Have You Ever One-dered??

We're concluding this miniseries on the phobias some have that are less common. But still valid! We're not looking for logic or rationale. But as in other times, we're looking to increase knowledge, understanding, and empathy. There's one that is particularly unique in this set that also provides an example of what NOT to do when someone tells you they're afraid of something Thanks for your bravery out here in this mad world, C

I couldn't help it! I had to come back to this discussion of what *other* people would do if they won the lottery. Why? Because it gives us a respite to join the fantasy as well :) But also because thinking about what you ~would~ do one day can also introduce you to things you ~could~ do today. Where would you like your life to be headed? Can you turn in that direction now? Happy daydreaming, C

We're back on the encouragement episodes and I am so thrilled to be able to share sentiments like these in this space again. It's a joy and it's an honor. It's been a minute because I needed a minute. Hope these thoughts manage to shed some light. So glad that you're here, C

What are the good things about having friends? And being a friend! Is it actually worth the hassle?? As a matter of fact, YES. Super glad you're here, always, C

It's a Song of the Week! I am so excited to present to you this brand new music-centered feature on the show. Last year we had a blast (my word) listening to 300 albums and discussing them together. Ever since I have known that we were going to get back to holding space to talk specifically about music on the pod, regularly. And just about a year after we started that massive undertaking, the time is now!! So instead of album after album, we're going to talk about ONE SONG AT A TIME. - Oh and EXCUSE THE ABRUPT ENDING. In an unusual act, I cut something unnecessary out of the end of the episode. But have a great day and I'll see you tomorrow :) - This week's EIGHTH installment song is by Artist: New Edition And is called “Can You Stand The Rain.” It's from their album Heartbreak. Listen to it on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track... Watch the official video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/7flrKMGfwjw?s... You can also grab a preview on my IG @whereschloe; it's up on the profile. - There is no hierarchy; these songs are going to be in basically a random order, chosen for reasons that I'll most likely expound upon within the episode. Along with an array of background, inspirations, time frame, album order, cultural context, related themes, personal experiences, etc. Any genre artist decade that I would listen to is up for grabs and who's to know what will be next and why? ;) Remember your favorites. Discover something new. One song of the week at a time for however long works. I'm ELATED that you're along for the ride, C

What would you do if you won the lottery??? Dream a little dream ;) C

We're learning a bit more about the behind the scenes actions and sentiments of other people's professions. And trying to keep it light because even though it's only Tuesday, this has already been a challenging week Thanks TONS for being here, C

What goods and services have you been curious about (or longing for) but holding off on because you figured that they were reserved for those with more resources or disposable income than you? Wellllll, perhaps we can discuss something today that will give you the freedom to reevaluate :) - Also, in what may be the first instance of this since we finished the 300 albums series, we spent so much time on topic content that we had to move the poem to written format instead! Thanks for your patience with this ;) -Poetry Time- How to Be Hopeful by Barbara Kingsolver Look, you might as well know, this device is going to take endless repair: rubber cement, rubber bands, tapioca, the square of the hypotenuse, nineteenth-century novels, sunrise— any of these could be useful. Also feathers. The ignition is tricky. Sometimes you have to stand on an incline where things look possible. Or a line you drew yourself. Or the grocery line, making faces at a toddler, secretly, over his mother's shoulder. You may have to pop the clutch and run past the evidence. Past everyone who is praying for you. Passing all previous records is ok, or passing strange. Just not passing it up. Or park it and fly by the seat of your pants. With nothing in the bank, you will still want to take the express. Tiptoe past the dogs of the apocalypse asleep in the shade of your future. Pay at the window. You'll be surprised: you can pass off hope like a bad check. You still have time, that's the thing. To make it good. - Thank you so much for being here, C

It's a Song of the Week! I am so excited to present to you this brand new music-centered feature on the show. Last year we had a blast (my word) listening to 300 albums and discussing them together. Ever since I have known that we were going to get back to holding space to talk specifically about music on the pod, regularly. And just about a year after we started that massive undertaking, the time is now!! So instead of album after album, we're going to talk about ONE SONG AT A TIME. - This week's SEVENTH installment song is by Artist: Tame Impala (I think I may have said during the episode that this is the sixth, but I was mistaken. Whoops!) And is called “Let It Happen.” It's from their album Currents. Listen to it on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track... Watch the album promo I mentioned: https://youtu.be/nfmJilbZCas?s... Watch the official video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/pFptt7Cargc?s... You can also grab a preview on my IG @whereschloe; it's up on the profile. - There is no hierarchy; these songs are going to be in basically a random order, chosen for reasons that I'll most likely expound upon within the episode. Along with an array of background, inspirations, time frame, album order, cultural context, related themes, personal experiences, etc. Any genre artist decade that I would listen to is up for grabs and who's to know what will be next and why? ;) Remember your favorites. Discover something new. One song of the week at a time for however long works. I'm ELATED that you're along for the ride, C

Increased Summer travel means staying in hotels (or other short term accommodations) for lots of people. And in those places, you are NOT in charge of regular cleaning and things can fall along various point of the cleanliness spectrum. Listen, I'm not trying to freak you out (I'm not trying to freak you out!) but let's take a look a some of the places you should be extra mindful of touching (or not touching) when you go to stay someplace that's not your own home. And then enjoy your trip! So glad you're here, C

Ever wonder ;) about various professions that you interact with regularly - food service, healthcare, education, etc - and if there's any behind the scenes info you might not be privy to? Oh but there is! I definitely want to come back to this topic, but let's start today. So glad you're here! C

We continue forward with talking about the rare and unusual phobias that some have been born with or developed along the way. Keeping in mind that although learning about such things can obviously be a point of interest, it's also an opportunity for enhanced or increased empathy. To give yourself a way to see life from someone else's perspective, and attempt to understand. It's going to be alright; I'm glad you're here, C

Most ppl think of the things that go along with aging as an inevitable recipe for decline. But it doesn't have to be so! There are improvements afoot as you consider the blessing it can be to continue to be alive. Let's look at some of them. So glad you're still here, C

Do you have friends all over the place? I DO!! And one of the more challenging things about maintaining and growing long distance friendships is finding ways to connect. Let's talk through some ideas and activities that can virtually add some dimension to your friendships that might otherwise be stuck in a words-on-a-screen rut. Thanks for being here! C

It's a Song of the Week! I am so excited to present to you this brand new music-centered feature on the show. Last year we had a blast (my word) listening to 300 albums and discussing them together. Ever since I have known that we were going to get back to holding space to talk specifically about music on the pod, regularly. And just about a year after we started that massive undertaking, the time is now!! So instead of album after album, we're going to talk about ONE SONG AT A TIME. - This week's SIXTH installment song is by Artist: America And is called “You Can Do Magic.” It's from their album View From The Ground. Listen to it on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track... Watch the official video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/tt4cR9szMS8?s... (It's a CLOUDS background! How'd I forget that? I love clouds.) You can also grab a preview on my IG @whereschloe; it's up on the profile. - There is no hierarchy; these songs are going to be in basically a random order, chosen for reasons that I'll most likely expound upon within the episode. Along with an array of background, inspirations, time frame, album order, cultural context, related themes, personal experiences, etc. Any genre artist decade that I would listen to is up for grabs and who's to know what will be next and why? ;) Remember your favorites. Discover something new. One song of the week at a time for however long works. I'm ELATED that you're along for the ride, C

We're finishing up our small town jaunt today! Come chat through the remaining mostly drivable areas to visit, see, enjoy. This has been a really good time. Thanks for coming along for the ride; hopefully it inspires you to take a ride of your own So glad you're here, C

Uh oh, y'all. Are my hopes and dreams of living to 100 going to be thwarted by how unlikely it is that I'd be able to add some of these specific things into my routine? Idk! I guess we'll find out ;) In the meantime, you can improve your own longevity plans, or just your overall wellness, by incorporating some or all of what we discuss today into your early hours of wakefulness. See if you can work it out! Be well, C

***Please forgive the distribution delay on this one! It aired live for Monday, July 7.*** - It's time we started talking about how to be more physically prepared for some of the wild and dangerous happenings of our world. We're starting with floods. Stay as safe as you can, C

It's a Song of the Week! I am so excited to present to you this brand new music-centered feature on the show. Last year we had a blast (my word) listening to 300 albums and discussing them together. Ever since I have known that we were going to get back to holding space to talk specifically about music on the show, regularly. And just about a year after we started that massive undertaking, the time is now!! So instead of album after album, we're going to talk about ONE SONG AT A TIME. - This week's FIFTH installment song is by Artist: Wild Nothing And is called “Through The Grass.” It's from his album Nocturne. Listen to it on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track... You can also grab a preview on my IG @whereschloe; it's up on the profile. - There is no hierarchy; these songs are going to be in basically a random order, chosen for reasons that I'll most likely expound upon within the episode. Along with an array of background, inspirations, time frame, album order, cultural context, related themes, personal experiences, etc. Any genre artist decade that I would listen to is up for grabs and who's to know what will be next and why? ;) Remember your favorites. Discover something new. One song of the week at a time for however long works. I'm ELATED that you're along for the ride, C

If you want to go out and do something fun somewhere in the US on the Fourth of July, I don't think that makes you unconscionable or demonstrates the character of a hypocrite. And there are LOTS of opportunities! Joy can be an act of resistance and there are still perspectives that can be celebrated, even if you need to take a break from some of your ideological angst to do so. Take a break! Check out the options. And if this year doesn't work for you, then you should DEFINITELY be thinking about next year ;) Stay safe out there, C

If you need some updated flight travel items to make your trip easier, safer, or more convenient, allow me to make a few suggestions ;) Thrilled you're here, C

We're back on the small towns you could drivable-y travel to! Having such a time with them. It's nice. (Please excuse a few technically-related alterations to the production experience. Had a malfunction during the broadcast and recording that led to changing up a couple things.) So glad you're here and enjoy, C

Tips that could help keep you or someone else alive in a crucial moment. So glad you're here, C

Low cost and FREE ideas to hang out in person with ppl you care about, aka your friends!! Stay cool, C

It's a Song of the Week! I am so excited to present to you this brand new music-centered feature on the show. Last year we had a blast (my word) listening to 300 albums and discussing them together. Ever since I have known that we were going to get back to holding space to talk specifically about music on the show, regularly. And just about a year after we started that massive undertaking, the time is now!! So instead of album after album, we're going to talk about ONE SONG AT A TIME. - This week's FOURTH installment song is by Artist: Janet Jackson And is called “Control.” It's from her album of the same name (Control) Listen to it on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track... You can also grab a preview on my IG @whereschloe; it's up on the profile. - There is no hierarchy; these songs are going to be in basically a random order, chosen for reasons that I'll most likely expound upon within the episode. Along with an array of background, inspirations, time frame, album order, cultural context, related themes, personal experiences, etc. Any genre artist decade that I would listen to is up for grabs and who's to know what will be next and why? ;) Remember your favorites. Discover something new. One song of the week at a time for however long works. I'm ELATED that you're along for the ride, C

It's Travel Wednesday! I really enjoy talking through all these neat little towns that you can encounter in diff parts of the US. And since it's been a minute since we've done so, and I have other things planned for the rest of the week, we're doing it today :) Warm weather travel can be a special joy. Take to the road and see what's out there! Thanks for being here, C

We're talking more about the less-than-common things that terrify some (myself included) and in addition to learning more, I also get a bit of a shock. (And there's an early surprise brought by the frustration of others. Hmm) Thanks so much for being here; take care of yourself, C

Life is challenging and expensive and there are many things that could be weighing you down. But what if something could significantly improve things in your life for an affordable amount of money? Or even free?? That might be something worth considering.. Keep breathing; and thank you for being here, C

I know they say that you're not supposed to assume things because it makes… well, you know what they say ;) But what about some assumptions about your true friends that you can (and should!) make?? I've got three that you can and one that's a bit questionable. Jump in and let's consider them together. I'm so pleased that you're here in this space with me, C

It's a Song of the Week! I am so excited to present to you this brand new music-centered feature on the show. Last year we had a blast (my word) listening to 300 albums and discussing them together. Ever since I have known that we were going to get back to holding space to talk specifically about music on the show, regularly. And just about a year after we started that massive undertaking, the time is now!! So instead of album after album, we're going to talk about ONE SONG AT A TIME. - This week's THIRD installment song is by Artist: Of Mice & Men (OM&M) And is called “Purified.” It's from their album The Flood Listen to it on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track... You can also grab a preview on my IG @whereschloe; it's up on the profile. - There is no hierarchy; these songs are going to be in basically a random order, chosen for reasons that I'll most likely expound upon within the episode. Along with an array of background, inspirations, time frame, album order, cultural context, related themes, personal experiences, etc. Any genre artist decade that I would listen to is up for grabs and who's to know what will be next and why? ;) Remember your favorites. Discover something new. One song of the week at a time for however long works. I'm ELATED that you're along for the ride, C

What a clear indication that someone you're sharing the road with is potentially a bad driver? Stay safe out there, C

We're talking about phobias again. As a point of interest yes, but also as an empathy building exercise. Really glad that you're here, C

SPOILER ALERT!!! Today we're talking about movies that have notable tone, mood, plot, or theme shifts. For some people and films, that also includes the idea of a twist that you may not want to know about. I get it. I don't think many of the films mentioned are super recent, so there's a good chance that you've already seen a lot of them, but if even the hint of a tone change or a plot twist would ruin your experience of a movie then I won't be offended if you need to skip this one. Use it as an opportunity to catch up on some past eps instead! ;) So glad you're here, C

We did it! This is the FINAL installment of the Conflict subset of our adult friendship series. Not the entire series, just this conflict-themed part of it. We've covered so many things related to the hope for healthy conflict resolution. I hope it has been a help or perhaps has the chance to be in the future. Onward and Upward! Thanks tons for being here, C

We're talking more about small towns around the US that you can visit to perhaps make taking trips for fun or relaxation a little easier or more accessible. Surprise special guest appearance as well ;) What fun! C

It's a Song of the Week! I am so excited to present to you this brand new music-centered feature on the show. Last year we had a blast (my word) listening to 300 albums and discussing them together. Ever since I have known that we were going to get back to holding space to talk specifically about music on the show, regularly. And just about a year after we started that massive undertaking, the time is now!! So instead of album after album, we're going to talk about ONE SONG AT A TIME. - This week's SECOND installment song is by Artist: R.E.M And is called “Drive.” It's from their album Automatic For The People Listen to it on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track... Or watch the vid on YouTube: https://youtu.be/-UE7tXDKIus?s... You can also grab a preview on my IG @whereschloe; it's up on the profile. - There is no hierarchy; these songs are going to be in basically a random order, chosen for reasons that I'll most likely expound upon within the episode. Along with an array of background, inspirations, time frame, album order, cultural context, related themes, personal experiences, etc. Any genre artist decade that I would listen to is up for grabs and who's to know what will be next and why? ;) Remember your favorites. Discover something new. One song of the week at a time for however long works. I'm ELATED that you're along for the ride, C

Take a break from some of your real life fears seemingly coming true and learn about some phobias that find themselves on the more unusual end of the spectrum. So glad you're here and I hope you're okay, C

Have you been doing any Spring cleaning? Thinking about having a big clear out? Want some extra space around the house? Let's talk through some categories of items that experts say you should consider keeping. (Or at least donating!) …before you outright throw them away. Glad to have made it through some obstacles to be here. Thrilled you're here too, C

I won't say too much. We're talking about nonverbal communication. It's crucial. Thrilled you're here, C

Big cities around the globe get tons of attention when people start to think of or make travel plans. But there are things to do in small towns too! And if you're in the US already, domestic travel that doesn't include flight time has the potential to be less hassle and more affordable. So let's talk about some places you could go! Thanks so much for being here, C

It's a Song of the Week! I am so excited to present to you this brand new music-centered feature on the show. Last year we had a blast (my word) listening to 300 albums and discussing them together. Ever since I have known that we were going to get back to holding space to talk specifically about music on the show, regularly. And just about a year after we started that massive undertaking, the time is now!! So instead of album after album, we're going to talk about ONE SONG AT A TIME. - This week's inaugural song is by Artist: Keane And is called “A Bad Dream.” It's from their album Under The Iron Sea Listen to it on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track... You can also grab a preview on my IG @whereschloe; it's up on the profile. - There is no hierarchy; these songs are going to be in basically a random order, chosen for reasons that I'll most likely expound upon within the episode. Along with an array of background, inspirations, time frame, album order, cultural context, related themes, personal experiences, etc. Any genre artist decade that I would listen to is up for grabs and who's to know what will be next and why? ;) Remember your favorites. Discover something new. One song of the week at a time for however long works. I'm thrilled you're along for the ride, C

What can you do when things feel out of control or overwhelming or you feel dysregulated or you need to reestablish equilibrium and trying deep breathing doesn't work?? There are lots of other things you can try, and we're going to talk about several of them. Thanks tons for being here, C

Do you ever think about whether your actions and decisions are “morally gray” or not? Thanks tons for being here, C

Three years ago tomorrow we started this journey (!) Let's pause for a moment to reflect, celebrate, look ahead. THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE. It is always an honor, C :)

It's unofficially summer! (Kinda.) Going anywhere? On a plane? What are you planning to put on and why? Thanks for being here, mean it, C

Getting adequate protein is a great way to increase your healthfulness, especially my fellow vegetarians and vegans. Have you been keeping an eye on your intake? No shame, shade, or judgement, just a chat about some items that increase the amounts if that's what you'd like to do. And in ways that can work for almost anyone, regardless of budget, time and labor available, and other potential dietary restrictions or sensitivities Eat up! Glad you're here, C

How much money will actually make you “wealthy” in your lifetime? Don't worry; it'll all work out, C

I know it doesn't sound fit for a holiday based on the title, but there's a reason I picked this topic for today. I hope you have some extra time to rest, C

What skills do you need to help make it more likely that you're going to be able to participate in healthy conflict resolution? Thanks for being here, C

What about the other top cities on the Happiness Index? Let's keep looking at cool places. Thanks for being here, C

They seem to be pretty universal ideas, right? Beneficial for everyone? In theory yeah, sure. But what about in practice? Yes, what about it. Perhaps I can encourage you to contemplate them on both and individual and a global scale. Really glad you're here (and that's the truth), C