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Markie and Andrew are the parents to their two boys and angel baby girl. They don’t claim to be experts in parenting, but know that life can be full of joy, pain, sorrow, and laughter. Join us every Friday to hear about their experiences.

Markie and Andrew Ostler


    • Apr 18, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 32m AVG DURATION
    • 53 EPISODES


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    my REPORT and other randomness

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2025 24:54


    I have been loving this current trend going on around TikTok and other podcasts- so today I will be REPORTing on my life and things I've been liking and doing lately. Codes from this episode:Lola: MARKIEBeehive Meals: EVERLYJO

    interview with the Estradas

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2025 31:39


    In this episode, we're recording live from Spain, and it's all about the incredible bond we share with our best friends. We've traveled together all over the world, and today, we're sharing stories, laughs, and insights into what makes these friendships so special.

    the WORST night of my life

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2025 32:42


    In this deeply emotional episode, I share the story of the darkest night I've ever experienced—a night that, even amidst the unimaginable grief of losing my daughter when she was just five weeks old, still stands out as the most painful moment of my life.Join me as I open up about the raw details of that night, the heartache I felt, and the overwhelming emotions that came crashing down on me. Wink Clique Code: EVERLYJOJust Ingredients Code: EVERLYJO

    how to avoid negative talk

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2025 26:19


    In this episode, I dive into something that I personally have been struggling with—negative self-talk—and share strategies to help us break free from that harsh inner voice. We all have moments when we're our own biggest critics, but the truth is, we deserve to treat ourselves with more kindness and understanding. I created this podcast not just to help others, but as a way to improve my own mindset, and I hope it can do the same for you. Together, we'll explore practical tips on how to recognize and shift negative self-talk into a more positive, compassionate narrative. Whether you're looking for ways to build self-esteem, create healthier thought patterns, or simply be kinder to yourself, this episode has something for everyone.Sponsors:Just Ingredients Code: EVERLYJODime Code: MARKIEO

    anxiety and tools to help ground you

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2025 34:55


    In this episode, I dive into the struggles of managing anxiety, and talk about my recent experiences with overwhelming feelings of stress and uncertainty. It's been a tough season for me and my family to say the least. In an effort to navigate through it, I wanted to share some practical tips that have been proven to help. I'm hoping they'll bring some peace not only to you guys, but also to myself. Join me in this vulnerable conversation, as I hope to create a space where we can all learn how to better handle anxiety and embrace a sense of calm, even when it feels like everything's a little too much.Let's get grounded, together.https://dimebeautyco.com/Code: MARKIEOhttps://winkclique.com/Code: EVERLYJO

    heart month - CHD facts

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2025 28:26


    Happy Valentine's Day! And Happy Heart Month! Since it's heart month, today's episode we dive into the world of Congenital Heart Disease (CHD)—a condition that affects millions of children and adults worldwide, including my sweet daughter Everly. https://dimebeautyco.com/Code: MARKIEOhttps://winkclique.com/Code: EVERLYJO

    "i love you, mom" with Karlie Nonu

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2025 50:28


    Karlie Nonu lost her first child, Rylie, just a short 23 hours after she was born. Although heartbroken and full of grief, Karlie shares some amazing things that have happened since losing Rylie. @karlienonuhttps://dimebeautyco.com/Code: MARKIEOhttps://winkclique.com/Code: EVERLYJO

    new year tangents

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2025 41:03


    I'm a few weeks late, but here to tell you my new year resolutions. Super excited for what this year will bring for me and for all of you. Loved being able to read and talk through some of your resolutions as well! 

    2024 Recap

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2025 30:22


    hiiii friends! It's been a minute so I thought we'd do a fun recap of the year and some highlights.  I just feel beyond grateful for my life and the memories we made!

    ketamine wrapped in a bow

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2024 20:10


    This week I'm talking about my sixth and final treatment of ketamine. So happy I was able to do these treatments and prioritize my mental health! Follow along:Instagram: @the.happyeverlyafter.podcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085771852965TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyeverlyafterpodcast?lang=en

    fifth ketamine treatment

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2024 17:43


    just wanted to say thank you for my amazing support system. Last week's ketamine treatment was hard, and I still feel a little tender from it. But I feel so grateful for the amazing group of people I have around me to help me. This week I follow up on last week's episode, and also talk about my fifth ketamine treatment. 

    fourth ketamine treatment + friends + reddit + mouse

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2024 24:36


    If you've been following my ketamine journey, you know that it's been pretty chill. I've been able to just snuggle up and relax. That was not the case this last time. It was rough. Plus,  I've also been dealing with some hard things with my friends, a super rude reddit post, AND A MOUSE IN MY HOUSE!  

    third ketamine treatment

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2024 24:49


    officially finished three ketamine treatments so I'm here to report on how it's all going, how I'm feeling, and what the treatments are doing for me so far. Lola blankets code: MARKIEFollow along:Instagram: @the.happyeverlyafter.podcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085771852965TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyeverlyafterpodcast?lang=en

    interview with Van

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2024 12:03


    This week you get to hear from one of my favorite people ever. My son van!! He is sweet, kind, and HILARIOUS!  So happy he wanted to come do this with me, it is something I will cherish forever! Stay tuned next week to hear more about my ketamine journey! 

    second ketamine treatment + life update

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2024 16:56


    Hi friends, this episode has some updates on life with some things I'm working on that I'm super excited about. Also a little recap on my second ketamine treatment! 

    first ketamine treatment

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2024 29:19


    Today I'll be talking about my first round of ketamine treatment! I'm super excited about these treatments and excited to share them all with you guys!Follow along:Instagram: @the.happyeverlyafter.podcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085771852965TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyeverlyafterpodcast?lang=en

    Ketamine Treatment

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2024 13:07


    Super excited to have you guys come along with me on my journey of ketamine treatment! Today I talk about what made me ultimately decide to do it and how I'm hoping it'll help me. Follow along: Instagram: @the.happyeverlyafter.podcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085771852965TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyeverlyafterpodcast?lang=en

    are you still lds?- part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2024 48:00


    First of all, thank you so much for all the love and support from my episode two weeks ago. It means the world to me. After I released that episode there were a lot of questions, so today- in part 2- I'm answering a lot of the questions I got asked. Also I had a mic malfunction so the audio for this episode is from the video. So it's not the greatest.  If you have a hard time understand, watch it on youtube where we've added subtitles. 

    are you still lds?- part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2024 62:24


    One of my most asked questions that i'm ready to start talking about.

    it's all coming back to me now

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2024 17:57


    a deep dive on one of the most iconic songs by Celine Dion, and wow! You're gonna want to hear this. 

    Hi it's been a minute

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2024 27:21


    i'm right here- teaser

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2024 11:07


    a little teaser into a new segment we are super excited to get going! 

    Gift Guides

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2023 58:08


    Christmas is coming so we thought we'd share some ideas of gifts for your loved ones! Below we will link everything so you can easily find these products! Ideas for someone who has lost someone this year:Personalized jewelryWillow Tree Statues 1Willow Tree Statues 2BlanketSweaterOther Gift Ideas:Recovery System- Leg Compression/massageBotox, Fillers, Facials, Micro-needling EtcMarkie goes to PR Asthetics in draper UT. Use code EVERLYJO for 15% any purchase of products or services. Black LeggingsManscaped lawnmowerFenty Lip StainSolo Stove3d PrinterBathroom Bag OrganizerTraeger Mett Naturals Code: meeteverlyjo Ninja CreamiJust Ingredients CODE: EverlyJoOwala Water BottleCologne: Light blueWink Cliques CODE: EVERLYJO

    Everly's Birthday

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2023 29:19


    This week we are talking about Everly's birthday and what we do to celebrate/honor her on her birthday every year! We will also talk a little bit about Markie's health and what she's been going through the last little bit. 

    Interview with Surrogate

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2023 41:53


    One of our most requested episodes is here! Interview with the surrogate we used and who has become one of our very good friends. We have both been through so much through this whole process and we're excited for you to hear it all! Please let us know what other interviews/episodes you'd like to see! And of course, follow along on instagram! @happyeverlyafterpodcast

    Question Game

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Nov 10, 2023 54:13


    In today's episode, we are playing a questions from a book called The Little Book of Hygee. Follow along on Instagram:@happyeverlyafterpodcast

    Guess Who- Celebrity CHD Version

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2023 48:27


    November is a very special and important month for us because it's Everly's birthday! This year we wanted to have you guys all help design a t-shirt in honor of her (listen to find out more details) and also spend some time talking about her and CHD. So today we will be talking about some celebrities who have CHD. Andrew will be giving hints and Markie will try to guess!

    Spooky Stories

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2023 41:37


    In honor of Halloween (Markie's favorite holiday) we recorded a special episode of spooky stories! These were sent in from you guys and we loved all the responses we got! So thank you to anyone who sent one in!Markie has an extra spooky story that you're going to want to hear, which is over on Patreon so go check that out! https://patreon.com/TheHappyEverlyAfterPodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_linkHappy Halloween!!

    Our Take: Most Popular Marriage Advice

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2023 40:29


    If you're married you probably know that as soon as you're engaged people like to share their marriage advice with you. Well today's episode we talk all about our take on the most popular marriage advice.Follow along: Instagram: @the.happyeverlyafter.podcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085771852965

    Our Take: Controversial Parenting Topics

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2023 40:23


    Being a parent is hard. And everyone does it differently, so today we are going to talk about our take on the different way people parent and how we have found the most success parenting our kids.This episode is sponsored by Wink Cliques, the best lashes ever. Use code EVERLYJO at checkout for a discount. 

    Welcome Back

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2023 27:49


    WE'RE BACK!!! Season 2 baby!! We had a great summer and can't wait to tell you all about our adventures! 

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 21- Concluding Season 1

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2023 13:33


    The next few weeks are super busy for us so today we conclude season 1, but don't worry, WE WILL BE BACK for season 2! 

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 20- Conspiracy Theories

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2023 53:44


    In today's episode we talk about a bunch of different conspiracy theories and what we think really happened! 

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 19- Dad Jokes

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2023 29:38


    Did you know that laughter strengthens your immune system, boosts mood, diminishes pain, and protects you from the damaging effects of stress? Well now you know, so take a listen to today's episode and have some of the best medicine around. Follow along on Instagram: @happyeverlyafterpodcast

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 18- Homeschooling

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2023 16:43


    Last week we talked about some big changes that have been going on in our family. One of those was moving across the country which then lead me to another big decision, homeschooling Urban. So today you get just me and I go over how I made the choice to start homeschooling Urban. 

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 17- Life Update

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Apr 14, 2023 11:09


    We have had a crazy few weeks, so we thought is would give you all a little life update on what we're doing right now and our plans for the summer!

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 16- Roger

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2023 36:37


    A few years ago we had to re-home our dog named Roger and it was so hard on us. Today we talk all about what lead up to us re-homing him and why we felt like we should do that. 

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 15- Early Intervention for Urban

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2023 34:00


    In today's episode we talk about our oldest son, Urban. From a very young age we saw some concerning things about his behavior and milestones that he wasn't hitting. In this episode, we talk about what we noticed, and what help we received to help him progress like he should.

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 14- Gastric Sleeve Q&A

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Mar 24, 2023 50:16


    In this episode, Markie goes over some questions about her gastric sleeve surgery. She talks about how she decided to do the surgery,  how it's been since, and how her everyday eating has changed. 

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 13- Q&A + Giveaway Info

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2023 42:59


    We have a lot of new people here listening to our podcast so we thought it would be helpful to do a little Q&A. Plus we are letting you all know about an easy way to get $200 or a stanley cup- just go enter our giveaway!! 

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 12- Popular and Unpopular Music Opinions

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2023 41:33


    Join us today to hear all of our opinions on different artist and bands. We talk about Michael Jackson, Post Malone, Dan and Shay and so many more! Take a listen and let us know what your music opinions are! 

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 11- Grieving after Everly

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2023 42:14


    Today we talk all about grief.  Grief is something that is so different for so many people, and can be really hard to talk about. We hope that hearing about our experience and what we did to help will also help you. 

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 10- Pet Peeves

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2023 63:59


    What is your BIGGEST pet peeve?? In this episode we talk all about pet peeves. From our pet peeves to submissions we got from all of you. There are some really good ones, so this is definitely an episode you don't want to miss out on. 

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 9- Interview with our 6 year old son

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2023 15:17


    Today we have a very special guest here to be our very first guest on our podcast! Our son URBAN! He is hilarious and we are so excited for you to get a taste into our life everyday!Follow along on Instagram @happyeverlyafterpodcast

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 8- Our Health Journeys

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2023 50:37


    Today we will be discussing our health journeys with all of you. Both of us have very different health journeys and get asked lots of questions about them so here's a little taste into our journeys. 

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 7- The BEST Wedding Night Confessions

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2023 31:06


    Okay we went to YOU guys, our listeners on Instagram and asked what kind of confessions you guys wanted and this is what you picked.. Haha hope you all enjoy!

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 6- Diagnosis Day

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2023 42:31


    This episode is heavy. We dig into one of the hardest days of our life so far, diagnosis day. 

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 5- Summer Sales

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2023 39:51


    Learn all about what Drew does, and how it has become such a big part of our life!

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 4- Where We See Ourselves in 10 Years + 2023 Goals

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2023 31:03


    With the new year just starting, we wanted to talk about our goals for this year, and also talk about our 10 year plan to make sure what we're doing this year will help us achieve what we ultimately want. 

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 3- Expanding Our Family- Our Surrogacy Journey

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2023 34:48


    In this podcast we talk all about our surrogacy journey and how we are trying to grow our family. 

    Happy Everly After Podcast: Ep. 2- Intro to our life and kids

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2023 21:23


    We strongly believe that every parent was made to parent THEIR children in THEIR way. In this episode of Happy Everly After, learn about our kids and our parenting styles.

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