Have You Ever One-dered??

Head's up: We spend a lot of time talking about silence, and yes I see the irony. Inhale, exhale, C

Before we stop talking about this (for now), let's see if we can understand others a little better. Because hopefully, by now, you understand your own financial health and situation more than you did when we first started discussing this. But what's going on with your neighbors, your family, your friends? Though they may not tell you specifically, we can look at some of the trends and recommendations and make inferences and observations. Trying to save more money, like everything else you do, impacts the way you show up in your community and in the world at large. So it helps to understand where we are and where others might be as we aspire towards a life where we feel secure and happy, and a society where everyone has access to what they need. Keep going; you can do it, C

Any day is a good day for renewal if that's the day that it strikes you to move towards it. But sometimes now feels (or is) better than before. Happy First Full Week of Spring! C

It's a Song of the Week! I am so excited to present to you this brand new music-centered feature on the show. Last year we had a blast (my word) listening to 300 albums and discussing them together. Ever since I have known that we were going to get back to holding space to talk specifically about music on the pod, regularly. And just about a year after we started that massive undertaking, the time is now!! So instead of album after album, we're going to talk about ONE SONG AT A TIME. - This week's FORTY-SECOND installment song is from Artist: Japanese Breakfast And is called “Be Sweet.” It is the lead single from her third studio album: Jubilee You can listen to the album version here: https://youtu.be/LgBhQyRZ4To?s... And you can watch the X-Files themed music video here: https://youtu.be/2ZfcZEIo6Bw?s... Plus you can almost always grab a preview on my IG @whereschloe; it's up on the profile. - There is no hierarchy; these songs are going to be in basically a random order, chosen for reasons that I'll most likely expound upon within the episode. Along with an array of background, inspirations, time frame, album order, cultural context, related themes, personal experiences, etc. Any genre artist decade that I would listen to is up for grabs and who's to know what will be next and why? ;) Remember your favorites. Discover something new. One song of the week at a time for however long works. I'm ELATED that you're along for the ride, C

Not a song! And not a lengthy a discussion of the show this is a quote from. But something altogether.. different. So glad you, and your mind, are here, C

Boy oh boy, there's a lot here. Be encouraged in the fact that even your complex desires can be valid. Thank you so much for being here on this journey, C

We've been talking about saving money for awhile and mostly getting practical advice from average, money-spending people. But what do the big experts say? Is it going to be useful? Can we make it a worthwhile part of our plans? Let's see, C

Stories of real people choosing to show real kindnesses, large and small, to other real people. Opportunity + Capacity + Awareness It's your choice, C

It's a Song of the Week! I am so excited to present to you this brand new music-centered feature on the show. Last year we had a blast (my word) listening to 300 albums and discussing them together. Ever since I have known that we were going to get back to holding space to talk specifically about music on the pod, regularly. And just about a year after we started that massive undertaking, the time is now!! So instead of album after album, we're going to talk about ONE SONG AT A TIME. - This week's FORTY-FIRST installment song is from Artist: Paramore And is called “Misery Business.” It is the lead single from their second studio album: Riot! You can listen to the original album version here (someone made a lyric video!): https://youtu.be/qV7IhHFnhJc?s... And you can watch the music video here: https://youtu.be/aCyGvGEtOwc?s... Plus you can almost always grab a preview on my IG @whereschloe; it's up on the profile. - There is no hierarchy; these songs are going to be in basically a random order, chosen for reasons that I'll most likely expound upon within the episode. Along with an array of background, inspirations, time frame, album order, cultural context, related themes, personal experiences, etc. Any genre artist decade that I would listen to is up for grabs and who's to know what will be next and why? ;) Remember your favorites. Discover something new. One song of the week at a time for however long works. I'm ELATED that you're along for the ride, C

This is the continuation of what we've been discussing for quite awhile now- That it is okay to want. And perhaps by acknowledging what you want, it can help you to ascertain who, and how, and where you'd like to be. To possibility, C

Bring what down? The levels. The noise. The overstimulation. The stress. The cortisol. The OVERWHELM. Embrace softness and care, C

Interesting little anomaly today! Don't worry; everything is fine. Not planning on taking it out so I hope it's not too distracting. Thanks for your patience! We're still talking about saving money, and ways that saving even small amounts over time (in the midst of your other financial obligations) can make a notable difference in your financial health. Keep at it! I know know know that it's hard sometimes. But we're all still here attempting to move forward, towards the future that we'd like to see. You're not alone, C

Go have some fun! You need it :) Bonus: Let's not spend any money if we can help it. Good luck, C

It's a Song of the Week! I am so excited to present to you this brand new music-centered feature on the show. Last year we had a blast (my word) listening to 300 albums and discussing them together. Ever since I have known that we were going to get back to holding space to talk specifically about music on the pod, regularly. And just about a year after we started that massive undertaking, the time is now!! So instead of album after album, we're going to talk about ONE SONG AT A TIME. - This week's FORTIETH installment song is from Artist: Metric/The Clash At Demonhead And is called “Black Sheep.” It is featured in both the film and the soundtrack for the film: Scott Pilgrim vs. The World You can listen to the original album version (with Emily) here: https://youtu.be/G-FpCc434Do?s... (couldn't find the audio for the update on YT) And you can watch the film version (with Brie) here: https://youtu.be/1xcSDYy3Dl4?s... Plus you can almost always grab a preview on my IG @whereschloe; it's up on the profile. - There is no hierarchy; these songs are going to be in basically a random order, chosen for reasons that I'll most likely expound upon within the episode. Along with an array of background, inspirations, time frame, album order, cultural context, related themes, personal experiences, etc. Any genre artist decade that I would listen to is up for grabs and who's to know what will be next and why? ;) Remember your favorites. Discover something new. One song of the week at a time for however long works. I'm ELATED that you're along for the ride, C

Such joy! Such resilience! Such inadvertent humor! Such potential. Don't despise the day of small things, C

The deeper we get into this, the more opportunity we find. Thanks tons for using your free will to be here. It means a lot to me, C

What about a sinking fund? Please take care of yourself, even tho it's challenging, C

It's good for you, me, everyone, all of us. We should talk about it more, and live it even more than that. I hope this day bring you joy, C

It's a Song of the Week! I am so excited to present to you this brand new music-centered feature on the show. Last year we had a blast (my word) listening to 300 albums and discussing them together. Ever since I have known that we were going to get back to holding space to talk specifically about music on the pod, regularly. And just about a year after we started that massive undertaking, the time is now!! So instead of album after album, we're going to talk about ONE SONG AT A TIME. - This week's THIRTY-NINTH installment song is from Artist: Anita Baker And is called “Giving You The Best That I Got.” It's from her third studio album, also called: Giving You The Best That I Got You can listen to it here: https://youtu.be/gKGj8XwooYQ?s... And you can watch the music video here: https://youtu.be/drKJxKyv5Eg?s... Plus you can almost always grab a preview on my IG @whereschloe; it's up on the profile. - There is no hierarchy; these songs are going to be in basically a random order, chosen for reasons that I'll most likely expound upon within the episode. Along with an array of background, inspirations, time frame, album order, cultural context, related themes, personal experiences, etc. Any genre artist decade that I would listen to is up for grabs and who's to know what will be next and why? ;) Remember your favorites. Discover something new. One song of the week at a time for however long works. I'm ELATED that you're along for the ride, C

Let's get back to some overt Black history discussion before the month ends! There's so so much to consider- Upsettingly brilliant. Take a deep breath (and stop dehumanizing Black people), C

Getting what you want doesn't necessarily mean that desire abates. But rest is okay to, C

“… and am free.” Technical note: Excuse the cut off! I thought about correcting it, but I don't think I'm going to. I'm not perfect, and I don't need you to expect that of me. I would much rather that you allow me to me human. Now normally, I am a human that is capable of doing a poetry reading while still being cognizant of broadcast and recording time. I've been a bit distracted lately, so bear with me. And thank you. It's a lovely poem, and we'll do Wendell justice again. - Let's continue talking about saving because apparently we really need to. For those of you to whom it is both accessible to think of saving, and it really matters where each dollar goes, put more of it towards places that are chosen by you. I'll see you tomorrow, C

Thank You. Eternally, C

It's a Song of the Week! I am so excited to present to you this brand new music-centered feature on the show. Last year we had a blast (my word) listening to 300 albums and discussing them together. Ever since I have known that we were going to get back to holding space to talk specifically about music on the pod, regularly. And just about a year after we started that massive undertaking, the time is now!! So instead of album after album, we're going to talk about ONE SONG AT A TIME. - This week's THIRTY-EIGHTH installment song is from Artist: Ralph Tresvant And is called “Sensitivity.” It's from his self-titled debut studio album called: Ralph Tresvant You can listen to (and see) the shorter album version here: https://youtu.be/nHQMy-iCKwU?s... And then you can watch the much extended version of the music video that I discussed here: https://youtu.be/xhfhVSUCLY4?s... Plus you can almost always grab a preview on my IG @whereschloe; it's up on the profile. - There is no hierarchy; these songs are going to be in basically a random order, chosen for reasons that I'll most likely expound upon within the episode. Along with an array of background, inspirations, time frame, album order, cultural context, related themes, personal experiences, etc. Any genre artist decade that I would listen to is up for grabs and who's to know what will be next and why? ;) Remember your favorites. Discover something new. One song of the week at a time for however long works. I'm ELATED that you're along for the ride, C

***CONTENT WARNING*** This episode may not be for you right now, and that is okay. It discusses thoughts surrounding fatal self harm. We're also reviewing ways to deal with it in your life, and the lives of those you may know, with the assistance of one specific recent example. I'm not planning on taking it down, so it will still be here for you in the future. There are so many different kinds of challenging thoughts and feelings that are, at their essence, temporary. If you are equipped to listen to this today, that is okay too. You are also free to change your mind at any point and come back later. Or, stay for the entire thing and utilize the conversation as an opportunity if you are able. Thank you for continuing to be here, C

We're going to start talking about saving money, which is tough to do! It's tough to talk about and to actually do because so many ppl are in different, challenging, financial places. Plus talking about money can make ppl feel jealous, awkward, inadequate, frustrated, or uncomfortable. But we press on! Please don't give up, C

More musings on how and where your valid desires are met. In health, C

I was thinking about making this episode a little shorter to give myself a break for the holiday. Buuuut I ended up getting into talking about how things are going to turn out alright, and wanted to press on :) Hope you do as well, C

It's a Song of the Week! I am so excited to present to you this brand new music-centered feature on the show. Last year we had a blast (my word) listening to 300 albums and discussing them together. Ever since I have known that we were going to get back to holding space to talk specifically about music on the pod, regularly. And just about a year after we started that massive undertaking, the time is now!! So instead of album after album, we're going to talk about ONE SONG AT A TIME. - This week's THIRTY-SEVENTH installment song is from Artist: Charlotte Gainsbourg And is called “Deadly Valentine.” It's from her fifth studio album called: Rest You can listen to it here: https://youtu.be/nPhB_X6Dl-w?s... You can watch the beautiful, tear-inducing (for me) music video here: https://youtu.be/LkyIVKbCfG8?s... Plus you can almost always grab a preview on my IG @whereschloe; it's up on the profile. - There is no hierarchy; these songs are going to be in basically a random order, chosen for reasons that I'll most likely expound upon within the episode. Along with an array of background, inspirations, time frame, album order, cultural context, related themes, personal experiences, etc. Any genre artist decade that I would listen to is up for grabs and who's to know what will be next and why? ;) Remember your favorites. Discover something new. One song of the week at a time for however long works. I'm ELATED that you're along for the ride, C

Drink enough. It's at least one thing that stays simple. Take care! C

I think it's really important to acknowledge the validity of your own appropriate desires. Grateful to have the energy to be able to continue this. Keep on truckin', C

I wouldn't even wish migraines on ppl I don't like. Hang in there, C

Always worth considering. Thank you SO MUCH for being here! Invite a friend, C

It's a Song of the Week! I am so excited to present to you this brand new music-centered feature on the show. Last year we had a blast (my word) listening to 300 albums and discussing them together. Ever since I have known that we were going to get back to holding space to talk specifically about music on the pod, regularly. And just about a year after we started that massive undertaking, the time is now!! So instead of album after album, we're going to talk about ONE SONG AT A TIME. - This week's THIRTY-SIXTH installment song is from Artist: OutKast And is called “Rosa Parks.” It's from their third studio album called: Aquemini You can listen to it here: https://youtu.be/qrOKZeCdaRM?s... You can watch the music video here: https://youtu.be/drsQLEU0N1Y?s... Did you know that Chris Rock used to have a show?? I didn't! They performed it live there: https://youtu.be/ObU2ghqWtB4?s... Plus you can almost always grab a preview on my IG @whereschloe; it's up on the profile. - There is no hierarchy; these songs are going to be in basically a random order, chosen for reasons that I'll most likely expound upon within the episode. Along with an array of background, inspirations, time frame, album order, cultural context, related themes, personal experiences, etc. Any genre artist decade that I would listen to is up for grabs and who's to know what will be next and why? ;) Remember your favorites. Discover something new. One song of the week at a time for however long works. I'm ELATED that you're along for the ride, C

Still looking for someplace with good weather and an affordable cost of living inside the US? Hey, I got you. Plus, Summer is coming, C

It's okay to want things. Humbled by the privilege, C

February is a great time to remember that you should be learning about Black history all year long. Let's discuss a few challenging topics that might expand your independent study. There's no warning here, but there is an acknowledgment, C

You can learn beautiful ways to do simple things by spending time abroad :) Glad yo have you here, wherever you are, C

It's a Song of the Week! I am so excited to present to you this brand new music-centered feature on the show. Last year we had a blast (my word) listening to 300 albums and discussing them together. Ever since I have known that we were going to get back to holding space to talk specifically about music on the pod, regularly. And just about a year after we started that massive undertaking, the time is now!! So instead of album after album, we're going to talk about ONE SONG AT A TIME. - This week's THIRTY-FIFTH installment song is from Artist: Bloc Party And is called “Octopus.” It's from their fourth studio album called: Four You can listen to it here: https://youtu.be/pjCQX3fXGms?s... You can watch the music video here: https://youtu.be/Un-ncqLyn0s?s... (And yes, that deep yawn-like breath you hear at the beginning of the track is supposed to be there.) Plus you can almost always grab a preview on my IG @whereschloe; it's up on the profile. - There is no hierarchy; these songs are going to be in basically a random order, chosen for reasons that I'll most likely expound upon within the episode. Along with an array of background, inspirations, time frame, album order, cultural context, related themes, personal experiences, etc. Any genre artist decade that I would listen to is up for grabs and who's to know what will be next and why? ;) Remember your favorites. Discover something new. One song of the week at a time for however long works. I'm ELATED that you're along for the ride, C

Ok, they're not ALL warm all the time, but many of them are a lot of the time and that's the part I'm choosing to focus on after this last week. Need someplace where the cost of living and/or the cost of housing won't run you into the ground trying to keep up? This is a valid goal at any age, so if you're not living a location-dependent life rn, here's more than a few places for you to consider (we'll return to this later to chat about the rest) So so glad you're here! Stick around, bring a friend- C

We made it! We've now considered every word of this lengthy, complex piece. I feel accomplished :) There are still nuances that I'd like to revisit, but let's just hold onto these four parts for consideration to begin with. Not asking for blind agreement (I didn't even have that!); I'm offering thoughts for contemplation. At which point you can * act accordingly * and move forward from there. Blessed to have you and your psyche here, even attempting a conversation like this, C

Small joys. Stay safe, C

Hunkered down today? Wanna hear some fun stories?? Hop on in with a warm drink and chill, C

It's a Song of the Week! I am so excited to present to you this brand new music-centered feature on the show. Last year we had a blast (my word) listening to 300 albums and discussing them together. Ever since I have known that we were going to get back to holding space to talk specifically about music on the pod, regularly. And just about a year after we started that massive undertaking, the time is now!! So instead of album after album, we're going to talk about ONE SONG AT A TIME. - This week's THIRTY-FOURTH installment song is from Artist: The Cure And is called “Just Like Heaven.” It's from their seventh studio album called: Kiss Me Kiss Me Kiss Me You can listen to it here: https://youtu.be/1ASpBpT8bRQ?s... You can watch the music video here: https://youtu.be/n3nPiBai66M?s... You can hear *Rick* Beato discuss the musical structure of the song here: https://youtu.be/LPNHwwXh3Ks?s... Plus you can almost always grab a preview on my IG @whereschloe; it's up on the profile. - There is no hierarchy; these songs are going to be in basically a random order, chosen for reasons that I'll most likely expound upon within the episode. Along with an array of background, inspirations, time frame, album order, cultural context, related themes, personal experiences, etc. Any genre artist decade that I would listen to is up for grabs and who's to know what will be next and why? ;) Remember your favorites. Discover something new. One song of the week at a time for however long works. I'm ELATED that you're along for the ride, C

You haven't lost January yet! Want an easy win? Or a relatively easy win? Pick up one of these. Glad you're hanging in there, C

We're back! As we move through the complex ideas that this quote can hold, take your time with it. Stop and contemplate as you need. Keep yourself intact. I'm so honored that you're here, C

What do you actually want? Let's go, yeah? Yeah. I'll see you along the way, C

Grateful for the work of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr, not just today but everyday. Civil Rights? Heck yeah! Deal me in. But what about other kinds of rights? And why do we need to articulate them? (Why do others keep trying to deny them?) Let's *start* talking about it. Smiling as I trudge forward, C

It's a Song of the Week! I am so excited to present to you this brand new music-centered feature on the show. Last year we had a blast (my word) listening to 300 albums and discussing them together. Ever since I have known that we were going to get back to holding space to talk specifically about music on the pod, regularly. And just about a year after we started that massive undertaking, the time is now!! So instead of album after album, we're going to talk about ONE SONG AT A TIME. - This week's THIRTY-THIRD installment song is from Artist: Britney SpearsAnd is called “Toxic.” It's from her fourth studio album called: In The ZoneYou can listen to it (with lyrics!) here: https://youtu.be/83AOwdfH1Z0?s...You can watch the cinematic music video here: https://youtu.be/83AOwdfH1Z0?s... (Did I say it *looks like* she's wearing something a figure skater would wear? Because she's also really mainly wearing well-placed rhinestones and her own skin)Plus you can almost always grab a preview on my IG @whereschloe; it's up on the profile. - There is no hierarchy; these songs are going to be in basically a random order, chosen for reasons that I'll most likely expound upon within the episode. Along with an array of background, inspirations, time frame, album order, cultural context, related themes, personal experiences, etc. Any genre artist decade that I would listen to is up for grabs and who's to know what will be next and why? ;) Remember your favorites. Discover something new. One song of the week at a time for however long works. I'm ELATED that you're along for the ride, C

I know, I know- Flying can be stressful no matter what airports you're passing through. But if you have some upcoming travel on the docket, keep an eye out for these spots in particular. Struggles with things like flight delays, layovers, and security wait times may leave you feeling like your trip wasn't the best idea after all. Or maybe just wishing you had taken the train or gone for a drive. Sharing the data and some of my experiences! Perhaps you can concur? Or at least, after this, plan accordingly. Margin is useful in so many places, C

Are we cooked?? Touch a tree, C