrieval and repetition strengthen it. Recovery and sleep help stabilize it. Integration connects it. And application makes it useful. These stages do not always occur in a perfectly straight line. We may notice something before we are fully focused on it. We may need several rounds of encoding and retrieval. We may sleep on an idea and understand it differently the following day. Or we may try to apply what we learned and discover that part of the pathway still needs strengthening. That is why this is a loop rather than a one-way process. Application produces feedback. That feedback shows us what we understand, what we can retrieve and use, and what still requires attention, repetition, or recovery. Then that feedback guides the next cycle of learning. We move again. We become ready. We direct our attention toward what matters. And with each cycle, we build learning that becomes more accessible, adaptable, and useful in our performance. PUT THIS INTO ACTION Before ending your next learning or work session, take one minute to ask: “What is the most important thing I want to remember?” Without looking at your notes, write down the central idea in your own words. Then decide when you will retrieve it again—perhaps later that day or the following morning. After that, give yourself permission to recover. When your attention is fading, another exhausted hour may not be as valuable as a break or a full night of sleep. The following day, try to retrieve the idea again before looking at your notes. Notice what remained accessible and what needs another repetition. Your experiment is simple: Summarize it. Sleep on it. Retrieve it again. Because learning begins while we are awake—but recovery and sleep help the brain continue the work. The Move–Focus–Learn Protocol BRINGING THE FIVE ACTIONS TOGETHER Here is the full Move–Focus–Learn experiment: Test this in school, work or personal learning: Use a brief walk or appropriate movement break before demanding cognitive work. This is what I told Dr. Medina 6 years ago is the only way I'm able to stay focused on writing difficult topics, like this one. Identify the one thing that deserves your attention next. Pick one priority you will focus on. Remove interference. Reduce unnecessary notifications, competing tasks and distractions. This can take a few minutes ahead of time, but keeps the learning slate clean so to speak. Create relevance. Ask, “Why does this matter to me—or to this learner?” Interact with the information you want to learn. Explain it, visualize it, discuss it, demonstrate it or apply it. Retrieve it. Close the book or screen and recall the important ideas without looking. Repeat it later. Return to the information after time has passed. Protect recovery. Allow sleep and recovery to support the next stage of learning. REVIEW AND CONCLUSION As we close out Episode 406, I want to return to the question we began with: Once movement activates and prepares the brain, what determines whether that readiness becomes lasting learning? The answer is not one single process. Learning emerges through a sequence of connected conditions: The brain and body must become ready. Something must stand out and feel relevant. Attention must select it. The information must be encoded. It must be retrieved and revisited. And recovery and sleep must provide opportunities for consolidation and integration. Dr. John Medina's Brain Rules helped us follow this sequence through five key lessons. LESSON 1: EXERCISE PREPARES THE BRAIN Movement helps create biological conditions that support alertness, attention, and cognition. The RAS contributes to this process by helping us become awake, alert, and ready to respond. But movement creates an opportunity—not a guarantee. A prepared brain still needs direction. LESSON 2: ATTENTION SELECTS WHAT MATTERS The brain encounters far more information than it can consciously process. Salience helps us notice what stands out. Relevance connects that information to our goals, needs, interests, or previous experiences. Attention then directs the brain's spotlight toward the selected target. Movement may create greater readiness, but attention determines where that readiness goes. LESSON 3: RETRIEVAL AND REPETITION STRENGTHEN WHAT ATTENTION BEGINS Paying attention once may create familiarity, but familiarity is not the same as learning. Encoding begins the memory. Retrieval asks the brain to locate that information again. Repetition gives us additional opportunities to strengthen our access to it. This is why explaining an idea without looking at our notes can be more useful than simply rereading it. Attention begins the pathway. Retrieval and repetition help make it last. LESSON 4: MEANINGFUL INTERACTION HELPS LEARNING STICK We can strengthen encoding by interacting with an idea in more than one meaningful way. We might see it, hear it, explain it, draw it, demonstrate it, or apply it. The goal is not to add as much stimulation as possible. The goal is to give the brain clear and relevant ways to understand, represent, and later retrieve the information. This is something I have experienced while creating this podcast. When I organize an idea into a framework or bring it to life in a visual graphic, I can see how the pieces connect. That helps me explain the idea more clearly, remember it more easily, and apply it more effectively. LESSON 5: RECOVERY ALLOWS LEARNING TO CONTINUE Learning does not necessarily end when we close the book, leave the classroom, finish the meeting, or stop practicing. During sleep, newly encoded information may be reactivated, stabilized, reorganized, and connected with existing knowledge. Deep non-REM sleep and REM sleep may contribute to this process in different but complementary ways. This is why recovery is not separate from learning. Recovery is part of the learning process. PUTTING THE MOVEMENT LOOP TOGETHER The complete cognitive side of the Movement Loop now looks like this: Movement prepares the brain and body. RAS-supported arousal helps us become awake and alert. Salience and relevance help identify possible priorities. Attention selects the target. Encoding begins the memory. Retrieval and repetition strengthen it. Recovery and sleep support consolidation. Integration connects the new learning with what we already know. And application makes that learning available when we need it. Or, in its simplest form: Move. Wake. Notice. Focus. Form. Strengthen. Recover. Connect. Use. Movement creates readiness. Attention provides direction. Encoding begins the memory. Retrieval and repetition strengthen the pathway. Recovery supports consolidation and integration. And application turns what we have learned into improved performance. Together, these processes help turn activity into lasting learning. FINAL THOUGHT This is not the first time we have explored Dr. John Medina's work, but each return has allowed us to ask a different question. In Episode 42[ix], we asked: How should schools and workplaces change when we understand the brain? In Episode 370[x], we asked: How can neuroscience and emotional regulation improve learning environments? In Episode 395[xi], we asked: What captures attention and motivates behavior? And here in Episode 406, we asked: How does an activated and attentive brain convert an experience into learning? That question has helped us add important detail to the Movement Loop. Movement alone does not create learning. Attention alone does not create lasting memory. Repetition without meaning may not produce understanding. And effort without recovery may not give the brain the conditions it needs to consolidate and integrate what happened. Each part of the process matters. Before we close, consider these questions: What are you preparing your brain to notice? Where is your attention going after you move? Are you interacting with important information deeply enough to encode it? Are you retrieving what you are learning—or merely rereading it? And are you protecting the recovery that allows learning to continue? Because what we repeatedly attend to, retrieve, and apply begins to shape what we know, what we can do, and how we perform. PREPARING FOR EPISODE 407 Movement can prepare the brain. Attention can direct it. Encoding can begin the memory. Retrieval and repetition can strengthen it. And recovery can help consolidate and integrate it. But every part of this process requires energy. The brain needs energy to direct attention, form memories, regulate behavior, and sustain performance. The body needs energy to move, adapt, recover, and begin the cycle again. So in Episode 407, we will revisit Jason Wittrock's work through a more current and carefully defined lens. We'll examine his experience with nutrition and fasting as an applied practitioner and personal case study, while comparing those ideas with current evidence surrounding nutrition, blood-sugar stability, metabolic flexibility, recovery, and performance. Because the brain and body cannot sustain performance without the energy required to power the system. I'll see you next time as we ask: How does metabolic health influence our capacity to move, learn, recover, and perform? RESOURCES Clip 1 with Dr. John Medina https://www.youtube.com/shorts/zDItOHAc8qQ Full Interview with Dr. John Medina https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CFzg5nQnEMs REFERENCE   [i] John Medina's Brain Rule #4 https://brainrules.net/article/attention/   [ii] Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 42 with Dr. John Medina on “Implementing Brain Rules in Schools and Workplaces of the Future” https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/dr-john-medina-on-implementing-brain-rules-in-the-schools-and-workplaces-of-the-future/   [iii]Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 403 https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/movement-first-how-a-20%e2%80%91minute-walk-lights-up-the-brain/     [iv]Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 404 https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/movement-matters-how-every-move-rewires-the-brain/   [v] Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 405 https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/movement-isnt-enough-how-recovery-drives-real-adaptation/   [vi]Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 272 https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/brain-fact-friday-on-priming-the-reticular-activating-system-to-achieve-our-goals-in-2023/   [vii] Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 395 https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/theory-of-mind-the-missing-link-between-attention-reward-and-motivation/   [viii]Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 84  https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/how-a-spect-scan-can-change-your-life-part-3-with-andrea-samadi/   [ix] Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 42 with Dr. John Medina on “Implementing Brain Rules in Schools and Workplaces of the Future” https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/dr-john-medina-on-implementing-brain-rules-in-the-schools-and-workplaces-of-the-future/   [x]Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 370 https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/brain-rules-revisited-how-neuroscience-can-transform-classrooms/   [xi]Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 395 https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/theory-of-mind-the-missing-link-between-attention-reward-and-motivation/      

A highly effective leader finds herself in the middle of a terrible mess, not of her own making. When her coach marvels at her ability to stay calm amidst the chaos, she shares a lesson she learned from her dad.Tools and concepts in this episode:“People are doing their best” embodies acceptance, and acceptance creates better outcomes.Quiet cycles of doubt by:Clarify what exactly are you upset about;Identify what you feel about having those feelings;Decide what action you want to take.Listen to the stories you tell yourself. If you hear villains and victims, are most likely ascribing bad intent. Don't make up stories that create adversaries.In addition to the tools discussed during this episode, Tom also talks about:“Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High.”Conversations with Coaches – Episode #184Executive Coaching Special Interest GroupThe Feeling Word GridThis episode is tagged in three categories in the Podcast Library:Managing YourselfPerception – How You Perceive YourselfSelf-TalkFive episodes to help you command a room:109 - Building Emotional Intelligence246 - Coaching versus Therapy152 - Combating Emotional Hijacks189 - “Don't Take Anything Personally”263 - Leading When Ego at the Top is UncheckedAll our free infographics are in the Essential Tools bin.Your reviews supporting the show help us continue as an ad-free podcast. Let us know how we can support you.Until next month, be well!Thanks from Tom and The Look & Sound of Leadership team. 

Working in coalition is one of the nonprofit sector's greatest strengths and can be especially powerful during election season. With the midterm elections around the corner, now is a good time for organizations to revisit their plans for election-related advocacy, including voter engagement, candidate education, and issue advocacy. A 501(c)(3) can collaborate with a 501(c)(4) and other nonprofits to advance common goals, pool resources, and build momentum. The key is knowing where collaboration ends and organizational boundaries begin, so allocate resources fairly, document cost-sharing agreements, and make sure each organization operates within the rules that apply to it.  In this episode, we'll explore best practices for 501(c)(3)s collaborating and sharing resources with organizations operating under different tax rules during election season, including how to keep coalition work effective, compliant, and nonpartisan.  Attorneys for this Episode:   Maggie Ellinger-Locke   Sarah Efthymiou  Monika Graham   501(c)(3)s Must Remain Nonpartisan   Internal Revenue Code: 501(c)(3) organizations are prohibited from directly or indirectly participating in partisan political activity on behalf of, or in opposition to, any candidate for public office.   The Facts & Circumstances Analysis  The IRS uses a "facts and circumstances" analysis to determine whether a 501(c)(3)'s communication about an issue is genuinely nonpartisan or is a veiled attempt to influence the outcome of an election. Factors include whether the communication mentions or evaluates candidates, references a candidate or election, occurs close to an election, or addresses an issue that distinguishes the candidates. The IRS also considers the broader context, including the timing, targeted audience, relationship to candidates' or political parties' communications, and whether the organization has a history of discussing the issue outside election periods. No single factor is determinative for the IRS looks at the full picture.  What are some best practices for engaging in coalition work during election season?   Build out the coalition's structure in advance.   Develop a memorandum of understanding (MOU) with coalition partners outlining shared goals, decision-making processes, communications, roles, and responsibilities.  Establish written cost-sharing agreements in advance to specify how shared costs will be allocated.  Clarify who is responsible for particular communications, activities, and resources.  Have a clear plan for keeping the 501(c)(3)'s work completely independent from partisan coalition work.  Questions to ask in advance:   What are your shared goals as a coalition?   Are you time-limited, meaning you plan to disband after the election, or do you plan to continue working together toward a shared policy goal?   Who is a member of the coalition?   How will you communicate?   How will decisions get made?   How formal or informal do you want the coalition to be?  What are some best practices for sharing resources?   What can organizations actually pool to increase their collective impact? Staff, volunteers, office space, equipment, communications, educational resources, and other shared assets can expand a coalition's reach and strengthen collaborative power. Organizations can share tools and capacity so long as they adhere to the rules that apply to each entity.  Things to Consider:   501(c)(3) resources and funds cannot be used to subsidize partisan political activity.  Manage the expectations and agreements before you get going.  Questions to ask:   How will the organization share those resources?  What are you going to share?   Who owns or controls the resource?   Which organization is using it, and for what purpose?   How will costs be allocated?   What happens if the use of that resource changes during the campaign?   Best Practices:   Know the Rules & Maintain Clear Boundaries: Understand each organization's tax status; keep governance, finances, and branding separate; and ensure there is a method for preventing the (c)(3)'s work from becoming intertwined with partisan activity.   Document & Allocate Resources Fairly: Use written agreements, allocate shared costs using a reasonable method, track staff time accordingly; and maintain records of expenses, reimbursements, and resource-sharing arrangements.   Don't Blur Organizational Lines: Use separate websites, social media accounts, and email addresses; clarify roles and responsibilities for each activity and/or communication; and make sure (c)(3) staff, volunteers, and resources are used only for activities it can legally undertake.  Avoid Free or Below-Market Resource Sharing: If a resource has value—such as email lists, mailing lists, or voter registration files —it generally should be reimbursed at fair market value or through a reasonable cost-allocation agreement.  Best practice is to use a list broker.  Renting or exchanging lists can raise other legal and/or tax questions. For example, while list rental income is generally considered royalty income (and exempt from UBIT), if rented to a campaign, this exception does not apply to rentals made to political campaigns or PACs (the IRS does consider this to be UBI and therefore subject to tax.   Nonpartisan voter registration files may only be rented to a 501(c)(4) or 527 at fair market value or exchanged for data of equal value. Even then, the circumstances in which these agreements can be made are complex, so it's wise to get legal advice.  What's the bottom line?  Sharing resources can strengthen partnerships, reduce costs, and advance meaningful change. Coalition building is literally solidarity in action—organizations coming together to advance joint goals. And we know we are stronger together, so establish agreements upfront, allocate costs fairly, keep good records, and maintain clear organizational boundaries. When done thoughtfully, collaboration can amplify a unified voice and build momentum while protecting each organization's tax-exempt status.  Resources  The Connection  501(c)(3) & 501(c)(4) Collaboration  Sample Allocation of Costs Agreement   Rules of the Game: Can We Rent (Or Share) That?  Comparison of 501(c)(3) & 501(c)(4) Permissible Activities  Rules of the Game: A Guide to Election Related Activities for 501(c)(3)s 

A practitioner in China recounts a dangerous encounter with a police officer. Despite the officer's initial hostility, her calm demeanor resolved the situation. The experience prompted her to reflect on her attachment to fear and her responsibility to clarify the truth to her family, who had become influenced by the Chinese Communist Party's propaganda. This and other experience-sharing from the Minghui website.Original Articles:1. People Realize That Falun Dafa Is Truly Good2. Making Telephone Calls to China to Clarify the Truth To provide feedback on this podcast, please email us at feedback@minghuiradio.org

Raising capital is essential for scaling a business or real estate portfolio, but accepting the wrong money can lead to costly partnership disputes. In this episode, we explore the critical importance of vetting your capital partners with the same rigor they use to evaluate your deals.Discover the seven essential questions every operator must ask potential investors before accepting a wire transfer. From understanding liquidity timelines to identifying true risk tolerance, these insights will help you find aligned investors and protect your long-term success.KEY TOPICS DISCUSSEDThe hidden risks of accepting unvetted outside capital for real estate dealsNavigating and avoiding costly real estate partnership disputesDetermining an investor's true liquidity timeline and capital reservesAssessing the origin of investment capital to determine risk profilesManaging expectations for first-time versus seasoned asset class investorsDefining acceptable levels of passive investor involvement and decision-makingEstablishing an investor's pain threshold and tolerance for bad outcomesKEY TAKEAWAYSJust because someone is willing to write a check doesn't mean you should take their money into your deal.Always ask an investor what their timeline is and what life events might suddenly change their need for liquidity.Clarify exactly how involved a passive investor expects to be in the day-to-day operations or decision-making process.Ask potential capital partners to define what a bad outcome looks like to gauge their true tolerance for market volatility.Investors who understand your thesis will remain calmer during rough patches compared to those just chasing high returns.CONNECT & TAKE ACTIONVisit skylineocresidences.com to discover luxury homeownership and exceptional value at Skyline OC.Invest in the Imagos Income Fund for steady passive returns targeting 10%. Text INCOME to 844-447-1555.Get a free financial portfolio X-Ray to audit your current investments. Text XRAY to 844-447-1555.Partner with the team on commercial real estate equity deals. Text DEALS to 844-447-1555Access tools and resources for your wealth-building journey: thewiseinvestorvault.com

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WelcomeHello, lovelies. It's Juliette here.You say one true sentence:“I felt a bit alone this week.”And four seconds later, you're somehow having a completely different conversation.He's explaining how hard he works.He's reminding you about the time you did the same thing months ago.Or he's gone completely quiet.And suddenly, you're the one saying:No, no, no. I didn't mean it like that.So what happened in those four seconds?You said:“I felt alone.”But his system may have received:“You failed me.”Not necessarily as a conscious thought. The body can brace before the sentence has even finished.And when feedback and failure land in the same place, that brace can look like defensiveness, explaining, arguing, or shutting down.Over time, you learn to say less.You soften the edges. You wait for a better moment. You decide it isn't worth the forty minutes of repair afterwards.Eventually, “I felt alone” becomes:“I'm fine.”But that creates its own distance.In this episode, I'll show you how to recognise the loop happening between you, name its shape without blame, and use structure to create a safer way to speak and actually be heard.Because sometimes it isn't about finding better words.Sometimes the words simply need a safer place to land.The Touch ResetIf you love someone but can't seem to find the door back into connection, The Touch Reset helps you understand the patterns happening between you and begin changing them.Start by taking the quiz to discover your pattern and his holding pattern, then explore the steps that can help you rebuild connection, safety, and intimacy together.Touch Reset: https://feelfullyyou.com/touch-reset-quiz

Listen and subscribe to Money Making Conversations on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, www.moneymakingconversations.com/subscribe/ or wherever you listen to podcasts. New Money Making Conversations episodes drop daily. I want to alert you, so you don’t miss out on expert analysis and insider perspectives from my guests who provide tips that can help you uplift the community, improve your financial planning, motivation, or advice on how to be a successful entrepreneur. Keep winning! Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Don Ford. A board-certified probate and estate attorney and managing partner of Ford Bergner LLP. The conversation focuses on the importance of estate planning, wills, trusts, probate, executors, and family dynamics that often arise after the death of a loved one. Ford provides practical guidance on how individuals can protect their assets, reduce family conflict, and ensure their wishes are properly carried out through legally sound estate planning. Throughout the interview, he emphasizes that estate planning is not just for the wealthy but for anyone who owns assets or has loved ones they want to protect. Purpose of the Interview The interview was designed to: Educate listeners about wills, trusts, and estate planning. Explain the legal differences between financial planning and estate planning. Help families avoid disputes and costly probate issues. Clarify common misconceptions about handwritten wills and DIY estate documents. Encourage individuals to create estate plans before a crisis occurs. Highlight the importance of planning for incapacity as well as death. Key Takeaways 1. Estate Planning Is Different from Financial Planning Ford explains that financial planners focus on growing wealth, while estate planning focuses on what happens to your assets if you die or become incapacitated. 2. Most Americans Don't Have a Will According to Ford, approximately two-thirds of Americans do not have a will, often because they avoid thinking about death, worry about legal costs, or struggle with difficult family decisions. 3. DIY Wills Can Create Major Problems While some states allow handwritten wills, poorly written documents often create ambiguity that leads to family disputes, litigation, and unintended outcomes. 4. Clear Legal Language Prevents Family Conflict A properly drafted will eliminates confusion by clearly defining beneficiaries, distributions, responsibilities, and contingency plans. 5. Estate Planning Should Be Based on Life Stage, Not Age Ford argues that estate planning becomes important when people begin accumulating assets such as: Homes Vehicles Retirement accounts Brokerage accounts Savings The need for a plan is determined more by responsibilities and assets than by age. 6. Communication Is Critical After a Death Many estate disputes begin because family members grieve differently and have different expectations about property, money, and responsibilities. 7. A Good Estate Plan Protects Family Relationships When instructions are clearly documented, families spend less time arguing about intentions and more time focusing on healing. 8. Executors Have Serious Legal Responsibilities An executor is responsible for managing and settling an estate, but cannot legally act until approved by a court. Executors must: Treat beneficiaries fairly Account for all assets Distribute assets according to the law and the will Avoid conflicts of interest 9. Trusts and Wills Serve Different Purposes A trust can be used to transfer assets during a person's lifetime and may help avoid probate in certain states where the probate process is costly and complicated. 10. Estate Planning Is More Than a Will A complete estate plan may include: A will A trust Medical powers of attorney Financial powers of attorney Guardianship planning Asset protection strategies 11. Family Structure Matters Blended families, multiple marriages, children from different relationships, and out-of-state property ownership often require more sophisticated estate planning. 12. Planning for Incapacity Is Equally Important Ford emphasizes that estate planning also addresses what happens if someone becomes unable to make their own medical or financial decisions before death. Notable Quotes On Estate Planning "Estate planning is really what happens if I die, making a plan for your death and what happens after you're gone." On Handwritten Wills "While the handwritten will may be an option, it's usually not the best option." On Legal Guidance "A lawyer would put in the verbiage to make sure there is not that ambiguity." On Why People Avoid Wills "A lot of people have not wanted to talk about these issues because they don't really want to talk about dying." On Planning Ahead "Not thinking about it doesn't mean it's not going to happen." On Timing "It's more of a position-in-life issue and not more about an age issue." On Estate Administration "The executor can't take money and spend it on themselves when it's supposed to go to the others." On Family Conflict "Communication is a big piece of that." On Good Planning "A good plan and a well-drafted will alleviates a lot of those problems." On Trusts "The trust agreement is going to determine who gets my home rather than my will determining who gets my home." On Estate Planning as a Whole "Estate planning is a more holistic view about all of these issues." On Powers of Attorney "We need powers of attorney if you become incapacitated before you die." Bottom Line Don Ford's central message is that estate planning is an act of protection, not simply a legal exercise. A properly structured estate plan helps preserve assets, reduce family conflict, ensure personal wishes are honored, and prepare for both death and incapacity. The interview serves as a reminder that waiting too long to create a will, trust, or estate plan can leave loved ones facing unnecessary stress, confusion, and costly legal challenges. #SHMS #BEST #STRAW Money Making Conversations Master Class with Rushion McDonald is America's premier entrepreneurship, business leadership, financial literacy, and wealth-building podcast featuring successful entrepreneurs, executives, founders, celebrities, and industry experts sharing actionable insights for professional and financial success. 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Listen and subscribe to Money Making Conversations on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, www.moneymakingconversations.com/subscribe/ or wherever you listen to podcasts. New Money Making Conversations episodes drop daily. I want to alert you, so you don’t miss out on expert analysis and insider perspectives from my guests who provide tips that can help you uplift the community, improve your financial planning, motivation, or advice on how to be a successful entrepreneur. Keep winning! Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Don Ford. A board-certified probate and estate attorney and managing partner of Ford Bergner LLP. The conversation focuses on the importance of estate planning, wills, trusts, probate, executors, and family dynamics that often arise after the death of a loved one. Ford provides practical guidance on how individuals can protect their assets, reduce family conflict, and ensure their wishes are properly carried out through legally sound estate planning. Throughout the interview, he emphasizes that estate planning is not just for the wealthy but for anyone who owns assets or has loved ones they want to protect. Purpose of the Interview The interview was designed to: Educate listeners about wills, trusts, and estate planning. Explain the legal differences between financial planning and estate planning. Help families avoid disputes and costly probate issues. Clarify common misconceptions about handwritten wills and DIY estate documents. Encourage individuals to create estate plans before a crisis occurs. Highlight the importance of planning for incapacity as well as death. Key Takeaways 1. Estate Planning Is Different from Financial Planning Ford explains that financial planners focus on growing wealth, while estate planning focuses on what happens to your assets if you die or become incapacitated. 2. Most Americans Don't Have a Will According to Ford, approximately two-thirds of Americans do not have a will, often because they avoid thinking about death, worry about legal costs, or struggle with difficult family decisions. 3. DIY Wills Can Create Major Problems While some states allow handwritten wills, poorly written documents often create ambiguity that leads to family disputes, litigation, and unintended outcomes. 4. Clear Legal Language Prevents Family Conflict A properly drafted will eliminates confusion by clearly defining beneficiaries, distributions, responsibilities, and contingency plans. 5. Estate Planning Should Be Based on Life Stage, Not Age Ford argues that estate planning becomes important when people begin accumulating assets such as: Homes Vehicles Retirement accounts Brokerage accounts Savings The need for a plan is determined more by responsibilities and assets than by age. 6. Communication Is Critical After a Death Many estate disputes begin because family members grieve differently and have different expectations about property, money, and responsibilities. 7. A Good Estate Plan Protects Family Relationships When instructions are clearly documented, families spend less time arguing about intentions and more time focusing on healing. 8. Executors Have Serious Legal Responsibilities An executor is responsible for managing and settling an estate, but cannot legally act until approved by a court. Executors must: Treat beneficiaries fairly Account for all assets Distribute assets according to the law and the will Avoid conflicts of interest 9. Trusts and Wills Serve Different Purposes A trust can be used to transfer assets during a person's lifetime and may help avoid probate in certain states where the probate process is costly and complicated. 10. Estate Planning Is More Than a Will A complete estate plan may include: A will A trust Medical powers of attorney Financial powers of attorney Guardianship planning Asset protection strategies 11. Family Structure Matters Blended families, multiple marriages, children from different relationships, and out-of-state property ownership often require more sophisticated estate planning. 12. Planning for Incapacity Is Equally Important Ford emphasizes that estate planning also addresses what happens if someone becomes unable to make their own medical or financial decisions before death. Notable Quotes On Estate Planning "Estate planning is really what happens if I die, making a plan for your death and what happens after you're gone." On Handwritten Wills "While the handwritten will may be an option, it's usually not the best option." On Legal Guidance "A lawyer would put in the verbiage to make sure there is not that ambiguity." On Why People Avoid Wills "A lot of people have not wanted to talk about these issues because they don't really want to talk about dying." On Planning Ahead "Not thinking about it doesn't mean it's not going to happen." On Timing "It's more of a position-in-life issue and not more about an age issue." On Estate Administration "The executor can't take money and spend it on themselves when it's supposed to go to the others." On Family Conflict "Communication is a big piece of that." On Good Planning "A good plan and a well-drafted will alleviates a lot of those problems." On Trusts "The trust agreement is going to determine who gets my home rather than my will determining who gets my home." On Estate Planning as a Whole "Estate planning is a more holistic view about all of these issues." On Powers of Attorney "We need powers of attorney if you become incapacitated before you die." Bottom Line Don Ford's central message is that estate planning is an act of protection, not simply a legal exercise. A properly structured estate plan helps preserve assets, reduce family conflict, ensure personal wishes are honored, and prepare for both death and incapacity. The interview serves as a reminder that waiting too long to create a will, trust, or estate plan can leave loved ones facing unnecessary stress, confusion, and costly legal challenges. #SHMS #BEST #STRAW Money Making Conversations Master Class with Rushion McDonald is America's premier entrepreneurship, business leadership, financial literacy, and wealth-building podcast featuring successful entrepreneurs, executives, founders, celebrities, and industry experts sharing actionable insights for professional and financial success. Business Podcast Entrepreneurship Small Business Business Growth Financial Literacy Wealth Building Black Entrepreneurs Minority Business Leadership Executive Leadership Business Funding Marketing Strategies Personal Development Startup Advice Sales Training CEO Interviews Founder Stories Professional Development Economic Empowerment Business Success Networking Brand Building Innovation How to start a business Small business funding Entrepreneur success stories Business leadership podcast Wealth building strategies Black entrepreneur podcast Minority business development Marketing for small businesses Business growth strategies Startup funding opportunities Executive leadership training Financial literacy education Success mindset podcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Listen and subscribe to Money Making Conversations on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, www.moneymakingconversations.com/subscribe/ or wherever you listen to podcasts. New Money Making Conversations episodes drop daily. I want to alert you, so you don’t miss out on expert analysis and insider perspectives from my guests who provide tips that can help you uplift the community, improve your financial planning, motivation, or advice on how to be a successful entrepreneur. Keep winning! Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Don Ford. A board-certified probate and estate attorney and managing partner of Ford Bergner LLP. The conversation focuses on the importance of estate planning, wills, trusts, probate, executors, and family dynamics that often arise after the death of a loved one. Ford provides practical guidance on how individuals can protect their assets, reduce family conflict, and ensure their wishes are properly carried out through legally sound estate planning. Throughout the interview, he emphasizes that estate planning is not just for the wealthy but for anyone who owns assets or has loved ones they want to protect. Purpose of the Interview The interview was designed to: Educate listeners about wills, trusts, and estate planning. Explain the legal differences between financial planning and estate planning. Help families avoid disputes and costly probate issues. Clarify common misconceptions about handwritten wills and DIY estate documents. Encourage individuals to create estate plans before a crisis occurs. Highlight the importance of planning for incapacity as well as death. Key Takeaways 1. Estate Planning Is Different from Financial Planning Ford explains that financial planners focus on growing wealth, while estate planning focuses on what happens to your assets if you die or become incapacitated. 2. Most Americans Don't Have a Will According to Ford, approximately two-thirds of Americans do not have a will, often because they avoid thinking about death, worry about legal costs, or struggle with difficult family decisions. 3. DIY Wills Can Create Major Problems While some states allow handwritten wills, poorly written documents often create ambiguity that leads to family disputes, litigation, and unintended outcomes. 4. Clear Legal Language Prevents Family Conflict A properly drafted will eliminates confusion by clearly defining beneficiaries, distributions, responsibilities, and contingency plans. 5. Estate Planning Should Be Based on Life Stage, Not Age Ford argues that estate planning becomes important when people begin accumulating assets such as: Homes Vehicles Retirement accounts Brokerage accounts Savings The need for a plan is determined more by responsibilities and assets than by age. 6. Communication Is Critical After a Death Many estate disputes begin because family members grieve differently and have different expectations about property, money, and responsibilities. 7. A Good Estate Plan Protects Family Relationships When instructions are clearly documented, families spend less time arguing about intentions and more time focusing on healing. 8. Executors Have Serious Legal Responsibilities An executor is responsible for managing and settling an estate, but cannot legally act until approved by a court. Executors must: Treat beneficiaries fairly Account for all assets Distribute assets according to the law and the will Avoid conflicts of interest 9. Trusts and Wills Serve Different Purposes A trust can be used to transfer assets during a person's lifetime and may help avoid probate in certain states where the probate process is costly and complicated. 10. Estate Planning Is More Than a Will A complete estate plan may include: A will A trust Medical powers of attorney Financial powers of attorney Guardianship planning Asset protection strategies 11. Family Structure Matters Blended families, multiple marriages, children from different relationships, and out-of-state property ownership often require more sophisticated estate planning. 12. Planning for Incapacity Is Equally Important Ford emphasizes that estate planning also addresses what happens if someone becomes unable to make their own medical or financial decisions before death. Notable Quotes On Estate Planning "Estate planning is really what happens if I die, making a plan for your death and what happens after you're gone." On Handwritten Wills "While the handwritten will may be an option, it's usually not the best option." On Legal Guidance "A lawyer would put in the verbiage to make sure there is not that ambiguity." On Why People Avoid Wills "A lot of people have not wanted to talk about these issues because they don't really want to talk about dying." On Planning Ahead "Not thinking about it doesn't mean it's not going to happen." On Timing "It's more of a position-in-life issue and not more about an age issue." On Estate Administration "The executor can't take money and spend it on themselves when it's supposed to go to the others." On Family Conflict "Communication is a big piece of that." On Good Planning "A good plan and a well-drafted will alleviates a lot of those problems." On Trusts "The trust agreement is going to determine who gets my home rather than my will determining who gets my home." On Estate Planning as a Whole "Estate planning is a more holistic view about all of these issues." On Powers of Attorney "We need powers of attorney if you become incapacitated before you die." Bottom Line Don Ford's central message is that estate planning is an act of protection, not simply a legal exercise. A properly structured estate plan helps preserve assets, reduce family conflict, ensure personal wishes are honored, and prepare for both death and incapacity. The interview serves as a reminder that waiting too long to create a will, trust, or estate plan can leave loved ones facing unnecessary stress, confusion, and costly legal challenges. #SHMS #BEST #STRAW Money Making Conversations Master Class with Rushion McDonald is America's premier entrepreneurship, business leadership, financial literacy, and wealth-building podcast featuring successful entrepreneurs, executives, founders, celebrities, and industry experts sharing actionable insights for professional and financial success. Business Podcast Entrepreneurship Small Business Business Growth Financial Literacy Wealth Building Black Entrepreneurs Minority Business Leadership Executive Leadership Business Funding Marketing Strategies Personal Development Startup Advice Sales Training CEO Interviews Founder Stories Professional Development Economic Empowerment Business Success Networking Brand Building Innovation How to start a business Small business funding Entrepreneur success stories Business leadership podcast Wealth building strategies Black entrepreneur podcast Minority business development Marketing for small businesses Business growth strategies Startup funding opportunities Executive leadership training Financial literacy education Success mindset podcastSteve Harvey Morning Show Online: http://www.steveharveyfm.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Shift AI, Manos, CEO of Umi, Patrick Thompson, CEO of Clarify, Brian Hall, CMO of Mistral AI, and Ben Gaffney, Deputy General Counsel at OpenAI, join host Boaz Ashkenazy for a live panel recorded at Seattle Tech Week on who actually owns intelligence in the enterprise AI era.One panelist argues that any enterprise still treating a frontier model as its core intelligence layer is renting something it should own, and predicts that in two years we'll look back at CTOs defending that approach the way we look back at driving a Ferrari to the grocery store. Another panelist, sitting inside one of the most closely watched policy fights in AI right now, explains why the debate over open source models and national security is getting a lot less theoretical, and a lot more real, by the month.This one is for CTOs and CIOs deciding whether to build or rent their AI stack, product leaders at vertical AI startups thinking about fine-tuning their own models, and anyone tracking the open source AI security and policy debate.Chapters[00:00] Welcome and thanks to sponsors JP Morgan and Ascend[01:30] Introducing the panel: Manos, Patrick, Brian, and Ben[03:54] From foundation model hype to vertical AI, what actually changed[07:37] How Clarify balances owning the system of record with using frontier models[09:44] Rising model bills, local models, and the push toward open weights[11:30] Mistral AI, sovereign AI, and why owning your intelligence matters[14:32] Data retention, training, and what the privacy debate is really about[19:10] Chinese open models, national security, and the safety debate[26:18] Why fine-tuning beats prompting for real vertical AI companies[30:43] What enterprises actually want from foundation models right now[35:35] What CIOs and CTOs will laugh about in two years[44:47] The hundred million dollar question: where the panel would invest[51:44] Advice for a 22-year-old about to spend ten years building something[53:31] What each panelist is most excited about in AI's futureConnect with the PanelistsManos (Umi) - https://www.linkedin.com/in/koukoumidis/Patrick Thompson (Clarify) - https://www.linkedin.com/in/patrickt010/Brian Hall (Mistral AI) - https://www.linkedin.com/in/brhall/Ben Gaffney (OpenAI) - https://www.linkedin.com/in/bengaffney/Connect with Boaz AshkenazyLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/boazashkenazy/Email: info@shiftai.fm

Leadership can be lonely, particularly when the organisation is under pressure. Employees expect confidence, clients expect stability and family members naturally worry when they hear that the business is struggling. So, who can the leader talk to? There is no perfect answer. Leaders need trusted advisers, but they also need the ability to process pressure independently, control their messaging and convert anxiety into practical action. Why Is Leadership So Lonely During A Business Crisis? Leadership becomes lonely because everyone looks to the leader for reassurance precisely when the leader may be experiencing the greatest uncertainty. During the COVID-19 pandemic, business leaders faced collapsing demand, government restrictions, staff anxiety, supply-chain problems and serious cash-flow pressures. Different industries were affected in different ways, but the leadership problem was universal: people wanted to know whether the organisation would survive. When sales decline, problems multiply quickly. Revenue drops, but rent, salaries, supplier payments and other fixed costs continue. Employees notice the warning signs and begin imagining the worst. The leader cannot ignore these concerns. At the same time, repeatedly broadcasting personal fear can weaken confidence throughout the organisation. Do now: Recognise that leadership pressure is real, but separate your need for emotional release from your responsibility to provide direction. Should Leaders Be Completely Transparent With Employees? Leaders should be honest about business conditions, but honesty does not require sharing every private fear, worst-case scenario or untested concern. When leaders conceal obvious problems, employees fill the information vacuum with rumours. They may assume the company's position is much worse than it actually is. Complete emotional disclosure creates a different risk. Employees may interpret the leader's uncertainty as evidence that there is no plan. The better approach is disciplined transparency. Explain what has happened, what the numbers show, which risks matter, what management is doing and what employees can control. For example, a leader might say, "Revenue is below target, so we are reducing discretionary spending and protecting our priority client relationships." That is more useful than either pretending nothing is wrong or declaring that the company may collapse. Employees need reality, direction and appropriate confidence. Do now: Communicate the facts, the response plan and the next review point. Keep personal panic out of company-wide messaging. Can A Leader Talk Openly With Clients? Clients can become trusted friends, but they are still clients and will protect their own organisations first. Strong commercial relationships are usually built on credibility, trust and personal connection. People prefer doing business with people they know and like. However, telling a client that your organisation may be unable to pay salaries or continue operating can trigger an immediate risk-management response. The client may start searching for an alternative supplier, even when the personal relationship is excellent. This is especially important in Japan, where reliability, continuity and long-term supplier relationships are highly valued. A buyer may sympathise with your difficulties while simultaneously concluding that depending on your company is too dangerous. Leaders should be truthful when an operational problem directly affects the client. They should not use clients as an audience for unrestricted emotional unloading. Do now: Tell clients what affects delivery, quality or continuity. Do not burden them with every internal fear behind the problem. Should Leaders Share Their Business Stress With Their Partner? A partner can provide emotional support, but unmanaged disclosure may transfer the leader's anxiety to the entire family. After carrying pressure all day, leaders naturally want to unload when they return home. The difficulty is that a partner may hear a business concern as a threat to the mortgage, school fees, retirement plans or the family's long-term security. This does not mean leaders should hide everything. Silence can damage trust and create emotional distance. The better approach is to explain the situation with context. Clarify what is known, what remains uncertain, what actions are being taken and whether the family is facing an immediate financial threat. There is an important difference between saying, "I am dealing with a difficult quarter," and spending every evening describing catastrophic possibilities with no structure or conclusion. Do now: Share enough to preserve trust, but avoid repeatedly bringing raw, unresolved panic into the home. Can Friends Or A Business Coach Help A Leader? Friends and coaches can help, but their usefulness depends on trust, commercial experience, local knowledge and their ability to understand the leader's real situation. Many senior leaders discover that they have few close friends. Building and maintaining a business can consume the time normally invested in personal relationships. Friends may offer sympathy, but they often cannot provide informed commercial advice. They do not know the customers, employees, finances, competitive environment or internal politics. A coach can provide perspective, questioning and accountability. However, a coach who has never led a business may struggle to appreciate the consequences of executive decisions. Context also matters. Advice that works in the United States, Europe or Australia may not transfer neatly to Japan. Employment expectations, decision-making processes, customer relationships and communication norms can be very different. Confidentiality is another issue. Leaders must consider how much competitively sensitive information they can safely disclose. Do now: Choose advisers who combine discretion, relevant experience, cultural understanding and the courage to challenge your thinking. How Can Leaders Manage Stress When They Have Nobody To Talk To? Leaders can reduce pressure by converting unstructured worry into a written sequence of problems, priorities, options and actions. Journalling, meditation and exercise can all help leaders regulate stress. Alcohol and drugs may offer temporary escape, but they usually create additional problems rather than resolving the original ones. Writing is powerful because anxiety is often vague and repetitive. Once the concern is written down, it becomes something the leader can examine. Use four questions: What problems am I facing? Which problem has the highest priority? What could I do about it? Which solution should I begin implementing immediately? This method sounds almost too simple. That simplicity is its strength. The process forces the leader to separate several overlapping worries, identify the issue that matters most and select a concrete next step. Action then replaces at least part of the helplessness. Do now: Write down the problem, choose the priority and take one useful action before the day ends. What Should Leaders Remember About Pressure At The Top? Leadership does not require pretending that fear, doubt and stress do not exist. It requires managing those emotions so they do not control the organisation. Employees need honesty and direction. Clients need confidence in continuity. Family members need appropriate context. Friends and coaches can help, but only when they have the necessary judgement, experience and discretion. Ultimately, leaders need their own method for processing pressure. Writing down the problems, prioritising them, generating options and selecting an immediate action is a practical place to start. You may not always have the perfect person to talk to. You can still create clarity, regain control and move forward. Author Bio Dr. Greg Story, Ph.D. in Japanese Decision-Making, is President of Dale Carnegie Tokyo Training and Adjunct Professor at Griffith University. He is a two-time winner of the Dale Carnegie "One Carnegie Award" in 2018 and 2021 and received the Griffith University Business School Outstanding Alumnus Award in 2012. As a Dale Carnegie Master Trainer, Greg is certified to deliver leadership, communication, sales and presentation programmes globally, including Leadership Training for Results. He has written several books, including the best-sellers Japan Business Mastery, Japan Sales Mastery and Japan Presentations Mastery, as well as Japan Leadership Mastery and How to Stop Wasting Money on Training. His books have also been published in Japanese, including Za Eigyō（ザ営業）, Purezen no Tatsujin（プレゼンの達人）, Torēningu de Okane o Muda ni Suru no wa Yamemashō（トレーニングでお金を無駄にするのはやめましょう）and Gendaiban "Hito o Ugokasu" Rīdā（現代版「人を動かす」リーダー）. Greg publishes regular business insights on LinkedIn, Facebook and X and hosts six weekly podcasts. On YouTube, he produces The Cutting Edge Japan Business Show, Japan Business Mastery and Japan's Top Business Interviews for executives and professionals seeking practical strategies for succeeding in Japan.

✅ Join our Thrive Tribe! https://thrivetoday.com/ Learn more about our Thrive Today Membership: https://thrivetoday.com/pages/membership In this episode of the Thrive Today Podcast, Colleen Rouse sits down with Natalie Born to explore how leaders can navigate conflict with greater wisdom, confidence, and flexibility. Using the Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument, Natalie unpacks five common responses to conflict: competing, accommodating, avoiding, compromising, and collaborating. She explains when each approach can be helpful or harmful. Together, they offer practical insight to help leaders identify their default style, choose the right response for the situation, and grow beyond the patterns that may be limiting their leadership. [00:00 – 03:39] Understanding Your Conflict Style Identify the response you use most often when conflict arises. Understand assertiveness and cooperativeness as the model's two key dimensions. Treat each conflict style as a tool rather than a permanent leadership identity. [03:40 – 05:30] When Competing Is Necessary Use a highly assertive approach when safety or urgency demands immediate action. Make the hard call when delaying a decision could cause greater harm. Avoid turning competition into a default win-lose leadership mentality. [05:31 – 09:08] Accommodating Without Losing Your Voice Choose accommodation when serving others or yielding a preference supports the greater good. Recognize when healthy cooperation has become unhealthy self-sacrifice. Bring your thought leadership to the table instead of becoming known as the person who always gives in. [09:09 – 12:38] The Hidden Cost of Avoidance Step away when a conversation becomes unsafe, unstable, or too emotionally charged. Do not allow temporary avoidance to become a pattern of ignoring difficult issues. Remember that unaddressed behavior shapes culture and can erode a team's respect for its leader. [12:39 – 14:58] Finding Common Ground Through Compromise Use compromise when trust is limited or time requires a practical decision. Clarify what each person needs and what each is willing to give up. Let smaller negotiations become opportunities to listen well and build trust. [14:59 – 20:17] The Work of True Collaboration Balance confidence in your position with openness to a better idea. Seek to understand the other person's needs before asking to be understood. Give important decisions the time, trust, honesty, and maturity collaboration requires. [20:18 – End] Growing Beyond Your Default Ask trusted people how they experience your conflict style at work and at home. Choose one less-familiar style to practice over the next 60 to 90 days. Build the flexibility to match your response to the needs of the moment. Quotes “These are tools in our tool belt.” — Natalie Born “Even a servant doesn't have to be a doormat.” — Natalie Born “Culture is the worst behavior we allow.” — Natalie Born “Seek to understand before you're understood.” — Natalie Born About Natalie Born Natalie Born is the founder of Innovation Meets Leadership and the media host for Thrive Today. Through her work, she equips leaders to navigate change, strengthen their influence, and approach leadership challenges with wisdom, courage, and practical strategy. Guest Links LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/natalieborn Website: https://innovationmeetsleadership.com Loved this episode of the Thrive Today Podcast? ⭐ Subscribe and leave a 5-star review to help more women discover faith-filled leadership.

Neil McClendon, Lead PastorGrand Parkway Baptist ChurchUnderstanding JesusMatthew 11:1-191. Doubt is part of an authentic faith journey, v.1-6• Jude 1:22How to have mercy on those who are doubting...a)Realize that doubt is part of deepened faithb)Don't manufacture answersc)Focus on essentials not non-essentialsd)Don't throw out everything over one thinge)Don't hurry people upf) Clarify the role sin plays in this process2. Truth tellers stand out in a culture of liars, v. 7-11Things that require explanation...1) “A reed shaken by the wind?”2) “A man dressed in soft clothing?”3) “Yet the one who is least in the Kingdom of heaven is greater then he.”• Matthew 13:16-173. The Kingdom is indestructibly present, v. 12-15• Malachi 4:5• Luke 1:16-174. Jesus came to fulfill prophecy not preferences, v. 16-19• Ephesians 5:15-21Seven characteristics of wisdom...1)time management2)experiences the will of God3)controls appetites4)experiences fullness5)worships6)practices gratitude7)submissionMental worship...1. Do you have questions about Christianity that are still unanswered?2. When is the last time you saw the Gospel?3. Was there a time in your life where you were more honest than you are now?4. Do you ever find it hard to speak up for the truth? Is that more about not knowing what to sayor not wanting to say it?5. Of the characteristics of wisdom, which most needs yourBe sure to follow us:InstagramFacebookYoutube

The most important questions in a life insurance appointment are often the most uncomfortable ones to ask—and answer. But avoiding them doesn't make the problem go away. In this episode, we talk about why great agents are willing to go where others won't, how to use uncomfortable questions without becoming pushy or manipulative, and why sometimes the best thing you can do after asking a tough question is simply shut up and listen. Ask it. Sit in it. Clarify it.YouTube link:https://youtu.be/_cwj5fPy6xUIf you have any questions, you can reach us here:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lifemattersfinancial.com/contact/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠If you're an agent looking for a mentor, start here:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lifematterfinancial.com/careers/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Have an idea or topic suggestion? Talk to me:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/6aLkM8MSTwH4eteVA⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠#lifematters #lifeinsurance #wholelifeinsurance #agentsforlife #lifeinsuranceagent #infinitebanking

A miraculous thing often happens just as I am preparing to leave a client meeting. The formal discussion is over. I have closed my organiser, packed away my pen and mentally moved on to the next appointment. Then the client casually drops a major insight, hidden concern or vital piece of information on me. Naturally, this creates a small panic. The meeting is obviously finished, I am already packed up and I cannot easily reopen everything and start scribbling furiously without looking slightly ridiculous. I have to hold the information in my head until I am out of sight and can record it before it disappears. This kept happening until I finally realised the problem was not the client. The problem was me. I was ending the sales call too efficiently. I was not creating enough space for the buyer's brain to catch up with the conversation. The final five minutes of a sales meeting are not dead time. They are often where the truth finally turns up. Why do buyers reveal important information at the end of a sales meeting? Buyers often reveal the best information at the end because their brains are still processing the meeting long after the salesperson thinks the discussion is finished. We salespeople do this all day. We ask questions, uncover needs, identify gaps, explore consequences and navigate toward the next step. We are familiar with the process. The buyer is not. Most buyers spend far more time being assaulted by amateur pitch merchants than speaking with professional salespeople. They are used to suppliers battering them with slides, data, features, company history and product propaganda. When they finally meet someone who asks intelligent questions, they have to think. That thinking takes time. In Japan, buyers may also avoid expressing concerns too directly during the formal part of the meeting. Once the pressure drops and everyone starts preparing to leave, they may finally mention the real obstacle. It could be an internal opponent, a budget issue, a failed previous attempt or a decision-maker who has not yet appeared. Do now: Do not mentally check out when the meeting appears to be over. The most valuable comment may still be coming. What is the difference between a pitch person and a professional salesperson? Pitch people talk at buyers. Professional salespeople help buyers think. There is a vast difference between the two. Pitch people believe selling means doing all the talking. Their strategy is to smash the buyer with enough information, enthusiasm and verbal force to wrestle them to the ground and get the order form signed. They talk about their company. They talk about their solution. They talk about their technology. They talk about themselves. Then they wonder why the buyer says, "We will think about it." Professional salespeople ask intelligent questions and listen carefully to the answers. They are looking for the gap between where the buyer is now and where the buyer wants to be. More importantly, they help the buyer discover why remaining in the current situation is dangerous, expensive or strategically foolish. If I simply tell the buyer that life will be grim unless they buy my solution, they will naturally think, "Of course he would say that. He is trying to sell me something." But when the buyer reaches that conclusion personally, the idea has far greater power. Do now: Stop trying to overpower buyers with information. Ask questions that help them recognise the problem for themselves. How can sales questions create urgency? Strong sales questions make the cost of delay visible, because buyers rarely act until doing nothing begins to look more dangerous than taking action. During the sales conversation, we are exploring where the buyer is now, where they want to be and what is blocking the path between those two points. The buyer may already know there is a gap. That does not mean they feel any urgency. They may believe they can solve the problem internally. Perhaps they can. Given a hundred years, almost anyone can eventually reach a goal. The real questions are how long it will take, what it will cost and what opportunities will be lost while they are fumbling around trying to do it themselves. Suppose the buyer is struggling to retain key employees. I might ask: "If there was a way to prevent your key people being poached by the current horde of ravenous recruiters constantly scouring firms like yours for bodies to move to your competitors, would that help protect the stability of your business?" That language is deliberate. "Poached." "Horde." "Ravenous." "Competitors." "Instability." I am painting a word picture. I want the buyer to see the commercial danger clearly. Do now: Ask what happens if the buyer leaves the problem untouched for another six or twelve months. Why should salespeople explore the buyer's personal interest? Every business decision has a personal dimension, because the buyer's reputation, career and internal credibility may rise or fall with the outcome. We naturally ask what solving the problem will do for the organisation. Will it improve revenue? Reduce cost? Retain talent? Protect customers? Increase productivity? We should also ask what success will mean for the person sitting across from us. If the project succeeds, will they gain credibility with senior management? Will they be seen as someone who solved a stubborn problem? Will their team perform better? Will their life become easier? Equally, what happens to them if the initiative fails? A buyer may like our solution but fear becoming the person who sponsored an unsuccessful project. They may need more evidence, internal support or reassurance before they are willing to put their name behind it. This can be particularly important in Japan, where consensus-building, internal alignment and reputational risk often carry enormous weight. We are not trying to manipulate personal ambition. We are trying to understand the complete decision. Do now: Ask how solving the problem will help both the organisation and the individual buyer. Why is silence so powerful at the end of a sales meeting? Silence forces the salesperson to stop performing and gives the buyer enough space to think, remember and finally say what matters. Salespeople are often terrified of silence. The moment the conversation slows down, they leap in to rescue it. They add another explanation, repeat the benefits, provide an extra example or begin garnishing an answer that was already perfectly adequate. This is usually a mistake. At the end of the meeting, stop talking. Sit there for a moment. Look at the buyer. Let the silence become slightly uncomfortable. Fifteen seconds is a very long time when nobody is speaking, but that is precisely why it works. The buyer's brain has room to keep processing the conversation. Then ask: "Is there anything else I should know before I come back to you with our proposal?" After that, shut up. Do not explain the question. Do not add examples. Do not rescue the buyer. The silence may reveal the chief financial officer hates the idea, the budget is disappearing, a competitor is already involved or the project failed badly three years ago. Do now: Ask one final question and remain silent long enough to receive a real answer. How should salespeople use the final five minutes of the call? The final five minutes should be protected as a deliberate discovery stage, not wasted on hurried packing and polite small talk. In Japan, there is a strong chance we will need to return with a detailed proposal, customised solution or additional information for other stakeholders. This is exactly why the final five minutes matter. Before leaving, summarise what you have understood. Confirm the buyer's desired result, the major obstacles and the next step. Then pause. Do not immediately grab your bag and charge toward the lift. Use a simple closing sequence: Confirm where the buyer is now. Confirm where they want to be. Clarify what is blocking progress. Agree on the next step and timing. Ask what else you need to know. Shut up and wait. That last piece of information may completely change the proposal. Without it, you may return with a beautifully prepared, technically accurate and commercially useless document that solves the wrong problem. Do now: Reserve the final five minutes of every sales meeting for silence, reflection and one last discovery question. Conclusion The formal end of the sales meeting is not necessarily the real end of the sales meeting. The buyer's brain may still be digesting your questions, connecting ideas and recognising consequences. When the pressure drops, the truth often slips out. Professional salespeople understand this. Pitch people are too busy packing up their laptop. Once the discussion is complete, confirm the next step and then ask: "Is there anything else I should know before I come back to you with our proposal?" Then stop talking. Do not add. Do not garnish. Do not expand. Just sit there and let the buyer think. You will be surprised by what comes out. I must say, I always am. Author Bio Dr. Greg Story, Ph.D. in Japanese Decision-Making, is President of Dale Carnegie Tokyo Training and Adjunct Professor at Griffith University. He is a two-time winner of the Dale Carnegie "One Carnegie Award" in 2018 and 2021 and received the Griffith University Business School Outstanding Alumnus Award in 2012. As a Dale Carnegie Master Trainer, Greg is certified to deliver programmes globally across leadership, communication, sales and presentations, including Leadership Training for Results. He has written several books, including the bestsellers Japan Business Mastery, Japan Sales Mastery and Japan Presentations Mastery, together with Japan Leadership Mastery and How to Stop Wasting Money on Training. His books have also been translated into Japanese, including Za Eigyō（ザ営業）, Purezen no Tatsujin（プレゼンの達人）, Torēningu de Okane o Muda ni Suru no wa Yamemashō（トレーニングでお金を無駄にするのはやめましょう）and Gendaiban "Hito o Ugokasu" Rīdā（現代版「人を動かす」リーダー）. Greg publishes daily business insights on LinkedIn, Facebook and X and hosts six weekly podcasts. On YouTube, he produces The Cutting Edge Japan Business Show, Japan Business Mastery and Japan's Top Business Interviews, which are followed by executives seeking practical strategies for succeeding in Japan.

Betsy is back from Belize and back to giving us the advice we can all learn from. In this episode, she wants us to remember that our value is our presence, not our usefulness. Are you doing the work for you and for everyone else? Leaning back doesn’t have to mean becoming less, it allows others to show up more. Give it a try in your life and you might get pleasantly surprised. Transcript:  Welcome to The Art of Living Big, where we explore how to live intentionally and with more joy. I’m Betsy Pake, your host, master, coach, and creator of the Navigate Method. Here to help you listen in to your true desires, elevate your standards, and live life to the fullest. Now, let’s go live big. Hello. Hi, everybody. Welcome to the show. I have been missing for a couple weeks. We went to Belize for our retreat, and it was … Oh, my God, it was so great. I, I wish you could have been there. It was this group of people that came together. Some of them had worked with me, but most of them hadn’t. But everybody got along. I- it was insane how awesome it was. It was girlhood, you know? We played in the pool. We did some work on ourselves. We d- you know, had drinks by the moonlight. I mean, it was just such a great, great trip. It, it was so fascinating to me how everybody just bonded, you know? And I think that’s just, … I, I always say, , I attract the best women. Beautiful women, too. But I attract the best women. And so everybody just meshed. A, a, lot of people extended their trip. They had an extra day, and then some people changed their plane flight so that they could stay, and it was just amazing. And I’m so happy that we did that trip, and I’m gonna plan another one. I got a couple things that I’m working on that I’m gonna finalize today. Hopefully today is the day. But I would really like to do something in January, so be on the lookout for that, because you won’t wanna miss it. Just the coming together, and it was like we’d all known each other for 20 years, you know, and it was like our annual girls’ trip. I know that for me, I expanded so much, and I felt so great, and so it definitely made me realize that, , live events, it’s so important, I think, for us to get together live and to have that experience together. So anyway, what I wanted to talk to you today about, though, is I kinda have a, a short little thought, an idea, experiment that I have been running. You know, it’s interesting, because, , in the last episode, I talked about how I had started dating, and I don’t, I’m not gonna be coming in here talking about dating every time. I, have to tell you that I resisted it for a long time, and what I’m recognizing is how much I have learned about myself in the last couple months of doing this, and how much I have grown, really, and how much I was able to notice old patterns and actually shift so that I know I have healed, because I noticed it and was able to move out of it. And so there’s a little lesson in here that I have learned that I think might be helpful for you, and so that’s what I wanted to kinda share today. If you’ve been here for a while, you know that I- tend to say that relationships are a mirror, right? Every single one. Our friendships, our, coworkers, with our kids, you know, with the lady who does your hair, like the person that you’re standing next to in line. All of this is a mirror about how we actually feel about ourselves, and we can learn a lot about ourselves from any one of those experiences. You know, I, I think some mirrors show us things that other mirrors couldn’t show us. And so I think that’s why this experiment has been so important for me on my journey. And you know, I, I have been coaching for years. I mean, 2012. A long time. And I have done the work. I know myself very well. And I noticed when I started dating that there was this pattern that was sort of, I don’t know. I- if you had asked me, “Do you have that pattern?” I would say, “No, I can do, I can do it. It’s n- I’m fine. I’m fine.” But what I recognized was that that pattern was so much in the middle of who I was that I actually couldn’t see it until I had the mirror to show me. , And so I’m gonna talk a little bit about that, because I think that every relationship that I had was old enough that the pattern was, like, already kind of baked in. And so, you know, like when you walk into your living room, like you don’t notice the furniture ’cause it’s just been there. But dating put me in like a brand new living room. You know what I mean? With people who knew nothing about me, , no history, no established roles. Like nobody had an expectation of me that was already in, in place. And I think that created this like blank space. And I watched myself do something within, you know, the first 24 hours of finding somebody, that I liked. Now- I’m, I wanna say, I’m gonna say I liked loosely… I, I, I liked everybody is my point. I liked everybody. I, met some really, really nice people. But here’s what happened, is that I over-functioned. I think that’s the easiest way to say it. I met somebody, and I immediately started doing the work of the relationship. , I would carry the conversation, I would ask really good questions. I kept saying, “Everybody’s so nice, I could talk to them for hours. And then I was like, wait, maybe that’s me. Maybe that’s me. , Not that they’re not nice, not that they can’t hold a conversation, it just made me realize maybe there’s something I’m doing here that is over-capacitating to, , an extent. You know? I, I found, , if something got awkward or if I noticed something made somebody uncomfortable, , I would immediately kind of smooth it over. I, I would handle everything. I would suggest a plan when there wasn’t a plan. , I would explain myself so thoroughly, I would over-explain what I meant or what I was trying to say so there wouldn’t be any confusion. And what I noticed was that I was doing my half, right, my half of the relationship, and I did that really fast and I did it really well because I’m good at it, but then I also did his half. And I think that there was this part where I felt like I had a connection with somebody, but looking back now, I realize that it was just me, , over-capacitating the whole thing. Like, when I look back at this, , I’m gonna use the word relationship, but we’re gonna air quote that. , I went out with somebody, , I don’t know, five or six times, and I realized I was doing my half and his half. And that I built that whole thing. I have no idea what that guy would have built with me because I never left him any room to build anything with me. I would reach out. I would suggest things. And so here’s what I wanna do, is I think I wanna sort of name this thing because I think a lot of you are gonna recognize yourself in this. You know, I, I am very good at walking into somebody’s complicated situation, understanding it, finding a solution for things, and making it better. , That is real. That is my gift. I can… It’s almost like a cosmic thing. When somebody explains to me what’s going on with them, I feel like I’m hovering above it, and I can see the, all the levers. And so if somebody hands me a mess with a lot of moving parts and a lot of feeling attached to it, I can sort it out. I can see what actually is going on. I, have built a business on this, right? But somewhere, a long time ago, I think I must have decided that that was my value. Not like one of my qualities, but that was my value. , That was the reason someone would want me around, like the, the price of my cocktail or whatever And I think once you believe that, you carry it into every living room you walk into, right? Every situation that you find yourself in. And so I would walk in kind of scanning for how I could be of value. And you find the thing that you can be useful for, and then you get to work because you know being useful is how you have always understood that you belonged in that room. And I have been doing that for, like, my whole life and calling it, like, being a good person, I think. I have really evaluated, what does it mean to be a good person? And, you know I, I think I am a good person. I think I am generous. I’m not gonna, you know, pretend that I’m not or not want to be. But I recognized in this interaction with this person that some of this was a bid. Some of it was me t- trying to buy my way in to closeness with someone. And, and the problem with buying your way in… And you may be looking at your marriage or relationship with people at work or whatever and go, “Oh my God, I do this. , I over-capacitate in order to feel like I’m enough to be in this situation.” And, , so I think that the problem with that is simply that , if you get close to people by being useful, you can never stop being useful. You have to continue to earn that spot, and you have to stay necessary, and that is not being close with someone in a relationship. That’s a job, and I don’t want to have a job with the people that love me. And so I recognized… And like I said, I went out on a bunch of different dates with a bunch of different people, and then I went out with one person, , I don’t know, four or five times. Couple weeks. It was just a couple weeks. And I noticed that I was doing this. And so as I was learning about other people and going out with other people, I started doing something a little bit different. And I wanna describe this ’cause I wanna be really careful about how I say it And because the shift was important, but there- it’s also nuanced, right? So I did not show up as being less, okay? So I’m not saying, , you need to dummy yourself down, or if you have a superpower, just keep that hidden. I’m not saying withhold your superpowers from people you love, . And I’m not saying that I wanted to pretend to be less, less interested in people than I was. I- and I’m, and I wasn’t trying to make anybody chase me., I’m 55 years old. I, I didn’t have the energy for some big strategy. But I wanted to lean back, and I wanted to do my part and stop. So I am still funny. I’m still warm. , I will still point out the thing that nobody else will say. I can still be generous when I feel like being generous. But I don’t need to m- make myself less capable, but I need to stop automatically spending all of my capacity. Does that make sense? So I don’t need to make myself less capable. I need to stop automatically spending all of my capacity. The capacity stays. I just stopped spending it before anyone asked. I just stopped spending it as a deposit to be wanted. So this is what it kinda looked like in practice. In practice, it looks like leaving when it’s time to leave. If I don’t make the plan, does he make the plan? If I don’t carry the conversation, like every message back and forth, I didn’t have to ask a question. I didn’t have to… I could just say… I could just answer what they asked me and give them enough information that they could keep the conversation going. I- I didn’t wanna explain myself. I just said, “This is what it is,” and then I let them see if they leaned forward. Do they get curious? Do they ask me about themselves? If I don’t smooth over an awkward moment, what do they do? Can he sit in an uncomfortable thing for a few seconds like a grown man? If I don’t tell him, this was the big one. One man asked me, “Well, what is it you’re looking for?” And I, I said, “Clarify what you mean.” And he said, “Well,, what kinds of things do you like?” And I said, “I am l- liking learning about who you are and how you show up. I’m not gonna tell you exactly how I wanna be treated. I wanna see how you would treat me, and then we’ll know if it’s a match And, , I’m not gonna tell some man that I need you to open the door for me, but I’m gonna choose the one that does it. I’m not gonna tell you that, “Hey, yeah, great, let’s go out. I need you to plan everything.” I’m just gonna choose the man that plans everything. I’m not gonna say, “You need to tell, that I look pretty. Don’t you think I look pretty?” I know this is so silly. Tell me I’m pretty and feed me. But I, I… This person I went out with, like, five times or whatever could- never said anything, like, complimentary to me, and I realized I needed that. And so I’m not gonna tell you that I need that. In the beginning, I’m trying to figure out if you’re the right match, but I’m gonna just notice, and I’m gonna pick the one that does tell me. So I think that leaning back let me learn more about people and who I wanted to invest my energy into, and made me realize that spending time with me… Now, this one’s crazy. If you are an over-capacitator like me, what I’m about to say is gonna make you so uncomfortable, but that me just being- spending time with you, was the payment. D- do you know what I mean? , That was enough. , I am joyful, and fun, and curious, and I don’t have to fix your problem. I don’t have to pay for the drink or plan the date. I can show up, and that is my value, is me, is my presence. You get to spend time with me. This shift is so insane. Even as I’m saying it, I’m like, that feels weird. What’s your value? , It can’t possibly just be that you just be you. But yeah, it can, ’cause the right person will be delighted in that. I have a man that I’m going out with, , the third time, and I’m, I’m not over-capacitating. I’m letting him show up, and he is. There’s another guy I’m going out with for a second time. I’m not over-capacitating. He’s showing up. He’s consistent. They’re messaging me every day. One of them said, “I don’t want you to worry your pretty little head about it. I’ll take care of it.” I said, “Yes, sir. I will just lean back.” And I think that this is a really hard thing for women who are accomplished. I think it’s a really hard thing for women who have been taught that their value is serving others and taking care of everything. So I think this is the thing that I, want you to hear, ’cause I really didn’t expect this, is that when I left empty space, men filled it. Not all of them. Some of them left it empty right back, and that was really useful information, and then I moved on without any drama about it. Unmatch. Some of them stepped in, made the plan, made the reservation, followed up when they said they would, noticed something that I mentioned once, some little small thing, and remembered it, took care of things, wanted to take care of things. And, you know, at first this felt really uncomfortable. , What do I do? , Should I offer something? Should I make this easier for him? Should I pay the bill? Should I say something, I don’t know, magical? I don’t know. Should I try to fix something? But nothing. That was the answer. Nothing. You do nothing. , You say thank you, and you enjoy it. And there are men out there this whole time who wanted to take care of things, and I just never gave anybody the chance, because I was already doing it long before they ever even got there. I wasn’t attracting the wrong people, but I was crowding out the right people. And I don’t think that our world teaches women necessarily how to receive. , We get taught, how to give until it, it is painful, and then we call that, , a vow or you know, loving. We get taught to be the capable one. We get a ton of praise for it. People tell you, “You’re so strong. You’re amazing. I don’t know how you do it.” And that’s good for, , you know, I don’t know, 10 years. Then, then all of a sudden you recognize that receiving is its own skill, and that most of us are really terrible at it. I mean, watch yourself next time someone gives you something, even, , a compliment. “Oh, gosh, no. Oh, this old thing?” Right? “Oh my God, I have so many wrinkles. No, God, that don’t even… I need a haircut. My nails, oh, thanks, but God, they… I gotta get them done.” Right? A compliment, a favor, dinner, help with something that you didn’t ask for help with. , Do you deflect? Do you immediately balance the books? Do you say, “Oh, you didn’t have to do that,” or do you start planning how you’re gonna pay it back before they even finished doing what they were doing? I don’t think it’s being humble. I think that’s discomfort. I think receiving makes us feel like we owe, and owing feels dangerous. And so we wanna,, clear up that imbalance immediately, and then get back to a safe ground where we’re the giver, and I think that gives us a sense of control. So what if you just sat in it? , Just for a second, just let it be uncomfortable and don’t fix it. I found this was so difficult until it wasn’t., At first I was like, “Oh, you don’t have to open the car door.” The guy, , you know, shut the car off, ran around the car door. , You don’t have to do that. But, but you can. But you can, and I found that nice and charming. And then soon I found I was able to really lean back and let people show up, and they’re showing up in a totally different way than I have ever experienced before. It wasn’t because there weren’t men around me who wanted to show up. It’s because I was crowding it out. So I wanna bring this all the way home, ’cause I know a lot of you aren’t dating on the dating apps, and I know that. But maybe you’re in a marriage and you can’t figure it out, or you’re in a friendship that just feels really lopsided, or you’re in a job and n- you’re carrying the team or a family where you have always been the adult, you know, since you were 10 years old. So here’s what I wanna say to you. If you’ve been over-functioning in something for 20 years, you don’t currently know what it is. You know what it is with you holding both ends of it. You don’t know what it is. You’ve been managing the calendar, and the moods, and the extended family, and the temperature of the room, and you have been doing that really well. , You soften things so that he doesn’t get mad, and you anticipate things before it even happens. You’re brilliant. You’re so brilliant, people don’t even know half the stuff that you take care of, ’cause you do it before there’s a, a missing piece, before there’s loss. You do your half and their half, and you call that a relationship. So when you sit down to ask yourself the big question of, “Can this relationship work? Do I want this? Is this enough?” You are asking about a truth that you likely built, and you cannot get a true answer from that place. So I’m not telling you to stop doing everything, and just see if ever- anybody notices, right? That’s … would likely be more uncomfortable for you, ’cause you’d have a messy kitchen and a, a cluttered household, right? I’m telling you something much smaller and a little bit harder, and that is to pick one thing, one thing that you always do that actually isn’t yours. You know, that something that only gets done because you do it, and then not getting it done would be uncomfortable, and then just don’t do it. Don’t announce it. Don’t make a big production. Don’t make it a lesson. Don’t turn it into a conversation about how you’re the one who does every goddamn thing, ’cause we know you do. ‘Cause I promise the conversation’s already happened. You’ve already done that, and it didn’t work. So just leave it empty, and then watch, not, not to catch anybody, but just to see them, to actually get clear eyes, to see what’s happening. ‘Cause you’re over-capacitating if you’re anything like me. You’re over-capacitating, and you think that’s real. But the truth is, if you just stay in your lane, you can see what they’re willing to do, and those are different, and your body knows which one you do regularly, so it’s gonna feel a little uncomfortable. And maybe they pick up the slack. That happens more than you might think, and it’s great when it does. We had someone the other day in group, two people, one person in particular, that was like, “I can’t believe how different my marriage is when I created space. I can see how much he shows up for me.” Maybe he doesn’t. Maybe it just sits there. But either way, you’re gonna learn something true, and I think that we are all pretty starving for something true. And, the last thing I’ll say, and, this is the part that I’m still practicing, is that it’s okay for you to just bring the joy. You don’t have to arrive with a solution. You don’t have to be the most useful person in your family. You don’t have to earn your seat by fixing anything or anybody. You can show up funny. You can show up interested. You can show up delighted by the thing you saw, , during your day. You can order something good on the menu and just be a pleasure to be around and let that be the whole thing. I know this is hard ’cause you’re like, “Well, I’m not going out on dates. I’m at home, and he does not see me as funny or interested or delighted by me.” But what if you felt that way about you? What would be different? ‘Cause that is enough. It’s always been enough. I don’t think there’s a ledger that we think there is. I, I think 20 years ago if somebody had said, “Don’t you worry your pretty little head about it, I got it.” Somebody said that to me yesterday. “Just show up.” And I would’ve been like, “I can handle it. I can do it. I’m a feminist.” But now I’m like, okay, I’m not gonna worry my pretty little head about anything. I’m just gonna get a cute outfit on and , go up and be joyful and happy and have fun, and enjoy the conversation, and spend time with somebody. I know that that’s not necessarily real life, it’s only a second date. But I think when we stop spending all our capacity on everybody else, we get it back for ourselves. So everything is teaching us something, including all the things that you swore you were done with. I, I was done with dating. I said it out loud on the show. And it turned out to be the one mirror that could show me a thing that I had been carrying my whole adult life. You, you might already know where you do this. You might n- even know as soon as I started the podcast, , might have been like, “This is what I do.” You know, there’s a specific moment in your week where you do something where you over-capacitate, and you don’t have to do anything about that right now, but just catch yourself when you start reaching and see if you can let yourself come back down and receive. Maybe it’s when a friend says, “Oh my God, you’re such a great friend.” And you go, “Aw, you’re a great friend.” You’re not valuable because you’re useful. You’re valuable because you’re you, and anybody worth having close to you already knows that. And I think that is how you live a big life. All right. All right, everyone. I love you so much. I’ll see you guys next week Thanks for joining me on The Art of Living Big. I hope today’s episode sparked something within you, maybe pushed you to dream a little bit bigger and live a little larger. Don’t forget to subscribe. Leave us a review and share this podcast with someone you know who might need a little inspiration today. You can find me over on Instagram at Betsy Pake and on my YouTube channel. Remember, the world is vast. Your potential is endless, and your life, it’s yours to shape. Until next time, keep reaching, keep exploring, and keep living big.

In this episode of Business Coaching Secrets, Karl Bryan and Road Dog dive deep into the realities of building a resilient coaching business, mastering the art of "fight vs flight," and unlocking powerful frameworks for breakthrough results. From examining how billionaires like Grant Cardone handle adversity, to deconstructing flywheels and explaining the mindsets behind lasting client success, this episode is packed with actionable insights for coaches who want more clients, better retention, and a roadmap to real impact. Key Topics Covered Resilience & The Billionaire Mindset Karl Bryan reflects on Grant Cardone's public deposition, revealing four instinctive reactions—fight, flight, pause, panic—and why adopting a "front foot" (fight) mentality is the root of Cardone's success. Coaches are urged to reframe setbacks as opportunities to advance, not retreat. The Power of Constraints Constraints aren't negatives—they sharpen priorities. Karl Bryan explains how the greatest business breakthroughs are a result of recognizing your true constraints (time, resources, trust) and purposefully designing around them. Answering "What Do You Want?" Coaches and clients alike struggle deeply with this. Karl Bryan demonstrates chunking big goals into sturdy, next steps, and details the process of clarifying starting/finishing lines for measurable progress. The Tony Robbins Framework & The Dickens Process Karl Bryan unpacks Tony Robbins' "state, story, strategy" model and reveals how mapping contrasting visions of the future (Dickens Process) drives emotional clarity and actionable goals. Flywheels, Not Straight Lines The world's biggest companies and the best coaches design their businesses around powerful, self-reinforcing flywheels. Real-world business and mindset flywheel examples show how compounding growth—or compounding negative cycles—shape everything. Mindset, Procrastination, and Internal Game Exploring the circular patterns of mindset, procrastination, and beliefs, Karl Bryan outlines the mechanics behind both upgrade and decline—and how the stories we tell ourselves determine our external success. The Moment of Zen The power of "allowing" vs. "making"—why real peace, presence, and long-term fulfillment in business and life are the ultimate inside job. Notable Quotes "Game is great at recognizing game. In adversity, the world splits into fight, flight, pause, or panic. Billionaires go to fight. Most people go to the other three." — Karl Bryan "Constraint is a powerful topic to understand. The largest constraint in any business owner's life is their calendar… Show me your calendar, and I'll show you your priorities." — Karl Bryan "You don't want to die wondering. The magic in your life is in the action you're avoiding." — Karl Bryan "State drives the story, and the story drives the strategy. Most people obsess on strategy when it's really your emotional state and narrative that matter most." — Karl Bryan "Needing nothing attracts everything. Ambition breath stinks. When you feel successful, you want less. When you feel less successful, you want more." — Karl Bryan Actionable Takeaways 1. Embrace Fight Mode: In business and life, setback is inevitable. Train your nervous system to advance, not retreat. Consciously adopt a playoff-series mentality: leave it all on the field, every time. 2. Build Around Real Constraints: Audit your true constraints—time, capital, trust—and design offers, presentations, and business models that directly address them. 3. Chunk the Impossible: To help clients answer "what do you want?", employ chunking: break big visions into sturdy, actionable next steps. Clarify starting and finishing lines for every initiative. 4. Implement Flywheels, Not Funnels: Map your coaching business or offer as a flywheel, identifying self-reinforcing loops (e.g., attendee experience → higher status → better attendees → more referrals). 5. Upgrade Your Internal Game: Coach yourself and clients through the flywheel of beliefs, values, identity, and stories. Intervene early on negative cycles (like procrastination) before they accelerate. 6. Allow, Don't Just Force: Balance relentless action with the wisdom of "allowing"—letting results and opportunities emerge without anxious over-effort. Be present, not just productive. Resources Mentioned Think and Grow Rich The essential classic for all coaches (emphasized for its principle of thinking first). Profit Acceleration Software™ Developed by Karl Bryan, essential for demonstrating real-time value and helping clients see the financial upside of coaching. Tony Robbins Events Especially "Unleash the Power Within" and the "Dickens Process" for vision setting and emotional transformation. Focus.com Daily strategies, frameworks, and community for coaches at all stages. If you enjoyed the episode, subscribe, share with a fellow coach, and leave a review. See you next week on Business Coaching Secrets! Ready to elevate your coaching business? Don't wait! Listen to this episode now and make progress toward your boldest goals. Visit Focused.com for more information on Profit Acceleration Software™ and to connect with a thriving community of coaches. Get a demo at: https://go.focused.com/profit-acceleration

You do not need another marketing tactic. You need a system.If you are an accomplished financial advisor, consultant, attorney, tax strategist, or other expert professional, chances are your biggest growth problem is not a lack of expertise.It is that too much of your expertise is invisible.It lives inside client meetings, private conversations, and your own head—where prospects, referral partners, search engines, and AI tools cannot fully experience it.The Authority Operating System shows you how to change that.At the center of the system is a focused book: a documented point of view for a specific audience. But the book is only the foundation.Paul G. McManus shows you how to turn that book into a repeatable system for building visibility, familiarity, trust, and authority through:Referral relationshipsProspect follow-upAudiobooksPodcast appearancesSpeaking and mediaContent and videoSearch and AI visibilityTeam alignmentYour own authority platformThe goal is not to become famous, post every day, or add more marketing work to an already crowded calendar.The goal is to become known for something specific by the specific people you most want to serve—and to build a system your team can help execute so your authority is no longer limited by your personal time.Over the past decade, McManus has worked with more than 600 financial professionals, from advisors managing billions to experts just beginning to build momentum in their markets. That work has helped generate more than $100 million in client revenue.He has also used the system on himself. Each of his first three books generated more than $1 million in revenue—and each performed faster than the one before it, not because he became famous, but because he became better at building the system around the book.Inside The Authority Operating System, you will learn how to:Turn your expertise into visible authority.Clarify what you believe, whom you serve, and what you want to become known for.Accelerate the speed of trust.Give prospects a way to understand how you think before the first meeting.Make your marketing compound.Stop running disconnected tactics and start building assets that reinforce one another over time.Transfer trust beyond yourself.Help clients, referral partners, your team, search engines, and AI systems understand and communicate your value.Create leverage instead of more activity.Build a marketing system that continues working even when you are not personally pushing it forward.If you have not written your book yet, this book will show you why it should come first.If you already have a book and are asking, “Now what?”, this book will show you how much more it can become.Your book should not be the finish line.It should be the foundation.The ultimate goal is to build a business where your best thinking travels farther than your calendar—and where you can confidently say:My marketing runs on AOS.Learn more at https://influentialadvisor.com/Support the show

Will Rosenzwieg was an Assistant US Attorney in Florida working on a significant Medicare fraud case when he was summarily fired by then AG Pam Bondi, citing Article II. He's now suing AG Todd Blanche and the Justice Department. His attorney, Margaret Donovan, joins this episode to share how a years-old blog Rosenzwieg had written criticizing Trump—before he was ever a federal employee—led to his dismissal, hours after it surfaced on social media via a right-wing influencer. “It's remarkable that the government wouldn't recognize what is so flagrantly a First Amendment violation,” Donovan says. After detailing the complaint, Mary and Andrew move to Todd Blanche's confirmation, before examining a ruling by an Alabama judge rejecting a motion to dismiss the case against the Southern Poverty Law Center on vindictive grounds. Next, they look at the latest in Trump's White House ballroom case after an appeals court upheld the block on its construction last Friday. Plus: a nod to his two new executive orders targeting birthright citizenship. Further Reading:  Here is the Will Rosenzweig complaint: https://www.justsecurity.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/Rosenzweig-v.-Blanche-Complaint-Aug.-7-2026.pdf Here is the White House Ballroom Appeals Court decision: https://media.cadc.uscourts.gov/opinions/docs/2026/08/26-5123-2187096.pdf After wrapping this episode, the group representing Barbara in the “Barbara v. Trump” birthright citizenship case filed a Motion to Clarify the Preliminary Injunction. That motion is here: https://www.aclu.org/cases/barbara-v-donald-j-trump?document=Motion-to-Clarify-PI#legal-documents A Note to Listeners: As the 2026 midterm elections heat up, MS NOW is headed to the Lone Star State. Join more than a dozen of your favorite hosts - including Rachel Maddow, Lawrence O'Donnell, Jen Psaki, Michael Steele, Ali Velshi and more - in Arlington, Texas on September 26 for a day of community and conversation about the issues that matter most to you. Get your tickets at ms.now/together. Sign up for MS NOW Premium on Apple Podcasts to listen to this show and other MS podcasts without ads. You'll also get exclusive bonus content from this and other shows. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Jones and Keefe discussed last night's Red Sox loss to the Blue Jays in Toronto and attempted to make sense of the "fourth out" rule.

In our most recent Office Hour, we talked about efficient ways to clarify inboxes to zero, on a daily basis and when returning from vacation to a larger number. We mentioned organizing by discussion thread and by sender, as well as traditional ways such as oldest or newest first. We had several points of view on how to encourage colleagues and family members to adopt the GTD best practices. And we had an update from two members in Denmark about their plans for attending an annual weekend get-together with other GTD enthusiasts. To watch this entire Office Hour, please visit GTD Connect. Sign up for the GTD Newsletter This audio is one of many available at GTD Connect, a learning space and community hub for all things GTD. Join GTD practitioners from around the world in learning, sharing, and developing the skills for stress-free productivity. Sign up for a free guest pass. Knowing how to get the right things done is a key to success. It's easy to get distracted and overwhelmed. Stay focused and increase productivity with GTD Connect—a subscription-based online learning center from the David Allen Company. GTD Connect gives you access to a wealth of multimedia content designed to help you stay on track and deepen your awareness of principles you can also learn in GTD courses, coaching, and by reading the Getting Things Done book. You'll also get the support and encouragement of a thriving global community of people you won't find anywhere else. If you'd like to try GTD Connect free for 14 days, read on for what's included and how to get your free trial. During your 14-day free trial, you will have access to: Recorded webinars on a wide range of productivity topics Extensive audio, video, and document library Slice of GTD Life series to see how others are making GTD stick David Allen's exclusive interviews with people in his network all over the world Lively members-only discussions sharing ideas, tips, and tricks Note: GTD Connect is designed to reinforce your learning, and we also recommend that you take a course, get individual coaching, or read the Getting Things Done book. Ready to start your free trial?

In this episode, we talk about why decision fatigue builds, why "one priority" beats a packed to-do list, and how to tell what's actually yours to carry this year.

We just walked through the CHRO Paradox series, and I know how this usually goes: you nodded along, felt aligned, and then your calendar immediately ate the follow-through. We don't need more data or another complex framework; we need the moves. This episode is about stripping back the noise and giving you three actionable steps—one for defining your role, one for aligning your partnership, and one for building your bench—that you can actually execute before Monday hits. You don't need a massive transformation to see results; you need one clear conversation about ownership, one dimension of partnership to sharpen, and three rising leaders to stretch. I've built a one-page People Leadership Alignment Guide to help you have those exact conversations without the heavy lifting. It's the easiest way to turn your strategy into an honest, shared plan with your CEO. Comment "ALIGN" below and I'll send the guide straight to you—no cost, no catch, just the work. Clarify the Role: Have one conversation this week that defines what the CHRO role owns, advises on, and observes. Align the Partnership: Pick one of the five dimensions discussed (budget, org design, AI strategy, board engagement, or succession) and get shared clarity on that single dimension this month. Build the Bench: Look two levels down, identify three rising leaders, and give each of them one stretch experience this year. Stacie For more episodes, visit StacieBaird.com.

What do wealthy people actually do with their time each day? In this episode of Seven Figure Standard, hosts Mykie Stiller and Arash Vossoughi break down the daily habits, routines, and disciplines that help people create high-level success without being consumed by distraction or overwork. Arash walks listeners through his own morning routine, why he regards it as sacred, and how he uses meditation to strengthen his identity. He also explains how a strong routine builds self-esteem, the idea of five great hours, the role of quiet time, and the importance of self-redirecting when the day does not go according to plan. They also discuss comfort-zone stretching and why discipline and faith are non-negotiable for lasting success. Tune in now!Key Points From This Episode:Hear how Arash structures his morning routine and why it's sacred to him.Explore why morning routines build discipline and self-esteem.Find out why the Millionaire Mornings Guide is a valuable coaching resource.Understand how five great hours can outperform 12 distracted ones.Uncover how daily habits create a world-class life.Learn how to redirect yourself when something goes wrong.Unpack why quality matters more than quantity.Discover why getting out of your comfort zone every day is a non-negotiable.Clarify what a real goal-achieving activity looks like.Arash's thoughts on urgency, attitude, discipline, and commitment.Links Mentioned in Today's Episode:Millionaire Mornings GuideGood to GreatThe Master Key SystemVoss Coaching CoVoss Coaching Co on LinkedIn Voss Coaching Co on InstagramVoss Coaching Co on FacebookEmail Voss Coaching CoMykie Stiller on LinkedInMykie Stiller on Instagram Arash Vossoughi on LinkedInArash Vossoughi on YouTube

Meetings don't consume time. They create leverage. The moment a business begins to grow, the doctor faces a choice: remain the person solving every problem or become the leader who develops people capable of solving them. That transition rarely happens by accident, and it often reveals itself in the way meetings are run.  In this episode, Dr. Stephen and Dr. Pete unpack the Millionaire Meeting Framework, a seven-step process designed to transform meetings from routine conversations into high-leverage opportunities for alignment, accountability, leadership development, and execution. From creating clarity around PRIORITY to empowering team members to think critically and bring solutions instead of problems, this episode provides a practical roadmap for moving beyond owner-operator thinking and building a business that can grow through people rather than depend on them.In This Episode You Will Discover:  Why the most valuable meetings often start with a question most leaders skip  The hidden reason smart teams continue solving the wrong problems  A framework that develops leaders instead of creating more dependence  How one simple question can completely change the quality of team conversations  The difference between a meeting that consumes time and one that creates leverage   Episode Highlights 02:10 - Meetings don't consume time. They create leverage, and the best leaders know how to multiply their impact through them.  05:17 - The fastest leaders aren't the ones who rush meetings. They're the ones who bring a framework.  07:14 - Question 1: How are you doing? A one-minute check-in sets the tone before the business begins.  08:20 - Question 2: What is our priority? Every great meeting starts by identifying the one constraint that matters most.  11:28 - Question 3: What is the objective of this meeting? Clarify the problem before trying to solve it.  15:08 - Question 4: What is your 1-3-1? Great leaders don't collect problems. They develop critical thinkers.  18:41 - Question 5: How can I help you? Support replaces rescue when a leader chooses coaching over taking ownership of every task.  20:47 - Question 6: Do we have a solution? Alignment happens when expectations become clear agreements.  21:02 - Question 7: What is your takeaway? Every meeting ends with do what, by whom, and by when. 21:45 - Imaging technology is evolving rapidly, and chiropractors have more opportunities than ever to improve efficiency and patient care. Dr. Pete sits down with J.R. Marsee from Success Partner Blue Ridge Imaging to explore turnkey imaging solutions, ongoing support, and the growing role of AI in modern chiropractic practices. Together, they discuss how the right technology partner can help practices operate with greater confidence today while preparing for the future.   Resources Mentioned To learn more about the REM CEO Program, please visit:  http://www.theremarkablepractice.com/rem-ceo For more information about Blue Ridge Imaging please visit: https://blueridgeimagingtechnologies.com Book a Strategy Session with Dr. Pete - https://go.oncehub.com/PodcastPC Prefer to watch? Catch the podcast on YouTube at: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRemarkablePractice1 To listen to more episodes, visit https://theremarkablepractice.com/podcast or follow on your favorite podcast app.

In today's episode, we spoke with Paolo Tarantino, MD, PhD. Dr Tarantino is a breast medical oncologist and advanced fellow at Dana-Farber Cancer Institute and Harvard Medical School in Boston, Massachusetts.In our exclusive interview, Dr Tarantino discussed practice-informing data regarding antibody-drug conjugates in breast cancer that were presented at the 2026 ASCO Annual Meeting, including the use of fam-trastuzumab deruxtecan-nxki (T-DXd; Enhertu) plus pertuzumab (Perjeta) for first-line treatment of HER2-positive breast cancer based on findings from the phase 3 DESTINY-Breast09 trial (NCT04784715); updated safety data from the phase 3 DESTINY-Breast05 trial (NCT04622319) that indicated that T-DXd–associated interstitial lung disease is reversible with steroids, although radiation pneumonitis is non-reversible; and the phase 3 OPTIMA trial (ISRCTN42400492) results, which suggested that the PAM50 signature can identify patients who may not need chemotherapy, potentially sparing them from unnecessary treatment.

Summary Being busy does not protect people from boredom, and boredom does not mean someone has spare capacity. New research shows employees can be bored and burned out at the same time. This episode explores how role conflict, limited autonomy and poorly designed work create this combination, and what leaders can do about it.   Transcript Hello and welcome to the Leadership Today podcast, where each week we share practical tips to improve your leadership. In this episode we explore whether it's possible to be both bored and burned out, and what that means for us at work. We often think of boredom and burnout as opposites. A bored employee does not have enough to do, while a burned-out employee has far too much. One needs more work and the other needs less. But new research suggests that this neat distinction does not reflect how people actually experience work. Research shows it is possible to be extremely busy and still be bored. It is also possible to be both bored and burned out at the same time. A recent longitudinal study examined different profiles of boredom, burnout and work engagement. Rather than assuming every employee fell somewhere on a simple line from disengaged to engaged, the researchers found several distinct combinations. Some people experienced the familiar pattern of high burnout and low engagement. Others experienced boredom and burnout together. At first, that may sound contradictory. But think about a person whose day is packed with repetitive tasks, constant interruptions, unclear priorities and unnecessary administration. They may be exhausted by the volume and fragmentation of the work while also feeling under-stimulated by its content. They have too much to do, but it still doesn't feel challenging, meaningful or worthwhile. That is one reason simply reducing workload may not solve every wellbeing problem. Managing workload matters enormously, but the design and quality of the work matter too. The research found that role conflict predicted less favourable wellbeing profiles. When people face incompatible expectations or competing priorities, they expend significant energy without necessarily experiencing progress or purpose. By contrast, autonomy, learning opportunities and cognitive demands were associated with healthier wellbeing patterns. Cognitive demands do not mean overwhelming people with complexity. They involve providing enough challenge to keep work interesting and engaging. There are three practical implications for leaders from this research: First, don't just look at workload alone. Someone can have a full calendar and an overflowing task list while still feeling deeply under-challenged. Ask not only, "How much work do you have?" but also, "Which parts of your work are energising or stretching you?" Second, reduce role conflict. Clarify priorities when expectations compete. If everything is urgent, people can spend enormous amounts of energy shifting between demands without feeling they have accomplished anything meaningful. Leaders add value by deciding what matters most. Third, increase healthy challenge and autonomy. Look for opportunities to give people ownership, involve them in problem-solving, rotate responsibilities or build new skills. The goal is not to add more tasks - it is to create better work. It is also worth paying attention to mixed signals. A person who appears disengaged may not lack motivation. They may be depleted by the wrong kind of demands. Someone who asks for more challenging work may not have spare capacity. They may be looking for work that feels more worthwhile than the tasks currently exhausting them. The takeaway is that wellbeing is not simply about how hard people work. It is also about what they are working on, how much control they have and whether the work provides clarity, learning and meaning. Great leaders do not just manage the quantity of work. They improve its quality. As always the reference used in this podcast is in the show notes. Have a great week.   Reference Toscanelli, C., Parmentier, M., Urbanavičiūtė, I., & Hirschi, A. (2026). The dynamics of well-being at work: Longitudinal profiles of boredom, burnout, and work engagement. European Journal of Work and Organizational Psychology. Advance online publication. https://doi.org/10.1080/1359432X.2026.2699462   Leadership Today On-Demand Special Offer We have a great deal for podcast listeners on our Leadership Today On-Demand subscription. 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The next generation of financial advisors and leaders are not asking for a job, they're asking for a future. Ray Sclafani explores why career pathing has evolved from a nice-to-have benefit into the most critical retention lever advisory firms have. Drawing on Deloitte's 2025 research showing only 6% of Gen Z and Millennials prioritize reaching a leadership position, Ray unpacks what ambition actually looks like today: growth, meaning, money, well-being, and a thoughtful pace of development.For advisory firm owners and leaders, the implications are direct. A firm with no clear development path doesn't stand still, it falls behind. This episode provides a five-part framework for building career pathways that work. Ray then shares a practical starting point: a single career conversation in the next 60 to 90 days that changes how your people feel about their future with your firm.The firms that provide honest visibility of a future worth building will retain more top talent, develop better leaders, and build more durable businesses.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODEWhy the next generation defines ambition differently and what that means for retention strategyHow to define roles with clarity and purpose so every position has a visible pathwayThe single biggest mistake firms make when building career paths and how to avoid itWhy addressing AI's role impact directly is now a core part of career developmentHow to eliminate ambiguity around partnership so people stop guessing what it meansTHE FIVE-PART CAREER PATHING FRAMEWORKDefine the Roles. Establish clear purpose, expectations, and required skills for each position. Map progression pathways for advisors (from client service associate to enterprise leader), operations (specialist to enterprise operator), and leadership (people manager to executive leader).Define the Progression. Specify what it takes to move from one role to the next: technical skills, client relationship management, leadership capabilities, business development expectations, decision rights, and cultural behaviors. Specificity builds trust.Connect to Actual Development. Attach real development objectives to each progression step. Identify specific competencies that need improvement, not vague hopes. The manager's job is connecting today's work to tomorrow's opportunity.Address AI's Impact. Clarify which skills become more valuable (empathy, judgment, planning, decision making, communication, relationship leadership) and commit to training people to use AI responsibly. Don't let people wonder alone.Make Ownership Expectations Clear. Define passages to partnership, distinguish between producing and nonproducing partners, clarify income versus equity partnership, and spell out what business development, client retention, leadership, and enterprise thinking mean for ownership.REFLECTION QUESTIONS FOR YOUR LEADERSHIP TEAMCan every high potential employee at your firm see a future worth working toward?Where are career paths clearly defined, and where are they implied but not yet documented?Which roles will AI reshape first? And how are you preparing your team for that shift?Who needs a development conversation before they start taking calls from another firm?RESOURCES MENTIONEDDeloitte 2025 Gen Z and Millennial SurveySchwab 2025 Career Pathing ResearchCFP Board Career Pathway ResourcesClientWise Business Builders Academy™ClientWise Executive Coaching and Team DevelopmentBuilding the Billion Dollar Business is hosted by Ray Sclafani, founder and CEO of ClientWise, the financial services industry's leading executive coaching and team development firm for elite advisors and wealth management teams.Find Ray and the ClientWise Team on the ClientWise website or LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram | Facebook | YouTubeBuilding The Billion Dollar Business

"Day after day after day, you and I would just wake up and feel like we were underwater. Could not get our head above water, could barely breathe." ~ Pat MilleaWhat does it actually take to survive the "fog of war" years of early parenthood without losing yourself or your marriage?Why might letting go of your own standards, like a spotless house or a specific parenting method, be the healthiest thing you can do for your family?What's the one practice Pat and Kenna almost let slip that ended up holding their marriage together?In episode 105 of This Whole Life, Pat and Kenna Millea open up their playbook for surviving, and even thriving, in the trenches of early parenthood. Drawing on their own experience raising seven kids, they talk honestly about the season a friend once called "the fog of war," the disorienting, sleep deprived stretch where you can't seem to get your head above water.From there, they walk through seven hard won practicals: holding firm to your values when everything feels chaotic, finding your own family's "clean spectrum," knowing when to take advice and when to let it roll off your back, outsourcing what you can without guilt, and protecting the handful of moments each day that actually shape your family's culture.They close with the two habits that quietly hold their marriage together in the middle of it all: going on dates, and praying together daily, even when it's just a Hail Mary before falling asleep.This episode is for anyone in the thick of parenting little kids who has wondered if they're doing it right, or anyone who remembers that season and wants to look back on it with a little more grace.Episode 105 Show NotesReflection QuestionsChapters:(00:00) - Cold Open(00:38) - Welcome, Lightning Round, and Highs and Hards(17:39) - The Fog of War: Why Early Parenthood Feels Like Survival(21:05) - Practical 1: Clarify and Hold Your Values(25:30) - Practicals 2 and 3: Finding Your Clean Spectrum and Filtering Advice(38:39) - Practicals 4 and 5: Outsourcing and Protecting High-Impact Moments(47:10) - Practicals 6 and 7: Dates, Prayer, and Staying Connected(53:12) - Challenge by Choice and Closing PrayerSupport the showThank you for listening, and a very special thank you to our community of supporters!Join our email list and never miss an episode or an eventVisit us online at thiswholelifepodcast.com, and send us an email with your thoughts, questions, or ideas.Follow us on Instagram & FacebookInterested in more faith-filled mental health resources? Check out the Martin Center for IntegrationMusic: "You're Not Alone" by Marie Miller. Used with permission.

Welcome to Glenn Robison's Rapidly Rotating Records, bringing you vintage music to which you can't not tap your toes, from rapidly rotating 78 RPM records of the 1920s and '30s.On this week's show, we'll maintain a flawless tempo as we hear some tunes about crows and potatoes and a birthday salute to Fud Candrix. And we'll finish up not with Compare and Contrast segments, but Clarify and Correct segments. There's lots of great music and interesting information so set aside an hour with your favorite beverage and prepare to be transported back to a different–and we think better–musical era. Just click the link above to listen streaming online and/or download for listening at your convenience. THANKS FOR LISTENING! ENJOY THE SHOW!Here's the complete playlist:Segment 1: Fud CandrixSwingnight In Dixieland (Christmas In Dixieland) - Fud Candrix mit seinem Tanzorchester   Always - Fud Candrix mit seinem OrchesterTwo Left Feet - Tanzorchester Fud CandrixSegment 2: Competitive Ballroom DancingHere Am I - Henry Jacques and His Strict Tempo OrchestraGangway - Joe Loss and His BandRomany - Jack Harris and His Orchestra at Ciro's Club, LondonSegment 3: Spud CellsHot Potatoes - Blind BlakeSweet Potato Blues - Lonnie JohnsonSweet Potato Piper - Dorothy LamourSegment 4: CorrectIngen Ros Utan Tornen (No Rose Without Thorns) - Helge Lindberg's OrchestraDaSpirar Alltid Upp Ett Litet Hopp (Then A Little Hope Always Sprouts) - Vernons OrchesterSka Jag? Ska Jag? (Should I?)  - Gunnar GregorSegment 5: ClarifyDream Garden - Henry Thies & His Castle Farm OrchestraRoyal Garden Blues - Mamie Smith's Jazz HoundsIn A Little Garden (You Made Paradise) Waring's Pennsylvanians / Tom Waring, v.

Thaddeus McCotter connects global energy prices to military strategy, noting how Ukrainian drone strikes on Russianrefineries impact domestic affordability. He warns that the Republican party must clarify objectives in Iran and Ukraineto address MAGA base concerns regarding "forever wars" before the upcoming midterm elections. (14)

Welcome back to The Catholic Coaching Podcast with Matt and Erin! In Episode 305, we are continuing our sub-series on how different temperaments navigate healthy, holy conflict resolution. Today, we are putting the "Peaceful Phlegmatic" in the hot seat. Have you ever walked away from a difficult conversation feeling relieved that it's over, only to realize later that you never actually said what you needed to say? Phlegmatics possess an incredible superpower: they are naturally calm under pressure, patient, and excellent mediators. However, their deep aversion to rocking the boat can lead them to use "assuming goodwill" or quick compliance as an escape hatch to avoid the discomfort of real, arduous conversations.In this episode, Matt and Erin walk through the 4-part PACE framework (Pause, Assume Goodwill, Clarify, Engage) specifically tailored for Phlegmatics:• The difference between true, lasting peace and temporary emotional relief.• How Phlegmatics inadvertently confuse "processing" an emotion with completely suppressing or ignoring it.• Practical scripts and strategies for bringing your honest thoughts to the table during the Clarify phase.• Why a passive-aggressive "yes" hurts relationships, and how to practice the virtue of fortitude to build stable, reliable harmony.As St. Thomas Aquinas famously said, "The things that we love tell us what we are." Phlegmatics, do you love true relational peace, or are you settling for mere relief?If you enjoyed this episode, please drop a like, subscribe, and share it with a friend who needs to hear it!Send us Fan MailSupport the show____________________► Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Metanoia Catholic YouTube Channel!► Discover How God Is Speaking to You In Prayer► Find out your temperament: Take the Free Quiz► Get the Conversation Starter Guide (FREE) ► Take the Quiz: WHAT TYPE OF COACH ARE YOU?► GET THE DAILY SEVEN JOURNAL!This interactive journal will help you transform your life from the inside out by teaching you how to grow in gratitude, set healthy goals, and gain mastery over your thoughts.► JOIN THE ACADEMY!Your online resource of classes, tools, and community to ramp up your growth and really change your life. Learn from the Metanoia Catholic coaches in webinars, live coaching calls, Lectio Divina, and more with your monthly membership.____________________► SUB...

Send us Fan MailAmazon main image optimization helps listings earn more clicks through clear text, stronger contrast, and mobile-friendly product images. This video covers Amazon product image SEO, keyword placement, readable sizing, packaging details, and image choices that support higher CTR. It also explains how sellers can review competitor images, improve listing clarity, and make product details easier to understand in search results.Stop letting unclear product images cost clicks, get a direct listing review and a clear action plan: https://bit.ly/4jMZtxu#AmazonMainImage #AmazonListingOptimization #amazonfba Want free resources? Dowload our Free Amazon guides here:Amazon Receiving Delay Guide: https://hubs.ly/Q04cdD4c0Amazon Catalog Spring Cleaning: https://hubs.ly/Q046BVfp0Amazon Proft Margin Defense 2026: https://hubs.ly/Q042trRH0Amazon SEO Toolkit 2026: https://bit.ly/4oC2ClTAmazon Seller Strategy Report 2026: https://bit.ly/3YN1RME2026 Ecommerce Website & SEO Readiness Checklist: https://hubs.ly/Q04btghf0Amazon 2026 PPC guide: https://bit.ly/4lF0OYXTimestamps00:00 – How to Clarify an Amazon Main Image00:40 – Cutting Board Keywords for Australia01:19 – Mobile Text, Color Contrast, and Sizes01:55 – Comparing Competing Amazon Main Images-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Follow us:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/28605816/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stevenpopemag/Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/myamazonguys/Twitter: https://twitter.com/myamazonguySubscribe to the My Amazon Guy podcast: https://podcast.myamazonguy.comApple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/my-amazon-guy/id1501974229Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4A5ASHGGfr6s4wWNQIqyVwSupport the show

What You Say is Not What They Hear What is the Difference Between Your Intended and Unintend Message? Episode 313 (Solo show featuring George Torok) In this episode we explore: why your whole message includes more than the words you intend to send four reasons your intended message might not get through why clarity in your head does not guarantee clarity for the listener how beliefs and past experiences filter what people hear how emotional state changes the meaning people receive why setting and delivery method influence interpretation how recent events can reshape audience receptiveness why unintended messages act like static around your main point how vocabulary and grammar influence credibility how body language can contradict spoken words how pace, pitch and inflection alter meaning why missing information can distract listeners how audience engagement strengthens communication how to reduce unintended messages before they sabotage your intended message ----- Your Host, George Torok: Is known as the Speech Coach for Executives because he's been coaching executive leaders to convey their messages with more confidence and success for 30 years. For 19 years, he hosted the radio show, Business in Motion, interviewing over 600 business and community leaders. As host of the podcast, Your Intended Message, he has interviewed communication specialists from 16 countries. George is co-author of the national bestseller, Secrets of Power Marketing, and contributed to 12 other books. His articles have been featured in magazines around the world, and he's written over 2,000 blog posts. An adventurer, he's visited over 30 countries on five continents and has run 12 marathons. ----- Key Lessons from this episode: Your whole message includes both the message you intend to send and the unintended messages that travel with it. Clarify your message before you speak. A message that feels clear in your head might become confusing when converted into words. Your intended message can fail because people were not listening, did not understand you or did not believe you. Communication requires several translations: from the thoughts in your head, into words, through the listener's filters and finally into meaning in their mind. Your audience filters your message through beliefs, past experiences, emotional state, setting, perspective and recent events. Recent experiences can influence how people receive your next message. An unresolved issue might block acceptance of a new idea. Unintended messages create communication static that can blur, weaken or contradict what you meant to convey. Vocabulary and grammar send messages about clarity, credibility and professionalism beyond the literal meaning of your words. Body language and voice can support your intended message or create doubt when they conflict with your words. The method of delivery matters. Email, phone, video, coffee conversation and boardroom discussion each shape how a message is received. Missing information can distract listeners when you raise a question but fail to answer it. Audience engagement strengthens the message. Reading slides or text can weaken connection and reduce attention. Distractions exist in the room, on the screen and inside the listener's mind. Effective communicators pay attention not only to what they intend to say, but also to the unintended messages attached to their delivery. ----- ----more---- Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We'll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self. In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.   Your host is George Torok George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He's fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.   Connect with George www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com https://superiorpresentations.net/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/ https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill  

Welcome back to The Catholic Coaching Podcast with Matt and Erin! In Episode 304, we are continuing our sub-series on how different temperaments navigate healthy, holy conflict resolution using the PACE Framework (Pause, Assume Goodwill, Clarify, Engage).Today, we are shifting into the introverted temperaments to focus on the Melancholic.Melancholics have a beautiful, rich interior life, but when it comes to conflict, their deep analytical minds can easily derail them. Instead of working toward unity, a melancholic might find themselves over-preparing, scripting imaginary arguments, and holding others to unspoken, black-and-white "ideals."In this episode, Matt and Erin break down:The Melancholic Profile: Understanding how slow-activating, long-lasting emotional responses can fuel long-term resentment.The "Should" Trap: How rigid ideals can become measuring sticks used to bludgeon relationships rather than build them.Maximizing the Pause: Why using the FACE Protocol (from Episode 300) and physical journaling is vital to break the rumination loop.Locus of Control in Communication: Learning to co-create ideals with others rather than manipulating them into conforming to yours.If you are a melancholic—or love someone who is—this episode offers highly practical, compassionate guardrails to help you stop rehearsing arguments and start restoring communion.If this episode helped you gain self-awareness, please like, subscribe, and share it with a friend!Send us Fan MailSupport the show____________________► Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Metanoia Catholic YouTube Channel!► Discover How God Is Speaking to You In Prayer► Find out your temperament: Take the Free Quiz► Get the Conversation Starter Guide (FREE) ► Take the Quiz: WHAT TYPE OF COACH ARE YOU?► GET THE DAILY SEVEN JOURNAL!This interactive journal will help you transform your life from the inside out by teaching you how to grow in gratitude, set healthy goals, and gain mastery over your thoughts.► JOIN THE ACADEMY!Your online resource of classes, tools, and community to ramp up your growth and really change your life. Learn from the Metanoia Catholic coaches in webinars, live coaching calls, Lectio Divina, and more with your monthly membership.____________________► SUB...

Everyone appreciates a story, and the difference between a good story and an unforgettable story comes down to a few mistakes that many speakers make. In this episode, Mark and Darren discuss common storytelling mistakes, offer ways to avoid them, and share techniques for making your stories unforgettable.   SNIPPETS: • Do a walkthrough with a proven process • Learn what constitutes a 'well-told story'   • Avoid narration only   • Include a solid setup to provide context   • Identify 'COMPELLEMENTS' – compelling moments in each story   • Don't forget emotional shifts   • Clarify the hero's 'DE-WHY-RE'…their deeper WHY   • Commit to digging deeper   • Include dialogue infused with emotion   • Decide when to use internal dialogue   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Do you rush to "kiss and make up" after a fight just to keep the peace, only to find the same argument exploding a week later? If you hate the emotional heaviness of conflict and prefer to brush past the pain to get back to the good vibes, you might be dealing with the unique wiring of a Sanguine temperament.Welcome back to The Catholic Coaching Podcast with Matt and Erin! In Episode 303, we are continuing our sub-series on how different temperaments navigate healthy, holy conflict resolution. Today, we are pointing the spotlight at the joyful, popular, and peace-loving Sanguine.Using our 4-step conflict resolution framework, PACE (Pause, Assume Goodwill, Clarify, Engage), Matt and Erin break down exactly where Sanguines naturally shine—and where they hit major relational roadblocks.In this episode, you'll discover:• The Sanguine Trap: How the fast but short-lived intensity of Sanguine anger can trick you into thinking you're "over it" when resentment is actually building underneath.• The Vices of Inconstancy & Mollis: Why avoiding the "arduous" work of deep conversations leads to shallow reconciliation.• The "FACE" Method in the Pause: How external accountability and targeted journaling can slow down your thinking and keep you focused.• Scripting for Clarity: Powerful phrases (like "I might be wrong about this, but...") to inject your natural warmth into tough, fact-based dialogues.• St. Philip Neri's Secret: How the ultimate Sanguine saint modeled heroic forgiveness and holy joy without avoiding reality.Whether you are a Sanguine looking to move from superficial harmony to true relational depth, married to one, or coaching someone with a high-spirited personality, this episode offers practical, repeatable mindset strategies to move toward real unity.Send us Fan MailSupport the show____________________► Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Metanoia Catholic YouTube Channel!► Discover How God Is Speaking to You In Prayer► Find out your temperament: Take the Free Quiz► Get the Conversation Starter Guide (FREE) ► Take the Quiz: WHAT TYPE OF COACH ARE YOU?► GET THE DAILY SEVEN JOURNAL!This interactive journal will help you transform your life from the inside out by teaching you how to grow in gratitude, set healthy goals, and gain mastery over your thoughts.► JOIN THE ACADEMY!Your online resource of classes, tools, and community to ramp up your growth and really change your life. Learn from the Metanoia Catholic coaches in webinars, live coaching calls, Lectio Divina, and more with your monthly membership.____________________► SUB...

Listen and subscribe to Money Making Conversations on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, www.moneymakingconversations.com/subscribe/ or wherever you listen to podcasts. New Money Making Conversations episodes drop daily. I want to alert you, so you don’t miss out on expert analysis and insider perspectives from my guests who provide tips that can help you uplift the community, improve your financial planning, motivation, or advice on how to be a successful entrepreneur. Keep winning! Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Attorney Whitney Knox Lee. Explains practical estate‑planning strategies—wills, trusts, powers of attorney—and how entrepreneurs, families, and especially parents of disabled children can protect assets, avoid costly probate, and maintain eligibility for critical benefits. The conversation also touches on integrating insurance with estate planning, small‑business contingency planning, and Lee’s personal mission and background in civil rights work. Purpose of the Interview Educate listeners on estate planning as a wealth‑preservation strategy (not just documents)—to reduce court costs, taxes, and confusion for families. Clarify the differences and roles of wills, trusts, and powers of attorney, including when each is appropriate and how they work together.] Highlight special considerations for entrepreneurs and families with disabled children or aging relatives, including insurance, operating agreements, and special‑needs planning. Share Lee’s values and practice approach, including culturally responsive service and sustainable advocacy rooted in prior civil‑rights work. Key Takeaways 1) Wills vs. Trusts vs. Powers of Attorney A will is not the plan—it’s just one piece and still goes through probate, which can be slow and expensive; think of a will as a “letter to the judge.] Revocable living trusts can help families bypass probate, reduce delays, and retain more control over how assets are managed after death. Powers of attorney (financial and health) are essential for incapacity scenarios; even 18‑year‑olds heading to college should have them so parents can access information if needed. 2) Why Insurance Belongs in the Plan Life insurance can protect the family’s ability to keep the home by paying off a remaining mortgage or covering living expenses—turning an asset into a sustainable legacy rather than a burden. For entrepreneurs, key‑person insurance can replace income when the owner can’t work, keeping the business afloat. 3) Minimizing Probate Costs and Taxes Probate involves court filings and legal fees; in some states fees scale with estate size (example discussed: percentage‑based fees in other jurisdictions), which can significantly erode wealth passed to heirs. Proper planning reduces those leakages. 4) Special‑Needs and Elder Planning Parents of children on need‑based benefits (e.g., Medicaid) must avoid transfers that jeopardize eligibility; the right trust structures preserve benefits while providing support. Elder law planning anticipates long‑term care costs (nursing home, assisted living, in‑home care) so families don’t have to deplete assets later. 5) Business Continuity for Owners Establish operating agreements and buy‑sell agreements that spell out who runs the business if the principal is incapacitated; pair with business powers of attorney. 6) Values, Audience, and Access Lee intentionally centers Black and Brown women and their families, grounding services in community uplift and transparent referrals to trusted financial pros (no paid referral arrangements). Contact approach: 15‑minute intake, then a four‑meeting process (legacy planning → design → review → signing). Notable Quotes (for pull‑quotes & captions) “Think of a will as a letter to the judge… a will still has to go through probate court. “A trust allows families to bypass probate altogether so they aren’t paying legal fees or leaving things to people who want to challenge the will. “Life insurance is a huge tool—it can help the family pay off the mortgage so they can keep the home and the equity.” “Estate planning is a strategy—not just documents.” “Even 18‑year‑olds should have powers of attorney—parents can’t just call doctors once kids are legal adults.” “I stay in my lane—I’m an attorney. I work closely with trusted financial professionals and make non‑compensated referrals.” “For special‑needs planning, don’t jeopardize need‑based benefits—use the right trust so support continues. “I want to build a sustainable practice that lets me serve my community and rest well, aligned with my family and values.” Quick Action Items (for listeners inspired by the episode) Draft or update POAs (financial and health) for every adult in the household, including college‑age children. Evaluate whether a revocable living trust makes sense to avoid probate and retain post‑death control. For business owners: review operating agreement / buy‑sell, add key‑person insurance, and create a business POA. Families with special‑needs dependents: consult on special‑needs trusts to protect benefits. #SHMS #STRAW #BESTSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Phil Le-Brun: The Octopus Organization Phil Le-Brun is an executive in residence at Amazon Web Services and a former corporate VP and international CIO at the McDonald's Corporation. He is a sought-after speaker and has been featured in Harvard Business Review, The Wall Street Journal, and The Guardian. He is the co-author with Jana Werner of The Octopus Organization: A Guide to Thriving in a World of Continuous Transformation (Amazon, Bookshop)*. Most of us have gone through some version of a reorg. A lot of leaders have also implemented their own reorgs. Sometimes they work. Many times, they don't. In this conversation, Phil and I discuss what goes wrong with reorgs and how we can do better. Key Points Organizations traditionally looked like the tin man from The Wizard of Oz: perfectly planned, many interchangeable parts, not flexible. An octopus organization adapts, works independently to serve the larger whole, and is innately curious. A reorg that starts with an org chart misses the complex organic connections you are unlikely to fully understand. Prioritize structural stability while building internal flexibility. Nurture the complex informal human networks that deliver value. Be honest about objectives and communicate a reorg early. Engage people by starting with smaller-scale change. Clarify the problem to be solved instead of the structural “answer.” Resources Mentioned The Octopus Organization: A Guide to Thriving in a World of Continuous Transformation by Phil Le-Brun and Jana Werner (Amazon, Bookshop)* Interview Notes Download my interview notes in PDF format (free membership required). Related Episodes How to Get the Ideal Team Player, with Patrick Lencioni (episode 301) How to Approach a Reorg, with Claire Hughes Johnson (episode 621) How to Help Employees Handle Tough Moments, with Anthony Klotz (episode 777) Discover More Activate your free membership for full access to the entire library of interviews since 2011, searchable by topic. To accelerate your learning, uncover more inside Coaching for Leaders Plus.