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Send a textWhen your life splits open, clarity can feel like a luxury. We sit down with Meg the Divorce Coach—single mom of three and strategist for people navigating separation—to map a steadier path: name what you truly want, rebuild confidence through self-trust, and decide whether to stay or go without bargaining away your worth.We start where most of us stall: desire. In crisis, it's easy to answer “what do you want?” with a reel of don'ts. Meg shares simple ways to reawaken preference—micro-experiments, borrowed ideas, and daily check-ins—so you stop scanning the past for safety and start building a future that fits. From there, we dig into confidence after sustained criticism. Meg's triad—kindness, trust, confidence—turns into practice with a two-minute mirror ritual that anchors pride and presence. We also name the harm of rigid gender roles and comparison, and how adding purpose outside the home can actually refill your parenting energy.The heart of our talk is a decision framework for marriage and divorce. Two questions lead: What do you think will be different if you leave? And does staying make it too hard to love yourself? We examine safety, patterns, and the truth that people show you who they are. Sometimes staying is growth; sometimes leaving is the ground where healing can happen. Either way, choose the hard that aligns with self-respect.Meg shares how she works: private coaching, free Tuesday consults, a monthly webinar for her email list, and content across Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, and her own podcast. www.megthedivorcecoach.com @megthedivorcecoach If you're navigating betrayal, separation, or a shaken identity, this conversation offers practical tools and a kind mirror.If this resonated, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs courage today, and leave a review so more people can find the show. Your happily even after starts with one brave step.Please follow me on instagram and facebook @happilyevenaftercoach and if you want to see what coaching is all about I offer a free 45 min. clarity call via zoom. Email me: hello@lifecoachjen.com for any comments or questions. Thanks for listening, please like and review as well as share with your family and friends. My website is www.lifecoachjen.com take the Free Quiz to find out how- How healed you are?
Sara Vandenburg brings a perspective you won't find anywhere else: she's both a highly credentialed therapist specializing in childhood sexual abuse AND a survivor who has done the deep healing work to talk about her own experience "like the weather." In this profoundly important conversation with Lisa Johnson, Sara shares insights that could literally save children's lives and transform families.Why Sara's voice matters: As someone who experienced incest by both biological parents over an eight-year period and has trained extensively in trauma therapy (LCSW Supervisor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Brain Spotting certified), Sara understands both the clinical realities and the lived experience of familial sexual abuse. Her ability to discuss her own trauma with complete peace demonstrates what's possible with proper therapeutic support.This interview offers guidance no other resource provides - the intersection of professional expertise, personal recovery, and practical strategies for parents navigating the most difficult situations imaginable in high-conflict custody cases.What You'll Learn:✅ How one in three girls and one in ten boys experience childhood sexual abuse✅ Why incest may occur in one in ten households (and why it's severely underreported)✅ The critical difference between sexual abuse by anyone vs. abuse within families✅ Sara's concept of the "elephant in the room" - why untreated trauma affects your children✅ How family secrets travel through generations even when children don't know the details✅ The neuroscience behind why stored trauma in your body creates vulnerability in your kids✅ A powerful story of three-generational disclosure and healing✅ How to create an environment where children feel safe telling you anything✅ Why your reaction to small disclosures determines whether children will share bigger concerns✅ What brain spotting therapy is and how it releases stored trauma from the body✅ How brain spotting differs from EMDR (both use bilateral brain stimulation)✅ The importance of finding therapists who understand your trauma doesn't define you✅ Age-appropriate language for teaching body safety to children as young as 4-5✅ Why pornography exposure at ages 8-9 means earlier conversations are essential✅ Documentation strategies when you notice behavioral changes in your child✅ How to distinguish between patterns and isolated incidents✅ Understanding healthy shame (humanity, humility, responsibility)✅ Understanding healthy guilt (values and amends)✅ What complete healing looks like - being able to discuss trauma matter-of-factly✅ Why waiting until children are 25+ is often best for certain disclosuresAbout Sara Vandenburg, LCSW-S: Sara Vandenburg is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker Supervisor in Texas and Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Hawaii with specialized training in treating familial sexual abuse and trauma. Her credentials include:- Licensed Clinical Social Worker Supervisor (Texas)- Licensed Clinical Social Worker (Hawaii)- Certified Sex Addiction Therapist- Licensed Chemical Dependency Counselor- Certified in Brain Spotting (advanced somatic therapy)Sara's micro-niche is familial sexual abuse, and she offers counseling, coaching, and energy healing services through her practice. Her forthcoming book, "Choosing to Love Again: Overcoming the Kind of Betrayal That Nobody Talks About," provides 60% personal memoir and 40% clinical guidance with experiential exercises for healing from profound betrayal.
Send a textIn this episode, divorce coach Kerstin Thode shares how to regain control during separation, avoid fear-based decisions, and explore the benefits of collaborative law.Connect with Kerstin: https://www.recharge-divorcecoach.com/Support the showFind more information and resources here: http://saradavison.com/Follow me on social media►Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/saradavisondivorcecoach/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SaraDavisonDivorceCoachTwitter: https://twitter.com/SDDivorceCoachLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sara-davison-742b453/
One of the most painful questions people ask after becoming separated is: How can I ever learn to trust again after being betrayed? My guest in this episode is Divorce Coach, Jenine Marie Powell, who address the question and offers advice on how to get to a place of peace, and move on to healthy relationships in the future.
Making critical decisions in high-conflict divorce when you can barely trust your own judgment? This interview is essential viewing. After experiencing gaslighting, manipulation, and betrayal in a toxic relationship, many people struggle to trust their instincts—especially when the stakes are highest. Should you push for a custody evaluation? Is your ex really alienating the kids, or are you being paranoid? How do you read the Guardian ad Litem? What if you're wrong about everything? Strategic intuition expert Jock Brocas—who used intuitive intelligence to stay alive in military operations and high-risk security situations—shares practical techniques for cutting through fear and confusion to make sound decisions when everything is on the line. This conversation goes far beyond typical "trust your gut" advice. You'll learn pattern recognition techniques, box breathing for high-stakes court situations, and how to distinguish between fear-based panic and genuine intuitive warning signs. These are military-grade tools adapted for family court survival. Perfect for anyone facing custody evaluations, court hearings, mediation with a difficult ex, or any high-conflict situation where you need clarity but fear is clouding your judgment. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:✓ Strategic intuitive intelligence: Combining your experiences, training, and natural intuition✓ Why fear gives you the wrong signals exactly when you need accuracy most✓ Pattern recognition for identifying your ex's manipulation tactics✓ How to tell if it's genuine intuition or just anxiety/ego✓ Box breathing: Military technique for staying calm in court or evaluations✓ The power of "the pause" before responding to provocations✓ Simple practices that train your mind to recognize signals vs. noise✓ Why going silent is your superpower in high-conflict situations ABOUT JOCK BROCAS:Jock Brocas brings a unique combination of military intelligence, high-risk security experience, and spiritual research to the question of how we make critical decisions under pressure. With 25+ years as a professional medium and extensive work in executive protection and undercover operations, Jock now works with lawyers, scientists, and professionals on strategic intuition. He's completing a master's in psychology (PhD starting October) and founded Help4Lawyer to support legal professionals in high-stakes cases. Author of "Powers of the Sixth Sense." LIKE this video if it helped you see your situation more clearly. SUBSCRIBE for weekly expert guidance on high-conflict divorce. COMMENT: What decision are you facing right now where you need better intuition? #HighConflictDivorce #CustodyEvaluation #FamilyCourt #StrategicIntuition #DivorceStrategy #ToxicCoParent #CourtPreparation #GuardianAdLitem #CustodyBattle #IntuitiveIntelligence
"I'll never trust again."That's what Lisa thought after discovering the truth about her nearly 20-year marriage—the serial affairs, the unprotected sex that put her health at risk, the father-in-law who helped finance the betrayals while smiling at Sunday family dinners. For two years, she told only three friends, consumed by shame and terrified that if others knew the truth, she'd never have the chance to "fix" her family.Maybe you've thought those same words. Maybe you're living that same silence right now.In this deeply personal conversation, Lisa opens up about her own betrayal trauma journey while Dr. Debi Silber—who conducted a PhD study specifically on betrayal after experiencing it twice herself—explains why betrayal destroys us differently than any other loss, and more importantly, how to actually heal.If you're stuck in hypervigilance, unable to trust your own judgment, or wondering if you'll ever feel safe again, this conversation offers both validation and a clear roadmap forward.IN THIS CONVERSATION:- Why betrayal feels intentional in ways other trauma doesn't—and why that matters for your healing- The "Window of Willingness" that reveals instantly whether your partner is truly remorseful or just protecting themselves- The five stages everyone moves through after betrayal (and why being "fine" might actually mean you're stuck in Stage 3)- Why you can't trust others until you rebuild trust with yourself first—and exactly how to do that- How Lisa went from "I'll never trust again" to an 11-year relationship built on genuine safety- The critical difference between a betrayer who has potential to change and one who's just buying timeYOU'LL RELATE TO THIS IF:- You discovered your partner's affair and your entire reality feels like a lie- You're stuck replaying moments, wondering "how did I miss the signs?"- You've been told you're "too sensitive" or need to "just get over it"- You're covering for your ex because explaining the truth feels too shameful- You don't know who to trust anymore—including yourself- You're "fine" on the outside but completely numb on the inside- You're co-parenting with the person who betrayed you and it's destroying youDR. DEBI SILBER'S THREE GROUNDBREAKING DISCOVERIES:Discovery #1: Betrayal is fundamentally different from all other trauma because it shatters every aspect of self—your identity, your judgment, your ability to trust reality itself. Traditional grief models don't work because you're not just mourning a loss; you're rebuilding who you are from scratch.Discovery #2: Everyone moves through five predictable stages after betrayal, but most people get stuck in Stage 3—a deceptive phase that looks like healing but is actually just survival mode. This is why therapy often fails: therapists see you're "functioning" and think you're healed, but you're actually trapped behind walls of protection.Discovery #3: You cannot rebuild trust with others until you first rebuild three specific types of trust within yourself: trust in your judgment, trust in your perception of reality, and trust in your ability to make decisions. This is why "just trust again" advice fails—it's asking you to build the roof before you've laid the foundation.ABOUT DR. DEBI SILBER:Dr. Debi Silber is the founder and CEO of The Post Betrayal Transformation Institute. After experiencing betrayal first from her family and then from her husband, she enrolled in a PhD program to study betrayal—even though she "could barely breathe" at the time. Her research led to the three discoveries shared in this video and has transformed how thousands of people understand and heal from betrayal trauma. Her upcoming book "Unstuck" (launching March 22) helps practitioners better support clients dealing with betrayal.RESOURCES:
Is your child struggling with your separation or divorce? Wondering if they need professional help? Licensed play therapist Jenny Hornby joins Lisa to discuss the critical signs that children need therapeutic support during high-conflict divorce - and why getting help for yourself might be even more important.In this essential conversation, you'll discover when therapy becomes necessary, what different therapeutic approaches can offer, and how to find the right mental health professional for your family's specific situation. Jenny shares expert insights on play therapy, EMDR for trauma processing, and why the "oxygen mask principle" applies to parents navigating custody battles.Whether you're just starting separation proceedings or deep into a custody battle, this conversation provides the guidance you need to support your child's emotional wellbeing while taking care of yourself too.
In this powerful episode with Divorce Coach, Mardi Winder, we explore how NLP
Send us a textDivorce coach Jennie Sutton shares how to move from indecision to clarity, plan the divorce conversation, and stay calm under pressure using practical grounding tools. Plus, a clear look at domestic abuse beyond physical violence and the warning signs people often miss.Find out more about Jennie Sutton: https://untyingtheknot.me/Support the showFind more information and resources here: http://saradavison.com/Follow me on social media►Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/saradavisondivorcecoach/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SaraDavisonDivorceCoachTwitter: https://twitter.com/SDDivorceCoachLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sara-davison-742b453/
"I finally got out of that toxic relationship! I'm never doing that again!"Six months later: Same person, different body.If this pattern sounds familiar, you're not alone—and according to trauma therapist Sherry Gaba, it's not your fault. But it is something you need to understand if you ever want to break free."Love addicts are in love with love," Sherry explains. "And when they don't have a relationship, it feels like they are in the ethers of emptiness. So they will often settle for less because they feel so empty."That emptiness isn't weakness. It's not being "too needy" or "not strong enough." It's an attachment wound—often formed before you could even speak—that created a nervous system wired to associate chaos with love and safety with boredom.The good news? Once you understand how trauma bonds form, how intermittent reinforcement hijacks your dopamine system, and why your body literally becomes addicted to emotional chaos, you can finally start rewiring your patterns.What Makes This Conversation Essential:
Send us a textIn this episdoe, the conclusion of the dating chronicles, I discuss how dating has gone in the last few month, which is the 6th year since my ex-wife left. Support the showhttps://www.risingphoenixpodcast.com
Send us a textThis is a continuation of the previous episode. I discuss what dating was like in the 5th year since my ex-wife left. Support the showhttps://www.risingphoenixpodcast.com
Send us a textThis is a continuation of the previous episode. I discuss what dating was like 3 adn 4 years after my ex-wife left. Support the showhttps://www.risingphoenixpodcast.com
Loneliness is one of the most painful emotions someone can feel. Whether you are lonely and still married, or lonely and going through a divorce, or lonely after divorce, my guest, Divorce Coach, Lisa Lisser is here to help. Lisa offers 3 practices to help you transform your loneliness into emotions that are healthy and hopeful! Read the article on this subject here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/3-practices-to-transform-divorce-loneliness/
Send us a textIn this episode, the first in a 3 part series, I discuss my dating journey since my ex-wife left. Support the showhttps://www.risingphoenixpodcast.com
On today's Practicing Love podcast, Shana James is joined by divorce coach and NLP practitioner Rachael Sloan for a powerful conversation about how relationships break down — and how they can be repaired before it's too late. Rachael works primarily with men navigating separation and divorce and is the creator of the Better Beyond Divorce program. Together, Shana and Rachael explore emotional regulation, conflict, boundaries, survival responses, and the unconscious patterns that couples bring into relationships. This episode is for anyone who wants to communicate more effectively, stay connected during conflict, and build a relationship that can weather hard moments with greater compassion and clarity. It's a hopeful conversation about staying in love longer, even when things get hard, and how to stop the downward spirals that couples get stuck in. Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life! Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burbleLicense code: 3XO0LDATK42BXEXU
On today's Practicing Love podcast, Shana James is joined by divorce coach and NLP practitioner Rachael Sloan for a powerful conversation about how relationships break down — and how they can be repaired before it's too late. Rachael works primarily with men navigating separation and divorce and is the creator of the Better Beyond Divorce program. Together, Shana and Rachael explore emotional regulation, conflict, boundaries, survival responses, and the unconscious patterns that couples bring into relationships. This episode is for anyone who wants to communicate more effectively, stay connected during conflict, and build a relationship that can weather hard moments with greater compassion and clarity. It's a hopeful conversation about staying in love longer, even when things get hard, and how to stop the downward spirals that couples get stuck in. Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life! Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burbleLicense code: 3XO0LDATK42BXEXU
Send us a textIn this episode, we sit down with Dr. Greg Matos, a board-certified couple and family psychologist and author of the viral Psychology Today article on the "Rise of Lonely, Single Men." We dive deep into the current state of modern dating and why it feels so "damn hard" for men right now. Support the showhttps://www.risingphoenixpodcast.com
Danny Karon, fondly known as "your lovable lawyer," offers a fresh perspective on the legal system by championing accessibility and empowerment. In this enlightening conversation, Danny shares his journey and mission to demystify legal complexities and reduce the prohibitive costs associated with legal services. With insights from his book "Your Lovable Lawyer's Guide to Legal Wellness," he equips listeners with practical tools to navigate legal challenges independently. We also tackle the evolving role of AI in law, highlighting both its potential and pitfalls, as Danny shares his cautious outlook on its current capabilities.Shifting gears to the courtroom, we explore the unique hurdles faced by women attorneys and the importance of gender equality in the legal profession. Dispelling Hollywood myths, we shine a light on the nitty-gritty of courtroom dynamics. From understanding court rules to the pivotal role of courtroom demeanor, our discussion is packed with real-world tips for those considering self-representation. Danny's anecdotes serve as a powerful reminder that, often, success in court is as much about presentation as it is about the facts.Finally, we delve into the concept of legal wellness, stressing the importance of understanding legal rights to avoid costly missteps. Through high-profile case studies like Amber Heard versus Johnny Depp, we underscore the value of legal literacy. Danny's passion for spreading hope through education is contagious, as he channels his efforts into building a brand that resonates with college students and the general public alike. His aim is simple yet profound: to make the law approachable through humor and clarity, empowering everyone to protect their interests effectively.
Send us a text We've all heard the phrase: "What other people think of you is none of your business." But when that "person" is your ex or soon-to-be ex-wife, does that rule still apply? In this episode I discuss that very question. Support the showhttps://www.risingphoenixpodcast.com
What if the child who seems to have it all together is actually struggling the most? Join us as we sit down with Colorado therapist Stacy Schaffer, who offers her expertise on the hidden emotional battles children face during parental conflict and divorce. We examine the façade of the "shiny kid," outwardly thriving yet internally wrestling with feelings of guilt and responsibility. Stacy shares strategies to empower these young ones by focusing on their ability to control their emotions and reactions, providing them with a much-needed sense of agency and resilience.We also explore the creation of "comfort kits," a resourceful way to help children engage their five senses to navigate challenging situations. Discover how to fill these kits with comforting sensory items, such as personalized notes and soothing scents, to offer solace and connection wherever they are. Additionally, we discuss the potential future of counseling services beyond Colorado and Texas, as changes in professional licensing could soon make mental health support more accessible. Tune in for practical strategies and insights that promise to support children in managing their emotions and to stay informed on the evolving landscape of mental health services.
"The Good Divorce Coach" mediator Karen McNenny on how to be divorced after the papers are signed, best practices for co-parenting, introducing new partners and how to have a good divorce.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode of 5 Fresh Tips, certified divorce coach, licensed clinical social worker, and co-parenting specialist Sheri Davis shares clear, compassionate strategies to help listeners stay grounded during divorce and other major life transitions. Drawing from her extensive clinical background, Sheri explains why moments of upheaval require slowing down, tuning into your internal cues, and allowing space to process the emotional impact of change. Her advice is rooted in emotional resilience, trauma-informed care, and practical divorce recovery tips that empower listeners to take manageable steps forward.Sheri emphasizes the importance of building a reliable support system—whether through trusted friends, a therapist, or a divorce coach—to help navigate uncertainty and reduce overwhelm. She breaks down key co-parenting strategies, mindset shifts, and self-care practices that strengthen mental clarity and emotional stability during separation or single parenting. Her guidance helps listeners understand the difference between avoidance and grounding, and encourages them to create daily habits that support consistent regulation and connection.Finally, Sheri offers her most powerful reminder: self-compassion is not optional—it's a necessity when starting over after divorce. She introduces simple tools for reframing self-criticism, accepting what you can and cannot control, and approaching yourself with the same generosity you offer others. This episode is filled with expert-led, actionable insight for anyone seeking practical support during divorce recovery, family restructuring, or a major life transition.
Dr. Elizabeth Polinsky, a distinguished psychologist and marriage and family therapist, returns to share her invaluable insights on one of the most challenging issues faced by military couples: infidelity. With infidelity rates climbing by 22% during deployments, Dr. Polinsky unveils the seven distinct types of affairs that can arise, offering a clearer understanding of the underlying motivations. The conversation delves into the immense stress and separation distress that deployments can impose, often leading to emotional disconnection and conflict that may drive individuals to seek solace elsewhere. Her expertise helps listeners navigate the murky waters of self-blame and relationship challenges.As technology bridges the distance between separated partners, it also introduces new dynamics that can inadvertently fuel infidelity. Our discussion touches on how tools like Wi-Fi on military ships enable frequent communication but also open doors for missteps. Dr. Polinsky categorizes affairs into three main types—protest or revenge, "come and get me," and burnout exit—each with its unique emotional drivers. With her guidance, we unravel the complex emotions at play and the potential pitfalls for long-distance and military relationships, offering a roadmap to understanding and addressing these issues.In our final segment, we tackle the intricate psychological factors that often underpin affairs, especially in those with trauma histories or in hyper-masculine professions. We explore the role of compulsive sexual behavior as an escape from emotional pain, drawing connections to childhood experiences that stunt emotional growth. Dr. Polinsky underscores the importance of understanding and patience, highlighting the potential for healing and growth despite the challenges. Through her insights, we aim to inspire hope and foster long-term commitment to change, providing a beacon of hope for those navigating the complexities of infidelity.
If you are a women in your fifties, you will LOVE this episode! My guest is Michèle Heffron, Life Love and Divorce Coach, and Michèle interviewed dozens of women in this age bracket to find out what they had to say about life. The information is revealed in this episode, and Michèle and I give our two cents, as we are both women over 55! Read the article here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/women-over-55-speak-what-were-carrying-what-we-fear-and-what-were-finally-ready-to-claim/
Send us a textIn this episode, I sit down with Greg Vorst and Michael Nolan, the Co-Founders of Embodied Recovery. They are pioneering a holistic approach to mental health and addiction that bridges the gap between modern science and ancient wisdom. We dig into why traditional talk therapy sometimes hits a wall and how trauma—including the trauma of divorce—gets trapped in the nervous system.We discuss the physiology of heartbreak, the power of breathwork to regulate your state, and how to move from simply "surviving" the split to actually embodying a new, healed version of yourself. If you are tired of spinning your wheels, this conversation offers a different roadmap out of the mud. Support the showhttps://www.risingphoenixpodcast.com
Send us a textDivorce is hard enough. Don't let money make it harder.Our guest today, Jill Kaufman, knows firsthand how overwhelming divorce can be emotionally and financially. Jill is a Divorce Coach, Therapist, Mediator & Co-parenting Expert. After going through her own difficult divorce, she made it her life's mission to help others not have it so tough. Her book, online course, and her transformational coaching program help parents navigate the overwhelming process of divorce both emotionally and practically with less stress, more confidence and a greater sense of peace. In this episode, Jill shares her own story of going through a high-conflict divorce and the shocking moment she discovered she had no credit in her own name after 20 years of marriage. She breaks down the common financial mistakes women make during divorce, and how to avoid them.Jill's insight is equal parts supportive and empowering helping women see their strength, take back control, and move forward with confidence. And don't miss our next Money Talks session on 12/11: Protecting Your Independence Through Transition. Click here to register for FREE and bring your questions! Follow & connect with Jill:Website FacebookLinkedIn Instagram Follow & connect with us! Website Facebook Page Facebook group Instagram TikTok LinkedIn YouTube Reddit Resources Have questions? Click this to check out our expert Q&A for tips from industry experts, tailored to help women address their most common financial concerns. Subscribe to our newsletter to receive financial tips delivered weekly here! Explore our free guides to help you on your financial journey
Send us a textJoin us for a powerful and vulnerable 5th Anniversary Special as we bring our Discord community members to the microphone!This exclusive roundtable discussion takes a deep dive into the most crucial and difficult phase of the process: The Beginning of Divorce. Our panel shares candid, unfiltered accounts of the emotional earthquake and logistical chaos that defined their "Day One." This episode is a must-listen for any man navigating the start of the divorce process, featuring powerful reflections from men who have successfully made the journey from the beginning to the present day.Thank you for five incredible years of rising from divorce! Support the showhttps://www.risingphoenixpodcast.com
Divorce is difficult, no matter how you look at it. But what if you could come out of the process with a positivity and an outlook that would put you in a better place for both financial and emotional success? That's what Meagan Norris is offering. Meagan is a divorce coach. And she's been helping women reshape the narrative and succeed. For more information, you can check out her website, or follow her on Instagram.
Send us a textIn this episode I speak with Professor Neil Shyminski about the Manosphere, Masculinity, and what it takes to be a man. https://www.neilshyminsky.com/ Support the showhttps://www.risingphoenixpodcast.com
Send us a textIn this episode I discuss how I handle when good memories about my marriage/old life surface. Support the showhttps://www.risingphoenixpodcast.com
Send us a textIn this episode I discuss how to handle a high conflict co-parent and how to deal with Parental Alienation with Author Lisa Johnson.https://beentheregotout.com/ Support the showhttps://www.risingphoenixpodcast.com
Meet Dr. Susan Korb Bernstein—@divorce_coach_plusA powerhouse in the divorce space. She's a certified divorce coach, certified high-conflict divorce coach, and founder of Divorce Coach Plus and DivorceWithSpecialNeedsChildren.com. With a doctorate in Education, years as a teacher, administrator, and professor, plus over a decade coaching clients, she brings unmatched expertise to custody battles, parenting plans, and especially divorces involving children with special needs. Susan is also:A full time single mom of threeThe coach other coaches and attorneys hireAn instructor for multiple divorce certification programsDirector of the NY chapter of the NADP & co-director of its special needs divisionOn the advisory boards for Vesta Divorce, Divorce Coalition & Divorce Support Network In this episode, we talk about:Why divorce with a special needs child is especially complexThe biggest mistakes parents make in custody/parenting plansHow parent apps can shift co-parentingPre- and post-divorce steps that make a difference Her Rewrite? Being featured on Dateline and using her platform to help families through the most challenging chapters of their lives.Don't miss this one—Susan's insight is gold.Follow Dr. Bernstein:www.instagram.com/divorce coach__plus/www.facebook.com/SusanKBernsteincdc www.linkedin.com/in/dr-susan-bernstein-new-york-s-premier-divorce-coach-5aa32510/ www.divorcecoachplus.comwww.divorcewithspecialneedschildren.com
Send us a text When the dust settles after divorce, the urge to find comfort in someone new can feel irresistible. But often, that new relationship is a false positive — it feels like healing when it's really just distraction. In this episode, I explorewhy we rush into love too soon, the hidden costs of bypassing our own healing, and how to rebuild yourself before you rebuild with someone else. Support the showhttps://www.risingphoenixpodcast.com
How do you communicate with someone who continues to abuse you post separation?I cannot stress how important it is to learn how to communicate with your “high conflict” co-parent in ways that will protect you and your mental health in order to better protect your children.In this episode I talk with Jill Kaufman about how she supports those going through a “high conflict” divorce and post separation abuse find peace in their lives while also having to communicate with their coparent about their children. We discuss the pitfalls that many survivors fall into, how to pick your battles, and how to stop taking everything said personally to protect your peace.Jill Kaufman is a Therapist, Divorce Coach, Mediator & Co-parenting Expert. After going through her own difficult divorce, she made it her life's mission to help others not have it so tough. Her book, online course and transformative group coaching program help parents navigate the overwhelming process of divorce both emotionally and strategically with less stress, more confidence and a greater sense of peace. Connect with Jill:Website: www.divorcecoachjill.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoachjill/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jill.kaufman.353, https://www.facebook.com/groups/separationanddivorcesupportcommunityIf you are struggling with communicating with your ex, Rising Beyond Power and Control offers many resources including our Canned Responses that can help when you just can't find the words.Register here for the workshop happening November 11th, 2025 - Family Court Doesn't Have to Break You: Practical and Emotional Preparation for Survivors | https://mailchi.mp/risingbeyondpc/courtprepPlease leave us a review or rating and follow/subscribe to the show. This helps the show get out to more people.If you want to chat more about this topic I would love to continue our conversation over on Instagram! @risingbeyondpcIf you want to support the show you may do so here at, Buy Me A Coffee. Thank you! We love being able to make this information accessible to you and your community.If you've been looking for a supportive community of women going through the topics we cover, head over to our website to learn more about the Rising Beyond Community. - https://www.risingbeyondpc.com/ Where to find more from Rising Beyond:Rising Beyond FacebookRising Beyond LinkedInRising Beyond Pinterest If you're interested in guesting on the show please fill out this form - https://forms.gle/CSvLWWyZxmJ8GGQu7Enjoy some of our freebies! Choosing Your Battles Freebie Canned Responses Freebie Mic Drop Moments Freebie ...
Courtney Harkness is a serial entrepreneur and Certified Divorce Coach® who helps successful women protect their peace and assets while navigating high-conflict divorce. A former private-equity-backed COO who built an eight-figure wireless infrastructure company, Courtney now applies her strategic business mindset to one of life's most personal and high-stakes transitions. Through her signature Divorce Is a Business Deal™ approach, she empowers clients to get organized, build a clear strategy, and move through divorce with clarity and confidence.Visit Courtney's Website: www.divorcestrategy.comFollow Courtney on IG: Courtney Harkness, MBA | Divorce Strategist (@divorce.strategy) • Instagram photos and videos
Send us a textIn this episode I talk about the importance of building a tribe/community to help you get through your Divorce. Support the showhttps://www.risingphoenixpodcast.com
Keys to Success with a GAL (Guardian Ad Litem) - Episode 345 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In this episode, I'm going to giving keys to succeeding in your interactions with your children's attorney. Different states have different names for this, it's most frequently called a GAL, which stand for Guardian Ad Litem, a BIA, which stands for Best Interest Attorney, or Minor's Counsel. But regardless of the name, the keys to success are the same. To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!
In this episode of 5 Fresh Tips, Meghan O'Malley, a certified divorce coach, mediator, JD, and Fresh Starts Expert, shares her professional framework for helping clients find clarity, confidence, and calm at the very beginning of their divorce journey. With years of experience guiding clients through complex family dynamics and emotional upheaval, Meghan combines her legal background with compassionate, practical coaching tools to help people make thoughtful, informed decisions instead of reactive ones.Listeners will learn how to stop information overload and begin grounding themselves before rushing into action. Meghan's guidance centers on five key strategies: redefining strength as asking for support, prioritizing intentional choices over speed, and learning to break the “mountain” of divorce into small, manageable steps. Her advice helps listeners shift from panic to purpose, offering essential divorce recovery tips and emotional resilience practices to support a steadier, more empowered transition.This episode also highlights the importance of community, connection, and mindset in building a strong foundation for starting over after divorce. Meghan's approach reminds listeners that divorce doesn't have to be chaotic—it can be a structured process of growth, healing, and rebuilding. Her clear, actionable insights provide a roadmap for anyone seeking to reclaim their agency and approach divorce with both clarity and compassion.Learn more about Meghan O'Malley: https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/resourceguide/divorce-brave
No one ever wants to talk about the "D" word (Divorce). But what if by talking about it now, you could either avoid it altogether or learn how to navigate it in a way that isn't so painful and sets you up for a better co-parenting relationship? In this episode of The Love Lab Podcast, Kevin Anthony speaks with Divorce Coach and creator of the "Good Divorce Experience", Karen McNenny, about the current divorce paradigm, why people often stay longer than they should, what the new paradigm of divorce looks like, how to navigate the co-parenting relationship after divorce, and more. If you are or may be facing divorce, this episode may give you some hope. To Find Out More About Karen McNenny, Click The Link Below: https://www.karenmcnenny.com/