Divorce: What To Expect

This week Marcy welcomes Sophie Jacobi-Parisi, matrimonial and family law expert, and Jude Egan, certified Family Law Specialist, back to the show to share their fantastic insights and expertise. It is an understatement to say that COVID-19 has impacted all of our lives globally. In this episode, the focus is on how the pandemic has impacted child custody cases in all types of different circumstances. The pandemic has posed so many questions for families struggling through divorce and child custody issues, especially relating to relocation, decisions on the children's schooling... also issues such as, what if one parent has underlying health issues? Join us as these experts dive in and discuss how COVID-19 has affected child custody cases and what considerations you should be thinking about if you find yourself in this position during this time. Whether you have a current custody situation, a need for relocation, or you're thinking about divorce now that your relationship has deteriorated in the past several months, this episode should help you sort out the family law issues related to COVID-19.

Sara Davison, also known as the Divorce Coach, is famous for creating revolutionary new ways to cope with breakup and divorce. She's combined her coaching skills with her own personal divorce experience to create a unique program to help anyone battling a breakup. Sara is a two-time best-selling author of Uncoupling: How to Survive and Thrive After Breakup and Divorce, and her new book, The Split: From Breakup to Breakthrough in 30 Days or Less. Sara is an NLP master practitioner with 20 years of coaching experience, and has successfully built a global business and has worked with some of the top names in personal development, such as Anthony Robbins, Paul McKenna, and Barefoot Doctor. She's also the creator of Heartbreak to Happiness virtual retreats, which have rave reviews in the media for being transformational, life-changing, and have quickly become the new way to cope with a breakup in the UK. Sara is also scheduled to release her new podcast, Heartbreak to Happiness, later this year. Tune in to hear she and Marcy discuss the difficulties of divorce and breakups and how Sara's revolutionary techniques help thousands learn to heal, grow, and move on from breakups and divorce in a healthy way.Learn more about Sara and her programs by visiting https://saradavison.com

Lisa Zeiderman, a Matrimonial Attorney and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, is welcomed back to Divorce: What to Expect to share her insight and expertise. Lisa is a Managing Partner at Miller Zeiderman, LLP and regularly handles complex financial and custody divorce matters for high-net-worth individuals. In 2019, she was named one of the '10 Best Family Law Attorneys for Client Satisfaction' by the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys. In this episode, Marcy and Lisa discuss weighing the costs when considering calling a child's therapist as a witness in a case. Often, a child's time with their therapist is considered a safe haven for the child and a safe space to express what they need to... but if that person is then called upon to share their testimony, is that trusted bond forever broken? What if it is crucial to the case and beneficial for the child in the long run? Tune in to hear these answers and so much more as they dive deep into navigating the delicate yet crucial role a child's therapist can play in a high-conflict case. Learn more about Lisa and her work at https://mzwnylaw.com

Marriage, divorce, finances... it can get messy. What are the ins and outs of a well-executed prenuptial agreement? What is considered marital or separate property? What is a DAPT and why would you need one? Tune in to get all of these questions answered and so much more. Today's special guest Randall Denha is the founding member of Denha & Associates, PLLC, and former partner at one of the most prestigious estate planning firms in the country. He specializes in the areas of estate and personal tax planning, business and succession planning, family wealth planning, asset protection, and integrating all of these aspects into a truly comprehensive plan. Randy is also a frequent contributor to numerous publications as well as provides lectures to insurance groups, CPAs, and financial advisors' associations to share insight into the rapidly changing estate planning environment. Join us as Randall shares his expertise and thoughtful guidance regarding estate planning and prenuptial agreements, as well as the many financial mistakes that can be made before marriage and after divorce. You can't afford to miss this one!Learn more about Randall and his firm by visiting https://denhalaw.com/

In this episode, Dr. Stormy Hill joins the show again to share her expertise on sensuality and helping others connect to their sacred sexuality. With degrees from Duke University, an MD from Michigan State University, and an MA in occupational therapy from the University of Southern California, she bases her sacred sexuality work on her intrinsic understanding and love of all aspects of the human brain and body. Stormy is committed to helping women and men reconnect with their sense of aliveness and connection to the body. Tune in to hear to learn how it IS possible to rediscover yourself and reconnect to your sexuality, even during divorce.

Sophie Jacobi-Parisi is a partner at Warshaw Burstein LLP, a New York law firm where she works in matrimonial and family law. Sophie helps families going through divorce, complicated custody cases, and negotiating separation and settlement agreements. She recently published a popular article titled, "Five Reasons Why Living Through Divorce is a Bit Like Living Through Our Current Climate." In this episode, Sophie and Marcy discuss the multi-faceted challenges divorce can present for many families, including the emotional burdens. Tune in to hear reassuring words surrounding the emotional turmoil divorce and family difficulties can cause, including the fact that it is okay to feel angry and sad, and that the acknowledgment of those emotions is critical in fast-tracking your ability to heal and move forward. Learn more about Sophie and her work at https://www.wbny.com/sophie-jacobiparisi

Kim Snyder is a licensed mental health counselor and parenting coach with a private practice, The Power in Parenting, in Michigan. Kim works to help parents and children unite by assisting them in working through parenting challenges and marital struggles. She also has an online parenting academy that allows parents the opportunity to take online courses to learn how they can better their parenting skills. Tune in to hear Kim’s approach to co-parenting as well as her insightful advice for any families that may be struggling with parenting issues during separation or divorce. Learn more about Kim Snyder, her parenting academy and practice at thepowerinparenting.com

A licensed clinical psychologist, Dr. Ann Buscho, joins the show to share her expertise on family issues related to divorce, parenting, parenting planning, and co-parenting counseling. So, what is nesting and how does it work? Nesting is a practice where kids remain in the family home, while parents rotate on and off duty according to a schedule that is tailored specifically to the family’s needs. This practice helps children and families navigate divorce in a way that is minimally disruptive to the children. Dr. Buscho has personally practiced nesting during her own divorce and uses that experience, along with three decades as a therapist for divorcing families, to advise and guide families through this transformative process. In addition to having her own practice in the San Francisco Bay Area, Dr. Buscho has presented at state and national conferences for attorneys, mental health professionals, and financial professionals on collaborative divorce, nesting during divorce, and consensual dispute resolution. Dr. Buscho regularly contributes to a popular divorce blog on Psychology Today, and also recently published a new book, The Parent’s Guide to Birdnesting: A Child-Centered Solution to Co-Parenting During Separation and Divorce. Learn more about Dr. Buscho, her practice, and publications, by visiting https://drannbuscho.com/

Lisa Zeiderman joins the podcast to share her insight and expertise, as a Matrimonial Attorney and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, on what it is like to divorce a gaslighter. Lisa is a Managing Partner at Miller, Zeiderman & Wiederkehr LLP, and regularly handles complex financial and custody divorce matters for high-net-worth individuals. In 2019, she was named one of the ’10 Best Family Law Attorneys for Client Satisfaction’ by the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys. Now, you may be wondering, “What exactly is gaslighting?”. Gaslighting is among the most subtle yet damaging forms of emotional abuse. It is a strategy deployed by those who seek to control others’ behavior and/or obscure their own behavior. In this episode, Marcy and Lisa discuss how some individuals use lying in the service of manipulation and control; it is an ongoing issue in some marriages or divorces where one spouse may be diagnosed as a narcissist or may suffer from other mental health disorders. A gaslighter’s goal is to destabilize the other person to the point where the victim questions his/her mental stability and diminishes his/her self-confidence and self-esteem. Learn more about Lisa and her work at https://mzwnylaw.com

This special episode features an exclusive interview with Natasha Lindor Hahn and the BIG announcement of the Grand Prize Winner of Marcy’s giveaway! If you tuned in when ‘Divorce What to Expect’ first went live, you heard about Marcy’s special giveaway of a wellness retreat in Honolulu, Hawaii, with renowned holistic, leadership and life coach, Natasha Lindor Hahn. Natasha is the founder of ‘The And Factor,’ a firm that partners with organizations with a sincere commitment to their employees’ well-being. The And Factor provides holistic executive and individual coaching, wellness retreats, experiential workshops, and transformational leadership training programs. Tune in to also hear the lucky winner of the once-in-a-lifetime retreat experience with Natasha herself!

In this episode, Marcy is interviewed by her legal assistant and friend, Rachel Posigian. Marcy opens up about how she decided to make the leap and start her own law firm. At that time, Marcy was serving as Lead Counsel for Ford Motor Company. Tune in to hear how she leaned into her fear in order to make the jump, and how she uses her own difficult experience of divorce to help her clients. Hear the ‘magic’ behind Marcy’s hard work and learn how you, too, can use your challenging life experiences as stepping stones to find your true calling in life. Learn more about Marcy, Rachel, and their many success stories at https://lotuslegalsolutions.com/

In this episode, Marcy Hahn welcomes special guest, Jude Egan. Jude is a certified Family Law Specialist certified by the California State Bar Board of Legal Specialization. He graduated law school from the University of California Berkeley Boalt Hall School of Law in 2004. While working at a major international law firm in San Francisco doing civil litigation and land use work, he wrote his doctoral dissertation in jurisprudence and social policy. Dr. Egan has litigated over 1,000 family law cases of all different types and has been published internationally in numerous legal, trade and academic journals. His practice serves English and Spanish speaking clients in Santa Barbara and San Louis Obispo counties. Egan’s new book, “$35 Divorce,” set to be released in 2021, dives into how to get divorced, keep the house and spend less doing it. Tune in to hear Jude’s unique perspective and expertise on the intersection of family law and divorce. Learn more about Jude Egan, his practice and publications, by visiting https://judeegan.com/.

In this episode, Marcy Hahn welcomes the Criminal Justice Attorney and founder of Yasmine Law, Yasmine Poles, to the show. Yasmine specializes in Criminal Defense representation after having served as a prosecutor for 15 years in the Macomb County prosecutor’s office in Mount Clemens, Michigan. Yasmine has prosecuted hundreds of domestic violence, sexual assault, and child abuse cases. Currently, she serves on Governor Whitmer’s Child Abuse & Neglect Task Force. Tune in to hear Yasmine’s unique perspective on the intersection of domestic violence and family law.

In this episode, Marcy welcomes special guest Dr. Stormy Hill. Stormy is passionate about sensuality and helping others connect to their sacred sexuality. With degrees from Duke University, an MD from Michigan State University, and an MA in occupational therapy from the University of Southern California, she bases her sacred sexuality work on her intrinsic understanding and love of all aspects of the human brain and body. Stormy is committed to helping women and men reconnect with their sense of aliveness and connection to the body. Tune in to hear from this expert about how you can heal from divorce and learn to revitalize your love life by connecting to your sacred sexuality.

In this episode, Marcy Hahn welcomes special guest Carrie Cole to the show to discuss the workings of qualified domestic relations orders. Carrie is a certified financial planner and is trained in both domestic relations mediation as well as the collaborative legal process. With over 20 years of experience drafting and reviewing qualified domestic relations orders, Carrie’s expertise and advice regarding this process are not to be missed! Carrie has spent her career helping attorneys and clients in reviewing and analyzing divorce settlements, assisting with discovery, and providing expert witness testimony and trial support. Marcy and Carrie discuss the role of qualified domestic relations orders in the divorce process and why you may need one. Tune in to also hear common mistakes that are made during this process and how to safeguard your financial future by not making the same missteps during your divorce.

In this episode, Marcy Hahn welcomes special guest and bankruptcy law expert Michelle Bass. Michelle is not only an expert in the field of bankruptcy but represents both debtors and creditors in divorce-related bankruptcy proceedings, and is a frequent speaker and writer on the intersection of bankruptcy and family law. Michelle practices at Wolfson Bolton, a bankruptcy and commercial litigation law firm located in Troy, Michigan, and has also served on the board of directors of Tamarack Camps since 2010. Marcy and Michelle discuss and explain some of the complicated details and mistakes people make regarding bankruptcy and divorce. There is a complex set of laws involving the bankruptcy laws at a federal level intersecting with the family laws enforced in the state courts. Get your questions answered! Don’t miss out on this expert advice that could potentially save your financial future from a detrimental mistake during your divorce.

In this episode, Marcy welcomes Ryan O’Neil to share with us his expertise about domestic relations law from his perspective as a Friend of the Court Referee in Michigan. Marcy interviews Ryan about his role in helping the court system manage and facilitate family law cases involving children and child support. They touch on subjects including how his daily work routine has been altered since COVID and the changes the court system has made to adapt to the stay-at-home mandate. They delve into detail about how important technology has been in the post-COVID environment and the role it may continue to play in the future; discussing the positive and negative effects on all social classes. Ryan is an expert in the area of domestic relations law, a member of the State Bar of Michigan’s Family Law, and the Oakland Bar Association. He previously served as the family court committee chair and is also a member of the Oakland County Bar Foundation and the Referees Association of Michigan. Tune in to hear about Mr. O’Neil’s journey in helping numerous families and children navigate the world of family law in the year 2020.

In this episode, we get to hear a unique perspective on family law from a judge of the Oakland County Circuit Court Family Division, Judge Cunningham. Marcy interviews Judge Cunningham on a number of interesting topics ranging from how COVID has impacted the judicial process, to what kinds of family law cases keep him up at night… in addition to all kinds of helpful advice for anyone going through a divorce or family law dispute. Judge Cunningham is active with the Oakland County Bar Association and also sits on the Michigan Child Welfare Leadership Task Force. He serves as a member of the International Association of LGBTQ judges, the American Judges Association, the Irish and Armenian Judges Associations as well as the Michigan Judges Association. Don’t miss out on the ‘inside’ information and valuable insights offered from someone who makes judgments in family law court for numerous families every single day.

In this episode, Marcy welcomes special guest Nathan Mersereau to discuss the ins and outs of navigating finances and financial planning during divorce. As CEO and President of Planning Alternatives, Nathan offers over 25 years of experience and expertise in the world of financial services and has led the firm to industry recognition by winning the esteemed Schwab Trailblazer award. His firm’s approach to financial management focuses on holistic and objective financial management. Their philosophy is to empower people to live the life they value. Taking a close, hard look at your financial situation, particularly during a stressful divorce, can be very overwhelming. In this episode, Nathan and Marcy discuss the varying approaches you can take in order to make the smartest and best decisions now in order to keep your financial future on track. Marcy describes Nathan and his team as ‘financial doctors’ helping clients restore the state of their financial health in a way that provides comprehensive wealth management solutions in order to achieve and maintain financial independence. Don’t be a bystander during a time that is critical to your financial future – tune in and take advantage of this free expert advice! Learn more about Nathan Mersereau and the financial services his team provides here: https://www.planningalt.com

This week Marcy welcomes special guest and founder of SGH Wealth Management, Sam Huszczo to talk about all things regarding the intersection of finances and divorce. Navigating your finances and preparing for what your financial future may look like post-divorce can be an overwhelming topic. Sam speaks to the benefits of getting prepared early as well as the advantages of hiring a separate financial planner to take a look at your unique financial situation. Not only can their expertise help you make better decisions for your future but it is important to have someone on your side that can explain all of the complicated details that come up regarding financial planning during your divorce. In this episode, Marcy and Sam also discuss alimony, investments, and budgeting as well as the importance of fully re-educating yourself on your personal financial status before making any decisions. Don’t be a bystander during a time that is critical to your financial future – tune in and take advantage of this free expert advice! SGH Wealth Management specializes in fee-based fiduciary early retirement planning and investment management. As an independent registered investment advisor, they work with clients nationwide focusing on finding cost-effective strategies and advice without commissions sales. Learn more about Sam and the work his team does here: https://sghwm.com

In this episode Marcy welcomes special guest Jordana Wolfson to discuss all things regarding co-parenting and why it is a transformative solution for many families. Jordana is a licensed social worker, certified divorce mediator and coach, as well as founder of Co-Parenting Solutions where she helps families navigate the difficult dynamics of divorce in order to improve communication and the quality of the lives for all involved. Co-parenting is about helping parents work together in a productive, cohesive manner to support their children in a positive way, even though the parents’ relationship may be strained. Tune in for outstanding advice and insight from an expert in the field that has helped make a positive impact on countless families. Learn more about Co-Parenting Solutions with Jordana Wolfson here: https://www.coparentingsolutionsllc.com

This episode is all about parenting coordinators. Who are they? What do they do? And why should you consider one? Parenting coordinators are professionals who are appointed by the court for a specified term to help parents deal with conflicts regarding their kids after divorce. The divorce ends your marriage but it does not end your obligation to constructively co-parent with your former spouse for the benefit of your kids, and that is exactly why the role of a parenting coordinator can make a huge difference in your children’s ability to cope with the changes that your divorce brings to their lives. These are highly-trained specialists that often see solutions to problems you didn’t even know were possible. So tune in and don’t miss this valuable information that could positively impact your family in a big way during the divorce process.

In this episode, Marcy Hahn covers all the ins and outs of learning to deal with the adjustment to co-parenting your kids during and after your divorce. This can be a source of contention for many couples as parenting can be difficult at times as it is, even without a contentious divorce in the mix. Even though it may seem daunting, there are many tips and tricks to keep in mind when you are determining your parenting time and custody plan for your divorce. Tune in to learn about these important things to consider so you can have a parenting plan that will actually help things run more smoothly in the long run, for not only you and your ex-spouse but for your children as well.

In this episode, we’re talking about the kids. Many couples get so wrapped up in their own emotional pain and drama with their spouse, that the effects of divorce on the children may get overlooked. There IS a way to get through a contentious divorce without destroying your children. Don’t make these mistakes that will hurt your relationship with your children possibly for the rest of your life. There is a way to get to the other side of the divorce and for the kids to still have positive, loving relationships with both parents. Tune in to learn more about exactly what you need to do to prevent emotional turmoil for your children.

In this episode, we’re talking about sex. In the divorce world, things can get really complicated really quickly when sex is involved. Could there be legal ramifications if you have sex with your spouse during the divorce process? Absolutely. Could an affair or bringing someone new into the mix during your divorce end up costing you more money in the long run? Absolutely. It is critical that you know all the potential pitfalls and consequences before you make one of these costly mistakes. This is definitely an episode you don’t want to miss!

How do you maintain your dignity while dealing with a vindictive spouse during a nasty, contentious divorce? In this episode, Marcy provides expert advice on what to do when you are dealing with a vindictive spouse. She divulges important details to keep in mind so you can avoid making big mistakes at this critical time.

Tune in to hear Marcy cover all of the details involved in a traditional divorce process that is litigated in court. What are the advantages, disadvantages and special points to take into account when considering this method of divorce? In this episode, Marcy answers all of those questions.

Choosing the right divorce attorney for your specific situation is critical in how smoothly your divorce process will go. The last thing you want to do is rush this important decision. In this episode, Marcy discusses all of the most important questions you should ask your lawyer before hiring them for your divorce. She even bares all and shares the difficult (but extremely important!) questions even she doesn’t like being asked during the interview process. Don’t miss this episode so you can be sure you get the perfect attorney fit for your unique situation.

In this episode, Marcy covers all aspects of collaborative divorce – what it is, what are its advantages, and why you may want to consider this method of divorce for your situation. There are a number of advantages and considerations to take into account when deciding on what type of method you choose to get divorced. Tune in to get the expert advice you can’t afford to miss.

This episode discusses the topical issue of navigating divorce during the time of Covid-19. The current coronavirus crisis has thrown a wrench in almost every ‘normal’ process of the way we are used to things happening. The court process and litigation are no different, but the courts and judicial process have done a great job of adjusting for the issues presented during this crisis. In this episode, Marcy discusses those potential issues as well as possible solutions for you to consider to keep your divorce process running smoothly during this pandemic. She also covers many important points to consider regarding child custody arrangements and how to best ensure your children’s safety when joint custody is involved.

Tune in as Marcy Hahn dives straight into guiding you through the initial legal considerations you should be thinking about if you are facing a divorce. In this episode, Marcy walks you through what you need to know about prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, types of divorce, and what to consider when you are looking for the best divorce attorney for you and your situation.

In this episode, Marcy discusses the top few things you should be thinking about from a financial perspective as you begin your divorce planning process. Marcy touches on topics such as your credit report, the importance of your own checking and savings accounts, as well as assets, liabilities and navigating funds you may have received as an inheritance.

Divorce: What to Expect is a podcast hosted by Marcy Hahn, a divorce attorney who not only has helped hundreds of clients through the divorce process but has also experienced first-hand the personal toll of going through a contentious divorce herself. Marcy is dedicated to helping as many people as she can navigate the divorce process in a way that minimizes pain and maximizes healing so they can move on with their life. In this episode, Marcy covers all of the important steps you should be taking to get your personal affairs in order to prepare for divorce.