Mommy Said a Bad Word

I know, it's been like two years. Trust me, I'm judging myself. If you're still here, let's chat!

When it comes to my kids, I'ma play in y'all face like Tokyo Toni if I have to. From the pissy dating pool to the horrible economy, I can't tell which one is worse. All I do know is that if you want a coparent partner, you can't micromanage.

Another show, another hot take. As Black Maternal Health Week comes to an end, we talk the importance of choosing a birth plan that is best for you, how to handle the reality of the third coparent & making sure you choose wisely. With me, you're never losing.

We can't escape the slap heard across the diaspora, BUT I can give you a hot take. What's the wildest lie a man has ever told you?

Between not being ran through and getting our asses up and f**king working, we're tired. BUT there's still time for more Mommy Said a Bad Word. This week, Aaliyah joins the conversation as we talk keeping our body counts low, Black Panther bank robberies and why you should mind the tax bracket that pays you. At the end of the day, would you rather date a dude with a baby mama, or accidentally invite in a squatter who eats all your baby's fruit snacks?

A bonus episode for all my faithful baby mamas as well as an analysis of sorts when your twins have made you watch Encanto no less than 20 times. Sources:https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdhtehR9/ , https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdhGoP6e/ , https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdhtYXF7/ https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdhG3eVy/ https://instagram.com/thisisyolandarenteria?utm_medium=copy_link

TW: SuicideAfter Mindy's hair appointment got cancelled for the 2nd time in a row, the best form of therapy is a good pod session. While Chuck The World and Cousin Jordan [No Offense Tho] pull up to discuss "January's Own," the conversation gets deeper as we discuss one of the most difficult realizations as a parent...no matter how much you love your children, you can't always save them from themselves. But alas, I can't see it coming down my eyes.

Guess who's bizzack. Mommy is back starting the year off right with the return of the pod. This week is straight to the point as we discuss what we aren't excepting from our potential partners in 2022, why the hell does Khloe have us even mentioning Tristan Thompson, and what should you do when your child's father is for spankings and you aren't? One thing about it, if he passing the shisha, he can pass on by me.

Mommy Said a Bad Word is one! Cheers to another rotation around the sun as Mindy sits down with a few friends of the show to discuss celebrating another birthday and what the year has taught her. This years lesson: you might stumble, you might fall, but just don't f***n' quit! Enjoy a birthday playlist curated by the host:https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/27-club/pl.u-Ldbqzmrsxk8ZL2

Mindy is back riding solo, but the jokes continue to write themselves. As we work on healing our inner child to become better parents to our babies, we break down some of the parenting styles that shaped our adult lives, starting with strictness. Also, what is the appropriate age to let your children decide if they wanna see their parents or not? I mean, Frank Mitchell did more harm than good.

After a couple weeks of scammers and weirdos trying to steal a playa's joy, Mindy is back with another episode. This week we discuss seeing your ex do what they wouldn't do for you with their next partner, why in the hell would someone date a convicted rapist, and the way that missing black bodies are treated in comparison to missing white ones. As a single mother, is dating a man with no kids holding him back?

They tried to kill yo favorite b****, but we here! This week, Mindy is joined by friend of the show @taajcrown as we talk emotional incest, growing up fat and automatically getting paired with the ugly friend, weirdo baby mamas and honking the horn on they ass (RIP Gregg Leakes) and the best Beyonce songs according to the coloreds.

This week, the @nooffensetho crew takes a seat at the Mommy Said a Bad Word table to talk the transition from celibacy to tinder, dating a single mom, and what exactly are you supposed to do when your 19-year-old brings home a 32-year-old. From finding out your friend once got a DNA test on your new boyfriend to not inviting your daughter to your wedding, welcome to problematic's cabaret!

This week Mindy taps into the solo dolo bag as we talk intuition, reflection, and accepting the things we cannot change while having the courage to change the things we can. While we look to understand what each phase of life brings, what I know 27 won't bring is an 18 year old baby daddy.

Mommy is back. This week we answer the new age question: is being in your adult child's life a privilege? Between a billion dollars and a billion reasons why you should not stay with your child's father when he has a baby on you, you can also count on me to NOT be the one to try and be besties with my man's family. I once saw a meme that said "chicks be having a mother in law and no man," girl leave that boy mama alone!

This week, among DaBS and DaBacklash, Mindy sits down to talk about the importance of knowing when to admit you're wrong, why teaming up with my enemies will never bring you peace, and the necessity of unpacking your trauma before you very publicly pass it on to your kids. Check this, before you toot your nose up at the next young woman, check how much of a hater you truly are. s/o @breaknbreadblog, @deedeesbutterbar, @tbgbodycare [use code MOMMYSAID at checkout on tbgbodycare.com for 10% off your order]

Guess who's back! July is Minority Mental Health Month, and baby, the mental health has been mental healthing. But after a hiatus, Mommy is back with a few bad words as she's joined by @chucktheworld_ and friend of the show "agent M" to discuss turning your trolling finsta into a page for your newborn baby, getting thrown of planes for changing your baby's diapers and the logistics of going back to the man who cheated on you with crack. Between lessons in what exactly fatherhood is supposed to be and learning to love black women, you can definitely say, I'm back and I'm better.

Happy Mother's Day! Motherhood is a beautiful thing, but we'd be remiss if we didn't acknowledge the times you miss who you once were. This week, it's a family affair as Mindy sits down with her cousins to discuss The first year of motherhood and marriages as we mourn the women we used to be and embrace the women we're becoming. What would you do when your baby daddy's gf has made you their surrogate?

This week Mindy is joined for some funny conversation with Taaj (before her vaccine mutates her into a fish) as they talk potential cult leaders who claim to be healing the hood, what toxic relationships teach you about yourself, healing, and accepting your blessings. Listen up while you can cause we're outside soon.

This week, Mindy is back and joined by a good friend as they reminisce on their cotillion, life at an HBCU, self realization, and getting into Medical School. I have a confession too, I ghosted my therapist...so don’t ask me how my mental health is today.

This week Mindy is joined by her childhood friend and financial queen Tiana as we talk stimulus checks, investing for your babies, the world of stocks, and the life hack to building wealth in this economy. Don't let your baby daddy flip your taxes, let Mommy show you how it's done! TBGbodycare.com offer code MOMMYSAID for 10% off at checkout IG & Twitter: @momsaidabadword Contact us mommysaidabadword@gmail.com

This week Mindy is back and joined by the lovely Meagan as they talk credit scores, keeping promises made to ourselves, wishing they could love therapy, and the release of the sequel to “The Coldest Winter Ever” as we remember why it is we loved that novel. Deliver us from capitalism, from the inability to be still, and from cyclical hells.

It's Black History Month and I said what I said. This month I’m choosing [educational] violence every episode. This week we touch on a few tough topics including colorism and raising black children even if you aren’t black. Mothers carry the culture, so it’s important to understand what you’re doing as we raise a new generation of leaders. Additionally, we talk what to do when your BD tells you his divorce still isn’t final 3 kids later For all- natural skin care needs make sure you check out TBGbodycare.com, use offer code: MOMMYSAID at checkout for 10% off your order or click the link below https://tbgbodycare.com/?ref=59dxqvzdk1bo Follow us on Twitter and IG@momsaidabadword @ayeyomindy @thefosnetwork

This week, Mindy is riding solo and talks the age old saying "they've been here before." Besides the past life stories your children have told you, we analyze what to do when your boyfriend of three years tells your son not to call him dad, but first name only. Should you be worried or charge it to the game?

Mommy Said A Bad Word is back for the new year and this episode, we celebrate @chucktheworld's b-day MSABW style. From finding out your man is having a baby with someone else via instagram to figuring out when it's your responsibility to pay for the date, these baby daddy's bs is never done.

Year's almost over, thank ya JESUS. As we welcome 2021, the beautiful Thursday's Angel sits down with Mindy and talks reseting your mind frame, finding the light in the darkness, and breaking the cycle of complacency. We are spirits, we have souls, we live in bodies and this year we're going where the money resides.

It'a the holidays, so in the midst of enjoying some leisure time, there's still some new fire for you. This week, Mindy is joined by Mr. Offensive and the professional BD himself (@chucktheworld_) which leaves for some interesting conversation. One thing they can agree on is don't let your baby daddy stop you from living your dreams.

I found love on a two-way swipe, or atleast I tried. This week Mindy is joined by another fellow mom (@morgan_ways) as they talk one of the worst games to play — the dating game. Dating is hard enough as it is, but add being a mom to the mix, sometimes your only hope is to swipe left or right. Additionally, how do you co-parent during the holidays without your baby daddy thinking mommy is gonna kiss Santa Claus.

This week, the snow has Mindy riding solo as she invites you to sip and chat with her. She discusses twerking off the dusse slushies, the attack of the mulattos, and if breast is really best. What do you do when your boyfriend is still in the club house with his baby mama, but gaslighting you about it. What you shouldn't do is turn to Hennessy or Lawry's, PLEASE!

This week, Mindy sits down with a work friend turned girlfriend (@sierra_aln) to talk politics, pua checks, and finding the balance of life and career. If you dig your dead homie up, just make sure you make it home for bath time.

It's Election Day, but more importantly, it's Mindy's birthday. She reflects on what her early twenties have taught her: the walk with God, the friend heartbreak, and the accountability. Do you ever ask someone to watch your kids so you can go to the store, but then you hit the bar instead?